Yes, please make a video on articulating your thoughts and communication! This is one of my biggest challenge, specially because I have to communicate in a language that it’s not my first language. I read books and articles but still find it difficult and shy away from talking to people. I feel that people perceive me as awkard and unintelligent due to my poor communication skills.
Oh, this is the ultimate glow-up tutorial/guide video. You've managed to touch on the important WHYs, not just the what's and hows. Thank you for being so inspiring! x
YESS !! definitely need a video on communication and articulation..this has been one of greatest challenge as it becomes difficult for me to think and speak at the same time :(
I have reinvented myself many times in my life. Sometime it was forced due to necessary growth and sometimes it was a choice. I "expect" to change many more times. I love hearing how other people approach change. It's inspiring so keep up these videos. I do agree with being careful who your friends/associates are. I also believe you need to question what you were taught to believe about yourself. But the main thing is to enjoy the journey. Remember that life happens. So just keep calm and carry on.
Thank you for taking the time to bring us this video❤ I just wanted to add in regards to the hair washing--people say not to wash your hair every day because you will strip it of natural oil, but I’ve learned that’s not entirely true! Not washing your hair daily call buildup of oils in the follicles and can actually cause dermatitis eczema and other skin and scalp issues x
First, I love your content, and I’m 45. Young ladies, pay attention now and do yourself a favor so you’re not “reinventing” yourself (read: finding your TRUE self) in middle age. Secondly, Vickita you are my Indian Rory Gilmore 😂 idk if you’ve heard this before but I can’t unsee it now! Thank you for all your hard work, you’re doing a great service to women with this channel.
You made a great comment about nail shape. People don’t get that some shapes don’t suit certain finger shapes, and you have to take that into consideration when picking a style.
That’s crazy, I did the same! I would read words in the dictionary to expand my vocab as a kid. Even when I was writing creative stories I would find a word in the dictionary to replace the common words
It was so hard letting go of the people as part of my glow up. As a queer woman, I’d want to be around other queer people whose politics matched mine, but it really didn’t serve me. They were not going the places in life that I wanted to go, and being around them held me back. Your last video said to pick just three goals for the last 90 days of 2024, and this one reminds us that each season is going to look different as we have different focuses in different seasons. It’s a great reminder for when we want to do everything, but we need to focus so we actually accomplish something.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
12:13 you talk about finding your celebrity look-alike ✨ I love this concept but a part of the current chapter I’m closing has included 0 social media use to cleanse my mind (except for RUclips bc I got my FYP down pat to my goals and good vibes only). How would you recommend finding your look alike when you don’t typically keep up with celebrities and wouldn’t know how to search for that? If you have a video for this please drop the link! I love your videos but miss a few ever so often so I would love to hear you talk more about this!
there's a book called Hidden Manifestation by Oliver Mercer, and it talks about how using some secret techniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Hi Vickita, I'm kinda new here, but I really appreciate how you created playlists for people like me. Can you please update them so that I can watch them all systematically? Thank you❤
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
YESSSSS BITCH I LOVE incoming-new-year VIDS. NO MORE WASTING TIME PROCRASTINATING AND SITTING AROUND AND MAKING EXCUSES 😭😭😭‼️‼️💖💖❤️❤️ following suit asaapppp
For posture… I have many years of dance experience and the only one thing to think about is this: Imagine a string coming from the top of your head pulling you up towards the sky. Posture improves immediately. Promise.
I’ve read a lot of books, but Kyra James' Goddess Method is on another level. It's not like other conventional looksmaxing guides with boring glow up tricks that everyone knows; it's literally the beauty bible. You won’t believe what you’re missing out on until you read it.
May God Bless You Vickita and Everytime you posts a new video it's put a huge smile on my face💖💫😀 you are my truly inspiration and I will always be your biggest supportive
Hiii Vickita!! so I would like to ask you for advice. I have this friend, who is a part of our friendgroup , and also my classmate (its our last year together). And Ive noticed that she triggers me with her certain actions... and also in general at times does not behave very politely towards me or our other friend. I see the roots of my triggers, but still, other things that she does hurt me... Many people advice it to just cut person like that out of your life... but her being my classmate does not make it that easy. Exams are something that i should focus on, and dealing with potential break up i think would make it even harder. Its probably important to mention, that there are not only bad vibes between us, many happy moments are present. But what bothers me the most is the fact that when she hurts me, she doenst even like give it a second thought... even our friend notice it, because this kind of behavieour is often used towards them too. If someone else is reading this, i would be happy to hear your opinion too!!!! sending love
My favorite moisturizer is a CVS brand I can only get online now that’s an overnight light mask, and getting monthly facials at an esthetician’s office until my breakouts left. Dermatologist left my back scarred for years from BLEACH cream for mild back acne. I don’t recommend them. Also the better quality the hair care the less cheap it will cost (cough cough hair Cuttery cough)
i tried doing my brows different the other day because I watched a makeup video and they suggested this as a tip...hated my face the whole day! omg. Also I was just yesterday trying to find my body twin so I can lean into perfecting my personal style. Gave up in frustration because I couldn't find anyone
❤ I created dark feminine powerful pop songs affirmations but shared here for free on youtube for everyone because they are so good instantly uplifts anybody's mood I just wanted to shared with all ladies out there
As someone who finally left literally yesterday after 3 years. It takes time. I tried leaving 10+ times (yall can laugh idc). For some longer than others. Just accept that is not love but codependency. You’re just used to it and attached emotionally but that’s not love. You need time away and detox your entire body in EVERY SINGLE aspect. I highly encourage you slowly start taking steps back if you can’t leave right away. Prioritize yourself. Good luck ❤
Greed and looks maxing. Strut. My rebrand era. Follow to squeeze the juice for fashion vibes. Quiet. Don’t tell anyone. Be stoic. They’ll get jealous. It’s the election
I really disagree with not saving. you need to save to understand priority and sacrifice. Throwing away money to coffee and subscriptions can really add up and take away from investing + the amazing nature of compound interest. Let's say you indulge $2000 a year in Starbucks, random lunches, dinners, drinks etc. That's $22,000 in 20 years with 15% compound interest lost. Now add up that $2000 in various years that you saved and invested. It's not a joke so please don't mess around when talking about stupid and unnecessary expenses. So if you start young, yes you can retire earlier and it does make a difference!!!!
Although be careful with the celebrity look alike. I get told I look like Anne Hathaway all the time and she's a winter and I'm an autumn since our coloring is slightly different.
The only way to become a 10/10 is to read and apply Kyra James's Goddess Method. You are not even aware of what you're missing if you haven't read that book.
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
I now know how to use quadrant in a sentence, thank you all 😂❤
were you a stem girlie viki di?
Time Stamps
Hotter💅- 3:07
Richer💰- 14:30
Smarter😌 - 19:31
New Rules🍾 - 26:09
Way to goo girlssss!! Hope this helps❤
Yes, please make a video on articulating your thoughts and communication!
This is one of my biggest challenge, specially because I have to communicate in a language that it’s not my first language.
I read books and articles but still find it difficult and shy away from talking to people. I feel that people perceive me as awkard and unintelligent due to my poor communication skills.
Oh, this is the ultimate glow-up tutorial/guide video. You've managed to touch on the important WHYs, not just the what's and hows. Thank you for being so inspiring! x
YESS !! definitely need a video on communication and articulation..this has been one of greatest challenge as it becomes difficult for me to think and speak at the same time :(
I have reinvented myself many times in my life. Sometime it was forced due to necessary growth and sometimes it was a choice. I "expect" to change many more times. I love hearing how other people approach change. It's inspiring so keep up these videos. I do agree with being careful who your friends/associates are. I also believe you need to question what you were taught to believe about yourself. But the main thing is to enjoy the journey. Remember that life happens. So just keep calm and carry on.
Thank you for taking the time to bring us this video❤ I just wanted to add in regards to the hair washing--people say not to wash your hair every day because you will strip it of natural oil, but I’ve learned that’s not entirely true! Not washing your hair daily call buildup of oils in the follicles and can actually cause dermatitis eczema and other skin and scalp issues x
100% YES for the video about articulating our thoughs 🙏
First, I love your content, and I’m 45. Young ladies, pay attention now and do yourself a favor so you’re not “reinventing” yourself (read: finding your TRUE self) in middle age. Secondly, Vickita you are my Indian Rory Gilmore 😂 idk if you’ve heard this before but I can’t unsee it now! Thank you for all your hard work, you’re doing a great service to women with this channel.
What’s the author of the book?
Thanks
@@DreamingOfDirt this actually made my life 😂❤️ Indian Rory Gilmore - best thing ever. Thank you for such sweet words and support.
@@chocomilkymilkywayit's not a book it's a phrase in English that means "in other words" or "i.e."
I totally agree, I’m 39 & wish I had this information when I was in my 20s. ❤
This is one of my favorite videos you’ve made! Thank you for the thoughtful and free content. We appreciate you!
looking forward to the hygiene video!! also I would love a video on articulating your thoughts since that’s something I do struggle with
Yes - ever since 2020, I just put off washing my hair as long as possible and it’s just wrong lol
HRS season Hotter Richer Smarter. I am doing less concerning skin care and my skin is doing better and glowing.!!
I’m watching this while taking an evening autumn walk 🍂. Good vibes ❤
I'm 18 years old girl in my second year of the college and I'm grateful that i found you early ❤
Love this! Yes please video on articulating yourself ❤
Needing a side hustle as I take care of my first baby as a full time Mom. ❤️ This is inspiring.
Ok good. Understood. 👍🏻
11:26 yay! I’m excited for it!
Yes, please make a video on how to think and talk at the same speed
You made a great comment about nail shape. People don’t get that some shapes don’t suit certain finger shapes, and you have to take that into consideration when picking a style.
That’s crazy, I did the same! I would read words in the dictionary to expand my vocab as a kid. Even when I was writing creative stories I would find a word in the dictionary to replace the common words
Yes! Please record a video on developing thinking & speaking skills
It was so hard letting go of the people as part of my glow up. As a queer woman, I’d want to be around other queer people whose politics matched mine, but it really didn’t serve me. They were not going the places in life that I wanted to go, and being around them held me back.
Your last video said to pick just three goals for the last 90 days of 2024, and this one reminds us that each season is going to look different as we have different focuses in different seasons. It’s a great reminder for when we want to do everything, but we need to focus so we actually accomplish something.
oh i relate. it feels lonely, i’m with you mentally 🫶
this format really suits me
I am amazed by how this video is so constructive, easy to follow most importantly just giving the right advice without watery information. 🎉🎉🎉
Time stamps
3:07 Hotter
14:30 Richer
19:31 smarter
20:09 new rules
thank u.
This video was so good! Really really good. All i wanted to do. ❤ thank you ❤
Hotter - 3:07, richer - 14:30, smarter- 19:31, new rules - 26:09
Solid video, Vikita.
You’re so beautiful! This video was so motivational!! Thank u
Speaking of books - joining or starting a book club is a fun way to boost your reading and socialize with other like minded women! 😊❤
Omg, i read the dictionary when i was 18! You must have some Virgo in your chart like me!
I studied and read the dictionary when I was 18. I'm a Taurus.
lol I tried to read the dictionary when I was younger and I’m a Capricorn 😅
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I’m so ready 🤎🤎🤎🤎
12:13 you talk about finding your celebrity look-alike ✨ I love this concept but a part of the current chapter I’m closing has included 0 social media use to cleanse my mind (except for RUclips bc I got my FYP down pat to my goals and good vibes only). How would you recommend finding your look alike when you don’t typically keep up with celebrities and wouldn’t know how to search for that? If you have a video for this please drop the link! I love your videos but miss a few ever so often so I would love to hear you talk more about this!
Yesss!! So glad I’ve found your channel ! Shout out to hailey gamba!!!
Yay! Thank you! ❤
Love her ❤
Hotter richer smarter. Amen yes❤❤❤
Your videos are so helpful and very inspiring, thank you! Love your lip color, please share❤️
The only thing I am committed to is getting hotter, richer and smarter❤❤
The basic maintenance talk is real. Shaving, hair washing, etc gets old and it’s too easy to let it slip.
i think you had around 40K subs when i first started to watch your video 👀💪🏻
Articulating your thoughts…Yes…PLEASE!!!
I would love a full video on verbal articulation! 23:13
there's a book called Hidden Manifestation by Oliver Mercer, and it talks about how using some secret techniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Where can I read it for free ?
Hi Vickita, I'm kinda new here, but I really appreciate how you created playlists for people like me. Can you please update them so that I can watch them all systematically? Thank you❤
Thank you so much, needed this 💖💖💖
8:29 not to mention that your bite can affect your neck and shoulders
You’re the best girl ❤❤
Love this video so much! Thank you Vickita ❤next level 🏃♀️
Thank you for sharing
Thank You ❤
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
I’m trying to get a new job for the first step and pass my college semester.
Yes for hhe video on voice and rythm , i find this so important❤thank for your video❤❤
You're welcome 😊
YESSSSS BITCH I LOVE incoming-new-year VIDS. NO MORE WASTING TIME PROCRASTINATING AND SITTING AROUND AND MAKING EXCUSES 😭😭😭‼️‼️💖💖❤️❤️ following suit asaapppp
For posture… I have many years of dance experience and the only one thing to think about is this:
Imagine a string coming from the top of your head pulling you up towards the sky. Posture improves immediately. Promise.
Just finished a very introspective, kinda isolating, peeling layers of trauma season. I’m all in now, needed this! Thank you Vickita❤
I’ve read a lot of books, but Kyra James' Goddess Method is on another level. It's not like other conventional looksmaxing guides with boring glow up tricks that everyone knows; it's literally the beauty bible. You won’t believe what you’re missing out on until you read it.
Where can I find this?
May God Bless You Vickita and Everytime you posts a new video it's put a huge smile on my face💖💫😀 you are my truly inspiration and I will always be your biggest supportive
Wow, thank you!
Hiii Vickita!! so I would like to ask you for advice. I have this friend, who is a part of our friendgroup , and also my classmate (its our last year together). And Ive noticed that she triggers me with her certain actions... and also in general at times does not behave very politely towards me or our other friend. I see the roots of my triggers, but still, other things that she does hurt me... Many people advice it to just cut person like that out of your life... but her being my classmate does not make it that easy. Exams are something that i should focus on, and dealing with potential break up i think would make it even harder. Its probably important to mention, that there are not only bad vibes between us, many happy moments are present. But what bothers me the most is the fact that when she hurts me, she doenst even like give it a second thought... even our friend notice it, because this kind of behavieour is often used towards them too.
If someone else is reading this, i would be happy to hear your opinion too!!!! sending love
My favorite moisturizer is a CVS brand I can only get online now that’s an overnight light mask, and getting monthly facials at an esthetician’s office until my breakouts left. Dermatologist left my back scarred for years from BLEACH cream for mild back acne. I don’t recommend them. Also the better quality the hair care the less cheap it will cost (cough cough hair Cuttery cough)
love this
Can you do a video on “money dates”?
waiting on the hygiene video! love your content Vickita ❤️
I love you ! Simple.
i tried doing my brows different the other day because I watched a makeup video and they suggested this as a tip...hated my face the whole day! omg. Also I was just yesterday trying to find my body twin so I can lean into perfecting my personal style. Gave up in frustration because I couldn't find anyone
When you read the Goddess Method by Kyra James you will understand why it is so rare for a woman to be extremely attractive.
Transformation and isolation
❤
I created dark feminine powerful pop songs affirmations but shared here for free on youtube for everyone because they are so good instantly uplifts anybody's mood I just wanted to shared with all ladies out there
Can you please make a video on how to deal with toxic men
you don't, you run away
Yes you don't deal , you run away honey, you take care of your energy ❤
Walk away. Choose YOU. You are welcome. 😁
As someone who finally left literally yesterday after 3 years. It takes time. I tried leaving 10+ times (yall can laugh idc). For some longer than others. Just accept that is not love but codependency. You’re just used to it and attached emotionally but that’s not love. You need time away and detox your entire body in EVERY SINGLE aspect. I highly encourage you slowly start taking steps back if you can’t leave right away. Prioritize yourself. Good luck ❤
Don’t ignore the red flags like I used to. That’s how you stay away from toxic men 😂😂😂
Greed and looks maxing. Strut. My rebrand era. Follow to squeeze the juice for fashion vibes. Quiet. Don’t tell anyone. Be stoic. They’ll get jealous. It’s the election
Quadrant = four parts lol. Not three babe.
👮♀️
Babe, she meant the 4th quadrant of the year - the last 3 months of 12 the months year.
@@MarwaHaneefa thank you. 😩🙏🏼
@@MarwaHaneefa “into three quadrants… hotter, richer, smarter”.
Lol she says it right at 2:53 🤦🏻♀️
What investment education resources do you recommend? Thank you, love your message and wisdom
Excellent.
Will you help me find my celebrity look alikes ???
im an ingenue!
I really disagree with not saving. you need to save to understand priority and sacrifice. Throwing away money to coffee and subscriptions can really add up and take away from investing + the amazing nature of compound interest. Let's say you indulge $2000 a year in Starbucks, random lunches, dinners, drinks etc. That's $22,000 in 20 years with 15% compound interest lost. Now add up that $2000 in various years that you saved and invested. It's not a joke so please don't mess around when talking about stupid and unnecessary expenses. So if you start young, yes you can retire earlier and it does make a difference!!!!
What if I do not have a look alike?
Although be careful with the celebrity look alike. I get told I look like Anne Hathaway all the time and she's a winter and I'm an autumn since our coloring is slightly different.
The only way to become a 10/10 is to read and apply Kyra James's Goddess Method. You are not even aware of what you're missing if you haven't read that book.
Where can I find this?
Have you heard of Maggie Sellars?? I think you’d like her and her content a lot!
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
Thank you for sharing . Really informative.thank you . 🇬🇧💛🤍
best!!!
I don't have a celebrity lookalike 😭😭
If there are six, they are not quadrants...
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@@VickitaTrivedi 😂
I had to tell her too lol. She’s saying we need to be smart and doesn’t know what quad means 😂
Lmaoo
Hotter, Richer, Smarter 🎉🎉🥳👍 👍 lol
❤❤❤
I feel sorry for any girl who hasn't read Goddess Method by Kyra James.
Bailey Views
Thank you ❤❤ love your content!
Thank you!!!
She doesn't boycott this advice isn't for me
Everyone on RUclips just recycles content and copies each other it’s getting old smh
Repetitive....only so many times you can repeat this....i think you need new topics
I can see you’re not aware, but every RUclips channel has its theme and topic. Hers is about bettering oneself. Try it.
I agree
Maybe repetition is the point! From there, you integrate new challenges/insights. As a result, your efforts compound in time.
I think you need to move on.
Months ago She literally made a video called the last glow up plan you’ll ever need yet is still making glow
Up plan videos
Vickita / sha
Come talk to me
Please
What you scared of
sad
this video really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in 'Magnetic Aura' from Borlest
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