I've had 5 miscarriages and 1 etopic pregnancy. No live births. I've always wanted kids. And I'm still struggling with the fact that I never had kids live thru birth. But I feel every baby from time of conception has a soul, so each of my babies in heaven have names.
Allow your body to heal with cell rejuvenation IV, hypnosis and healthy foods. Let Providence take over. If natural live birth isn't your parental journey, can you possibly consider fostering then adopting. Most of all, give yourself grace.
@TyraCresswell thank you. I honestly can't wait, but until then they are with my mom and my Nan and pop and every other loved one who has left this earth. Thank you for your kind words
@@mugginsquilts1they are talking about miscarriage and infertility. So how about stop being unkind and find YOUR OWN PLATFORM if you don't feel you can hold your tongue.
I'm 12 weeks pregnant and Im an investigator for DCFS and let me tell you, when women choose to stay on birth control and never have children, i actually applaud them for being honest and enough and not want to put a baby through any harm. It can be seen like being selfish, but i think its selfish when ppl bring kids because they felt obligated and they end up with the state abandoned, traumatized and hurt
first off, congrats on the pregnancy, and being a DCFS worker. And I am completely with you on women not wanting to have a baby. Like you said, it shouldn't be out of obligation to have a child, it should be a something that's wanted.
Absolutely. I used to be “pro life”…. Now that I’m a mom of two kids, I am “pro choice,” but REALLY pro life….. life of mama, life of baby outside of the womb. You don’t want to see the lives of the babies of mothers who are forced to have babies they don’t want or aren’t ready for. I wanted my babies wholeheartedly and… life got hard. DV, having to leave my home, job, community to go to a shelter. C-PTSD, autoimmune issues.. The absolute hardest part of being a mom is not being as good as a mom as I wanted to be and feeling like the kids deserved so much more. Times where I needed help so badly, but there wasn’t any help (hence why I pushed myself to health issues). And… tbh, I’m a nice and kind and involved mom. But my kids have been through so much. That comment about drowning and someone handing you a baby….. it’s not funny when that mom (who may have been hurting deeply or acting impulsively in order to get pregnant - may not have, also), but when that mom is being forced to raise a baby against their will (and many won’t do adoption). It’s not pretty. And being in a DV shelter and now poverty…. Some of these parents are so unkind and neglectful. (Many are not, too). But… I feel like people are more openly neglectful. Anyways… unless there are good and effective programs to provide for these sweet babies not yet born, I feel it’s really unethical to allow the baby to continue to develop when not wanted…. Think of the reality of not being wanted by your parents, but forced on them by the government. And do got though a life of feeling that way. It’s so horrible. So, I think the idea of when the sperm and egg becomes a human has been politicized a lot. But… I do think when you want to use the parent as an incubator to give their life for that baby… a lot of ethics do need to be considered. As for parenting being tough. Yup. It absolutely can be. And very rewarding. But as tough a go as I’ve bad it. I got to choose and that makes all the difference.
@@juliannesmommy6694 i definitely agree, i personally do not believe in abortion, hence why i chose to keep my pregnancy even though the dad wont be involved at all. But i am also responsible enough to know i am fully capable to loving my child and providing for them. Some women know from the very beginning they do not want to love or nurture the kid or they are still doing drugs while pregnant and yet they continue to have kids, and DcFS has to do their best to take care of all of them. Even then we can't guarantee that those kids wont be abuse in their foster homes, it is hard
With all due respect, I think it sounds like its time, as a worker to get a bit more educated in addiction and mental health, and throw that judgement out the window.
The decision to not have children is not selfish. It is smart not to bring a child into the world that you have no desire to take care of. Think of the amount that of children of terribly abusive homes. Those parents should have made the decision not to have kids. Everyone is not cut out to be a parent. You don't know what purpose God has for their life and it may not include children. I think it is responsible and intelligent to know your limits and to not take on such a large responsibility when they don't have the heart for it.
I have no children for medical reasons. The disorder I have is so rare 50 people on the planet have it and we do not know if it would pass onto the child. If I was selfish, I would procreate. I am not selfish.
I agree. I have six kids and not everyone needs to have children. I am a Christian through and through and the world is so different even from my last child.
I love how you two aren't afraid to talk about hot topics. It means so much to me to be able to listen to the both of you. I can listen too you guys all day long
I've been married 22 years and at age 47 , I never experienced pregnancy. It's true, like you said God knows what he's doing even if we don't understand. Through it all he built our family and has blessed us with two beautiful daughters. And gave me the opportunity to experience a newborn and that phase. God is awesome!
Yeah I could tell from when they were first talking about this third baby, as if it’s going to be consequentially different from the first two and not just because it’s the third.
I respectfully disagree on your point about shelfishness driving the decision not to have children. I do not have one iota of maternal instincts. I knew from a young age, that parenthood was not for me. I know I do not have the capability to take on the responsibility of caring for children. Yes, I am shelfish and I do not want to spend my time, money or resources on children and knowing this fault, I believe it would irresponsible for me to be something I was not meant to be, bringing into the world a child who would not be loved or appreciated, but would feel like a burden. There are too many children in families that are abused, unloved, born to parents who shouldn't be within 20 feet of children. I know myself enough to know my limits.
Same! I have never had a desire to have human kids and don't believe that I should have had kids because society tells me so. If that makes me selfish, then so be it.
I have mad respect for people that know that they may not be good at parenting and have no guilt about it. I don’t look at that as being selfish. I look at that as really knowing yourself and being true to that.
Jinger…there is no difference between you not wanting 10 children and someone else not wanting any. Some women choose not to have children for reasons other than just wanting to live life for themselves or being able to go somewhere whenever they want to go. Please understand that there are many reasons why a woman may not want children and those reasons are not necessarily selfish and are valid. It is a personal decision between a woman and her mate and choosing not to be a mother is not a selfish decision. And, to be clear, I am not speaking of abortion. I am speaking of the choice not to get pregnant in the first place. Two different issues.
Jinger- I’m happy for you and Jeremy, but I think it’s short sighted to say people who choose not to have children are selfish. There are many reasons why someone may make that choice.
But what if you dont have the means to raise them i have 4 children and i would loved more but im unable to have any more but god bless me with 4 but i have meet many people that honestly i do belivecthe best decision they made is not to have kids and some people that have kids I wish they would never have had kids because I just see those kids suffering and wanna take them in and take care of their own parents are too selfish @ErikaRogers-p2b
I too cannot imagine the hard road of infertility. My heart also aches for those walking down that path. Sending love, peace and hope ❤. Congratulations y'all!! Thanks for sharing this journey of life with all of us. I love getting different perspectives on one topic!
I went through that. I had an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured and I almost bled to death, then was never able to get pregnant again b/c I had PCOS and I couldn’t afford any invasive fertility treatments. We had no luck with fostering/adopting b/c I had some health issues. It devastated me but my husband and I decided to rescue animals instead and we have 19 animals now that all needed new homes. It’s a lot of work but has given me a place to put my maternal energy. I’ll always wish I could have had children but I’ve had to accept that it wasn’t in my plan.
First , Thank you for sharing such a powerful message !! No child is a mistake ! We make stupid decisions, but God makes no mistakes! Secondly , my 3rd child , who just turned 32 this week ,was born right before my oldest turned 6 ! He was very upset that I didn’t have a girl ! He wanted a sister not another brother ! lol However the transition from 2 to 3 was very easy ! My last baby was very chill , probably because I was too ! By this point you’ve gone through it twice and I was so much more relaxed ! And really you have to be because now the older ones are in school or starting activities so you’re on the go ! You guys will be great ❤ I’m guessing boy !! 💙. But most of for a healthy baby and pregnancy ! 🤰
So. By making the choice to not have children when there are billions of neglected, so that an abortion would never be on the table is selfish? Woah woah. That’s such a double standard and makes me think she just traded in one cult for another?
Congratulations to both of you. Jinger you spoke so well on this topic of pregnancy and pregnancy loss. So many of us have experienced both and some of us even the death of a baby. Thank you Jeremy for reminding us and just saying out loud how even if a child only experienced life in the womb, their soul still lives on. I think a lot of people forget that.❤
I debated not watching this episode because my husband and I have been struggling with infertility for over a year now. Your encouragement really touched my heart! It can be so hard to trust the Lord while walking through such a difficult providence but it is so good to be constantly reminded of the Gospel and that the Lord works all things together for our good. His word truly endures forever! Thank you again for your encouragement, prayer, and awareness!! I love listening!! ❤
Huge congratulations, I’m so happy for you guys! My husband and I have been experiencing infertility for 5+ years. I just want to say thank you for talking about infertility and praying for people like us. It means a lot and warms a hurting heart!
It's NOT selfish to not want to have kids, it's intelligent. Some people should never be parents. Not everyone is cut out for it. If someone knows they wouldn't make a good parent it's just smart not to. Better to not involve kids in a life where the adult's struggle or know they just can't be what a kid needs. It's best for kids to have parents that are in the right frame of mind and financial position to raise them right. No kid deserves parents that can't cope, or just don't want kids because it's their choice and shouldn't be judged for choosing wisely, to not have them. We already know the adoption system aren't fair in who gets to adopt and who doesn't. Its often based on money and status, when women that can have children don't get judged that way and can have them anytime they want. We also have to consider abuse and trafficking that happens these days and no one really saving these children properly. There's a dark side, because not everyone are good people with good hearts like you. We have to consider the end result for the children's sake. So wonderful to those who want kids and have them for the right reasons, but also wonderful for those who know better enough to choose not to have them. It's just NOT selfish, it's the right choice.
I was told very young that I would never be able to have children, I was devastated. But, in 1987 I gave birth to the most beautiful baby boy in this universe, God blessed me to be a Momma, and to be Derik’s Momma.. he definitely was a miracle and gift from God because I lost 2 babies after him. I still think about the 2 I lost and sad that Derik doesn’t have a sibling, but I’m so thankful and grateful for the miracle of him. He’s grown into an amazing young man, he’s a high school history teacher and an assistant varsity basketball 🏀 coach🙏🏼☮️🕊️✝️💙 I’m praying for a smooth pregnancy and birth for you, sending Love, hugs and prayers to you. Love and Blessings from Indiana🙏🏼☮️🕊️✝️🎀🩷❣️❣️❣️❣️
I remember when I got my first ultrasound after the doctor telling me he thought he felt twins. And I said no I just have big babies, and I saw these two little bitty heads side-by-side and I just cried and I thought wow they must’ve been best friends in heaven, and God couldn’t send one without the other. And my oldest daughter now has twin girls also
Congrstulations on your new little one! Praying for a safe pregnancy and delivery. What a joy! 30+ years ago I struggled with infertility and all those treatments and all that goes with it. I miscarried 3 babies, we Finally adopted. But I still wonder who my three would have been and accomplished and what they would be doing now.
Women die without access to safe abortions. No one gives a fuck about humans once they are born so why do you care about a pregnancy that doesnt affect you? Grow some empathy and brains
I worked in child protection for many years. I worked with a 12 year old child with an intellectual disability who was SA by a family member. The pregnancy was terminated. That is not murder. I am genuinely happy for you both. However your words have power remember that. What if this girl who is now a young adult was watching this video? I thought being a Christian meant being kind, considerate & non judgmental?
Congratulations!!!! And thank you so much for being so bold! Every life is precious! We just lost baby number six at only 10.5 weeks,but loved her so deeply as we do all of our kids. We just had her burial last weekend. This brought tears to my eyes! We can’t wait to see all four of our babies in heaven one day!! Love you guys and praying for a healthy pregnancy!❤
Quality of life for the child is important. Does that child have an illness? Is the parent able to provide a safe and secure environment? The abortion decision is not black and white
Oh, Jinger. It’s so cute how you think you were still hiding the belly on the podcast. You weren’t hiding anything. 😂 You always wore the cutest, most stylish and figure flattering clothes that showed your itty bitty frame, then you went to loose and oversized everything! I said this on your vlog post but I had a feeling an announcement was coming soon and actually wondered if I had just missed it! Still just so excited for y’all and praying for a healthy pregnancy and delivery!
Jim Bob forever changed how I pray through his words when Josie was born. He talked about his deep desire for God to save Josie but feeling conflicted with accepting God's will. 14 years later and his candid struggle with obeying and trusting God, still impacts how I pray and view God. Just an example that God uses people's stories in ways we may never know!
Congrats on the news!! Also thank you so much for acknowledging those trying to have kids. My husband and I have been waiting and praying for 12 long years😢 Thank you again ! blessings from Australia Wa
My children are 18, 21, 22 AND 35. There were 12 long years of infertility too. I finally saw an endocrinologist that diagnosed insulin resistant infertility. For me it was as simple as focusing on eating quality carbohydrates and walking for exercise six days a week. I only wish I had seen an endocrinologist many years earlier. So don't give up.
Congratulations! Jeremy, i love the point you made about the safest place for a baby is in the mother’s womb and how that mom has the responsibility to protect that child and not kill it which obviously is abortion. How awful this is! Also how you talked about when Mary was pregnant with baby Jesus: BABY Jesus. He was indeed a baby inside of her womb! And that is what is expressed and believed when we talk about the birth of Jesus at Christmas time and how many people will acknowledge that he was a baby in Mary’s womb. But yet, they justify their sin, the actual act of murder. It’s unbelievable! I appreciate you guys. The Lord bless you with a healthy baby!
Please keep in your heart that some people don’t really have a choice when they terminate a pregnancy. One of my best friends had to terminate her very wanted pregnancy at 15 weeks, and it broke her heart. She and her husband tried for a year, and when they finally got pregnant she suffered with hyperemesis gravidarum. She pushed through, only to develop pre-eclampsia at 14 weeks, a ridiculously rare and deadly complication. She was hospitalised in the hopes of managing the pre-eclampsia until at least 23-24 weeks (when baby had a chance of survival outside the womb), but unfortunately she went into multiple organ failure at 15 weeks. The termination saved her life, and she and her husband have been working on their health and doing testing in hopes of bringing a living baby home, with a living mother, in the future. It’s likely that it was just a rare, one in 10 million occurrence, but for them, it was literally a choice of one life, or two. Their little one should have been two this year, and you can see and feel their grief at having to make that choice. But I’m so grateful my friend is still here, and that they have a chance to try again, alive.
@@NurseSue425 don’t blame yourself for his adhd 💕 Actually, I was diagnosed months ago and I was told that it is usually past down from one of the parents.
You both are beyond amazing! Thank you so so much for being brave enough to share this with the world. I myself am adopted, and my parents who adopted me couldn’t have their own biological children. Whenever I hear about someone considering abortion I tell them that could have easily been myself, and my birth parents could have made that choice… but they decided to give me life instead and decided to give my adoptive parents the biggest gift of being parents!
I love this talk about the value of human life. My younger two kids have a chromosome disorder.. the only two in the world with their specific chromosome anomaly. It can be easy for this world to put a stamp on individuals with disabilities as being unworthy, being an inconvenience and therefore shouldn’t even be given the chance of life or given the respect they deserve after they’ve entered into this world. Always enjoy listening to you both sharing the truth and the gospel in the midst of whatever topic you’re discussing. ❤
Thank you for this. God blessed my husband and I with one perfect precious daughter. She is now 20 and has significant chronic illness challenges (brain tumor and seizures). She always grew up wishing she had a bunch of siblings and we loved watching your show and imagining life in a big family like that. Looking back, I think God knew our story to come and somehow knew our capacity as a couple with this medical challenge on the horizon. Emotional, financial, and physical limitations are already such a challenge, so more children may have made this even harder. Our daughter’s faith in the Lord is truly the only way she has made it thru these past few years of suffering (she was diagnosed her senior year of High school). Despite having no clear path out of this, she is determined to have children and live her life’s dream of being a mama. Please pray for God to work wonders in her life so she may be healthy enough to carry and raise children of her own someday! 🙏
I'm so happy for you and Jeremy. Congratulations on your third little baby bundle of joy and yes, Josie has grown up to be a beautiful young lady She has come a long way.I remember her being born. Have a blessed day. Take care, be safe and God bless. To you and your beautiful family❤❤❤❤❤
Again, congratulations! You guys will rock having three children. It may seem daunting now, but you’ll find a way to make it work. I have three children and my older two are 17 months apart and my youngest and my middle are 2 1/2 years apart. And while it seems daunting at first, it will work out. You will find a way. And there’s no need to Termine how you will do or handle having three kids versus someone else. There’s no need to compare yourself to other people. They are them and you are you. They have their way of doing things and you all will have your systems and ways of doing things. While you can clean, some things from others, I feel it’s important to be cautious about comparing how you’re doing versus how someone else is doing because you all are different. You look wonderful. I’m beyond excited for you all. I didn’t usually tell anyone that I was pregnant until I was three months alone and had heard the heartbeat. And when I had my miscarriage, it was just a few days from hearing the heartbeat and I didn’t tell anyone except maybe one sister-in-law because she sort of found out on her own. And when she found out about the miscarriage, she thought it was so sad that she was the only one that knew because, she felt like that way I was depriving myself of the possible comfort from others. So that’s just a little story about me, though. Since you asked the question about when we usually announce that we were expecting. With regard to the gender, we did not find out with our first and third children Until they were born. With our second one because she was born in a completely different season, we thought it might be helpful for sizes of closing and so forth that we found out the gender. Once again, congratulations. I am so excited for you all. I know this is something that you have wanted to and I’m glad that is the fullness of time. Pray for a continued safe, pregnancy labor and delivery. Blessings!
So happy for you guys!! I'm glad you brought up infertility too. My husband and I have been trying for 6 years and have not had that blessing yet. We are trying to remain hopeful though. We do believe in miracles. It's tough because we are always so happy when friends and family are expecting, truly happy and ecstatic since we know how much of a gift babies are, but there is that tiny bit of sadness every time too. It feels selfish when we feel sad though. Blessings for you guys and prayers for a healthy mom & baby. Glad to hear other Christians stick up for the unborn and speak out again abortion. More Christians need to do that too. God bless!
Congratulations on your baby news that is exciting. As a fellow believer and also a nurse I think that other believers, especially pastors need to be careful with their words regarding abortions. Not all abortions are wanted. Some are necessary and stating that those who have them and perform them will have to answer to God, is weaponizing religion. These statements made from a place of power (male, authority) cause trauma. And that too will need to be accounted for in front of God one day.
Literally I got my best, coziest, cutest maternity clothes at Ross, and with the price of maternity clothes you just can't beat 5 bucks for a shirt or 15 bucks for jeans! I did a LOT of shopping around but my favorite shirts and jeans were from there!
Our daughter wasn’t born until we had been married for 5 years+ because of PCOS infertility. She’s almost 4 now, a lot of days I just smile. We’ve now been wanting for #2 but I’ve been having a lot of health issues. God is so good! ❤
This was beautiful to listen to, congrats to you both! And thank you for sending your love to those who are not in the same place as you. I’ve come to allow for the “ecstatic for you, sad for me” gut reaction to pregnancy announcements these days, after having no success with conceiving yet. I used to think that was “wrong”, now I know it’s normal. Thank you for your sensitivity, and thank you for sharing your joy with us!!! ❤❤ So excited to find out the gender of your new baby 😊
Congratulations on your pregnancy and the new baby cooking in your tummy! I've had 2 miscarriages and 2 live births. My children are now 23 and 19. Miscarriage was very hard, but I know my babies got a straight shot to heaven so I will see them again one day. Blessings to you!
I have 5, all born in different decades… the 3 “OG’s” as they call themselves and then a band of 2 several years later. The older ones are always aghast at what they think the younger ones get away with and always tell them things like “You guys have it MADE!!! We were ALWAYS in trouble!!” and “You guys have WAY different parents than we had!!!” 😂 but it is definitely nice to have a second chance at parenting and be more relaxed and patient and loving. What a gift that has been! ❤
The way Jeremy went "No...😨" When Jinger said Jed is going to have 4 under two sounded like he was the main character in a movie where he finds out he's been a ghost the entire time 😂
If you can post where you can get maternity clothes that would be great. We are having a hard time finding any for my daughter. Thank you so much and congratulations again!
Our 38 year old son was born at 32 weeks @ 3lbs. He’s been healthy his whole life and God gave us three more healthy babies. Having four under five was challenging and I’d do it all over again! Now, we get to enjoy our four grandchildren, ages 2-18.
Huge congratulations on that beautiful baby blessing! ❤ And thank you both for speaking up about abortion. I have been struggling with the fact that people fight so hard and call us crazy because we dont want to kill babies. I just dont understand how they dont see the irony in that. Our society has been BRAINWASHED into thinking its normal to even think about this barbaric act. And so many people support it blindly. I can't stand it. My heart is broken for the millions of blessed little ones we have lost. God bless them all 😇 and God help to open eyes and stop this 🙏 amen ❤
We don't want to kill babies either, but a fetus is not a baby; it's a process that, if allowed to continue, will eventually result in a baby. Living women are more important than potential people and our bodies are our own; we are not incubators.
@victoriaguerin2851 This is what I am talking about. This is what brainwashed people say. Of course, it's a baby. Have you ever seen the process? The baby is ripped into pieces. It is a billion dollar industry they are making money, and we were talked into. I encourage you to watch "Unplanned" true story of Abby Johnson. Other abortion workers and abortionists are coming forward. Living women need to take responsibility if they get pregnant. If there is an issue with the pregnancy, they will deliver the baby and try to save both mom and baby. There is no medical reason for an abortion. WE HAVE BEEN LIED TO. Hopefully, you see it one day. Please educate yourself and look up the stages of the baby as it develops in the womb. It's ALWAYS a baby.
@victoriaguerin2851 This is what I am talking about. WE WERE LIED TO. Of course it's a baby, duh. You need to look at the process of abortions. The baby is torn into pieces. I encourage you to educate yourself and watch "Unplanned" a true story with Abby johnson. Start watching interviews with ex abortionists and ex planned parenthood employees who are coming forward. Take responsibility if you get pregnant. Women are so strong!
My oldest 3 kids do not want kids. I think as a newly single mom of 8, they want to be able to do what they want compared to me not being able to. I don't regret a single minute of motherhood though. My mom couldn't have anymore kids after my brother.. so it was just myself and him... I knew that I always wanted a lot of kids, but unfortunately not realizing I would be a single mom at 39.. with all age ranges it has been a major adjustment... We all have our journeys, and I respectfully disagree.. not everyone is wanting to have kids in their lives...
I agree, I love Jermey and Jinger, but this is where I struggle with a lot that they say. They are now calvinist (Jermey I think has been one for years) but in so many they condradict what they believe about theology how how they speak. He says all kids will be in heaven but John Calvin says in his Institudes 3.23.6 that God has doom many from the womb to die a certian death for his glory in their distruction. And there is no free will in calvinism, because God has decreed all that comes to pass.
OMG I'm in love with your chair you are sitting in. Can you please tell me where you got it? Thank you and congratulations on your pregnancy. I love this open dialogue! ❤
I wanted to say thanks for sharing about trusting god throughout the process and how a trial can be a blessing. I’m dealing with my own personal trial right now and you saying that jinger really puts things into perspective for me.
Congratulations! I'm so happy for you all. I'm the youngest of 8 and yep--we have it made! I had nephews and nieces since age 6 and I'm now in my 60's. It's been awesome being able to grow up with them and nurture and guide them, then seeing them become parents and grandparents. Bonus: I still get called "the baby" on occasion. 😂
If your Christian why are you not understanding that god has a plan for everyone we walk in his path he never leaves us and i personally dont think god would be happy with you singling woman out like this persecuting them he would not want this its not very Christian love everyone no matter whst as you never know what this woman is going through
Can we please stop this nonsense. She chooses life. Clearly you don’t . Why are you so offended? Jesus chose life bc He is life eternal! HE IS LIFE! As Christian’s we need to be taking a stand for what is right. Thou shall not kill is a commandment. End of story. I’ll be praying for you
Congratulations. I’m so happy for you. A question if I may ask. On one of your posts you said that you were going to write a song to start your podcast. I wrote one that you guys might like. Is there any way I can get the lyrics to you to see if you like it? ❤💕
I have three kids and they are exactly 6 years apart from 1st to 3rd! great age differences and ability to let them have their own time to be individuals and the best of friends
I don’t think every married couple should have kids if they genuinely don’t want one. Some people are just not good with kids but are good with other things❤❤❤
I remember watching Josie’s episode and being so sad. I was pregnant at the same time. Years later I had my own 25 weeker and remember going back and watching Josie’s episodes to help get through it. He’s 4 now and thriving.
I'm so happy for you. I am a Great Grandmother now, but remember so well the excitement of finding out I was carrying a baby. Thank you for your Christian beliefs about abortion, especially at this election time when one side is focused on abortion rights. I am a Christian and believe the Bible teaches that life is important and it is murder. I believe people should make the right choices before a baby is conceived. Praying and rejoicing with you. I am a huge fan of the whole family.
No one can make the right choices to eliminate risks of complications that threaten a woman’s health and future fertility. Not to mention cases of rape and incest.
@@allyjmjmThere are literally NO medical reasons for abortion. Pregnancy is not a threat to the mother. This is a LIE that keeps getting repeated. Besides for rape and incest, that baby, just like the mother, did not choose for this to happen. Killing a completely unique and separate human being because it was created in a horrible circumstance does NOT heal the mother, it further traumatizes her!
Glad you acknowledged infertility. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent, and when people choose not to, that choice needs to be acknowledged too. Like you say, being good stewards of what God has given us. Or not given us. I imagine there is more to learn along the journey. Bless you folks
congrats Jinger & Jeremy so happy for both of you about the wounderful news about baby number 3 i am praying that everything goes well for all 9 months and when tou give birth next march wish that counting on show was still on t.v. i was a hugh fan of the shows and could not wait for the next epasode i was heart broken when tlc took it off the air but i am so happy that i can see your vlogs on youtube and your other family members that do vlogs on you tube as welli am always looking to see when a new vlog gets posted again just wanted to let both of you know that I am so very happy about the wounderful news 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄
Our oldest daughter and her husband just had their first baby in September, she was due on October 9th but the baby was not growing well in the womb due to an issue with the placenta, so our daughter had to be induced at 37weeks considering the doctors told her she would never have children and it took her 6 years to get pregnant, there’s a very good chance our granddaughter will grow up as an only child due to circumstances and that’s okay they decided to do a lot of traveling and just didn’t use birth control for years hoping it would happen, eventually it did, being an only, she will be going wherever her parents want to go, they have been to Greece, US Virgin Islands, Scotland and the UK, they have a world map on their living room wall showing where they have been & where they still want to go if our granddaughter is an only she’s going to experience the world with her parents who absolutely adore her they consider her to be their miracle baby since they were told they would never have children of their own ❤❤
Oh, it’s one more thing with regard to the Christmas card or what have you with the photos. Perhaps you can do a collage photo that includes the photo of the ultrasound and the girls looking at you and Jeremy looking at you lovingly. I think that would be a fantastic picture to include in a collage of photo from this past year. Either way, it’s all good if you revealed photos on Instagram and you sent it your Christmas cards. I feel like that’s just one less thing to think about as it seems that you have so many other things happening in your life right now.
Just a thought. My daughter had speech issues and I found out she had mild hearing loss and needed hearing aids. You may have already have that covered but thought I would throw that out there.
I've had 5 miscarriages and 1 etopic pregnancy. No live births. I've always wanted kids. And I'm still struggling with the fact that I never had kids live thru birth. But I feel every baby from time of conception has a soul, so each of my babies in heaven have names.
Allow your body to heal with cell rejuvenation IV, hypnosis and healthy foods. Let Providence take over. If natural live birth isn't your parental journey, can you possibly consider fostering then adopting. Most of all, give yourself grace.
You will see them one day! God bless you! 🙏
@@shellzzabat5950she’s a Christian so no hypnosis based on Deuteronomy 18
@TyraCresswell thank you. I honestly can't wait, but until then they are with my mom and my Nan and pop and every other loved one who has left this earth. Thank you for your kind words
@@mugginsquilts1they are talking about miscarriage and infertility. So how about stop being unkind and find YOUR OWN PLATFORM if you don't feel you can hold your tongue.
I'm 12 weeks pregnant and Im an investigator for DCFS and let me tell you, when women choose to stay on birth control and never have children, i actually applaud them for being honest and enough and not want to put a baby through any harm. It can be seen like being selfish, but i think its selfish when ppl bring kids because they felt obligated and they end up with the state abandoned, traumatized and hurt
first off, congrats on the pregnancy, and being a DCFS worker. And I am completely with you on women not wanting to have a baby. Like you said, it shouldn't be out of obligation to have a child, it should be a something that's wanted.
Absolutely. I used to be “pro life”…. Now that I’m a mom of two kids, I am “pro choice,” but REALLY pro life….. life of mama, life of baby outside of the womb.
You don’t want to see the lives of the babies of mothers who are forced to have babies they don’t want or aren’t ready for. I wanted my babies wholeheartedly and… life got hard. DV, having to leave my home, job, community to go to a shelter. C-PTSD, autoimmune issues.. The absolute hardest part of being a mom is not being as good as a mom as I wanted to be and feeling like the kids deserved so much more.
Times where I needed help so badly, but there wasn’t any help (hence why I pushed myself to health issues). And… tbh, I’m a nice and kind and involved mom. But my kids have been through so much.
That comment about drowning and someone handing you a baby….. it’s not funny when that mom (who may have been hurting deeply or acting impulsively in order to get pregnant - may not have, also), but when that mom is being forced to raise a baby against their will (and many won’t do adoption). It’s not pretty. And being in a DV shelter and now poverty…. Some of these parents are so unkind and neglectful. (Many are not, too). But… I feel like people are more openly neglectful.
Anyways… unless there are good and effective programs to provide for these sweet babies not yet born, I feel it’s really unethical to allow the baby to continue to develop when not wanted…. Think of the reality of not being wanted by your parents, but forced on them by the government. And do got though a life of feeling that way. It’s so horrible.
So, I think the idea of when the sperm and egg becomes a human has been politicized a lot. But… I do think when you want to use the parent as an incubator to give their life for that baby… a lot of ethics do need to be considered.
As for parenting being tough. Yup. It absolutely can be. And very rewarding. But as tough a go as I’ve bad it. I got to choose and that makes all the difference.
@@juliannesmommy6694 i definitely agree, i personally do not believe in abortion, hence why i chose to keep my pregnancy even though the dad wont be involved at all. But i am also responsible enough to know i am fully capable to loving my child and providing for them. Some women know from the very beginning they do not want to love or nurture the kid or they are still doing drugs while pregnant and yet they continue to have kids, and DcFS has to do their best to take care of all of them. Even then we can't guarantee that those kids wont be abuse in their foster homes, it is hard
@@bmmm23 thank you!!
With all due respect, I think it sounds like its time, as a worker to get a bit more educated in addiction and mental health, and throw that judgement out the window.
The decision to not have children is not selfish. It is smart not to bring a child into the world that you have no desire to take care of. Think of the amount that of children of terribly abusive homes. Those parents should have made the decision not to have kids. Everyone is not cut out to be a parent. You don't know what purpose God has for their life and it may not include children. I think it is responsible and intelligent to know your limits and to not take on such a large responsibility when they don't have the heart for it.
I have no children for medical reasons. The disorder I have is so rare 50 people on the planet have it and we do not know if it would pass onto the child. If I was selfish, I would procreate. I am not selfish.
I agree. I have six kids and not everyone needs to have children. I am a Christian through and through and the world is so different even from my last child.
Very well said. 👏
Why word “selfish” is so offensive to everyone? Everyone is selfish in one way or another.
Thank you 🙏🏻
I love how you two aren't afraid to talk about hot topics. It means so much to me to be able to listen to the both of you. I can listen too you guys all day long
I've been married 22 years and at age 47 , I never experienced pregnancy. It's true, like you said God knows what he's doing even if we don't understand. Through it all he built our family and has blessed us with two beautiful daughters. And gave me the opportunity to experience a newborn and that phase. God is awesome!
I remember when Josie was born, as I watched your show…she indeed is a blessing, and to see how she’s grown and thrived, amazing!!
"The pool is already blue." Uh huh. Jinger slipped up. IT'S A BOY!!!! :D
Yeah I could tell from when they were first talking about this third baby, as if it’s going to be consequentially different from the first two and not just because it’s the third.
I respectfully disagree on your point about shelfishness driving the decision not to have children. I do not have one iota of maternal instincts. I knew from a young age, that parenthood was not for me. I know I do not have the capability to take on the responsibility of caring for children. Yes, I am shelfish and I do not want to spend my time, money or resources on children and knowing this fault, I believe it would irresponsible for me to be something I was not meant to be, bringing into the world a child who would not be loved or appreciated, but would feel like a burden. There are too many children in families that are abused, unloved, born to parents who shouldn't be within 20 feet of children. I know myself enough to know my limits.
Same! I have never had a desire to have human kids and don't believe that I should have had kids because society tells me so. If that makes me selfish, then so be it.
Thank you for sharing this. I completely agree.
I have mad respect for people that know that they may not be good at parenting and have no guilt about it. I don’t look at that as being selfish. I look at that as really knowing yourself and being true to that.
Jinger…there is no difference between you not wanting 10 children and someone else not wanting any. Some women choose not to have children for reasons other than just wanting to live life for themselves or being able to go somewhere whenever they want to go. Please understand that there are many reasons why a woman may not want children and those reasons are not necessarily selfish and are valid. It is a personal decision between a woman and her mate and choosing not to be a mother is not a selfish decision. And, to be clear, I am not speaking of abortion. I am speaking of the choice not to get pregnant in the first place. Two different issues.
Thank you for addressing the reality that not all women want to be mothers 🙏🏻
Jinger- I’m happy for you and Jeremy, but I think it’s short sighted to say people who choose not to have children are selfish. There are many reasons why someone may make that choice.
Sometimes not having children is the most selfless thing one can do.
But what if you dont have the means to raise them i have 4 children and i would loved more but im unable to have any more but god bless me with 4 but i have meet many people that honestly i do belivecthe best decision they made is not to have kids and some people that have kids I wish they would never have had kids because I just see those kids suffering and wanna take them in and take care of their own parents are too selfish @ErikaRogers-p2b
I too cannot imagine the hard road of infertility. My heart also aches for those walking down that path. Sending love, peace and hope ❤. Congratulations y'all!! Thanks for sharing this journey of life with all of us. I love getting different perspectives on one topic!
Same ❤ I sadly know people going through that
I went through that. I had an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured and I almost bled to death, then was never able to get pregnant again b/c I had PCOS and I couldn’t afford any invasive fertility treatments. We had no luck with fostering/adopting b/c I had some health issues. It devastated me but my husband and I decided to rescue animals instead and we have 19 animals now that all needed new homes. It’s a lot of work but has given me a place to put my maternal energy. I’ll always wish I could have had children but I’ve had to accept that it wasn’t in my plan.
First , Thank you for sharing such a powerful message !!
No child is a mistake ! We make stupid decisions, but God makes no mistakes!
Secondly , my 3rd child , who just turned 32 this week ,was born right before my oldest
turned 6 ! He was very upset that I didn’t have a girl ! He wanted a sister not another brother ! lol
However the transition from 2 to 3 was very easy ! My last baby was very chill , probably because I was too ! By this point you’ve gone through it twice and I was so much more relaxed ! And really you have to be because now the older ones are in school or starting activities so you’re on the go !
You guys will be great ❤ I’m guessing boy !! 💙. But most of for a healthy baby and pregnancy ! 🤰
So. By making the choice to not have children when there are billions of neglected, so that an abortion would never be on the table is selfish?
Woah woah. That’s such a double standard and makes me think she just traded in one cult for another?
Congratulations to both of you. Jinger you spoke so well on this topic of pregnancy and pregnancy loss. So many of us have experienced both and some of us even the death of a baby. Thank you Jeremy for reminding us and just saying out loud how even if a child only experienced life in the womb, their soul still lives on. I think a lot of people forget that.❤
I debated not watching this episode because my husband and I have been struggling with infertility for over a year now. Your encouragement really touched my heart! It can be so hard to trust the Lord while walking through such a difficult providence but it is so good to be constantly reminded of the Gospel and that the Lord works all things together for our good. His word truly endures forever! Thank you again for your encouragement, prayer, and awareness!! I love listening!! ❤
Huge congratulations, I’m so happy for you guys!
My husband and I have been experiencing infertility for 5+ years. I just want to say thank you for talking about infertility and praying for people like us. It means a lot and warms a hurting heart!
Sending prayers
If it meant to happen...it will...do not stress....
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It's NOT selfish to not want to have kids, it's intelligent. Some people should never be parents. Not everyone is cut out for it. If someone knows they wouldn't make a good parent it's just smart not to. Better to not involve kids in a life where the adult's struggle or know they just can't be what a kid needs. It's best for kids to have parents that are in the right frame of mind and financial position to raise them right. No kid deserves parents that can't cope, or just don't want kids because it's their choice and shouldn't be judged for choosing wisely, to not have them. We already know the adoption system aren't fair in who gets to adopt and who doesn't. Its often based on money and status, when women that can have children don't get judged that way and can have them anytime they want. We also have to consider abuse and trafficking that happens these days and no one really saving these children properly. There's a dark side, because not everyone are good people with good hearts like you. We have to consider the end result for the children's sake. So wonderful to those who want kids and have them for the right reasons, but also wonderful for those who know better enough to choose not to have them. It's just NOT selfish, it's the right choice.
I was told very young that I would never be able to have children, I was devastated. But, in 1987 I gave birth to the most beautiful baby boy in this universe, God blessed me to be a Momma, and to be Derik’s Momma.. he definitely was a miracle and gift from God because I lost 2 babies after him. I still think about the 2 I lost and sad that Derik doesn’t have a sibling, but I’m so thankful and grateful for the miracle of him. He’s grown into an amazing young man, he’s a high school history teacher and an assistant varsity basketball 🏀 coach🙏🏼☮️🕊️✝️💙 I’m praying for a smooth pregnancy and birth for you, sending Love, hugs and prayers to you. Love and Blessings from Indiana🙏🏼☮️🕊️✝️🎀🩷❣️❣️❣️❣️
My mom herd that 2 but yet hear
I am nearly 57.
I remember when I got my first ultrasound after the doctor telling me he thought he felt twins. And I said no I just have big babies, and I saw these two little bitty heads side-by-side and I just cried and I thought wow they must’ve been best friends in heaven, and God couldn’t send one without the other. And my oldest daughter now has twin girls also
I have twins they are amazing
Congrstulations on your new little one! Praying for a safe pregnancy and delivery. What a joy! 30+ years ago I struggled with infertility and all those treatments and all that goes with it. I miscarried 3 babies, we Finally adopted. But I still wonder who my three would have been and accomplished and what they would be doing now.
Great episode! Jeremy, you did a fantastic job of explaining numerous points in the episode
Thank you both for boldly standing for life!
Women die without access to safe abortions. No one gives a fuck about humans once they are born so why do you care about a pregnancy that doesnt affect you? Grow some empathy and brains
I worked in child protection for many years.
I worked with a 12 year old child with an intellectual disability who was SA by a family member. The pregnancy was terminated.
That is not murder.
I am genuinely happy for you both.
However your words have power remember that.
What if this girl who is now a young adult was watching this video?
I thought being a Christian meant being kind, considerate & non judgmental?
Congratulations!!!!
And thank you so much for being so bold! Every life is precious! We just lost baby number six at only 10.5 weeks,but loved her so deeply as we do all of our kids. We just had her burial last weekend. This brought tears to my eyes! We can’t wait to see all four of our babies in heaven one day!!
Love you guys and praying for a healthy pregnancy!❤
I am so sorry for your loss of your sweet baby girl😢. I’m glad you KNOW you’ll see her in heaven one day though.🙏🏻
Quality of life for the child is important. Does that child have an illness? Is the parent able to provide a safe and secure environment? The abortion decision is not black and white
Oh, Jinger. It’s so cute how you think you were still hiding the belly on the podcast. You weren’t hiding anything. 😂 You always wore the cutest, most stylish and figure flattering clothes that showed your itty bitty frame, then you went to loose and oversized everything! I said this on your vlog post but I had a feeling an announcement was coming soon and actually wondered if I had just missed it! Still just so excited for y’all and praying for a healthy pregnancy and delivery!
Jim Bob forever changed how I pray through his words when Josie was born. He talked about his deep desire for God to save Josie but feeling conflicted with accepting God's will. 14 years later and his candid struggle with obeying and trusting God, still impacts how I pray and view God. Just an example that God uses people's stories in ways we may never know!
Such a great podcast. Thank you both for sharing so openly honestly 💕
Congrats on the news!!
Also thank you so much for acknowledging those trying to have kids. My husband and I have been waiting and praying for 12 long years😢
Thank you again !
blessings from Australia Wa
My children are 18, 21, 22 AND 35. There were 12 long years of infertility too. I finally saw an endocrinologist that diagnosed insulin resistant infertility. For me it was as simple as focusing on eating quality carbohydrates and walking for exercise six days a week. I only wish I had seen an endocrinologist many years earlier. So don't give up.
I'm not usually a "pregnancy spotter" but I definitely recognized that early pregnancy exhaustion in some recent episodes! Haha
Congratulations!
Jeremy, i love the point you made about the safest place for a baby is in the mother’s womb and how that mom has the responsibility to protect that child and not kill it which obviously is abortion. How awful this is! Also how you talked about when Mary was pregnant with baby Jesus: BABY Jesus. He was indeed a baby inside of her womb! And that is what is expressed and believed when we talk about the birth of Jesus at Christmas time and how many people will acknowledge that he was a baby in Mary’s womb. But yet, they justify their sin, the actual act of murder. It’s unbelievable!
I appreciate you guys. The Lord bless you with a healthy baby!
How exciting 😊pray all goes well for you.
Yes going to say the same!! ❤ totally agree
Please keep in your heart that some people don’t really have a choice when they terminate a pregnancy. One of my best friends had to terminate her very wanted pregnancy at 15 weeks, and it broke her heart. She and her husband tried for a year, and when they finally got pregnant she suffered with hyperemesis gravidarum. She pushed through, only to develop pre-eclampsia at 14 weeks, a ridiculously rare and deadly complication. She was hospitalised in the hopes of managing the pre-eclampsia until at least 23-24 weeks (when baby had a chance of survival outside the womb), but unfortunately she went into multiple organ failure at 15 weeks. The termination saved her life, and she and her husband have been working on their health and doing testing in hopes of bringing a living baby home, with a living mother, in the future. It’s likely that it was just a rare, one in 10 million occurrence, but for them, it was literally a choice of one life, or two. Their little one should have been two this year, and you can see and feel their grief at having to make that choice. But I’m so grateful my friend is still here, and that they have a chance to try again, alive.
I had this gut feeling you were pregnant when you stopped having coffee! Maybe you didn’t stop for this reason but that’s what came to mind ❤
So did I!
I thought the same when she said she was tired!
Same here! Jinger loves her coffee, then all of a sudden doesn’t want any? That’s a big hint!
I drank coffee when I was pregnant. 35 yrs ago. No one said anything back then. Maybe that explains why he has adhd 😢
@@NurseSue425 don’t blame yourself for his adhd 💕 Actually, I was diagnosed months ago and I was told that it is usually past down from one of the parents.
It's not murder dear sometimes it can be a sad circumstance, a mothers life might be at risk so many scenarios..Birth control is not evil ....
You both are beyond amazing! Thank you so so much for being brave enough to share this with the world.
I myself am adopted, and my parents who adopted me couldn’t have their own biological children. Whenever I hear about someone considering abortion I tell them that could have easily been myself, and my birth parents could have made that choice… but they decided to give me life instead and decided to give my adoptive parents the biggest gift of being parents!
Congratulations !!what wonderful news
❤❤❤❤❤😃. I am so happy for you both! ❤️☝️♥️
I love this talk about the value of human life. My younger two kids have a chromosome disorder.. the only two in the world with their specific chromosome anomaly. It can be easy for this world to put a stamp on individuals with disabilities as being unworthy, being an inconvenience and therefore shouldn’t even be given the chance of life or given the respect they deserve after they’ve entered into this world.
Always enjoy listening to you both sharing the truth and the gospel in the midst of whatever topic you’re discussing. ❤
Jinger is so strong-minded ... like don't tell me what I don't know, I know what I know 😅❤
Thank you for this. God blessed my husband and I with one perfect precious daughter. She is now 20 and has significant chronic illness challenges (brain tumor and seizures). She always grew up wishing she had a bunch of siblings and we loved watching your show and imagining life in a big family like that. Looking back, I think God knew our story to come and somehow knew our capacity as a couple with this medical challenge on the horizon. Emotional, financial, and physical limitations are already such a challenge, so more children may have made this even harder. Our daughter’s faith in the Lord is truly the only way she has made it thru these past few years of suffering (she was diagnosed her senior year of High school). Despite having no clear path out of this, she is determined to have children and live her life’s dream of being a mama. Please pray for God to work wonders in her life so she may be healthy enough to carry and raise children of her own someday! 🙏
I'm so happy for you and Jeremy. Congratulations on your third little baby bundle of joy and yes, Josie has grown up to be a beautiful young lady She has come a long way.I remember her being born. Have a blessed day. Take care, be safe and God bless.
To you and your beautiful family❤❤❤❤❤
Again, congratulations! You guys will rock having three children. It may seem daunting now, but you’ll find a way to make it work. I have three children and my older two are 17 months apart and my youngest and my middle are 2 1/2 years apart. And while it seems daunting at first, it will work out. You will find a way. And there’s no need to Termine how you will do or handle having three kids versus someone else. There’s no need to compare yourself to other people. They are them and you are you. They have their way of doing things and you all will have your systems and ways of doing things. While you can clean, some things from others, I feel it’s important to be cautious about comparing how you’re doing versus how someone else is doing because you all are different. You look wonderful. I’m beyond excited for you all. I didn’t usually tell anyone that I was pregnant until I was three months alone and had heard the heartbeat. And when I had my miscarriage, it was just a few days from hearing the heartbeat and I didn’t tell anyone except maybe one sister-in-law because she sort of found out on her own. And when she found out about the miscarriage, she thought it was so sad that she was the only one that knew because, she felt like that way I was depriving myself of the possible comfort from others. So that’s just a little story about me, though. Since you asked the question about when we usually announce that we were expecting. With regard to the gender, we did not find out with our first and third children Until they were born. With our second one because she was born in a completely different season, we thought it might be helpful for sizes of closing and so forth that we found out the gender. Once again, congratulations. I am so excited for you all. I know this is something that you have wanted to and I’m glad that is the fullness of time. Pray for a continued safe, pregnancy labor and delivery. Blessings!
So happy for you guys!!
I'm glad you brought up infertility too. My husband and I have been trying for 6 years and have not had that blessing yet. We are trying to remain hopeful though. We do believe in miracles.
It's tough because we are always so happy when friends and family are expecting, truly happy and ecstatic since we know how much of a gift babies are, but there is that tiny bit of sadness every time too. It feels selfish when we feel sad though.
Blessings for you guys and prayers for a healthy mom & baby. Glad to hear other Christians stick up for the unborn and speak out again abortion. More Christians need to do that too.
God bless!
Adopted children are children of your own. What an ignorant thing to say.
Congratulations on your baby news that is exciting.
As a fellow believer and also a nurse I think that other believers, especially pastors need to be careful with their words regarding abortions. Not all abortions are wanted. Some are necessary and stating that those who have them and perform them will have to answer to God, is weaponizing religion. These statements made from a place of power (male, authority) cause trauma. And that too will need to be accounted for in front of God one day.
Jinger that shirt doesn’t hide anything, :) congratulations
Yea but she’s pretty small for that far along. Some of the other girls have been Big at this point.
Literally I got my best, coziest, cutest maternity clothes at Ross, and with the price of maternity clothes you just can't beat 5 bucks for a shirt or 15 bucks for jeans! I did a LOT of shopping around but my favorite shirts and jeans were from there!
Our daughter wasn’t born until we had been married for 5 years+ because of PCOS infertility. She’s almost 4 now, a lot of days I just smile. We’ve now been wanting for #2 but I’ve been having a lot of health issues. God is so good! ❤
Your pregnancy announcement this week has been so healing for me.
Of course that info Jinger grew up with about having lots of children came from a man who never had any.
Congratulations!!! So happy for you two & the girls!
Thank you on your stance for life.
Congratulations. May God keep you and your family healthy and bring this new life into your lives. Blessings
This was beautiful to listen to, congrats to you both! And thank you for sending your love to those who are not in the same place as you.
I’ve come to allow for the “ecstatic for you, sad for me” gut reaction to pregnancy announcements these days, after having no success with conceiving yet. I used to think that was “wrong”, now I know it’s normal.
Thank you for your sensitivity, and thank you for sharing your joy with us!!! ❤❤ So excited to find out the gender of your new baby 😊
This was beautiful and meaningful episode, congratulations!!
Congratulations on your pregnancy and the new baby cooking in your tummy! I've had 2 miscarriages and 2 live births. My children are now 23 and 19. Miscarriage was very hard, but I know my babies got a straight shot to heaven so I will see them again one day. Blessings to you!
I have 5, all born in different decades… the 3 “OG’s” as they call themselves and then a band of 2 several years later.
The older ones are always aghast at what they think the younger ones get away with and always tell them things like
“You guys have it MADE!!! We were ALWAYS in trouble!!” and “You guys have WAY different parents than we had!!!” 😂 but it is definitely nice to have a second chance at parenting and be more relaxed and patient and loving. What a gift that has been! ❤
Enjoyed listening to you speak the truth about babies in the womb.
The way Jeremy went "No...😨" When Jinger said Jed is going to have 4 under two sounded like he was the main character in a movie where he finds out he's been a ghost the entire time 😂
Congratulations on the new blessing. I'm still waiting for the house tour, Congratulations on the new home enjoy decorating.
Yes, me too! I love the ivory chair she’s sitting in 😊
I never let anyone say I spoiled my children. They were perfectly pampered. 😊
You are both lovely role models to our younger generation. You are such a blessing. Keep up the good work. We need more shows on you tube like yours!
Congrats. Also, counting how many times Jinger uses the the word "like." Haha🤣
If you can post where you can get maternity clothes that would be great. We are having a hard time finding any for my daughter. Thank you so much and congratulations again!
I called it when you said you wasn’t drinking caffeine haha. Congratulations 🎉
Our 38 year old son was born at 32 weeks @ 3lbs. He’s been healthy his whole life and God gave us three more healthy babies. Having four under five was challenging and I’d do it all over again! Now, we get to enjoy our four grandchildren, ages 2-18.
Thank you for standing up for LIFE❤
Huge congratulations on that beautiful baby blessing! ❤
And thank you both for speaking up about abortion. I have been struggling with the fact that people fight so hard and call us crazy because we dont want to kill babies. I just dont understand how they dont see the irony in that. Our society has been BRAINWASHED into thinking its normal to even think about this barbaric act. And so many people support it blindly. I can't stand it. My heart is broken for the millions of blessed little ones we have lost. God bless them all 😇 and God help to open eyes and stop this 🙏 amen
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We don't want to kill babies either, but a fetus is not a baby; it's a process that, if allowed to continue, will eventually result in a baby. Living women are more important than potential people and our bodies are our own; we are not incubators.
@victoriaguerin2851
This is what I am talking about. This is what brainwashed people say.
Of course, it's a baby.
Have you ever seen the process? The baby is ripped into pieces. It is a billion dollar industry they are making money, and we were talked into. I encourage you to watch "Unplanned" true story of Abby Johnson. Other abortion workers and abortionists are coming forward. Living women need to take responsibility if they get pregnant. If there is an issue with the pregnancy, they will deliver the baby and try to save both mom and baby. There is no medical reason for an abortion. WE HAVE BEEN LIED TO. Hopefully, you see it one day. Please educate yourself and look up the stages of the baby as it develops in the womb. It's ALWAYS a baby.
@victoriaguerin2851
This is what I am talking about. WE WERE LIED TO. Of course it's a baby, duh. You need to look at the process of abortions. The baby is torn into pieces. I encourage you to educate yourself and watch "Unplanned" a true story with Abby johnson. Start watching interviews with ex abortionists and ex planned parenthood employees who are coming forward. Take responsibility if you get pregnant. Women are so strong!
My oldest 3 kids do not want kids. I think as a newly single mom of 8, they want to be able to do what they want compared to me not being able to. I don't regret a single minute of motherhood though. My mom couldn't have anymore kids after my brother.. so it was just myself and him... I knew that I always wanted a lot of kids, but unfortunately not realizing I would be a single mom at 39.. with all age ranges it has been a major adjustment... We all have our journeys, and I respectfully disagree.. not everyone is wanting to have kids in their lives...
I love what Jeremy just said. All the aborted children are living in glory!! 🙏
I agree, I love Jermey and Jinger, but this is where I struggle with a lot that they say. They are now calvinist (Jermey I think has been one for years) but in so many they condradict what they believe about theology how how they speak.
He says all kids will be in heaven but John Calvin says in his Institudes 3.23.6 that God has doom many from the womb to die a certian death for his glory in their distruction. And there is no free will in calvinism, because God has decreed all that comes to pass.
So happy for you!! Congratulations!! 🩷💙
OMG I'm in love with your chair you are sitting in. Can you please tell me where you got it? Thank you and congratulations on your pregnancy. I love this open dialogue! ❤
I wanted to say thanks for sharing about trusting god throughout the process and how a trial can be a blessing. I’m dealing with my own personal trial right now and you saying that jinger really puts things into perspective for me.
So happy for you. I have infertility and Know God promises of working things for good in my life. I’m so glad for my faith. God bless you both.
Congratulations! I'm so happy for you all. I'm the youngest of 8 and yep--we have it made! I had nephews and nieces since age 6 and I'm now in my 60's. It's been awesome being able to grow up with them and nurture and guide them, then seeing them become parents and grandparents. Bonus: I still get called "the baby" on occasion. 😂
Jinger, i am so so so proud of you and how far youve come in your own journey. Keep doing the hard work on yourself ❤
If your Christian why are you not understanding that god has a plan for everyone we walk in his path he never leaves us and i personally dont think god would be happy with you singling woman out like this persecuting them he would not want this its not very Christian love everyone no matter whst as you never know what this woman is going through
Can we please stop this nonsense. She chooses life. Clearly you don’t . Why are you so offended? Jesus chose life bc He is life eternal! HE IS LIFE! As Christian’s we need to be taking a stand for what is right. Thou shall not kill is a commandment. End of story. I’ll be praying for you
Thank you for beautifully representing the sanctity of life in pre-born humans. Praying you have a healthy child.
Congratulations!
Because of my miscarriages, I learned not to tell people until I was 4 - 5 months pregnant.
Congratulations. I’m so happy for you. A question if I may ask. On one of your posts you said that you were going to write a song to start your podcast. I wrote one that you guys might like. Is there any way I can get the lyrics to you to see if you like it? ❤💕
I have three kids and they are exactly 6 years apart from 1st to 3rd! great age differences and ability to let them have their own time to be individuals and the best of friends
So excited for you all 🙏♥️
Actually Jed and Katie will have 4, 2 and under, or 4 under 3. Their oldest isn't "under" 2, he is 2.
Congratulations!!!
So I'm selfish because I chose not to have childern? Please explain your thoughts to me.
Not at all 😊
I don’t think every married couple should have kids if they genuinely don’t want one. Some people are just not good with kids but are good with other things❤❤❤
Congratulations! I suspected this when in a previous podcast you said you stopped drinking coffee 😉
Very interesting podcast and a wide understanding of how miscarriage and pregnancy affects women and families! Nicely done.
I remember watching Josie’s episode and being so sad. I was pregnant at the same time. Years later I had my own 25 weeker and remember going back and watching Josie’s episodes to help get through it. He’s 4 now and thriving.
I remember watching and seeing them meet her and all those early episodes.
I'm so happy for you. I am a Great Grandmother now, but remember so well the excitement of finding out I was carrying a baby. Thank you for your Christian beliefs about abortion, especially at this election time when one side is focused on abortion rights. I am a Christian and believe the Bible teaches that life is important and it is murder. I believe people should make the right choices before a baby is conceived. Praying and rejoicing with you. I am a huge fan of the whole family.
No one can make the right choices to eliminate risks of complications that threaten a woman’s health and future fertility. Not to mention cases of rape and incest.
@@allyjmjmThere are literally NO medical reasons for abortion. Pregnancy is not a threat to the mother. This is a LIE that keeps getting repeated.
Besides for rape and incest, that baby, just like the mother, did not choose for this to happen. Killing a completely unique and separate human being because it was created in a horrible circumstance does NOT heal the mother, it further traumatizes her!
One of our daughters is nearly 16 weeks! We are so excited as well as her 3 princesses!
Glad you acknowledged infertility. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent, and when people choose not to, that choice needs to be acknowledged too. Like you say, being good stewards of what God has given us. Or not given us. I imagine there is more to learn along the journey. Bless you folks
You are correct ... premature babies are kept in an incubator. It is amazing how they are able to take care of these tiny babies
congrats Jinger & Jeremy so happy for both of you about the wounderful news about baby number 3 i am praying that everything goes well for all 9 months and when tou give birth next march wish that counting on show was still on t.v. i was a hugh fan of the shows and could not wait for the next epasode i was heart broken when tlc took it off the air but i am so happy that i can see your vlogs on youtube and your other family members that do vlogs on you tube as welli am always looking to see when a new vlog gets posted again just wanted to let both of you know that I am so very happy about the wounderful news 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄
Our oldest daughter and her husband just had their first baby in September, she was due on October 9th but the baby was not growing well in the womb due to an issue with the placenta, so our daughter had to be induced at 37weeks considering the doctors told her she would never have children and it took her 6 years to get pregnant, there’s a very good chance our granddaughter will grow up as an only child due to circumstances and that’s okay they decided to do a lot of traveling and just didn’t use birth control for years hoping it would happen, eventually it did, being an only, she will be going wherever her parents want to go, they have been to Greece, US Virgin Islands, Scotland and the UK, they have a world map on their living room wall showing where they have been & where they still want to go if our granddaughter is an only she’s going to experience the world with her parents who absolutely adore her they consider her to be their miracle baby since they were told they would never have children of their own ❤❤
Oh, it’s one more thing with regard to the Christmas card or what have you with the photos. Perhaps you can do a collage photo that includes the photo of the ultrasound and the girls looking at you and Jeremy looking at you lovingly. I think that would be a fantastic picture to include in a collage of photo from this past year. Either way, it’s all good if you revealed photos on Instagram and you sent it your Christmas cards. I feel like that’s just one less thing to think about as it seems that you have so many other things happening in your life right now.
Congrats ,can’t wait to see the girls reactions
Your podcast brings me so much joy and peace … congratulations 🎉!!!
Love you two. Blessings to you and your family!
Just a thought. My daughter had speech issues and I found out she had mild hearing loss and needed hearing aids. You may have already have that covered but thought I would throw that out there.
You’ve got this! Going from 2-3 is easier than going from 1-2. At least it was for us.