From the book 'How To Be An Adult In Relationships' David describes the 5 As of basic needs as 1. Affection - you are loved and cared for 2. Attention - you are noticed; I see you 3. Allowing yourself to be yourself 4. Appreciation - you are unique and worthy 5. Acceptance - you are good enough
How do you even come up with such brilliant ideas? From the topics, to the questions to the answers. You guys are the epitome of wisdom. I honestly love your content.
On the question of "Do women like needy men," I'd say it depends. Because, how needy is needy? I definitely love a man who shows and expresses his need & interest in spending his time with me, would love to find out how I am and how I'm feeling randomly and states that he would need my emotional support /affirmation or my advice when he's critically thinking of something; It does have a good feeling to this . But again when it becomes the needy where he is overly-inquisitive about everything I'm doing, and is consistently dependent on me to make decisions , he wants to be in my space 24/7 and cannot respectfully get on with other things if I'm not involving him in my stuff etc then it definitely becomes less attractive to me.
Its a toxic mentality to not want your man to be needy with you. He could be tough out there but i dont want him to be tough with me. I want to affirm to him that its okay to be needy with me. And it goes the other way round, he will fullfill my needs as well. Because if you give space for that, your partner will hold space for you at his as well
Mama T saying how Ben affirms how she looks nice after giving birth got me reflecting and lost in thoughts..That physical transition is no joke and people tend to get insensitive,new moms should be given affirmations and all the kindness the world can offer . This Episode is deep !❤
Joy riders, THE JOYRIDE PODCAST NEEDS YOU - YOUR LIKES, COMMENTS, SHARES, AND VIEWS. They are just not saying it because they are assuming you know it and will DO THE NEEDFUL .... pleeeeeease 🙏
A new mum here but OG from styling my boyfriend.... Anyway I am downloading the episodes to watch when my bundle of joy sleeps. Much love for the family
The topic of "need" is vast and complex. It reminds me of the situation where, at the start of a relationship or marriage, you may feel that everything is perfect-the physical attraction and emotional connection seem like they will lead to a "happy ending." However, over time, you might realize that the other person no longer feels the same way, and what once seemed like a promising future can end in heartbreak.
I love the topics so much. This one was complex😂... It got to that question where Ben wanted to concede (kama that hard question in an exam)... Y'all did it so well, everytime there's an episode I can't sleep before watching it in this season. Now I want to rewatch them with my partner because! Couple's therapy innit!
I really enjoyed this episode and it made me think about all the relationships I ever had, did i see the needs of my other partner, did they see mine ,I haven't been a good partner , I really hope that in the next one I see things differently and give the other person space to express their needs....... Love you guys ❤
I'm so grateful for this podcast, this season, the hosts, and especially this episode. By sharing your stories, you are really helping your audience heal through some things, knowingly or unknowingly. Thanks alot Wanjiru and Ben. Aki thank you,.. you have no idea. Watching from diaspora❤️
It' s so interesting to see how different people's preferences are. I like my man 'needy' (I call it reliable). Be there when I need & want you, pick up the phone when I call you, spend your time and energy on me. Otherwise, my attraction fades away or I become really resentful.
It probably stems from being overlooked growing up and always trying to get our parents attention most of the time. I am a middle child but this made me super independent instead as an adult. I can’t fathom being needy and my neediness not being acknowledged
I definitely think that men's sexual needs are something the society has put above. Going from some of the advice people give married women around it, that is the one place men are allowed or excused to act in untowardly manners to satisfy the need. Emotionally nah we are not even close to being there.
Gentlemen in distress 😅 No way! As a woman it will hard to submit to a damsel . A man should work on himself fully to provide clarity and support to his family,that doesn't mean men shouldn't be vulnerable and needy though (once once lakini😂).
I'd rather have a man check in too much than wonder if he will text.
From the book 'How To Be An Adult In Relationships' David describes the 5 As of basic needs as
1. Affection - you are loved and cared for
2. Attention - you are noticed; I see you
3. Allowing yourself to be yourself
4. Appreciation - you are unique and worthy
5. Acceptance - you are good enough
Joyride kila siku ni therapy unapause kwanza unajipshychoanalyze😂😭
😂fr not me writing some pointers😅😅😅
Fr you analyze everything including past relationships
Ikr 😂😂😂
Full therapy session
This is so real😭
How do you even come up with such brilliant ideas? From the topics, to the questions to the answers. You guys are the epitome of wisdom. I honestly love your content.
On the question of "Do women like needy men," I'd say it depends. Because, how needy is needy? I definitely love a man who shows and expresses his need & interest in spending his time with me, would love to find out how I am and how I'm feeling randomly and states that he would need my emotional support /affirmation or my advice when he's critically thinking of something; It does have a good feeling to this . But again when it becomes the needy where he is overly-inquisitive about everything I'm doing, and is consistently dependent on me to make decisions , he wants to be in my space 24/7 and cannot respectfully get on with other things if I'm not involving him in my stuff etc then it definitely becomes less attractive to me.
Its a toxic mentality to not want your man to be needy with you. He could be tough out there but i dont want him to be tough with me. I want to affirm to him that its okay to be needy with me. And it goes the other way round, he will fullfill my needs as well. Because if you give space for that, your partner will hold space for you at his as well
I 100% agree....you said it so well😊 I want my partner to also need me cause i really also wanna show up for him sometimes😊
I agree too 💯. Also needy is not only attention. There is emotional, physical, financial
Mama T saying how Ben affirms how she looks nice after giving birth got me reflecting and lost in thoughts..That physical transition is no joke and people tend to get insensitive,new moms should be given affirmations and all the kindness the world can offer .
This Episode is deep !❤
Oooh bring on Board Nyawira and Moji🎉❤
Joy riders, THE JOYRIDE PODCAST NEEDS YOU - YOUR LIKES, COMMENTS, SHARES, AND VIEWS.
They are just not saying it because they are assuming you know it and will DO THE NEEDFUL .... pleeeeeease 🙏
😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉 ❤️👍
A new mum here but OG from styling my boyfriend.... Anyway I am downloading the episodes to watch when my bundle of joy sleeps. Much love for the family
The topic of "need" is vast and complex. It reminds me of the situation where, at the start of a relationship or marriage, you may feel that everything is perfect-the physical attraction and emotional connection seem like they will lead to a "happy ending." However, over time, you might realize that the other person no longer feels the same way, and what once seemed like a promising future can end in heartbreak.
I love me a needy man🤣
I wouldn't mind one too😅😅😅😅
I love the topics so much. This one was complex😂... It got to that question where Ben wanted to concede (kama that hard question in an exam)... Y'all did it so well, everytime there's an episode I can't sleep before watching it in this season. Now I want to rewatch them with my partner because! Couple's therapy innit!
do i have a baby ?? do i have a partner? both a big NO. but these are my favorite type of conversations.
Banae. Tuko pamoja hapo
Thank you for introducing this perspective in my life, now i need to know what my needs are.
I really enjoyed this episode and it made me think about all the relationships I ever had, did i see the needs of my other partner, did they see mine ,I haven't been a good partner , I really hope that in the next one I see things differently and give the other person space to express their needs....... Love you guys ❤
Wanjiru I love love your hair❤❤❤... U both r doing a great job online n as parents... U both are holding it down so well❤... Great episode
Tell me why I'm watching this while in washroom 😩😭😂I looooove joyride ❤️
We NEEDED this episode 😀
Walking this journey with you guys as new parents ..it's so amazing ❤
when i saw BEN and Mojji on the same song i know it will be amaaiziiing
Gorgeous mama Tawa🤗💫💯
I'm so grateful for this podcast, this season, the hosts, and especially this episode. By sharing your stories, you are really helping your audience heal through some things, knowingly or unknowingly. Thanks alot Wanjiru and Ben. Aki thank you,.. you have no idea. Watching from diaspora❤️
It's always a joy to tune in to Mama na Baba Tawa🎉❤.
#RoadtoJoy
I don't skip joyride episode I love wanjiru🥰
🎉🎉 awesome 💯 love the laugh of Ben much really inspired much enjoyment and good stuff and information learning lots of stuff ❤❤
Upcoming RUclipsrs, tupitianeni hapa pia sisi tugrow pamoja ❤❤❤❤
Wah wah wah
I feel the ads in this episode have popped up every 4 minutes it’s a bit frustrating 😤
My need rn is to flow with the conversation 😅
They need to make money 😂
Always learning something over here!!!! Good job Ben n Wanjiru
Ben will definitely be the stricter parent!😃
I think because they have a baby boy. Should God bless them with a baby girl, I think he’ll be the opposite
It' s so interesting to see how different people's preferences are. I like my man 'needy' (I call it reliable). Be there when I need & want you, pick up the phone when I call you, spend your time and energy on me. Otherwise, my attraction fades away or I become really resentful.
Sema complex topic 🤣🤣
But I love it ❤... And yeah l need my Man and he needs me too but not to suffocacy level
From the snippet of the song! Yoh🔥
Wanjiru I believe most middle children are needy. Saying this as a middle child.
It probably stems from being overlooked growing up and always trying to get our parents attention most of the time. I am a middle child but this made me super independent instead as an adult. I can’t fathom being needy and my neediness not being acknowledged
Podcast of the Year
Wanjiru Njiru is intellectually smarter than Ben
Ben is funny so it balances the equation
Wanjiru we already know you tangu siku za kutoanua nguo 😂😂😂 please let Ben tell the story 😅😅😅 .... love you guys
The episode is dope ❤❤,,but I can't help but worry for that glass on Wanjiru's side ,what if she drops it😢
Am enjoying the podcast and learning alot
Love this family! ❤
I love yu guyz so much! Ben is so funny
Ben amekipitia 🤣.
Mwanaume akuwe available not needy😅
Wowww...
There are two definitions of needy i.e being in want and wanting too much attention and love. I think the conversation is about the latter.
I definitely think that men's sexual needs are something the society has put above. Going from some of the advice people give married women around it, that is the one place men are allowed or excused to act in untowardly manners to satisfy the need. Emotionally nah we are not even close to being there.
Love love this podcast
Great topic🎉🎉🎉
Ben aliona dust😂😂😂apo kwa needy...
☺️☺️☺️Oh mahnn I love this guys soo much like I am loving this content❤❤❤
thank you for the new episode
Ben ukona sambassss😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
Gentlemen in distress 😅 No way! As a woman it will hard to submit to a damsel . A man should work on himself fully to provide clarity and support to his family,that doesn't mean men shouldn't be vulnerable and needy though (once once lakini😂).
That was a tough topic
I love me a needy man. Not an overly needy man though.
Am glad am here,and learning alote from you my lovely poeple.
Yeah a needy man yes
OYA IO NGOMA IKO TOPS INTERNATIONAL PLEASE MARKET IT WATCHING AT 4AM FUNNY,😉🙏AMA NI GOD
yes if needy is the description youve given yes
Aki Joyride kwangu ni therapy....when you did the dating thing i didn't like it...this questions and answers are better
Am a needy woman so i would never want a needy man
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I need a needy man am also needy too
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Much❤ Upcoming RUclipsrs, pitieni apa tugrow pamoja
I don't like my man needy coz i already am and from my experience ladies don't like needy men
Mimi heri a needy man
Hey
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