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It’s not working for me I been no contact for 3 months and he has and is doing everything to try and make my life a living hell. He is using the kids and I’m so tired of it all. I don’t understand why he can’t just go with his new wife and live his life and leave me alone
@@tru3g3mini44 It’s hell and I pray we both get though this mess and they go and be with who they chose to be with and we can live with out looking for something else to happen
@@kateclemons5921 for me...as an empath a part of me wanted to heal him and help him break patterns. I think we see their brokenness and want to make them whole.
I didn’t realize I was dealing with a narcissist. I just felt like, everything I did was wrong. In his eyes, I married the wrong man. I busted my butt trying to be a good wife
Me too ... women are usually the ones to give them the benefit of doubt...I have been hurt so till I have learned to not give the benefit of doubt when it pertains to my life...maybe at a restaurant when you mess up an order...but not anymore with my life.
When narcs cause some kind of damage.... they want you to be miserable or angry ... when it doesn't have the effect on you like they thought...here comes the smear campaigns...it gets old....they know they can't come back...they played themselves.... thanks for the video...Be The Light 💕💞
This is exactly what has just happened to me .. thankgod during the end i had videos like this and my faith to keep me sane... to change my reaction completely and I actually said calm that i would pray for him the abuse and vindictiveness took to a new level .. he new I was finally done .. I told him I had a strong spirit and I will always walk in the sunlight of the spirit and he will continue to live in darkness... however it hurts like hell and am sad .. angry because as an empath i don't wanna really see the truth I no it but it hurts x shout out from uk
Its miserable for a faithful person to be constantly accused by a tricky narc. Every time you are doing something healthy or wholesome they rage inside. A narcissist is a devil who can't stand seeing anyone walking in the light
Definitely jealous! Certain things my ex husband said let me know he was jealous of how much my daughters love me and the fact that I made more money than him at the time. Like… who gets jealous of a teammate! What man wouldn’t want to see his children love on his wife? What man wouldn’t be proud of his wife for not being a financial burden but being an actual helper? Chile let’s just celebrate our freedom🎉 Good luck and blessings to all of us!💕
@mz. white absolutely ridiculous. I’ve stopped trying to understand why regarding the jealousy girl. And I’m so sorry to hear such a nasty person attached himself to you. Was he saying those things when you guys first met?
He blamed it on his childhood trauma. I don't think professional help would even change him. I do not feel sorry for him anymore. Thank God for saving me. And thank you Hario ! Beautiful smile 💕
I'm a damn good woman. He lost out on an amazing family. Im so blessed I have all that I want and need. He is out of my life and it has gotten so much better with him gone
People they want the worst for you . They thrive on you to fail that’s like a steak dinner to them . They want the worst for you at all times . So they can tell there friends they was right about you .
When my female narc came to my house every weekend it was like she was carrying a black cloud around with her. I walked on egg shells all weekend and was always relieved when she left at the end of the weekend.
This video speaks the truth. Trust me, I understand, narcs are so broken, they have so many issues. They are so broken, one day they will have a mental breakdown.
You are so right a narcissist even when caught red handed, showing proof of their deception will never acknowledge. My ex narcissist when I confronted him simply replied by saying he’s not going to talk about that .
She tried to brake me but my positivity was just too strong. My spirit wouldnt let me give up. My spirit wouldn't let me stop questioning what I knew was bull ^$$ t. She left with baby to her parent's and it was the first time I slept through the entire night. I kept my business, kept my place, kept all my money separate and I'm so I glad I did. So glad I stayed true to myself.. So glad I didn't marry this devil. Thanks for all the positive reinforcement.
My narc had stomach issues (soul); did not sleep well (mind in turmoil) and once was grinding his teeth so bad I immediately thought oh fuck a crack or meth head.
Amazing what happened to me dealing with a Narc! I was pushed into a spiritual awakening and it changed my life forever GOD IS NOT DEAD AND WE NEED TO EXPOSE THEM NOWWW AND FOR GOOD!!!!!! Ihope I catch your live
Funny enough, my ex confessed she was wrong for some stuff to someone I know, but she never confessed to me. When the person told me, I could not belive it. That's when I realize this person was seriously playing games with me.
Just saw your ex wife’s interview and as an empath - I just have to say CONGRATULATIONS Brother, for making out and helping educate so many. 🌹 *sending love*
I was too honest by confessing my failures to him. He would NEVER EVER sympathize toward me. He would either tell me why it went wrong or use my failure as something learned for his benefit.
You've changed my life! I wasent sure I was going to make it through until I found you. Blessings!! I know he was already a wrecked soul before...that won't change and its not my job to save his soul!!
The narcissist never gets over you. They spend a life time trying to recapture a person or relationship with someone that looks just like you? I know it sounds crazy but they do sometimes go marry someone that looks like you.
You are on point ,I came across one who was looking for someone who look like his ex and it was me soon I found out about him I had to run with my life
I definitely can relate to this, never knew people could be this evil to the person that they came to love. So GLAD JESUS had me wrapped in his arms cause going through this almost gave me a NERVOUS BREAKDOWN, THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR GRACE AND MERCIES 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I discovered as the Narcissist gets older they go back to the exact way they used to be when their Narcissism 1st kicked all the way in. They are violent full tilt with their so called significant other.
@@diamondsstatefinancialsolu6198 wouldn't you be angry if you realized you had thrown away you whole life? Lying? hiding? decreasing? They're in continual turmoil. I can't imagine.
Mines dished it out, but when I dished it back he couldn't take it,, it ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. Narcissist or Not you go around harming people who done no harm to you will then get what the Universe calls Karma, and when Karma gets ahold of you she will put a whooping on you, you will never forget, which is why he will never forget me..He's so use to dumping, when I dumped him,,He wanna cry like a kid and say he ain't never had a woman like me. I served him his Karma for all the other women he hurt.
This video helped me so much.. specially today when I got that infamous text “ I still love you .. I always will” ... it threw me out of balance.. I was asking myself.. why? Why can’t he forget about us and keep living? But here’s my answer.. thank you.
Good Video Harieo. When us empaths come clean about our faults, we don't have to continue to suffer, becase we've come clean. But narcissists, are full of pride, and other evil spirits.👺 They would go to there graves not acknowledging, or admitting to us their cruelitys they've done to us empaths.💞🕊
Thank you hario! Mine eyes have been opened to the abuse I suffered at the hands of my ex narc. I'm going on six months no contact, I took her back once but never again! When I took her back it was three years of hell and torment. She literally came back to destroy me and I almost didn't make it. She took pleasure watching me suffer from the abuse she was dishing out. Now I'm dealing with the rumination and I also feel like I'm being watched by her.
Same story my friend. Glad to see you in this space, gaining some clarity. 7 months, no contact. The best place I've been, in the 20 years of knowing this narc
You’re more than absolutely right. I figured out my situation out on my own by just watching and listening to him talk his words were a lot different than his actions so I told him not to call me again ever and I met it💃🏿💃🏿💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hario, this video topic was meant for me today. Thank God. Thank you. Peace to whomever reads this and has been heartbroken by a narcissist. I am praying for you all. Hang in there.
you could be right. i literally watched 2 family members catch cancer. 1 passed away from it. Narcs get sick faster when they get older. Stress and anger affects you physically.
I prayed and asked God to show me if my ex wasn't meant for me... Mann, I WAS NOT READY..... make sure you're ready to receive confirmation when you wanna know something, be safe my. People ❤️
Yes.. I asked the same thing and days later I called his phone only for him to mistakenly answer and heard another women in the background.. OH BABY THEY WAS HAVING A GREAT TIME FROM WHAT I COULD HEAR!! I just thank God for it!! Yes!! I WAS READY FOR CONFIRMATION!!🙏🏾
After 23+ years of being 'gone'...and going through 5 kinds of Hell, now recovering on all fronts. I flatly could NOT care less about 'what' 'if' or anything else that they may think of me...they were HAUNTED before I turned up!! Karma WORKS!!!
New here.. this dude is the real deal.. he keeps it real and simple.. this is his calling, to help ppl in need of answers and ppl who needs to hear things in a different perspective to get them through their day, month year.. we appreciate u
Thank You for these videos, very helpful. I finally let my narcissist go. Haven't been with him since 2016. Basically, I started talking crazy to him, going into character on him and guy got turned off. This man will wait a year or two and tries to reconnect again with me and I repeat my cycle with him, talk crazy, act crazy. This actually helps me to perfect my craft of acting.
My narcs devalue and smear campaigns for me backfire on him and he lost his flying monkeys because his mask come off after I turned him down and refused entertain him after I found out he cheated.
I know this for a fact the spirit told me to leave it Surely did ; but I didn’t listen n why did i do that . They stole money , cheated even more , and the lies was unstoppable. I went back n prayed to GOD n asked him for another chance with the spirit within me to let him speak again and I promise to GOD I will listen . GOD answered my prayers n I got out n didn’t look back n when I tell you my life has done a 360 turn for the better I’m telling you . If I had 10,000 tongues GOD I couldn’t thank you enough for what you have n continue to do for me . Glory to you GOD n the name of JESUS Christ hallelujah .
This was difficult to listen to because every word you said was exactly what I went through with my narc. I kept hitting the reset button for years before something just clicked and I made the decision that I had enough. You are correct in the brutal truth that they never change.
I thank God for giving me the courage to get rid of my burden. After going no contact for 6 years, I graduated this year from college which he had prevented me from going. What great revenge! The no contact really works, it's a matter of time and you will be fine.
HARIO .. U HAVE A HEALTHY GLOW ABOUT U! LIFE MUST BE TREATING U RIGHT! THE NARCISSIST MAY NEVER GET OVER ME. BUT .. IT DOESN'T MATTER. I'M OVER HIM! I CANNOT BE AROUND SOMEONE .. WHO IS HATEFUL .. MEAN-SPIRITED & EVIL! OR .. SOMEONE .. WHO CAN'T OWN UP TO WHAT THEY DID TO ME! REFLECT ON IT .. & CHANGE FOR THE BETTER! I LEFT THE STATE .. & I LEFT HIM! ONCE I MAKE A DECISION .. THERE'S NO GOING BACK!!!!
I was with a narcissist for 14 years and have kids with her. I realized the more I would bring up trying to resolve the things done to me it got worse and literally tried destroying my life from every angle. I'm in recovery stage rebuilding
Has anyone else been bombarded with the question: "See what you made me do?" ??? I remember being yelled at like a stray dog taking a pee on Christmas dinner for spilling a bit of coffee. When I went to get a paper towel to wipe up the mess, I was yelled at for "wasting his supplies and money". He fully justified this hour long tirade of berating me because "I made him mad" by spilling some coffee. This is an extremely minor example of what happened almost daily. But wondering, has anyone else experienced this complete lack of accountability and actually blamed for the abuse?
I failed.. 😔 I replied to a hoover and there I was in the middle of reuniting with my ex narc. After 2 wks.He suddenly did a 180 and started to be ugly,mean to me.Worse than before.I felt as if he was punishing me for being apart for 3 months. I started to feel confusion and self doubt, worthless. 😥💔How could I be so blinded 😓I then immediately ended it.I changed my number.Im so angry at myself for falling for his lies 😠 Don't make my mistake.do not reply.They will never change..God sees and knows everything.✝️ You are 💯 .I pressed the override.. 😞Thank you so much🙏🙏🙏🙏 💯💯💯💯💯.
After 8 years off and on with my narc ex I did the same thing. He just started a new relationship after I last spoke with him 4 weeks ago. He's started hoovering on my business fb the last 2 weeks. I've been preparing myself to receive a call. I will be no contact. Don't feel bad, you know now he won't change.
I’ve had some narcs in my life years ago. At the time I didn’t no about narcissism. I just thought they was mean or evil ppl. But one thing the narc told me that blow my mind and I new I had to get away from this evil person. Was they told me. They would pray that certain ppl would suffer and had bad luck. And they wished they could witness it. And the narc prayed they would win financially and have lots of money and they wouldn’t share none with the ppl they prayed would suffer.. now mind you this is all immediate family. The mother is the narc. And the kids was abused. I’m so glad I got away. September will be 5 years since the final disguard. They disguard me and my children. And still no apology. No atolment. In fact. The last conversation I had with my narcissist mother. She said she will never apologize. And sad part is in the past. I’ve always apologized even when I wasn’t wrong because I valued the relationship with family
This is the Best Video Yet. Each Day that Goes by I'm Getting Stronger & Stronger. All I can say is, You Can't do Ugly things & Expect a Beautiful Life. I still have a Problem with the time I Wasted on the X but I'm Not Mad at him anymore. He's Going to Get What's Coming to him. Marriage Vows are Made Between 2 People & God. When God Sees Someone Breaking that Vow, God's Sees that Person as a Liar !!! God Knows I was Great to the X & Faithful to the Bitter End. My Conscience is Clean.
“We pressed the override…” Yes we did. I LOVE this statement of self-accountability. It’s an act that truly frees us from all that bad karma and allows us to grow up. They actually make us better… when we finally decide to do the right thing.
They really love it because it gives them a relief for a temporary period of time and it was always prove it!!!! Hario you are a beautiful and wonderful man and I am so happy I found you!!!!!!! You are so special and kind!!!!! Thank you so very very much!!!!!!!!!
Do they really believe they did anything wrong though to carry a burden? They seem to be able to justify everything they do, it's always someone else's fault. Do they even know down deep how evil they are? I think they are miserable souls, but since they lack all empathy I don't know if they can carry around any burden or guilt. They get over you when they get new supply and then can just blame you for everything.
I always knew she was bad news but and the inner voice told me to stay away. Narcs always have their own reality and not engaging in their reality will set you free. Living in their reality is burdensome, staying away from them is good but when they know your weaknesses they use them to get back. Once you stand your ground and confront them. That is when they call you boring, they won't leave until they are convinced they really replaced you according to their reality
Just got divorced yesterday from one. Not ever going back, but need to continually remind myself of his awful behavior and not to feel empathy for him. He is reaping what he sewed. Carrying all of his bad Karma. Oh well!! I'm Free!
You can guarantee they are miserable with their new supply and bored. The cycle of cheating just repeats.
RW I used to think that he left because the new supply was better than I am.
that's what they lead you to believe. It's not true. You'll find they are not as happy as they are making out. 😊
Life only has so much to offer been there done that has a short lifespan before reality sets in and it always does.
Facts only
Facts
To eveyone who is just getting out from under the abuse of a narcissist! Go no contact and stick to it! Your life and sanity depends on it.🖤💙🙏🏿💪🏾
A word is enough for the wise and a Narcissist should not be trusted because they are often toxic with an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others feelings, an inability to handle any criticism and a sense of entitlement. They also uses future faking and gaslighting as some of their control tactics. Narcissists are also trying to explore the coronavirus as a means of getting back to their victims so it is also important to observe the “NO CONTACT RULE”. I used to think that love could cure anything but it only fed my narc's enormous ego. It is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my wife’s phone. I got access to all her dealings both on phone and social media without touching her phone. I’m here in Nevada USA and able to access my wife’s phone with a cloned app even while she was away in the UK and cheating on me. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with Cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both her new and deleted messages from my phone through a remote link to a programmed app containing cloned cell information without having to touch her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all her secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. My wife also tried to use this coronavirus outbreak as a means to get back to me but I’m not stupid enough to allow someone so toxic back into my life. I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against her. I read all her deleted and recent chats on Whatsapp, Facebook and Instagram. Hacker Gavin also helped me in checking if my phone number is being hacked and he secured all my numbers from unauthorized access with a very powerful encryption software. You can contact this great hacker “Gavin” through his email cyberhackinggenius@gmail. com and WhatsApp: +19256795146 . You can also call and text his Cellular number on +16265152216 and thank me later for this great information.
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It’s not working for me I been no contact for 3 months and he has and is doing everything to try and make my life a living hell. He is using the kids and I’m so tired of it all. I don’t understand why he can’t just go with his new wife and live his life and leave me alone
@@takingbackmypower9859 same
@@tru3g3mini44 It’s hell and I pray we both get though this mess and they go and be with who they chose to be with and we can live with out looking for something else to happen
Kill them with kindness, it drives them bonkers when you’re unbothered. Torture them with your success.
Might just try this
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"You cant even get your narcissist to admit to things you caught them in" LMAO true!!!
facts!!
Yup
Because there’s always a “reason.”
@@elcee7800 YEP!!
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“Our connection to God told us to cut this off” ❤️ praise God
It is so &So it Is
Yes thank you Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
Look for the ambiguity ......
It reveals their Ambivalence !!!
it is what it is some people never want peace
The more you love them the more drama they cause/ And everything they say they Don't do, they do it all...
How is it us empaths attract these savages.
Nothing but the truth!
@@kateclemons5921 for me...as an empath a part of me wanted to heal him and help him break patterns. I think we see their brokenness and want to make them whole.
@@EButta71 mine was evil first love took him back after prison. Picked up more bad habits. Blessings to you.
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I didn’t realize I was dealing with a narcissist. I just felt like, everything I did was wrong. In his eyes, I married the wrong man. I busted my butt trying to be a good wife
Look on tbe bright side your strength level doubled up.
I've lived that life as well. There are so many of us! Slowly I am beginning to know my self worth.
Same here
Yeah your focus was him and not you.
Yes, same here. All these years trying to fit the square block into the round circle.
You are so right! My intuition said he was bad news. I always give people the benefit of doubt and try to see the good....... Life lesson right there.
yes, i knew mine wasnt no good, lol
I'm the same way. Keep giving chances smh
I do too sista...I try to give people the benefit of the doubt and see the good in them. I sure learned a hard, life lesson too!
Me too ... women are usually the ones to give them the benefit of doubt...I have been hurt so till I have learned to not give the benefit of doubt when it pertains to my life...maybe at a restaurant when you mess up an order...but not anymore with my life.
Same ... huge lesson learned
They blame everything on you!! The will drain you and you can never get through to them! They destroy happiness!
This man tried to ruin my life in so many ways but to sum everything up, THE GOOD ALWAYS PREVAIL!!!!!
I was his special gift from God. He did not know this. Now i am gone...he knows. Biggest mistake of his life!
Sin is a very heavy burden to carry
"For the wages of sin, is death..." yes indeed
AMEN!!!
When narcs cause some kind of damage.... they want you to be miserable or angry ... when it doesn't have the effect on you like they thought...here comes the smear campaigns...it gets old....they know they can't come back...they played themselves.... thanks for the video...Be The Light 💕💞
So true.
This is exactly what has just happened to me .. thankgod during the end i had videos like this and my faith to keep me sane... to change my reaction completely and I actually said calm that i would pray for him the abuse and vindictiveness took to a new level .. he new I was finally done .. I told him I had a strong spirit and I will always walk in the sunlight of the spirit and he will continue to live in darkness... however it hurts like hell and am sad .. angry because as an empath i don't wanna really see the truth I no it but it hurts x shout out from uk
Its miserable for a faithful person to be constantly accused by a tricky narc. Every time you are doing something healthy or wholesome they rage inside. A narcissist is a devil who can't stand seeing anyone walking in the light
I used to feel my husband hated me from the vibes his spirit would release....thank GOD I got out of that house!
Might have, they are jealous of their own spouse and kids.
I felt the same way. I am divorcing him now and he is giving me pure hell!
@@sewingwithlexy4817 it's amazing how many of us are going through this foolishness
Definitely jealous! Certain things my ex husband said let me know he was jealous of how much my daughters love me and the fact that I made more money than him at the time. Like… who gets jealous of a teammate! What man wouldn’t want to see his children love on his wife? What man wouldn’t be proud of his wife for not being a financial burden but being an actual helper? Chile let’s just celebrate our freedom🎉
Good luck and blessings to all of us!💕
@mz. white absolutely ridiculous. I’ve stopped trying to understand why regarding the jealousy girl.
And I’m so sorry to hear such a nasty person attached himself to you. Was he saying those things when you guys first met?
Unfortunately I have encountered more than one of these. I have figured out that saying no to them speeds up the discard real fast.
They are waste of time!
Drop em & BLOCK EM 🚫 dead weight anchors ⚓🙄
You are helping a lot of us to understand this crazy making.
Right
Crazy making..yes
I love this community. 👍
A true narcissist has no empathy. They have no ABILITY to. They are quite literally, empty inside. Because their is no empathy, it is NO burden.
Patti C,Hope you are not with a narcissist….
It's hard to believe that a person can be like this, but we have to accept the truth
He blamed it on his childhood trauma. I don't think professional help would even change him. I do not feel sorry for him anymore. Thank God for saving me. And thank you Hario ! Beautiful smile 💕
I'm a damn good woman. He lost out on an amazing family. Im so blessed I have all that I want and need. He is out of my life and it has gotten so much better with him gone
AMEN AMEN AMEN,,SISTER, I'm A #GODLY woman And #Good woman🎉
Or why they don't like good hearted people that has their best interest in heart..
People they want the worst for you . They thrive on you to fail that’s like a steak dinner to them . They want the worst for you at all times . So they can tell there friends they was right about you .
I hit the "override button" too many times with my ex narcissist boyfriend. He always laughed and smiled when I cried.
Id never seen such a sadistic smile in my life. He literally found JOY in my Pain
Same😡
Same
Oh yeah oh yeah they LUV when you cry. It turns them on.
Just wicked.
When my female narc came to my house every weekend it was like she was carrying a black cloud around with her. I walked on egg shells all weekend and was always relieved when she left at the end of the weekend.
I left the Narc a month now God has gave me dreams and visions about him and I didn't fully understand until I came across your video
Yes I had a profound dream...and also saw a demonic presence in my bedroom one night. I know for sure what I've been dealing with.
Check out Dr Ramani
This video speaks the truth. Trust me, I understand, narcs are so broken, they have so many issues. They are so broken, one day they will have a mental breakdown.
Hopefully
I 👍 agree
You are so right a narcissist even when caught red handed, showing proof of their deception will never acknowledge. My ex narcissist when I confronted him simply replied by saying he’s not going to talk about that .
She tried to brake me but my positivity was just too strong. My spirit wouldnt let me give up. My spirit wouldn't let me stop questioning what I knew was bull ^$$ t. She left with baby to her parent's and it was the first time I slept through the entire night. I kept my business, kept my place, kept all my money separate and I'm so I glad I did. So glad I stayed true to myself.. So glad I didn't marry this devil. Thanks for all the positive reinforcement.
BOOM 💥 same here!!
Praise the Lord 🎉
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Facts I kept pressing override until one day I was done...
My narc had stomach issues (soul); did not sleep well (mind in turmoil) and once was grinding his teeth so bad I immediately thought oh fuck a crack or meth head.
Those narcissist are demon possessed!
He is just going to have to get over it.
Amazing what happened to me dealing with a Narc! I was pushed into a spiritual awakening and it changed my life forever GOD IS NOT DEAD AND WE NEED TO EXPOSE THEM NOWWW AND FOR GOOD!!!!!! Ihope I catch your live
Funny enough, my ex confessed she was wrong for some stuff to someone I know, but she never confessed to me. When the person told me, I could not belive it. That's when I realize this person was seriously playing games with me.
They don't care..no conscience, empathy or heart.
Spirit energy doesn't lie.
Just saw your ex wife’s interview and as an empath - I just have to say CONGRATULATIONS Brother, for making out and helping educate so many. 🌹 *sending love*
I agree. Personally, it was disturbing to watch.
Where can I view the interview?
@@msdeivory so his wife was being abused, or that’s what she says happened? Wtf.
@@audriiiiroberts3030 link?
Wheres the link
I was too honest by confessing my failures to him. He would NEVER EVER sympathize toward me. He would either tell me why it went wrong or use my failure as something learned for his benefit.
Listen I am still in this situation and been in it or years. Trying to get out. Pray for me everyone.
You've changed my life! I wasent sure I was going to make it through until I found you. Blessings!!
I know he was already a wrecked soul before...that won't change and its not my job to save his soul!!
WE are they prize, they lost souls!!
The narcissist never gets over you. They spend a life time trying to recapture a person or relationship with someone that looks just like you? I know it sounds crazy but they do sometimes go marry someone that looks like you.
True
That is very true!
You are on point ,I came across one who was looking for someone who look like his ex and it was me soon I found out about him I had to run with my life
That is very true
He tried to find someone like me but the new supply took him for his money and didn't bother with him after about six months!!
I definitely can relate to this, never knew people could be this evil to the person that they came to love. So GLAD JESUS had me wrapped in his arms cause going through this almost gave me a NERVOUS BREAKDOWN, THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR GRACE AND MERCIES 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
AMEN AMEN AMEN,,SISTER, Me 2, U r #Not the only one 🎉
I discovered as the Narcissist gets older they go back to the exact way they used to be when their Narcissism 1st kicked all the way in. They are violent full tilt with their so called significant other.
Liikkkeeeee WWHHYYY?????????
They seem to get angrier
@@diamondsstatefinancialsolu6198 wouldn't you be angry if you realized you had thrown away you whole life? Lying? hiding? decreasing? They're in continual turmoil. I can't imagine.
Mines dished it out, but when I dished it back he couldn't take it,, it ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. Narcissist or Not you go around harming people who done no harm to you will then get what the Universe calls Karma, and when Karma gets ahold of you she will put a whooping on you, you will never forget, which is why he will never forget me..He's so use to dumping, when I dumped him,,He wanna cry like a kid and say he ain't never had a woman like me. I served him his Karma for all the other women he hurt.
So did I 💪🏾💪🏾😂😂
Thanks dude.🍀
NARCS never seen none like you CHAMP ! ^^
Funny thing is I wasn't even in a relationship with them🤔
lol
Same.
Same
This video helped me so much.. specially today when I got that infamous text “ I still love you .. I always will” ... it threw me out of balance.. I was asking myself.. why? Why can’t he forget about us and keep living? But here’s my answer.. thank you.
Good Video Harieo. When us empaths come clean about our faults, we don't have to continue to suffer, becase we've come clean. But narcissists, are full of pride, and other evil spirits.👺 They would go to there graves not acknowledging, or admitting to us their cruelitys they've done to us empaths.💞🕊
Thank you again Hario for EVERYTHING YOU DO! You literally save lives! WE ARE WINNING❤
Yes they can be notorious for fakeness
Thank you hario! Mine eyes have been opened to the abuse I suffered at the hands of my ex narc. I'm going on six months no contact, I took her back once but never again! When I took her back it was three years of hell and torment. She literally came back to destroy me and I almost didn't make it. She took pleasure watching me suffer from the abuse she was dishing out. Now I'm dealing with the rumination and I also feel like I'm being watched by her.
Same problems happening here no going back 😭😭
Same thing happened to me... you will heal and you will move on bro... stay positive... stay productive!!!
Same story my friend. Glad to see you in this space, gaining some clarity. 7 months, no contact. The best place I've been, in the 20 years of knowing this narc
Run, if you have to run to the edge of the universe, please do. Get away from a narcissist.
You’re more than absolutely right. I figured out my situation out on my own by just watching and listening to him talk his words were a lot different than his actions so I told him not to call me again ever and I met it💃🏿💃🏿💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hario, this video topic was meant for me today. Thank God. Thank you. Peace to whomever reads this and has been heartbroken by a narcissist. I am praying for you all. Hang in there.
Thank u
Thank you
you could be right. i literally watched 2 family members catch cancer. 1 passed away from it. Narcs get sick faster when they get older. Stress and anger affects you physically.
All of our spirits and gut instinct was kicking off but we all hanging in on hope of happiness.
I prayed and asked God to show me if my ex wasn't meant for me... Mann, I WAS NOT READY..... make sure you're ready to receive confirmation when you wanna know something, be safe my. People ❤️
Honey, glad did you a favor. Be strong hun.
Narcissist are horcrux for the devil.
Beautiful video and audio quality. Thank you very much, your channel have helped me so much.
@@anthonyjohnson5647 you too❤️
Yes.. I asked the same thing and days later I called his phone only for him to mistakenly answer and heard another women in the background.. OH BABY THEY WAS HAVING A GREAT TIME FROM WHAT I COULD HEAR!! I just thank God for it!! Yes!! I WAS READY FOR CONFIRMATION!!🙏🏾
How is so many people not liking these videos? Hario is putting in mad work and a like is so simple, think about it, it’s the least we can do!! 🧡
I always say this when I click the video that’s the first thing I do, so I don’t forget.
After 23+ years of being 'gone'...and going through 5 kinds of Hell, now recovering on all fronts. I flatly could NOT care less about 'what' 'if' or anything else that they may think of me...they were HAUNTED before I turned up!! Karma WORKS!!!
U r talking #DIRECTLY about my #VERY wicked #VOODOO PRIESTESS Mother🎉
We have the peace that transcends all understanding
New here.. this dude is the real deal.. he keeps it real and simple.. this is his calling, to help ppl in need of answers and ppl who needs to hear things in a different perspective to get them through their day, month year.. we appreciate u
Amen to this I'll always win in front of my enemies 😇
They never say that they are sorry and will never apologize to you. They have bad nightmares of death. They can't sleep at night.
You are right. He would never be truthful and the evidence is in their face
Thank You for these videos, very helpful. I finally let my narcissist go. Haven't been with him since 2016. Basically, I started talking crazy to him, going into character on him and guy got turned off. This man will wait a year or two and tries to reconnect again with me and I repeat my cycle with him, talk crazy, act crazy. This actually helps me to perfect my craft of acting.
My narcs devalue and smear campaigns for me backfire on him and he lost his flying monkeys because his mask come off after I turned him down and refused entertain him after I found out he cheated.
And i #Just subscribed 2 Ur channel, Sir🎉😂❤🎉😂❤
So powerful!!! I thought he couldn't let me go because he loved me...Silly me, I know better now xx thank you
I know this for a fact the spirit told me to leave it Surely did ; but I didn’t listen n why did i do that . They stole money , cheated even more , and the lies was unstoppable. I went back n prayed to GOD n asked him for another chance with the spirit within me to let him speak again and I promise to GOD I will listen . GOD answered my prayers n I got out n didn’t look back n when I tell you my life has done a 360 turn for the better I’m telling you . If I had 10,000 tongues GOD I couldn’t thank you enough for what you have n continue to do for me . Glory to you GOD n the name of JESUS Christ hallelujah .
This was difficult to listen to because every word you said was exactly what I went through with my narc. I kept hitting the reset button for years before something just clicked and I made the decision that I had enough. You are correct in the brutal truth that they never change.
I was told sharing too much but this man triggers me to feel like sharing. He is for real.
I thank God for giving me the courage to get rid of my burden. After going no contact for 6 years, I graduated this year from college which he had prevented me from going. What great revenge! The no contact really works, it's a matter of time and you will be fine.
39 years- terrible- she eventually convinced me I was/am a mistake.The mother of my 4 children. But I’m out now - running
HARIO .. U HAVE A HEALTHY GLOW ABOUT U! LIFE MUST BE TREATING U RIGHT! THE NARCISSIST MAY NEVER GET OVER ME. BUT .. IT DOESN'T MATTER. I'M OVER HIM! I CANNOT BE AROUND SOMEONE .. WHO IS HATEFUL .. MEAN-SPIRITED & EVIL! OR .. SOMEONE .. WHO CAN'T OWN UP TO WHAT THEY DID TO ME! REFLECT ON IT .. & CHANGE FOR THE BETTER! I LEFT THE STATE .. & I LEFT HIM! ONCE I MAKE A DECISION .. THERE'S NO GOING BACK!!!!
I was with a narcissist for 14 years and have kids with her. I realized the more I would bring up trying to resolve the things done to me it got worse and literally tried destroying my life from every angle. I'm in recovery stage rebuilding
Has anyone else been bombarded with the question: "See what you made me do?" ???
I remember being yelled at like a stray dog taking a pee on Christmas dinner for spilling a bit of coffee. When I went to get a paper towel to wipe up the mess, I was yelled at for "wasting his supplies and money". He fully justified this hour long tirade of berating me because "I made him mad" by spilling some coffee. This is an extremely minor example of what happened almost daily. But wondering, has anyone else experienced this complete lack of accountability and actually blamed for the abuse?
I failed.. 😔 I replied to a hoover and there I was in the middle of reuniting with my ex narc. After 2 wks.He suddenly did a 180 and started to be ugly,mean to me.Worse than before.I felt as if he was punishing me for being apart for 3 months. I started to feel confusion and self doubt, worthless. 😥💔How could I be so blinded 😓I then immediately ended it.I changed my number.Im so angry at myself for falling for his lies
😠 Don't make my mistake.do not reply.They will never change..God sees and knows everything.✝️ You are 💯 .I pressed the override.. 😞Thank you so much🙏🙏🙏🙏 💯💯💯💯💯.
After 8 years off and on with my narc ex I did the same thing. He just started a new relationship after I last spoke with him 4 weeks ago. He's started hoovering on my business fb the last 2 weeks. I've been preparing myself to receive a call. I will be no contact. Don't feel bad, you know now he won't change.
wow never would have seen this perspective. thanks. makes sense why most of them die alone from heart attacks
I’ve had some narcs in my life years ago. At the time I didn’t no about narcissism. I just thought they was mean or evil ppl. But one thing the narc told me that blow my mind and I new I had to get away from this evil person. Was they told me. They would pray that certain ppl would suffer and had bad luck. And they wished they could witness it. And the narc prayed they would win financially and have lots of money and they wouldn’t share none with the ppl they prayed would suffer.. now mind you this is all immediate family. The mother is the narc. And the kids was abused. I’m so glad I got away. September will be 5 years since the final disguard. They disguard me and my children. And still no apology. No atolment. In fact. The last conversation I had with my narcissist mother. She said she will never apologize. And sad part is in the past. I’ve always apologized even when I wasn’t wrong because I valued the relationship with family
I had never heard of a narcissist until I married one, I'm so happy I have educated myself, it has lead to my healing. Thank U
This man is the best at helping people understand narcissist he's helped me so much
This is the Best Video Yet.
Each Day that Goes by I'm Getting Stronger & Stronger.
All I can say is, You Can't do Ugly things & Expect a Beautiful Life.
I still have a Problem with the time I Wasted on the X but I'm Not Mad at him anymore.
He's Going to Get What's Coming to him. Marriage Vows are Made Between 2 People & God. When God Sees Someone Breaking that Vow, God's Sees that Person as a Liar !!!
God Knows I was Great to the X & Faithful to the Bitter End.
My Conscience is Clean.
You are absolutely Right, I did press override...but HalleluYAH, I've been delivered from that self-destructive path!!
“We pressed the override…” Yes we did. I LOVE this statement of self-accountability. It’s an act that truly frees us from all that bad karma and allows us to grow up. They actually make us better… when we finally decide to do the right thing.
Thisssssss!
They really love it because it gives them a relief for a temporary period of time and it was always prove it!!!! Hario you are a beautiful and wonderful man and I am so happy I found you!!!!!!! You are so special and kind!!!!! Thank you so very very much!!!!!!!!!
Blessed and high favored
Do they really believe they did anything wrong though to carry a burden? They seem to be able to justify everything they do, it's always someone else's fault. Do they even know down deep how evil they are? I think they are miserable souls, but since they lack all empathy I don't know if they can carry around any burden or guilt. They get over you when they get new supply and then can just blame you for everything.
You are an amazing preacher for healing! Keep up doing your amazing work. You are an angel. Thank you from across the Ocean! 🙏🏻🌟
I always knew she was bad news but and the inner voice told me to stay away. Narcs always have their own reality and not engaging in their reality will set you free. Living in their reality is burdensome, staying away from them is good but when they know your weaknesses they use them to get back. Once you stand your ground and confront them. That is when they call you boring, they won't leave until they are convinced they really replaced you according to their reality
Wowwwwwwwwwww... this hits hommmmeeee for meeeee!!!! I needed this tonight. God bless 🙌🏽
the people that dislike this video are definite under cover narcs! Smh
My ex did own up to how he treated me but on the other hand will come back and say he don't understand why I treat him the way I do.
Just got divorced yesterday from one. Not ever going back, but need to continually remind myself of his awful behavior and not to feel empathy for him. He is reaping what he sewed. Carrying all of his bad Karma. Oh well!! I'm Free!
Red flags galore, should have ran like my hair was on fire. Good riddence narcy narc!!!!!
I AM SO GLAD FOR YOU HARIO. NEVER DID I KNOW HOW MUCH THIS MAN AS GROWN AS HE IS, 55 YEARS OLD, act as if he is in his 30's.
I ONLY KNEW THIS MAN INTIMATELY FOR SEVERAL WEEKS. I AM 8 YEARS OLDER THAN HE IS. OMG WHAT A JOKE .
Wow... thanks for allowing God to use your mouth...you are very inspiring and your heart is pure!🕊️