So one Christmas a few years back while at the mall i decided that I was going to ask for a discount at every store I shopped at even if they did not have an advertisement for a discount, I GOT ONE AT EVERY STORE! My husband saw what i was doing and thought he would try it with his shopping and NOT 1 store gave him a discount, he felt horrible but he learned that you never know until you ask!
@@SimplyShanna21yeah but that’s your right as a consumer to ask for a discount or whatever the store is offering. But these people have absolutely no right to just annoy and harass people in public. Imagine you’re just out after a long day of work and some asshat is screaming random crap at you, or you’re out with your family and someone just starts being an absolute menace and when you complain about that they just say it’s therapy.
Especially disturbing people who CAN'T escape your nonsense. I feel so bad for workers being used like props for content without their knowledge, its a horrible feeling 😢The birthday girl on the beach was one thing, not intrusive at all and very sweet, but that gas station lady went a bit too far. And coming up and grabbing someone?! Noooo lady, hands off!
This is true! Although, for me, it was around age 35 when I stopped caring so much. Now I’m just kinda doing my own thing because I realized no one cares. When I was younger I thought everyone noticed every little thing I was doing and I was hyper aware and VERY insecure. My mom always tried to tell me it didn’t matter; people weren’t paying attention, but of course I didn’t listen to her. Of course, she was right. She’s always right.
1:05 as a librarian I would have closed my cardigan, pushed my glasses back, walked over to that crunchy sounding lady and kindly asked her to leave quickly.
I found a few of these to be just plain rude: bothering people at work asking for free stuff and harassing and recording people on the street is a sort of line that shouldn't be crossed While I understand getting out of the comfort zone and not caring about other people's opinion, I think being respectful of their space and jobs should be a priority
The older I get the less I care what anyone thinks. And believe me, I didn't care when I was younger either. Someone else's view of me is not my reality... Now that I am about to turn 70 I am very happy with how things are going and have no regrets. Looking forward to the future! I have terrific friends ( both of whom are younger) who keep me positive and grounded. I have removed all negativity from my life, without religious beliefs by the way, but whatever it takes for you as long as you don't force it on me. Love you Auntie B!
Not wise giving permission to a non-employee to go behind the counter and into your workspace. That's a lawsuit waiting to happen if she gets hurt and hurts someone else. Major liability right there. No, no, no.
The fear of rejection started for me about 3 years ago and it's so much worse now. I hate it. I don't judge people. I don't know why my brain thinks others will care. It is a true prison. Thank you for this video. I have a birthday in the next week and I am going to commit to this. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think C-19 gave a lot of people social anxiety. I had it very bad after becoming 18 and couldn't go anywhere by myself, I couldn't go to the store and not worry if say something odd or people were always looking at me. Once I had my daughter I could focus on her and it didn't bother me too much anymore. I hope you can succeed in this new trend. I know how scary it really is.
@@Five0Five thank you so much. You are exactly right. I want to be a mother and this prison has held me back (from dating) but no more! Thank you again for the encouragement. ❤
Rejection therapy is alien to me. Could be because I'm the sort of person that does recognise that my own insecurities are my own and I shouldn't seek validation (or not) from strangers. It's not on them to reject me to make me stronger (and I believe people in general are kind and good and don't want to actually hurt anyone). I'm also the sort of person that when I'm ready to do something, I just do it. I don't give a rat's patootie what anyone else thinks. And you're name is gorgeous. My mum and I think it's a lovely name and as mum put it "it makes you feel good inside". I've been following you for a while now and I look forward to your posts and your down to earth personality. Edited for clarity.
Definitely should never seek validation from strangers! There are kind and good people out there, but always be careful. Not giving a rat’s patootie 😂 is the way to go. For as long as you aren’t disturbing others peace, like the girl in the library. Thank you. Aww such lovely words from your mum ❤️. I appreciate y’all’s support and love ❤️
17:24 this was pretty sweet. My dad is a retired FF so I have been on trucks hundreds of times. And yes, you can totally take your kind to the station, get a tour, sit in the truck, all of it. FF are awesome!
Girl you are preaching to the choir. I completely understand what you are trying to say. I’ve been saying yes to myself by applying for things I never thought I would. It’s been refreshing. Give it a try. I promise you things will be alright. ❤
Ok but the last TikTok where she made the drink was the most wholesome interaction I’ve seen yet😭 like embodies not all strangers are rude, in fact most are just caught off guard and it’s their initial reaction. But that moment was storybook level socializing and I love it. Stay positive and the good energy you give out will certainly serve back 🙏🏾😊
i have severe anxiety. like, severe. this seems like actual hell. i dont think i will ever get better lol. therapy isnt working much, its been 5 years. i was doing well for a while, but i had one bad experience and it undid everything and im back to ground 0 with no motivation to try again lol.
I'm in the same boat but I desperately want to go out there and talk to people. You can slowly talk to people like your coworkers but just don't take everything to heart.
@@BusiswaG dont worry! i wouldnt be able to even if i wanted haha. i think ive had three. the previous two refused to work with me because of how severe my anxiety and depression were, i wasnt making any progress. ive been with my current therapist for 2-3 years and its been quite nice i suppose. i see them once a month, but im european and in a small country so i dont have alot of options lol. gotta take what i can get
@@toidIllorTAmI my anxiety and depression are both severe, so theyre considered a disability in my country and im currently without a job too. unfortunately i dropped out of school at 12 because of it all and i dont have much education too, making finding a job even harder. i have a single friend i try to hang out with, but at best, we meet once every few months. sometimes i do have better days, though, and i try to work on what i can! i do hope one day i will be fully functional again.
I'm in the same boat, I can't afford therapy and not do I vent to strangers about my personal life like that because I have my bf to be my therapist because he accepts my flaws and loves me for who I am, but I've had severe anxiety ever since I was really little and low-key I would never hop on this trend because it would only make my mental health worse.
The moment I thought that “I already have a no, but if I try I may get a yes” life became so much better. I applied for this job which I loved but thought I wouldn’t get it. A few months and 10.000km later, Im in my first week at this position! Lifes been so freeing!
LMAO reminds me of the time my "exposure therapy" backfired on me.. I actually wasnt in therapy yet but im a painfully shy girl and one day i decided to tryto go out of my shell. A lady came on the bus, i liked her sweater, wanted to compliment her.. But as usual i felt very uncomfortable and i wouldntve normally done it for ths reason. That day i worked up the courage by telling myself that "i was gonna go out of my box, give her a compliment and maybe even make her day." So I did. I pushed and said "i love that sweater" and smiled. She immediately started YELLING and hurling insults at me...i was mortified. It soon became clear that she was probably not all there. But on that day i SWORE to myself that i would NEVER do someting like that again 😂 that was like a year ago and i havent stepped out of my box since.
I’ve been unknowingly doing rejection therapy, I would wave to people or smile or compliment them, it’s not as out there as some of these on the video but it’s something and I’m proud of myself!
I went on vacation recently. I went to Austin, TX with some friends for a convention. On the flight there, there wasn’t a ton of people in the plane going to Austin. This rather quiet gentleman started singing a song to help him get through the turbulence. He started singing Deep In The Heart Of Texas and it didn’t take long for everyone else on the flight to start singing it with him. It was awesome to sing our butts off even if some were off key. Nobody cared. We just had fun.
16:44 🚒👩🚒 MAJORITY of fire stations will let you sit in the truck! My dad was one for almost 30 years and they LOVED it when people stopped by to ask about the trucks. It wasnt often but if theyre not busy, a lot of them dont mind and sometimes will use it to test the junior guys kniwledge on tbe equipment lol
Hello my sister in Christ! I just adore watching you. I can tell you're very grounded in your faith and its a beautiful thing to see. So many misguided young women out in the world and to see you guided by the Lord is refreshing. May God continue to shine His face on you and your husband. God bless you!
Yes!! I struggle with this so much and it takes so much to go out and live but its always worth it in the end. I am not christan but am spiritual and I agree with it all. You are motivational and remind me to keep going
I admire you for your declaration of faith and living without fear, how there is freedom when one faces them. God bless you, my sister in Christ! 🙏🙏❤️❤️✝️✝️
🎶I am older and people wonder why i sing in the car , almost always. It makes me happy ! I saw that as a young adult and said I loved seeing older people feeling the music 🎵in their car. I know I am passing it forward too, but it is the only way I can drive now for many reasons. An odd pay it forward.🎶
I dunno. I don’t think bothering people while they are working is acceptable. Also, stop asking retail workers if you can have something for free. Actually stop bothering people in general when they are just living their lives. I understand that you’re trying to help yourself not care what people think, but sometimes you should care what people think. It can help you to be more self aware when you need to be. Just my opinion.
Not you coming at my neck. I was just thinking to myself I need to go to a confidence class or something. Gotta get out my head. Thank you. U gained a subscriber
I don’t know where I heard this but when my brain is saying “what if it goes wrong, oh no, what if I look silly, what if….” I remind myself- what if it goes right?! What if it’s a decision that creates a really positive outcome? We will only know if we take chances. Gotta flip the script when the intrusive thoughts are being loud.
To anyone who knows they deserve a raise at their job but is too scared to ask… DO IT!!! I regret not asking for a raise and I absolutely deserved it and had multiple reasons to deserve it but I never asked. If they had refused, I would’ve stopped going the extra mile in the multiple ways I was and they would’ve had to hire more people to make up for the work I stopped doing. DO IT!!
nah but that stranger danger is so real. I grew up in a bad neighborhood, my parents made me fearful and paranoid. Shot, kidnapped, taken advantage of, drugs whatever. That also made me hella lonely growing up, even during adulthood. I have a good job, I don't have to interact with customers but whenever I see them I've been starting to say 'hello, hows your day' or giving compliments. It makes me feel awkward as FUCK but also good at the same time. I notice that it's mostly millennials who feel this more than other generations imo.
The people asking for stuff for free from cashiers and not stopping after the first time are CRUEL. The cashier didn't sign up for that, are you kidding? I think the fire truck or asking for a picture, or giving someone a compliment, or saying something loud in public and then stopping isn't bad. But when it's someone's job and you are asking them to do something that WE ALL know is illegal???? Like come on.
This basically seems like Exposure and Response Prevention, which is how OCD is treated. You put yourself (over time) in situations MORE scary than you would usually experience so that your everyday things that are terrifying don't seem scary anymore. Basically by confronting fears and being uncomfortable, you learn that it is actually kinda okay, you're not gonna die (or someone else isn't gonna die) it just sorta sucks, but in a challanging and rewarding way? The trick with OCD is to stop doing compulsions, but it helped me with avoidance behaviors too.
Your words spoke to me! Such a perfect timing video. I don't have a fear of rejection, but I do worry, "if I am making the right choice." I have the opportunity to make a big move, across countries, and I'm so nervous!!!! All the what ifs. What if it doesn't work out? But what if it does?!
Hey ladies, stay in your box, men are dangerous. If you say hi they’ll think your flirting and try to hurt you. PLEASE do not ever try to strike up a conversation or smile and say hello to a strange man. You need to remember men are the danger, when they say stranger danger, or someone hurting you, coming for you etc, they’re talking about men. Locking myself in is how I stay safe.
Sorry u have this way of thinking. Not every single guy on this earth is scum. I’ve talked to, cared for , dozens of men who literally were the sweetest, down to earth person, who would help anyone in a bind young and elder .
@ I completely agree, but if I told you I had a huge bowl of m&ms but one of them was poisonous, would you really take a handful? You can’t be trust any man because you never know which ones are dangerous and which ones aren’t. At the end of the day men commit 90% of all ☠️ I can’t say the word but starts with an M and 99% of all SAs. Men are the danger, not fearing all of them is completely and utterly reckless. If a man does hurt you in the SA way they most likely won’t spend a day behind bars and you’ll be ridiculed and not believed. Is that really a chance you wanna gamble with? Are you aware the number one cause of ☠️ in pregnant women is because a man ended them? A man who once claimed to love that woman? Wise up, or they’ll get you too. You shouldn’t have to learn this lesson the hard way. Avoid all men, fear them, and keep your head down.
There's a huge difference between feeling comfortable doing your thing without shame and being completely inconsiderate of everyone around you. This is just main character syndrome.
Oh man, this vid had me thinking of a few things, as someone who does live "in paranoia". 1. I admittedly never wanted to go to college, but lately, I've been considering taking an animation class so I could improve my animated artwork. Idk if I wanna get into movies or anything, but it's something to give me something else to do with my own characters, maybe find a new style. I at first never wanted to go because y'know...School sucked and I was ready to just leave when I graduated. Years after and Ulvade happened, I was afraid of school shooters so REALLY didn't want to go back. But after thinking how I'd feel that college would first of all, have a whole security system with guards and the like, I may be able to go and feel more safe? 2. There are things i already do that make me look "freaky" due to my autism. If you think I'm gonna sit with my music on and not jam to it, even on a public bus, you're gravely mistaken. I'm not gonna hear your remarks anyway. :P 3. Honestly, if someone's gonna unsub because you're religious is bonkers. I'm not religious and hate the whole conversation of it (honestly leaving church made me happier after reflecting on my own thoughts about it), but I have religious family members who I love dearly, and it wouldn't matter if they were religious or not - they're caring individuals who respect their family. Now if you were here glorifying mass criminals, that's a VERY VALID reason to unsub from someone, or because they're posting CP. But someone's just super petty if they're gonna unsub due to beliefs or lifestyle; You're not breaking any laws, you're just expressing yourself. And quite frankly, you're not even shoving it down our throats, which is something I know can be a struggle when people want to make it known that they're of a certain religion or political side. But even then, I wouldn't unsub personally because I like your content and reactions! I don't use Tiktok so I'm not gonna know what they're doing to themselves, lol! I like channels like yours who react to some of them and explain them for those of us who aren't in the know!
20:28 Damn, Australia allows that? I'm American and I am 99.9% sure that if I allowed a customer behind the counter and the Department of Health found out, they would have a stroke and my job would be on the line.
"Hitting the nail on the head" , it's an idiom about precision & directness . & "striking the iron while it's hot" is equivalent to "early bird gets the worm" . It's an idiom about timing . "Final nail in the coffin" like "that's the last straw !" Idiom about ... you done did it now 😅 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 Your name is beautiful 💜💜 And YESSSSS ABOUT JESUS !! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Or you could just learn to love yourself unconditionally FIRST and know your own worth and value and start VALIDATING yourself and stop seeking validation from others, the only opinion that matters is YOUR OWN about yourself
Lol I am in my 30s and my embarrassment is turned all the way down. I talk to everyone and I dont give a shit haha maybe thats just being in your 30's!
Some of these are fine, but it’s good to feel inhibited when all you’re doing is being obnoxious for views. Screaming in the middle of the mall unprovoked? Go ahead and hold on to that inhibition.
this isnt rejection therapy, its just being goofy. I know because I do it a lot, I used to do it more when I as younger and it can be fun but they call everything therapy nowadays, pretty soon you'll be seeing people come up with certification for rejection therapists. That said, just have fun, lifes too short to be miserable but don't be rude and yes, Jesus Christ is Lord and my savior too. Preach it girl
I think ever since social media became more part of our lives and certain apps (TikTok) blew up and now everyone has a smartphone has made people more afraid to be human and be themselves because you get posted online and made fun of.
I think it makes it more obvious with sticking the camera in people's faces. Everyone is tired of these influencers. This could be good, though, just talking to people (WITHOUT HAVING OUT YOUR PHONE), but yeah. Just don't disturb the peace/people and dont be a jerk.
19:01 no seriously if the roles were reversed this qould go viral for the dude being a creep smh I'm tired of women being privileged (no I am not a man)
If you're only going to annoy everyone please keep your "therapy" to yourself
Yes!
So one Christmas a few years back while at the mall i decided that I was going to ask for a discount at every store I shopped at even if they did not have an advertisement for a discount, I GOT ONE AT EVERY STORE! My husband saw what i was doing and thought he would try it with his shopping and NOT 1 store gave him a discount, he felt horrible but he learned that you never know until you ask!
@@SimplyShanna21yeah but that’s your right as a consumer to ask for a discount or whatever the store is offering. But these people have absolutely no right to just annoy and harass people in public. Imagine you’re just out after a long day of work and some asshat is screaming random crap at you, or you’re out with your family and someone just starts being an absolute menace and when you complain about that they just say it’s therapy.
Therapy ≠ disturbing other people in a public place for content
Yeah, some took it too far
Especially disturbing people who CAN'T escape your nonsense. I feel so bad for workers being used like props for content without their knowledge, its a horrible feeling 😢The birthday girl on the beach was one thing, not intrusive at all and very sweet, but that gas station lady went a bit too far. And coming up and grabbing someone?! Noooo lady, hands off!
Making others need therapy is not therapy 😂😂😂
@@blushface Lmao
I stopped caring what people think after turning 30 😂 it's awesome 😎
Truly is. I stopped at 20.
Same! Its so fun :P
i stopped caring at 13 some people just aint gonna like me it is what it is, nothing i can do. i come first before their opinions
It starts gaining momentum once you hit 30, then blossoms into full-throttle idgaf at 40 and beyond.
This is true! Although, for me, it was around age 35 when I stopped caring so much. Now I’m just kinda doing my own thing because I realized no one cares. When I was younger I thought everyone noticed every little thing I was doing and I was hyper aware and VERY insecure. My mom always tried to tell me it didn’t matter; people weren’t paying attention, but of course I didn’t listen to her. Of course, she was right. She’s always right.
1:05 as a librarian I would have closed my cardigan, pushed my glasses back, walked over to that crunchy sounding lady and kindly asked her to leave quickly.
love that you're unashamed about your faith, even though your channel isn't about that.
🎯 you’d be surprised at the random, “saw your necklace and unsubscribed.” something along those lines.
@@BusiswaG smh I'm so sorry
As a born again Christian myself, I cheered when you gave your speech. YES!! NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR YOUR FAITH! EVER! Christ above all else.
@@BusiswaG How sad for them. They are missing living the best life possible on Earth and in His Kingdom.
@@MeatEatingVegan777 I'm a born again Christian as well, and YES. I felt so much joy hearing her speech!
I found a few of these to be just plain rude: bothering people at work asking for free stuff and harassing and recording people on the street is a sort of line that shouldn't be crossed
While I understand getting out of the comfort zone and not caring about other people's opinion, I think being respectful of their space and jobs should be a priority
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To add to your rant always remember to “release your inhibitions! Feel the rain on your skin!!!”
NO ONE ELSE CAN FEEL IT FOR YOU…
@@BusiswaGOnly you can let it in!
The older I get the less I care what anyone thinks. And believe me, I didn't care when I was younger either. Someone else's view of me is not my reality... Now that I am about to turn 70 I am very happy with how things are going and have no regrets. Looking forward to the future! I have terrific friends ( both of whom are younger) who keep me positive and grounded. I have removed all negativity from my life, without religious beliefs by the way, but whatever it takes for you as long as you don't force it on me. Love you Auntie B!
this is just exposure therapy “adapted” for social media
A lot of this solves itself by getting older. I don’t give two craps anymore what others think, MY happiness matters more lol
Mine hit at 20.
6:05 You tried to combine three phrases into one, lol 😅❤
"The final nail in the coffin"
"You hit the nail on it's head"
"Strike while the iron is hot"
😂😂😂
We love an Idiom Rebel 😂❤😂❤😂
I was dying I love her🤣🤣🤣
So cute! My husband sucks at idioms too 🤦🏾♀️ but it makes life spicy 😂😂😂
Not wise giving permission to a non-employee to go behind the counter and into your workspace. That's a lawsuit waiting to happen if she gets hurt and hurts someone else. Major liability right there. No, no, no.
The fear of rejection started for me about 3 years ago and it's so much worse now. I hate it. I don't judge people. I don't know why my brain thinks others will care. It is a true prison. Thank you for this video. I have a birthday in the next week and I am going to commit to this. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think C-19 gave a lot of people social anxiety. I had it very bad after becoming 18 and couldn't go anywhere by myself, I couldn't go to the store and not worry if say something odd or people were always looking at me. Once I had my daughter I could focus on her and it didn't bother me too much anymore. I hope you can succeed in this new trend. I know how scary it really is.
@@Five0Five thank you so much. You are exactly right. I want to be a mother and this prison has held me back (from dating) but no more! Thank you again for the encouragement. ❤
My bday is also later this week! Go for it friend, you got this
Yes I have this fear and for people who don't have it always judge harshly because their brains work better
Rejection therapy is alien to me. Could be because I'm the sort of person that does recognise that my own insecurities are my own and I shouldn't seek validation (or not) from strangers. It's not on them to reject me to make me stronger (and I believe people in general are kind and good and don't want to actually hurt anyone). I'm also the sort of person that when I'm ready to do something, I just do it. I don't give a rat's patootie what anyone else thinks.
And you're name is gorgeous. My mum and I think it's a lovely name and as mum put it "it makes you feel good inside". I've been following you for a while now and I look forward to your posts and your down to earth personality.
Edited for clarity.
Definitely should never seek validation from strangers! There are kind and good people out there, but always be careful. Not giving a rat’s patootie 😂 is the way to go. For as long as you aren’t disturbing others peace, like the girl in the library.
Thank you. Aww such lovely words from your mum ❤️. I appreciate y’all’s support and love ❤️
17:24 this was pretty sweet. My dad is a retired FF so I have been on trucks hundreds of times. And yes, you can totally take your kind to the station, get a tour, sit in the truck, all of it. FF are awesome!
Girl you are preaching to the choir. I completely understand what you are trying to say. I’ve been saying yes to myself by applying for things I never thought I would. It’s been refreshing. Give it a try. I promise you things will be alright. ❤
Thank you for pronouncing your name for us! lol I may or may not had already googled it. I'm so happy your video showed up on my home page 😀
Hits the nail on the head.
Ouch 😂
And then “final nail in the coffin”
You were close!
Publicly rejecting you. Ya nasty ahh raiders fan 🤢
Amen!! JESUS CHRIST is the only way! I never want to ever apologize for believing in the LORD! ❤
Proselytizing is as annoying as rejection therapy
@@Nachoprobl3m2you seem to care too much about christians my guy.
Ok but the last TikTok where she made the drink was the most wholesome interaction I’ve seen yet😭 like embodies not all strangers are rude, in fact most are just caught off guard and it’s their initial reaction. But that moment was storybook level socializing and I love it. Stay positive and the good energy you give out will certainly serve back 🙏🏾😊
i have severe anxiety. like, severe. this seems like actual hell. i dont think i will ever get better lol. therapy isnt working much, its been 5 years. i was doing well for a while, but i had one bad experience and it undid everything and im back to ground 0 with no motivation to try again lol.
If you have severe anxiety, please don’t try this. Have you always had the same therapist for the 5 years?
I'm in the same boat but I desperately want to go out there and talk to people. You can slowly talk to people like your coworkers but just don't take everything to heart.
@@BusiswaG dont worry! i wouldnt be able to even if i wanted haha. i think ive had three. the previous two refused to work with me because of how severe my anxiety and depression were, i wasnt making any progress. ive been with my current therapist for 2-3 years and its been quite nice i suppose. i see them once a month, but im european and in a small country so i dont have alot of options lol. gotta take what i can get
@@toidIllorTAmI my anxiety and depression are both severe, so theyre considered a disability in my country and im currently without a job too. unfortunately i dropped out of school at 12 because of it all and i dont have much education too, making finding a job even harder. i have a single friend i try to hang out with, but at best, we meet once every few months. sometimes i do have better days, though, and i try to work on what i can! i do hope one day i will be fully functional again.
I'm in the same boat, I can't afford therapy and not do I vent to strangers about my personal life like that because I have my bf to be my therapist because he accepts my flaws and loves me for who I am, but I've had severe anxiety ever since I was really little and low-key I would never hop on this trend because it would only make my mental health worse.
I'm 36 and trust the older u get the less u care...I can't wait to reach my peak of not caring ❤
The moment I thought that “I already have a no, but if I try I may get a yes” life became so much better. I applied for this job which I loved but thought I wouldn’t get it. A few months and 10.000km later, Im in my first week at this position! Lifes been so freeing!
You definitely live up to your name because you’re definitely blessing your subscribers with so many entertaining/humorous videos everyday! ❤️
Love this. It's a difficult situation being known as the one who hardly talks, but I've always want to be friendlier and more open to people.
LMAO reminds me of the time my "exposure therapy" backfired on me.. I actually wasnt in therapy yet but im a painfully shy girl and one day i decided to tryto go out of my shell. A lady came on the bus, i liked her sweater, wanted to compliment her.. But as usual i felt very uncomfortable and i wouldntve normally done it for ths reason. That day i worked up the courage by telling myself that "i was gonna go out of my box, give her a compliment and maybe even make her day." So I did. I pushed and said "i love that sweater" and smiled. She immediately started YELLING and hurling insults at me...i was mortified. It soon became clear that she was probably not all there. But on that day i SWORE to myself that i would NEVER do someting like that again 😂 that was like a year ago and i havent stepped out of my box since.
I’ve been unknowingly doing rejection therapy, I would wave to people or smile or compliment them, it’s not as out there as some of these on the video but it’s something and I’m proud of myself!
I went on vacation recently. I went to Austin, TX with some friends for a convention. On the flight there, there wasn’t a ton of people in the plane going to Austin. This rather quiet gentleman started singing a song to help him get through the turbulence. He started singing Deep In The Heart Of Texas and it didn’t take long for everyone else on the flight to start singing it with him. It was awesome to sing our butts off even if some were off key. Nobody cared. We just had fun.
Rejection and embarrassment are two different things, right?? These people are making me feel like it's the same thing smh
😂😂😂
I guess some people are associating it with the same thing in their mind
I don't really feel "held back" i don't really care for doing uncomfortable things. What if is a very valid question. Never seen a dead coward
“Hit the nail on the head” is another one and might be the one that you were trying to think of.
16:44 🚒👩🚒 MAJORITY of fire stations will let you sit in the truck! My dad was one for almost 30 years and they LOVED it when people stopped by to ask about the trucks. It wasnt often but if theyre not busy, a lot of them dont mind and sometimes will use it to test the junior guys kniwledge on tbe equipment lol
Hello my sister in Christ! I just adore watching you. I can tell you're very grounded in your faith and its a beautiful thing to see. So many misguided young women out in the world and to see you guided by the Lord is refreshing. May God continue to shine His face on you and your husband. God bless you!
You can be guided in life WITHOUT religious indoctrination 😂
@Nachoprobl3m2 but God is THEE author of life so His guidance is key.
You have no idea how badly I needed to hear what you said! Love the encouragement!
You look glowing with your natural hair and face!
Yes!! I struggle with this so much and it takes so much to go out and live but its always worth it in the end. I am not christan but am spiritual and I agree with it all. You are motivational and remind me to keep going
I admire you for your declaration of faith and living without fear, how there is freedom when one faces them. God bless you, my sister in Christ! 🙏🙏❤️❤️✝️✝️
I'm Mexican so I always smile and say hi to strangers when entering a shop or bumping into someone in the elevator.
As a sister in Christ, I felt s much joy for your speech right there. I admire you even more now Busiswa! Glory to the Lord.
Busiswa is in her motivational speaker era 💅
Thank youuu for being so real and for that whole speech about stepping out of your comfort zone❤❤ I really am hearing this at the right time
THE JUICE GIRL WAS SO CUTE AND PRECIOUS THO 😭💗
🎶I am older and people wonder why i sing in the car , almost always. It makes me happy ! I saw that as a young adult and said I loved seeing older people feeling the music 🎵in their car. I know I am passing it forward too, but it is the only way I can drive now for many reasons. An odd pay it forward.🎶
I dunno. I don’t think bothering people while they are working is acceptable. Also, stop asking retail workers if you can have something for free. Actually stop bothering people in general when they are just living their lives. I understand that you’re trying to help yourself not care what people think, but sometimes you should care what people think. It can help you to be more self aware when you need to be. Just my opinion.
I really love your videos. Especially when they have a positive message 💙
Not you coming at my neck. I was just thinking to myself I need to go to a confidence class or something. Gotta get out my head. Thank you. U gained a subscriber
I don’t know where I heard this but when my brain is saying “what if it goes wrong, oh no, what if I look silly, what if….” I remind myself- what if it goes right?! What if it’s a decision that creates a really positive outcome? We will only know if we take chances. Gotta flip the script when the intrusive thoughts are being loud.
To anyone who knows they deserve a raise at their job but is too scared to ask… DO IT!!! I regret not asking for a raise and I absolutely deserved it and had multiple reasons to deserve it but I never asked. If they had refused, I would’ve stopped going the extra mile in the multiple ways I was and they would’ve had to hire more people to make up for the work I stopped doing. DO IT!!
nah but that stranger danger is so real. I grew up in a bad neighborhood, my parents made me fearful and paranoid. Shot, kidnapped, taken advantage of, drugs whatever. That also made me hella lonely growing up, even during adulthood. I have a good job, I don't have to interact with customers but whenever I see them I've been starting to say 'hello, hows your day' or giving compliments. It makes me feel awkward as FUCK but also good at the same time. I notice that it's mostly millennials who feel this more than other generations imo.
I stopped caring what people think at 26 and it’s the best thing ever and I have so many friends
The people asking for stuff for free from cashiers and not stopping after the first time are CRUEL. The cashier didn't sign up for that, are you kidding? I think the fire truck or asking for a picture, or giving someone a compliment, or saying something loud in public and then stopping isn't bad. But when it's someone's job and you are asking them to do something that WE ALL know is illegal???? Like come on.
This basically seems like Exposure and Response Prevention, which is how OCD is treated. You put yourself (over time) in situations MORE scary than you would usually experience so that your everyday things that are terrifying don't seem scary anymore. Basically by confronting fears and being uncomfortable, you learn that it is actually kinda okay, you're not gonna die (or someone else isn't gonna die) it just sorta sucks, but in a challanging and rewarding way? The trick with OCD is to stop doing compulsions, but it helped me with avoidance behaviors too.
Your words spoke to me! Such a perfect timing video. I don't have a fear of rejection, but I do worry, "if I am making the right choice." I have the opportunity to make a big move, across countries, and I'm so nervous!!!! All the what ifs. What if it doesn't work out? But what if it does?!
Your rant was my absolutely favourite part of this video 😊 thank you!
Thank you for telling us the meaning of your name. You are beautiful and your name is as well!
Love your content Auntie ❤
12:18 i’ve been learning this lesson myself and this is very interesting to hear your perspective please go live for this rant!
6:07 I think you combined “hit the nail on the head” with “last nail in the coffin” lolll
I'm literally cringing with some of this. Could not wounld not 😂 i kinda wanna back out of this video to get away from the feeling.
Some of these are cute. As long as you're not doing it to the detriment of others, I don't see the harm!
This is one thing I can actually get behind, for once a trend that isn't ridiculous and only about looks (in a sense).
Hey ladies, stay in your box, men are dangerous. If you say hi they’ll think your flirting and try to hurt you. PLEASE do not ever try to strike up a conversation or smile and say hello to a strange man. You need to remember men are the danger, when they say stranger danger, or someone hurting you, coming for you etc, they’re talking about men. Locking myself in is how I stay safe.
Sorry u have this way of thinking. Not every single guy on this earth is scum. I’ve talked to, cared for , dozens of men who literally were the sweetest, down to earth person, who would help anyone in a bind young and elder .
@ I completely agree, but if I told you I had a huge bowl of m&ms but one of them was poisonous, would you really take a handful? You can’t be trust any man because you never know which ones are dangerous and which ones aren’t. At the end of the day men commit 90% of all ☠️ I can’t say the word but starts with an M and 99% of all SAs. Men are the danger, not fearing all of them is completely and utterly reckless. If a man does hurt you in the SA way they most likely won’t spend a day behind bars and you’ll be ridiculed and not believed. Is that really a chance you wanna gamble with?
Are you aware the number one cause of ☠️ in pregnant women is because a man ended them? A man who once claimed to love that woman?
Wise up, or they’ll get you too. You shouldn’t have to learn this lesson the hard way. Avoid all men, fear them, and keep your head down.
There's a huge difference between feeling comfortable doing your thing without shame and being completely inconsiderate of everyone around you. This is just main character syndrome.
I'm a librarian and I would have booted the lady with the megaphone out the door so fast. Please don't make my job harder than it needs to be! T_T
Your videos make my day. Always so sweet and funny.
I admire how you find things not even I could describe to a Victorian child about. Love your vids
I'm working on doing this but not that extreme😂
Yeah some of them did too much 😂. Baby steps without disturbing other people’s peace.
13:15 HALLELUJAH SISTER 🎉❤🙏🏽 The power
Omgggg you finally said your name!!!! Thank youuuuuuuu I fuxking love it
Great Video & content!!! I love the meaning of ur name! Thankyou for sharing how to pronounce it!!! Continued blessings to you!🤗🙏🏾💜
my crippling second hand embarrassment wont even let me watch the video :(
I feel that 😭
My most recent experience of that was stranger things when eleven tried using her powers on the bully and it didn’t work 😭 I feel you
The way I’m crying n cringing! 😂 😬
Oh man, this vid had me thinking of a few things, as someone who does live "in paranoia".
1. I admittedly never wanted to go to college, but lately, I've been considering taking an animation class so I could improve my animated artwork. Idk if I wanna get into movies or anything, but it's something to give me something else to do with my own characters, maybe find a new style. I at first never wanted to go because y'know...School sucked and I was ready to just leave when I graduated. Years after and Ulvade happened, I was afraid of school shooters so REALLY didn't want to go back. But after thinking how I'd feel that college would first of all, have a whole security system with guards and the like, I may be able to go and feel more safe?
2. There are things i already do that make me look "freaky" due to my autism. If you think I'm gonna sit with my music on and not jam to it, even on a public bus, you're gravely mistaken. I'm not gonna hear your remarks anyway. :P
3. Honestly, if someone's gonna unsub because you're religious is bonkers. I'm not religious and hate the whole conversation of it (honestly leaving church made me happier after reflecting on my own thoughts about it), but I have religious family members who I love dearly, and it wouldn't matter if they were religious or not - they're caring individuals who respect their family. Now if you were here glorifying mass criminals, that's a VERY VALID reason to unsub from someone, or because they're posting CP. But someone's just super petty if they're gonna unsub due to beliefs or lifestyle; You're not breaking any laws, you're just expressing yourself. And quite frankly, you're not even shoving it down our throats, which is something I know can be a struggle when people want to make it known that they're of a certain religion or political side. But even then, I wouldn't unsub personally because I like your content and reactions! I don't use Tiktok so I'm not gonna know what they're doing to themselves, lol! I like channels like yours who react to some of them and explain them for those of us who aren't in the know!
20:28 Damn, Australia allows that? I'm American and I am 99.9% sure that if I allowed a customer behind the counter and the Department of Health found out, they would have a stroke and my job would be on the line.
separate sayings: hitting the NAIL in the coffin, and hitting the nail ON the head...lol
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I love you videos so much 🌸🌺💐🌹Great mood booster thank you so much 🌸🌺💐🌹
"Hitting the nail on the head" , it's an idiom about precision & directness .
& "striking the iron while it's hot" is equivalent to "early bird gets the worm" . It's an idiom about timing .
"Final nail in the coffin" like "that's the last straw !" Idiom about ... you done did it now 😅
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Your name is beautiful 💜💜
And YESSSSS ABOUT JESUS !! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I think as we age we lose shame... it's worse for the young perhaps
the last time i felt fully alive was the summer of 2016 tbh
Thank you I needed this video as Chirstian and as a teen
Or you could just learn to love yourself unconditionally FIRST and know your own worth and value and start VALIDATING yourself and stop seeking validation from others, the only opinion that matters is YOUR OWN about yourself
Lol I am in my 30s and my embarrassment is turned all the way down. I talk to everyone and I dont give a shit haha maybe thats just being in your 30's!
❤ Your channel!! 🙏 For y'all
Pray for the dealership girl
8:02 I needed this I love ur videos
Lol you wanted to say this trend "hits the nail on the head"
Hit the nail on the head is the saying I think you meant!😊
'Hits the nail on the head' = the top of the nail is the 'head'
Some of these are fine, but it’s good to feel inhibited when all you’re doing is being obnoxious for views. Screaming in the middle of the mall unprovoked? Go ahead and hold on to that inhibition.
this isnt rejection therapy, its just being goofy. I know because I do it a lot, I used to do it more when I as younger and it can be fun but they call everything therapy nowadays, pretty soon you'll be seeing people come up with certification for rejection therapists. That said, just have fun, lifes too short to be miserable but don't be rude and yes, Jesus Christ is Lord and my savior too. Preach it girl
I think ever since social media became more part of our lives and certain apps (TikTok) blew up and now everyone has a smartphone has made people more afraid to be human and be themselves because you get posted online and made fun of.
Omg ur so pretty
I needed to hear that rant…❤❤
You hit the nail on the head 😂
Amen Busiswa!!! I admire your boldness & wisdom, May our Lord Jesus Christ continue to bless you & keep you always.
@19:00 she took “how I met your mother” to a whole new level I didn’t think was actually possible.
If unhinged was a person 💀
Your name is beautiful!! I looked into nail in the coffin and it's a mess. No one agrees where it came from. I'm not gonna add to the discourse 😅
I think it makes it more obvious with sticking the camera in people's faces. Everyone is tired of these influencers.
This could be good, though, just talking to people (WITHOUT HAVING OUT YOUR PHONE), but yeah. Just don't disturb the peace/people and dont be a jerk.
Rejection therapy is just everyday life as a teacher 😊.
The “ohhh noo “ in the beginning 😂😂😂😂
Your name is beautiful!
Moo-see-saw. ❤
And, I love that you are Christian, as I am.👍🏻🙏🏻👏🏻
19:01 no seriously if the roles were reversed this qould go viral for the dude being a creep smh I'm tired of women being privileged (no I am not a man)
I agree with you and I'm a woman. That was creepy
U just got a new subscriber ❤
1:18
Jaw dropping stuff right now