I’m ngl the ACCOUNTABILITY everyone in this story took us amazing, although they made mistakes. They kept pushing. I want my life to be like this fr. 💪🏽
Man just leave if they doing once they will do it again. She showed him and told him he meant nothing to her for real. Even turned on him for trying to share his feelings. Who wants to be married to anyone who treats them like that. While he was out working his self to death for them to have better life.
I don't know, man. I wouldn't jet my girl/wife be that close to any other man, be gay or not. The fact is that she disrespects you and lashes out when you try to discuss, especially when she canceled your date.
My understanding is that soulmate isn't the one you're destined to fall in love with, but rather people that are destined to be in your life, like friends. Pretty much anyone you have a deep connection with. I think twin flame is the person you're destined to fall in love with
Idrc it doesn't excuse forgetting about their date, calling him her soulmate (idrc what girls on reddit say, you can't have more than one soulmate that's bull shit)or cuddling with another man, no matter how she felt during it all she still should have been better to her husband she needs to do more than just apologize, he had every right to leave and i can't say that i wouldn't have highly considered it in his shoes
Eh, soulmate is a weird thing.. From my understanding, it's not as much the person you're bound to fall in love with romantically as someone that's meant to be in your life. In that case, yes, you can have multiple soulmates. I think twin flame is the person you're destined to fall in love with? (To clarify, I'm not defending the wife)
I would have left her. When she said OP wasn't her soul mate, that would be the end of the relationship for me. Idc if she was lashing out because she was worried chuck would be kicked out. There are some things you should never say. Granted, when she called Chuck her soul mate I would've been out then and there as well.
@@Bloomzz ohh no! A missing period! The horror! As if a period at the end of a comment means anything. Meanwhile, that comment at the top of the thread is illegible. Nit picky much?
Idk man. I'm sure she was honest about what really happened and how she was just anxious about her friend's well-being, but that doesn't excuse her being terrible to her husband and making her friend a top priority. She's not responsible for him, that's what therapists are for. Kind of felt like she just used her friend to have fun while using her husband for financial stabilith and to live in his house.
Cause god forbid he forgives her because she genuinely changed. I swear the word doormat is losing all meaning on this channel. "Op forgives his girlfriend/wife for literally anything? WHAT A DOORMAT, AM I RIGHT FELLAS". Shut up.
@@Itzme2486 no, it's true. Doormat keeps meaning the same thing it always has, a man that lacks all self respect. People should not be forgiven without penance and the OP should be ready to drop her and move on if she ever puts someone else above him, of it was me I would even lose any desire to have children with her, she's going to abandon them.
@@vaxel0068 I see what you mean. But my thing is, if someone wants to give someone another chance, why should that automatically make him a loser doormat. Especially if said someone genuinely wants to change and be better. Sure, it's probably best to just drop someone right then and there, but if you can find it in your heart to give someone a second chance, then good on you. If everyone did what op "should have done", then forgiveness and everything associated with that word would go the way of the dinosaurs. If you can't forgive someone, that's ok, but if you can, that too is also ok.
@@Itzme2486 you can give other people as many chances as you want, but you can't be surprised when they backstab you again nor can you ask for sympathy from others that warned you. Which is why there has to be some kind of penance for any transgression before they can be forgiven, in OP's case I would demand she minimize contact with the friend and to never involve herself into his life, they can be friends but never again can she hang out with him or share their problems, she has shown that she can't handle it.
Hey a happy-ish ending for once. Statistically speaking relationships that can work through and overcome hardships end up being more resilient and lasting longer.
Haven’t finished the story yet but what the hell is happening, “Girls have more than one soulmate.” That doesn’t make any sense, it is soulMATE there is no s meaning singular which means one. That claim is stupid, she just loves her “Gay” bff. But let’s be honest, he is probably bisexual or at least he is for her. Maybe he like the husband and that is why she gets him out of the house all the time so they aren’t together and why she got so mad when he said that he loves the bff (I know not like that but she might have thought it) and got mad because her bff said the same.
"In current usage, soulmate usually refers to a romantic or platonic partner, with the implication of an exclusive lifelong bond. It commonly holds the connotation of being the strongest bond with another person that one can achieve." Granted, it's from Wikipedia, but every other thing I'm seeing says the same thing, so..
She continues to put OP second. Why is OP the one setting up dates still. She needs to be single for a week or two. It's also disgusting to expect a man to "stay and fight" when he feels disrespected.
I can't believe that some "people " are saying they would divorce the second they heard that being said. Not asking questions or considering having a conversation, or anything? Sure glad I don't have a parter like that!
if my wife doesn't respect me ,so be it, i will leave her.... i don't like the persons who too comfortable to their relationship that has right to disrespectful infront to the OS ...no No No!
I would’ve taken my things and filed for divorce in secret the moment she called someone else her soulmate, The only thing that I would’ve actually told her it’s fine go be with your soulmate, but I need to leave you because if you’re not my soulmate, then I need to go find mine.🙏🏻
Please 🙄 gay dont mean shit ... plenty of gay do their gay best friends that isn't the sex they are attractive too... plenty of gay girls have kids how did that happen I wonder cuz gay don't mean shit to some
Do you mean since he's gay, there's no chance they cheat and OP shouldn't be uncomfortable? It's not about that friend or if he's gay. She can be with anyone she love. The problem is she disrespected OP and put her husband, her most important guy to second place again and again.
Gay is not a bad word, but one to describe one’s sexual orientation. It’s like saying someone is straight. I get that some people may think it’s not a word to say freely (which I don’t agree with) but how is sex/sexual not just as bad? Not to be that person, but people who agree 👇🏼
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I’m ngl the ACCOUNTABILITY everyone in this story took us amazing, although they made mistakes. They kept pushing. I want my life to be like this fr. 💪🏽
She was so disrespectful of their relationship. I hope he makes her prove she’s changed.
Man just leave if they doing once they will do it again. She showed him and told him he meant nothing to her for real. Even turned on him for trying to share his feelings. Who wants to be married to anyone who treats them like that. While he was out working his self to death for them to have better life.
Indeed @@newolympiangod8134
I don't know, man. I wouldn't jet my girl/wife be that close to any other man, be gay or not. The fact is that she disrespects you and lashes out when you try to discuss, especially when she canceled your date.
Now she's back peddling. Hubby got in on project that will bring big money. She's just trying to save "her" paycheck.
You can not have more than one soulmate. The entire point of a soulmate is that it's that one person that was made just for you.
Fr
The women who told him that women have multiple '' soulmates '' are just bunch of cheaters
Fr, Reddit needs to get their heads checked
My understanding is that soulmate isn't the one you're destined to fall in love with, but rather people that are destined to be in your life, like friends. Pretty much anyone you have a deep connection with. I think twin flame is the person you're destined to fall in love with
Idrc it doesn't excuse forgetting about their date, calling him her soulmate (idrc what girls on reddit say, you can't have more than one soulmate that's bull shit)or cuddling with another man, no matter how she felt during it all she still should have been better to her husband she needs to do more than just apologize, he had every right to leave and i can't say that i wouldn't have highly considered it in his shoes
Idc what anyone says, this wife is an excuse for a lady, not a true woman at all
Eh, soulmate is a weird thing.. From my understanding, it's not as much the person you're bound to fall in love with romantically as someone that's meant to be in your life. In that case, yes, you can have multiple soulmates. I think twin flame is the person you're destined to fall in love with?
(To clarify, I'm not defending the wife)
I would have left her. When she said OP wasn't her soul mate, that would be the end of the relationship for me. Idc if she was lashing out because she was worried chuck would be kicked out. There are some things you should never say. Granted, when she called Chuck her soul mate I would've been out then and there as well.
U desert much better and why do you blink out gay?
Cause people get offended to easily
@@jalynruggieri7983who?
That was awful grammar. Reread what you write before posting
@@brianarnold8666where’s your period? You can’t comment on others grammar without checking your own.
@@Bloomzz ohh no! A missing period! The horror! As if a period at the end of a comment means anything. Meanwhile, that comment at the top of the thread is illegible. Nit picky much?
Everyones got their own definition of love but cuddling eith another man, neglecting your boyfriend, disregarding ehat he cares about is NOT LOVE.
not just neglecting her boyfriend, she was neglecting her HUSBAND of 5 years!
Idk man. I'm sure she was honest about what really happened and how she was just anxious about her friend's well-being, but that doesn't excuse her being terrible to her husband and making her friend a top priority. She's not responsible for him, that's what therapists are for. Kind of felt like she just used her friend to have fun while using her husband for financial stabilith and to live in his house.
Agreed
bro gay isn't a bad word wtf
RUclips thinks so
In June? lol 😂😂😂
@@kilbilv99 frrr
This is why communication is so important. Glad they worked it out.
People coming from shorts
0:53 from shorts
You dropped this 👑
Op dropped a 📌 ask the op to give it to u
Wtf, if her soulmate is another guy then why are you there?
Most mature relationship post I’ve seen. Congratulations and I hope you surpass your previous commitment and love towards each other.
Everyone has a friend soulmate
As far as I’m concerned if someone thinks they can have more than one soulmate then they haven’t found their soulmate.
I’m proud of both of them
Although this is not an AITA post, if it were I would say no one in the story is the A hole.
Wife is the ah. But she own up her mistake. But that doesn’t excuse her behavior
Wow, thanks for uploading
Op is a doormat.
Cause god forbid he forgives her because she genuinely changed. I swear the word doormat is losing all meaning on this channel. "Op forgives his girlfriend/wife for literally anything? WHAT A DOORMAT, AM I RIGHT FELLAS". Shut up.
@@Itzme2486 no, it's true. Doormat keeps meaning the same thing it always has, a man that lacks all self respect.
People should not be forgiven without penance and the OP should be ready to drop her and move on if she ever puts someone else above him, of it was me I would even lose any desire to have children with her, she's going to abandon them.
@@vaxel0068 I see what you mean. But my thing is, if someone wants to give someone another chance, why should that automatically make him a loser doormat. Especially if said someone genuinely wants to change and be better. Sure, it's probably best to just drop someone right then and there, but if you can find it in your heart to give someone a second chance, then good on you. If everyone did what op "should have done", then forgiveness and everything associated with that word would go the way of the dinosaurs. If you can't forgive someone, that's ok, but if you can, that too is also ok.
@@Itzme2486 you can give other people as many chances as you want, but you can't be surprised when they backstab you again nor can you ask for sympathy from others that warned you.
Which is why there has to be some kind of penance for any transgression before they can be forgiven, in OP's case I would demand she minimize contact with the friend and to never involve herself into his life, they can be friends but never again can she hang out with him or share their problems, she has shown that she can't handle it.
Aren’t soulmates more of a lust at first sight type thing that manage to workout.
Hey a happy-ish ending for once. Statistically speaking relationships that can work through and overcome hardships end up being more resilient and lasting longer.
Haven’t finished the story yet but what the hell is happening, “Girls have more than one soulmate.” That doesn’t make any sense, it is soulMATE there is no s meaning singular which means one. That claim is stupid, she just loves her “Gay” bff. But let’s be honest, he is probably bisexual or at least he is for her. Maybe he like the husband and that is why she gets him out of the house all the time so they aren’t together and why she got so mad when he said that he loves the bff (I know not like that but she might have thought it) and got mad because her bff said the same.
"In current usage, soulmate usually refers to a romantic or platonic partner, with the implication of an exclusive lifelong bond. It commonly holds the connotation of being the strongest bond with another person that one can achieve."
Granted, it's from Wikipedia, but every other thing I'm seeing says the same thing, so..
She continues to put OP second. Why is OP the one setting up dates still. She needs to be single for a week or two.
It's also disgusting to expect a man to "stay and fight" when he feels disrespected.
She will never be single after all she's got the '' gay '' best friend who she love from the start just could not get due to him being gay
The good ending
soul mate
noun
noun: soulmate
a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner.
Would you look at that, 🤔
It says close friend
@@n1rvana_ I know, that was partially my point.
Yeah I'm noticing that. What I'm seeing on Google is a soulmate is anyone you have a deep connection with, platonic or romantic
I can't believe that some "people " are saying they would divorce the second they heard that being said. Not asking questions or considering having a conversation, or anything? Sure glad I don't have a parter like that!
@@2shy1151 I blame Tiktok for romanticizing "Soulmate" so much
I like when he said EH
if my wife doesn't respect me ,so be it, i will leave her.... i don't like the persons who too comfortable to their relationship that has right to disrespectful infront to the OS ...no No No!
Oh he's a sucker.
Break up with her
Remember guys don't be simps, love is nothing without respect
Why is gay being censored, have we as a society really fallen far enough that a word that originally is a synonym for happy is offensive?
I would’ve taken my things and filed for divorce in secret the moment she called someone else her soulmate, The only thing that I would’ve actually told her it’s fine go be with your soulmate, but I need to leave you because if you’re not my soulmate, then I need to go find mine.🙏🏻
Why is the word "gay" censored?
Glad they worked it out :) that must’ve been tough
I'm pretty sure they are screwing.
But it’s her gay best friend…he’s…gay…
The break up mightve made him bi but idk
Please 🙄 gay dont mean shit ... plenty of gay do their gay best friends that isn't the sex they are attractive too... plenty of gay girls have kids how did that happen I wonder cuz gay don't mean shit to some
“Gay”
@@hyperdiamond6086 tf is bi
Do you mean since he's gay, there's no chance they cheat and OP shouldn't be uncomfortable?
It's not about that friend or if he's gay. She can be with anyone she love.
The problem is she disrespected OP and put her husband, her most important guy to second place again and again.
Why is gay censored?
Censoring gay during pride month is wild
its based it doesnt matter what month it is but sticking it in someones rear will never be normal
@@SexManNordinwho gaf
@@SexManNordin Ik, but I was more so joking
Cap
Gay is not a bad word, but one to describe one’s sexual orientation. It’s like saying someone is straight. I get that some people may think it’s not a word to say freely (which I don’t agree with) but how is sex/sexual not just as bad? Not to be that person, but people who agree 👇🏼
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