Agreed this shows that sadly there’s people who will use peoples despair in this other insecurities, for their own game desperate for answers and they’ll take the first thing that kind of makes sense
I have been watching you for many years. I grew up in Mormon church. And I met my husband and I became a Christian, asking god to show me his ways and to not be so so confused and he did. It was very hard growing up Mormon, but I am free indeed from them. Thank you for stepping out and write in this book.
I am listening to her book in audio. As I listened to her talk about Bill Gothard, I was stuck with how similar the "principals" sound to Mormonism. Not *exactly* the same but SO similar! I attended a Basic Seminar and an Advanced Seminar when I was engaged and newly married. It had a strong effect on my mind. I considered homeschooling my kids through the ATI program when they were old enough. I finally truly understood and believed the Gospel when I was 6 months pregnant with my first baby, even though I was raised in a Christian home and faithfully attended a Bible Preaching church. The Gospel was very muddied through all the standards and rules. I let go of Bill Gothards teachings YEARS ago, but hearing them read aloud from Jinger realize how close IBLP is to Mormonism.
I have an LDS/Mormon background too! I totally saw myself in her book. Although we had a different set or rules and expectations, they were also man-made. Still trying to figure out where I fit in the Christian world, but I'm not giving up.
@@Melissaduns Our experiences are valuable to GOD. HE takes our missteps, pain and trauma and gives us an opportunity to help others. After we give HIM a chance to heal us with HIS unconditional LOVE. Please don’t let Man ruin Your relationship with GOD‼️ For instance, I can’t speak to the experiences and teachings that Jinger wrote in her book but I am deeply moved by my desire to comfort her and possibly minister to her needs but unfortunately I could only Love on her. Where someone who has been in her situation will be more effective helping GOD actually heal her heart. I’m a GOD centered Christian and we LOVE All and we will be there for You when You seek the FATHER GOD always❣️❤❣️. 🙏🏽ing for You and Yours🙏🏽
Watching your journey has been such an eye opening experience for me. As a young Mom our church got into Bill Gothard. It’s hard to put into words how that affected my entire life. 😢 I believe his teachings were a bit harsher for females as well. I’m now almost 70 and what a freeing experience this is becoming for me. Thank you so very much. ♥️ I look forward to reading your book.
@@srwarren103 I understand your point, but she loves her family deeply in spite of all of this, and I believe that rebel is not the right word. More like she’s using the discernment and wisdom given to her by God, and she’s using it freely.
As a young Christian, our church had set up a weekend retreat with Bill Gothard (this was back in the 70’s). I was always disappointed that I could not go, but now I see Gods hand in keeping me away. Thank you for sharing your story Jinger.
Jinger - I just finished your book Friday evening and I'm so very grateful for it! My husband and I and our three sons came out from Mormonism 7 years ago. I related so much to your story of disentanglement and saw a lot of my own journey in it. Several times when reading the book I just burst into tears and had to stop and praise God. I saw so many of our family and friends leave 'The Church' and left God entirely. However, we left and found truth - the true God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. I remember telling God I just wanted truth. I knew I had not been taught correctly but felt like there was bits of truth mingled through all the 'philosophies of men' I had been taught all my life. So much I couldn't tell where the truth stopped and lies begin (and vice versa). Jinger's story her mother-in-law told her at the end of the book describes this so well. Anyway, at the beginning of our journey out of Mormonism, I remember praying/begging God to just show me the truth. I felt him ask me what beliefs I was willing to give up. I told him, immediately, 'Everything. I'll give up everything because I don't know if any of it is true and I just want the truth. However, the only thing I know is that Jesus is my Savior. But, I know I don't even understand what that means!' God, then, in his absolute wisdom and loving kindness began to lead and teach us to the right teachers/books/sermons that taught us to true gospel and his true nature. It took a long time but he led us little by little. I remember when I finally began to understand The Trinity and was just so amazed at how much 'bigger' God is than I ever imagined. Praise god for his loving gospel and praise be to Jesus always for saving our souls. Thank you, Jinger, for your dedication and courage in writing this book.
I watched you on the Tamron Hall show yesterday. You did a great job!! You and Jeremy are adorable. I attend an Assembly of God church. I am extremely proud of you for stepping out, and I am also proud of you for protecting your girls!!! I can see the relief in your eyes. Praying for you and your family daily!!
Jinger -- I have couple different friends that over the years of your family's show actually gave up on Christianity altogether because they felt they were lost causes not able to live up to the Christian perfect standards of the Duggar's and the likes of that circle. I'm so glad you broke free and wrote this book -- I purchased copies of your book to give each of them :)
For someone who has never had a religion and was just taught to be a good person and to never expect anything in return from giving...I really, really enjoyed reading this book. I am so happy for you and so glad you have a wonderful support system! I really do hope it reaches those who need to hear your message.
My heart explodes when I see you speaking the truth in love. I grew up IFB church/school and it's very similar to your upbringing. I rebelled from their legalistic teachings when I was a senior in high school. I knew they were twisting bible verses to mean things they didn't actually mean. Being unequally yoked (based on skin color and not salvation), women not dressing in men's apparel (meaning no pants, even though they make women's pants) ect. Thankfully, it was just at school/church/church activities, and not so much at home. To this day, the distorting of the Bible angers me, and now being an adult, finding out about the sexual misconduct that happened under our noses breaks my heart. So many men unpunished because IFB pastors swept it under the rug and were even perpetrators themselves. Speak it loud, Jinger. We are watching and praying for the hearts and minds of those that need to hear it. 🙏
Purchased the audiobook. I love the books that are read in the author’s voice. It gives it way more personality and personalization to it. I’m already on Chapter 6. So encouraged by it and my eyes are so opened to what went on behind the cameras that I didn’t see. Thanks for sharing your new perspective and I pray that many lives are changed from this book for God’s glory.
I see a brand new confident Jinger after reading the book and watching your interviews. I am so glad that you didn't speak ill of your family and that you know and appreciate that your parents did the best they could in raising and loving you all. 🥰🤗
I’m so grateful for your bravery to share the truth of God, my daughter was im a marriage with similar beliefs. She was in an abusive marriage for 20 years with 7 kids. She is free indeed! God showed her that is not ok!
So many celebrities write books and I have only purchased one out of them all. Happy to say yours is now going to be the second I'm going to buy. I am very eager to hear your story. I too came into adulthood realizing everything I was taught by my parent's religion growing up was not what I personally believe and stand for. It took me several years to figure out where I belong, as far as which church embodies my beliefs. So proud of you for speaking up, and sharing your journey to help others!
So glad for your newfound freedom in Christ,Jinger!-There's nothing like it. Your book and your experience is going to help so many people. May God continue to bless you and your family and bring others into your life who need your testimony. 🙏 I can't wait to read it.😊💖
I'm not a book reader, at all. But I will be buying your book. Your growth and light is so admirable. It's insanely cool to see you become exactly who you are meant to be. You should be so proud of yourself ! ❤️
I’m not sure if you realize your reach to soooo many people, your testimony is bringing God into peoples lives! How courageous you are! You’ve always been one of my favorite Duggars. My respect is at 1000%. This is true Christianity and witnessing. Thank you for allowing God to use you at this time. I’ve been inspired and got out my Bible to look up these things, got lost in the Word like I use to, and I feel closer to God. He’s been doing other things too, but your story has been an inspiration and a great help to others journeys. Great job girl!
JimBob Duggar thought he was bringing God into people's lives by exploiting the entire family on TV. Whatever religion you wish to practice is up to you, but afford others the same privilege without proselytizing.
I’m more than half way done through the book and it has been such a blessing! All of your work has been worth it. Thank you for sharing all of this with us, Jinger!
Jinger, I was also set free from the legalism of the United Pentecostal Church. The Bible tells us that God looks at that heart and man looks at the outward appearance. After 4 years of being told that I couldn't wear make up or jewelry that I can't wear pants and not allowed to cut my hair. I had it!!!! We are saved by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. Not by what we put on or take off. I can totally relate to you and I am so happy for you that God has set you free from the chains that bound you. Stay close to Jesus as we will be going home soon. The Rapture is so soon!!!! God Bless You and your little Family.
Jinger, God had healed your heart and will continue to do so! You are open and honest, yet not throwing loved ones under the bus. May God continue to bless you, Jeremy and your sweet little girls. Sending love from Ohio. I so wish I could give you a hug! 🤗
I’m so proud of you Jinger! When we truly receive the real gospel it really does make you free indeed! Gods using you in a mighty way, love you so much, your sister in Christ, Tara👍🙏❤️🙌
This is my hubby's account. I've viewed you & your family for many years & have never felt the need to comment however I've ALWAYS felt like you'd have more to say but wouldn't being so timid. I feel like I'm meeting the true you for the first time. I'm greatful for your happiness & blessings.
Jinger...., girl... what you have achieved is fantastic! This book is a point in your life that you can look back on with great pride. What a strong woman you are! An example for many. What will you achieve in the future. Go for it.... 👏👏👏
I’m so thankful the Lord lead you to write this book and pray it helps many. I also grew up under some of this teaching although not to the extent your family did. I’m in my 50’s and still have things come up in my heart and I’m saddened but thankful the Lord is working in me. But it does take a while to work through these things. And yes continuing to study Scripture and only look at the Bible is key. It is sad how many follow sinful men above the Bible and then add to it. Truly praying your book helps others to want to dig into Scripture for themselves and gain freedom in Christ alone. 2 Peter 1:2-3
I see you as a great motivational speaker! THE SKY IS THE LIMIT FOR YOU! You have so much knowledge to share with other people that are struggling with all types of issues! Again I am sooo proud of you!
I have both books, but I really enjoyed "Becoming Free Indeed." LIke you I've had some things to work through too e3xcept mine struggles deal more with neglect by my birth parents and sexual abuse by my adopted dad so different from you but I believe on the same level. This video was very helpful. I have thought about writing a book and many people in my life have asked me if I would write a book so thank you so much Jinger. God bless you Jinger! You are amazing. I very much respect and admire you. I love how your raising your girls. Blessings to your family. Blessings
Jinger, I have such a respect for you. I have watched a few of the interviews you have done to promote your book. You have such a grace the way you answered all of the questions. Some of which seemed inappropriate and others that you must have had to answer a million times! You are helping so many, may God bless you more and more!
Oh my goodness I can't even begin to tell you how pleased I am for you and how impressed I am by you. So much strength and grace. I'm sure it's not easy..you are doing amazing and I think you have a lot of people rooting for you, including me!! ♥
I really appreciate you, Jinger! A few months ago, I left a fundamentalist church and now I’m being shunned by even my best friend. This teaching is insidious. I am glad you are becoming free.
Loved listening to your book Jinger! I knew many IBLPers when I was growing up in the conservative homeschool movement of the 80's and 90's. I saw first hand how so many struggled with perfectionism and a host of other things. Listening to your book was a wake up call to me in that although we were not "Gothardites", somehow a lot of his harmful teaching made it into our home and my upbringing. The disentangling continues! Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability and courage to share your story and what God continues to do in your life. To Him be the glory! To Jeremy: How in the world did you endure 60 hours of Bill Gothard? Now that is true love, and you got the girl! 😉
I pre-ordered my copy and it says it will arrive today! I can't wait to hear this story of triumph in disentangling from IBLP. I too like Jinger was raised in a snake-handling church cult and have had the hardest time developing my own beliefs and not those drilled into me as a child. I always based everything I did off the belief that I was going to be in trouble for everything. Always dresses, no soda, no celebrating Christmas with decorations, no purchasing on Sundays, the list is endless.
Did they really handle snakes? Some churches so. I just don’t think God is that legalistic. I will say, I think people should dress nice on Sundays, but that’s just me. I go to a church where they love the Lord and they wear ripped jeans. Lol. God doesn’t care, but man does.
@@karyndewit193 in the South, there are still snake-handling churches around. Far and few, but they’re still there. I work in central Louisiana in a decent-sized city, and I know there was one here a few years ago.
@@karyndewit193 it’s definitely interesting. There’s places here in Louisiana that if you’re not from there, you just don’t go there. I’ve meant to look up on RUclips just to see if there are any church services that are handling snakes.
This is so incredibly awesome Jinger! You have ALWAYS been my favorite! Jeremy, you must be so proud of her and all her accomplishments!! Especially all she's done to become the wife, mother, person she is today!! ❤️❤️
I can't wait to read your book. So many people are fed a false teaching about what being saved and serving God truly is. My precious Dad who's in heaven now was a Baptist preacher for over 57 years. He left a true path for our family and generations to come of the true love of God. I pray for this book to open many hearts and eyes to be set free from false teaching. Love you blessings to you, Jeremy and your precious girls.
There is not a lot of room to see God's grace when jumping through hoops we think God requires of us. I keep thinking about that. It's hard to know we're being legalistic while we're in it. Glad you had good teachers/family.
Watching your journey has brought me to know and want to love the lord. I was not religious before I mean I have been to chruch a few times but not the want to love and know the lord until watching your journey. It has done something to me. Thank you Jinger for encouraging me.
I am looking forward to reading your book Jinger. So proud of you for your boldness and pray for you as this time might be difficult (with people's reactions, especially your family).
I don’t know why and how but I just found you on RUclips! I watched your family’s show for years and also Counting On. I am soooo excited to hear about your book and now can’t wait to get into my hands!
I'm so happy you could write this book. I'm so excited to read it. I grew up in an IFB church under several pastors who were very much influenced by Jack Hyles and such. I even went to Hyles Anderson in Crown Point and First Baptist church for about 5 years. My entire life was wrapped up in church, and the fears that my pastors put into me about serving God , marriage, and Christian growth, and seperation. I've not walked away from my faith in God, but I've learned over the years to change my mindset about how I treated myself and others. I do mot question my doctrine, but I do not condone the mistreatment of our brothers and sisters in the faith in the name of Christianity.
Ginger I have been watching you mature in God through the videos that you share and I am so grateful that you actually found freedom. My question is the church that you guys attend do you have the 13 week program called Freedom if so that is a fantastic course or class to take My wife and I did it twice just a few years ago and truly found freedom from our hurts and hang-ups and baggage that we had been carrying from our past. We watched 19 kids and counting for quite a few years and really enjoyed watching you guys grow up the way that you did I honestly have to say I had questions about a few things as a Christian myself so I'm sure you will be persecuted for your renowned freedom but I can truly say all the way from North Carolina that my wife and I are very proud of you and looking forward to reading your book God bless you and Jeremy keep going forward in Christ
Wow! What an undertaking…Spirit-led for sure to be able to complete the task that was before you. I look forward to reading your book. Blessings to you and your family.
This makes me very, very happy. I kind of watched the show with her whole family when my wife started watching, but the intense legalism and never ever hearing Jesus's name spoken wasn't something I enjoyed. But because I worry about every person I come across, it was hard to forget - especially as other people new to faith could be very confused and fall into what I believe is legalism. Bill Gothard requires way more than one comment. The worry/concern is often that people will realize they're in a cult, sitting under bad teaching, etc, and decide God was the problem. So as others have written, really so happy that Jinger did not walk away from God. He obviously never walked away from her. ❤ Praying her book will reach people who are in similar situations.
Thank you for sharing this journey. I remember watching you when you were younger and to see you come into your own . It’s hard sometimes to cut out things that we grew up with
I’m glad to see you coming into who God has called you to be and doing that which He has called you- in all of your uniqueness- to do. What I also love is that your faith is still intact and you have not attacked or maliciously lashed out at anyone. I appreciate the spirit and intentionality with which this book was written.
I hope your other siblings break free and that your parents let them. What bother me the most was how jim bob defended josh duggar!! How can a father do that!! How he treated jill and how he treated all the girls!! I'm shocked jessa isn't showing you much support. Jill and Joy anna are showing you so much support!! Jinger thank you for sharing your story!! Thank you for telling your truth!! We are proud of you for saying this was wrong!! I admire your strength, your bravery, your courage and confidence!! Your story will help many others!! Your truly inspiring ✨️
You are so sweet and beautiful!!! I'm so proud of you for using your testimony to reach out and touch people's lives and hearts!!! Thank you so much for your openness and honesty!!! I literally CAN'T WAIT!!! Even though I do have to wait until Friday morning!!! God bless you and your words to reach the hurting souls influenced by harmful people who don't mind hurting others. I'm also so extremely grateful to God moving and stirring you to ACTUALLY look into Bill Gothard's words and quest with God to learn, grow in His knowledge, given to us in His Word and turn what the enemy meant for evil into good!!! OH I'm so so SO proud of you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love always Heather ❤️.
Just ordered your book; looking forward to getting acquainted with your journey. May God continue to bless you and Jeremy in all you attempt. 11:48pm on 2 FEB 2023
Jinger,, I just saw your interview with Allie Beth Stuckey. It was tremendous! I never knew where it came from, the teachings you were raised by, and this cleared up so much for me in my mind. Thanks for sharing your story and so happy to know things are clearer for you regarding God's word and its truth! God tells us that "man" is a screw up from day #1 so going to man rather than God's word for direction will forever be a fail. But God is SO GOOD and he gives us what we need, i.e. Jeremy!! LOL Now ... go conquer the world, Girlfriend. Much love and continued joy and blessings to your family!! Excellent job!!
I love how much you’ve been able to grow and how incredibly supportive Jeremy is to you. So happy for you and I can’t wait to listen to the audiobook! ❤
I can’t wait to read it! I can relate to so much of what you have shared so far. How amazing to be part of setting captives free in Gods great love story. ❤
loved the book. I appreciate you being so open and honest. I pray many who are in the same situation take a minute and read it. It will open many eyes. God bless
The Lord really used your television show in my life. I was taking care and helping my father. We loved to watch 19 kids together. I’ve seen every episode I believe. You are loving just like your mother. Your parents are wonderful and they never meant to harm you in anyway. Does the rest of your family agree with you? Either way, they are wonderful, your family. I am thankful for all of you. I think some of the Bates have left Bill Gothard as well for different reasons. Both you and Jeremy have been blessed with wonderful parents. Praying that your book will help those that have been hurt by the organization.
I loved Ojai. You probably drove through my hometown of Santa Paula when you got off hwy126. God is doing alot of healing and exposing of wrong teaching! I'm from So Cal as is my family. I've considered leaving California due to so many issues here. We moved to Central Cal 16 years ago. I have to say that the freedom you've found in Christ has renewed my faith in the fact that it doesn't matter WHERE we live. It matters that we have FREEDOM in Jesus our Savior!! ❤️
Cannot wait to read your new book, congratulations! And as someone who has been contemplating writing a book for some time, you have inspired me, thank you!
I am standing along side Jinger because her testimony gives God honor and glory. Only God can work through Jinger to spread the truth of God’s holy Word.
Oh Jinger! I am so excited for you and I am definitely going to get my copy and read it! That is one thing that you and I have in common is the reason for you writing that book! I want to know how you did it and I am so proud of you for writing this book! Love you lots!
I just ordered your new book and I can't wait until I read it. I have been watching you on TV and I always thought you were and some of your sisters where really neat and still are so awesome.
I ordered mine, it’s being delivered tomorrow! I’m so excited to read it! Congratulations 🙏 Jinger! From watching all the different interviews, you really do look like a more confident young woman… definitely freed!
So proud of you Jinger ! The book is such a great testimony to Christ and an inspiration/ reminder to put your trust in the Lord not men. Also I hope that while it’s understandable that you have regret for all of those times visiting prisons or tlaking to other young women about your “Growing up Duggar “ book you didnt focus on Christ but externals , you and your family did draw some to Christ via your show myself included. I became saved after your family prayed on an episode and I looked up scripture and was saved soon after. Thank you for taking the time to share with us. My prayer is that you continue to seek the Lord and who He is and that you trust Him with your heart enough to allow yourself to be open and a little vulnerable with friends and loved ones. I still struggle with some social anxiety, so I know the battle it can be. Thanking the Lord for you !
Jing, I can't get over those leather pants., you GO GIRL!!!!!!! We are ALL so proud of you!!!!!! Keep reading, learning, and growing. You are doing fantastic!!!!!! 🖤🤍🖤🤍
Congratulations 🎉👏 I admire your courage to write this book and sharing your truth. I hope this book helps many people who may have shared your experiences. I remember watching your family on TV and hoping you and your siblings would find their way out of these false teachings. Even back then I thought out of all the kids you would definitely be independent and come to see the light. God bless you and your family.🙏
Way to go Jinger; you are such an amazing woman. Thank you Jeremy for nurturing this woman and her gift, and for following your heart and reaching for Jinger as your wife. I was raised FLDS; and yes it’s hard to keep the faith when faith has been used to hurt. I don’t follow any religion, but I don’t close my heart (the bible says to join none of these, for they all teach the doctrines of man) My heart is his temple, unless he gives me an unmistakable sign that I need to attend a building.
It’s so good that you wrote your book. I was raised in a Christian home, but not a legalistic one. I watched your family on tv. I know when I was a young married woman Bill Gotherd homeschool stuff is was popular. He was weird.
I have watched you for such a long time.i realize I don't know you but I can recognize self confidence self worth and the change in how you present yourself. ❤I'm so glad that you chose to write this book.
Love seeing her being open and still honoring Jesus!
and her parents as well. She acknowledges that they did the best with what they knew and had.
@@isabellezionchipochaishe7103 Agreed..she didn't drag them thru the mud she showed much respect in honoring them!
Agreed this shows that sadly there’s people who will use peoples despair in this other insecurities, for their own game desperate for answers and they’ll take the first thing that kind of makes sense
I have been watching you for many years. I grew up in Mormon church. And I met my husband and I became a Christian, asking god to show me his ways and to not be so so confused and he did. It was very hard growing up Mormon, but I am free indeed from them. Thank you for stepping out and write in this book.
I am listening to her book in audio. As I listened to her talk about Bill Gothard, I was stuck with how similar the "principals" sound to Mormonism. Not *exactly* the same but SO similar! I attended a Basic Seminar and an Advanced Seminar when I was engaged and newly married. It had a strong effect on my mind. I considered homeschooling my kids through the ATI program when they were old enough.
I finally truly understood and believed the Gospel when I was 6 months pregnant with my first baby, even though I was raised in a Christian home and faithfully attended a Bible Preaching church. The Gospel was very muddied through all the standards and rules.
I let go of Bill Gothards teachings YEARS ago, but hearing them read aloud from Jinger realize how close IBLP is to Mormonism.
Mormonism should be made illegal! And I don’t care who is Mormon and feels hurt by that comment! 🚫
I have an LDS/Mormon background too! I totally saw myself in her book. Although we had a different set or rules and expectations, they were also man-made. Still trying to figure out where I fit in the Christian world, but I'm not giving up.
@@Melissaduns Our experiences are valuable to GOD. HE takes our missteps, pain and trauma and gives us an opportunity to help others. After we give HIM a chance to heal us with HIS unconditional LOVE. Please don’t let Man ruin Your relationship with GOD‼️ For instance, I can’t speak to the experiences and teachings that Jinger wrote in her book but I am deeply moved by my desire to comfort her and possibly minister to her needs but unfortunately I could only Love on her. Where someone who has been in her situation will be more effective helping GOD actually heal her heart. I’m a GOD centered Christian and we LOVE All and we will be there for You when You seek the FATHER GOD always❣️❤❣️. 🙏🏽ing for You and Yours🙏🏽
In NO way is it Hard to grow up Mormon… sounds like You got excommunicated and Don’t want to fess up the reason Why
Watching your journey has been such an eye opening experience for me. As a young Mom our church got into Bill Gothard. It’s hard to put into words how that affected my entire life. 😢 I believe his teachings were a bit harsher for females as well. I’m now almost 70 and what a freeing experience this is becoming for me. Thank you so very much. ♥️ I look forward to reading your book.
She was the one who always stood out a as rebel
@@srwarren103 both her and joy
it wasn't your fault
@@srwarren103 I understand your point, but she loves her family deeply in spite of all of this, and I believe that rebel is not the right word. More like she’s using the discernment and wisdom given to her by God, and she’s using it freely.
I think this is her making this her own faith not just because her parents raised her in a certain way .
As a young Christian, our church had set up a weekend retreat with Bill Gothard (this was back in the 70’s). I was always disappointed that I could not go, but now I see Gods hand in keeping me away. Thank you for sharing your story Jinger.
Jinger has grown so much. I so respect her journey and the way she has processed and presented it.
Jinger - I just finished your book Friday evening and I'm so very grateful for it! My husband and I and our three sons came out from Mormonism 7 years ago. I related so much to your story of disentanglement and saw a lot of my own journey in it. Several times when reading the book I just burst into tears and had to stop and praise God. I saw so many of our family and friends leave 'The Church' and left God entirely. However, we left and found truth - the true God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. I remember telling God I just wanted truth. I knew I had not been taught correctly but felt like there was bits of truth mingled through all the 'philosophies of men' I had been taught all my life. So much I couldn't tell where the truth stopped and lies begin (and vice versa). Jinger's story her mother-in-law told her at the end of the book describes this so well.
Anyway, at the beginning of our journey out of Mormonism, I remember praying/begging God to just show me the truth. I felt him ask me what beliefs I was willing to give up. I told him, immediately, 'Everything. I'll give up everything because I don't know if any of it is true and I just want the truth. However, the only thing I know is that Jesus is my Savior. But, I know I don't even understand what that means!' God, then, in his absolute wisdom and loving kindness began to lead and teach us to the right teachers/books/sermons that taught us to true gospel and his true nature. It took a long time but he led us little by little. I remember when I finally began to understand The Trinity and was just so amazed at how much 'bigger' God is than I ever imagined. Praise god for his loving gospel and praise be to Jesus always for saving our souls.
Thank you, Jinger, for your dedication and courage in writing this book.
I watched you on the Tamron Hall show yesterday. You did a great job!! You and Jeremy are adorable. I attend an Assembly of God church. I am extremely proud of you for stepping out, and I am also proud of you for protecting your girls!!! I can see the relief in your eyes. Praying for you and your family daily!!
So proud of you Jinge the stars are the limit . You speak for so many who are seeking their full voice. Go go go
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Jinger -- I have couple different friends that over the years of your family's show actually gave up on Christianity altogether because they felt they were lost causes not able to live up to the Christian perfect standards of the Duggar's and the likes of that circle. I'm so glad you broke free and wrote this book -- I purchased copies of your book to give each of them :)
For someone who has never had a religion and was just taught to be a good person and to never expect anything in return from giving...I really, really enjoyed reading this book. I am so happy for you and so glad you have a wonderful support system! I really do hope it reaches those who need to hear your message.
I grew up in a similar “religion” i endured SA as a child by an older adoptive brother. Your book to me as a Christian, was such an inspiration ❤
You hit the jackpot with Jeremy! Not only is he supportive and clearly adores you, he’s super handsome and funny!
Loved this BTS video. So proud for Jinger for speaking her truth but keeping Jesus at the forefront. Congratulations on your accomplishment!
My heart explodes when I see you speaking the truth in love. I grew up IFB church/school and it's very similar to your upbringing. I rebelled from their legalistic teachings when I was a senior in high school. I knew they were twisting bible verses to mean things they didn't actually mean. Being unequally yoked (based on skin color and not salvation), women not dressing in men's apparel (meaning no pants, even though they make women's pants) ect. Thankfully, it was just at school/church/church activities, and not so much at home. To this day, the distorting of the Bible angers me, and now being an adult, finding out about the sexual misconduct that happened under our noses breaks my heart. So many men unpunished because IFB pastors swept it under the rug and were even perpetrators themselves. Speak it loud, Jinger. We are watching and praying for the hearts and minds of those that need to hear it. 🙏
Yayy Jinger!! I’m proud to have you out here in CA living your best life, growing and healing. 💕🙏🏻
Purchased the audiobook. I love the books that are read in the author’s voice. It gives it way more personality and personalization to it. I’m already on Chapter 6. So encouraged by it and my eyes are so opened to what went on behind the cameras that I didn’t see. Thanks for sharing your new perspective and I pray that many lives are changed from this book for God’s glory.
I see a brand new confident Jinger after reading the book and watching your interviews. I am so glad that you didn't speak ill of your family and that you know and appreciate that your parents did the best they could in raising and loving you all. 🥰🤗
I’m so grateful for your bravery to share the truth of God, my daughter was im a marriage with similar beliefs. She was in an abusive marriage for 20 years with 7 kids. She is free indeed! God showed her that is not ok!
So many celebrities write books and I have only purchased one out of them all. Happy to say yours is now going to be the second I'm going to buy. I am very eager to hear your story. I too came into adulthood realizing everything I was taught by my parent's religion growing up was not what I personally believe and stand for. It took me several years to figure out where I belong, as far as which church embodies my beliefs. So proud of you for speaking up, and sharing your journey to help others!
So glad for your newfound freedom in Christ,Jinger!-There's nothing like it. Your book and your experience is going to help so many people. May God continue to bless you and your family and bring others into your life who need your testimony. 🙏 I can't wait to read it.😊💖
I'm not a book reader, at all. But I will be buying your book. Your growth and light is so admirable. It's insanely cool to see you become exactly who you are meant to be. You should be so proud of yourself ! ❤️
I'm so proud of you Jinger. You are such a strong and loving person. This will mean so much to so many. Thank you 😊
So proud of you Jinger! So courageous ✝️
I’m not sure if you realize your reach to soooo many people, your testimony is bringing God into peoples lives! How courageous you are! You’ve always been one of my favorite Duggars. My respect is at 1000%. This is true Christianity and witnessing. Thank you for allowing God to use you at this time. I’ve been inspired and got out my Bible to look up these things, got lost in the Word like I use to, and I feel closer to God. He’s been doing other things too, but your story has been an inspiration and a great help to others journeys. Great job girl!
JimBob Duggar thought he was bringing God into people's lives by exploiting the entire family on TV. Whatever religion you wish to practice is up to you, but afford others the same privilege without proselytizing.
I’m more than half way done through the book and it has been such a blessing! All of your work has been worth it. Thank you for sharing all of this with us, Jinger!
Jinger, I was also set free from the legalism of the United Pentecostal Church. The Bible tells us that God looks at that heart and man looks at the outward appearance. After 4 years of being told that I couldn't wear make up or jewelry that I can't wear pants and not allowed to cut my hair. I had it!!!! We are saved by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. Not by what we put on or take off.
I can totally relate to you and I am so happy for you that God has set you free from the chains that bound you. Stay close to Jesus as we will be going home soon. The Rapture is so soon!!!! God Bless You and your little Family.
Jinger, God had healed your heart and will continue to do so! You are open and honest, yet not throwing loved ones under the bus. May God continue to bless you, Jeremy and your sweet little girls. Sending love from Ohio.
I so wish I could give you a hug! 🤗
I’m so proud of you Jinger! When we truly receive the real gospel it really does make you free indeed! Gods using you in a mighty way, love you so much, your sister in Christ, Tara👍🙏❤️🙌
This is my hubby's account. I've viewed you & your family for many years & have never felt the need to comment however I've ALWAYS felt like you'd have more to say but wouldn't being so timid. I feel like I'm meeting the true you for the first time. I'm greatful for your happiness & blessings.
I love the stylist’s energy!!!
Jinger...., girl... what you have achieved is fantastic! This book is a point in your life that you can look back on with great pride. What a strong woman you are! An example for many. What will you achieve in the future. Go for it.... 👏👏👏
So happy for you Jinger! Keep spreading the love and freedom you have in Jesus Christ ❤
I’m so thankful the Lord lead you to write this book and pray it helps many. I also grew up under some of this teaching although not to the extent your family did. I’m in my 50’s and still have things come up in my heart and I’m saddened but thankful the Lord is working in me. But it does take a while to work through these things. And yes continuing to study Scripture and only look at the Bible is key. It is sad how many follow sinful men above the Bible and then add to it. Truly praying your book helps others to want to dig into Scripture for themselves and gain freedom in Christ alone. 2 Peter 1:2-3
I see you as a great motivational speaker! THE SKY IS THE LIMIT FOR YOU! You have so much knowledge to share with other people that are struggling with all types of issues! Again I am sooo proud of you!
I'm so happy you got out of Arkansas and got to meet new people and get a different perspective.
I have both books, but I really enjoyed "Becoming Free Indeed." LIke you I've had some things to work through too e3xcept mine struggles deal more with neglect by my birth parents and sexual abuse by my adopted dad so different from you but I believe on the same level. This video was very helpful. I have thought about writing a book and many people in my life have asked me if I would write a book so thank you so much Jinger. God bless you Jinger! You are amazing. I very much respect and admire you. I love how your raising your girls. Blessings to your family.
Blessings
Jinger, I have such a respect for you. I have watched a few of the interviews you have done to promote your book. You have such a grace the way you answered all of the questions. Some of which seemed inappropriate and others that you must have had to answer a million times! You are helping so many, may God bless you more and more!
Oh my goodness I can't even begin to tell you how pleased I am for you and how impressed I am by you. So much strength and grace. I'm sure it's not easy..you are doing amazing and I think you have a lot of people rooting for you, including me!! ♥
I really appreciate you, Jinger! A few months ago, I left a fundamentalist church and now I’m being shunned by even my best friend. This teaching is insidious. I am glad you are becoming free.
Loved listening to your book Jinger! I knew many IBLPers when I was growing up in the conservative homeschool movement of the 80's and 90's. I saw first hand how so many struggled with perfectionism and a host of other things. Listening to your book was a wake up call to me in that although we were not "Gothardites", somehow a lot of his harmful teaching made it into our home and my upbringing. The disentangling continues! Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability and courage to share your story and what God continues to do in your life. To Him be the glory! To Jeremy: How in the world did you endure 60 hours of Bill Gothard? Now that is true love, and you got the girl! 😉
I pre-ordered my copy and it says it will arrive today! I can't wait to hear this story of triumph in disentangling from IBLP. I too like Jinger was raised in a snake-handling church cult and have had the hardest time developing my own beliefs and not those drilled into me as a child. I always based everything I did off the belief that I was going to be in trouble for everything. Always dresses, no soda, no celebrating Christmas with decorations, no purchasing on Sundays, the list is endless.
Did they really handle snakes? Some churches so. I just don’t think God is that legalistic. I will say, I think people should dress nice on Sundays, but that’s just me. I go to a church where they love the Lord and they wear ripped jeans. Lol. God doesn’t care, but man does.
Why no Christmas? Christmas should be celebrated.
@@karyndewit193 in the South, there are still snake-handling churches around. Far and few, but they’re still there. I work in central Louisiana in a decent-sized city, and I know there was one here a few years ago.
@@brandyparker3987 interesting.
@@karyndewit193 it’s definitely interesting. There’s places here in Louisiana that if you’re not from there, you just don’t go there. I’ve meant to look up on RUclips just to see if there are any church services that are handling snakes.
This is so incredibly awesome Jinger! You have ALWAYS been my favorite! Jeremy, you must be so proud of her and all her accomplishments!! Especially all she's done to become the wife, mother, person she is today!! ❤️❤️
I can't wait to read your book. So many people are fed a false teaching about what being saved and serving God truly is. My precious Dad who's in heaven now was a Baptist preacher for over 57 years. He left a true path for our family and generations to come of the true love of God. I pray for this book to open many hearts and eyes to be set free from false teaching. Love you blessings to you, Jeremy and your precious girls.
There is not a lot of room to see God's grace when jumping through hoops we think God requires of us. I keep thinking about that. It's hard to know we're being legalistic while we're in it. Glad you had good teachers/family.
Watching your journey has brought me to know and want to love the lord. I was not religious before I mean I have been to chruch a few times but not the want to love and know the lord until watching your journey. It has done something to me. Thank you Jinger for encouraging me.
I pre-ordered the book on Audible and I cannot wait to listen to it! God is using you for a BIG purpose! So happy for you! ♥️
Scribd has it now! I cannot stop listening to Her read it...Everything has been on hold today. Seriously. It's so well written.
@@jenniferkastenbaum9336 sooo good!!!!!! I’m loving it!!! 😍😍
@@MelissaD80 Amen!
I am looking forward to reading your book Jinger. So proud of you for your boldness and pray for you as this time might be difficult (with people's reactions, especially your family).
Thank you for sharing. Your a toll model for your family and a lot of families out there.
I love how much of a team you and Jeremy seem to be!
I don’t know why and how but I just found you on RUclips! I watched your family’s show for years and also Counting On. I am soooo excited to hear about your book and now can’t wait to get into my hands!
You’re saying all of the things my heart needs to hear right now. Thank you. ❤️🙏
I'm so happy you could write this book. I'm so excited to read it.
I grew up in an IFB church under several pastors who were very much influenced by Jack Hyles and such. I even went to Hyles Anderson in Crown Point and First Baptist church for about 5 years. My entire life was wrapped up in church, and the fears that my pastors put into me about serving God , marriage, and Christian growth, and seperation.
I've not walked away from my faith in God, but I've learned over the years to change my mindset about how I treated myself and others. I do mot question my doctrine, but I do not condone the mistreatment of our brothers and sisters in the faith in the name of Christianity.
Ginger I have been watching you mature in God through the videos that you share and I am so grateful that you actually found freedom. My question is the church that you guys attend do you have the 13 week program called Freedom if so that is a fantastic course or class to take My wife and I did it twice just a few years ago and truly found freedom from our hurts and hang-ups and baggage that we had been carrying from our past. We watched 19 kids and counting for quite a few years and really enjoyed watching you guys grow up the way that you did I honestly have to say I had questions about a few things as a Christian myself so I'm sure you will be persecuted for your renowned freedom but I can truly say all the way from North Carolina that my wife and I are very proud of you and looking forward to reading your book God bless you and Jeremy keep going forward in Christ
Looking forward to getting your book. You are an amazing young woman. Many Blessings to you, Jeremy and your little ones.
Wow! What an undertaking…Spirit-led for sure to be able to complete the task that was before you. I look forward to reading your book. Blessings to you and your family.
I'm so happy and excited for you. Congratulations and thank you so much for sharing your story with us. God bless your beautiful little family ❤️
This makes me very, very happy. I kind of watched the show with her whole family when my wife started watching, but the intense legalism and never ever hearing Jesus's name spoken wasn't something I enjoyed. But because I worry about every person I come across, it was hard to forget - especially as other people new to faith could be very confused and fall into what I believe is legalism. Bill Gothard requires way more than one comment.
The worry/concern is often that people will realize they're in a cult, sitting under bad teaching, etc, and decide God was the problem. So as others have written, really so happy that Jinger did not walk away from God. He obviously never walked away from her. ❤ Praying her book will reach people who are in similar situations.
Thank you for sharing this journey. I remember watching you when you were younger and to see you come into your own . It’s hard sometimes to cut out things that we grew up with
I been watching you since your TV show. I couldn't be happier for you. I am so happy you found your voice. ❤
i have listened to this book on audio, and i am very impressed with it, thank you Jinger for being brave and putting this book out
I’m glad to see you coming into who God has called you to be and doing that which He has called you- in all of your uniqueness- to do. What I also love is that your faith is still intact and you have not attacked or maliciously lashed out at anyone. I appreciate the spirit and intentionality with which this book was written.
I hope your other siblings break free and that your parents let them. What bother me the most was how jim bob defended josh duggar!! How can a father do that!! How he treated jill and how he treated all the girls!! I'm shocked jessa isn't showing you much support. Jill and Joy anna are showing you so much support!! Jinger thank you for sharing your story!! Thank you for telling your truth!! We are proud of you for saying this was wrong!! I admire your strength, your bravery, your courage and confidence!! Your story will help many others!! Your truly inspiring ✨️
You are so sweet and beautiful!!! I'm so proud of you for using your testimony to reach out and touch people's lives and hearts!!! Thank you so much for your openness and honesty!!! I literally CAN'T WAIT!!! Even though I do have to wait until Friday morning!!! God bless you and your words to reach the hurting souls influenced by harmful people who don't mind hurting others. I'm also so extremely grateful to God moving and stirring you to ACTUALLY look into Bill Gothard's words and quest with God to learn, grow in His knowledge, given to us in His Word and turn what the enemy meant for evil into good!!!
OH I'm so so SO proud of you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love always Heather ❤️.
Just ordered your book; looking forward to getting acquainted with your journey. May God continue to bless you and Jeremy in all you attempt. 11:48pm on 2 FEB 2023
Omg Lissie interviewing the panda bear was so precious!!
Jinger,, I just saw your interview with Allie Beth Stuckey. It was tremendous! I never knew where it came from, the teachings you were raised by, and this cleared up so much for me in my mind. Thanks for sharing your story and so happy to know things are clearer for you regarding God's word and its truth! God tells us that "man" is a screw up from day #1 so going to man rather than God's word for direction will forever be a fail. But God is SO GOOD and he gives us what we need, i.e. Jeremy!! LOL Now ... go conquer the world, Girlfriend. Much love and continued joy and blessings to your family!! Excellent job!!
Congratulations on your book Jinger! God Bless!^_^❤
So excited to read the book Jinger! Thank you for continuing to point others to Jesus❤
SO happy for you to be finally speaking your truth! I look forward to reading your book! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I would say it's more than her truth.
I am so excited for you, Ginger!!! Keep having fun!!!
I love how much you’ve been able to grow and how incredibly supportive Jeremy is to you. So happy for you and I can’t wait to listen to the audiobook! ❤
My book is arriving today, thanks for sharing your journey with us! Free in 2023!!!
Reading your book as we speak. Loving it. It how I felt years ago and leaning to discern. Hugs from Oregon.
God’s love never fails! Go, Jinger.❤
I can’t wait to read it! I can relate to so much of what you have shared so far. How amazing to be part of setting captives free in Gods great love story. ❤
I’m soo happy for you❤I hope you are truly at peace and happy!
loved the book. I appreciate you being so open and honest. I pray many who are in the same situation take a minute and read it. It will open many eyes. God bless
The Lord really used your television show in my life. I was taking care and helping my father. We loved to watch 19 kids together. I’ve seen every episode I believe. You are loving just like your mother. Your parents are wonderful and they never meant to harm you in anyway. Does the rest of your family agree with you? Either way, they are wonderful, your family. I am thankful for all of you. I think some of the Bates have left Bill Gothard as well for different reasons. Both you and Jeremy have been blessed with wonderful parents.
Praying that your book will help those that have been hurt by the organization.
Thank you for telling your story Jinger! My book is coming today and I can't wait to read it!
I loved Ojai. You probably drove through my hometown of Santa Paula when you got off hwy126. God is doing alot of healing and exposing of wrong teaching! I'm from So Cal as is my family. I've considered leaving California due to so many issues here. We moved to Central Cal 16 years ago. I have to say that the freedom you've found in Christ has renewed my faith in the fact that it doesn't matter WHERE we live. It matters that we have FREEDOM in Jesus our Savior!! ❤️
Cannot wait to read your new book, congratulations! And as someone who has been contemplating writing a book for some time, you have inspired me, thank you!
I am standing along side Jinger because her testimony gives God honor and glory. Only God can work through Jinger to spread the truth of God’s holy Word.
Congratulations on your book but more importantly being free🥰🥰
Continued blessing to you, your husband and children. Sharing your story, breaking and over coming the barriers. Sending love and light🫶❤️
I can't wait to read your book, Jinger! Seeing you find your voice and inspiring others is very heartwarming!
My copy of your book came yesterday. I’m almost half way through it. Thank you for writing it. ❤
Oh Jinger! I am so excited for you and I am definitely going to get my copy and read it! That is one thing that you and I have in common is the reason for you writing that book! I want to know how you did it and I am so proud of you for writing this book! Love you lots!
I just ordered your new book and I can't wait until I read it. I have been watching you on TV and I always thought you were and some of your sisters where really neat and still are so awesome.
You are one of my favorite people. Love everything about you. So proud of what you had to deal with and overcome. Big hugs from Oregon. Here for you!!
I ordered mine, it’s being delivered tomorrow! I’m so excited to read it! Congratulations 🙏 Jinger! From watching all the different interviews, you really do look like a more confident young woman… definitely freed!
I pre-ordered your book. Can’t wait to read it. You’ve grown into such a beautiful woman who honors God!
So proud of you Jinger ! The book is such a great testimony to Christ and an inspiration/ reminder to put your trust in the Lord not men. Also I hope that while it’s understandable that you have regret for all of those times visiting prisons or tlaking to other young women about your “Growing up Duggar “ book you didnt focus on Christ but externals , you and your family did draw some to Christ via your show myself included. I became saved after your family prayed on an episode and I looked up scripture and was saved soon after. Thank you for taking the time to share with us. My prayer is that you continue to seek the Lord and who He is and that you trust Him with your heart enough to allow yourself to be open and a little vulnerable with friends and loved ones. I still struggle with some social anxiety, so I know the battle it can be. Thanking the Lord for you !
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR MASSIVE ACHIEVEMENT!!
Jing, I can't get over those leather pants., you GO GIRL!!!!!!! We are ALL so proud of you!!!!!! Keep reading, learning, and growing. You are doing fantastic!!!!!! 🖤🤍🖤🤍
Love this so much for you and your precious family. It’s amazing how the spirit of Jesus Christ will conquer all if we allow him.
What a great behind the scenes view of your process. Sending love and prayers that this Journey is one of growth and peace. God Bless y'all
I’m so proud of you Jinger! Can’t wait to read your book! Your such inspiration! ❤
Congratulations 🎉👏 I admire your courage to write this book and sharing your truth. I hope this book helps many people who may have shared your experiences. I remember watching your family on TV and hoping you and your siblings would find their way out of these false teachings. Even back then I thought out of all the kids you would definitely be independent and come to see the light. God bless you and your family.🙏
Way to go Jinger; you are such an amazing woman. Thank you Jeremy for nurturing this woman and her gift, and for following your heart and reaching for Jinger as your wife.
I was raised FLDS; and yes it’s hard to keep the faith when faith has been used to hurt.
I don’t follow any religion, but I don’t close my heart (the bible says to join none of these, for they all teach the doctrines of man) My heart is his temple, unless he gives me an unmistakable sign that I need to attend a building.
Can’t wait to get my copy tomorrow!! You are beautiful Jinger!!! Thanks for sharing your story!!
It’s so good that you wrote your book. I was raised in a Christian home, but not a legalistic one. I watched your family on tv. I know when I was a young married woman Bill Gotherd homeschool stuff is was popular. He was weird.
I have watched you for such a long time.i realize I don't know you but I can recognize self confidence self worth and the change in how you present yourself. ❤I'm so glad that you chose to write this book.