I think that "who is going to be there" is just a question out of curiosity. I wouldn't take that as being rude, hell I would ask too Lol. It's just nice to know sometimes.
I agree with the “who’s going to be there” because if I’m just coming to support you let’s be honest... you aren’t going to hold my hand the entire party and you’ll want to mingle... if I’m going to be surrounded by people I don’t mess with and you’re off laughing somewhere else and I’m uncomfortable... I’m not coming. I’ll take you out next week for a little girls day or something to celebrate with you.
Right! It's not about drama, I'm just trying to see what the vibe is. Will it just be our mutual friends or strangers too, is it ladies night or will there be guys there, etc etc lol
Andrea W. Yes exactly !! No drama intended.. I just like to be in the know & prepare myself for the occasion. Just like knowing the dress code or the time of the event.
Me too! Shoot I do that too lol cuz some people my friends invite aren't always the 'cool' people. They be shady and messy as hell! Also I was like 'Adrienne girl this ain't about you lol, if I ask then I'm just asking.' That don't mean you hang with messed up people but shoot maybe you do just because someone is YOUR friend doesn't mean they are FRIENDLY, hmmkay...
Yes Loni! 👏 I don't go to parties that have certain family members, so the people who you associate with is no different. And yes Adrienne, it is possible for your friends to associate with the so called " messed " up people. You don't have to be friends with your friends friend.🤷🏻♀️
I wish they were consistent....Loni was feeling some type of way when her friend didn't show up to her birthday party because her other friend was going to be there. But now she's doing the same thing.
It's also easy to look at the issue between your friends as stupid and petty while viewing your own issue as "serious" and "worthy of concern". Just because you have a double-standard doesn't mean you aren't consistent!
I agree! And not even fake people, some people literally just have really negative energy and it is reflective when they interact with certain people. One of my best friends is friends with this immature dude who always picks on certain people and makes them uncomfortable but says its “all in fun.” I think its a fair question.
they always switch up their views. i could’ve sworn adrienne said in a previous show that she will ask people “who is there?” because she doesn’t wanna be around certain energy. rightfully so. but if you do it, you can’t be mad when other people do it as well.
Ce Espreè I think it’s different because she’s not gonna invite people to certain events so don’t expect to ask... if she knows there is drama between them it’s a no brainer to not have them in the same place at the same time
I could have sworn she said something like how she would not invite someone because she's not comfortable with someone, not that she was asking people about other parties. Could be wrong tho!
I’m for sure asking “who’s coming?” If I think someone I don’t want to waste my energy around might be there. If you are my close friend or family and you love me you already know that I love you and you don’t care if I ask. But I need to have my mind ready to see people I might not want to see OR just be prepared to look extra fly and extra happy 💁🏻♀️🤣
This is so relatable to me right now. My birthday is coming up and I have three friends that I know don’t get along with each other but I want all of them there to celebrate with me 😭 the best thing is to do is to let all of them know the other is gonna be there so there are no surprises
I’m with Loni and Jeannie 😂 You can say “I want to come but who will be there?” At least Adrienne makes her guest list so her friends aren’t uncomfy, but not everyone is that considerate! Or maybe the person wants to be prepared before they run into someone
I agree with Loni 1,000% cuz there are people you don't want to be around and you do not want to turn the party or whatever it is into a murder scene so I asked as well
I am sorry but I m going to ask who is going to be there. The reason is that I dont know all your friends and I like to know a familiar face will be there so I m not alone at a party. The friend that invited will be busy and not all my friend's friends are my friends. That question shouldn't offend anyone.
yeah i’m so confused as to why it’s a rude question? like i literally don’t understand how anyone can think that’s rude? idk maybe that’s american culture
@@theelolicious9302 well, I understood it as rude because someone is only willing to go to their friends party based off the people going not because they actually want to go celebrate their friend's birthday or whatever they're celebrating. Or it seems that's why theyre asking in the first place. They're making it about themselves and their relationships with the guest list when it should be about the friend who is celebrating and throwing the party. That's my opinion though. I understand why someone would ask, and personally I don't think I'd be that offended, as long as I know they're just genuinely being curious.
Iris Damberg ohh i see, that makes sense. i ask as well, but i’ll only ask because i want to know if there are people there that i know, because i won’t have a good time going if i’m not friends with anybody who is there except for the host (who i can’t be with the entire time)
@@theelolicious9302 yeah that makes sense! Even the way you mentioned you ask, isn't harmful at all. I think it all comes down to how someone asks, you know?
I hate the texts where people ask “ what we eating “ you’ll see when you get here... if I know someone or some people are vegan I’ll gladly supply options, if someone has allergies... same thing ! If I know the people I’m inviting , I should know what works for them and what will make them satisfied as well as included !
I also want to point out if there has been drama between two certain people in the past at a party of yours.... then as the host you should try your best to accommodate and adjust knowing this info... so I say invite them both and tell the, both that the other one is coming so there is no surprises and they can purposely avoid each other but still come and co exist !
Adrienne is being a hypocrite in that... she’s admitted to asking that exact question because she doesn’t want negative energy in her life... she’s protecting her energy...so it’s okay for her to do it and not other people? 🤔
All the black people in the comments agree with loni😂😂💀 we don’t have time for the bs . We need to avoid trouble cause you know how our people are confrontational🤦🏾♀️
What’s wrong with someone asking while you are the road? Just pick up the damn ice from the store or gas station close to the house! It’s not that deep!
And also, I get it that some people can have numerous friends but I think there's a saying too that say like beware of the friends that laugh with your «enemies or rivals». If we are really friends, you would know ish happens, therefore you would have considered it before. It's easy to say we friends so do this, no it's a mutual friendship. I care about people I'm around, we all have to be comfortable
Personally, I don't think it's rude for someone to ask, "Who's gonna be there?". I mean I ask that myself sometimes, depending on the person and what kind of party it is. But what I find rude is that if I'm throwing a get together and I'm inviting people, and some or a lot of those people don't respond back to you!!
As a friend I think it’s very normal to ask who’s gonna be there. I personally ask that question a lot to pin point what I want to wear, if there’s a lot of people I don’t know I like to go with something more formal but if it’s people I’m comfortable with truth of the matter is I’ll wear something more casual. Asking who’s gonna be there can mean a lot of things, it doesn’t necessarily mean a bad thing or that she’s being rude. Also, I don’t wanna be in a place with people I don’t like. I care about myself too much to surround myself with people I’m comfortable with. Period.
I hate getting invited to parties then they hit me with the here's the list of things we need so what can you bring? ... They always wait till after you accept to hit you with that bullshit too
I hang around with the same groups of people and every group is a different vibe but they are all friends as well so I only ask "whos coming" so that I know what kind of party it's gonna be. I'm always making drinks or making something and whatever I bring it depends on the type of crowd that ill be with.
I agree with the Who’s coming to a certain extent I will ask that because I may have beef with someone and I’m not trying to get into that at “YOUR” party OR If I know the people then I know I won’t be a third will 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
If you ask who's coming before you say if you're going or not, then that is rude. Like the birthday person isn't important enough to go for themselves. But if you know an ex might be there, it is ok to ask who is going, I think. A good friend wouldn't mind
Asking how many and who is going to be there is a good question. It doesn't have to e a matter of having issues with the person(s), it could be that you don't share the person's view on things/speech or behaviour. It could be that you prefer smaller association. It shows maturity to ask. Better to ask before accepting the invitation.
I ask who will be at a party just in case someone I don't like will be there. Im not fake or phony! If I don't like a person, I don't want to be around them at all! Not even under cordial circumstances. Other than that, Im down to go where ever Im invited!
I'll bring a whole blizzard if Someone asked me that. I'll be throwing Ice cubes as I walk into the party make sure there's snow on the floor. Or maybe just show up with a cup of ice, I'm not bringing bags of ice "You said "some" Ice" Like jeanie said "bring some drink!" I'm going to be selfish, I'm not going to supply for everyone. unless you pay me back. but I'll by those tiny alcohol bottles if someone asked me that too, I will end up trolling the party.
I will always ask who is going to be there. First off, if I don’t like someone I’m not going to hang around them. Second, I have anxiety if I only know one person that is going to be there I am going to feel super uncomfortable. So I would rather know straight out the gate.
That’s usually when you running late they be like wya and you be like on the way and they be like can you bring some ice 9/10 you wasn’t on the way you was still getting ready so you go get that ice and they’ll think that’s why you was late
If you're the kind of person who needs to know who's there...ask specifically about the PERSON(S) you don't want there. I"m getting ready to host a party, I sure as hell don't have time to text you a list of all the people who confirmed right before the party.
I have a friend who intentionally asks people to bring things to parties just to ensure they show up AND if they know they are responsible for something that you will show up on time. I am not a fan of that kind of manipulation.
Just dont surprise me, tell me who gonna be there, cuz you should already know as my friend I dont fool with them. And then I'll tell you right there, either I'm going or not. Period. Maturity is really failing in this conversation. Except Jeannie and Tamera
I don’t wanna bring ice. If I’ve already pitched in I should have to bring anything else. Also they responsible for the ice and ice requests are ALWAYS LAST MINUTE!!!! I always want to know who’s gonna be there!!! If someone’s going and we have problems than we gone end up arguing!!!! If you know I have issues with someone and it’s not small, it’s huge, and you invite them and know it’s too much drama than don’t invite me!!!
Another annoying question: "what's the address?" Especially when the address in ON THE INVITE or you've been to my house many times. Texts are just annoying in general when you're prepping for a party.
Loni is a celebrity... So Adrienne doesn't feel like its because the whos who... Girl y'all have a talk show Loni just don't like certain friends that Adrienne has...
But it depends on the events tho, weddings, birthday parties, baptism... I sure am coming regardless of who is invited. If it's another party thrown just for fun, that could be great but I still can choose to not come. Some people handle it very well, I'm one of those who don't bc it looks fake and a waste of energy on my own. If I'm going, I want to enjoy myself with the host and her/his companies not play ridiculous games of ignoring each others, that's childish...
I ask who's coming so much that friends now just tell me upfront.... such and such is gonna be there, wanna come? I respect and appreciate that .. less drama
“You should want to come for me” you who is going to be mingling the entire time and spending it mostly with your husband/partner? I don’t want to be left in the corner pretending to have a good time. I need to know if it’s more than just you that I know and like.
Idk what kinda parties y’all going to. I’ll bring a bag of ice if I’m asked.. it’s not that deep??? It’s ICE. Also, I ain’t coming to your fuckin party (unless it’s for a wedding or a baby or your birthday) if that girl I don’t like is there.. I’m not gonna make myself uncomfortable. And don’t be cheap, bring a bottle of alcohol so you’re not chugging other peoples. It’s like 10$ for a cheap bottle of liquor.
I think that "who is going to be there" is just a question out of curiosity. I wouldn't take that as being rude, hell I would ask too Lol. It's just nice to know sometimes.
Living LaChandra it could be some cute guy or something and you wanna look cute lol
I agree with the “who’s going to be there” because if I’m just coming to support you let’s be honest... you aren’t going to hold my hand the entire party and you’ll want to mingle... if I’m going to be surrounded by people I don’t mess with and you’re off laughing somewhere else and I’m uncomfortable... I’m not coming. I’ll take you out next week for a little girls day or something to celebrate with you.
Well said Miah well said. I completely agree with you.
Peeerrriooooodddd
I’m good for “who’s coming” lol just to be mentally prepared
Right! It's not about drama, I'm just trying to see what the vibe is. Will it just be our mutual friends or strangers too, is it ladies night or will there be guys there, etc etc lol
Andrea W. Yes exactly !! No drama intended.. I just like to be in the know & prepare myself for the occasion. Just like knowing the dress code or the time of the event.
Yesss exactlyy
When Jeannie said "well that‘s because you have sista sista bank" 😭
She is always talking about tam's pocket
Unpopular opinion: I personally agree with Loni 🙃
Ayanna Williams yeah me too,
I honestly don't think it's an unpopular opinion.
same
Me too! Shoot I do that too lol cuz some people my friends invite aren't always the 'cool' people. They be shady and messy as hell! Also I was like 'Adrienne girl this ain't about you lol, if I ask then I'm just asking.' That don't mean you hang with messed up people but shoot maybe you do just because someone is YOUR friend doesn't mean they are FRIENDLY, hmmkay...
Yes Loni! 👏 I don't go to parties that have certain family members, so the people who you associate with is no different. And yes Adrienne, it is possible for your friends to associate with the so called " messed " up people. You don't have to be friends with your friends friend.🤷🏻♀️
I wish they were consistent....Loni was feeling some type of way when her friend didn't show up to her birthday party because her other friend was going to be there. But now she's doing the same thing.
yadira2j It’s entertainment so she could be saying this for the sake of the topic. Also people change their mind and evolve in thinking all the time.
It's also easy to look at the issue between your friends as stupid and petty while viewing your own issue as "serious" and "worthy of concern". Just because you have a double-standard doesn't mean you aren't consistent!
@@vlo4829 yeah it kind of does.
I will for sure ask who's coming. I hate being around fake people. Call me immature.
God's girl same 🤷🏾♀️
I agree! And not even fake people, some people literally just have really negative energy and it is reflective when they interact with certain people. One of my best friends is friends with this immature dude who always picks on certain people and makes them uncomfortable but says its “all in fun.” I think its a fair question.
I'm the same way! I don't wanna be around people whom I find fake or sense they don't like me or who I don't like!
God's girl you might be the fake person
Ok, you're immature.
What's rude about asking who's coming... what are we talking about 😂
Exactly
"That's cause you got sister sister bank" 🤣 thanks for keeping it REAL REAL Jeannie🤘 lmao
Loni looked so proud when Tamera said she’s teaching her about brown liquor! 😂💕
This is always my first question... “come over” who’s there?.... “girls trip” who’s going?... “having a party” who’s all going to be there?
Pretty sure Adrienne has admitted to doing this in a previous episode. I'm confused.
Yep she has
She probably just don't like what she dishes 🤷🏽♀️
Savaana I was just thinking that
I was scrolling through the comments to make Shure I'm not the only one who remember this 😂
Savaana righhhttttt
My boyfriend jokes that if someone asks u to bring ice that means u can't cook LMAO
Lol
they always switch up their views. i could’ve sworn adrienne said in a previous show that she will ask people “who is there?” because she doesn’t wanna be around certain energy. rightfully so. but if you do it, you can’t be mad when other people do it as well.
Ce Espreè I think it’s different because she’s not gonna invite people to certain events so don’t expect to ask... if she knows there is drama between them it’s a no brainer to not have them in the same place at the same time
Myronn Coleman ohhh i didn’t think about that. that makes sense.
I could have sworn she said something like how she would not invite someone because she's not comfortable with someone, not that she was asking people about other parties. Could be wrong tho!
Maybe its called Growing ?? They have literally stated they don’t have the same views as the beginning seasons.
kaylamarie on god i ain’t ask.
I think this question is more of how you ask it, as Jeannie mentioned, being mindful of the other person is always important.
I’m for sure asking “who’s coming?” If I think someone I don’t want to waste my energy around might be there. If you are my close friend or family and you love me you already know that I love you and you don’t care if I ask. But I need to have my mind ready to see people I might not want to see OR just be prepared to look extra fly and extra happy 💁🏻♀️🤣
Ain’t that funny Adrienne was the one saying I’m asking who’s coming to your party and now she’s pissed hmm 😂😂😂😂😂
This is so relatable to me right now. My birthday is coming up and I have three friends that I know don’t get along with each other but I want all of them there to celebrate with me 😭 the best thing is to do is to let all of them know the other is gonna be there so there are no surprises
I agree with Loni, especially if you're always inviting everybody. I need to know
I’m with Loni and Jeannie 😂 You can say “I want to come but who will be there?” At least Adrienne makes her guest list so her friends aren’t uncomfy, but not everyone is that considerate! Or maybe the person wants to be prepared before they run into someone
Wow such a riveting conversation on ice.
Who chose this topic? LOL
God's girl there topics have been weird lately
@@thaidesigns9138 I came for the Thumbnail... LOL
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Right! Lol Asking someone to bring ice is not a big deal.Many times you may call and say “I’m getting gas or stopping do y’all need anything”?! Lol
Loni's face on 2:27 I love it
🤣🤣🤣
Love you ladies from the real God Bless.
I agree with Loni 1,000% cuz there are people you don't want to be around and you do not want to turn the party or whatever it is into a murder scene so I asked as well
🤣 Is Adam going to be there? The love hate is hilarious
Are they running out of topics to talk about?
I am sorry but I m going to ask who is going to be there. The reason is that I dont know all your friends and I like to know a familiar face will be there so I m not alone at a party. The friend that invited will be busy and not all my friend's friends are my friends. That question shouldn't offend anyone.
Jackie Brainy same
yeah i’m so confused as to why it’s a rude question? like i literally don’t understand how anyone can think that’s rude? idk maybe that’s american culture
@@theelolicious9302 well, I understood it as rude because someone is only willing to go to their friends party based off the people going not because they actually want to go celebrate their friend's birthday or whatever they're celebrating. Or it seems that's why theyre asking in the first place.
They're making it about themselves and their relationships with the guest list when it should be about the friend who is celebrating and throwing the party. That's my opinion though. I understand why someone would ask, and personally I don't think I'd be that offended, as long as I know they're just genuinely being curious.
Iris Damberg ohh i see, that makes sense. i ask as well, but i’ll only ask because i want to know if there are people there that i know, because i won’t have a good time going if i’m not friends with anybody who is there except for the host (who i can’t be with the entire time)
@@theelolicious9302 yeah that makes sense! Even the way you mentioned you ask, isn't harmful at all. I think it all comes down to how someone asks, you know?
I hate the texts where people ask “ what we eating “ you’ll see when you get here... if I know someone or some people are vegan I’ll gladly supply options, if someone has allergies... same thing ! If I know the people I’m inviting , I should know what works for them and what will make them satisfied as well as included !
THANK YOUUUUU!!!!!
randomness. So u didn’t read the whole comment did u? 😕
I also want to point out if there has been drama between two certain people in the past at a party of yours.... then as the host you should try your best to accommodate and adjust knowing this info... so I say invite them both and tell the, both that the other one is coming so there is no surprises and they can purposely avoid each other but still come and co exist !
Just because you have sister sister money 🤣🤣🤣
I agree with Adrienne, especially when people ask the day of "who's there?" like you weren't already coming.
Are they running out of things to chat about?
MsFears i think they are
Yes
I believe so too at this point lol
I wanted to see what Tamera said at the end.Loni: Is Adam gonna be there?I wish they showed her face lol😂😂😁🤣🤣
I can't believe Tamera would rather buy several types of alcohol than some ice so her car doesn't get wet. 🤣
Dat sister sister bank
Adrienne is being a hypocrite in that... she’s admitted to asking that exact question because she doesn’t want negative energy in her life... she’s protecting her energy...so it’s okay for her to do it and not other people? 🤔
I feel like the host should take care of the ice. I’ll bring anything else though😂
All the black people in the comments agree with loni😂😂💀 we don’t have time for the bs . We need to avoid trouble cause you know how our people are confrontational🤦🏾♀️
Candice J Right, I don’t have time to hang out with fake people. If I don’t go I’m trying to keep the peace.
@@nothingdarling4788 LMAO SIS, we trying to be civilized
What’s wrong with someone asking while you are the road? Just pick up the damn ice from the store or gas station close to the house! It’s not that deep!
Happens all the time. I fell out when Tam said she needed a freakin ice chest. What??
adrienne sometimes people ask who's coming so they know how to dress or how big the party is .
And also, I get it that some people can have numerous friends but I think there's a saying too that say like beware of the friends that laugh with your «enemies or rivals». If we are really friends, you would know ish happens, therefore you would have considered it before. It's easy to say we friends so do this, no it's a mutual friendship. I care about people I'm around, we all have to be comfortable
Agreeing with Loni! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Personally, I don't think it's rude for someone to ask, "Who's gonna be there?". I mean I ask that myself sometimes, depending on the person and what kind of party it is. But what I find rude is that if I'm throwing a get together and I'm inviting people, and some or a lot of those people don't respond back to you!!
That's cause you've got sister sister bank :'D
Loni said some RS ! Y’all so real cause it’s real live stuff !
Who's ever been asked to bring ice to a party?
I am in total agreement with Loni
I won't even show up for my own birthday party if someone I don't want to interact with is going to be there.
As a friend I think it’s very normal to ask who’s gonna be there. I personally ask that question a lot to pin point what I want to wear, if there’s a lot of people I don’t know I like to go with something more formal but if it’s people I’m comfortable with truth of the matter is I’ll wear something more casual. Asking who’s gonna be there can mean a lot of things, it doesn’t necessarily mean a bad thing or that she’s being rude. Also, I don’t wanna be in a place with people I don’t like. I care about myself too much to surround myself with people I’m comfortable with. Period.
Loni asked if Adam is going to be there...
I hate getting invited to parties then they hit me with the here's the list of things we need so what can you bring? ... They always wait till after you accept to hit you with that bullshit too
I always ask “who all going?” I need to know
I don’t like A’s makeup here everything else cute and Tams hair is bomb af
I hang around with the same groups of people and every group is a different vibe but they are all friends as well so I only ask "whos coming" so that I know what kind of party it's gonna be. I'm always making drinks or making something and whatever I bring it depends on the type of crowd that ill be with.
I agree with the Who’s coming to a certain extent I will ask that because I may have beef with someone and I’m not trying to get into that at “YOUR” party OR If I know the people then I know I won’t be a third will 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Sister, sister bank 😂
If you ask who's coming before you say if you're going or not, then that is rude. Like the birthday person isn't important enough to go for themselves. But if you know an ex might be there, it is ok to ask who is going, I think. A good friend wouldn't mind
Asking how many and who is going to be there is a good question. It doesn't have to e a matter of having issues with the person(s), it could be that you don't share the person's view on things/speech or behaviour. It could be that you prefer smaller association. It shows maturity to ask. Better to ask before accepting the invitation.
Jeannie helps with a wine place -.- that's how
The host needs to remember to get their own ice TBH
I ask who will be at a party just in case someone I don't like will be there. Im not fake or phony! If I don't like a person, I don't want to be around them at all! Not even under cordial circumstances. Other than that, Im down to go where ever Im invited!
I'll bring a whole blizzard if Someone asked me that. I'll be throwing Ice cubes as I walk into the party make sure there's snow on the floor. Or maybe just show up with a cup of ice, I'm not bringing bags of ice "You said "some" Ice"
Like jeanie said "bring some drink!" I'm going to be selfish, I'm not going to supply for everyone. unless you pay me back. but I'll by those tiny alcohol bottles if someone asked me that too, I will end up trolling the party.
This made me feel awkward towards the end 😖😂
These topics are just so blehhhhhhhh 😒 it’s like they have nothing to talk about
They should talk more about recent events and comment on news. But I also like these soft topics like in this video ...
I will always ask who is going to be there. First off, if I don’t like someone I’m not going to hang around them. Second, I have anxiety if I only know one person that is going to be there I am going to feel super uncomfortable. So I would rather know straight out the gate.
How much makeup does Adrienne have on ?!!
LMAO BIG LANI GOT SHUT TF DOWNNNN LOLOLOLOLOK
I always pretend I didn't get the text... I don't like that "can you grab some ice" text
i 100 percent agree with loni is just a question out of curiosity. that what you do in life
My so called best friend always ask me who all is coming.
The ice text to a potluck means you can't cook
I don’t like being at parties with people I don’t know
I ask who’s coming to see maybe if I could carpool with somebody or plan out with that person to come at the same time. 😂
That’s usually when you running late they be like wya and you be like on the way and they be like can you bring some ice 9/10 you wasn’t on the way you was still getting ready so you go get that ice and they’ll think that’s why you was late
I am with Loni about The Who gonna be there
If you're the kind of person who needs to know who's there...ask specifically about the PERSON(S) you don't want there. I"m getting ready to host a party, I sure as hell don't have time to text you a list of all the people who confirmed right before the party.
Im not “tryna”......
Loni. Just don't go. The party is not about you.
I agree with Adrienne
You can tell tam doesn’t take ice anywhere girl you buy that ice at a gas station or grocery store by the party
Talking bout ice chest loll
Ice does not smell.
I hate bringing ice don’t ask me. I keep it real. But I have a lot of liquor I have that on hand.
but adrienne used to say that she became the kind who wanna know who was gonna be at the party
check the earlier seasons girl
Adrienne and Loni in a fight? lol
Yes Loni !!! You have to ask
I have a friend who intentionally asks people to bring things to parties just to ensure they show up AND if they know they are responsible for something that you will show up on time. I am not a fan of that kind of manipulation.
Just dont surprise me, tell me who gonna be there, cuz you should already know as my friend I dont fool with them. And then I'll tell you right there, either I'm going or not. Period. Maturity is really failing in this conversation. Except Jeannie and Tamera
I don’t wanna bring ice. If I’ve already pitched in I should have to bring anything else. Also they responsible for the ice and ice requests are ALWAYS LAST MINUTE!!!!
I always want to know who’s gonna be there!!! If someone’s going and we have problems than we gone end up arguing!!!! If you know I have issues with someone and it’s not small, it’s huge, and you invite them and know it’s too much drama than don’t invite me!!!
Great discussion.
i am so distracted by adrienne’s makeup lol
Did Adrienne get her lips done?
Loni 🤣🤣🤣😍
Another annoying question: "what's the address?" Especially when the address in ON THE INVITE or you've been to my house many times. Texts are just annoying in general when you're prepping for a party.
Loni is a celebrity... So Adrienne doesn't feel like its because the whos who... Girl y'all have a talk show Loni just don't like certain friends that Adrienne has...
But it depends on the events tho, weddings, birthday parties, baptism... I sure am coming regardless of who is invited.
If it's another party thrown just for fun, that could be great but I still can choose to not come. Some people handle it very well, I'm one of those who don't bc it looks fake and a waste of energy on my own. If I'm going, I want to enjoy myself with the host and her/his companies not play ridiculous games of ignoring each others, that's childish...
I ask who's coming so much that friends now just tell me upfront.... such and such is gonna be there, wanna come? I respect and appreciate that .. less drama
I thought people ask a person to bring ice because they can't cook so they bring utensils or ice.
“You should want to come for me” you who is going to be mingling the entire time and spending it mostly with your husband/partner? I don’t want to be left in the corner pretending to have a good time. I need to know if it’s more than just you that I know and like.
Idk what kinda parties y’all going to. I’ll bring a bag of ice if I’m asked.. it’s not that deep??? It’s ICE. Also, I ain’t coming to your fuckin party (unless it’s for a wedding or a baby or your birthday) if that girl I don’t like is there.. I’m not gonna make myself uncomfortable. And don’t be cheap, bring a bottle of alcohol so you’re not chugging other peoples. It’s like 10$ for a cheap bottle of liquor.
The hosts act like robots