Can Christians Live Together Before Marriage? | Ask Redeemer

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  • Can Christians Live Together Before Marriage? | Ask Redeemer
    Pastor Tim Anderson, Pastor of Member Care at Redeemer Bible Church, answers the question "Can Christians live together before marriage?"
    Can they? Yes. Should they? No.
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Комментарии • 47

  • @wildblue7832
    @wildblue7832 3 года назад +15

    No! No! No! It's fornication before marriage. Come on now! It's common sense

    • @oscarcat1231
      @oscarcat1231 Год назад +2

      Those without the Holy Spirit don’t understand these Biblical truths.

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 6 месяцев назад +3

      Living under the same roof as your partner isn't a sin at all.

    • @FeedLips
      @FeedLips 28 дней назад

      Sex is different than sharing an address. Your reasoning is basically all roommates have sex.😂😂

  • @FeedLips
    @FeedLips 28 дней назад +1

    Like a lot of preachers, he's teaching the right message, but his reasoning is all screwed up. For instance, a car does not appreciate when it is test-driven. It depreciates when it is purchased. He tells us all the things we need to know about marriage, but none of it directly addresses the Biblical support for why we shouldn't cohabitate. I don't need his opinion. I NEED SCRIPTURE.

  • @lizholt8416
    @lizholt8416 3 года назад +14

    Can Christians live together before marriage? No!! It's in direct violation of scripture. Scripture is NOT silent about fornication. It's sin - call it what it is.

    • @kuntakinte1416
      @kuntakinte1416 Год назад +2

      The bible said fornication is sin, not cohabiting.

    • @ichbinschlechtinclashroyal6833
      @ichbinschlechtinclashroyal6833 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@kuntakinte1416 there is no cohabitation without fornication. Lets be real

    • @kuntakinte1416
      @kuntakinte1416 8 месяцев назад +6

      @ichbinschlechtinclashroyal6833 Yes, there is. It's called self-control.

    • @ichbinschlechtinclashroyal6833
      @ichbinschlechtinclashroyal6833 8 месяцев назад

      @@kuntakinte1416 No human being has "self control" when sexual tension between a couple arises and you know it very well. Don't be in denial

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 6 месяцев назад +4

      Bro what? It is not AT ALL a sin to live with your partner before marriage as long as there is no sexual relations. The bible never said living with someone is a sin.

  • @normaazgomez9330
    @normaazgomez9330 Год назад +10

    Glad I came across this video. I used to live with my boyfriend when I had just turned Christian. I eventually moved out because we both relapsed (we were in recovery) and it did not go well for me. We are both doing better now and are going to church. I've been repenting and feel so bad of everything that happened. How can I call myself a Christian if I don't have self-control?
    That's why I did not move back in. But we both talked about getting married, we sincerely want to be with each other. So, I am going to continue to have self control and listen to the Word of God. I am afraid of going to hell.
    Problem is that he is not Christian. He says he believed in Christ and he grew up Catholic. Although he does not practice it nor prays. So, I've been guiding him by introducing him to other men in the church and pray for him. I can't lose hope. Prayers and advices will be well received. Thank you for sharing scriptures on this topic.

    • @Brenda-ny1gw
      @Brenda-ny1gw 2 месяца назад +1

      Leave him! You don't want a demon next to you at night

    • @tarikatrezy3962
      @tarikatrezy3962 2 месяца назад

      Don't do it because you are afraid of going to hell, do it because the love you have for christ is more than the love you have for your man.

  • @JohnPaul-ts8dq
    @JohnPaul-ts8dq 3 года назад +15

    When the flesh deceives you, you will sin.

  • @severnymultiple654
    @severnymultiple654 2 месяца назад +1

    Living relationship is living together withouth Sex. . . . . . . And after marriage = SEX.

  • @SouthofStafford
    @SouthofStafford 3 года назад +5

    Amen! A sad trend among professing believers.
    Can you comment (or add another teaching video?) regarding those who are engaged and living together but swear nothing is happening physically and that they are staying pure? (We believe it is still wrong, but would love to hear your insights and wisdom regarding that caveat.) Thank you for your excellent, direct teaching!

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 6 месяцев назад

      It is not a sin to live in the same house as each other.

  • @kissfrankgreen2975
    @kissfrankgreen2975 2 года назад +4

    I cohabited with my girlfriend before I gave my life to Christ. After having two children, i visited the parents and we are planning to marry. We both got baptized and we want to marry. Please let us know more what to do biblically.

    • @griertyler
      @griertyler Год назад +1

      “What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? By no means! How can we who died to sin still live in it?”
      ‭‭Romans‬ ‭6‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ ‭ESV‬‬
      If y’all haven’t already, I would get married.

    • @Candy-fr6jz
      @Candy-fr6jz 7 месяцев назад +1

      Two choices; Get married this week at the courts and have wedding ceremony later. As long as you continue to live together before married is not wise and not setting an example to the world and other believers who are thinking about doing it. Your life is suppose to be holy testimony. If you don't wish to get married with legal document and ceremony later but wish but want to do all at same time. Then do what is right now ans separate into to different living places to avoid sexual temptation but even just to set the example to others on how you should have done it right to begin with. You can live apart in different house at at parenst house or friend for a year and still plan wedding from there.

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 Месяц назад

      @@Candy-fr6jz There's nothing wrong with living with someone chill out...

  • @TimothyDeck
    @TimothyDeck 10 месяцев назад +1

    How would you approach a situation where there is a gay women living with straight men in the church? It makes me struggle and need solid answers. Thank you

  • @mattmonteith2175
    @mattmonteith2175 7 месяцев назад +1

    Our new pastor said its a sin to live together is a sin but had nothing to back it up the only thing he had no sex before marriage thats a different level. But u both have your each room i don't see it as a problem not less say if she or he is just a room mate nothing more so that's a sin too?

  • @bellajean6731
    @bellajean6731 Год назад +2

    We had deaths of three children. We lived togather. Now we are married.

    • @oscarcat1231
      @oscarcat1231 Год назад +1

      Sorry to hear that. What happened? X

  • @angelacasein7059
    @angelacasein7059 Год назад +2

    Living together is the deep trench of sin, it’s very macabre and invites the devil to your dinner table

    • @jeremiahbaker997
      @jeremiahbaker997 7 месяцев назад

      Where in the Bible does it say that

    • @jeremiahbaker997
      @jeremiahbaker997 7 месяцев назад

      Yes, sex before marriage is a sin and the appearance of evil is a sin example if you live together but you’re not having sex, but the world thinks you’re having sex that’s a sin…. But where in the Bible does it say living together before marriage is a sin

  • @CesarD321
    @CesarD321 3 года назад +2

    Amen!

  • @NinjennyLand
    @NinjennyLand Месяц назад

    Please pray for Me✝️

  • @rockstarbgmi2498
    @rockstarbgmi2498 6 месяцев назад

    Living together without any sexual interactions is it is a sin ? Please reply

    • @monkei8405
      @monkei8405 6 месяцев назад +1

      No, it’s not. Nothing in the Bible comments on cohabitation alone.

    • @mjl7437
      @mjl7437 15 дней назад

      ​@@monkei8405bible doesn't tell us not to do drugs but we know it's wrong

  • @MD-tr1yv
    @MD-tr1yv Год назад

    Yeah

  • @Nicole116_
    @Nicole116_ 3 года назад

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @bimosunupoernomo7120
    @bimosunupoernomo7120 3 года назад +1

    Yes they can, but not supposed to.

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 6 месяцев назад

      Why are they not supposed to? The bible never said living with your partner before marriage was a sin. It's not a sin if there's no sexual relations.

    • @opictia
      @opictia Месяц назад

      @@HenrySimmons1225but she’s not your partner if your not married! Sex or no sex! Your still lusting after her. Not saying you personally.

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 Месяц назад

      @@opictia 1. She is your partner. Have you ever heard of boyfriend and girlfriend? 2. Relationships aren't usually out of lust...

    • @opictia
      @opictia Месяц назад +1

      @@HenrySimmons1225 she’s is a “friend” she wears tight shorts or a bathing suit don’t tell me we don’t go man she’s hot and the sinful thoughts start creeping in. I’m just as guilty and the next person I’ve done it. Just saying it’s the temptation that can creep in. Everybody has done it nobody is perfect. It’s just not a good idea to live together before marriage.

  • @annetrabowman6508
    @annetrabowman6508 Год назад

    It can definetly reveal things about your spouse