My son died when he was 32. I sure could have used one of those bears. I love that idea. My mom was 14 when she had her first baby. She only lived about 24hrs. This was around 1937. Even months before she died she would talk about her and was afraid she would be forgotten after she passed. So grieving never ends. She died in 2013. She had eight other children after her, but she was never forgotten. Now they are together after all those years. Thank you for all the stories you share.
This is so old but I am so sorry for your loss ❤❤ the image in my head of your mother in heaven with her baby after all these years has me sobbing ❤❤ omg her joy must be overwhelming ❤ 😭😭😭🥲
Corchele, I'm over 60 but your story really touched me. First, I'm sorry your symptoms were overlooked and that this even happened. Thank you for telling your story and for being so positive. Your advocating brought about a very good change in hospital intake. I'm sorry you experienced the grief later on. I experienced that with my brother's suicide. I was too busy helping my elderly parents for myself. You were busy helping to change hospital procedures. I'm thankful you told your story, got help and understood your grief. Thank you again💜
Her story is exactly mine, I had a stillbirth and two late miscarriages, I have three beautiful children here on earth, but her story is exactly how I handled mine, people thought I was OK… but I wasn’t inside.
Thanks for sharing your story, ❤I know the feeling of loosing a child, Love the idea of the bear with the heart beat!!! ❤🐻 I’m just starting to put my baby’s premature clothes into a bear I had for a long time and one day I put it in my bed and my husband came downstairs crying bc he was finally able to grief seeing that bear .
First of all, I can honestly say that this woman is amazing. Her willingness to be so open and vulnerable about such a tender topic is beautiful. The hours, sweat, tears, and love that has gone into building her non profit, to help others, has been beyond heartwarming to watch. * Plug from someone who knows this woman and will not benefit in any way by saying this: Adopt, donate, or buy a bear. It makes all the difference for someone in need. I saw how this helped, and continues to help this sweet family heal. Be love 💞
I miscarried very early and my husband didn't ask what I wanted to do with the uhhhh tissue...bag?? He flushed it down the toilet!!!! I screamed bloody murder when I heard the toilet flush!!!! I was never able to conceive again...and no grave to go too...family said well you didn't even know about it yet so why is it taking you so long to recover when your husband hasn't shed a tear....I felt so alone...
Thankyou Winter and Corchele for recording this, l have reached out to Corchele on her website because of Breklyn to donate so thankyou for the link. This video was triggering to me not in a negative way though, lm not suffering through the loss of a baby and l cannot imagine the pain you feel, but l am suffering from PTSD (which l add has been appropriately managed by professionals) as it has been 3yrs on 16th October since this life changing event l too thought there was a time limit on my hurt and pain, l felt at this "anniversary" that l have no right to "reach out" and say to someone hey this day is going to be difficult for me after all l should have "gotten over it" and "moved on" exactly as Corchele described, so l have taken the step after hearing this to actually reach out to a couple of people instead of suffering in silence for the day as l have always done. I will see how that goes and have followed what Corchele said "l don't need anything, but lm just letting you know and perhaps you may be able to check in on me tommorow" from.the bottom of my heart THANKYOU for this, sometimes people hear just the right thing at exactly the right moment when they need it🙏 I will pay your kindness forward and ensure a bear gets into the arms of someone who needs it. 🐻
Thank you for sharing. We are so glad that you were able to talk to a couple of people and tell them what you were going through. I hope that they were able to support you in a way that was loving and appropriate. And thank you for reaching out to Corchele.
@@StillAPartofUs ; Thankyou Winter and l most certainly did, it ended up being a lovely day but if l never heard this l wouldn't have tried. 3 more grieving parents will now recieve there very own Brek to hold close💔
I just know that in heaven I have a baby...boy or girl...my ex-husband died a few years ago so he has got to meet him/her first and he didn't even greave!!!! Ugly snotty crying sometimes!!!! Mmmmm
I Lost My baby in 1978 I have preeclampsia go back then we called it toxemia how is supposed to have him on May the 19th of 1978 that didn't happen I didn't know what toxinia was or what happens if you don't have your baby without a C-section when you have toxemia they let me carry him until June the 24th of 1978 he lived inside me without an umbrella chord he weighed 8 lb 14 oz he lived one day and I can tell you from experience you never get over I've had two other children about 10 years after him and I can tell you right now I'm still grieving every year on January 24th I think back I want your postpartum depression I tried to kill myself five times I'm very happy I did not die because I had a beautiful baby girl she was my rainbow baby and then a year and 21 days I had her brother and let me tell you just because you have more children is so never get over the lost so after all these years I'm still grieving😢
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My son died when he was 32. I sure could have used one of those bears. I love that idea. My mom was 14 when she had her first baby. She only lived about 24hrs. This was around 1937. Even months before she died she would talk about her and was afraid she would be forgotten after she passed. So grieving never ends. She died in 2013. She had eight other children after her, but she was never forgotten. Now they are together after all those years. Thank you for all the stories you share.
We are sorry for your loss. The fear of forgetting or having the world forget our children is a very real fear. Thank you for sharing.
This is so old but I am so sorry for your loss ❤❤ the image in my head of your mother in heaven with her baby after all these years has me sobbing ❤❤ omg her joy must be overwhelming ❤ 😭😭😭🥲
I cannot express how much all of these stories help me.
We are glad to hear that you are finding help through these stories. We hope that as a community we are able to gently help each other in tough times.
My Daughter died 10 years ago without warning. She was an adult and her passing was such a shock. I still grieve for her.
Corchele, I'm over 60 but your story really touched me. First, I'm sorry your symptoms were overlooked and that this even happened. Thank you for telling your story and for being so positive. Your advocating brought about a very good change in hospital intake. I'm sorry you experienced the grief later on. I experienced that with my brother's suicide. I was too busy helping my elderly parents for myself. You were busy helping to change hospital procedures. I'm thankful you told your story, got help and understood your grief. Thank you again💜
I love this lady! She is SO brave and self aware to understand herself and share. This is SO valuable. She is a counselor.
Thank you. She is a brave woman who had made a tremendous impact in the lives of so many people.
Thank you so much for such kind words Diana!!
Her story is exactly mine, I had a stillbirth and two late miscarriages, I have three beautiful children here on earth, but her story is exactly how I handled mine, people thought I was OK… but I wasn’t inside.
We hope that you are finding the help you need so that you can say "I hurt, but I'm doing well."
Thanks for sharing your story, ❤I know the feeling of loosing a child, Love the idea of the bear with the heart beat!!! ❤🐻 I’m just starting to put my baby’s premature clothes into a bear I had for a long time and one day I put it in my bed and my husband came downstairs crying bc he was finally able to grief seeing that bear .
So sad for you! So pleased you were able to change Hospital Policy to cover this type of difficulty. I am a R.N. Sending you blessings!
Thank you so much.
First of all, I can honestly say that this woman is amazing. Her willingness to be so open and vulnerable about such a tender topic is beautiful.
The hours, sweat, tears, and love that has gone into building her non profit, to help others, has been beyond heartwarming to watch. * Plug from someone who knows this woman and will not benefit in any way by saying this: Adopt, donate, or buy a bear. It makes all the difference for someone in need. I saw how this helped, and continues to help this sweet family heal.
Be love 💞
Thank you so much. They foundation is such a wonderful force for good.
Thank you for sharing your story of Breklyn and your journey of healing. Very inspirational.
I hate when someone says stuff like..."Well, God needed another angel or a rose in his flower garden." Ohhhhh the worst!!!! STRANGLE MODE!!!!!
Agree 💯
I had a Chemical Miscarriage and even though it's not the same it still hurts a lot.
I miscarried very early and my husband didn't ask what I wanted to do with the uhhhh tissue...bag?? He flushed it down the toilet!!!! I screamed bloody murder when I heard the toilet flush!!!! I was never able to conceive again...and no grave to go too...family said well you didn't even know about it yet so why is it taking you so long to recover when your husband hasn't shed a tear....I felt so alone...
Thankyou Winter and Corchele for recording this, l have reached out to Corchele on her website because of Breklyn to donate so thankyou for the link.
This video was triggering to me not in a negative way though, lm not suffering through the loss of a baby and l cannot imagine the pain you feel, but l am suffering from PTSD (which l add has been appropriately managed by professionals) as it has been 3yrs on 16th October since this life changing event l too thought there was a time limit on my hurt and pain, l felt at this "anniversary" that l have no right to "reach out" and say to someone hey this day is going to be difficult for me after all l should have "gotten over it" and "moved on" exactly as Corchele described, so l have taken the step after hearing this to actually reach out to a couple of people instead of suffering in silence for the day as l have always done. I will see how that goes and have followed what Corchele said "l don't need anything, but lm just letting you know and perhaps you may be able to check in on me tommorow" from.the bottom of my heart THANKYOU for this, sometimes people hear just the right thing at exactly the right moment when they need it🙏
I will pay your kindness forward and ensure a bear gets into the arms of someone who needs it. 🐻
Thank you for sharing. We are so glad that you were able to talk to a couple of people and tell them what you were going through. I hope that they were able to support you in a way that was loving and appropriate. And thank you for reaching out to Corchele.
@@StillAPartofUs ; Thankyou Winter and l most certainly did, it ended up being a lovely day but if l never heard this l wouldn't have tried. 3 more grieving parents will now recieve there very own Brek to hold close💔
Thank you so much.
I lost 5 baby’s 4 pregnancy due to cancer and I can’t have children my cancer is back my consultant told me to get a reborn baby doll and she helps me
My grandson was stillborn last week and we believe his was also chorio.
We are so sorry for your loss.
Oh no :( This breaks my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bless you. I tried to go to your link to request a bear and make a donation. The link wouldn't open. Is there another link?
I just know that in heaven I have a baby...boy or girl...my ex-husband died a few years ago so he has got to meet him/her first and he didn't even greave!!!! Ugly snotty crying sometimes!!!! Mmmmm
PS...I was 17 yo when it happened and I'm 56 now...time means nothing people....
I Lost My baby in 1978 I have preeclampsia go back then we called it toxemia how is supposed to have him on May the 19th of 1978 that didn't happen I didn't know what toxinia was or what happens if you don't have your baby without a C-section when you have toxemia they let me carry him until June the 24th of 1978 he lived inside me without an umbrella chord he weighed 8 lb 14 oz he lived one day and I can tell you from experience you never get over I've had two other children about 10 years after him and I can tell you right now I'm still grieving every year on January 24th I think back I want your postpartum depression I tried to kill myself five times I'm very happy I did not die because I had a beautiful baby girl she was my rainbow baby and then a year and 21 days I had her brother and let me tell you just because you have more children is so never get over the lost so after all these years I'm still grieving😢