Part I: ‘RHOBH’ Star Kathy Hilton Tearfully Describes Paris Hilton’s Claims of Boarding School Abuse

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024
  • “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” star Kathy Hilton tearfully describes the pain daughter Paris Hilton endured after publicly calling out a Utah boarding school with claims of abuse. Tune in TODAY for the full interview.
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Комментарии • 402

  • @emmanuelshackelford3379
    @emmanuelshackelford3379 3 года назад +593

    I love how garcelle got up to comfort Kathy and let her know that as mothers they go through things they always have a beautiful bond and I love to see it 😍💖

    • @Bri-le1fs
      @Bri-le1fs 3 года назад +7

      I started to cry. I feel her pain...

    • @omadjourney
      @omadjourney 3 года назад +4

      Can you imagine the story line next season if she didn't... that after not being grateful for sauce and now bringing Kathy in to make her cry....lol ok I'm being silly but y'all know what I mean lol.

    • @lindahudson4158
      @lindahudson4158 3 года назад +1

      Yes garcelle

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      Yeah me too its just beautiful & wonderful to see awww🥰🥰

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      Yeah She was probably like aww its ok b**** I got your back its gonna be ok lmaoo just kidding😊😊 but aww Kathy😢😢 but yeah it was a really sweet thing she did there

  • @noteanoshade7788
    @noteanoshade7788 3 года назад +549

    After watching This Is Paris I admit I thought her mother came off very distant of her child but seeing this makes me think she was ashamed to be vulnerable. It's really nice to see!

    • @gloriagaribay8679
      @gloriagaribay8679 3 года назад +19

      💯I’ve seen parents give everything they have, try everything & sometimes it’s not enough; so ur willing to try anything bc every kid is different and that’s ur kid. U want them to experience the world unharmed💝

    • @janeking4059
      @janeking4059 3 года назад +24

      Sometimes it's not only SHAME! BUT DEALING WITH THE SHOCK OF IT ALL...NUMBS YOU! UNTIL U FINALLY GET TO THAT PLACE OF ... REALITY!

    • @gloriagaribay8679
      @gloriagaribay8679 3 года назад +4

      @@janeking4059 💯💝

    • @Dtzeo503
      @Dtzeo503 3 года назад +11

      Its crazy how tv can misinterpret a person.

    • @briantucker5615
      @briantucker5615 3 года назад +7

      If I recall in the documentary, they filmed Kathy first finding out about it. It's the stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Kathy was in denial whilst being filmed for the doc, and now it seems like she's accepting it and realizing the harm that was caused. That being said, there are x2 or x3 or x4 sides to every story, and I see how Kathy and Rick thought they were doing the right thing at the time.

  • @danitafarr2927
    @danitafarr2927 3 года назад +436

    Garcelle, Sutton, and Kathy we're the best additions to Beverly Hills in a long time!!

    • @tomalebine2778
      @tomalebine2778 3 года назад +8

      Completely agree, best casting in years!

    • @lindahudson4158
      @lindahudson4158 3 года назад +1

      Yep

    • @Benyikoko
      @Benyikoko 3 года назад +1

      I sooo agree with you!!

    • @heatherperry1052
      @heatherperry1052 3 года назад +2

      By far I would love to see a spin-off with just those three ladies.

  • @pkilla78
    @pkilla78 3 года назад +197

    I love how Garcelle can sympathize so much because she shared her son’s history with addiction and it feels like two mothers having a genuine moment of wanting their kids to be okay

  • @kristymead4728
    @kristymead4728 3 года назад +379

    Perfect to have loni and garcelle interview Kathy. They have actual empathy.

    • @leah2476
      @leah2476 3 года назад +2

      Thank you! I agree

    • @TeclaBurey
      @TeclaBurey 3 года назад +24

      @Carline Sierra I totally agree they did a great job together! The great thing about this show is that Adrienne and Jeannie are FULL of empathy too!

    • @mixedness87f35
      @mixedness87f35 3 года назад +1

      @Jada Beasley yea but considering personal experience Jeaninie probaly wasn't going to be as empathetic because it involves child abuse. Hell I'm definitely not as empathetic to her. Only Paris who actually was abused & suffered & has life-long issues from this

    • @unbothered5240
      @unbothered5240 3 года назад +2

      @@mixedness87f35 You can't discount how absolutely soul shattering it is, to think you're protecting your child, and you ended up sending them into the jaws of the very monster you're trying to keep them from.
      Rape, assault, abuse, all of it affects the entirety of a family unit. Every day Paris suffers, her mother suffers. It will be a lifelong issue for all of them to assess and heal through.
      Despite how well she was trying to hold herself together, you can see the rage that started building when she thought of seeing that abuser again. To know a monster did anything to your child is already hard, but to know you can't get to them? That'll create a rage that you can only let out in tears.
      She's speaking on the reality, that fucks with your mental health heavily. Of course she was depressed knowing her daughter likely resented her for so long not telling her what happened. As a mom, that's a nightmare to experience and live through.

    • @mixedness87f35
      @mixedness87f35 3 года назад +1

      @@unbothered5240 Yes but going through something you accidentally caused is no where near the same as the actual person who went thru it. Any child abuse victim hell any assault victim will say the same. Remorse & guilt is not the same.They accidentally put their child in that situation. Her statement while i understand was trying to explain why they decided to send her to that school(her being bad etc) also came off as as excuse & looked as if she tried to coke off as the victim & make it about her when in fact only her child was. Btw who also previously stated that bk then she did try to tell them & they didn't believe her & didn't want to hear it.

  • @paulkihiu4743
    @paulkihiu4743 3 года назад +1130

    Garcelle joining this show was a really really good thing for them

  • @j.cutrone
    @j.cutrone 3 года назад +238

    I respect Kathy so much. A lot of parents will dismiss their child and even blame them, but she took accountablity and you can tell she's extremely remorseful.

    • @ivyjackson8695
      @ivyjackson8695 3 года назад +1

      Black folks don't do that. We who ass.

    • @ritad452
      @ritad452 2 года назад +1

      Well then you didn't watch the documentary This is Paris.

    • @dieneksler1499
      @dieneksler1499 2 года назад +1

      @@ritad452 well as most people She rejected that She did something wrong at first, but She actually had the strength to admit She was wrong in the end

  • @zakkxx1
    @zakkxx1 3 года назад +231

    I read about Kathy being out of touch and stand-off ish regarding Paris struggles but seeing her that vulnerable and heartbroken is making me think that she is not as manipulative as people thought she was. Everybody hurts, money and fame is non factor.

    • @natsvsam1933
      @natsvsam1933 3 года назад +3

      So true

    • @Dan-pd9ys
      @Dan-pd9ys 3 года назад +7

      Yeah, that cry at the end was no fake cry. A switch just went off in her head the last 20 seconds and the quivering started. I obviously don’t know this person but from her free spirited goofiness on RHOBH and seeing her being interviewed multiple times since joining the show, she strikes me as very genuine and very real.

  • @paulkihiu4743
    @paulkihiu4743 3 года назад +124

    Well I'm glad she was able to talk about this, and admitting how much they keep secrets in the family,

  • @craveinfused1628
    @craveinfused1628 3 года назад +214

    If you have a 15 year-year old who is partying, staying out until 5am, snorting ❄, in the NYC newspapers, I understand why she did what she did. It's unfortunate for Paris that it turned out so negatively however I think her mom was just trying to do what she thought was best.

    • @Belikeabutterfly-v7z
      @Belikeabutterfly-v7z 3 года назад +2

      yes .... and her daughter sensitivity has gone after her .......... the way she began crying .. she went numb .. made me cry too .. iam a child who has not become parent .. but can get the struggle of parents ...........

    • @EstadodeLimbo
      @EstadodeLimbo 3 года назад +7

      Except it didnt happen that way, Paris never did that before getting into that place. She was just a teenager in Ny. The whole socialite life came after she scaped.

    • @coffeelover3467
      @coffeelover3467 3 года назад +4

      @@EstadodeLimbo she was not a socialite as yet but she was an attractive wealthy girl who was rebelling n partying. Watch her documentary

    • @EstadodeLimbo
      @EstadodeLimbo 3 года назад +2

      @@coffeelover3467 And thats ok, she was living life

    • @stanbalo
      @stanbalo 2 года назад +2

      I think Paris is just a bad seed when she was young and Kathy is just unfortunate to have kids like her and her younger brother Conrad. I thought Kathy is like Regina George's cool mom but watching her she comes across very reasonable and according to Paris, strict as a mother. I know parenting is a big factor but i guess in this case it is in the genes of the kids to be really unruly. Well she did what is best at that time. I know Paris had a difficult time at that school but that is the point of being in it..to keep her in check. I also think she did not change her ways while inside so she got punished aka time out many times. Just like in a military camp, you are tested daily. If the school coddled her then it defeats the purpose. Maybe the school's approach needs a bit of tweaking but it is not wrong to go tough love.

  • @jagirl281
    @jagirl281 3 года назад +247

    It is hard to know your children suffered your heart breaks for them. The ladies were very compassionate and loving to Kathy Hylton ❤

    • @galaxys6071
      @galaxys6071 3 года назад

      You don't lock them away at an abusive place... and don't even keep an eye out for them. If you couldn't sleep, you would call everyday and find out they were abusing her

    • @707tich
      @707tich 3 года назад

      Yes they were

    • @pamelajudithrwanyarare8429
      @pamelajudithrwanyarare8429 3 года назад +5

      @@galaxys6071 what makes you think they locked her away? Do you know what it's like to have a child who has ran from every school or even denied entry into others because the schools couldn't handle her. If you were Kathy, sometimes prison might be an option. Kathy did what she could humanly and even with all that money, it just shows parents go through a lot, children don't come with memos and sometimes the best intentions can be wrong. She is a brave woman. You don't know what Paris was like in the 90s,dhe was a wreck. I can't blame her, we just thank God Paris survived and has learnt and is using it as a teachable moment and a mentor to younger ones coming along. Even the rich cry.

    • @galaxys6071
      @galaxys6071 3 года назад

      @@pamelajudithrwanyarare8429 Paris Hilton herself.... that's how I know. You should see both sides. She made a documentary Lol... it's not ok to be so rich or busy that your kids run wild, then you send them off instead of bring them closer. Plus the place you send them "to keep them safe" is abusive and you don't listen when your kid/Paris tells you. To Big Kathy Jr., I feel for as a parent who just didn't know what to do and didn't know they were hurting more than helping.

  • @deeogorman1969
    @deeogorman1969 3 года назад +140

    Kathy really is a great woman... she did at the time what she thought was right and has no issue know saying it was a mistake and something she wishes could be changed. Paris sharing her story and doing everything to get get laws changed will save so many kids/teens so proud of her.

  • @samanthasullivan4335
    @samanthasullivan4335 3 года назад +40

    I've never personally seen her but now feel more compassion for her. This show is unlike other talk shows and is the only one I watch. Thank you ladies.

  • @missnene8339
    @missnene8339 3 года назад +127

    I love how Garcelle comfort physically and Loni with words. These one on one intimate settings the REAL is doing, is one of the best things they could have ever done. You can hear and feel the words of their guests. I don't think we would have received such a wonderful story and feel the mother's sorrow if everyone was on there talking over each other.

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      Yeah and people here talking about in the past oh I want or we want the audience back in the past. I know its over now but no I'm glad they didn't cause you can really see and feel the emotions and empathy and everything! I'm glad they didnt bring them back or return never really looked at or was a fan of the audience anyways before I joined which was this season! Although I have seen clips and the audience on the show never did it for me I never even noticed them tbh 😊

  • @pattyscake7938
    @pattyscake7938 3 года назад +93

    That was a real moment.. it’s nice to see the ladies support her the way that they did. They could have easily moved on and changed the subject, but they gave her an opportunity to have that moment. Great interview 🥰💜

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      Yeah I felt like it was the other two Adrienne or Jeannie they would have moved on to a differnet question or gave her just a tissue if it affected her that much but to actually grow up and comfort her is a brave move Garcelle seems so amazing and nice too aww😊😊🥺🥺

  • @Carameldamour
    @Carameldamour 3 года назад +79

    Catherine Hilton is the realest rich women tv has never know. The humility of this woman very refreshing. Wealthy people often come across as unapproachable, not her.

    • @guyrose2350
      @guyrose2350 3 года назад +6

      Most actually “wealthy” people are the most down to earth people who couldn’t care less about who you know or what you own. It’s people who are obsessed with wealth, whether that’s because they’re chasing money or popularity.

    • @Carameldamour
      @Carameldamour 3 года назад +1

      @@guyrose2350 i believe that too. And that is why I said "come across".

  • @clynnjohnson418
    @clynnjohnson418 3 года назад +61

    So proud of you Paris! Just like abuse is being rooted out of churches, clubs, schools, etc.. I salute Paris for showing that ALL children should be protected. Great interview The Real!

  • @zikhonantlonti6662
    @zikhonantlonti6662 3 года назад +64

    Garcelle knows a mother's pain. She opened up about her struggles with her son ❤❤compassion is what is has❤

  • @-H4mburger-
    @-H4mburger- 3 года назад +49

    Garcelle I am so proud for being a compassionate human being mother, I am proud of Kathy for being human being mother truthful. We human mother's must mother each other.

  • @lizzyborden123
    @lizzyborden123 3 года назад +18

    Rich or poor all parents can relate to wanting to save your child from harm. I’ve been pretty harsh toward Kathy because she seemed so cold about the situation so it’s nice to see her be human about it.

  • @Nash0303
    @Nash0303 3 года назад +50

    Oh Kathy! She was struggling to speak, that's how hurt she is

    • @MrsBuitenbeentje
      @MrsBuitenbeentje 3 года назад

      I think you mean The Talk

    • @King82005
      @King82005 3 года назад +2

      Oh please ! Those are tears of guilt and regret and imo she should. She should. Nobody will EVER convince me that she and her husband didn't know what was going on with Paris. I think also partly she's showing some time of emotion publicly because in the documentary she exuded NONE got the backlash for it and now changing it up. I dont feel for her. I feel for paris and always will. 🤷‍♂️.

    • @simplypaul8681
      @simplypaul8681 3 года назад +1

      @@King82005 you seem like a real Lisa Rinna

    • @King82005
      @King82005 3 года назад

      @@simplypaul8681 a beautiful, accomplished, honest actress who is still standing with a family? That's a compliment I choose to accept any day ! Thanks ! 👍

    • @BbGun-lw5vi
      @BbGun-lw5vi 3 года назад +2

      @@King82005 🤣🤣🤣 Th fact you think that’s a compliment shows you really are like Lisa Rinna!

  • @taurus0362
    @taurus0362 3 года назад +64

    Whew, I love Garcelle. 💚 She’s an *amazing* addition to the show.

  • @tina5601
    @tina5601 3 года назад +22

    It was hard to watch, but so relatable about our children and their choices.
    Thank you Kathy for opening up. Mother's are Mother's no matter your status. ❤️

  • @rosanneminichello3683
    @rosanneminichello3683 3 года назад +21

    Kathy even though she is so rich, she is so relatable and down to earth. I love have she always has her pocketbook with her, even on camera.

    • @yourmajesty122
      @yourmajesty122 Год назад

      I thought the same thing. she doesn't act like a celebrity at all or rich-just a really sweet soccer mom😋

  • @kennethdrake7686
    @kennethdrake7686 3 года назад +11

    This is one of the best segment/interview moments for The Real in a long time the fact that she was so authentic and the hosts were compassionate I smell another Emmy

  • @jackpumkinhead9583
    @jackpumkinhead9583 Год назад +6

    sucks that what she did was so unforgivable. paris may say she forgives her but we all know what time it is , deep down there is no real forgiveness for this sort of trauma . she takes NO accountability for her role in this and that alone is disgusting

  • @KemberlyyC
    @KemberlyyC 3 года назад +21

    Kathy holds a lot of guilt… she did what she thought was right at the moment

  • @dg_71994
    @dg_71994 3 года назад +40

    This was amazing! It’s okay to be vulnerable, Kathy. We know you were only trying your best.

    • @admusik99
      @admusik99 3 года назад +2

      Exactly that 👏🏽 ❤❤

  • @designsonyouinparis
    @designsonyouinparis 3 года назад +3

    I went through a similar situation with my son in NYC. He was totally out of control, then I had a heart attack. I knew we had to make a change. We moved to Texas to give him a new life and look after my aging mother. It has not been an easy move for me to say the least, but, my son, I feel is finally on the right path. I can truly feel Kathy’s pain and, now, so proud of her daughter. Raising children, especially in this day and time, must be the toughest job in the world.

  • @kimma508
    @kimma508 Год назад +2

    Great interview! Garcelle and Loni just listened and let Kathy talk without interruption. The end made me cry because it was so genuine and sincere.

  • @YoItsKami
    @YoItsKami 3 года назад +13

    i love that garcelle got to have this moment with kathy and be there for her. not only as a host of a show or a fellow cast member, but a friend!!

  • @kianah544
    @kianah544 3 года назад +52

    It’s one thing to hear about abuse happening to someone you love, but I think it hurts more when you only had the best intentions but ended up being the one to put them in harms way. I watched Paris’ whole documentary and what she experienced was really scary, especially as a young girl. Schools like that prey on parents’ desperation and they convince you that there are no better options and only they can “save” your child. Sending them off to college at 18 would give me enough anxiety. I would never send my child to a boarding school in a completely different state in the middle of nowhere, especially where she’s not allowed to call me WHENEVER she wants.

    • @janeking4059
      @janeking4059 3 года назад +3

      U neveri know what you would or wouldn't do unless u r in d situation. U R speaking from a place of CLARITY! When u r in a such situations ...u mind emotions thinking are NOT ALWAYS RATIONAL!

    • @kianah544
      @kianah544 3 года назад +3

      @@janeking4059 Reactions and Actions are two separate things. Reactions are off the cuff and you never know what they’ll be before they happen. But you can control what you will or won’t do. I can tell you with certainty that I would NEVER send my child to a boarding school where I’m not available to them. It’s not an unrealistic projection. It’s just a fact of my life. Paris’ parents did their research and trusted the school, but I don’t blame them for being taken advantage of (and I don’t think Paris does either). There probably are some schools that do it correctly though. So Making the decision to send away your child is just something that you either have to be super involved in (popping up on the school often, talking to former and current students and not just the parents, talking to your kids every day to make sure they’re safe, questioning the school about their methods of discipline, etc.) or you can not send them to a school like that at all, which is the position I would take. I just wouldn’t feel comfortable not having immediate access to my child. Where Paris went was basically jail. Again, I don’t blame her parents, they had no idea what was happening, But from my perspective and comfortability, I’m just saying what I would do when it comes to my kids.

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo 3 года назад +3

      That may be true but they know they signed up for their daughter being essentially kidnapped and controlled. They at least knew that, had the entry to that school been different than maybe it would sound more believable.
      I agree she was desperate for her daughter to not end up in a bad place but she wasn't completely naive is what I'm saying.

    • @kianah544
      @kianah544 3 года назад +2

      @@jclyntoledo That is true too. Personally, I would have known better, so I know exactly where you’re coming from. HOWEVER... at the same time. The method of “kidnapping” the child to take them to school was actually very common at that time. Especially if your child had a history of running away. For behavioral schools and “boot camps” that’s the method they used because what “problem child” would willingly let you escort them to a corrective boarding school in Colorado and they didn’t want to give the child OR the parent the opportunity to negotiate their way out of it. The parents were told it was “tough love” and they probably thought you would be doing push-ups and scrubbing floors with toothbrushes, not being sexually assaulted, beaten, and put in solitary confinement. I HIGHLY doubt Kathy knew that that was what she was sending her daughter to endure. So there was some naïveté but I do think they should’ve thought it through a little more. It was a mistake. And she knows that. With the money and resources they had, there had to be better options, whether it was homeschooling and/or therapy for Paris to confront what was making her put herself in danger, or even a more productive form of discipline that Paris responded to. But those schools are very expensive and sometimes super rich people like that are used to money solving their problems. You can’t just throw money at everything. Hopefully, they’ve learned that.

  • @zoesummer3646
    @zoesummer3646 3 года назад +11

    Kathy is a very likeable lady, very sweet. Garcelle is a beautiful compassionate lady, like she very much, she is a great addition to the real. Love watching her, her demeanour is very classic and caring without going too far. She listens. She is also not a me me person, a lot of people on talk shows like to talk about themselves, but Garcelle does do that only when asked. She is a class act.

  • @Angxlitoz
    @Angxlitoz 3 года назад +8

    It’s difficult for parents as well . Sometimes when we go through stuff at a young age We tend to question everybody , even our own parents “ support or actions“. But after you start healing you realize others gotta heal too .

  • @jaymepeddycoart3471
    @jaymepeddycoart3471 3 года назад +5

    Kathy is thoughtful and kind. Real painful moment for her.

  • @eleanorryanryan2442
    @eleanorryanryan2442 3 года назад +7

    Paris Hiltons is such a gentle sole, a beautiful human... Kind and sweet... Wishing her well in her married life.. She will make a great mother one day... Regards from Ireland 🇮🇪💚

  • @stephaniekayholbrook1545
    @stephaniekayholbrook1545 3 года назад +15

    so many disgusting people in this world.. I know its hard to be abused.. I have never told my parents of my abuse due to shame ... I feel for the family. but just know Paris speaking up is amazing and courageous on the road to recovering inside

  • @Dnest10
    @Dnest10 3 года назад +8

    People we love....KATHY HILTON! Hell Paris and Nicky too! So many assumed that there was a disconnect/coldness between Kathy and Paris because of the documentary and it is clearly quite the opposite. Just as Paris, and Nicky, are the apple of Kathy's eye it is very clear how much they both ADORE their mom. Her perceived "coldness" was just her guard against being very vulnerable. She is clearly a very emotional being and it's beautiful to see such love.
    On another note ❤Garcelle, you are that woman! You are that friend. Kudos to you for springing up to be by your friends side. What a beautiful segment about such a difficult topic

  • @brig3493
    @brig3493 3 года назад +17

    Sending Love to you Kathy and Paris. Love how Garcelle comforted her.

  • @masonpatrices
    @masonpatrices 3 года назад +20

    I think Kathy deflected the question about Paris and blamed Paris behavior. As a daughter this is hurtful.. your child was hurt we don't need to know ther back story

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 3 года назад +5

      That’s not deflecting if anything it got her to be more in tune and check in with why her child kept leaving and she found out after the fact and she’s allowing her daughter to speak her truth

    • @meemzing
      @meemzing 3 года назад +7

      Her first response should have been to be apologetic. Then she could have given some more context on why she felt so worried and compelled to do this. The reverse way around feels strange, almost like a justification.

    • @janeking4059
      @janeking4059 3 года назад +2

      She was on an interview...and questions were asked..
      and she answered ...the ifs how's when's why's and wheres!

    • @janeking4059
      @janeking4059 3 года назад +3

      @@MajesticMyronn exactly! Some of these comments just jumping to conclusions.... without really THINKING!

    • @janeking4059
      @janeking4059 3 года назад +1

      @@meemzing every one tells their story differently...in their own way! But she did cover it all! Thats the bottom line!

  • @masteqa1436
    @masteqa1436 Год назад +2

    She is lying and knew about the abuse but still sent Paris to that torture school in utah. Paris begged her to Not send her again but her parents only cared about their reputation

  • @mollyb4541
    @mollyb4541 3 года назад +2

    I love Kathy! She’s been a great addition to the RHOBH! She is very relatable. She surprised me as she seems to probably be the wealthiest but she’s the most down to earth. Broke my heart she broke down about the time she missed with Kyle and longing for her mom. She’s beautiful inside and out. Bless her heart. She’s a wonderful mother. She did everything she could to love and care for Paris. Understanding that as parents, status doesn’t matter when it comes to loving and supporting your kids and wanting the best. We are all vulnerable at times. This is what makes her authentic and relatable! Such a breath of fresh air on the show! Love her 👍🏼💕

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      Wait I though Kyle & Kathy were sisters on the show now your saying she's like kyle's mother I don't understand sorry I don't watch housewives like that only seen clips so that's how I knew and found out

  • @sihledunamiz420
    @sihledunamiz420 3 года назад +8

    Y am I crying? Like dude I’m here being an empath for a total stranger. Being a mother isn’t easy real talk.

    • @godsavethequeen2798
      @godsavethequeen2798 3 года назад +1

      Who in their right mind would wish that on their child...she wanted to save Paris not hurt her. Paris sounds resentful saying they wanted to save their reputation...like she wasn't doing blow and wearing got blow? shirts 🙄 the og clout chaser is paris and I love her btw but I see both sides

  • @ShyFly1000
    @ShyFly1000 3 года назад +5

    Wow. That was the least maternal response I’ve ever heard. How about “I felt awful when I learned about that. I would have done anything to turn back the time and know then what I know now and never put her through something like that again.” I don’t think people’s initial reaction was to blame the parents so why is she so defensive?!

    • @soniadevlin487
      @soniadevlin487 3 года назад +1

      How do you watch someone break down and say that it was unmaternal

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      @@soniadevlin487 Right its like are you really being hard on her after everything she probably to go through🤦🏽‍♀

  • @elizabethwilk9615
    @elizabethwilk9615 3 года назад +1

    I can relate when you try your best to do the right thing for your child and things don’t go well it’s crushing. The fact that both of her daughters are well it’s a testament to their mother. Bravo mom

  • @victoriam3652
    @victoriam3652 3 года назад +17

    Kathy is so beautiful I honest don't think she meant to hurt paris. Kathy did her best she could.

  • @brittneywyche2742
    @brittneywyche2742 3 года назад +12

    Garcell literally helped this show thrive!

  • @mauriciojordan471
    @mauriciojordan471 3 года назад +7

    god kathy's crying is so heartbreaking it's like sad hiccups

  • @paulwilliamson4596
    @paulwilliamson4596 3 года назад +15

    Love Garcelle and Kathy Hilton and Sutton #favHousewives

  • @layuplokeyy2367
    @layuplokeyy2367 11 месяцев назад +1

    I would’ve asked her “what were you thinking when you watched people yank Paris out of her bed and force her out of her room? When she felt like she was being kidnapped?” The issue with thee type of parents is that they inflict trauma for “lessons” when the trauma done is not even the same as the behavior intended to redirect. Kathy remains unapologetic because if she was, it would be about her decision to do that, not what she blames it on which is Paris. She merely acts like she was THAT helpless in her parenting. My god

    • @patty89forever
      @patty89forever 6 месяцев назад

      What you fail to understand is that they saw their daughter going down a dark rough path in her early teens if nothing changed. The Hiltons probably threw everything but the kitchen sink at the problem before that boarding school was advised. They sought out professionals and followed the advice of professionals...Paris wasnt the only victim of that the cruel institution for "higher" learning. Her parents will have to deal with the fact that even though their intentions were to help their daughter the execution led to far more dire consequences than they could have predicted....

    • @layuplokeyy2367
      @layuplokeyy2367 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@patty89forever that’s just a poor excuse to leave other people in charge of inflicting harm on your child because YOU AS THE PARENT LACK CONTROL. Please do the world a favor and don’t have kids

    • @layuplokeyy2367
      @layuplokeyy2367 6 месяцев назад

      @@patty89foreverI said what I said and will not be corrected by standing up against CHILD ABUSE

  • @ImaanMosiane
    @ImaanMosiane 3 года назад +6

    Kathy is just great. I'm sure she doesn't even see this as an interview but just a real conversation. She is so unpretentious

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      Yeah its like a therapy session well it can be like a therapy session at least for her wow these ladies are good

  • @tchannel9354
    @tchannel9354 3 года назад +2

    Yes. She didnt keep it to herself, she is helping People!!!!She is healing...

  • @julievass3438
    @julievass3438 3 года назад +3

    I think this family has to go deeper then the boarding school. Paris had behavioral problems way before. I think Paris was sexually abused as a child. She fits the profile. Out of control behavior sex at an early age having over 20 boyfriends. I think her mom knew about the sexual abuse. I don't think this marriage will last. She will get bored.

    • @Savagemode09
      @Savagemode09 3 года назад

      I think you're really correct I think something really did happen to Paris and maybe there is something deeper than that. Because I noticed that whenever you're dealing with something from the past and there's like a particular pattern about it that is doesn't stop until you go ride the inside your soul and figure out what the root of the problem is. But I could relate to Paris in a way without it having to do with having a lot of money and tostadas but did you take that away you seemed like a very innocent person that does act it out because she probably want her parents attention they were so caught up trying to work all these jobs and you don't realize the sacrifices up until you're doing it yourself and you're maturing that's when you feel grateful to have them around when nobody else wanted you

  • @ruthoabraham
    @ruthoabraham 3 года назад +3

    I cried watching her breakdown 💔

  • @a.sydney5036
    @a.sydney5036 3 года назад +2

    This is the first time I've seen her be asked about this👀👀👀👀👀 props to the real

  • @lupepena8138
    @lupepena8138 3 года назад +4

    God bless all the children in the world! My heart goes out to Paris Hilton and her momma.

  • @AprilMartinChartrandMS
    @AprilMartinChartrandMS 3 года назад +13

    Wow, Garcelle really understands how to be connected to folks. She an exceptional addition to the view.

  • @tomalebine2778
    @tomalebine2778 3 года назад +5

    Whenever Kathy cries, I instantly well up, shes so real and honest

  • @yvettetorres7829
    @yvettetorres7829 3 года назад +5

    I'm sure it breaks her soul to know that Paris was abused in that reform school. It's hard to see your teenage child putting their lives in danger. I can see they're still hurting.

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows 3 года назад +3

    Garcelle is Amazing. I love how real this show is.

  • @victoorrlopez
    @victoorrlopez 3 года назад +18

    bring more Beverly Hills housewives ❤️💎

    • @TrulyMademoizelle
      @TrulyMademoizelle 3 года назад +7

      There's no one else worth hearing from

    • @zikhonantlonti6662
      @zikhonantlonti6662 3 года назад

      @@TrulyMademoizelle 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @marykay7878
    @marykay7878 3 года назад +15

    i like kathy, but just like in paris' documentary, she seems to be more keen to defend her decision than to show compassion to what her child went through. and this makes me suspect, that the decision to send paris away was more based on kathys concern about reputation, that kathys concern about her childs wellbeing.

    • @meemzing
      @meemzing 3 года назад +5

      Well said, I think this is moreso damage control. Somewhat strategic she decided to come on the Real. She probably realizes how this event has come to affect her image. Deep down I think she is a little guilty but her initial response is slightly narcissistic. Even here, her first response is to re-blame Paris for her behavior when it's possible she was emotionally unavailable. I'm sure they didn't know what the school was about but it doesn't justify it still.

    • @ac-us8ne
      @ac-us8ne 3 года назад +9

      I thought she was more trying to explain what it was that she was trying to do. The documentary made it seem like they had sent her there for missing school a couple days, but she more pointed out that there were things leading up to that decision. When you trust a professional counselor to help out with your kid, I imagine she thought she was doing the right thing. I think that's what she was trying to explain unless I'm understanding incorrectly

    • @juliamyron7347
      @juliamyron7347 3 года назад +8

      I think it may not be justifying as more as explaining the decision or providing context. Nonetheless, it is very heartbreaking

    • @janeking4059
      @janeking4059 3 года назад +8

      @@meemzing the lady was telling the entire story about what happened and why...and that includes ...the REASON why Paris was sent away...which was due to her uncontrollable behavior...for WATEVER the reasons maybe...
      She seemed to be open and honest to me...and was innocent as to what the school was doing/was ABOUT! Period!

    • @meemzing
      @meemzing 3 года назад +3

      @@janeking4059 that's not the point, she could tell why Paris was sent away without giving details that imply the situation was to be blamed on her. Kathy was not apologetic in the slightest. Affected, yes, sorry is a different story.

  • @Mo-cd7do
    @Mo-cd7do 3 года назад

    I love the bond between garcelle and Kathy. Truly genuine and caring

  • @joycomesinthemorning6721
    @joycomesinthemorning6721 3 года назад +2

    I feel her pain shame & guilt
    I was abused as a child
    My mother was abused as a child
    Just recently my daughter revealed she was abused as a child
    The excruciating 😖 pain to hear the words mom I was violated the flu like symptoms that come over you like a ton of bricks 🧱 the depression the shame the guilt it’ll eat you alive
    I salute her for trying to answer these questions no matter how she delivered she tried
    That’s healing

    • @BbGun-lw5vi
      @BbGun-lw5vi 3 года назад

      I hope you know that it can happen even to the best, most protective mothers. The truth I found out, when I worked with a psychologist who worked with many abused kids, is that no matter how much you watch your kids and train them to protect themselves, they can still get abused.
      That same psychologist had two daughters who often interacted with the abused children and were prepared from the time they were toddlers about what to do if they were touched inappropriately. Their mother was on top of it. Come to find out years later, her youngest daughter, now 17 yrs old, told her mother that she was sexually abused when she was a child.
      This was incredibly shocking to her mother. I hope this makes you realize that it can happen to anyone.
      I am so sorry that you were abused. And that your child was abused too. The fact that you have so much pain over it, tells me that you did the best you could.

  • @kesa7669
    @kesa7669 3 года назад +1

    And, I don't believe that Kathy is telling the truth about Paris' boarding school experience. If she took this seriously at all...she wouldn't use the term "it is funny" when discussing this. There is nothing funny about it.

  • @hard-truthsbetter-than-swe6543
    @hard-truthsbetter-than-swe6543 3 года назад +1

    Paris said they never checked on her for months.

  • @emmaberkowitz823
    @emmaberkowitz823 2 года назад

    Paris is my hero! I went to one of these nightmarish schools too. Thankful Paris has Kathy’s support

  • @sveabryan9126
    @sveabryan9126 2 года назад

    I’m proud of Paris. I never heard anything good about her in the press. So proud that she’s come through strong and courageous, shedding truth on the lies we’d been fed.

  • @Nash0303
    @Nash0303 3 года назад +12

    Love Garcelle!

  • @wandascott838
    @wandascott838 3 года назад +1

    I love Kathy and she’s such a genuine person. Prayers to her, Paris, and the rest of her family

  • @chocolatepie84
    @chocolatepie84 3 года назад +1

    This was a very good segment on vulnerability & speaking honestly about things that affect you & your family.

  • @pa5666
    @pa5666 3 года назад +1

    Even though it's hard to see her cry, I'm glad she let it out and did. In Paris' doc, she came off very cold when Paris revealed the abuse that was going on at the school. Especially that scene being towards the end, it didn't look like Paris got much closure from her parents not taking accountability. Looks like Kathy is learning that it's okay to shed the armor as we all grow from our mistakes and hardships. Not to mention she only did this out of love and concern for Paris. Love Kathy and glad their family is healing!!

    • @Savagemode09
      @Savagemode09 3 года назад

      Yeah I do feel the same way I think it's hard for a parent to kind of hold themselves together because you don't want I believe your child see your weakness and most people think vulnerability is considered waiting as it's really not. And I always always taught that you can express yourself that you don't have to give like your whole story about it and I believe it's opposite now I believe you if you share your story to other people that are struggling and they have like relatable thoughts and feelings so they can feel ballad about themselves and what Kathy did was she needed a release and sometimes parents also need like a shoulder to lean on. So I'm glad that she was able to do it on television and have other people come at like soccer and some you need that you need to dance or else is goi. ng to eat inside

  • @Lalala24262
    @Lalala24262 3 года назад +3

    We love you Kathy! You did the best you could! You are the best!!

  • @ph1122000
    @ph1122000 3 года назад +4

    Garcelle is definitely the friend I want to have in my circle! such a great person

  • @YourPainting1
    @YourPainting1 3 года назад +1

    Obviously you’ve never seen Paris’s documentary about her abusive childhood. Her mother was her worst enemy for years.

  • @TheKayleeanna
    @TheKayleeanna 3 года назад +1

    Kathy, Garcelle, Crystal, & Loni would make excellent friends. You can feel the genuine love & empathy. ♥

  • @KhalilCabreraYMoreno
    @KhalilCabreraYMoreno 3 года назад +8

    Part 2 will probably be uploaded a month from now 🙄

  • @TheEricknucklez18
    @TheEricknucklez18 3 года назад +11

    Kathy broke the story down better than Paris and this was under 10 min lol

    • @christopherlarue2854
      @christopherlarue2854 3 года назад

      Paris is just looking for sympathy and attention because she’s basically a has been. She acts like she was so innocent lol

    • @cj-fi7kz
      @cj-fi7kz 3 года назад

      @@christopherlarue2854 she was a still child though

  • @bridge30b24
    @bridge30b24 3 года назад +2

    I truly adore GARCELLE. She is a talented actress, and just very likable in general. Loni is my angel for making me laugh so hard I cry, and Kathy reminds me so much of my family-it is so comforting to me.She is truly is a class act.

  • @marlyMe
    @marlyMe 3 года назад +1

    Garcelle and Loni, both such strong and wonderful caring women

  • @perryb66
    @perryb66 3 года назад +1

    That's why I love Kathy Hilton and Garcelle both! What two amazing women look like!
    So glad they are on our favorite TV shows!
    Love ❤️💕 Love ❤️ 💕Love them!!!

  • @NelaNos
    @NelaNos 3 года назад +2

    The Real honestly is my new daily dose of goodness

  • @apacur
    @apacur 2 года назад +1

    Kathy loves to make herself the hero -- She didn't answer the question of how she felt

  • @paulettephillips2649
    @paulettephillips2649 3 года назад +1

    AWWWWW, YOU DID THE BEST YOU CAN MRS.KATHY HILTON & PARIS HELPING OTHERS ❤💚💛💜

  • @pamelabrown9484
    @pamelabrown9484 2 года назад

    It breaks my heart to see Kathy cry...

  • @jadeorien
    @jadeorien 3 года назад +1

    No, I don't agree with Kathy sending Paris miles away from home. There are other ways to help your child. Kathy and her husband didn't want to deal with their child and since they were wealthy they could send their child away to a place that is nowhere near home. Kathy says multiple times we were trying to help her. Well, it didn't work because your child came back home traumatized for years because of that school so I would think of another answer to say than that.

  • @sez187
    @sez187 Год назад

    I'm glad she is finally sorry and actually feels her daugbters pain.

  • @sandrae.7352
    @sandrae.7352 3 года назад +1

    I am wondering if Kathy and her husband have taken any steps to sue the school and staff. I know there is a lawsuit going on but are they taking it further in terms of pressing charges against each school staff who were abusive. If anyone would strip my daughter naked, be absuve with my child, there would be hell to pay.

  • @lynettefullerfields426
    @lynettefullerfields426 3 года назад +1

    The love the clap loni it truly puts focus on the words she made it through
    Thank you 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @wendy7404
    @wendy7404 3 года назад +1

    Kathy, I finally understand

  • @renzavala3376
    @renzavala3376 3 года назад +1

    Thank you, Kathy 💗

  • @stellah2459
    @stellah2459 3 года назад

    Ohhhh please! I went to a similar boarding school in East Africa, after living in America for years. Looking back, I’m glad my parents did what they had to do. She will be ok

  • @nikasoloki9029
    @nikasoloki9029 3 года назад +8

    Love ❤️ Kathy

  • @darrylskylar8757
    @darrylskylar8757 2 года назад +1

    They were trying to save their daughter.

  • @wynetter3083
    @wynetter3083 3 года назад +1

    I'm such a Kathy Hilton Fan she is so down to Earth nothing like her sister Kyle

  • @THEpamstevens
    @THEpamstevens 3 года назад +2

    Having the financial wherewithal does not guarantee perfect choices. Parents, all parents regardless of wealth or lack of, make the best choices they can, in the moment, that may be great or may have repercussions years down the road. Looking in that rear view mirror of life can be the most cruel and difficult thing to do but, being able to look back and then letting it go is the best we can all do for ourselves and our children.

  • @bigb853
    @bigb853 3 года назад +2

    There is theory that Kathy went on to rescue her image after people thought was cold and detached. Then she goes on RHOBH and is super funny and chilled, etc. Do not get wrong I love her on it but I believe it was a much more strategic move then she lets on.

  • @diamondgirll01
    @diamondgirll01 2 года назад

    I do feel bad about a judgemental comment about her. I'm happy you are all healing. Sorry for what you've been through.

  • @Tee-kc3pn
    @Tee-kc3pn 3 года назад +4

    No parent is perfect and make decisions on what we think is best
    There's no handbook for raising kids

  • @bss6273
    @bss6273 3 года назад +1

    The daughter traumatized after the parents sending her there 💔 uuuummmm yyyyeah lots to discuss and dissect there 🤔😕