Best season hands down. Love the conversations. Definitely my vibe. I love deep convos. I have a 9yr old and I'm just so happy that I'm a parent in a time that such convos are being heard on this level of platform. Almost shed a few tears on some of the sub topics
Family love - Not telling each other that we love each other after a certain age. No matter how old our children are we are saying it , it ends with us. Sleeping - Drilling into kids that if you don't wake up really early it equates to laziness. it ends with us (rest is also important) Hobbies - Not holding space for open conversation if a hobby is money demanding it ends with us Partner - They don't have to fit in our traditional box so many people damage relationships with their kids ati because they want to get married to a person who goes to a different church ama different tribes NO Please our relationship with our kids is far much important. it ends with us Emotions - for our boys *boys don't cry Oh this ends with us. Business - If there is a family business they will be include the not talking about it definitely ends with us and it doesn't have to be that they take it up but just know this is our source. Weddings - Weddings lazima ikue Saturday 🤣🤣 this ends with us but every other traditional thing we are carrying forward. Work - white colour job is the end goal and the bar for success 😅 this definitely ends with us Health - 😂😂 this was not important when growing up no conversation was had unless we actually fell sick so let's be intentional to talk about health all round it ends with us Romantic love - will have to put more thought on this . more on how we approach sex before marriage Reading - I agree the lack thereof friendship - personally my parents really dictated my friends this ends with me I'll trust the kids I've raised to pick good friends Family - dropping family when they do something wrong and not talking to them this ends with us even when they fail we are in this together This was an amazing episode thank you BNW
I'm with Ben about the process of Wedding. It's important because; unlike how people have made it to look nowadays, the glam(which is not bad), the monetization (which is unfortunate), etc... It is/was intended to be a friendship/relationship building between the 2 families. Also, respect is earned in the longrun. Maybe what should end with us is using those terms of "being bought/going to buy", makes it sound like a commodity. 😃 As always, loving and enjoying the topics.❤
Ben and Wanjiru it's wholesome to hear you discuss and want the best for Tawa.I see so much of me when my baby was your son's age now older and gentle parenting is working for sure even though disciplining will do a number on you,,, interacting with other children brought up in different dynamics especially at school and sometimes home will challenge you but keep pushing.The internet too RUclips kids side ain't what you would like especially if you're Christian based now that they have put the Alphabet agenda on everything so you have to be careful on it... all the best fellow parents we can do this!❤
About the beating I recommend a book that changed my parenting life forever. “The book I wish my parents read and children will be happy I did” My son is 8 and daughter is 6, never beaten. It’s possible guys. Nice episode ❤
Oooh my Gs i have not been commenting but today i had to. This was am Amazing episode, am at 23 but i feel so mature to handle parenting though Abit far from it. This is bcoz of what i listen to podcasts especially Joyride . God bless This is mickline
Daddy i want blead😅,my ribs! I've had such a good laugh after a busy day at work😅 I've really enjoyed "It ends with us" episode guys,epic ride it has been ♥️♥️ Keep up the good work guys👌
Hi Ben & Wanjiru, Thanks for your great job podcasting and for the topic today. On the emotions bit and what ends with us, I’m also a mum to 3 boys and whereas I’m more for boys/men being more open with their emotions, my current struggle is where the balance is with showing emotions and feminizing our boys/men. There should be a safe space for the male gender to express themselves (the current trope of many angry men clearly shows this need) but there’s also a growing number of men who have let go of their masculinity. Sasa hapo kwa the right balance ndio kizungumkuti
This has to be the best episode so far. Very light (in a good way), very engaging and very entertaining. The banter and the jokes are like the cherry on top. The road to joy is actually really fun. I like it, I approve and definitely here to stay. Mumesema ticket ya Turkey ni how much tupatane huko?😂😂😂
With discipline, My take is, there is a blend between chapa and talking. Parenting is work laid more on the parent than the child. You really have to heal a lot of things in yourself before you pass them on to the child. That's why this topic is AMAZING. I do not believe love needs to be tough and truth needs to be brutal. Just love them . God loves us perfectly and fully and His correction can be painful (chapa in the case of a child) and come let's reason together. It is all love.
Wanjiru alinyoa Bob na ka nywele kamefikia kangu kwani nywele hufika menopause pia todu wueeeh my hair been same length since 2015, acha ni focus Joyride Thursday innit ❤❤
Hii episode nafeel ni best for parents but pia ss wenye we are not even close to that we've learned........also,Ben wa sheng bible na ciiru wa beyonce concert compared to ben and ciiru of now,you guys have grown and it's beautiful to watch and experience ❤
Considering you appreciate your parents' relationship, what makes you think that open expression of emotions has anything to do with anything. Does expression mean that your relationship is unbreakable or is it solid for a specific period. Then what does it matter what your child sees with you if it doesn't mount to anything.
Eiiiyyy Wanjiru Ben aseme to kama yeye ni msda what is aty sukari,,,mara nyama mara sijui nini ,,,😂😂we call it being reformed as an adventists ,,,anyway mob love 😊❤❤❤
May it be so to the intentions. Was also manifesting them with you. One might be thinking about them but having a video where you can go back to and check what exactly you intend is the deal💜
Apo kwa wedding I really get you wanjiru..i used to hate some culture stuff and my dad said somethings that made sense we as the kikuyu tribe can never undo/fight with what our ancestors did it will be so difficult plus when we miss to do things the right way they affect us in future and our generations big time eg unexplained sickness addiction etc
Mama Tawa I definitely agree with you on the gentle parenting. What you just described as I call it is time out at the naughty corner😂. And trust you me it works. The child gets to reflect and later when having a conversation they get to understand you and even appreciate you❤
Ben’s “khai na akianza kung’oa” question was soo genuine 😂😂😂he’s really concerned Toodû maundu maya ti mahuthû Translation: Ben afunze Tawa kikuyu aki 😭
Enyewe wanjiru ni activist 😆😉 Kùhàdà ìthìgì ni lazima. Culture is about identity. Living in Australia, I've seen firsthand what a lack of identity does to people.
PDA in the house is very important for the kids to see that i always advocate too 😂 as long as it's not extreme..I only hate PDA in public by the way 😂 indoors i can be very wild 😜.. speaking up, travelling hii kwanza 🙏🏿
Mimi hii life nikona examples mob, hata the first topic I was struggling to understand why Wanjiru was taking time on the "Family Love" topic of things that ends with us. My I had a list of 10 things in mind 😅😅in the first few seconds. Sema trauma
Children do what the see not what they hear. Yaani like yearly medical checks, healthy living, they have to see you doing it. Telling them not to eat junk or go for check ups won't amount to much. They'll walk your walk not your talk.
Best season hands down. Love the conversations. Definitely my vibe. I love deep convos. I have a 9yr old and I'm just so happy that I'm a parent in a time that such convos are being heard on this level of platform. Almost shed a few tears on some of the sub topics
Aaaawh! Yaani wanjiru is studying the Bible and buying Bible related books to help Tawa...Ben mnitafutie kama Wanjiru...that's so awesome maan😮
Family love - Not telling each other that we love each other after a certain age. No matter how old our children are we are saying it , it ends with us.
Sleeping - Drilling into kids that if you don't wake up really early it equates to laziness. it ends with us (rest is also important)
Hobbies - Not holding space for open conversation if a hobby is money demanding it ends with us
Partner - They don't have to fit in our traditional box so many people damage relationships with their kids ati because they want to get married to a person who goes to a different church ama different tribes NO Please our relationship with our kids is far much important. it ends with us
Emotions - for our boys *boys don't cry Oh this ends with us.
Business - If there is a family business they will be include the not talking about it definitely ends with us and it doesn't have to be that they take it up but just know this is our source.
Weddings - Weddings lazima ikue Saturday 🤣🤣 this ends with us but every other traditional thing we are carrying forward.
Work - white colour job is the end goal and the bar for success 😅 this definitely ends with us
Health - 😂😂 this was not important when growing up no conversation was had unless we actually fell sick so let's be intentional to talk about health all round it ends with us
Romantic love - will have to put more thought on this . more on how we approach sex before marriage
Reading - I agree the lack thereof
friendship - personally my parents really dictated my friends this ends with me I'll trust the kids I've raised to pick good friends
Family - dropping family when they do something wrong and not talking to them this ends with us even when they fail we are in this together
This was an amazing episode thank you BNW
I'm with Ben about the process of Wedding. It's important because; unlike how people have made it to look nowadays, the glam(which is not bad), the monetization (which is unfortunate), etc... It is/was intended to be a friendship/relationship building between the 2 families. Also, respect is earned in the longrun.
Maybe what should end with us is using those terms of "being bought/going to buy", makes it sound like a commodity. 😃
As always, loving and enjoying the topics.❤
Good point
A speech for a birthday party and then a wedding 🤣🤣🤣that got me rolling
me too, that part was so funny
'Daddy I want blead' 😂😂got me
njus💀💀
@@ZalinaHer Saaaame🤣🤣🤣
You two are such a breath of fresh air. I was in tears with the banter, enjoyed the episode!😊
Ben and Wanjiru it's wholesome to hear you discuss and want the best for Tawa.I see so much of me when my baby was your son's age now older and gentle parenting is working for sure even though disciplining will do a number on you,,, interacting with other children brought up in different dynamics especially at school and sometimes home will challenge you but keep pushing.The internet too RUclips kids side ain't what you would like especially if you're Christian based now that they have put the Alphabet agenda on everything so you have to be careful on it... all the best fellow parents we can do this!❤
About the beating I recommend a book that changed my parenting life forever. “The book I wish my parents read and children will be happy I did” My son is 8 and daughter is 6, never beaten. It’s possible guys. Nice episode ❤
Name of the book
The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read: (And Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)
Book by Philippa Perry
@@HuusHomecan we get it in Kenya stores? If yes please recommend
@@roseivyn4242yes, at most book stores even supermarkets😊
Oooh my Gs i have not been commenting but today i had to. This was am Amazing episode, am at 23 but i feel so mature to handle parenting though Abit far from it. This is bcoz of what i listen to podcasts especially Joyride .
God bless
This is mickline
I have absolutely enjoyed this episode. You two are the gift that keeps on giving.
Love this so much i actually think its my favourite episode so far! So raw and indepth, ah love it!
Daddy i want blead😅,my ribs! I've had such a good laugh after a busy day at work😅
I've really enjoyed "It ends with us" episode guys,epic ride it has been ♥️♥️
Keep up the good work guys👌
Hi Ben & Wanjiru,
Thanks for your great job podcasting and for the topic today.
On the emotions bit and what ends with us, I’m also a mum to 3 boys and whereas I’m more for boys/men being more open with their emotions, my current struggle is where the balance is with showing emotions and feminizing our boys/men. There should be a safe space for the male gender to express themselves (the current trope of many angry men clearly shows this need) but there’s also a growing number of men who have let go of their masculinity. Sasa hapo kwa the right balance ndio kizungumkuti
"He has to abstain until he's 32" is diabolical 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
And what continues ?...😂😂😂 definitely Ben's humour 😂
So sweet that Tawa will grow up listening to this ❤
Ben is effortlessly funny. I need to start paying him for therapy 😅
"Ben, Focus!" Took me out 😂😂
in love with every episode of this season ❤
The silence after "toll order" 😂😂
15 minutes in and I see the subtle African parenting in Ben. Nice episode
“That menace ends with us” Ben 😂😂😂
" I do a speech for a small lunch" 😂😂😂
Deep down Ben is a traditional man😂
I met this podcast a few weeks ago and I have been catching up with ya'll ....I love you guys so much ❤
This new season is my favourite yet❤❤
the way I have watched season 6 like it's a course, love the journey
This has to be the best episode so far. Very light (in a good way), very engaging and very entertaining. The banter and the jokes are like the cherry on top. The road to joy is actually really fun. I like it, I approve and definitely here to stay. Mumesema ticket ya Turkey ni how much tupatane huko?😂😂😂
My favourite podcast,,,love you Wanjiru and Ben.
Nyaribari chache was just chilling! Loved the episode!!!
With discipline, My take is, there is a blend between chapa and talking. Parenting is work laid more on the parent than the child. You really have to heal a lot of things in yourself before you pass them on to the child.
That's why this topic is AMAZING.
I do not believe love needs to be tough and truth needs to be brutal. Just love them .
God loves us perfectly and fully and His correction can be painful (chapa in the case of a child) and come let's reason together. It is all love.
😅😅😅😅Nyaribari chache was just chilling. Ben ❤️loved the episode
Aah not the 'bled and njus' to kill us completely 😂😂
LOVED LOVED this episode... The wedding part, hundred percent agree. All Kikuyu milestones in my house shall be followed
Thursdays have never been the same😊
Intentional parents right here. I am enjoying and learning at the same time. Joyrider for life❤
Started watching the Joy Ride Podcast this season and I'm loving every episode🥰🥰🥰
Wanjiru alinyoa Bob na ka nywele kamefikia kangu kwani nywele hufika menopause pia todu wueeeh my hair been same length since 2015, acha ni focus Joyride Thursday innit ❤❤
Mother and son were the OGs back then
Been waiting for this the whole week 😍♥️
hii episode nimeisha aje😂talking about kind of serious things but kuna tu venye mnazisema😂😂. Great Episode as usual!!
Hii episode nafeel ni best for parents but pia ss wenye we are not even close to that we've learned........also,Ben wa sheng bible na ciiru wa beyonce concert compared to ben and ciiru of now,you guys have grown and it's beautiful to watch and experience ❤
Love what you guys have built
Considering you appreciate your parents' relationship, what makes you think that open expression of emotions has anything to do with anything. Does expression mean that your relationship is unbreakable or is it solid for a specific period. Then what does it matter what your child sees with you if it doesn't mount to anything.
Is how Wanjiru is ready to defend Tawa for me 😂, Nice topic ❤️❤️
Nice episode.
Mama T has a nice ring, was trying to see if Baba T has the same type but sae nothing.
On a light note!
God you order my steeepssss...best line from bens new song
Hutaki niteketee🎶🎶
The intro production is faya!
Wow Wanjiru i admire how you are naturing Tawa in the ways of God mapema😊
The humour on today's episode😂😂😂
Ben: na akianza kung'oa 😅😅😅
Eiiiyyy Wanjiru Ben aseme to kama yeye ni msda what is aty sukari,,,mara nyama mara sijui nini ,,,😂😂we call it being reformed as an adventists ,,,anyway mob love 😊❤❤❤
May it be so to the intentions. Was also manifesting them with you. One might be thinking about them but having a video where you can go back to and check what exactly you intend is the deal💜
Such a calming episode. too lovely
😂😂😂😂I just love Ben's initial attempt at understanding the question or even reading it... until Wanjiru jumps in to save dear Ben ❤
Aaah I've really enjoyed this episode and I'll definitely try this out 😊
😂😂😂😂😂😂that kikuyu “blead” is hilarious
I'm with Ben on the health take. Neglecting our health should end with our generation
Apo kwa wedding I really get you wanjiru..i used to hate some culture stuff and my dad said somethings that made sense we as the kikuyu tribe can never undo/fight with what our ancestors did it will be so difficult plus when we miss to do things the right way they affect us in future and our generations big time eg unexplained sickness addiction etc
Just amazing♥♥
🤣lakini majibu za Wanjiru leo..when reviewing previous episodes.
😂😂😂Wanjiru I am gonna hold your hand while saying this...get that cane. Gentle parenting tuachie wazungu
😂😂😂Hii nayo ni free therapy .
I will do a session on this, what ends with me !
The cousins part also ends with me...
Did Ben just say Nyaribari cache😂😂😂😂😂
Mwambie Tawa aende uko ,it's beautiful.
Wanjiru were you silent or silenced 😂? 30:44
Mama Tawa I definitely agree with you on the gentle parenting. What you just described as I call it is time out at the naughty corner😂. And trust you me it works. The child gets to reflect and later when having a conversation they get to understand you and even appreciate you❤
Ben’s “khai na akianza kung’oa” question was soo genuine 😂😂😂he’s really concerned
Toodû maundu maya ti mahuthû
Translation: Ben afunze Tawa kikuyu aki 😭
Enyewe wanjiru ni activist 😆😉
Kùhàdà ìthìgì ni lazima.
Culture is about identity.
Living in Australia, I've seen firsthand what a lack of identity does to people.
Also, 49:27 Ben is still very funny 😂😂😂
Baba and mama TAWA looking lovely ❤
Thank you🥰
I love you guys,so many insights ❤
On a light note, might you be from Murang’a Ben?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aki your thought process reminds me of my many relatives.
Oh! My question has been answered. I typed this comment before I reached the part on ‘Murang’a love’. 🤭🤣
PDA in the house is very important for the kids to see that i always advocate too 😂 as long as it's not extreme..I only hate PDA in public by the way 😂 indoors i can be very wild 😜.. speaking up, travelling hii kwanza 🙏🏿
eh, hapo kwa Turkey wahhhhhh😂😂
🔥🔥🔥🔥
My favorite poeple🫶
❤❤❤
We talk then unakula beating😂😂😂ah Ben!
Shiru kindly plug where you bought bible books/prayer books. I would like to buy some for my little one too
Ati kamekukatia nyasi ben😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
😂😂😂
I can't wait for Baby T's marriage preparations😂😂😂 Shiru...
😂😂😂me too
Voting is the bare minimum !!!!
Kwa intro, Tawa ako kwa hiyo pram ... curious just😊
Turkey because of the hairline?😂😂
Bfr
❤❤
Chupa ya soda kwa gate😂😂😂
We listen and don't judge
❤
Amazing
No because how i can convince someone am watching something sensible and not comedy,,Turkey joke left me 😮 and the kung'oa joke finished me
Ben and the Wazee's got me😂...Moji init😂🎯
This is a great podcast and very informative. Well done, Ben and Wanjiru!😊
Kichwa ya supu🤣🤣🤣🤣ah Ben
Mimi hii life nikona examples mob, hata the first topic I was struggling to understand why Wanjiru was taking time on the "Family Love" topic of things that ends with us. My I had a list of 10 things in mind 😅😅in the first few seconds. Sema trauma
Wanjiru clearly was brought up in a healthy home I guess, she turned out well
Wanjiru ur looking so beautiful
Lack of PDA ends with us
49:33 😂😂
Children do what the see not what they hear. Yaani like yearly medical checks, healthy living, they have to see you doing it. Telling them not to eat junk or go for check ups won't amount to much.
They'll walk your walk not your talk.