Another wonderfully inciteful video. When I was a child my Narcissistic mother would say, "I shouldn't have to ask you, you should know what you need to do." I adopted this philosophy and was never comfortable asking for what I wanted and hoping the other person could figure it out."
I have an adult son who is a narcissist. I went no contact over two years ago. I had to, I got ill and I do not want to die. I am glad that you are feeling better.
Omg nooo I didnt know she passed away 😢 I'm so sorry to her this..she brung so much information to us In her lifetime..this is what she was call to do an now she has her beautiful wings 🪽 🕊 rest in heavenly peace miss Roberta 🙏 🙏 ❤GOD HAS ANOTHER ANGEL...from cleveland ohio.
I'm really looking forward to more videos about dealing with Narcissistic adult children. There is so much victim shaming of mothers of Narcissistic children. I believe there is a genetic personality component as well as the dynamics between a people pleasing codependent mother and a genetically predisposed Narcissistic child.
Totally unbelievable but totally TRUE! Once you get this- you'll see it in many other places with people you know- who still don't know and YOU'LL be glad YOU KNOW- get through the grief process (accepting the truth) and it does get better- not with them but with US and start to know.... "WE MATTER"! Then leave the rest up to GOD- because we can't fix them!
Roberta, so good to see and hear you, again! Are you going to be okay, going forward? I keep you in my prayers. The Lord Jesus can heal your body and anything else, trust in Him!
Good morning, Roberta. I didn't bother to acknowledge you this morning. I'm glad your here to help me understand I'll remember what was mentioned. "What he wants most is to make one wrong",this will help me realize why he has and still says the things he does, right? I've been in this relationship for 40 odd years or more, I met him way back then when he was 12, and I felt sorry for him because he lost his mother and father my motherly friendship started back, then "maybe I was targeted back then? However I appreciate all the things you have mentioned to help me. Thank you so much for all you've done,God bless you more❤
Just 2weeks ago the jackal told me we didn’t spend enough time together, of course he wasn’t working. now I say the same thing and I am a c word change the goal post
RIP Roberta. So sad to hear about her passing. Roberta wanted to inspire and empower those needing to awaken to the cruelty of those who feel entitled to use people to meet their selfish needs and desires. Thank you Roberta for all your help, advice and encouragement. Such a bright star🌟. Shine on 🙏🙏🙏❤️⭐️
So if u can't please them, they withhold information, they treat u unjustly then how do u work with this person? Ignore them? Mi imize conversation? Don't respond? Pretend like they r not there?
Hi i have question I have question for you over affairs. All i what know if i can have affair without having no sex? What type of affair would be just romantic without having no eww sex . Texting Meeting up Talking to them on phone Hugging Kissing Holding hands Watching films Laughing with stephen who i am seeing behind morgan back Watching high school musical that got Zac Efron in it that me and Stephen like . Is emotional and physical affair without having no sex or friendship What type of affair would be
RIP Rhoberta (1945-2024) ❤😢 You will be sadly missed by so many people who you helped along their journey ❤😢xx
So sad to hear about Dr. Rhoberta Shaler. I had just found her, and she gave such helpful advice.
Another wonderfully inciteful video. When I was a child my Narcissistic mother would say, "I shouldn't have to ask you, you should know what you need to do."
I adopted this philosophy and was never comfortable asking for what I wanted and hoping the other person could figure it out."
So happy to see you back, Dr. Shaler. Praying for you dear lady. 🙏🏻💕🥰
I have an adult son who is a narcissist. I went no contact over two years ago. I had to, I got ill and I do not want to die. I am glad that you are feeling better.
It's like living in a haunted horror house- UNBELIEVABLE!!!!
I can see you're like us- still giving giving giving!!!
Omg nooo I didnt know she passed away 😢 I'm so sorry to her this..she brung so much information to us In her lifetime..this is what she was call to do an now she has her beautiful wings 🪽 🕊 rest in heavenly peace miss Roberta 🙏 🙏 ❤GOD HAS ANOTHER ANGEL...from cleveland ohio.
It's wonderful when you realize...you actually matter and that's OK and HEALTHY!
I'm really looking forward to more videos about dealing with Narcissistic adult children. There is so much victim shaming of mothers of Narcissistic children. I believe there is a genetic personality component as well as the dynamics between a people pleasing codependent mother and a genetically predisposed Narcissistic child.
Totally unbelievable but totally TRUE! Once you get this- you'll see it in many other places with people you know- who still don't know and YOU'LL be glad YOU KNOW- get through the grief process (accepting the truth) and it does get better- not with them but with US and start to know.... "WE MATTER"! Then leave the rest up to GOD- because we can't fix them!
Roberta, so good to see and hear you, again! Are you going to be okay, going forward? I keep you in my prayers. The Lord Jesus can heal your body and anything else, trust in Him!
Good morning, Roberta. I didn't bother to acknowledge you this morning. I'm glad your here to help me understand
I'll remember what was mentioned. "What he wants most is to make one wrong",this will help me realize why he has and still says the things he does, right? I've been in this relationship for 40 odd years or more, I met him way back then when he was 12, and I felt sorry for him because he lost his mother and father my motherly friendship started back, then "maybe I was targeted back then? However I appreciate all the things you have mentioned to help me. Thank you so much for all you've done,God bless you more❤
Just 2weeks ago the jackal told me we didn’t spend enough time together, of course he wasn’t working. now I say the same thing and I am a c word change the goal post
I appreciate you Rhoberta! Please feel better ❤soon
Yep always to GET something "for the moment" too! Just for the moment! New game in the next moment!!!!
Thank you so much. You hit the nails on their heads again per usual. I really needed this tonight. I pray you feel better soon.
I can't wait for the adult child videos . Thank you for your work ❤
It's so amazing and sad to see how some children can treat their parents.
Sighing this one... It iS a daily, almost every MOMent struggle.🫠😮💨
I'll change the 'struggle' word, for a better term .. Challenge.🤓
I can understand your passion- dealing with these people is so distructive!!!! Can't be and shouldn't BE UNDERSTATED!
Its just totally insane!
You changed my life and I thank you.
RIP Roberta. So sad to hear about her passing. Roberta wanted to inspire and empower those needing to awaken to the cruelty of those who feel entitled to use people to meet their selfish needs and desires.
Thank you Roberta for all your help, advice and encouragement. Such a bright star🌟. Shine on 🙏🙏🙏❤️⭐️
Thank you for your wisdom.❤much love ❤️
Rip , your contribution keeps on leaving🎉
Bless you for helping bring this to light. It has helped me greatly. I am going to watch your video on triangulation.
Gosh, this applies to my son too so sad😢
truth
1000% TRUE!
Thank you so much for this video 🙏❤️ God bless you Hope you will get better 🙏❤️🙏
Thank you. God bless 🙏❤🕊
So if u can't please them, they withhold information, they treat u unjustly then how do u work with this person? Ignore them? Mi imize conversation? Don't respond? Pretend like they r not there?
YES work on YOU- no you're not the problem BUT...... find our wounds and heal them... WHY we think abusive treatemnet is acceptable- because it's NOT!
Vale😔
Are you okay, I see you are on oxygen ♥️
Even the bible says "don't throw pearls to swine"... do not accept abuse! It is never acceptable or honorable or..... even helpful to THEM!
Hope the Most High grants you a full recovery…the Most High is not Jesus…the Most High created Jesus
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Oh sweety how is your health? What’s going on with you ?
💕👋🏻👍
I am worried about your health, i will pray for you. Have you ask Jesus to be your Saviour ?
Hi i have question I have question for you over affairs. All i what know if i can have affair without having no sex?
What type of affair would be just romantic without having no eww sex .
Texting
Meeting up
Talking to them on phone
Hugging
Kissing
Holding hands
Watching films
Laughing with stephen who i am seeing behind morgan back
Watching high school musical that got Zac Efron in it that me and Stephen like .
Is emotional and physical affair without having no sex or friendship
What type of affair would be
"If you lust after a woman in your heart, you have already committed adultery." -Jesus Christ