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  • Опубликовано: 23 май 2024
  • Kenya is a traditionally patriarchal land. With one exception: Right in the heart of the country lies the village of Umoja. Here, women are in charge.
    Men have no access to Umoja. The village, which is located in Samburu County, is an oasis for women. Umoja means "connectedness" in Swahili; most of the 50 or so women living here are experiencing this feeling for the first time in their lives. They founded their village because they were abused by men. They fled from forced marriage or genital mutilation. They no longer wanted to accept that being a woman among the Samburu means having no choice.
    Because here, the man rules over the family. He owns the land, he eats first, he is allowed to marry several women and beat them. Rebecca Lolosoli was fed up with all this. She founded Umoja in 1990 with Jane Leng'ope. At the time, the two did not know whether they would survive on their own. Today, the village is a functioning cooperative. The women's pride and joy is the Umoja school. Their greatest hope is the next generation: the children learn about their rights and that respect and solidarity are the most valuable social assets. Every year, Umoja also enables a handful of girls from outside the village to attend school. It's a barter deal: the child receives free lessons and food. In return, the father undertakes not to marry his daughter off early or to circumcise her. Both are officially forbidden in Kenya but are still practiced among the Samburu. Six-year-old Samella is to get the last spot in the school. But will her father agree to the conditions?
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  • @nailadee
    @nailadee 9 дней назад +342

    The young boys raised in this village will go on to change how men treat women because they see and will learn to respect the woman in their life.

    • @kayleechilders1537
      @kayleechilders1537 4 дня назад +13

      How long are the boy children allowed to stay. If there are no men allowed, how old is a boy child before he's considered a man?

    • @LegendoftheGalacticHero
      @LegendoftheGalacticHero 4 дня назад +13

      @@kayleechilders1537there might be a difference between outsiders and people raised by them

    • @dee4174
      @dee4174 4 дня назад +4

      They just said "come of age", I wonder how old yhat is too.

    • @TheLisa-Al-Gaib
      @TheLisa-Al-Gaib 3 дня назад +8

      I bet that the boys who come out of this village would be greatly desired as potential husbands!

    • @wigsbys
      @wigsbys 3 дня назад

      18 years old ​@@kayleechilders1537

  • @Itgyrl909
    @Itgyrl909 25 дней назад +1266

    It’s a sad reality when women have to separate themselves from men in order to protect themselves and their children.

    • @mikecom
      @mikecom 22 дня назад +21

      Very sad

    • @bugazi3037
      @bugazi3037 20 дней назад +19

      Blame Christianity ✝️ and alcohol

    • @TheMETHODOLOGY
      @TheMETHODOLOGY 18 дней назад

      Idk how the next generation is possible without men and what if they get male children's,would they expel male child's out of their village ???..

    • @jonigeetobe
      @jonigeetobe 17 дней назад +164

      @@bugazi3037how about we just blame men.

    • @sarkie3927
      @sarkie3927 16 дней назад +95

      @@bugazi3037always blaming others for things men are guilty of instead of taking responsibility

  • @TakenTook
    @TakenTook 10 дней назад +130

    Women have recognized how dangerous men can be long before the "4B" movement became popular. People ask why I still haven't remarried over a decade since my divorce, and it's because I don't feel the need to tie myself legally and financially to a man ever again. A boyfriend who becomes abusive is much easier to escape than a husband who becomes abusive.

    • @hetedeleambacht6608
      @hetedeleambacht6608 5 дней назад +16

      right so. Reason enough for my part to get rid of all the marriage business. You find a partner for life? Splendid. You dont? No harm done either.

    • @nosiphohlatswayo7213
      @nosiphohlatswayo7213 2 дня назад +2

      Never Again!

    • @motalejustin4792
      @motalejustin4792 5 часов назад

      men are not dangerous don't forget that there are some domestic violence perptrated by women on men. there are some cultural practices that make some men think that a wive is a property that you can own. practices like paying of bridge price is what feminists should be fighting against.

  • @alenberson1440
    @alenberson1440 24 дня назад +464

    Some men comments prove that misogyny never going to end never going to accept women sufferings.

    • @SifuFreeGamer1417
      @SifuFreeGamer1417 10 дней назад +2

      Because it's an imagine suffering.

    • @user90725
      @user90725 9 дней назад +2

      Meaning?

    • @hisstoryjesus
      @hisstoryjesus 9 дней назад +6

      Jesus is the answer. When men or women fail us, our Creator is there to lift us up, teaching us how to love not only friends but foes. Love conquers all.

    • @SifuFreeGamer1417
      @SifuFreeGamer1417 9 дней назад +21

      @@hisstoryjesus that's the problem people praying to Jesus.

    • @Amanita._.Verosa._.
      @Amanita._.Verosa._. 8 дней назад +21

      ​@@SifuFreeGamer1417 Yes, the menn imagine menn are suffering all the time and ignore everyone else then whine about the unaIive chart.

  • @toecutterjones
    @toecutterjones 7 дней назад +104

    "We've always done everything anyway." Exactly. These women are incredible.

    • @Trysaratop
      @Trysaratop 7 часов назад

      Right but if American woman try to take on these same values or ideas we are considered toxic masculinity.

  • @Nikotastik
    @Nikotastik 24 дня назад +492

    I hope these ladies know how much women around the world admire them!

  • @pamelaleannefreeland9025
    @pamelaleannefreeland9025 16 дней назад +519

    This is absolutely incredible! Protecting children from general mutilation and child marriage, protecting battered women, giving women property, self worth, confidence! What incredible women these are, especially the founders. I can’t imagine what they went through back then to give life to this fantastic refuge. Absolutely incredible! 💜💜💜💜💜

    • @RuthEdelstein
      @RuthEdelstein 6 дней назад +1

      Who are you to say their way of life is interior? Let them terrorize each other. It's none of our business.

    • @kingsmas8340
      @kingsmas8340 3 дня назад +5

      @@RuthEdelstein what.

  • @NikhilPodlejski
    @NikhilPodlejski 26 дней назад +947

    Umoja Village of Kenya 🇰🇪 was founded in 1990 by Rebecca Lolosoli as a sanctuary for women fleeing gender-based violence, including domestic abuse, female genital mutilation (FGM), and forced marriages. It is located in the Samburu County of northern Kenya.

    • @namastenamaste7228
      @namastenamaste7228 25 дней назад +61

      It is important to note that young girls are forced into those arranged marriages. A real tragedy 😢 💔

    • @stevenbotwin
      @stevenbotwin 25 дней назад +31

      Except it’s not “gender”, it’s sex based

    • @UbuntuNamuhla
      @UbuntuNamuhla 22 дня назад +46

      Do they take volunteers? I'd be happy to go do hard labour and help them build. Such beautiful souls. ❤

    • @mikecom
      @mikecom 22 дня назад +17

      ​@UbuntuNamuhla yes they do

    • @ForeverYoung-qz2if
      @ForeverYoung-qz2if 20 дней назад

      Great initiative. . That being said in today's times such attrocities should not even exist. The world over predominantly women are still subjected to all kinds of violence. In some cultures worse than other. TRUTH BE TOLD IF GOVERNMENTS WERE SERIOUS ABOUT THIS ISSUE IT COULD HAVE BEEN ROOTED OUT AGES AGO. DRASTIC EDUCATING THROUGH ALL AVAILABLE MEDIUMS AND THE APPLICATION OF SEVERE PUNISHMENTS AGAINST PERPETRATORS .

  • @user-nh3rf2ff6c
    @user-nh3rf2ff6c 6 дней назад +59

    My cousin, sister died in 2022. Because, she went back to an abusive marriage which eventually led to her untimely death. She passed, away leaving three little kids who are now without a mother's love and healing. She was in her mid 30's when she died. I miss her so much. I wish, she left the marriage and stayed alive for those who love her. Rest in power Victoria. I pray the Universe gives you justice.

  • @Maymuna134
    @Maymuna134 22 дня назад +404

    Children deserve to see their mothers smiling. It's sad that a lot of men don't consider how important this is.

    • @cacampbell3654
      @cacampbell3654 11 дней назад +36

      I think some men feel too threatened by happy women to be able to recognize the importance. 😞Feeling threatened blinds them to the needs of their children, their community, their wives. When you feel insecure, vulnerable, threatened, as a man, it is hard to think about anyone’s needs but your own.

    • @melsutubeification
      @melsutubeification 10 дней назад +3

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @TheAwesomes2104
      @TheAwesomes2104 9 дней назад +12

      ​@@USER06584Bthis idea always makes me think of that scene where Rick is telling the tiny robot his purpose is to serve him butter. Screw anyone who thinks they get to go around telling others what their purpose is. Some act like their purpose isn't to cause pain and misery, your purpose is what you make it. If women were solely meant to have children and raise them, there would be no infertile women, and there would be no bad mothers. Reality shows us this simply can't be true, as there are plenty of both.

    • @elenal2012
      @elenal2012 9 дней назад +13

      A lot of men forget they were born by a woman, THEIR mother.

    • @haddingtoniangcp2464
      @haddingtoniangcp2464 6 дней назад +2

      @@cacampbell3654 how could happy women comes across as threatening to men????

  • @DolphineAchonga-gn6kn
    @DolphineAchonga-gn6kn 26 дней назад +411

    I recognize the seriousness of this documentary, but allow me to complement the incredible ornaments and beads worn by the women. They look so beautiful.
    Back to the subject. I'm touched by the women's generosity in supporting and protecting each other. Their determination to educate and rescue the younger girls in the community from painful experiences like female circumscion and domestic abuse is admirable.

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 23 дня назад +13

      Love...love....the jewellery

    • @lorrilewis2178
      @lorrilewis2178 3 дня назад +4

      Can't help but notice the beautiful clothes and jewelry!

    • @ediefolta9494
      @ediefolta9494 3 дня назад +4

      It's wonderful to see women dressing and adorning themselves for themselves and not for men.❤

    • @kifi672
      @kifi672 2 дня назад

      @@ediefolta9494 it's always for themselves. Even though we say it's for men's sake ;-)

  • @heeroconnects
    @heeroconnects 11 дней назад +167

    I'm a Father of Two Daughters. I can never allow any other man to harm a women or a kid in my presence. Some men lack morality and respect towards women.
    I'm glad these Mothers are safe where they stay yet their background is heart breaking. I mean these women deserve to be loved and protected.

  • @hadassahwanjiku9106
    @hadassahwanjiku9106 22 дня назад +136

    Im Kenyan and i find This very inspiring especially in a time where women are standing up for what they trully believe in and finally having a voice of their own. Whoever said women cannot stay in peace among each other was very wrong and should see a real depiction of women coming together an uniting for a common greater good. Aint this just amazing??😍❤❤❤

    • @shannonfbc1
      @shannonfbc1 22 дня назад +14

      It really is amazing. These women are just incredible

    • @fugithegreat
      @fugithegreat День назад +1

      What they have built is just wonderful! Their stories are equal parts heartbreaking and inspiring, and I hope that their example will be a force for change.

  • @shannonfbc1
    @shannonfbc1 22 дня назад +208

    We need communities like this to exist everywhere such a brilliant idea

    • @USER06584B
      @USER06584B 22 дня назад +11

      they do, they are those sheltered beds for victims of domestic abuse. but these are temporary solutions. we need more choice and protections and checks against abuse. and we need solutions that get to the core of the problem, shelters are emergency solutions, they arent built to satisfy all the needs and aspirations of people.

    • @broomrider4699
      @broomrider4699 10 дней назад +9

      These sorts of communities shouldn’t have to exist. But you are right, unfortunately there is a need.

    • @magsbayou
      @magsbayou 10 дней назад +11

      There are a group of older women who purchased a house and renovated to support communal living for when they become a widow or divorced. It seems there are pockets of these ideas creeping out and the 4B movement just took it another level of basically choosing to be single and celibate.

    • @jenk4545
      @jenk4545 9 дней назад

      ​@@USER06584BNo, not just temporary emergency shelters. We need communities of women living together everywhere.

    • @DeeDeex007o
      @DeeDeex007o 3 дня назад +2

      AMEN!

  • @michellelongoria3929
    @michellelongoria3929 22 дня назад +218

    I think it’s also wonderful that the boys being raised in this community of women will grow up learning to respect them..and no longer be raised to treat them as property❤️
    Made me giggle when the women threw shade at the men constantly sitting in the shade while they did all the work..lol..they have truly earned their independence ☺️

    • @kifi672
      @kifi672 2 дня назад +11

      and that's true. I've work several weeks in this area, the men were sitting under a tree drinking banana liquor while the women did all the work with a kid on their back. A male student in economy told me if the men in his country would all work as much as the women, his country would be the richest in Africa instead of being amongst the poorest. So yeah, the women loose nothing by moving out. The men are the ones who have everything to loose.

    • @goodpeopleprosper635
      @goodpeopleprosper635 18 часов назад

      ​@kifi672 right that's y they are so against it

    • @misteral9045
      @misteral9045 5 часов назад

      I giggled too. It is inevitable that the worker throws shade at those watching from the shade. If only they would sit in the sun and share the heat, the work would be much more bearable.

  • @mandyharrison3799
    @mandyharrison3799 16 дней назад +131

    Noone should suffer physical or sexual abuse. What amazing strong courageous women. I admire their spirit. I hope they prosper and continue to be safe in their community. Never underestimate women. We are warriors!❤❤❤

    • @misteral9045
      @misteral9045 4 часа назад +1

      Yeah unfortunately I relate to the circumcision part. A piece of me is gone, and while it's a somewhat unimportant piece, it's more the fact that I was just an object to be modified, did it to me as a baby so I couldn't say no or even get to understand what I lost before it was taken.

  • @smeastwest
    @smeastwest 10 дней назад +115

    I live with my mother after many years of living with men who have big needs. I have never had such a peaceful life before. We always talk about how lucky we feel. I love that these women are finding freedom to be themselves and to support each other.

  • @teresafincher3413
    @teresafincher3413 16 дней назад +94

    I'm glad these ladies have this place. They are teaching their children it's not okay to abuse others.

  • @donahunt832
    @donahunt832 14 дней назад +101

    what is WRONG with men??? this is a WORLDWIDE problem!! ☹️

    • @preparetomeetsatan
      @preparetomeetsatan 11 дней назад +32

      😔yeah I’m halfway across the world and it’s just as bad in the U.S and latin America

    • @Amanita._.Verosa._.
      @Amanita._.Verosa._. 8 дней назад +25

      Zero accountabiIity.

    • @user-bs7wv2hn6q
      @user-bs7wv2hn6q 7 дней назад +20

      Men, narcissists?99 percent

    • @lorrilewis2178
      @lorrilewis2178 3 дня назад +3

      I've been asking this question for years.

    • @carolharris2401
      @carolharris2401 3 дня назад +6

      Dont forget, some of them dont just want to control their wives they also want to control all women

  • @mashobane6177
    @mashobane6177 26 дней назад +349

    Women abuse is at the highest level in Africa. I am happy for these Kenyan women, they are safe and peaceful.Thousands are raped, killed in different parts of the continent with no help. 😢

    • @antoniobabb1938
      @antoniobabb1938 25 дней назад +11

      Sad but true I hope they feel okay

    • @haddingtoniangcp2464
      @haddingtoniangcp2464 24 дня назад +12

      Great! This is where you call on feminists in the West to come fight for a cause since there's nothing in the West to fight for. This is a cause to fight for. Sister solidarity!

    • @ruthperez2159
      @ruthperez2159 24 дня назад +4

      Hart breaking 💔

    • @michaelheery6303
      @michaelheery6303 23 дня назад

      ​@@haddingtoniangcp2464 FMG AFRICANS WOMEN WE HEARD.

    • @user-nv1wi3wl1w
      @user-nv1wi3wl1w 21 день назад +17

      So happy for these women they created a safe place for them to live in peace from abuse from men.God please bless,guide and watch over them🙏

  • @psychedelicbaby5503
    @psychedelicbaby5503 15 дней назад +124

    I felt so happy watching theses womans stand up for themselves and contribute to their communities, and as a future teacher my heart was full of joy when the little girl went to school. I realize I can literally change someone's life as an educator.

  • @TheLovelyTraveler
    @TheLovelyTraveler 13 дней назад +53

    I wish DW would post donation links for such stories. I would love to support theses courageous and kind women.

    • @nadinetchaho2618
      @nadinetchaho2618 4 дня назад +2

      My Sister dies of domestic abuse. The word “domestic abuse was not in our vocabulary. We normalised abuse. And others said in my village that we have to accept our condition because Men are born to kill. A woman say they are just like that. So deal with it: meaning die😢
      I said I don’t want to be killed. And left the village. And see that the other part of the world has evolved in protecting women right of choosing life instead of death 💀

  • @amysnews6808
    @amysnews6808 26 дней назад +337

    So, it's like a huge domestic violence shelter turned into a village. That's nice. The women are able to continue their lives without fear and with the support of a community. It'd be nice if they did something similar in Western countries, where instead of just a small shelter they turned say an entire apartment complex into a DV community. A place where women could get free or discounted apartments until they're able to get on their feet and find a safe place to live, where they could have security and community. Great idea!

    • @bmorg5190
      @bmorg5190 26 дней назад +4

      Are the females going to stop the men? I think not 😂

    • @Alaskan-Armadillo
      @Alaskan-Armadillo 26 дней назад +2

      Wouldn't that fall under the umbrella of what would be offered if there were public housing?

    • @marilynmitchell2712
      @marilynmitchell2712 26 дней назад

      Girls are sold in Southeast Asia, too, by their poor families.

    • @amysnews6808
      @amysnews6808 25 дней назад +34

      @@Alaskan-Armadillo No, public housing is usually available to both sexes and men are certainly not prevented from entering. An apartment complex set up strictly for DV victims would be open to women and children in danger only, no men would be allowed on the property and there could be security to make sure those rules were enforced. It wouldn't even be open to low income women, only victims of DV.

    • @amysnews6808
      @amysnews6808 25 дней назад +24

      @@bmorg5190 Thus why I said they could have security. They could have it gated off and have armed security at the gate and entrances as well as patroling the property.

  • @bennygati324
    @bennygati324 26 дней назад +158

    THAT'S IS AN EXCELLENT IDEA FOR THE WOMEN WHO ARE CONSTANTLY ABUSED.WISHING MUCH SUCCESS TO THIS PROTECTIVE VILLAGE. 🎉

    • @khaedundou2942
      @khaedundou2942 26 дней назад +3

      Think a little bit harder. You need to stop abuse. Not seclusion

    • @ErezElene
      @ErezElene 26 дней назад +24

      ​@@khaedundou2942Unfortunately, it's impossible to end abuse, especially in 3rd world countries.

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    • @Sue_Anthony
      @Sue_Anthony 25 дней назад +5

      @@khaedundou2942 Thats why there is the education program so those who attend school know their rights

    • @teresafincher3413
      @teresafincher3413 16 дней назад +9

      ​@@DWDocumentarythank you. I wish I could help all women in this situation. Domestic violence is a very real problem. It's a lot worse in other countries. India also practices genital mutilation.

  • @Ro.Mother-of-Pearl
    @Ro.Mother-of-Pearl 12 дней назад +28

    I'm happy that the women's male children are allowed to stay with their moms in the village. These boys will grow up knowing the strength and value of women. The boys learn women and girls are not property but equals.

    • @nadinetchaho2618
      @nadinetchaho2618 4 дня назад +2

      This is a new reform. Absolutely wonderful. You have to break a wrong foundation to lay a good one. A new generation will arise with the right set of values. Love, kindness, compassion, patience, endurance, with all the fruits of the spirit.
      When its deadly you don’t compromise. You take drastic measure. These women have died to flesh to breadth a life of glory. This is a legacy. How wonderful to be alive and see this. It gives me real hope. Men will become good Men
      Revelation 12:11
      They triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony; they did not love their lives so much as to shrink from death.
      Glory

  • @Lodungu
    @Lodungu 26 дней назад +167

    Am from Samburu and it's my first time hearing about this Umoja village, great women indeed, Kudos.

    • @ChooseU4ever
      @ChooseU4ever 25 дней назад +14

      Im in south Africa and have known about this village for 5 years… lol.. the irony

    • @Lodungu
      @Lodungu 25 дней назад +5

      @@ChooseU4ever good for you

    • @Swale.h
      @Swale.h 24 дня назад +4

      ​@@LodunguAnd yet you know almost everything that happens in America! Also from Samburu

    • @Lodungu
      @Lodungu 14 дней назад +2

      @@Swale.h The power of media I guess.

    • @cacampbell3654
      @cacampbell3654 11 дней назад +3

      You are such a good example of how information is power! Cutting people off from information can help to keep them less powerful, helps to keep those with information more powerful.

  • @TheAnthoula14
    @TheAnthoula14 25 дней назад +111

    This was so moving. The human drive to survive and thrive is truly beautiful.

    • @pietrojenkins6901
      @pietrojenkins6901 20 дней назад

      But isn't the whole idea inherently sexist

    • @kadejamckinzie3
      @kadejamckinzie3 14 дней назад +5

      @@pietrojenkins6901How so?

    • @shatzy2688
      @shatzy2688 4 дня назад +2

      ​@@pietrojenkins6901 sexism is when a gender is stereotyped, prejudiced, abused and most importantly discriminated BECAUSE of their gender. These women have been the RECIPIENTS of sexism to the point they HAD to take such a drastic step as to segregate themselves in order to be SAFE. It is NOT about discriminating men or hating men, it is about self preservation.
      Learn to comprehend the nature of the documentary and not just pick points that serve your own interests.
      It's important to use logic, think critically and consider the whole picture to see the nuances before just making a baseless point that leads to no where.

  • @chihauhaun
    @chihauhaun 14 дней назад +41

    Wow.. this is just amazing. I hardly have words for the emotions this makes me feel. These might be some of the strongest women I've ever seen. Bless them

  • @congoknight13
    @congoknight13 25 дней назад +110

    We need cities of refuge for women worldwide. The rates of males unaliving women are increasing and so many women are genuinely afraid. I hope my sisters find safety and peace. 4B worldwide

  • @jillianmartin6335
    @jillianmartin6335 26 дней назад +100

    What an amazing group of women. How strong and caring. It is amazing what they have achieved. May god bless them all

  • @RickmolCo
    @RickmolCo 24 дня назад +70

    The little girl looked happy and excited when she got at the school.👨🏽‍🦲😻
    Those kids deserve a better life quality within their own land.

  • @christineazmi5111
    @christineazmi5111 16 дней назад +53

    I love this!!! I wish that more women around the world would take the initiative to take their power back! What courage!!! You go ladies! 👏🙋‍♀️

  • @Lordreinerwolf
    @Lordreinerwolf 21 день назад +53

    I wish there were more safe places like these around the world 🌎 to protect us ( as well as children)from violence.

  • @husseinmahamed4154
    @husseinmahamed4154 21 день назад +52

    Women are source of life they should not be abused 😭😭 but congratulation to the founder big❤❤

  • @happinesswatts
    @happinesswatts 16 дней назад +28

    America needs a village like that

    • @nygrl6102
      @nygrl6102 11 дней назад +6

      One in every state!

    • @nygrl6102
      @nygrl6102 11 дней назад +3

      One in every state!

    • @lorrilewis2178
      @lorrilewis2178 3 дня назад +2

      The problem of violent men is why we have women's shelters. However, yes, women should live together more. Imagine the peace.

    • @carolharris2401
      @carolharris2401 3 дня назад +2

      ​@@lorrilewis2178But unfortunately many women are not safe in shelters

  • @lisabalizan2145
    @lisabalizan2145 16 дней назад +31

    I love that they dress as the queens that they truly are. Beautiful 😍

  • @karmag4244
    @karmag4244 17 дней назад +34

    What an excellent documentary! I’m almost jealous that they get to live husband free! 😂 No abuse, neglect, arguments, working for nothing, being treated like property, in fear of being abandoned once children are born, etc, etc. I love this for them.❤

  • @nanetointoirr1454
    @nanetointoirr1454 19 дней назад +28

    Rebecca is an incredible woman! she is passionate and humble. She conquered a lot and we appreciate her work! She represents our community too in various leadership positions.

  • @unexpectedvixen5685
    @unexpectedvixen5685 10 дней назад +16

    I can't remember watching a documentary that made me smile so much and cry lol. I'm so proud of these incredible women! They took charge of their own life and are thriving! On top of that they all look so beautiful and colorful with that amazing bead work, they're very talented! That father agreeing to not have his daughter cut because he's heard it's bad and he doesn't want her to suffer, but to learn and thrive made me cry so bad.

  • @bjbobbijo5066
    @bjbobbijo5066 16 дней назад +26

    I dont understand their culture's obsession with mutilating a girl's private parts. There is no medical need for it, especially not for every girl. I realize that it is an islamic thing, but the unnecessary cruelty of it is so horrible.
    I am so glad that this village for the women and children exists. I wish more of those villages existed around those types of places.
    Blessings to those ladies. Im glad that they protect the females from being cut "down there".

    • @CraftyMoonshine
      @CraftyMoonshine 6 дней назад +4

      I mean a lot of western countries had the same obsession with boys. Thankfully that’s changing now

    • @thismissivemisfit
      @thismissivemisfit 2 дня назад +1

      It's not an Islamic thing either. True Islamic teachings forbid any cultural practices that are harmful to the body, mind and spirit, such as smoking, using drugs, etc. This includes FGM, unless it is an emergency medical necessity.

  • @katherinekinnaird4408
    @katherinekinnaird4408 26 дней назад +178

    Praying for this city of refuge to continue and for these women and their children to thrive.God is so good

    • @KailuaChick
      @KailuaChick 12 дней назад +8

      Not sure what religion has to do with it

    • @ThundermansThunder
      @ThundermansThunder 10 дней назад +1

      @@KailuaChick God created everything that exists, so He is relevant to everything.

    • @TheAwesomes2104
      @TheAwesomes2104 9 дней назад +2

      ​@@ThundermansThunderwhich god?

    • @ThundermansThunder
      @ThundermansThunder 9 дней назад +1

      @@TheAwesomes2104 There is only one true God, the great I AM, the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. Any others are false gods.

    • @lucyquinton276
      @lucyquinton276 6 дней назад +1

      @@ThundermansThunder😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @christ_ministries
    @christ_ministries 13 дней назад +19

    The first day of school for the little girl is so special, may God be with her. Thank God to her father, agreeing to have her be educated.

  • @danielngove
    @danielngove 17 дней назад +31

    You doing what Kenyan media cant do....until they get paid to air this... beautiful and good credits to you

  • @Sue_Anthony
    @Sue_Anthony 25 дней назад +64

    I tried to donate but donations are blocked, tried to buy beaded jewellery but all sold out. Its wonderful that these traumatised women are working to fight back against the social and cultural values that cause such violence towards girls and women, that they do this through eduction and independence is inspiring.

    • @Estherbethe1...
      @Estherbethe1... 23 дня назад +8

      I wonder if the school could receive donations?

    • @mikecom
      @mikecom 22 дня назад +4

      They do receive donations. Beaded jewellery is sold on the street. It's so available

    • @carolcare4072
      @carolcare4072 20 дней назад +3

      I want to donate too

    • @happyd1479
      @happyd1479 13 дней назад +2

      How can you donate to support these women

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 11 дней назад +9

      I reached out to the site owner about the donation link, hopefully it can be fixed soon

  • @shannonfbc1
    @shannonfbc1 22 дня назад +35

    Good father signing that contract he really does want what is best for his daughter 😊

  • @zelik654
    @zelik654 22 дня назад +29

    This is one of the most beautiful documentaries I have seen for a long time. Wow 👏🏼🥰 LOVE AND PRAYERS TO THESE WONDERFUL LADIES!!!

    • @DWDocumentary
      @DWDocumentary  22 дня назад +3

      Thanks for watching and for the feedback!

  • @Truthseeker371
    @Truthseeker371 25 дней назад +46

    At last the women liberation movement has been started by the local women concerned in Kenya. No outside instigation. These women will change the society.

  • @ibrahimhalilarslan5039
    @ibrahimhalilarslan5039 24 дня назад +27

    These women will make change the future of all women in Kenya.

    • @c0ttage
      @c0ttage 4 дня назад +1

      4b everywhere

  • @kieragreywolf546
    @kieragreywolf546 5 дней назад +10

    It was an amazing relief that not only did the father agree, but he showed real concern about the health of the girls being circumcised and wanted his daughter to get an education because he never even had the chance. I'm very hopeful for that little girl and I'm proud her father didn't cave to the pressure of the other men in the village (hoping it stays that way and he keeps to the contract). Perhaps she will be the cornerstone in changing the future for all the girls in her village and one day the women and men there can co-exist peacefully. Change can only truly start once the men of their people start really looking at themselves, their behavior, and what it does to women in their lives. Be the change, papa.

    • @modernwonder
      @modernwonder 2 дня назад +1

      agree 100% and this applies to the men of all peoples, everywhere

  • @Lebo-Aaliyah
    @Lebo-Aaliyah 19 дней назад +36

    Such Incredible Women.
    So Proud To Be An African Woman.

  • @drosera8943
    @drosera8943 25 дней назад +45

    I am happy for them from the bottom of my heart. They are so strong and inspiring.

    • @haddingtoniangcp2464
      @haddingtoniangcp2464 25 дней назад

      A tad hypocritical, though. Hate men with a passion but still go buy a goat from one 😂😂😂

    • @ladybug3380
      @ladybug3380 24 дня назад +21

      @@haddingtoniangcp2464 they have to eat. Only men can sell goats for now.

    • @JacklineKendi-tr4kx
      @JacklineKendi-tr4kx 22 дня назад +20

      @@haddingtoniangcp2464 They hate the men for the abuse they have put them through... not the goat

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 12 дней назад +9

      ​@@haddingtoniangcp2464 yall always prove exactly why we'd pick the bear.

    • @haddingtoniangcp2464
      @haddingtoniangcp2464 12 дней назад

      @@tatianadaniel3569 you picked the bear because men civilised the world enough for you to sit in a man built house, holding a man built device and talking like you feel like on a man built Internet, knowing how protected you are from a bear.

  • @monicakent6287
    @monicakent6287 13 дней назад +19

    This is amazing! There should be multiple cities like this all over the continent.

  • @user-ow5bq9fv3n
    @user-ow5bq9fv3n 18 дней назад +31

    It's nice see there are women in Africa who can wake and wise up above custom and tradition and know that they are also worth as women and not being taken advantage of by these custom and traditions men see as a way to take advantage of by men tproud these women know worth.

  • @DeKKH
    @DeKKH 15 дней назад +27

    One million blessings to these women 🌹 They are ahead of most people and places. Maybe no glamour or wealth and all the junk, but they are rich with happiness and freedom. ❤️

  • @aostrosky
    @aostrosky 13 дней назад +13

    I cant take my eyes off all the breathtaking bead work...

  • @shenelle921
    @shenelle921 12 дней назад +11

    This is beautiful and peaceful no men no stress just happiness 😊

    • @nadinetchaho2618
      @nadinetchaho2618 4 дня назад +1

      I can’t believe how poisonous ☠️ they have became for the soul. These women are crowned with victory ✌️

  • @Itgyrl909
    @Itgyrl909 25 дней назад +35

    The way those men (young & old) behaved when the women were only trying to buy goats from them is despicable.

    • @haddingtoniangcp2464
      @haddingtoniangcp2464 25 дней назад

      Because these women claim to hate men and yet want to buy from them. Go rear your own livestock then. If I hate you that much, I want nothing from you much less support your business. Js

    • @haddingtoniangcp2464
      @haddingtoniangcp2464 24 дня назад

      They have every right to. If you got a problem with men, rear your own livestock,don't you think? Only women will go put money in the hands of men They despise.

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 22 дня назад +42

    This just proves that black women EVERYWHERE need to be protected. These ladies are doing it for themselves. It truly takes a village to heal. Rebecca is a queen!

    • @laurenthepisces
      @laurenthepisces 19 дней назад +3

      Yup! We need to build a place like this in the USA

    • @allnamesaretaken
      @allnamesaretaken 18 дней назад +7

      @@laurenthepisces Why don't you all band together, buy land and build your own building like these women in the documentary rather than saying you need a place like this in the USA? Ill await your excuses as to why not.

    • @thenation2093
      @thenation2093 17 дней назад +1

      @@allnamesaretakenWhat are you talking about?

    • @ICONICPARIS
      @ICONICPARIS 16 дней назад +1

      ​@@allnamesaretakenknock it off

    • @allnamesaretaken
      @allnamesaretaken 16 дней назад +4

      @@ICONICPARIS No. You are no ones boss.
      People need to stop complaining and begin doing.
      If those in impoverished countries can do it, no reason those in wealthy countries cant.
      They need to stop being lazy.

  • @emmafulufhelondou7013
    @emmafulufhelondou7013 20 дней назад +15

    Our African leaders are failing african woman. Its so sad to hear what this womans had to went through and not protected. May God bless them to raise their children to become something in life.

  • @BappyTheDrifter
    @BappyTheDrifter 25 дней назад +15

    Thanks DW to show us such unseen part of the world.

  • @sminno
    @sminno 15 дней назад +21

    THIS!!!!! ALL OF IT!!!!! Women understand community, sisterhood, teamwork. This village shows what happens when women can thrive!!! The fact that women have to run to stay alive and have peace the world over is scary AF!!!!!! This reminds me of a article about a village that had trucks that delivered food and other goods. First all the men in the village would get the goods and by a 2 or 3 weeks in would be out of everything until the truck came back. Next truck visit the delivery drivers said women only this time and the WOMEN made the goods LAST UNTIL THE NEXT TRUCK DAY!!!!

  • @seagirlaquarius
    @seagirlaquarius 26 дней назад +43

    Great documentary would be wonderful to know the personal stories of how the founders of the village made it there and how the constructed the village.

    • @jum4771
      @jum4771 23 дня назад

      There are so many documentaries done before uploaded on u tube some are verry detailed

  • @taylor3950
    @taylor3950 11 дней назад +16

    What wonderful women. I’d also like to recognize Samella’s father for being willing to break with tradition and risk criticism to help his daughter.

  • @thelonewolf848
    @thelonewolf848 25 дней назад +25

    Awed by this very greatly made documentary. ❤ sounds like a common sentiment for women worldwide.

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii 22 дня назад +11

    Love their initiative to build a better life for themselves; realize their worth; protect and educate their children; and forward the message that change is possible and already in effect.♥️♥️

  • @cherilynne1946
    @cherilynne1946 15 дней назад +9

    What an inspirational story! Incredibly smart, determined women. Viona is a beautiful little ray of sunlight. I would love to see her go to university and become whatever she wants to be.

  • @kandieeunice8452
    @kandieeunice8452 19 дней назад +10

    This documentary warms my heart.. I too come from baringo County..but was privileged to get education but on the weekends my work with my brothers was to take care of cattle ..now am doing my masters in Belgium I hope to give back to my community someday
    .

  • @user-dz8pr9kz3w
    @user-dz8pr9kz3w 11 дней назад +5

    This hurt so deep. I will keep my Kenyan sister's in prayers. I hope to visit your village and meet you all.

  • @user-wt6co4ot3i
    @user-wt6co4ot3i 16 дней назад +19

    Touching lives, one at a time!
    God richly bless people like Rebecca.

  • @KEINDIGITALMEDIA
    @KEINDIGITALMEDIA 25 дней назад +14

    This documentary is incredibly informative and eye-opening. It challenged my perception of patriarchy in traditional societies. The story of this woman is unforgettable, and it truly highlights the power of unity. Umoja!
    Absolutely! Huge kudos to the production team. Every shot was meticulously crafted to tell a story, and the narration was so human-centric, it felt incredibly immersive. I was completely drawn into the narrative.

  • @Jill_MA
    @Jill_MA 26 дней назад +18

    Paradise Island (Themyscira)!! So proud of these women!

  • @melindaphillips5724
    @melindaphillips5724 13 дней назад +10

    I tell my granddaughters all the time that they are soo lucky to live in U.S.A. We may have issues but nothing like these women and daughters have to go through! How life saving for them to have a safe place to go to.❤❤❤😊

    • @1truek269
      @1truek269 9 дней назад +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @lunatic5162
      @lunatic5162 3 дня назад

      Huh? You're saying women in America don't suffer from men? Very stupid thing to say

    • @melindaphillips5724
      @melindaphillips5724 3 дня назад +1

      @@lunatic5162 That's not what I said. American women at least have places they can go to escape abusive men. We also have some protections in the legal systems. We are not cattle owned by our husbands!

    • @lunatic5162
      @lunatic5162 3 дня назад

      @@melindaphillips5724 I guess if you would write exactly that. I wouldn`t say anything. But yes. I get you know, and with that, I agree

  • @TakenTook
    @TakenTook 10 дней назад +7

    If they have a grassy area nearby to let livestock graze, the next step for these women should be breeding goats themselves, so they will not need to bargain with the men who won't give them a fair price.

  • @PollyAlice2000
    @PollyAlice2000 3 дня назад +2

    Peace be with all of this community. Sending good wishes from Northern California.

  • @tiabfree7254
    @tiabfree7254 22 дня назад +9

    These women are true heroes.

  • @Sirius263
    @Sirius263 26 дней назад +22

    Excellent 👌 I love this documentary; its girl power at its very best!
    I lived in Kenya with a Masai warrior and learned the customs and dancing. I dressed exactly as the Masai women dressed and travelled with the Warrior posing with him for tourists wanting photos of us. The beaded attire became my regalia and I embraced the Masai life as they all embraced me. I was so happy. But then I was told I must have a baby and that was a challenge I wouldn't endure.
    The rest is history. But I will always have a place in my heart, and fond memories of Kenya, my warrior and all of the Masai.

    • @DWDocumentary
      @DWDocumentary  25 дней назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences.

    • @ceregirl5852
      @ceregirl5852 24 дня назад +1

      I believe I saw a documentary about you.

    • @haddingtoniangcp2464
      @haddingtoniangcp2464 24 дня назад +1

      So when it came to bringing forth life,you tapped out? Interesting!

    • @Sirius263
      @Sirius263 24 дня назад +1

      @@ceregirl5852 Hello, I know that since I had the experiences in Kenya many moons ago, a number of women have had similar experiences. I haven't done a documentary, but I am writing 4 screenplays that will include this passage and how it came about; and many other life experiences. 😊

    • @Sirius263
      @Sirius263 24 дня назад +8

      @@haddingtoniangcp2464 Yes, unusual for a woman, it's often men who avoid that. 😉 Us women have the right to choose, this documentary highlights that more than ever.

  • @jeanettetuhi7973
    @jeanettetuhi7973 22 дня назад +9

    I think this is brilliant where ever women are safe people thrive...how can we support these women?

  • @lovelysosweet8386
    @lovelysosweet8386 19 дней назад +26

    We don’t even have this in America Amazing strong women ❤ sadly this shows the true nature of men!

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 12 дней назад +5

      We have it, but we're continually bullied and marginalized by men for building up. Hence the hate men have for successful women.

    • @ashleyclinton3485
      @ashleyclinton3485 12 дней назад +3

      We have good men too❤ we need to raise our precious little boys to be gentle and protective. Christ showed what a true man is like. Not a warring king as the ppl of that time expected, but a gentle and great man, one that put children first and sent the Samaritan woman out to teach her whole nation of the truth of God. Mary was the first to witness the resurrection of Christ even when a woman’s witness at that time was counted for naught.
      Our Heavenly Mother is great indeed and sent her son to show us a man’s true potential. Both our Father and Mother in heaven are gentle and great, this life is so short for us to choose what we will, how much they want all of their children to repent and return to them.

  • @afunlivelylife
    @afunlivelylife 15 дней назад +16

    My eyes are teary watching this. We take so much for granted.

  • @MariePriss
    @MariePriss 20 дней назад +7

    It’s so sad they have to do this in order to be safe, but at the same time it’s so beautiful.

  • @l3zfrancais
    @l3zfrancais 17 дней назад +5

    Bless these women and their children. Would love to contribute to developing more of these villages, especially here in the US if possible.

  • @kmanyrivers
    @kmanyrivers 3 дня назад +2

    I really do not care for the click bait title of this piece but it was so well done and the women and children of Umoja's story is incredible.

  • @ItsAuntNiNi
    @ItsAuntNiNi 10 дней назад +1

    having seen the documentaries when they started this to see it now is heartwarming!

  • @Aquariustime
    @Aquariustime 19 дней назад +7

    Such a beautiful doc of beautiful, brave and strong woman 💜

  • @Poesjewel
    @Poesjewel 12 дней назад +5

    im glad they raise and educate the boys as well. changing the male psyche here is very important to changing the circumstances for all of them. i pray for their mission. how can we donate to them?

  • @bertieboo
    @bertieboo 11 дней назад +2

    This is heartbreakingly wonderful x

  • @ICONICPARIS
    @ICONICPARIS 16 дней назад +1

    This is amazing!! Seeing how others in world live is so wonderful

  • @lizgallucci8894
    @lizgallucci8894 12 дней назад +6

    I wish we had a town like this in the uk, how safe and nice it would be.

  • @ingreedralph1521
    @ingreedralph1521 18 дней назад +4

    I am touched by this woman hats off to YOU ❤❤❤ you have to voice 🗣 💫

  • @blkkrose
    @blkkrose 17 дней назад +10

    How can we donate to the beautiful brave and powerful women?

  • @jorgel.4406
    @jorgel.4406 3 дня назад +2

    That mother standing proudly because her little daughter is going to school brought tears to my eyes.

  • @connectingthedots100
    @connectingthedots100 20 дней назад +3

    Aw 🥺 such a nice documentary ❤

  • @zablonreuben
    @zablonreuben 24 дня назад +8

    Amazing documentary 😊

  • @rauxhyde2614
    @rauxhyde2614 10 дней назад

    This is really XLNT!! Thank you so much!!🙏🔥❤️

  • @bubajabang2555
    @bubajabang2555 24 дня назад +2

    HEAVY! What a discovery. Huge thanks

  • @BlessingGlow-777
    @BlessingGlow-777 24 дня назад +6

    So informative and interesting!

  • @IamChristinaSpade
    @IamChristinaSpade 10 дней назад +6

    I wish they would give information on how to donate to them..

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 7 дней назад +2

      If you search RUclips, there is another video about this village with the info on how to assist.

  • @kagisomolete5217
    @kagisomolete5217 14 дней назад

    This is such amazing work. I am so proud of what you are doing.

  • @ridhima_sinngh
    @ridhima_sinngh 16 дней назад +7

    Best thing I've seen in a while.❤

  • @Olaiserriomunyak1059
    @Olaiserriomunyak1059 21 день назад +11

    It's sad that, in 2024, we still have that kind of men who fight their wifes.😢