I am done with self sabotage, I am done with the pain that lives in my body, mind and spirit. I am done with unhealthy eating and relationships. I am done with being fearful about money.
Lisa thank you so much for these powerful, ground shifting, messages. My OLD belief system was that I wasn't smart enough to start my business where I was. I needed everything to be perfect. The perfect amount in my bank account, the perfect people, perfect atmosphere etc...Then what happened...I was laid off along with 1000s of others. But instead of me beating myself down I started having conversations with me and affirmations help too!! Ive made MORE moves in the past 4 mths than I have in the 7yrs of me wishing for my dreams to come to pass. Im still a work in progress. But I have PROGRESS and that keeps me going with a smile on my face. I just wanted to share with you other ladies that no matter what life throws at you, KEEP BELIEVING IN YOURSELF. If YOU believe then thats all you need and your pretty much there. Be blessed everyone!!
Bahiya13 I LOOOOVEEE this! #BOL Breakthrough Out Loud!!! You go girl! Rarely, if EVER, do circumstances line up perfectly for us to take the first step towards our goal. Often we let the strive for perfection lead us to become masters of procrastination and we stay still. ACTION is the anti-dote to despair AND the prescription for success. Stay moving to avoid shutting down. Our mantra: Have a YES YES Mentality! Come with it, girl! xoxox
BOL! Im done with my scarcity mindset. Done with being scared to look stupid. Done with the fear of being too much, too overbearing or annoying. Done with calling myself stupid and other self-deprecating jokes! Shrinking myself in any space I occupy. Speaking softly so that I won't be heard in case I say something stupid. Not saying anything at all.
Is it possible to love someone instantly? Where have you been all my life? At 43 years old and having struggled mental illness my whole life (BPD included) I got to a final crossroad, it was all or nothing and I choose ALL. Me and my new journal are going to soak up all the information you have to give, and use it as a guideline to a better, hopefully happier me. Having just found you yesterday and only seen 2 videos sofar, the way you speak and radiate feels like coming to a warm, loving and understanding home. Thank you already and God bless you, beautiful lady 💖
Girl this brought tears to my eyes!!! I know I'm in the process of building my abundance blueprint and every time I hear you speak it's just genuine love flowing from the deeps of your soul!!!!
Lisa thank you so much..May God guide you and protect your ways..And May God continue to give you more wisdom..after watching this brought tears to my eyes!!!I know I'm in the process of building my abundance blueprint and every time I hear you speak it's just genuine love flowing from the deeps of my soul...!!!! May God bless you)))
YES YES!!! I encourage everyone to do the expose the lies exercise. It gets a bit emotional when you see all these lies before you that you had previously allowed to determine and run your life. You can't help but cry when you look at the truth as well because new possibilities reveal themselves instantly and you snatch your power back and own it. Do the exercise, it's life transforming. Plus it also makes it clear to you WHOSE thoughts you've really been thinking.
Yessssss CHANN3L TH3SPIRIT!! Uncovering our lies... exposing them and shining light on our lies can create a bit of disruption. Let's remember that this is good and will help us heal from old, broken behaviors that no longer benefit us. So often our lies were created trying to protect ourselves in harmful situations in the past. Today looks very different for most of us, and we are reminded we no longer need to lie to ourselves to feel ok. We are worthy of HEALTHY love, jobs, and relationships! Abundance is everywhere! xoxo
EXPOSE the LIES!!! Thanks Lisa. I'm done with leaning on my insecurities. I'm done with thinking I'm not able to be myself. I'm done believing that people are judging me.
I am 57 years old and I really felt there was no,possibility of changing anything about myself for so many reasons. And I just happened to ask the father for a mentor for my life. I don't know why I'm so shocked when he answers me well I do because that's one of the lies I tell myself. Anyway I know this is a Devine connection because I've never heard of you before ever in my life. Because I'm so disconnected from everything and everyone. And here you are. I'm excited I'm wowed I'm crying and a flood of emotion that I normally cant put into words are flowing in this comment. I'm so ready to listen to what is next for my life. I since the pain,depression, sadnesses leaving me as I listen too instructions. God bless you for serving his people. Blessings.
Hi Family. I'm Rodney C Burris. I wrote a book about breaking cycles, and just wanted to share it here. I hope it confirms some things in your life as you keep going! (I share my own story of why this book was important to me, right on my channel -- [that video is called "An Intimate Moment", right on my homepage] --- I hope it touches your heart the same way it touched Mine): Tinyurl.com/GetOffTheCycle
Sis I am the same age I thought it was over for me too. I let so many people go that wouldn't celebrate VICTORY with me. Girl, I'm growing no matter what! I want it and I am going to get it! 57 is just a number; however, it proves that we are still doing something right. Let's grow together in grace. 🔊🛎💃🏾🥂
@@salimaellis3980 57 as well.wishing you well.age is a number and all this we are learning is to benefit ourselves ,our family and our communities. We cannot watch our children lose hope early in life.
Can’t wait to write down all my sick twisted evil thoughts about myself I use to suppress and repress those thoughts. 💭 now I know to expose them stand on them thus giving my power back awesome sauce👍🏾😎
I needed this right now, which is why I had to come this way. 1. Expose that negative self talk for what it is 2. Make a list of all the lies you believe about yourself & expose the lie. 3. Ask yourself the question, if that's a lie, then what's my truth?? Yes!! What is my truth...
Lisa shares wisdom which comes from her heart and her own real life experiences.I pray we all do the same for each other and encourage and lift one another.
Thank you Lisa! I love "Expose the lies" from negative self-talk. It makes me think of challenging the negative self-talk statements with evidence and consider the source. Often times, we are bankrupt or shipwreck by people who do not matter nor can truly see us for who we are. It is time to take back your power and ask our Creator "Who Am I? What's my Purpose? What is the lesson in this storm? Who Am I Becoming? Speak Declarations and Positive Affirmations and walk in them! You come this far by faith, don't let your haters win. You are too Powerful to be Stopped! Shake the dirt off, see your Ideal Self, Rise up and walk! Love and Blessings to All!
My negative self talk that I am evicting today is what I tell myself " I am too old to start having a meaningful life and pursue my dream." I am moving forward seeing all the possibilities in my mind and feeling it in my heart. I am shifting my belief system into thinking positive thoughts and start working. Thank you Lisa.
Hi Family. I'm Rodney C Burris. I wrote a book about breaking cycles, and just wanted to share it here. I hope it confirms some things in your life as you keep going! (I share my own story of why this book was important to me, right on my channel -- [that video is called "An Intimate Moment", right on my homepage] --- I hope it touches your heart the same way it touched Mine): Tinyurl.com/GetOffTheCycle
Lisa, I don’t know if you will ever see this comment, but you changed my life. Thank you sister, for baring your soul so that others could learn from your mistakes and the example you set in how you handled those mistakes. You are just... amazing. I love you
OMG, I just realised that I don't have to stop my negative self talk. I just need to disempower it. I need to stop judging myself and taking myself so seriously. And maybe if I speak to myself with as much love and compassion as you in this video I might actually listen to myself.
I'm done with the belief that God hasn't chosen me to do the healing work he had gifted me with. I'm done with the belief that I am unworthy of love and acknowledgment for my gift. I'm done with believing that I am not qualified enough to be able to move the way God has called me to move through the world. I am done believing that I have to compare myself to other constantly and the lack that I see is the only truth. I am done! I believe that I am enough and that I capable of doing amazing things everyday. I believe I will be successful and I am qualified to do Gods work because God had said so. I believe that I am His hands and His feet and I am working to heal this world through healing myself and those around me. Changing my belief system everyday to mirror the image of love and abundance that God has created me to be!!
Marthe Ndongala You are Worthy! You are Successful! You are Enough! Now turn those into I Am statements and own your new identity! I Am Worthy! I Am Successful! I Am Enough!
Your life is a physical manifestation of what going on in your head, wow love it. Of cause this is so true. I lived my life according to what I wrongly thought my life was, and did not know It was self poison. But once I discovered the power of exposing these thoughts , that was beginning of the magical moment.
We are drowning in negative exposure. I want to thank you for being a life raft and beacon for those of us desperately seeking a mentor, a guide, a life raft to something better. Bless you! BIG HUG
Beautiful Lisa. Thank you for the teacher you are and proving a safe space. I like the fact you are true to your self and others. I hit rock bottom. Never seen you before i know this was not by accident. I keep pushing by forgiveness and loving myself and respecting myself. I have let go of people in my life and live the life that i deserve i am working on me and learning to take care of me and put god first and myself next.That is a big challenge for me i always put others first. I have been and workaholic working 80 hours a week killing myself. I am starting to live.Thank you for letting me breathe.
I am definitely in the process of changing my mindset. As a man thinketh(mind) in his heart (belief), so is he. In my second half of my life (just turned 40 last year) I am needing and desiring to experience not just a new level, but a new dimension of who God is and what He wants from me. So all of that negative thinking about my personal and professional life has to cease. I read your book Abundance Now, even had a book discussion on it. I completed the exercise of exposing the lies and writing down the truth and cried through it. I have never been in this place before, however, it is empowering. Thank you! (Still trying to come and see you in person one day)
Hello Lisa, first of all I want to thank God for the connection He's allowed me to have with you, though distant yet so near. I truly believe the connection is fueled by my desire to be in total alignment and harmony with purpose and God's will for my life. I have been listening to your series from the beginning of the year and love and appreciate your transparency, love, faith, heartfelt commitment to the calling on your life. You are truly an encouragement. What a gift! What a blessing! :) You said that your life and it's experiences is a culmination of your negative thinking..Ouch What a hard pill to swallow...that we create our own reality by our thoughts; we stop our progress by our thoughts which eventually becomes something we give faith and energy to and then we speak or frame our words to tell what we see or envision. I thought it was by what we spoke into the atmosphere but no "as a man thinks in his heart, so is he". Wow! We are made in the image and likeness of our God, the Creator; and He's given us the same ability to create. He's helping me to understand this better by teachers like you, resources like the "Switch on the Brain" by Dr. Caroline Leaf. I realize that there are some dynamic experiences that have come to me I haven't fully embraced yet. (relationships - right ones, business opportunity, a healthy and consistent exercised lifestyle) I believe some set backs are from fear and how I believe in myself, time management (my plate is full, so I get tired). How do I render these negative thoughts powerless? I liked what you shared from a previous video on the power of words (I am) and affirmations and how you talked yourself into your passion and changed your state of mind. That will be my next weapon to wheel...I can't give up. Thank you! Renee
#BOL !! I’m not gonna live IN my negative thoughts, insecurities, I am going to use them as something to stand on! Leave them under you! ❤️🙌🏾 amen. What a word Lisa.
#BOL 🌟STOP, FEEL IT, BREATHE AND KEEP MOVING🌟 "Your life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts that's going on in your head" ✅ Expose the negative self talk
#BOL!! Oh my goodness reflecting after watching this video I realize one of my negative self talk messages is "I'm never ready" which also couples with "I'm never on time", "I'm never prepared" etc. so I stay in the gathering information state rather than jumping into action. AAAAAHHH! #BOL #BOL I didn't actually realize how detrimental these phrases have been to me stepping into my purpose or how helpful they've been in keeping me in the SAME position year after year. "Your life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts in your head." I Will walk with that today and get to shifting my thoughts and getting into action. THANK YOU! #IAMOR
I'm so tired! SO tired of the crap running around in my head about myself when will i start to believe that i am a good person who can achieve greatness xx
Carla Gibson Hey Carla, we have all picked up negative thoughts..words from around us. Here are practical things that have shifted me to certainty and well being for longer spaces of time. Ok. So..take care of your body. Think how you can eat better..then sleep better. Dress better..this offers your Soul the outer support.the structure it relies on to thrive and be clear and beautiful. Aim for micro wins..you are going to feel better and better..oh and take quiet time..sit or lie down quietly..this will show you guidance. The easiest fastest healthiest routes for you to take. Hope this helps. Sending love.Liah
Thank you so much for your reply Liah it means the world to me when people connect with me xx I am just feeling so absolutely bogged down and overwhelmed at the moment and i can not see a way out of my fog !! I have things being thrown at me daily its like the universe is saying "here take some more crap" and i just want to understand Why?!
Carla Gibson gee carla im sorry and I am going through that too for along time. So I really feel what you are saying. When I break down I finally stood and cried..why.G-d.Why are you allowing this. It really helped to release..and thats so important. Because carrying that feeling is too much. If you take care of your physical self. Your mind will also get stronger .clearer..and that means you will begin to start doing things that will help you..we naturally tend to leave our body when we are stressed in fear worry or overwhelmed. So first bring yourself to be still quiet. Sit down and do nothing for as long as possible . and this will still the chaos the noise..the chatter or FOG.like you so accurately call it. Your high self will then speak and you will hear it. We forget to stay connected but its the only way we are able to know where to go.what to do or Say..its magical. We truly do start to be guided.inspired. and your confidence will start coming through. Trust the voice within.like christina aguillera song..I have to say..I see that my pain has given me the wisdom to also share and help someone else. And that to me is so precious. It means I see that I am so loving.kind.and special like One of G-ds helpers sometimes. This is coming from a place of like a healthy self esteem .not pride or arrogance. .It came by me focusing on mini steps. Along my day..its rooting yourself down so you can reach high.higher...I hope you find this helpful. Especially the attention to your bodies needs. Look for ways to improve. You are not alone ..You will find so much love and support .and getting your power back. Sending you love.Liah
Carla..when I said look for ways to improve..I meant..improve how you take care of yourself..say with eating better or sleeping better. Your self esteem will come through within 3-4 weeks. Just keep taking care..xx
Hi Family. I'm Rodney C Burris. I wrote a book about breaking cycles, and just wanted to share it here. I hope it confirms some things in your life as you keep going! (I share my own story of why this book was important to me, right on my channel -- [that video is called "An Intimate Moment", right on my homepage] --- I hope it touches your heart the same way it touched Mine): Tinyurl.com/GetOffTheCycle
The Devil tries it with me but all I can say is YES, YES! So I had to refer back to your book "Abundance Now" which I love and read already. Due to i was running into new connections that were 10 steps ahead of me in business and I'm not going to lie those negative thoughts of; who do you think you are and they are going to judge you popped up. And I said oh what a minute what would; Friend, Mentor and Coach in my head Lisa Nichols say; so I cracked open your book to Chapter 3 and read it from beginning to the end of the chapter and was on my way. Bye bye negative thoughts and I took notes so next time I can really acknowledge it, check it and keep it moving. Because I need people around me to make me stand on my tiny toes but except thee authentic me. I AM ON MY WAY!! YES, YES all day. Thanks Lisa Nichols.
I get it! I am going to be intentional about evicting negative self talk. Thank you, bless you Lisa for making truth available for everyone. You are a life changer. Love You!
Hi Family. I'm Rodney C Burris. I wrote a book about breaking cycles, and just wanted to share it here. I hope it confirms some things in your life as you keep going! (I share my own story of why this book was important to me, right on my channel -- [that video is called "An Intimate Moment", right on my homepage] --- I hope it touches your heart the same way it touched Mine): Tinyurl.com/GetOffTheCycle
A lot of people think 'if I see it I'll believe it', but in actuality, it's from the inside out, believing to see it. Thank you for pointing out to confront the negative self talk by writing it. My biggest problem is not knowing what to do with those negative thoughts. This helped me a lot. I appreciate you Lisa.
Lisa nichols..... lovely today i"ve listen you for very very 1st time in my lifee and literally you make a permanent place in my heart..... thanku soo very very much... for...doing this fantastic work.... and your speech and thoughts will help for millions of people and me as well to full fill his/ her dreams......love you bless you....😊😊😊😙😙😙😙
Gautam parmar she has totally etched her way into the heart of those who have been fortunate to come across her or her work. Her voice soothes the soul and backed by positivity, she gets you every time.
CHANN3L TH3SPIRIT .... and thanku so much for reply and am feeling thay she" somehow connected with me thanks a lot ...... and i truly appriciate your words for her.... thanku
Thank you for your lovely words... I feel so grateful when my message resonates with people and inspires others to heal and grow. Yes YES, my friend! I see you! xoxo
I am so grateful to have noticed you in the film the secret !! ever since you are one of my best virtual and spiritual Freind Lisa Nichols I love you dearly my greatest hope is to meet you one day and hug you tight❤️❤️❤️
just one feeling...which comes straight away from the bottom of my heart...is... Thank you... Thanks a lot...n love u...your words...your thoughts...your power...your presence...your persona ...just...love u for what u are doing...
Me too I’m reading and keeping a journal it helps me take all those good and bad thoughts out of my head. Now I highlight the good so when I’m feeling down I only read real good things that happen to me. I hope it helps👍🏼
What I've learned in how to reduce negative self talk is to get up in the morning and start with a few deep breaths and say out loud "I choose joy and I choose to live in happiness and abundance". The same thing I do in the morning and I've noticed that I have way way less negative self talk per day, per week.... and now on my way to speak on stage about my vision for the world. I've just seen 2 of your talks, starting with "never dim your light" not sure if it's the right title and got so inspired I cried. I can only work and open up to become as an inspirational speaker as you are and I thank you for opening up and sharing you
Lisa, I appreciate your videos. I am so sick and tired of the negative thoughts I have in my head about myself and child. For the sake of my child. I really need to get rid of them to protect my child and myself . I am a good person and loved by God. I just pray it's not too late to cancel all the negative thoughts. These days when something goes wrong I blame myself due to the constant negative thoughts I have .. my son was attacked by a dog I blamed myself for it ... I was abused as a child and these thoughts take over my mind everyday and it plays out like a movie.. I want to protect my child ..it can not happen to him... it's really sick .. I will keep watc hing your videos and get your books cos Itruely need to fight these demons in my head x
What I'm evicting today is , I'm a 45 year old woman thats too old to realize my dream. Lisa has been more than a blessing in my life. She is changing my mindset each and every day.
hi Lisa, i start listening to you, i love your energy it's contagious and it's help me move every morning , I like it because it feels real not to much just the right amount of it ! thank you
In response to negative thoughts... You can't stop birds from flying over your head, but you can keep them from building a nest... Love your recordings Lisa.
Ooooooo MG!! For realllll! I know now my gift is to edifying of people. To give people a friendly reminder of the greatness that we already have within. I literally find a positive in everything. People txt, call and come to me at work and ask for encouragement!! But with that I fight NEGATIVE SELF TALK. I say fight because our words are so powerful no matter if we speak negative or positive, facts or truthhh honeyyyy. Saying craziness like that killssss me I could just die for so chocolate cake!! 😐 ummmmmm reallllly?? Any hoo let me get back on track Suga!! As I am working today I will make a list of my negative self talk and figure out the truth. Because what I do know for sure I am perfect in my Creators image, I am above and NOT beneath, I AM the head and NOT the tail everything I touch will be blessed and prosperous. If my God makes sure the birds and the other free animals all good and I'm more valueable!! Ohhhh yesssss baby that's the TRUTH right there and the Faccts/Lies I ain't good enough, I'm ugly, I'm this and that those are the lies, and at times I still do NeGative self talk!! Honeyyyy Ima go ahead and get my life!! Thank you my Sweet Baby Angel for this reminder!! Air high five
I stopped in my tracks when you said "If this is a lie, then what is my truth?" Identifying a new path through opposites is super powerful. I should know - I've gone from being pessimistic, cynical and cold to being optimistic, faithful and loving. If a cynic like me could do it anybody can!
Lisa, you are the first female motivation speaker I have been able to look up to. I search daily for strong women to look up to. What is a tip for always being emotional and wanting to cry?
Ashley Mussori. Hi Ashley, Its a few things together..you are sensitive and empathic..these are SPECIAL qualities. BUT you will have to learn to manage yourself in this world. In time, you will be serving and experience so much 😂.joy. You have to strengthen your inner house. This is your body .so eating the best things you can to be strong and healthy..you will feel stronger in your presence . also practise quiet time.sitting still..this will keep you connected to the higher self ...for me this is where I feel I connect myself with G-d. Something beyond myself that guides me. If. I show up .just sit quietly comfortably..maybe 3 times a day for 10 min..etc. This will teach you that you can be an observer AND be the one who is in control..with the awareness..you will begin to see more..understand what is worthy of a response and what is not. So now your energy is full or you keep filling it..by proper care for your needs and you will be using your energy to be effective..It is a raw state you describe but it must be harnessed ok...you got this!! Try ..test..improve..you will learn the balance..of goodness and strength combined. XxLiah
Thank you Lisa for your empowering invitation to let go and evict the “perpetual negativity and old beliefs” I am evicting my beliefs of not feeling good or worthy enough; being too old to create the life that I love and where I love; not having the courage or tools to write my stories and share them with the world. I’ve been saying to myself, “who do you think you are? You don’t have what it takes and you are past your prime” 🥴 There is a part of me that knows that these aren’t true, that I am so much more than that, but I have been stuck in the swamp for a while now and I am sick and tired of it! Time to say Yes Yes to me, myself and I and the gifts I have to offer the World! 🤩💫💖 I am so grateful for you Lisa! Your energy is dynamic, loving, caring and contagious! You are a goddess and a welcome gift to me! I only just discovered you through watching some Mindvalley videos yesterday. 😍🥰
I know you’ve heard this a MILLION times but here’s a million & 1... THANK YOU. Your OBEDIENCE to God is setting people FREE. What sticks out to me the most, and it’s not even from this talk, is... “you don’t get to make me extraordinary to let yourself off the hook.” Do you have any idea of what those words mean to me!,!? So Iiiiiiii can do it to!?!?!? My goodness, Lisa💝
I love the BOL, Dont take up real estate, things you say. I wrote these on my Bathroom mirror, and work locker so I see them everyday. Thank You Lisa! I love You Sister.
Lisa Nichols is my SHERO! You are a phenomenal woman whose spirit is so positive and refreshing. I could listen to you all day. You have certainly made a difference in my life . You truly inspire me to be the best me possible. I thank thee... I salute you for sharing your voice, thoughts, and gift of knowledge with the world. I hear you loud and clear and Yes YESSSSSSS I receive it. Stay blessed my Queen.
Lisa, Lisa, Lisa you are heaven sent... for so many years I have been living with negative thoughts being in the driver seat. These last few weeks I have been fighting to get into the driver seat... your words are powerful. your spirit does touch mine and I am forever GRATEFUL and LOVE YOU TOO!!!
Thank you! I am confident! I am powerful! I am enough!! I said it!! I prayed for God to bring into my life someone who would walk along side of me that would make me accountable, be truthful, and encouraging. Working on giving that back to others. The very next day, Ms. Nichols, the Lord introduced me to you through RUclips and said learn from her, and so I am! Thank you for sharing your life lessons and know that you are appreciated for sharing those gifts!
My moment is when you said exposing the lies and replacing them. Another one is when said you"I love you", I must have needed that because it touched (and still touches) me deeply!! I love you and respect you ! Thank you!!!🎶
I am evicting the selftalk that I am not beautiful and not a powerful force. I am a beautiful force that loves and acknowledges the unique and eclectic individual who is me. I AM CONFIDENT, I AM POWERFUL and I AM ENOUGH! Lisa I cannot Express the gratitude that I have for you and your journey enough. Ever since the first time I seen you on the Steve Harvey show years ago. It unveiled a deep buried spark inside my soul. However, tonight it finally clicked for me that I am POWERFUL enough to recognize and conquer the deep seeded fears and selftalk that I've allowed to run my life for so long. From this moment forward those forces will not drive me, they will only fuel my motivation to push further than I ever knew was possible. Thank you for sharing your knowledge you have gained along your journey. Much love and joy, Ashley
I am on the 5th day of a devotional in my bible app called "Speak Life." Yesterday I actually prayed for wisdom on how to change my negative self talk. And then this video came in my recommendations. I am done with thinking that I'm unlovable, unattractive and not smart. I will not carry those beliefs or thoughts with me throughout my life. I'm so thankful I watched this video. It was literally an answer to a prayer. 🙂❤🙏🏾
God Bless you. I started listening to your youtube videos yesterday. In the last couple of weeks I have had the constant thought in my head of "Where is my tribe?" Yesterday i heard the term micro win from you. I'm 50. I'm in a new job, have been feeling overwhelmed for months. Today because of you. I took a moment to revel in getting something right. I would not have done that before. I forgot to celebrate the victories that I've earned through my hard work and awesome work ethic. You have a fan for life.
"Your life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts you're thinking in you head." Yes, YES! I'll walk with that not only today but starting today. ❤️
This message connected with me on so many levels. 7 months ago I stepped out on faith by leaving a company I worked 3.3 years with. 3 months ago I left my 10year fashion retail career totally. I am a fine artist/actress but most importantly a child of God. My decisions were made with purpose and divine intervention. Since then I have had many anxious thoughts and moments. I'm so thankful that I was led to your video today. It helped me to understand where they are coming from. Many of your videos have helped me through this year and led to me stepping out on faith. I am truly thankful for your story and wisdom.
"your life is a physical manifestation of the conversation going on in your head." Yes, yes. "Don't be afraid to expose your negative self-talk." Ask if that's a lie, what's my truth? Yes, yes 😎 Some of the self talk I had to dump was negative self-talk that I wasn't good enough and that it wasn't safe to be seen or heard. One thing that I learned from Lisa was to count my "wins". So I set myself up for daily wins by keeping a daily planner of small doable tasks ( at least 10- that is how small these goals are) and this keeps me " focused" on positive daily wins.". Thanks for all you guys do to help make the world a happier place and helping others want more and better for their lives.🥰😍🤗
Yes, I need to hear,listen,think positve, and speak and move with small steps and with short term goals in mind! I am not listening to all the negative people who obstruct others! I need to stay in prayer and rest with lots of self care! By the way, red, fuscia, and orange look good on you!
I Evict self sabotage, fear of money and receiving money, abusive relationships and insecurities in my worthiness out of my mind. My Truth is I am a Radiant Light of The Universe; Invincible, Indestructible, Unfathomable, Incorruptible, Indescribable and Uncustomed. Thank you my dearest Sister Lisa Nichols and the entire Community for this BTM (Break through moment)!!!💓💓💓
Lisa I just want to thank you for saying Yes Yes to finding yourself and then helping us to find our true selves too. I'm done with the fear of the Unknown that has ripped me off my happiness and health, I'm so done with it. Yes Yes I embrace happiness and a fantastic good health. God bless you Lisa. I love you baby.
Lisa Lisa Lisa. God put you in my feed so that I can unlock my purpose. It’s so an amazing. I remember October of last year, I was falling into a dark place and found your book “abundance now” on RUclips. I listened to it over the course of days and now I’m at a place I could only imagine. Living out my dream of working in Hawaii, started my website and I KNOW in my heart that my purpose is closer to being fulfilled. Also I did the “lies” activity and am still working through it. Amazing and God bless you my sister 💜
I'm done with being afraid of being successful and of worrying about what other people think of me. Whether they like me or not. I'm done! Yes! Yes! Thank you.
About a month ago, I discovered the beauty that is ‘The Lisa Nichols Experience’. You came into my life at the perfect time! I’ve decided to brave the world & actually do what I want to do w/my life. I have an acctg degree & have been doing it for 10 yrs; but, dance is my true love (been dancing since 9) & I decided back in Mar that I deserve my REAL desires in life. This is a SCARY thought bc I’m 36 (stereotypically a dinosaur in dance). I’ve told myself that I am too old, not talented enough, too dark, too plain-Jane, etc. for years…& those negative thoughts have kept me trapped in acctg; however, since I was a little girl I’ve known that I have a grand purpose & I know I’ll be able to help people w/whatever my platform is. Oh but those negative thoughts! Despite the fact that I’ve been training like crazy the past few months, I’m still not quite convinced. Then today’s video notification came through. This is the 2nd time I’ve heard you mention the Expose the Lies exercise & I think it’s time to brave it. Thank you for all that you’ve done for me this past month…you have NO idea how much you’ve helped so far. I really think I’ve found my sensei! Book purchases otw! Love & light to you!
Thank you Lisa. Everyone has the negative self talk whether we want to admit it or not. When you are getting ready to level up in your life there's those thoughts that come up simply because you're leaving your "safe zone". When I recognize these thoughts, I stop, acknowledge the thought, do my 4 second breathing exercise, and then I counter those thoughts with my achievements thus far. Saying to myself look at all I have already achieved by not giving up, and then, I get excited because my spirit knows even before me that I'm about to level up in my life!
Lisa, thanks for asking us to comment. You are a beautiful soul. I appreciate you speaking into our lives. Not letting the negative thoughts drive today. Throwing them in the trunk or better yet, out the window!
Lisa, I did the exercise you suggested in the Disempower Your Negative Thoughts video. I wrote down three pages of negative thoughts I told myself throughout my life. When I got to numbers 81 , 82 and 83 my Breakthrough Out Loud came. I realized that my lack of confidence is rooted in a childhood behavior. When I was young, I talked too much, and I would get in trouble for it. As a result, I trained myself into silence for fear of getting in trouble. My voice was trained not to come forward out of fear. It changed everything for me when I understood why I responded to a horrific sexual assault incident a few years ago with silence. The lie I'm done with is, I can't tell you what I want to say. I am so glad I did the action and put the lie to bed. Now I can believe that I deserve my future. Now, I can do the training it takes to have a voice of authority and the power to transform. Proverbs 25:2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter but it is the glory of Kings to search out a matter. I give God the glory in this revelation. It is healing my soul. Thank you, thank you, thank you Lisa. Love Scarlett
Dear Lisa, your words are like water in the desert for me right now. I have watched a couple of your videos earlier and loved them too but stopping at this video while searchig for something else seems like a devine intervention to me. THANK YOU so much for helping us get in touch with the stronger,authentic and obsolute self made in the image of GOD himself. I would be honored to be a part of your tribe. Would share the link of your videos to freinds and associates who i know would greatly benefit from the same. GOD BLESS YOU..
I am getting your book Abundance Now TODAY!!!!!! I am so glad that I stumbled upon you. I have ruined so many relationships and wasted 49 years on negative self talk......Thank you so much
Ms. Nichols.. It was with no coincidence that my sister sent me a clip from an interview you did.. Yesterday I had to evict (yes I actually yelled at him that he was evicted) the devil aka negative thoughts out of my head & house & oh what a liberating feeling that was!!!! I could see my lies clearer and it made me HUNGRY for my truths!! Thank you for pouring into me as I FIND my truth! Next level... Living my life in Abundance Now.. Blessings -Wendy B
Extremely motivational. I do agree that people have negative thoughts. But I am a person of Jesus I always see positive things through the negative prism. Thank you very much, Lisa.
Lisa, thank you for sharing your wisdom! I had three BOLs: 1. Negative thoughts are rooted in something that happened in my life. This taught me that I need to reflect on the origins of my negative thoughts and let go of them because they are based on my past and I have to be present in the now where I can make a different choice. 2. Negative thoughts come, but I can choose possibility. This teaches me that it's okay to have negative thoughts, but I can choose to believe in the good that can happen. 3. My life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts in my head. This inspires me because if I have negative thoughts that become negative experiences, I can have positive thoughts that become positive experiences.
OMG BOL when you said stand on it not in it that resonated. So many times I’m standing in the negative space being engulfed by negativity but that deep breathe, feel it, but don’t buy into it, means if I’m standing on my negative self talk my perspective isn’t diminished. It’s easier to see the sunrise from the ground up than buried under the rumble of my fears. Thank you Lisa needed this today 💜
You gave me a new outlook today! Why live a lie? "Your life is the physical manifestation of the thoughts you are thinking in your head." What is there to lose in changing the thoughts to positive ones? The truth will set you free! Thank you!
3 months ago I was diagnosed with depression and it started with panic attacks. Now I'm feeling better after processing my past and working on new beliefsystems. I found you 3 days ago on YT. Thank you so much for given me hope to get through this. I think that this issue is helping me to change my thoughts and its my breakthrough! Lots of love
Thank you so much Lisa, I am so blessed when I found you in youtube. I have so many negative self talk in my head, I am not bright enough, I am old to have partner in life, I have no money to start my business, I feel alone, I am so so so afraid, I have big big fear inside me. I will inspire by your message and all the comments here because I know that I am not the only one who feel this negative thought that can kill me little by little. Your are an angel to us,I love you Sister Lisa.
There is an overwhelming plethora of self-development info out there and it’s easy to get caught up in overload and conflicting information but I love Lisa’s simple, enjoyable exercises that get to the heart of the problem and offers long-term solutions to serious issues.
Hi Lisa, I am a Life Coach and a HNLP practitioner, and I love to hear you talk. You have a beautiful soul, and I feel truly happy that you overcame your struggles and is leaving your dream. You are very inspiring. I am 54 years old, work part time and go to school part time. One day I will live my dream life too. Thanks for all you do!
The more videos I watch the more I fall in love with your mind and soul. You don’t know me or haven’t met me but you have touched my soul and tapped into a part I never knew existed. Your talks, your books, your videos, have and still are helping me out of this dark place I crawled into. Please never stop being you bc it is helping me find myself 🙏🏽❤️ God bless you
This just made me whole because I just realized how long I’ve been living a lie ... I haven’t excepted the pain I have been through and tried to change it ... and now I’m not able to recognize the lady I see in the mirror every day .. but this video was my starting point. I’m not sure how far I’m going but I’m on the journey to find my core... thank you
I am evicting my negative self talk that I won’t be able to achieve my dreams. I always have anxiety and negative thoughts about rejection. I’ve always been scared of what will people think of me if i do or don’t do things how they want it. Its crippling, paralysing, and suffocating. There’s always thoughts in my head that tells me I’m gonna fail or i wont be happy before I could even make a move. And you’re right Lisa, it has to be exposed and I need to confront it then I’m gonna shut it up by telling the truth out of that lie it’s been telling..love you Lisa! 😘♥️thank you so much. God bless you
#BOL, my life has been a roller coaster with self-negative talk. When I'm at the edge of a breakthrough, the talks will keep coming in like a river. Now, I know I have to write them out and ask myself what is my truth. Thank you sister in prosperity and Possibility. This is my victory!
I started the "Expose the Lies" exercise about a month or so ago. I stopped because I did not think I was ready to go through the emotions, thereby blocking my own breakthrough. Lisa, you said in this episode, "Your life is the physical manifestation of the thoughts going on in your head." #BOL. I've listened to this episode before but was not ready or open to hear it until now. I went back to my stack of lies and started writing my truths and something just opened up inside of me as I started to speak the lies and then speak the truth. I really had my breakthrough when I started erasing those lies and started to just speak the truth. Thank you for yet again pouring into me so that I could come from that dark place. One of my truths that I wrote a few times is something that I picked up from my 8-year old son's school theme, "I AM the face of GOD." I feel like the Universe is on my side.
I want to give up the negative thought that I’m not feminine enough , im done with caring what people think of me. I am done with allowing people in my space and energy that do not deserve. I am done with financial struggle or thinking I will not have a healthy relations with money. Thanks you Lisa, I had to stop, feel it, breathe and keep it moving while I wrote this 💜🙏🏽
Thank you Lisa! I've been listening to a number of your talks every day for a week now and My feelings of doubts and fear are now shifting to wonder and possibilities. I'm ready to shift the conversation going on in my head. I am upleveling NOW! Yes YES!!
My negative thought about my communication skills . I always think as I can't do. Now I believe that I can do.. Thank u Ms Lisa Nicholas. Thank u for motivating so many youths.
LISA IS MY UNPAID THERAPIST.
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yes. YES!
Time is money.
PERIOD!!!
Infinity Vibe ikrrrrr
Makes millions of us
I am done with self sabotage, I am done with the pain that lives in my body, mind and spirit. I am done with unhealthy eating and relationships. I am done with being fearful about money.
Yesss girl!! I am writing down my lies right now!
You're sooo Strong keep going
i love this so much
5 years later and the comment still is making an impact. Thank you 🙏🏾
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Lisa thank you so much for these powerful, ground shifting, messages. My OLD belief system was that I wasn't smart enough to start my business where I was. I needed everything to be perfect. The perfect amount in my bank account, the perfect people, perfect atmosphere etc...Then what happened...I was laid off along with 1000s of others. But instead of me beating myself down I started having conversations with me and affirmations help too!! Ive made MORE moves in the past 4 mths than I have in the 7yrs of me wishing for my dreams to come to pass. Im still a work in progress. But I have PROGRESS and that keeps me going with a smile on my face. I just wanted to share with you other ladies that no matter what life throws at you, KEEP BELIEVING IN YOURSELF. If YOU believe then thats all you need and your pretty much there. Be blessed everyone!!
Bahiya13 Thanks for sharing your story.
Bahiya13 I LOOOOVEEE this! #BOL Breakthrough Out Loud!!! You go girl! Rarely, if EVER, do circumstances line up perfectly for us to take the first step towards our goal. Often we let the strive for perfection lead us to become masters of procrastination and we stay still. ACTION is the anti-dote to despair AND the prescription for success. Stay moving to avoid shutting down. Our mantra: Have a YES YES Mentality! Come with it, girl! xoxox
Lisa Nichols Your response made me cry!!! Thank you Lisa!! Im going to keep pushing forward! YES YES!!
klayryssa You're welcome!!
i love this and i wanted to take a step too
STOP, BREATH, AND KEEP MOVING
BOL - My life is "a physical manifestation of the thoughts going on" in my head. Lisa, today I own this.
BOL! Im done with my scarcity mindset. Done with being scared to look stupid. Done with the fear of being too much, too overbearing or annoying. Done with calling myself stupid and other self-deprecating jokes! Shrinking myself in any space I occupy. Speaking softly so that I won't be heard in case I say something stupid. Not saying anything at all.
I just dumped my negative self talk on Interstate 285! Lol!
Too funny!
I’m on 285 bouldercrest rd Atlanta 😂😂
Lisa you are such amazing person
Is it possible to love someone instantly? Where have you been all my life? At 43 years old and having struggled mental illness my whole life (BPD included) I got to a final crossroad, it was all or nothing and I choose ALL. Me and my new journal are going to soak up all the information you have to give, and use it as a guideline to a better, hopefully happier me. Having just found you yesterday and only seen 2 videos sofar, the way you speak and radiate feels like coming to a warm, loving and understanding home. Thank you already and God bless you, beautiful lady 💖
Girl this brought tears to my eyes!!! I know I'm in the process of building my abundance blueprint and every time I hear you speak it's just genuine love flowing from the deeps of your soul!!!!
Lisa thank you so much..May God guide you and protect your ways..And May God continue to give you more wisdom..after watching this brought tears to my eyes!!!I know I'm in the process of building my abundance blueprint and every time I hear you speak it's just genuine love flowing from the deeps of my soul...!!!! May God bless you)))
I evict limiting beliefs and I am done with dimming my light.
Love, peace and blessings to you Lisa and to all you beautiful people out there 🙏🖤🙏
YES YES!!! I encourage everyone to do the expose the lies exercise. It gets a bit emotional when you see all these lies before you that you had previously allowed to determine and run your life. You can't help but cry when you look at the truth as well because new possibilities reveal themselves instantly and you snatch your power back and own it. Do the exercise, it's life transforming. Plus it also makes it clear to you WHOSE thoughts you've really been thinking.
I totally agree!
Yessssss CHANN3L TH3SPIRIT!! Uncovering our lies... exposing them and shining light on our lies can create a bit of disruption. Let's remember that this is good and will help us heal from old, broken behaviors that no longer benefit us. So often our lies were created trying to protect ourselves in harmful situations in the past. Today looks very different for most of us, and we are reminded we no longer need to lie to ourselves to feel ok. We are worthy of HEALTHY love, jobs, and relationships! Abundance is everywhere! xoxo
EXPOSE the LIES!!!
Thanks Lisa.
I'm done with leaning on my insecurities.
I'm done with thinking I'm not able to be myself.
I'm done believing that people are judging me.
I am 57 years old and I really felt there was no,possibility of changing anything about myself for so many reasons. And I just happened to ask the father for a mentor for my life. I don't know why I'm so shocked when he answers me well I do because that's one of the lies I tell myself. Anyway I know this is a Devine connection because I've never heard of you before ever in my life. Because I'm so disconnected from everything and everyone. And here you are. I'm excited I'm wowed I'm crying and a flood of emotion that I normally cant put into words are flowing in this comment. I'm so ready to listen to what is next for my life. I since the pain,depression, sadnesses leaving me as I listen too instructions. God bless you for serving his people.
Blessings.
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Hi Family. I'm Rodney C Burris. I wrote a book about breaking cycles, and just wanted to share it here. I hope it confirms some things in your life as you keep going! (I share my own story of why this book was important to me, right on my channel -- [that video is called "An Intimate Moment", right on my homepage] --- I hope it touches your heart the same way it touched Mine): Tinyurl.com/GetOffTheCycle
phyliis thurston :-)
Sis I am the same age I thought it was over for me too. I let so many people go that wouldn't celebrate VICTORY with me. Girl, I'm growing no matter what! I want it and I am going to get it! 57 is just a number; however, it proves that we are still doing something right. Let's grow together in grace. 🔊🛎💃🏾🥂
@@salimaellis3980 57 as well.wishing you well.age is a number and all this we are learning is to benefit ourselves ,our family and our communities. We cannot watch our children lose hope early in life.
Can’t wait to write down all my sick twisted evil thoughts about myself I use to suppress and repress those thoughts. 💭 now I know to expose them stand on them thus giving my power back awesome sauce👍🏾😎
I needed this right now, which is why I had to come this way. 1. Expose that negative self talk for what it is 2. Make a list of all the lies you believe about yourself & expose the lie. 3. Ask yourself the question, if that's a lie, then what's my truth?? Yes!! What is my truth...
Lisa shares wisdom which comes from her heart and her own real life experiences.I pray we all do the same for each other and encourage and lift one another.
My life is a physcial manifestation of the thoughts going on in my head! #Bol
Thank you Lisa! I love "Expose the lies" from negative self-talk. It makes me think of challenging the negative self-talk statements with evidence and consider the source. Often times, we are bankrupt or shipwreck by people who do not matter nor can truly see us for who we are. It is time to take back your power and ask our Creator "Who Am I? What's my Purpose? What is the lesson in this storm? Who Am I Becoming? Speak Declarations and Positive Affirmations and walk in them! You come this far by faith, don't let your haters win. You are too Powerful to be Stopped! Shake the dirt off, see your Ideal Self, Rise up and walk! Love and Blessings to All!
My negative self talk that I am evicting today is what I tell myself " I am too old to start having a meaningful life and pursue my dream." I am moving forward seeing all the possibilities in my mind and feeling it in my heart. I am shifting my belief system into thinking positive thoughts and start working. Thank you Lisa.
Zed Minale awesome! You deserve the life of your dreams! You woke up this morning so you still have work today!
✌️ and Blessings!
Well done for taking the first step.
Hi Family. I'm Rodney C Burris. I wrote a book about breaking cycles, and just wanted to share it here. I hope it confirms some things in your life as you keep going! (I share my own story of why this book was important to me, right on my channel -- [that video is called "An Intimate Moment", right on my homepage] --- I hope it touches your heart the same way it touched Mine): Tinyurl.com/GetOffTheCycle
I'm 18 years old and I feel so grateful that i found you, you are an amazing personality, thank you for helping us, you have given me so much hope🙏❤
I'm evicting myself doubt... I am going to be sure of my will
carla choclatechip Great Carla! You are worthy!
Thank you Lisa. You are teaching me to move forward in my self love journey.
Lisa, I don’t know if you will ever see this comment, but you changed my life. Thank you sister, for baring your soul so that others could learn from your mistakes and the example you set in how you handled those mistakes. You are just... amazing. I love you
I have to evict the thought that I will never make any money, because that has been troubling me for the longest time.
OMG, I just realised that I don't have to stop my negative self talk. I just need to disempower it. I need to stop judging myself and taking myself so seriously. And maybe if I speak to myself with as much love and compassion as you in this video I might actually listen to myself.
I'm done with the belief that God hasn't chosen me to do the healing work he had gifted me with. I'm done with the belief that I am unworthy of love and acknowledgment for my gift. I'm done with believing that I am not qualified enough to be able to move the way God has called me to move through the world. I am done believing that I have to compare myself to other constantly and the lack that I see is the only truth. I am done! I believe that I am enough and that I capable of doing amazing things everyday. I believe I will be successful and I am qualified to do Gods work because God had said so. I believe that I am His hands and His feet and I am working to heal this world through healing myself and those around me. Changing my belief system everyday to mirror the image of love and abundance that God has created me to be!!
Marthe Ndongala You are Worthy! You are Successful! You are Enough! Now turn those into I Am statements and own your new identity!
I Am Worthy! I Am Successful! I Am Enough!
Marthe Ndongala you speak my language! +1. God Bless
Marthe Ndongala Yaaaaaaaasssssssss sista I love love love this
Marthe Ndongala you made me cry
Yessss come on!!! 🙌🏾✨✨✨✨
I love you Lisa you are the perfect example of a woman that is an overcomer you made it over to the brighter side of life.
Your life is a physical manifestation of what going on in your head, wow love it. Of cause this is so true. I lived my life according to what I wrongly thought my life was, and did not know It was self poison. But once I discovered the power of exposing these thoughts , that was beginning of the magical moment.
We are drowning in negative exposure. I want to thank you for being a life raft and beacon for those of us desperately seeking a mentor, a guide, a life raft to something better. Bless you! BIG HUG
Beautiful Lisa. Thank you for the teacher you are and proving a safe space. I like the fact you are true to your self and others. I hit rock bottom. Never seen you before i know this was not by accident. I keep pushing by forgiveness and loving myself and respecting myself. I have let go of people in my life and live the life that i deserve i am working on me and learning to take care of me and put god first and myself next.That is a big challenge for me i always put others first. I have been and workaholic working 80 hours a week killing myself. I am starting to live.Thank you for letting me breathe.
I'm more inspired by this.
I am ready to evict and dump the negative self talk that I'm not pretty!
I am definitely in the process of changing my mindset. As a man thinketh(mind) in his heart (belief), so is he. In my second half of my life (just turned 40 last year) I am needing and desiring to experience not just a new level, but a new dimension of who God is and what He wants from me. So all of that negative thinking about my personal and professional life has to cease. I read your book Abundance Now, even had a book discussion on it. I completed the exercise of exposing the lies and writing down the truth and cried through it. I have never been in this place before, however, it is empowering. Thank you! (Still trying to come and see you in person one day)
Lewana Harris 1
BOL- Disempower your negative self talk. Expose your negative self talk. Thank you Lisa!
Hello Lisa, first of all I want to thank God for the connection He's allowed me to have with you, though distant yet so near. I truly believe the connection is fueled by my desire to be in total alignment and harmony with purpose and God's will for my life. I have been listening to your series from the beginning of the year and love and appreciate your transparency, love, faith, heartfelt commitment to the calling on your life. You are truly an encouragement. What a gift! What a blessing! :)
You said that your life and it's experiences is a culmination of your negative thinking..Ouch What a hard pill to swallow...that we create our own reality by our thoughts; we stop our progress by our thoughts which eventually becomes something we give faith and energy to and then we speak or frame our words to tell what we see or envision. I thought it was by what we spoke into the atmosphere but no "as a man thinks in his heart, so is he". Wow!
We are made in the image and likeness of our God, the Creator; and He's given us the same ability to create. He's helping me to understand this better by teachers like you, resources like the "Switch on the Brain" by Dr. Caroline Leaf. I realize that there are some dynamic experiences that have come to me I haven't fully embraced yet. (relationships - right ones, business opportunity, a healthy and consistent exercised lifestyle) I believe some set backs are from fear and how I believe in myself, time management (my plate is full, so I get tired).
How do I render these negative thoughts powerless? I liked what you shared from a previous video on the power of words (I am) and affirmations and how you talked yourself into your passion and changed your state of mind. That will be my next weapon to wheel...I can't give up. Thank you!
Renee
#BOL !! I’m not gonna live IN my negative thoughts, insecurities, I am going to use them as something to stand on! Leave them under you! ❤️🙌🏾 amen. What a word Lisa.
#BOL 🌟STOP, FEEL IT, BREATHE AND KEEP MOVING🌟
"Your life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts that's going on in your head"
✅ Expose the negative self talk
#BOL!! Oh my goodness reflecting after watching this video I realize one of my negative self talk messages is "I'm never ready" which also couples with "I'm never on time", "I'm never prepared" etc. so I stay in the gathering information state rather than jumping into action. AAAAAHHH! #BOL #BOL I didn't actually realize how detrimental these phrases have been to me stepping into my purpose or how helpful they've been in keeping me in the SAME position year after year. "Your life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts in your head." I Will walk with that today and get to shifting my thoughts and getting into action. THANK YOU! #IAMOR
I'm so tired! SO tired of the crap running around in my head about myself when will i start to believe that i am a good person who can achieve greatness xx
Carla Gibson Hey Carla, we have all picked up negative thoughts..words from around us. Here are practical things that have shifted me to certainty and well being for longer spaces of time. Ok. So..take care of your body. Think how you can eat better..then sleep better. Dress better..this offers your Soul the outer support.the structure it relies on to thrive and be clear and beautiful. Aim for micro wins..you are going to feel better and better..oh and take quiet time..sit or lie down quietly..this will show you guidance. The easiest fastest healthiest routes for you to take. Hope this helps. Sending love.Liah
Thank you so much for your reply Liah it means the world to me when people connect with me xx I am just feeling so absolutely bogged down and overwhelmed at the moment and i can not see a way out of my fog !! I have things being thrown at me daily its like the universe is saying "here take some more crap" and i just want to understand Why?!
Carla Gibson gee carla im sorry and I am going through that too for along time. So I really feel what you are saying. When I break down I finally stood and cried..why.G-d.Why are you allowing this. It really helped to release..and thats so important. Because carrying that feeling is too much. If you take care of your physical self. Your mind will also get stronger .clearer..and that means you will begin to start doing things that will help you..we naturally tend to leave our body when we are stressed in fear worry or overwhelmed. So first bring yourself to be still quiet. Sit down and do nothing for as long as possible . and this will still the chaos the noise..the chatter or FOG.like you so accurately call it. Your high self will then speak and you will hear it. We forget to stay connected but its the only way we are able to know where to go.what to do or Say..its magical. We truly do start to be guided.inspired. and your confidence will start coming through. Trust the voice within.like christina aguillera song..I have to say..I see that my pain has given me the wisdom to also share and help someone else. And that to me is so precious. It means I see that I am so loving.kind.and special like One of G-ds helpers sometimes. This is coming from a place of like a healthy self esteem .not pride or arrogance. .It came by me focusing on mini steps. Along my day..its rooting yourself down so you can reach high.higher...I hope you find this helpful. Especially the attention to your bodies needs. Look for ways to improve. You are not alone ..You will find so much love and support .and getting your power back. Sending you love.Liah
Carla..when I said look for ways to improve..I meant..improve how you take care of yourself..say with eating better or sleeping better. Your self esteem will come through within 3-4 weeks. Just keep taking care..xx
Hi Family. I'm Rodney C Burris. I wrote a book about breaking cycles, and just wanted to share it here. I hope it confirms some things in your life as you keep going! (I share my own story of why this book was important to me, right on my channel -- [that video is called "An Intimate Moment", right on my homepage] --- I hope it touches your heart the same way it touched Mine): Tinyurl.com/GetOffTheCycle
The Devil tries it with me but all I can say is YES, YES! So I had to refer back to your book "Abundance Now" which I love and read already. Due to i was running into new connections that were 10 steps ahead of me in business and I'm not going to lie those negative thoughts of; who do you think you are and they are going to judge you popped up. And I said oh what a minute what would; Friend, Mentor and Coach in my head Lisa Nichols say; so I cracked open your book to Chapter 3 and read it from beginning to the end of the chapter and was on my way. Bye bye negative thoughts and I took notes so next time I can really acknowledge it, check it and keep it moving. Because I need people around me to make me stand on my tiny toes but except thee authentic me. I AM ON MY WAY!! YES, YES all day. Thanks Lisa Nichols.
I get it! I am going to be intentional about evicting negative self talk. Thank you, bless you Lisa for making truth available for everyone. You are a life changer. Love You!
Hi Family. I'm Rodney C Burris. I wrote a book about breaking cycles, and just wanted to share it here. I hope it confirms some things in your life as you keep going! (I share my own story of why this book was important to me, right on my channel -- [that video is called "An Intimate Moment", right on my homepage] --- I hope it touches your heart the same way it touched Mine): Tinyurl.com/GetOffTheCycle
A lot of people think 'if I see it I'll believe it', but in actuality, it's from the inside out, believing to see it. Thank you for pointing out to confront the negative self talk by writing it. My biggest problem is not knowing what to do with those negative thoughts. This helped me a lot. I appreciate you Lisa.
Lisa nichols..... lovely today i"ve listen you for very very 1st time in my lifee and literally you make a permanent place in my heart..... thanku soo very very much... for...doing this fantastic work.... and your speech and thoughts will help for millions of people and me as well to full fill his/ her dreams......love you bless you....😊😊😊😙😙😙😙
Gautam parmar she has totally etched her way into the heart of those who have been fortunate to come across her or her work. Her voice soothes the soul and backed by positivity, she gets you every time.
CHANN3L TH3SPIRIT .... and thanku so much for reply and am feeling thay she" somehow connected with me thanks a lot ...... and i truly appriciate your words for her.... thanku
Thank you for your lovely words... I feel so grateful when my message resonates with people and inspires others to heal and grow. Yes YES, my friend! I see you! xoxo
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I am so grateful to have noticed you in the film the secret !! ever since you are one of my best virtual and spiritual Freind Lisa Nichols I love you dearly my greatest hope is to meet you one day and hug you tight❤️❤️❤️
just one feeling...which comes straight away from the bottom of my heart...is... Thank you... Thanks a lot...n love u...your words...your thoughts...your power...your presence...your persona ...just...love u for what u are doing...
I want to feel good and positive but I keep getting stuck. I just want to be happy in spite of my circumstances.
What is your perception of happiness? What woukd you need to have it?
A state of the mind.
Me too I’m reading and keeping a journal it helps me take all those good and bad thoughts out of my head. Now I highlight the good so when I’m feeling down I only read real good things that happen to me. I hope it helps👍🏼
I am evicting the thought of not feeling worthy or seeking others approvals, self doubt and feeling lack in my financial and social life!
Happy comes from inside. Not outside.
What I've learned in how to reduce negative self talk is to get up in the morning and start with a few deep breaths and say out loud "I choose joy and I choose to live in happiness and abundance". The same thing I do in the morning and I've noticed that I have way way less negative self talk per day, per week.... and now on my way to speak on stage about my vision for the world.
I've just seen 2 of your talks, starting with "never dim your light" not sure if it's the right title and got so inspired I cried. I can only work and open up to become as an inspirational speaker as you are and I thank you for opening up and sharing you
Lisa, I appreciate your videos. I am so sick and tired of the negative thoughts I have in my head about myself and child. For the sake of my child. I really need to get rid of them to protect my child and myself . I am a good person and loved by God. I just pray it's not too late to cancel all the negative thoughts. These days when something goes wrong I blame myself due to the constant negative thoughts I have .. my son was attacked by a dog I blamed myself for it ... I was abused as a child and these thoughts take over my mind everyday and it plays out like a movie.. I want to protect my child ..it can not happen to him... it's really sick .. I will keep watc hing your videos and get your books cos Itruely need to fight these demons in my head x
What I'm evicting today is , I'm a 45 year old woman thats too old to realize my dream. Lisa has been more than a blessing in my life. She is changing my mindset each and every day.
I am so done with lying to myself that I need to impress anyone.
Exposing the Lies: On it💪🏽. Power word meant for powerful driven people. Awesome.
hi Lisa, i start listening to you, i love your energy it's contagious and it's help me move every morning , I like it because it feels real not to much just the right amount of it ! thank you
In response to negative thoughts...
You can't stop birds from flying over your head, but you can keep them from building a nest...
Love your recordings Lisa.
Ooooooo MG!! For realllll! I know now my gift is to edifying of people. To give people a friendly reminder of the greatness that we already have within. I literally find a positive in everything. People txt, call and come to me at work and ask for encouragement!! But with that I fight NEGATIVE SELF TALK. I say fight because our words are so powerful no matter if we speak negative or positive, facts or truthhh honeyyyy. Saying craziness like that killssss me I could just die for so chocolate cake!! 😐 ummmmmm reallllly?? Any hoo let me get back on track Suga!! As I am working today I will make a list of my negative self talk and figure out the truth. Because what I do know for sure I am perfect in my Creators image, I am above and NOT beneath, I AM the head and NOT the tail everything I touch will be blessed and prosperous. If my God makes sure the birds and the other free animals all good and I'm more valueable!! Ohhhh yesssss baby that's the TRUTH right there and the Faccts/Lies I ain't good enough, I'm ugly, I'm this and that those are the lies, and at times I still do NeGative self talk!! Honeyyyy Ima go ahead and get my life!! Thank you my Sweet Baby Angel for this reminder!! Air high five
I stopped in my tracks when you said "If this is a lie, then what is my truth?" Identifying a new path through opposites is super powerful. I should know - I've gone from being pessimistic, cynical and cold to being optimistic, faithful and loving. If a cynic like me could do it anybody can!
Skin looks great Lisa! POW
I'm evicting the thought that I'm not good enough #BOL
Lisa, you are the first female motivation speaker I have been able to look up to. I search daily for strong women to look up to. What is a tip for always being emotional and wanting to cry?
Ashley Mussori. Hi Ashley, Its a few things together..you are sensitive and empathic..these are SPECIAL qualities. BUT you will have to learn to manage yourself in this world. In time, you will be serving and experience so much 😂.joy. You have to strengthen your inner house. This is your body .so eating the best things you can to be strong and healthy..you will feel stronger in your presence . also practise quiet time.sitting still..this will keep you connected to the higher self ...for me this is where I feel I connect myself with G-d. Something beyond myself that guides me. If. I show up .just sit quietly comfortably..maybe 3 times a day for 10 min..etc. This will teach you that you can be an observer AND be the one who is in control..with the awareness..you will begin to see more..understand what is worthy of a response and what is not. So now your energy is full or you keep filling it..by proper care for your needs and you will be using your energy to be effective..It is a raw state you describe but it must be harnessed ok...you got this!! Try ..test..improve..you will learn the balance..of goodness and strength combined. XxLiah
Thank you a million, lisa. I appreciate your guidance.
Thank you Lisa for your empowering invitation to let go and evict the “perpetual negativity and old beliefs” I am evicting my beliefs of not feeling good or worthy enough; being too old to create the life that I love and where I love; not having the courage or tools to write my stories and share them with the world.
I’ve been saying to myself, “who do you think you are? You don’t have what it takes and you are past your prime” 🥴 There is a part of me that knows that these aren’t true, that I am so much more than that, but I have been stuck in the swamp for a while now and I am sick and tired of it! Time to say Yes Yes to me, myself and I and the gifts I have to offer the World! 🤩💫💖
I am so grateful for you Lisa! Your energy is dynamic, loving, caring and contagious! You are a goddess and a welcome gift to me! I only just discovered you through watching some
Mindvalley videos yesterday. 😍🥰
I know you’ve heard this a MILLION times but here’s a million & 1... THANK YOU. Your OBEDIENCE to God is setting people FREE. What sticks out to me the most, and it’s not even from this talk, is... “you don’t get to make me extraordinary to let yourself off the hook.” Do you have any idea of what those words mean to me!,!? So Iiiiiiii can do it to!?!?!? My goodness, Lisa💝
I love the BOL, Dont take up real estate, things you say. I wrote these on my Bathroom mirror, and work locker so I see them everyday. Thank You Lisa! I love You Sister.
Lisa Nichols is my SHERO! You are a phenomenal woman whose spirit is so positive and refreshing. I could listen to you all day. You have certainly made a difference in my life . You truly inspire me to be the best me possible. I thank thee... I salute you for sharing your voice, thoughts, and gift of knowledge with the world. I hear you loud and clear and Yes YESSSSSSS I receive it. Stay blessed my Queen.
Lisa, Lisa, Lisa you are heaven sent... for so many years I have been living with negative thoughts being in the driver seat. These last few weeks I have been fighting to get into the driver seat... your words are powerful. your spirit does touch mine and I am forever GRATEFUL and LOVE YOU TOO!!!
Thank you! I am confident! I am powerful! I am enough!! I said it!!
I prayed for God to bring into my life someone who would walk along side of me that would make me accountable, be truthful, and encouraging. Working on giving that back to others. The very next day, Ms. Nichols, the Lord introduced me to you through RUclips and said learn from her, and so I am! Thank you for sharing your life lessons and know that you are appreciated for sharing those gifts!
My moment is when you said exposing the lies and replacing them. Another one is when said you"I love you", I must have needed that because it touched (and still touches) me deeply!! I love you and respect you ! Thank you!!!🎶
I am evicting the selftalk that I am not beautiful and not a powerful force. I am a beautiful force that loves and acknowledges the unique and eclectic individual who is me. I AM CONFIDENT, I AM POWERFUL and I AM ENOUGH!
Lisa I cannot Express the gratitude that I have for you and your journey enough. Ever since the first time I seen you on the Steve Harvey show years ago. It unveiled a deep buried spark inside my soul.
However, tonight it finally clicked for me that I am POWERFUL enough to recognize and conquer the deep seeded fears and selftalk that I've allowed to run my life for so long. From this moment forward those forces will not drive me, they will only fuel my motivation to push further than I ever knew was possible.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge you have gained along your journey.
Much love and joy,
Ashley
I am on the 5th day of a devotional in my bible app called "Speak Life." Yesterday I actually prayed for wisdom on how to change my negative self talk. And then this video came in my recommendations. I am done with thinking that I'm unlovable, unattractive and not smart. I will not carry those beliefs or thoughts with me throughout my life. I'm so thankful I watched this video. It was literally an answer to a prayer. 🙂❤🙏🏾
Lisa is the best version of a person i dreamed of becoming. She transform lives as i wanted the same way too.... You are a legend Ms Nichols...
God Bless you. I started listening to your youtube videos yesterday. In the last couple of weeks I have had the constant thought in my head of "Where is my tribe?" Yesterday i heard the term micro win from you. I'm 50. I'm in a new job, have been feeling overwhelmed for months. Today because of you. I took a moment to revel in getting something right. I would not have done that before. I forgot to celebrate the victories that I've earned through my hard work and awesome work ethic. You have a fan for life.
"Your life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts you're thinking in you head."
Yes, YES! I'll walk with that not only today but starting today. ❤️
This message connected with me on so many levels. 7 months ago I stepped out on faith by leaving a company I worked 3.3 years with. 3 months ago I left my 10year fashion retail career totally. I am a fine artist/actress but most importantly a child of God. My decisions were made with purpose and divine intervention. Since then I have had many anxious thoughts and moments. I'm so thankful that I was led to your video today. It helped me to understand where they are coming from. Many of your videos have helped me through this year and led to me stepping out on faith. I am truly thankful for your story and wisdom.
"your life is a physical manifestation of the conversation going on in your head." Yes, yes.
"Don't be afraid to expose your negative self-talk." Ask if that's a lie, what's my truth? Yes, yes 😎
Some of the self talk I had to dump was negative self-talk that I wasn't good enough and that it wasn't safe to be seen or heard. One thing that I learned from Lisa was to count my "wins". So I set myself up for daily wins by keeping a daily planner of small doable tasks ( at least 10- that is how small these goals are) and this keeps me " focused" on positive daily wins.". Thanks for all you guys do to help make the world a happier place and helping others want more and better for their lives.🥰😍🤗
Yes, I need to hear,listen,think positve, and speak and move with small steps and with short term goals in mind! I am not listening to all the negative people who obstruct others! I need to stay in prayer and rest with lots of self care! By the way, red, fuscia, and orange look good on you!
I Evict self sabotage, fear of money and receiving money, abusive relationships and insecurities in my worthiness out of my mind. My Truth is I am a Radiant Light of The Universe; Invincible, Indestructible, Unfathomable, Incorruptible,
Indescribable and Uncustomed.
Thank you my dearest Sister Lisa Nichols and the entire Community for this BTM (Break through moment)!!!💓💓💓
Lisa I just want to thank you for saying Yes Yes to finding yourself and then helping us to find our true selves too. I'm done with the fear of the Unknown that has ripped me off my happiness and health, I'm so done with it. Yes Yes I embrace happiness and a fantastic good health. God bless you Lisa. I love you baby.
Lisa Lisa Lisa. God put you in my feed so that I can unlock my purpose. It’s so an amazing. I remember October of last year, I was falling into a dark place and found your book “abundance now” on RUclips. I listened to it over the course of days and now I’m at a place I could only imagine. Living out my dream of working in Hawaii, started my website and I KNOW in my heart that my purpose is closer to being fulfilled. Also I did the “lies” activity and am still working through it. Amazing and God bless you my sister 💜
I'm done with being afraid of being successful and of worrying about what other people think of me. Whether they like me or not. I'm done! Yes! Yes! Thank you.
I'm evicting the thought that I'm not good enough. Thank you Lisa. Just what I need
About a month ago, I discovered the beauty that is ‘The Lisa Nichols Experience’. You came into my life at the perfect time! I’ve decided to brave the world & actually do what I want to do w/my life. I have an acctg degree & have been doing it for 10 yrs; but, dance is my true love (been dancing since 9) & I decided back in Mar that I deserve my REAL desires in life. This is a SCARY thought bc I’m 36 (stereotypically a dinosaur in dance). I’ve told myself that I am too old, not talented enough, too dark, too plain-Jane, etc. for years…& those negative thoughts have kept me trapped in acctg; however, since I was a little girl I’ve known that I have a grand purpose & I know I’ll be able to help people w/whatever my platform is. Oh but those negative thoughts! Despite the fact that I’ve been training like crazy the past few months, I’m still not quite convinced. Then today’s video notification came through. This is the 2nd time I’ve heard you mention the Expose the Lies exercise & I think it’s time to brave it. Thank you for all that you’ve done for me this past month…you have NO idea how much you’ve helped so far. I really think I’ve found my sensei! Book purchases otw! Love & light to you!
Thank you Lisa. Everyone has the negative self talk whether we want to admit it or not. When you are getting ready to level up in your life there's those thoughts that come up simply because you're leaving your "safe zone". When I recognize these thoughts, I stop, acknowledge the thought, do my 4 second breathing exercise, and then I counter those thoughts with my achievements thus far. Saying to myself look at all I have already achieved by not giving up, and then, I get excited because my spirit knows even before me that I'm about to level up in my life!
I just love this lady she's so authentic and you can feel she speaks from the heart
Lisa, thanks for asking us to comment. You are a beautiful soul. I appreciate you speaking into our lives. Not letting the negative thoughts drive today. Throwing them in the trunk or better yet, out the window!
Lisa, I did the exercise you suggested in the Disempower Your Negative Thoughts video. I wrote down three pages of negative thoughts I told myself throughout my life. When I got to numbers 81 , 82 and 83 my Breakthrough Out Loud came. I realized that my lack of confidence is rooted in a childhood behavior. When I was young, I talked too much, and I would get in trouble for it. As a result, I trained myself into silence for fear of getting in trouble. My voice was trained not to come forward out of fear. It changed everything for me when I understood why I responded to a horrific sexual assault incident a few years ago with silence. The lie I'm done with is, I can't tell you what I want to say. I am so glad I did the action and put the lie to bed. Now I can believe that I deserve my future. Now, I can do the training it takes to have a voice of authority and the power to transform. Proverbs 25:2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter but it is the glory of Kings to search out a matter. I give God the glory in this revelation. It is healing my soul. Thank you, thank you, thank you Lisa. Love Scarlett
Dear Lisa, your words are like water in the desert for me right now. I have watched a couple of your videos earlier and loved them too but stopping at this video while searchig for something else seems like a devine intervention to me. THANK YOU so much for helping us get in touch with the stronger,authentic and obsolute self made in the image of GOD himself. I would be honored to be a part of your tribe. Would share the link of your videos to freinds and associates who i know would greatly benefit from the same. GOD BLESS YOU..
I am getting your book Abundance Now TODAY!!!!!! I am so glad that I stumbled upon you. I have ruined so many relationships and wasted 49 years on negative self talk......Thank you so much
Ms. Nichols.. It was with no coincidence that my sister sent me a clip from an interview you did.. Yesterday I had to evict (yes I actually yelled at him that he was evicted) the devil aka negative thoughts out of my head & house & oh what a liberating feeling that was!!!! I could see my lies clearer and it made me HUNGRY for my truths!! Thank you for pouring into me as I FIND my truth! Next level... Living my life in Abundance Now..
Blessings -Wendy B
Extremely motivational. I do agree that people have negative thoughts. But I am a person of Jesus I always see positive things through the negative prism. Thank you very much, Lisa.
Lisa, thank you for sharing your wisdom! I had three BOLs:
1. Negative thoughts are rooted in something that happened in my life.
This taught me that I need to reflect on the origins of my negative thoughts and let go of them because they are based on my past and I have to be present in the now where I can make a different choice.
2. Negative thoughts come, but I can choose possibility.
This teaches me that it's okay to have negative thoughts, but I can choose to believe in the good that can happen.
3. My life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts in my head.
This inspires me because if I have negative thoughts that become negative experiences, I can have positive thoughts that become positive experiences.
OMG BOL when you said stand on it not in it that resonated. So many times I’m standing in the negative space being engulfed by negativity but that deep breathe, feel it, but don’t buy into it, means if I’m standing on my negative self talk my perspective isn’t diminished. It’s easier to see the sunrise from the ground up than buried under the rumble of my fears. Thank you Lisa needed this today 💜
You gave me a new outlook today! Why live a lie? "Your life is the physical manifestation of the thoughts you are thinking in your head." What is there to lose in changing the thoughts to positive ones? The truth will set you free! Thank you!
3 months ago I was diagnosed with depression and it started with panic attacks. Now I'm feeling better after processing my past and working on new beliefsystems. I found you 3 days ago on YT. Thank you so much for given me hope to get through this. I think that this issue is helping me to change my thoughts and its my breakthrough! Lots of love
Thank you so much Lisa, I am so blessed when I found you in youtube. I have so many negative self talk in my head, I am not bright enough, I am old to have partner in life, I have no money to start my business, I feel alone, I am so so so afraid, I have big big fear inside me. I will inspire by your message and all the comments here because I know that I am not the only one who feel this negative thought that can kill me little by little. Your are an angel to us,I love you Sister Lisa.
There is an overwhelming plethora of self-development info out there and it’s easy to get caught up in overload and conflicting information but I love Lisa’s simple, enjoyable exercises that get to the heart of the problem and offers long-term solutions to serious issues.
Hi Lisa, I am a Life Coach and a HNLP practitioner, and I love to hear you talk. You have a beautiful soul, and I feel truly happy that you overcame your struggles and is leaving your dream. You are very inspiring. I am 54 years old, work part time and go to school part time. One day I will live my dream life too. Thanks for all you do!
I’m getting rid of self doubt that I can’t learn whatever I put my mind to !! 💯💯🎯
I appreciate you goddess!
The more videos I watch the more I fall in love with your mind and soul. You don’t know me or haven’t met me but you have touched my soul and tapped into a part I never knew existed. Your talks, your books, your videos, have and still are helping me out of this dark place I crawled into. Please never stop being you bc it is helping me find myself 🙏🏽❤️ God bless you
This just made me whole because I just realized how long I’ve been living a lie ... I haven’t excepted the pain I have been through and tried to change it ... and now I’m not able to recognize the lady I see in the mirror every day .. but this video was my starting point. I’m not sure how far I’m going but I’m on the journey to find my core... thank you
I am evicting my negative self talk that I won’t be able to achieve my dreams. I always have anxiety and negative thoughts about rejection. I’ve always been scared of what will people think of me if i do or don’t do things how they want it. Its crippling, paralysing, and suffocating. There’s always thoughts in my head that tells me I’m gonna fail or i wont be happy before I could even make a move. And you’re right Lisa, it has to be exposed and I need to confront it then I’m gonna shut it up by telling the truth out of that lie it’s been telling..love you Lisa! 😘♥️thank you so much. God bless you
#BOL, my life has been a roller coaster with self-negative talk. When I'm at the edge of a breakthrough, the talks will keep coming in like a river. Now, I know I have to write them out and ask myself what is my truth. Thank you sister in prosperity and Possibility. This is my victory!
I started the "Expose the Lies" exercise about a month or so ago. I stopped because I did not think I was ready to go through the emotions, thereby blocking my own breakthrough. Lisa, you said in this episode, "Your life is the physical manifestation of the thoughts going on in your head." #BOL. I've listened to this episode before but was not ready or open to hear it until now. I went back to my stack of lies and started writing my truths and something just opened up inside of me as I started to speak the lies and then speak the truth. I really had my breakthrough when I started erasing those lies and started to just speak the truth. Thank you for yet again pouring into me so that I could come from that dark place. One of my truths that I wrote a few times is something that I picked up from my 8-year old son's school theme, "I AM the face of GOD." I feel like the Universe is on my side.
I want to give up the negative thought that I’m not feminine enough , im done with caring what people think of me. I am done with allowing people in my space and energy that do not deserve. I am done with financial struggle or thinking I will not have a healthy relations with money. Thanks you Lisa, I had to stop, feel it, breathe and keep it moving while I wrote this 💜🙏🏽
Thank you Lisa! I've been listening to a number of your talks every day for a week now and My feelings of doubts and fear are now shifting to wonder and possibilities. I'm ready to shift the conversation going on in my head. I am upleveling NOW! Yes YES!!
My negative thought about my communication skills . I always think as I can't do. Now I believe that I can do.. Thank u Ms Lisa Nicholas. Thank u for motivating so many youths.