What's it like being a Gay couple in Japan?

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

Комментарии • 491

  • @takashiifromjapan
    @takashiifromjapan  7 месяцев назад +2

    TOKYO GUIDEBOOK
    takashifromjapan.com/tokyocompleteguide

  • @Zinga2210
    @Zinga2210 2 года назад +672

    I love how Takashi genuinely cares about his guests and what they have to say. It’s so refreshing to see a RUclips interviewer who actually lets their guests talk more than they do.

    • @CreativeCreatorCreates
      @CreativeCreatorCreates 2 года назад +13

      I really enjoy his perspective, his approach and as you said, his kindness.

    • @blackypaw840
      @blackypaw840 2 года назад +7

      I 100% agree on this one.

    • @sun-wo9vp
      @sun-wo9vp 2 года назад +6

      Exactly. Such a wonderful person. I love it.

    • @H-Vox
      @H-Vox 2 года назад +5

      He's very genuine and wears his heart on his sleeve

  • @ethanqproductions
    @ethanqproductions 2 года назад +324

    Hey takashi. I’m a huge fan of your videos and the Japanese culture. Can you do a video on what’s it like being disabled in Japan? I am also a person with a physical disability

    • @yaroslavkobezskyi
      @yaroslavkobezskyi 2 года назад

      +

    • @raven_bard
      @raven_bard 2 года назад +13

      As someone with mobility issues, I found Tokyo to be a pretty inconvenient city when I visited. The lifts at train stations are located far away - sometimes at the opposite end - from the ticket gates, many shops and restaurants have steps going up or down into them, some shops have no lifts or escalators and many places are too narrow to accommodate wheelchairs and strollers.

    • @アキ-e2g
      @アキ-e2g 2 года назад +5

      日本人です。私の母は軽い身体障害者です。
      母といて、母の手が普通と違うことに気づいた人がジロジロ見てくることがあります。そのため、母は手を隠す癖があります。また、会計のさいに、店員が嫌な顔でお釣りを返すことがありました。
      悪口や暴力をされるのは見たことがないです。しかし、母は小さい頃に小石を投げられたことがあるらしいです。
      結論をいうと、軽い障害であるならば人の視線以外に困ることはないと思います。
      ただ、車いすが必要な場合、苦労するかもしれません。日本は高齢者が多いこともあり、車いすのための設備もあるのですが、日本語が使えないと、それらを手配したり情報を得るのが難しいからです。

    • @nervousbunnygaming
      @nervousbunnygaming Год назад

      Signal BOOOST

  • @takashiifromjapan
    @takashiifromjapan  2 года назад +334

    Thank you so much for watching!
    I’m planning to make videos about this topic, LGBT in Japan more,
    And for that reason,I have to learn a lot
    But to be honest I haven’t had much opportunities to know about this
    So I’m gonna start learning!

    • @sazhamaelunas1300
      @sazhamaelunas1300 2 года назад +3

      はい、お願いします。

    • @starrfish92able
      @starrfish92able 2 года назад

      Thank you for making these videos!! So informative

    • @khalil2153
      @khalil2153 2 года назад

      Great video, also i love the new camera!

    • @Eigoeiei
      @Eigoeiei 2 года назад +7

      This was very interesting and an eye-opener about the LGBTQ society. I am looking forward to your next video about what the Japanese think of the 🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQ society. Good job, Takashi!

    • @ParamoreGuiful
      @ParamoreGuiful 2 года назад +6

      You also can go to the lgbtq district and enterview random people at the streets to talk about how they feel when expressing themselves to japanese society

  • @ByteMe619
    @ByteMe619 2 года назад +247

    Would it be possible to find out what people who don’t live in the big cities (Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka, etc.) think about the big cities? Love your videos!

  • @PercivalC
    @PercivalC 2 года назад +109

    Please keep making these interesting and informative videos Takashi! Really enjoying them, and they make me miss my two weeks in Japan back nearly a decade ago now. Much love from Canada!

  • @RogueLover321
    @RogueLover321 2 года назад +77

    You interviewed one of my best friends. Great interview and thanks for the respect you gave.

  • @marcos-ll2yr
    @marcos-ll2yr 2 года назад +182

    Awesome interview. I'm bisexual I always was curious about it. Japan have a lot of LGBTQ in Anime. But doesn't mean that real life people are less conservative.

    • @pirththee
      @pirththee 2 года назад +3

      Have you seen Winter Cicada?

    • @marcos-ll2yr
      @marcos-ll2yr 2 года назад +9

      @@pirththee No. I watched few BL anime, like Given, Sasaki to Miyano (my favourite right now), Gravitation and Junjou Romantica

    • @pirththee
      @pirththee 2 года назад +4

      @@marcos-ll2yr Cool! Give it a look see when you're in the mood for something heavy.

    • @Evilspookydollar
      @Evilspookydollar 2 года назад +16

      I feel like Japanese people make anime with gay characters,crazy colored hair, etcetc because they don’t see it in real life

    • @mslennyface
      @mslennyface 2 года назад +10

      You would be surprised that lots of conservatives aren't anti-lgbt. Cause conservativism isn't really about hating lgbt, hating women, etc.

  • @cameronwoodring5063
    @cameronwoodring5063 2 года назад +67

    On a sidenote Takashi is so genuine and caring about his interview guests I would LOVE to visit Japan and have him as a guide

    • @Limastudent
      @Limastudent 2 года назад +3

      Yes, that would be another good side job for him. Hope he sees this idea and considers it!

    • @Zapporah85
      @Zapporah85 2 года назад

      Same! If he's ever interested, I know a couple places that would love him as a guide. I think tours are open again in June too

  • @hotsupidcat
    @hotsupidcat 2 года назад +39

    thank you takashi for the representation. can we also get a video interviewing other people in the LGBT community? lesbians, bisexuals, and trans folks too! would also love to see a video with LGBT couples where one or both partners are japanese.

  • @pirththee
    @pirththee 2 года назад +74

    This was informative. Local geography/demographics has a lot to do with the treatment that LGBTQ people receive in my country. I suspect that the attitudes might be a tad bit different as you leave the bigger cities in Japan..

    • @dayla8634
      @dayla8634 2 года назад

      I live deep in the country side. There is no difference I think, but it feels like they are more open to foreigners though.

  • @countryfolk19
    @countryfolk19 2 года назад +72

    Indonesian guy is so brave to come out like that. Indonesia, Singapore and Malaysia ain't countries for LGBTQ+ ( in Southeast Asia )

    • @kageyamareijikun
      @kageyamareijikun 2 года назад +17

      it's illegal in these 3 countries, you can be jailed, whipped or even executed in extreme cases.

    • @sigitpangestu5207
      @sigitpangestu5207 2 года назад

      There is no law in Indonesia that forbids being LGBT, but the people are against it

    • @87jello
      @87jello 2 года назад +11

      True, because of Religious (Christian & Islamic) influence. Christianity and Islam are brothers in Religion. They are one and the same

    • @jpcoronel8261
      @jpcoronel8261 2 года назад

      Singapore? Isn't it that they have gay celebration (sort of Pride March) there?

    • @kageyamareijikun
      @kageyamareijikun 2 года назад +1

      @@jpcoronel8261 no, pride celebrations or marches are explicitly banned. There is only a small park where an annual protest is held. That’s the only space anyone can gather to protest the establishment or government but you need a special police permit. Foreigners are also not allowed to step within the area of that specific park for protest purposes.

  • @nafslee
    @nafslee 2 года назад +13

    I think Takashi is perfect for these kinds of videos because he seems genuinely keen to understand and comes across as non-judgemental. Another great video again.

  • @nimatonks1540
    @nimatonks1540 2 года назад +52

    Thank you for this video! I'm glad that this couple has found a haven for them both, in Shinjuku Ni-Chome

    • @squidybb
      @squidybb Год назад +2

      oh wow, yeah this is a good idea! I was thinking about how to word it, but if Takashi just went to Shinjuku Ni-chome and asked people if they identified as LGBTQ and if they did, to interview them! Just like all the different kinds of people there, I would love to see! :)

  • @Kourash
    @Kourash 2 года назад +4

    Takashi, every time you upload a video I’m pretty blown away with your ability to present your content in such an efficient manner. I genuinely think you may be one of the best interviewers. I am excited to watch your career grow in this format. Japan needs to give you a show!

  • @Eigoeiei
    @Eigoeiei 2 года назад +6

    Takashi
    Keep uploading your interviews! As a half-Japanese living in the United States, teaching Japanese children English, I use your video at times. They are very impressed your interview skills, topics (relevant ones depending on their age- I have older students, too 😉) and of course your language skills. My children are Learning Japanese, and have been going to Japan. However with the pandemic, we haven’t been there. So, your channel is perfect! Thank you! You always have a pleasant demeanor, which I appreciate very much. 🤩

  • @victoriameyer5924
    @victoriameyer5924 2 года назад +7

    In Japan it's not common for straight couples to show affection in front of other people either, as far as I know. I'm German and I wouldn't hold hands while getting interviewed for example.

  • @AshK69
    @AshK69 2 года назад +62

    As someone who is LGBTQ+ who wants to study abroad in Japan, I would find it interesting to learn more about the "gay district" in Shibuya that was mentioned by the Indonesian man. Nice video, I like to hear stuff about LGBTQ+ in Japan

    • @reiga3366
      @reiga3366 2 года назад +9

      gay

    • @rnpee
      @rnpee 2 года назад

      @@reiga3366 gay gay homosexual gay

    • @anjali-pl8pv
      @anjali-pl8pv 2 года назад +3

      Me aswell I wanna study in Japan and iam bisexual ...but let's see what will happen

    • @alyzza1753
      @alyzza1753 2 года назад +7

      @@reiga3366 Is that still an insult for you this 2022?

    • @reiga3366
      @reiga3366 2 года назад +5

      @@alyzza1753 yes and forever

  • @josemancunian2723
    @josemancunian2723 2 года назад +12

    Interesting. Thanks for this video. I'm gay and I've seen several videos regarding this specific topic. I think for foreigners in Japan it's easier but not as accepted as people think. There are a lot of Japanese people, even among the young population, who know almost nothing about LGBTQ+ topics, which I find a bit surprising. You wouldn't feel so judged as a foreigner compared to a couple formed by 2 Japanese people from the community. I think Japanese society and its rules make it difficult for the minorities. The good thing about Japan is that even if people judge you they are not gonna be physically aggressive towards you which it could randomly happen in other more gay friendly countries. So that's a good thing.
    I think the other video interviewing Japanese people about their opinions regarding this topic is gonna be interesting too. It'd be great if you could interview not only straight people but also LGBTQ+ people from Japan. I think that'd be really difficult though.

  • @vincytvholic
    @vincytvholic 2 года назад +2

    I could tell that there was a very interesting story behind the meet cute based on the way they looked at each other. Appreciate them sharing.

  • @3sgtepwnzr
    @3sgtepwnzr 2 года назад +4

    Thanks for sharing. It’s tragic that generally, there’s still “coming out” and that only brave individual can do that when really, we should accept everyone who are just good people.

  • @darrowoflykos4909
    @darrowoflykos4909 2 года назад +14

    I accidentally stumbled upon your channel a few weeks ago, and absolutely love your content. I’ve always loved Japan, and it’s so interesting hearing you talk about these topics with average Japanese people. Or talking to foreigners about various aspects of Japanese culture. You ask great questions and have a great energy. Keep up the great work!

    • @lagodeformamia9839
      @lagodeformamia9839 2 года назад +1

      I came across this beautiful lad thanks to Steve Kaufman. I am also fluent in Japanese and on other 6 more languages as well as he is. Longing to become fluent in Chinese and Russian as he is. English isn't My native tongue.
      How did You stumble upon his channel???

  • @cameronwoodring5063
    @cameronwoodring5063 2 года назад +2

    The hug at the end ♥️

  • @Chroniclilskip27
    @Chroniclilskip27 2 года назад +10

    This was a good video! I'm interested to hear what straight Japanese people have to say about it. I hope you get to interview old and young people for that one to see if their opinion is related to their age or something

  • @meanah_girl
    @meanah_girl 2 года назад +2

    I love how Kevin answered the question at 4:24, I felt so comfortable as an asexual🖤🤍💜 myself and some ppl understand me

  • @yokobyeol6255
    @yokobyeol6255 2 года назад +2

    Takashi you're a gem for including all kinds of people in your interviews

  • @chrisj.1623
    @chrisj.1623 Год назад +1

    Thank you for the video! as a queer person this was an interesting and heart-warming watch ^^ you have a good and kind way of interacting with others, even as you are learning about them, it is nice to see

  • @cvilsack1
    @cvilsack1 7 месяцев назад

    I love your broad range of subject matter!

  • @CreativeCreatorCreates
    @CreativeCreatorCreates 2 года назад +8

    I was planning on living in Japan in early 98. My then husband was going to be shipped out to the gulf, and I had a choice...stay or go. His friend had a girlfriend who I very much adored. She wanted me to stay there and be in a relationship with her while they were out. I left since I had no support system there. It was good that I did since I found out I was pregnant. I think about her often. She also had a mean roommate that habitually played video games lol.

  • @Baqsam
    @Baqsam 2 года назад +1

    Mr. Takashi with the unique topics!

  • @seankerr1187
    @seankerr1187 2 года назад +1

    Your channel brings so much insight into your culture. Thank you!

  • @Justjeroam
    @Justjeroam 2 года назад +5

    Another amazing interview, it’s nice to see how you make people feel so open and relaxed to talk about these things. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @_chamchi
    @_chamchi 2 года назад +3

    How cute! What lovely people you interviewed! 💕 I just wonder if it’s a different experience being lgbt as a foreigner than as a Japanese person. Still very informative! Thank you for the video ❤️

  • @allieluvzyuhh
    @allieluvzyuhh 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for making videos about this topic! If possible could you maybe make a follow up video on being transgender? I'm nonbinary and want to know what my and my nonbinary partner's experience would be like there as well. Your videos are awesome!

  • @Blogie
    @Blogie 2 года назад +4

    Hi Takashii-san. I’ve just discovered your channel and I think you’re doing a great job with your interviews! Somehow you’re giving your viewers a taste of life in Japan and it’s really insightful. I’m gay and I’m going to Japan soon, if plans work out. I hope you’ll get to interview gay Japanese people too in the near future - as much as I understand & appreciate Japanese culture, I know next to nothing about gay culture there.

  • @QueensNYgirlie1988
    @QueensNYgirlie1988 2 года назад +1

    Loving the new hairstyle, Takishi! 💛

  • @MB-gl2bl
    @MB-gl2bl 2 года назад

    Very important topic, and I appreciate you covering it and interviewing those you did.
    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Sir.Playy_
    @Sir.Playy_ 2 года назад

    I appreciate what you’re doing with your channel Takashii 💯💯

  • @gabrielm.xavier1274
    @gabrielm.xavier1274 2 года назад +2

    Congratulations Takashii, your vídeos are great, I've been watching them for a while and even if I'm on the other side of the world I felt represented many times. Please keep with the great work.

  • @alealana197
    @alealana197 2 года назад +4

    Aw they're so cute!!!! 😍

  • @jimvidfun
    @jimvidfun 2 года назад +13

    Thank you for this pleasant conversation with this couple. I'm queer and 71 and it was nice to watch the smiles on all of you. Thank you

  • @nadiahnajib567
    @nadiahnajib567 2 года назад +16

    This is interesting and they are such a cute couple 😍. please no hate comments especially about that indonesian guy. Just dont. Let them love

  • @ej495
    @ej495 Год назад +1

    as Indonesian, I want to say that being part of lgbt is 94% that hard! its not that acceptable, but I want to clarify that indonesian fujoshi/bl shippers here is Much! if u aren't celebrity from Indonesia, it won't be that hard then, basically in Indonesia, there's raikan that are big fan of Thai bl, so far I know, Thai bl getting more popular day by day in Indonesia! indo's people usually will sparing hate on you for the whole cost in the case that you are celebrity. but still though u are not celebrity, It still that hard to survive! the fanbase of raikan in Indonesia too almost equalling one of the biggest fanbase in Indonesia (kpopstan) especially for the exol/nctzen! but basically it back to people themselves, there's some places that honestly acceptable! also, it back to the mindset too, unfortunately, Indonesian ranked 1 as the judges that judges without rethink! even 85% of Indonesian consumed the hoax and believe them instead of seeking the Truth! Not all Indonesian, but trust me, if there's someone spare hoax, the first thing they'll do is making the hoax getting more known without knowing the Truth!
    "if it not acceptable then, why there's a bunch of twitter star survive? how can there are many bl shippers there?" well, the only thing I can say is "Welcome To Indonesia!"

  • @aimiesfeliz
    @aimiesfeliz 2 года назад

    That's pretty cool, I'm curious about nichome, perhaps I'll go check it out next time I go to Tokyo. Thx for the interview Takashii-san.

  • @rozhin6055
    @rozhin6055 2 года назад

    You're such a great interviewer Takashii! 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @megustrassmann2872
    @megustrassmann2872 2 года назад +5

    oh, they are so adorable! thank you Takashi san!

  • @muhammadabisina4095
    @muhammadabisina4095 Год назад +52

    I'm ex muslim and i support LGBTQ. Love is beautiful thing

    • @moma-b
      @moma-b Год назад +5

      May I ask whether you became an atheist or have you just changed to some other belief? I always consider Islam the most difficult religion to leave. 🤐

    • @nuratiqah6964
      @nuratiqah6964 Год назад +1

      Unfortunately for you, what you claimed as a 'beautiful thing' here is temporary as our life in this dunya is too short, the afterlife in Islam is permanent.

    • @mutalix
      @mutalix Год назад +2

      What does your past or present religious identity have anything to do with what you support?

    • @GMAV3RICK
      @GMAV3RICK Год назад +2

      My condolences to you… 🥺 I’m so sorry that you’re no longer muslim and that you support the LGBTQ.
      May Allah have mercy upon your soul.

    • @Nightbird.
      @Nightbird. Год назад +3

      @@mutalix He was trying to express that even people who come from religions that are VERY anti-lgbt+ (they still legally kill LGBT+ people in Muslim countries) can open their minds and hearts and learn to respect others. Plus..he was just expressing himself too..and everyone can do that without a specific reason why or having to explain themselves to you or anyone else. Period.

  • @Momo-qo7is
    @Momo-qo7is 2 года назад

    Takashi-san is so talented to ask questions and make people feel comfortable. Some questions are not easy to be answered, but Takashi-san can make people feel comfortable being themselves.

    • @raistlin906
      @raistlin906 2 года назад

      Yes, I agree. He seems to be a nice guy.

  • @j.julian134
    @j.julian134 2 года назад

    It was a really nice interview! Thank you so much for bring this topic to your channel Takashi! 😊

  • @KarinaLlanos
    @KarinaLlanos 2 года назад

    It was excelente! The way you brought up this topic so openly!

  • @nely26
    @nely26 2 года назад

    Great interview, Takashii. Looking forward to part two.

  • @humanbean3
    @humanbean3 2 года назад +1

    I think it'd be cool to see you collab with "Dark side of Japan Yuki". He covers the "dark side" of Japan, obviously lol, but I think it might be interesting to get some info for yourself maybe and even just to interview him, because he's pretty interesting and funny. Just an interview of him and what kind of things he's experienced going after these dark stories would be interesting.

  • @hadi_177re
    @hadi_177re 2 года назад +2

    First I wanna say Takashi you are such a respectful gentleman. Second I am from a soceity where being gay is a crime. You could die if you told someone you're gay. I have some gay friends who they don't dare to open up about it and they live with anxeity and depression. I'm trying to help them as much as i can as a friend. I feel so sorry for gay people in the soceity i came from and I wish i could help but it seems impossible to make a change. I'm a doctor so i try my best to open people's minds on the scientific side of homosexuality and other sexual orientations. But unfortunately in the soceity i came from it's such a waste of time. I live in Germany now and i see the difference clearly. This episode is so touching and lovely. These two young men are so nice and happy with each other i wish them all the best. Thank you Takashi

  • @MrYowen88
    @MrYowen88 2 года назад

    Hey North Dakota that’s where I grew up! Fargo. Great Video, y’all are a cool couple!
    Thanks Takashi

  • @Lovethatshines
    @Lovethatshines 2 года назад

    I love your videos! You always bring some interesting interviews to see what other people see and feel and experience in Japan, I’m just now becoming interested in Japanese culture and eventually would love to travel abroad to Japan with my fiancée (we are a gay couple) keep up the great work I really love your compassion for sensitive topics.

  • @mariamartaaguirre2361
    @mariamartaaguirre2361 2 года назад

    I love learning about Japan with your videos! Bravo! 👏👏👏

  • @samuellima5968
    @samuellima5968 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @NemoTheBeastGamer
    @NemoTheBeastGamer 2 года назад +13

    I’m not an LGBT but I found this really interesting. You are such a talented interviewer!

  • @priscaadamma9806
    @priscaadamma9806 2 года назад

    this topic is great, learned a lot. thanks

  • @raytokumoto2200
    @raytokumoto2200 2 года назад

    Great video, like any place in the world some areas are less accepting. Many places like that in the USA. I give your guests a lot of credit for being interviewed.

  • @OtaconGamerPro
    @OtaconGamerPro 2 года назад

    Takashi, you are the best, thanks for your amazing videos !

  • @Wowzawhy
    @Wowzawhy 2 года назад

    It’d be cool to see a video where Takashi interviews people in Nichome! Just to see what the scene is like there from people who frequent it!

  • @Limastudent
    @Limastudent 2 года назад +1

    I really wonder what company in North Dakota is waiting for him. It is sparsely populated, freezing cold, has ranches, buffalo, lots of oil, prairie, and cities, of course. My state is way below it and I know some people love the Dakotas. Western South Dakota is one of my favorite places. Forest, mountains, elk, buffalo roaming the roads, real beauty.

    • @Mwoods2272
      @Mwoods2272 2 года назад +2

      Probably military, maybe AFB in Grand Forks.

    • @Limastudent
      @Limastudent 2 года назад

      @@Mwoods2272 Oh, of course.

  • @Zapporah85
    @Zapporah85 2 года назад

    Great topic, love to see more. This is my only major concern with moving to Japan.

  • @ParamoreGuiful
    @ParamoreGuiful 2 года назад

    Ahhh thanks for the video!!

  • @ddHex-yy2cu
    @ddHex-yy2cu 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this video🌈💞

  • @527ctguy
    @527ctguy 2 года назад

    Interesting Channel. Great job!

  • @Alphacarmine72
    @Alphacarmine72 2 года назад

    Love the videos, always super interesting and engaging!! Greetings from nyc takashi!

  • @artemis4791
    @artemis4791 2 года назад +1

    I'm hoping to go to Japan soon for an international student program, and I'm lesbian so this helps on what to expect! Thank you!!

  • @AeonTon
    @AeonTon 2 года назад

    my left ear loved that intro

  • @audreyellis7015
    @audreyellis7015 2 года назад +1

    Epic video!

  • @ohnoray9361
    @ohnoray9361 2 года назад +4

    It would be cool if you did a video interviewing trans people in Japan!

  • @ronwong2153
    @ronwong2153 2 года назад +8

    Thank you takashi for this interview. It was very interesting. It must be more difficult to have Japanese LGBTQ people speak on camera. Maybe if they aren’t on camera but would like to give insight on being born and raised in Japanese society - that would work? Thanks again for awesome content!

  • @amanohyugi8351
    @amanohyugi8351 2 года назад

    Always awesome video❤️❤️

  • @majibento
    @majibento 2 года назад +2

    I wonder if lesbian couples in Japan get fewer stares because it’s so normalized for girls to hold hands and be affectionate there. I’d be interested in an interview with a lesbian couple (as a lesbian myself)

  • @angeparfois
    @angeparfois 2 года назад +1

    Awwwe thank you so much for sharing this video ! These guys were so cute ! And your way of interviewing really impress me! This was really interesting. It would be nice to have japanese's people opinion on lgbt comunity !

  • @nidasjafia4060
    @nidasjafia4060 2 года назад +3

    As indonesian,i feel happy for arya having a safe place bcs here so many people being judgmental and easily throw death threats to lgbtq fellas! I hope this video not randomly coming to my country trending video😭😭

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself 2 года назад +1

      That makes me so sad. Even here in the U.S., especially depending on what area you live in, LGBTQ people have a hard time. I'm only 37 and it's much better than when I was a teenager. I hope Indonesia becomes more open, but I know it takes time.

    • @Imetwurld_
      @Imetwurld_ 2 года назад

      @@ijustneedmyself US is alot better than were I stay. Yes few people say nosense in the US but here it's not about the people even the government . As far they have right from the government ,that's all that matters

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself 2 года назад +1

      @@Imetwurld_ I understand. I wasn't trying to make it seem like it was so bad over here. It's so much better than it was and it's a lot better than a lot of other places. I'm grateful. But, there are still issues that exist no matter how bad it is elsewhere.

  • @mihlem2525
    @mihlem2525 2 года назад +9

    Arya is from Indonesia. I'm so glad he's somewhere where he can be himself. I hope everyone can be free and stay safe🌸✨

  • @danniefmr
    @danniefmr 2 года назад +2

    It is kind of rare to see gay people in my country aswell, also, every time i see a gay couple i tend to stare because it is unusual.
    I am straight, but it would be nice to have gay friends (girl or boy), because i never had the oppurtunity to talk to them.

    • @alyzza1753
      @alyzza1753 2 года назад

      They're fun to be with and will make you laugh.:)

  • @sauronmorgoth5417
    @sauronmorgoth5417 2 года назад +7

    What a lovely couple. Hope the best for them.

  • @sucreroux16
    @sucreroux16 Год назад +1

    I would love to know what Japanese people of all ages think of gay couples, gay marriage and homo-parental adoption

  • @animegirlkyon7882
    @animegirlkyon7882 2 года назад

    Takashii I've been watching your videos for a while and its getting better and better ahhh I want to come to Japan just to meet you I'm already your fan keep it up😉

  • @exnihilo415
    @exnihilo415 2 года назад +2

    Kevin can legally marry him and they can live in the US together. K1 spouse visa.

  • @jay-miguelfonticella7740
    @jay-miguelfonticella7740 2 года назад +1

    Hi Takashi! I am a college student from the United States, and I’ll be working in Japan (specifically Nagoya) over the summer! Watching your videos has been so much fun, and I’m happy to interview if you ever visit Nagoya while I’m in Japan! Thanks for being so positive, your channel is amazing!

  • @maxandmaggie2010
    @maxandmaggie2010 2 года назад

    Interesting. topic . love your interview,

  • @CrazySquirrelProductions
    @CrazySquirrelProductions 2 года назад

    Good start Takashii. 💗🙏✌️💪

  • @eipimuja
    @eipimuja 2 года назад

    Takashi what a great video! I moved to Japan a week ago and I'm currently doing long distance with my husband who had to stay at our home country. This is specially hard since we have a 12 hours time difference. Seeing in your interview the situation where one of them had to go back to the US made me think it would be great if you could do a video on the topic. I'm eager to find more foreigners who live and Japan and have to be in a long distance relationship, how are they doing and what do they recommend for this situation. Just an idea!

  • @Archway_Archie
    @Archway_Archie 2 года назад

    Excellent interview. Congratulations!
    Takeshi, can you please do some interviews with native ethnic gay/lesbian Japanese and ask the same questions

  • @vitorjuliao7930
    @vitorjuliao7930 2 года назад +19

    i love how you care about our community! ❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @johnsalchichon3605
      @johnsalchichon3605 2 года назад

      Tatemae

    • @humanbean3
      @humanbean3 2 года назад

      @@johnsalchichon3605 gtfo. he's obviously very interested and wants to hear their thoughts, or else he'd make a different fucking video, he's in charge you know.

  • @Meshowvid
    @Meshowvid 2 года назад

    Good video bro !!!

  • @KelanJ29534
    @KelanJ29534 2 года назад

    I love your content Takashi 👌🏻😍

  • @edd3686
    @edd3686 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for doing this video! Looking forward for interviews of local Japanese couples if possible!

  • @fourthpanda
    @fourthpanda 2 года назад +3

    Please do an interview with Japanese people and what they think about LGBTQ people in Japan!
    Also what they think about transgender people?

  • @savannah7375
    @savannah7375 2 года назад +3

    They were so cute at the end :) I love the couples interviews

    • @moma-b
      @moma-b Год назад

      That hug was so natural, so loving. I really root for them in that long distance relationship. 🤞

  • @middleclassic
    @middleclassic 2 года назад +4

    I think that’s my favorite episode so far! I’m straight man living in Los Angeles. But I’ve had gay friends and actually I live in Long Beach which has a huge gay population! In fact the Long Beach pride parade was just last week. It really does depend on people who are stuck in the past or who romanticize the past (not gay friendly) vs those who are progressive in their attitudes. A HUGE rift is the Trump friendly MAGA masses. They are without a doubt a huge hurdle in LGBTQ+ acceptance. If the millions of them were gone the USA would be LBGTQ + friendly from coast to coast.
    Anyway, yes, great episode Takashii.

  • @sun-wo9vp
    @sun-wo9vp 2 года назад +2

    I wish more people were open-minded like you! It's really amazing. I'm straight but I have gay friends and it hurts my heart to see people hating on them and making them feel uncomfortable, unaccepted and unloved. Even my mother doesn't like it, and it hurts me. I imagine how bad it would be if a gay person had homophobic parents, friends etc.

    • @kingtachalla6181
      @kingtachalla6181 2 года назад

      Nah fuck that kind of naive thinking , most ppl are gay because they were molested or raped and 50% of trans commit suicide ain't no one wanted them til a decade ago and now every one's acts like it's a sacred right

  • @JoeMcDonald2349
    @JoeMcDonald2349 2 года назад

    Great video :) thank you

  • @goldencollection2926
    @goldencollection2926 Год назад +6

    They are so cute. Wish them the best in life! ❤️

  • @daleblue22
    @daleblue22 2 года назад +2

    I'm pretty sure Arya is safer being in Japan than Indomuslinesia.

  • @phs2Chelsea
    @phs2Chelsea 2 года назад

    Such an awesome video