That moment when you realize that most of your friends are not ideal, but if you break all of your ties with them then you'll be alone...happy thoughts.
Xx*That _One_Person*xX Thats why i prefer casual frienships and don't compromise... I don't even have friends at my school and that doesn't affect me lol... tho i always have a small group of true friends to talk and hang out with. It's better that way, don't complicate frienship, not everyone is gonna be your friend. Only Three ir Two friends are already a blessing XD (Sorry if i have bad english)
Whenever i make friends they end up getting tired of me and throw me to the wayside for newer friends or romantic partners. It wouldn't bother me so much if it didn't happen EVERY SINGLE TIME. I remember thrid wheeling and it being torture like i can just feel the akwardness and pity radiating from the room, i remember being ghosted or flaked on countless of times.. I'm very anxious towards making friendships i just get a feeling I'm constantly unwanted and plain annoying. So i just hang by myself, while it can get lonesome I'm kinda glad in a way. I can't wait to get out of high school and just restart.
I'm in a unhealthy friendship. My friends that I have make me do things for them and they never do things for me. I'm going to show them this video! Thank you so much.
I'm in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I never feel important and I'm always the last to speak. They don't care about how I feel only themselves but I love them so much and I don't know what you do. This video helped me understand how I feel. Thank you
Thanks for your comment! Relationships can be complicated, and friends will come in and out of your life. If you feel like this relationship is unhealthy--leaving you feeling disrespected, devalued or unsafe--it's probably best to part ways. Your other best friend, if they are true friend, should understand and will hopefully stay friends with you. And you will definitely find new friends that give you the time and respect that you deserve in healthy relationship with them. Hope this helps.
Well, Your friends don't deserve you. And if your " best friend " only sticks with you BC of the unhealthy friend than you can dump them off at the trash dump because they aren't good for you. Take it's from me, My friends aren't the best of friends but they ain't toxic. When someone does become toxic/unhealthy, your more like wise to be a victim of being the vent to you but you can't vent to them or you give them smth and they don't give back anything in return. My best of luck w/you is; You are a better person and if you have friends who think of you as not much of a friend/will leave you instantly BC of another person. You can always do better, And you'll always be at the better end although you may not feel like it once you get out of that relationship.
If your other best friend won’t be friends with you if you’re not friends with somebody else, they’re not a good friend. I have multiple friends that have friends I personally am not friends with or don’t like. However, they have 0 problem with it. Nobody other than you gets to decide who your friends are.
myzithra cheeseTM I'm hella gay and I've been in more realtionships then my straight friends. Also at my Highschool there are a huge amount of out kids so that's lucky
Thanks for this video. It helped me understand that I was in a toxic friendship where I was put down and teased about my insecurities. I'm better off now
I was in an unhealthy relationship for the longest time, my best friend started hanging out with her other friends so I stayed with her the girls created a friend group I didn't know most of them at all but I was determined to stay with my best friend. I was kinda the last one the third wheal, they had inside jokes, and whispered about me and laugh at me right in front of me, they told jokes about my personality and appearance, they never let me say anything or do anything, they didn't care when something bad happened. One time I told them my dog died so they decided it was best for me to just sit at the wall while they played a game, later I find out it's because they didn't want to deal with trying to comfort me about my dog. So I went right up to them told them I hate their guts and they are the worst people ever.
A toxic person likes you more when you don’t challenge them, they prefer to have an upper hand over you. It is important that you recognize the signs of a toxic relationship and act accordingly. When my husband started getting frequent night calls, I would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant. At a time i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. A friend of mine referred me to this Sage hacker, cyberhackingsage@gmail. com who helped clone his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to this Sage hacker and through a remote link sent to my mail, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. My husband was a toxic and cheating narcissist, I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help or you just crave that extra teeny bit of closure, I urge you get in touch with them Via Gmail ( cyberhackingsage@gmail. com) or text and WhatsApp them on +15713758467. Thank me later.
I have autism and all the kids at school are mean to me, and all my friends backstabs me after just a week. But then I met a friend so nice, he always supports me. We would get in trouble to try helping eachother.
My friends dont really push me but they kinda do like "oh come on, just try it i liked it maybe you will too" and im like "idk i just, is kinda scared" my friend "ok ill go too" like that kinda push
oof mcoof that’s still peer pressure, if you feel uncomfortable doing something you have the right to say no. And nobody should make you feel otherwise.
"A healthy friendship should not involve teasing the other" Ppffftttt yeeaaahhh right my best friend of nearly 8 years and I will tease eachother all the time! Seriously we can never hold a proper conversation as no one else gets it, so we just mess around instead. This can result in anything from playful teasing to throwing hoodies and jumpers at eachother. Hecc we even dragged eachother around by a skipping rope once. We'll pull tassles from eachother's hoodies or untie the other's shoelaces some of the time as a joke. She even through her shoe at me not so long ago. And it's all a perfectly healthy relationship. So, not every friendship will involve not teasing or annoying the other a little at all. Sometimes it's good to do it, as long as it's clear you're not being serious.
Ironically, I spend more time with my family than my friends, and always have. In fact, I barely spend time with my "friends", if I have any, and I like it that way.
It's important to understand that setting boundaries in a relationship is important. But it's also important to know that that's just one of two parts. It's not like you walk up to your verbally abusive spouse and say "From now on, I'm not going to tolerate cussing". And he goes "Oh thank you so much for setting that boundary. From now on, we're gonna be a cuss-free family". That's not how it works. The equation is not, "I set a boundary, and they follow the boundary, and we all live happily ever after". The equation is "I set a boundary, they resist with all their might, and I continue to enforce that boundary".
Off to binge your videos. Ngl, subscribed as soon as the implication of the two girls hooking up appeared because that's just what my gay ass does. Also bc this is vv educational and important, I'm a few years into my teens and have had way too many unhealthy relationships
I only have 1 friend and I just realized that she does everything a good friend shouldn't do and dosen't do anything a good friend should do. That's sad af... but I can't tell her coz she might leave me alone or gets angry and I dont want that.. I'm also scared that the school bullies will pick on me again then. . .Why am I writing this?
I feel I was in an unhealthy relationship. There was a girl who used to be my closest friend. But I later realized she seemed very clingy. She would get upset when I told her I didn’t want to spend all my time with her, and when I hung out with my other friends. We have since gone our separate ways, and I feel okay talking with her now, but I just still get annoyed when I see her. I’m really not sure if I have really gotten over it, but I want a second opinion. What do you think of this problem? Was it really an unhealthy relationship?
Is there any way of getting Spanish captions for this video? I'd love to share this on one of my presentations as an example adding the information of where they can find these and other videos like this. I've watched so many I just wish the Spanish captions were available.
Hi there! I just wanted the creators of this channel to know that I really appreciate you including an LGBT+ relationship in this video. I live in a homophobic state and the LGBT+ community is completely ignored and never mentioned, so when it was it felt like everyone in the room was finally being exposed to a more diverse crowd without it being a huge deal. Thx alot!
I have a crush on a friend that is female and in 8th grade. I'm in 7th grade and female... I currently found out that I am lesbian... I don't want them to disown me. My parents thought I wasn't listening when on a show a gay person was on. They talked to each other during commercial and said "Yah know, I don't mind gay people, but I'm happy the kids aren't one of them..." and then my father said, "Yeah, if (my older brother) or (me) were gay, I'd probably be disappointed... I mean, there would be nothing we can do..."
Hey Caramel, we're so sorry to hear that your parents said that in front of you. If you need support before coming out, we recommend seeing if your school has a LGBTQ+ group. You can also search online for local groups. The more support you have from people already within the community, the more it will be hopefully easier to talk to your parents when you're ready.
well i just now realized that i have an unhealthy relationship with my friends but if im not friends with them then i wont have friends. welp i guess my actual friend is my gf
That moment when you realize that most of your friends are not ideal, but if you break all of your ties with them then you'll be alone...happy thoughts.
Xx*That _One_Person*xX Thats why i prefer casual frienships and don't compromise... I don't even have friends at my school and that doesn't affect me lol... tho i always have a small group of true friends to talk and hang out with. It's better that way, don't complicate frienship, not everyone is gonna be your friend. Only Three ir Two friends are already a blessing XD
(Sorry if i have bad english)
Whenever i make friends they end up getting tired of me and throw me to the wayside for newer friends or romantic partners. It wouldn't bother me so much if it didn't happen EVERY SINGLE TIME. I remember thrid wheeling and it being torture like i can just feel the akwardness and pity radiating from the room, i remember being ghosted or flaked on countless of times.. I'm very anxious towards making friendships i just get a feeling I'm constantly unwanted and plain annoying. So i just hang by myself, while it can get lonesome I'm kinda glad in a way. I can't wait to get out of high school and just restart.
Xx*That _One_Person*xX lmao same
I only have one friend left. :(
I have friends but they live in another city.
her new *BoYfRiEnD*
I laughed out loud omg 😂
K lol
I scrolled down to the comments and saw this right when she said it
LOL
Lol
I just WATCHED a full add of this and now I subscribed and KNOW I AM gonna binge watch there videos.
Thank you for the sub! Have an AMAZE-ing day!
daylee R
*their
I got an add of the video on the video. (Not this one, a different video I watched!)
:/
I'm in a unhealthy friendship. My friends that I have make me do things for them and they never do things for me. I'm going to show them this video! Thank you so much.
It's been three years I really hope everythings better now :]
I'm in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I never feel important and I'm always the last to speak. They don't care about how I feel only themselves but I love them so much and I don't know what you do. This video helped me understand how I feel. Thank you
I hope you're doing much better now
Can you please make a video on depression
+Rebekah Food Thanks for the request! Check out this video on our channel if you haven't already. ruclips.net/video/Ocj0gyZwL5Y/видео.html
Rebekah Brockway lol
Yep
@@JesusChrist-tq5sy that's not what they're laughing about, smartass.
@@blakeingbad wut
0:45
*all gays are cheering*
hell yeah we are
:)
Hell yeah!
im gays
I'm in an unhealthy relationship, but if I leave that friend, then my other best friend will not be friends with me anymore. please help
Thanks for your comment! Relationships can be complicated, and friends will come in and out of your life. If you feel like this relationship is unhealthy--leaving you feeling disrespected, devalued or unsafe--it's probably best to part ways. Your other best friend, if they are true friend, should understand and will hopefully stay friends with you. And you will definitely find new friends that give you the time and respect that you deserve in healthy relationship with them. Hope this helps.
Alina S. I relate too h e l p
Well, Your friends don't deserve you. And if your " best friend " only sticks with you BC of the unhealthy friend than you can dump them off at the trash dump because they aren't good for you.
Take it's from me, My friends aren't the best of friends but they ain't toxic. When someone does become toxic/unhealthy, your more like wise to be a victim of being the vent to you but you can't vent to them or you give them smth and they don't give back anything in return.
My best of luck w/you is; You are a better person and if you have friends who think of you as not much of a friend/will leave you instantly BC of another person. You can always do better, And you'll always be at the better end although you may not feel like it once you get out of that relationship.
If your other best friend won’t be friends with you if you’re not friends with somebody else, they’re not a good friend.
I have multiple friends that have friends I personally am not friends with or don’t like. However, they have 0 problem with it. Nobody other than you gets to decide who your friends are.
Just pull out the old black notebook.
yay this helped alot
i'n hella gay and it'a hard to find romantic relationships
myzithra cheeseTM half gayyy
myzithra cheeseTM
I'm hella gay and I've been in more realtionships then my straight friends. Also at my Highschool there are a huge amount of out kids so that's lucky
@David You need new friends
Same its rlly hard bit um bi but cant be open about it
Same
Your relationship with your fish,ma'am,is the most healthy relationship anyone can have
"After all, you are pretty great."
PAPYRUS IS THAT YOOOOU?????!!!??!
s t o P
please no
Thanks for this video. It helped me understand that I was in a toxic friendship where I was put down and teased about my insecurities. I'm better off now
Hi There! I'm glad we can help!
dont care never will
I was in an unhealthy relationship for the longest time, my best friend started hanging out with her other friends so I stayed with her the girls created a friend group I didn't know most of them at all but I was determined to stay with my best friend. I was kinda the last one the third wheal, they had inside jokes, and whispered about me and laugh at me right in front of me, they told jokes about my personality and appearance, they never let me say anything or do anything, they didn't care when something bad happened. One time I told them my dog died so they decided it was best for me to just sit at the wall while they played a game, later I find out it's because they didn't want to deal with trying to comfort me about my dog. So I went right up to them told them I hate their guts and they are the worst people ever.
A toxic person likes you more when you don’t challenge them, they prefer to have an upper hand over you. It is important that you recognize the signs of a toxic relationship and act accordingly. When my husband started getting frequent night calls, I would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant. At a time i could take no more of his lies, I decided l deserve to know what was going on. A friend of mine referred me to this Sage hacker, cyberhackingsage@gmail. com who helped clone his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to this Sage hacker and through a remote link sent to my mail, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. My husband was a toxic and cheating narcissist, I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help or you just crave that extra teeny bit of closure, I urge you get in touch with them Via Gmail ( cyberhackingsage@gmail. com) or text and WhatsApp them on +15713758467. Thank me later.
💀
I had to watch this for school but then I realized I was reading the comments and now I have to rewatch the video
"It's better to have a good pet rather than a bad friend." - L. Anderson
Girls at a sleepover: omg goodnight besties!
Boys at a sleepover: NIGHT NIGHT, DIPSHIT!!
When you realise that literally every friendship you've had except for with your brothers friends has been unhealthy
I have autism and all the kids at school are mean to me, and all my friends backstabs me after just a week. But then I met a friend so nice, he always supports me. We would get in trouble to try helping eachother.
My friends dont really push me but they kinda do like "oh come on, just try it i liked it maybe you will too" and im like "idk i just, is kinda scared" my friend "ok ill go too" like that kinda push
oof mcoof that’s still peer pressure, if you feel uncomfortable doing something you have the right to say no. And nobody should make you feel otherwise.
Healthy relationships, whether platonic or romantic, are essential in life and require mutual respect, compromise and communication.
I agree!
I believe that wearing no sunscreen and eating McDonald's twice a week is a healthy lifestyle.
My doctor sent me to a mental hospital.
0:29 That's because I'm trapped in a bowl.
lmao
What do you mean you trapped in a bowl?
Poll: Are you in a romantic relationship?
Me: DON’T REMIND ME!
Ok I can’t wait until she hits 1 million .She deserves it!!❤️❤️
Having a relationship with yourself and your family is the first thing that comes to your mind.
1:26 muffin duplicating is a power I want.
i love his channel so much!! it represents different types of people while being educational and informative for everyone.
"A healthy friendship should not involve teasing the other"
Ppffftttt yeeaaahhh right my best friend of nearly 8 years and I will tease eachother all the time! Seriously we can never hold a proper conversation as no one else gets it, so we just mess around instead. This can result in anything from playful teasing to throwing hoodies and jumpers at eachother. Hecc we even dragged eachother around by a skipping rope once. We'll pull tassles from eachother's hoodies or untie the other's shoelaces some of the time as a joke. She even through her shoe at me not so long ago.
And it's all a perfectly healthy relationship. So, not every friendship will involve not teasing or annoying the other a little at all. Sometimes it's good to do it, as long as it's clear you're not being serious.
Another thing to add: not everyone likes a friendship like this, and if someone asks you to stop, remember to honour that wish
Fish: *BUBBLE*
HE IS SPEAKING THE LANGUAGE OF THE GODS
yay you guys uploaded again! good video.
First!
Can u explain how gender changes (female to male) work??
ew its max it just happens man
what do you mean? do you mean how does somebody know they're transgender or how does somebody physically transition
What's the reason to have a boyfriend?
Can you guys do anthor video because I've seen all of them,there great
+Rose Kensora thanks for the support!
My favourite sitcom
I am so happy I heard my name in this video - Nicole❤
the beginning if you go back and back it would sound so funny!
Ironically, I spend more time with my family than my friends, and always have. In fact, I barely spend time with my "friends", if I have any, and I like it that way.
Oof. I was in an unhealthy friendship for quite a bit. She always convinced me she was right and made me feel bad even after I admitted my faults lol
anyone came here from conan?
Maddie Lee Conan Gray??
What if you have depression ptst ore like that how can you distinct?
Who else is here because of "Health Education"
It's important to understand that setting boundaries in a relationship is important. But it's also important to know that that's just one of two parts. It's not like you walk up to your verbally abusive spouse and say "From now on, I'm not going to tolerate cussing". And he goes "Oh thank you so much for setting that boundary. From now on, we're gonna be a cuss-free family". That's not how it works. The equation is not, "I set a boundary, and they follow the boundary, and we all live happily ever after". The equation is "I set a boundary, they resist with all their might, and I continue to enforce that boundary".
quit the yap
video: less time with family and more time with friends :)
me: I just want to be alone
You guys are doing your quarantine work I see
Real friends laugh at you when you fall and cries when you're gone
My 'best friend' started ignoring my texts in 5th grade and when we got to 6th grade she barely talks to me anymore? What should I do??
Off to binge your videos. Ngl, subscribed as soon as the implication of the two girls hooking up appeared because that's just what my gay ass does. Also bc this is vv educational and important, I'm a few years into my teens and have had way too many unhealthy relationships
I only have 1 friend and I just realized that she does everything a good friend shouldn't do and dosen't do anything a good friend should do. That's sad af... but I can't tell her coz she might leave me alone or gets angry and I dont want that.. I'm also scared that the school bullies will pick on me again then.
. .Why am I writing this?
I feel I was in an unhealthy relationship. There was a girl who used to be my closest friend. But I later realized she seemed very clingy. She would get upset when I told her I didn’t want to spend all my time with her, and when I hung out with my other friends. We have since gone our separate ways, and I feel okay talking with her now, but I just still get annoyed when I see her. I’m really not sure if I have really gotten over it, but I want a second opinion. What do you think of this problem? Was it really an unhealthy relationship?
quit the yap
That moment when you realize that all your friends are fake, and your best friend moved away, and got her phone stolen
Is there any way of getting Spanish captions for this video? I'd love to share this on one of my presentations as an example adding the information of where they can find these and other videos like this. I've watched so many I just wish the Spanish captions were available.
Hi there! Thank you so much for this suggestion. We will work on it!
my fish broke up with me
Yes I
Me with my bpd watching this for class like ✌️😙
I was in a very unhealthy relationship earlier this year. I'm staying distant from them, they did apologize though
Bro be talking to a fish 😂
Me and my old friend have a very unhealthy friendship i really wanna show this to her
Your totally righteous dude
POV:your pe or health teacher sent you
Hi there! I just wanted the creators of this channel to know that I really appreciate you including an LGBT+ relationship in this video. I live in a homophobic state and the LGBT+ community is completely ignored and never mentioned, so when it was it felt like everyone in the room was finally being exposed to a more diverse crowd without it being a huge deal. Thx alot!
You gay or something?
tf does LGBTQ have to do with this
As a teen, I'd rather stay at home then meeting my friends
This one dude is constantly calling me short, and I keep telling him to stop but he won't
When you're a 31 year old woman with two jobs but still haven't learnt this.
This channel is soo great! I've learnt a lot about sex and other stuff thanks to this amaze-ing content! :D
My friendships always fade even if we are in a healthy relationship or we're bffs
JustAnother FlipaclipAnimator
How old are you?
I don’t wanna be pressured into things sexually! Now I’m definitely not having relationships.
Jokes on you, i dont have friends.
well... I already new it was a toxic friend
Man, that fish had a ROUGH day.
Lol i have to watch this for school😂
This is pretty good and am glad I got it.
0:52 they are both playing the remote control the wrong way.
I'm a tween does that count?
ThatOneIndianKid IzHere of course, but u will be able to relate more as u get older😊
My friend only cares about herself and I don’t know how to not be her friend anymore......
Good job on representation of lgbt+!!
💜😇
Distance Learning anyone?
Lol the beginning was great
Just realized my irl "bff" was toxic.
My online bff is the best though 😌💅✨
Your videos are really fun to watch
You are so right
If your in my class i know you see this say hi
imagine having to watch these videos besides getting forced to by a wellness class in high school
Bro those dudes on the cursed controllers should just get some wireless controllers I mean it's not that hard they're usually at least only 50-70
I have a crush on a friend that is female and in 8th grade. I'm in 7th grade and female... I currently found out that I am lesbian... I don't want them to disown me. My parents thought I wasn't listening when on a show a gay person was on. They talked to each other during commercial and said "Yah know, I don't mind gay people, but I'm happy the kids aren't one of them..." and then my father said, "Yeah, if (my older brother) or (me) were gay, I'd probably be disappointed... I mean, there would be nothing we can do..."
Hey Caramel, we're so sorry to hear that your parents said that in front of you. If you need support before coming out, we recommend seeing if your school has a LGBTQ+ group. You can also search online for local groups. The more support you have from people already within the community, the more it will be hopefully easier to talk to your parents when you're ready.
I don't need friends they dissapoint me
I watched this in Classsssssss
well i just now realized that i have an unhealthy relationship with my friends but if im not friends with them then i wont have friends. welp i guess my actual friend is my gf
It may be hard to end unhealthy relationships but you deserve healthy friendships.
Can someone explain wtf is going on here 0:51
love your videos
this help me
0:46 YASSSSS
I'm bisexual 😂
They said gay rights
I love how there’s cute Gays
US TOO
Omg that same scenario happened to me at the start 😂
I actually like being itg my family more because girl friendship always ends :(
What if you and your friends pretend tease each other?
Then it’s fine.
if everyone's aware it's just a joke and nobody's feelings are getting hurt it's fine
YOOOO THEY SAID LESBIAN RIGHTS
This is a good story and facts
Real friends insult each other