Losing our baby Sophia

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  • Опубликовано: 16 авг 2020
  • We're finally sharing our story... for our baby girl, our angel, Sophia. And for all of you who have experienced loss, miscarriage, or who are struggling to get pregnant, our hearts are with you. We lost our baby at 22 weeks pregnant. This has been the greatest heartbreak of our lives but we’ve stayed closer than ever as a family to get through this and heal. I’m so saddened to know how many of you, thousands of you, that have reached out, have experienced a similar loss, or two, or three. So many angel babies in heaven. But hearing your stories and seeing your strength has given us so much hope. Thank you ♡ Missing you Sophia.
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Комментарии • 902

  • @loreinsvlogs8389
    @loreinsvlogs8389 3 года назад +330

    I had 4 miscarriages already I don’t have any kids yet I’m pregnant again and I’m almost 5 months I’m really happy and I have prayed to God that my baby stays safe. I know your pain be strong beautiful

    • @cInDeReLlA32490
      @cInDeReLlA32490 3 года назад +11

      God is good! 🙏

    • @Ceecee123
      @Ceecee123 3 года назад +5

      Prayers are with you:)

    • @mvp1839
      @mvp1839 3 года назад +7

      i have had 4, too... i’m so sorry you had to experience that; i unfortunately know exactly how you feel. i’m so happy to hear your pregnancy is going well ❤️ i know God has a plan for us and we’ll have our first healthy baby according to his plan.

    • @olah1417
      @olah1417 3 года назад

      🙏🏻

    • @rianne8251
      @rianne8251 3 года назад +1

      M VP God have a plan? What a nonsence

  • @jessimalay
    @jessimalay  4 года назад +467

    We appreciate you more than you know. Thank you for surrounding us in love ❤️

    • @meghansteffens3100
      @meghansteffens3100 4 года назад

      Prayers to you and your family ❤️

    • @MsShelley
      @MsShelley 4 года назад

      I have one daughter who’s 21 years old now, she is my second. My husband and I lost our first in a miscarriage and we always think about him/her in heaven now. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and sending our ❤️ and prayers.

    • @konia2u
      @konia2u 4 года назад

      Jessi Malay I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you both. Prayer’s have been sent up on behalf of your entire family. Your little one is in the arms of The Most High in His Heavenly Kingdom. 💜💗💜

    • @ItsShayWhite
      @ItsShayWhite 4 года назад

      I admire you and G’s courage and strength in being able to share this story with us! Sending lots of love your way during this healing process ❤️

    • @debjb5038
      @debjb5038 4 года назад

      ♥️🙏

  • @briialyssaa9367
    @briialyssaa9367 3 года назад +192

    The way he kept looking at her admiring how strong she is. Sorry for you loss

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 года назад +1

      Give your life to Jesus Christ ✝️🛐 Make Sure you do this

    • @iveeee7423
      @iveeee7423 2 года назад +2

      @@freddiestranger9783 shoving religion is a sin

    • @hopeyouburn1893
      @hopeyouburn1893 2 года назад

      @@freddiestranger9783 no

  • @tahliavella8591
    @tahliavella8591 3 года назад +67

    Omg the way he kept looking at her😢.

  • @everythingelisha2547
    @everythingelisha2547 3 года назад +40

    I had my son stillborn at 34 weeks I was only 17 at the time and really didn’t know that was something that could happen to pregnant women. The pain will never go away but it will feel easier as time goes on. ❤️ my prayers are with your family.

  • @caylieann1994
    @caylieann1994 4 года назад +58

    "You feel like a failure as a woman" 😥 I've never gone through the tragedy of a miscarriage, so I'd never compare my situation to something as devastating. I'm currently 36 weeks with my 2nd and have been going through a lot of emotional stress/depression lately trying to get my house in order. It just seems like nothing I do is ever enough for my own standards, and I feel like I'm failing everyday.. Again, not to compare the two, but your statement got to me.
    Sending love and hoping you two get the family you deserve in the near future❤

  • @jancarlson2165
    @jancarlson2165 4 года назад +134

    I'm so sorry. Hugs to you all. She's dancing with the angels. I lost my Mom 2 years ago to Alzheimer's. She loves babies. I know she'll keep an eye on her and hold her tight. Love and prayers to you. ❤️

    • @kittybriones1703
      @kittybriones1703 3 года назад +14

      jan carlsen .. that is the sweetest think i ever heard god bless u .. i lost my mom about that time also.. i know its heard

    • @jancarlson2165
      @jancarlson2165 3 года назад +8

      @@kittybriones1703 very. She was the best Mom ever. I still find myself going to call her when I have news or just bored. I'm sorry for your loss too. Mom's are so special.❤️

    • @kaylaakler3643
      @kaylaakler3643 3 года назад

      Jan Carlson
      Come on seriously.
      You lost your baby Sophia.
      That death is not even that tragic.
      Like so many mothers lose their babies and bury them in the graveyard.
      This couple is the most weakest couple I have seen.
      This couple honestly will be defeated in the practical life.
      Nobody in this world cares about the loss of the baby.
      The loss of the baby is not even that tragic.
      Its a small death even a person can grieve with it.
      But this couple is very useless and hopeless to be honest.
      They will never get ahead by just weeping, sobbing, and grieving over the loss of the baby.
      Besides its just a baby that died.
      And that loss isn't even that big.
      So seriously get over it.
      Thank God
      Amen

  • @Molly-yv7kl
    @Molly-yv7kl 4 года назад +74

    Your strength is admirable. Cannot even imagine what you’re going through, but just know there is always a rainbow after the storm

  • @allalahav5492
    @allalahav5492 3 года назад +88

    I don’t know why this popped up in my recommended but this touched my heart. Your words and voice are beautiful. I am truly sorry for your loss and pray for strength for you all. May your sweet voice Carey up for Sophia to hear till you meet again xox

  • @annamuamarie1342
    @annamuamarie1342 3 года назад +48

    I understand what your going through I had two miscarriages 8 months apart. I was giving up I thought I was a failure to but we are not we are so strong I saw how hurt my fiancé was and it hurt I got a tactoo of a forever symbol and birds for forever fly. We again tried for over a year and did not get pregnant me and my fiancé fought almost broke up but then my mom passed away in October and in February I got pregannt and now we are at 26 weeks pregannt with a baby girl so don’t give up it happens when you least expect it much love for you and ur family

  • @mariaherna168
    @mariaherna168 3 года назад +46

    I’m sorry sorry that’s is really sad I lost two babies and nothing compared how painful it is .

  • @gc377
    @gc377 3 года назад +14

    Trauma and loss affect children deeper than we think. Check in with your daughter periodically.. I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @rosaisela6952
    @rosaisela6952 4 года назад +200

    Sadly, I know exactly what you're going through. I lost my baby girl in May in the exact same way. It was a normal check up, my husband and my son waiting outside in the car. I had to receive the most horrible news I could ever hear alone and then break my husband's and my son's heart. I'll never forget the look on my husband's face & my son asking me to give some of my heart to his baby sister so she could have a heartbeat again. It's a pain no parent should ever feel and just so hard to recover from..fly high our angel babies Jaylin & Sophia 🤍
    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @jessimalay
      @jessimalay  3 года назад +40

      I am so incredibly sorry and heartbroken to hear this my love... may God bless and fill Jaylin and Sophia with eternal love and happiness. My heart is with you

    • @laflormasbella211
      @laflormasbella211 3 года назад +11

      I'm so sorry for your loss, I know how you guys feel. My husband and I lost our baby boy at 35 weeks in April and I also received the news alone 😢

    • @jaeraee3437
      @jaeraee3437 3 года назад +3

      Brought me to 😢

    • @brendaliz605
      @brendaliz605 3 года назад +3

      I lost my baby girl at 36 weeks😞 in July 29, 2020. I know how it feels...sorry for your loss❤

    • @jaeraee3437
      @jaeraee3437 3 года назад +1

      @@brendaliz605 So far along... oh my was it an illness. I pray your in grievance counseling.

  • @KathrynBedell
    @KathrynBedell 3 года назад +30

    So sorry Jessi, praying for you and your family. You are so strong ❤️

  • @hausofcolor
    @hausofcolor 3 года назад +78

    Dear Jessi & G,
    I’m so so so sorry for your loss. The day I saw you post that you lost Sophia, my heart broke for your family. I can’t begin to imagine the pain you’ve endured as a woman, as a mother. May God give you strength and hold you and guide you through this. With all my heart... ❤️🙏🏼🕊

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 года назад

      GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST ✔️🛐✝️

  • @wandaskeens4518
    @wandaskeens4518 3 года назад +329

    You will see her again. That’s the peace and comfort of knowing our lord Jesus Christ. She’ll be waiting at the gates in heaven holding Jesus’ hand.

    • @brothertn708
      @brothertn708 3 года назад +5

      Why did he take here tho? Why? Why make the parents suffer, god is too complicated for me 😿

    • @TheFancyCandy
      @TheFancyCandy 3 года назад +28

      BROTHER TN That’s a great question and definitely understandable that you feel that way. God loves us (1 John 4:8) and does not do evil things like cause the death of our loved ones (James 1:13). We experience such heartache due to inherited sin (Romans 5:12). Our dead loved ones are no longer suffering and are conscious of nothing at all (Ecclesiastes 9:5, 10). We have a hope of seeing our loved ones again here on earth. (John 5:28,29 and Revalation 21:3, 4.) Death will soon be done away with (1 Corinthians 15:26) and is therefore not an instrument of God’s to gain an angel. I hope that you find comfort in these scriptures from God’s word knowing he’s not the cause nor does he take delight in our suffering or losing a loved one.

    • @peapotfairy
      @peapotfairy 3 года назад +5

      @@TheFancyCandy so, if I understand correctly, because God created beings who had no concept of good and evil or right and wrong (and therefore could not have possibly understood that disobeying God was wrong...which God would have known, of course) ate from a tree, the entirety of the human race was collectively punished and made to suffer the horrific realities of this world like the death of a baby..even though he is the omnipotent entity who created the universe knowing the entire time the amount of suffering he was creating before it happened and he had the power the entire time to create a universe with no suffering at all but chose not to? And the only thing we have to do in order to go to heaven and spend *an eternity* in worship to the entity that knowingly and willingly created all of this suffering, is to also spend our life on Earth in complete worship as well? He sounds awesome. Sign me up.

    • @natalyrausch
      @natalyrausch 3 года назад +3

      peapotfairy this right here is why I could never be religious...

    • @vvriwvnelnblet
      @vvriwvnelnblet 3 года назад

      @L G That's from Ed Sheeran

  • @jaeraee3437
    @jaeraee3437 3 года назад +37

    Horrible, i couldnt imagine doing it alone. You guys are definitely in my prayers.

  • @atoyshabassene6273
    @atoyshabassene6273 3 года назад +34

    I had a miscarriage at 5 months 14 years ago. I struggled to get pregnant with that one and then my husband and I had our daughter in 2016 when we were 39. It is very hard. I still wonder what my son would have been like. my heart goes out to you!

  • @SophieesChoice
    @SophieesChoice 4 года назад +159

    My mom lost my older sister Sophia when she was born. My parents prayed and then got pregnant with me and named me Sophia.
    I remembered as a little girl, i would ask my mom the same questions, Ale asked you.
    Sending lots of hugs and kisses 🤍

  • @lauravergara2328
    @lauravergara2328 3 года назад +32

    I am sorry for your loss, can’t imagine what you’re going through. May god bless your family & baby Sophia 💕

  • @simplycandinicole
    @simplycandinicole 4 года назад +10

    This is so heartbreaking. I pray your family will find healing and strength in this time

  • @mashlulo7230
    @mashlulo7230 4 года назад +30

    Only you know what you're heart and soul is going through, I can't even imagine. I'm so so sorry.

  • @atmaf05
    @atmaf05 3 года назад +10

    So so sorry for your loss, losing a child is the most painful thing I have ever experienced. It’s still something I don’t discuss without becoming a mess. That you can even talk about it and keep it together so soon after your loss speaks to your strength. May she rest in peace and may you find peace too ❤️

  • @judi4931
    @judi4931 3 года назад +25

    I wish I could give you guys a huge hug. I can only imagine what you as a woman and as a couple are going through. It must be said thank you for sharing becuase it is not talked about enough. So thank you for showing your strength and vulnerability. Your family is in my prayers.

  • @dianauehara7454
    @dianauehara7454 3 года назад +12

    I’m so sorry for your loss! I too know the pain of losing a baby. I’m devastated, I lost my baby girl June 26, 2020 at 22 weeks pregnant! I completely broke down watching your video because everything you talked about going thru everything on your own I went thru because of COVID, my husband got there after I had delivered our baby and she had already passed. I’m living your pain. I pray that we are blessed with our rainbow 🌈 baby! Only that will help ease the pain. 🙏🏻

  • @christinajones4190
    @christinajones4190 4 года назад +3

    You two are such beautiful human beings, thank you for opening up like this and giving more families a moment to feel less lonely going through this.

  • @NadiaGThomas
    @NadiaGThomas 4 года назад +7

    I have experienced this at the beginning of the year. It’s a pain that never goes away but trust and believe there is always a rainbow after the storm ❤️

  • @jasminesnellen
    @jasminesnellen 4 года назад +4

    This truly touched my heart. I’m writing this with tears on my face. I’ve more recently subscribed in the past few months, and binged on your beautiful family’s life and journey. I am sending my heart, grace, and the healing of the universe to you and your family today and forever more. 🤎🌊🧸

  • @Thats_So_Rachel
    @Thats_So_Rachel 4 года назад +7

    I still keep you in my thoughts to this day, I can’t imagine going through that. You’re so strong & courageous! God has an amazing plan for your family, stay strong 🙏🏼🤍🕊

  • @stephanie5173
    @stephanie5173 3 года назад +20

    My heart breaks for you. I to know this incredible pain. My son was born at 24 weeks, after years of trying and multiple miscarriages we thought we finally made it until that day our hearts just shattered.
    I'll never forget the phone call to my husband, it was a routine check never did we think it we be a goodbye. Wasn't until then did we know how many other families suffered this incredible heartbreak, although it's common it still kills you inside, specially as a women. I send you all love and strength, may your future be happy and bright knowing an Angel is looking over you xx

  • @elenagavrilova7499
    @elenagavrilova7499 3 года назад +21

    I’m crying. My daughter’s name Sofia... and I named her because of meaning...wisdom. I I truly thought I’m infertile... and was scared all the way of my pregnancy to lose her... I’m so so so sorry for your loss but please trust in good,trust in good and good things will happen..u’ll be great loving parents ...it will come to you. Believe,everything will be good. I wish you get better and I wish all the good things for you

    • @elenagavrilova7499
      @elenagavrilova7499 3 года назад

      MAGGIE WONG I’m a mom, and have a daughter naturally...but I thought... IVF -the only way. that means “never lose hope”... Bad things happen, but miracles somehow happen too. Everyone wants the easy way but everyone has their own paths.

  • @ultrasoundfeminsider
    @ultrasoundfeminsider 4 года назад +21

    I feel so sorry for you, I really feel your lost. I'll be praying, stay strong, you are not alone.

  • @lizzettemoreno2439
    @lizzettemoreno2439 4 года назад +7

    My heart 💔 The sadness is Jessi’s eyes just broke my heart. I pray for peace over you and your family and that you’re Angel Sophia watches over you 3 🙏🏽👼🏼

  • @norahn4078
    @norahn4078 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for sharing - can only imagine how you must be feeling and trying to carry on with everyday life and raising your daughter, but keep holding onto each other, your families and seek out help and comfort where you need it. No one and no couple should have to go through this all on their own. ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @BethFrazerx
    @BethFrazerx 3 года назад +45

    I cried the whole way through. What a blessing she is to you, as are you to her. She will always watch over you and beautiful Ale ❤️

  • @steffanydupree6441
    @steffanydupree6441 3 года назад +10

    I am sobbing for you guys 😭 my heart goes out to you. I cant imagine the pain especially going through it alone at the hospital with COVID not being able to have that support system physically with you to hug you and cry with you. I recently had my daughter during Covid and I thought it was the hardest thing to do. Since family could not see her and only were able to see her through a glass window. But this is something else. I am so so sorry ❤️❤️ praying for you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @itsra1ning
    @itsra1ning 4 года назад +3

    I’m so sorry your family went through. I can’t imagine how hard it must have been when you found out she went to heaven especially because you were alone.
    I pray for your family and your sweet angel Sophia. Sophia loves you and she is watching over all of us.

  • @francescamukama8251
    @francescamukama8251 3 года назад +13

    So sorry for your loss,
    May Sophia's soul rest in eternal peace.
    I've been trying to concieve for 4 years ..but all in vain. i know when the is right I'll be pregnant.
    Baby dust your way for the miracle baby. AMEN

  • @rocioruiz6626
    @rocioruiz6626 4 года назад +7

    Sorry for you’re loss may god grant you the peace you need in you’re heart ❤️ sending love and comfort from TX

  • @bevsbundle9452
    @bevsbundle9452 3 года назад +5

    My condolences, I truely know this feeling by far the hardest thing to go through . My heart goes out to your family ❤️

  • @Irenehern
    @Irenehern 3 года назад +5

    This made me ball my eyes out 😭, I pray God keeps healing your little family & giving you the strength to get through this ✨❤️

  • @cherylgrace2744
    @cherylgrace2744 3 года назад +6

    You will be in my prayers. She's with the angels looking down on You both.

  • @career171987
    @career171987 4 года назад +6

    We love you!! I’m so very sorry. I am keeping you guys lifted in prayer. I can’t imagine.🙏🏾🙏🏾 You guys are not failures and God has not failed you.

  • @nataliezng
    @nataliezng 4 года назад +3

    My heart is bleeding 💔 You’re so incredibly strong my love. I send you million hugs, kisses and prayers for you and your precious family. She will look over you and protect you 3, wherever you are. Forever and ever in our hearts little angel ❤️

  • @10kmgarcia
    @10kmgarcia 4 года назад +8

    Jessi, sending you & your hubby a big hug. My heartbreaks for you all. I too have gone through a miscarriage in my second trimester. Prayer will get you through this unimaginable time.

  • @amanyirelynn2806
    @amanyirelynn2806 3 года назад +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss guys. May God comfort you and fill your hearts with hope and joy. Grief can be hard but you'll ge through this. So sorry

  • @danipietro4762
    @danipietro4762 4 года назад +2

    I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine the pain 💔 What a beautiful video for Sophia 💕💕

  • @digthewarmth
    @digthewarmth 3 года назад +1

    That was a beautiful song. I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. You're really helping a lot of women not feel so alone in this.

  • @cashparker212
    @cashparker212 4 года назад +34

    My deepest condolences.
    Thank you for sharing your journey. I birthed my first daughter at 19 weeks, she passed during labor after my water broke prematurely. I birthed my second daughter at 25 weeks, the doctors were not able to intubate her, she passed away as well.
    The feelings you expressed are so real, raw, and true. This is journey is full of ups, downs, and in between. I pray for strength, courage, and comfort for both of you. 🙏🏻❤

    • @MissFlorenceBeauty
      @MissFlorenceBeauty 3 года назад +5

      Wooooow 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 You went through A LOT!!!! ❤️ so sorry this happened to you ❤️

    • @SoSoso-xc4rp
      @SoSoso-xc4rp 3 года назад +2

      So sorry hun !

    • @Opalescenttreeshark
      @Opalescenttreeshark 3 года назад +1

      My heart breaks for you having to endure this not only once but twice. I’m so, so sorry. Sending love and peace.

    • @cashparker212
      @cashparker212 3 года назад

      @@cynnnz ❤

    • @cashparker212
      @cashparker212 3 года назад

      @@SoSoso-xc4rp thank you.

  • @theonlycoreyj
    @theonlycoreyj 4 года назад +3

    Giving you & your family my condolences! I am so sorry you're going through this. 😭💔🤍🕊

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 3 года назад

    Your strength to be able to speak out is amazing. Thank you because you are helping other couples. I am so very sorry for your loss. Sophia is & will always be with you & watching over your family. Sending lots of love & many prayers your way at this difficult time . Thank you for being so honest.

  • @chaddap2074
    @chaddap2074 3 года назад

    I appreciate the courage it takes to be this vulnerable and express your pain...may your family, friends, and fans lift you up during this incredibly tough time and only strengthen the ties that bind 🙏🏽

  • @YadiraElizabeth
    @YadiraElizabeth 4 года назад +10

    you guys are very strong 💓 i am so sorry for your loss, sending lots of prayers your way 💕

  • @kalyanideepali
    @kalyanideepali 3 года назад +5

    I'm in tears. Lost my baby boy on Sunday at 17 weeks. He wouldn't have been able to survive because of a defect. Holding him in my arms is the only memory I have of him and I understand your pain.

    • @raejaes
      @raejaes 3 года назад

      Keeping you and baby boy in my prayers 💙

  • @TheReelRebel1
    @TheReelRebel1 3 года назад

    Can’t even begin to imagine, but your strength & resilience is such a gift to this world x
    Sending all of the love and internet hugs possible ❤️

  • @nery.rachel
    @nery.rachel 4 года назад +2

    Blessings to this beautiful family. Sophia, you’re so loved by everyone 💞

  • @juanitahernandez341
    @juanitahernandez341 3 года назад +6

    It’s been a week since I loss my baby. I was 21 weeks. There’s so much comfort in knowing I am not alone. I’m learning how to have peace. I’m learning to accept that although I had made all these hopes and dreams with my baby boy God needed him by his side. I know I’ll see my baby boy again it’s just not right now.
    I’m sorry for your loss but you definitely gained an angel.

    • @michellesalcido1401
      @michellesalcido1401 Месяц назад

      Sorry for the loss of your baby boy.
      You will see him again ..

  • @heidilopez3673
    @heidilopez3673 4 года назад +36

    You're so strong I'm so sorry sending lots of love ❤

  • @chico2001ful
    @chico2001ful 3 года назад +1

    I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know how heartbreaking that can be. It’s not easy to get pregnant and when it happens it’s so amazing but you never think to lose it. I can understand the fact that you want something and you have all suddenly gets taken away. I understand how painful that it is emotionally. Thank you for opening up even though it’s hard. Everyone has struggles but it’s important to share because I know I can say I have struggles and o hate feeling alone even though I know I’m not alone. I want to relate and talk to people about it. It comforts me.

  • @lusabonita
    @lusabonita 4 года назад +2

    Sending my love! I couldn’t hold back the tears 😭 i hope you will be blessed with another child soon. Prayers!

  • @Bananas-hx3xp
    @Bananas-hx3xp 4 года назад +10

    My heart breaks you. I can't imagine finding that out, let alone finding out alone 💔💔 All the love to the both of you and Ale as well❤️❤️❤️

  • @lazaromachado5679
    @lazaromachado5679 4 года назад +5

    Jessi!!!! God, husband and Ale are the support for this hard moments you going through, beautiful song, our prayers and love ❤ are with you. Kisses and blessings. Gloria.🥰 😘❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @elizabethdavid1919
    @elizabethdavid1919 3 года назад

    My heart goes out to you. I have dealt with the same loss and can feel your pain. Praying for healing for you and your family! 🦋

  • @edithissa9215
    @edithissa9215 3 года назад +1

    I lost my son around the same time also. That feeling of loss will never goes away. But you are stronger and your baby girl will be watching over all of you. 💕

  • @biancam.ritter5352
    @biancam.ritter5352 3 года назад +3

    Praying for y’all. I’ve had 2 miscarriages and the pain is unbearable ♥️ I totally get you in the sense of feeling like a failure, but know that you are an amazing momma and that your rainbow baby will come ♥️

  • @jenniferchavarria3094
    @jenniferchavarria3094 3 года назад +25

    The most beautiful song. My daughter just lost her 1st baby as well. Just one month ago. She was 25 weeks pregnant. I know and am going through the pain you and your family are going through 😭😣💔the pain of losing your baby and the shock when getting the news is such a deep cut in your soul no one can prepare or handle. My pain is seeing my daughter in pain that only God and time can heal her. I saw your story and my deepest condolences we are in your storm😞. My grandson is in Heaven with Sofia. My daughter named him Forever Amado😭😞 He is in Heaven now👶🏽🦋Thank you 🙏🏽for your courage and strength. This video is and will continue to be healing for mother’s who have loss a baby. God bless your wonderful family 💞🦋✝️

  • @jenniig1414
    @jenniig1414 4 года назад

    I’m so deeply sorry for your loss, as tears run down my face I wish I can hug you both! You are strong and powerful for sharing with us all. ❤️

  • @debbielopez6505
    @debbielopez6505 3 года назад +1

    She will forever live in your heart. I know your pain as I lost two angels in six months.
    God bless you.

  • @ayannalee2685
    @ayannalee2685 4 года назад +54

    My boyfriend and I lost our first daughter in January at 31 weeks and it was the hardest thing we have ever been through. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family ❤️

    • @salma02109
      @salma02109 3 года назад +3

      Sending love

    • @eliskasimunkova1556
      @eliskasimunkova1556 3 года назад +1

      You are so strong, honey.. So strong.

    • @saravee3474
      @saravee3474 3 года назад +5

      oh my god.. i am so so so so sorry you had to go through that. i don’t mean to be intrusive but do you know what caused it?
      i’m 29 weeks and 2 days :/ this is my worst fear

    • @ayannalee2685
      @ayannalee2685 3 года назад +2

      Sara Vee she moved around so much, swear she was doing flips and her umbilical cord twisted near her belly button and and that’s how it happened. One thing I took from what happened is when you feel like something is off , go with your gut and get it checked out. I listened to my doctor when he said I didn’t need to come in because she was still moving a little and I shouldn’t have.

    • @ayannalee2685
      @ayannalee2685 3 года назад +2

      In
      April I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks and now I am pregnant again and I am 10 weeks!! I had a scare around 6 weeks and got it checked out and I have a cyst in my left ovary and a Subchorionic hematoma, but the baby is doing amazing 👏🏾

  • @amruta410
    @amruta410 3 года назад +7

    May god give you alot of strength in this situation.This loss have no words to calm ...but i pray you get your hapiness back soon♥️

  • @cathybynum6390
    @cathybynum6390 3 года назад

    Bless y’all’s heart, sending love & prayers.🥰 I’ve lost my dad, & this song helped me through some hard times, Brittany Nicole, The Sun is Rising.

  • @lilmisssunshine0425
    @lilmisssunshine0425 3 года назад

    I just came across your channel and I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain of losing a child. Stay strong and remember that you have your first daughter to keep fighting for despite everything. 🙏🏼✨

  • @29tosha
    @29tosha 4 года назад +3

    Sending Prayers, I’m So Sorry. God Bless You💋

  • @janelieeg240
    @janelieeg240 4 года назад +5

    Sending lots of love and prayers during this healing process for you guys! You are so so strong; May God bless your family always and I pray that the great Lord heals you 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @whoanacreatesnails
    @whoanacreatesnails 3 года назад

    The emotional connection you two have is incredible and very powerful. I cried from beginning to end. 🙏

  • @costalcowgirl21
    @costalcowgirl21 3 года назад

    so sorry you’re a great mommy and would’ve been to her don’t forget that !! you have a little angel looking at your family now BE SO STRONG

  • @lcordova87
    @lcordova87 4 года назад +19

    My heart aches for your loss. I lost my precious baby June 1st and the pain is a unreal.

    • @yenizeledon1434
      @yenizeledon1434 3 года назад +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost mine baby girl at 6 months pregnant 2 & half mo the ago. She was due this month. The pain and the emptiness seems like it will never end. I have a princess Name Sofia, she’s 3 years old I just keep imagining what would’ve been to see them together. I just can’t. I’m going thru depression now. Not even my husband knows about it. Be strong mama. Sending you a big hug and blessings for you

    • @lcordova87
      @lcordova87 3 года назад +1

      Yeni Zeledon I know the aftermath all too well. I am very sorry for your loss. Thank you for those words and just know you are not alone.

  • @RageElixirGames
    @RageElixirGames 4 года назад +10

    I am so sorry for your loss Jessi

  • @CheniseBale
    @CheniseBale 4 года назад

    I’m crying so much. I’m deeply sorry for your loss. 😞💛 thank you for sharing your story. It’s not something we hear about too often yet it’s so common. I respect your bravery & strength. ✨💛 thank you.

  • @MRich17
    @MRich17 4 года назад

    Thank you for being so strong and sharing your story! I’m sorry for your loss and I pray that you are blessed with a baby when you are ready. 💗

  • @jbanks9315
    @jbanks9315 3 года назад +14

    I know what your family is going through. My husband and I lost our Baby Girl Charlie at 6 months. 7/18/20... Like you said it is very devastating. Heart breaking, I never knew how much you can love a child and not even physically meet them. I Loved my daughter just as much as I love my 4 boys 😢 Our first girl ..God Bless you guys and I pray that God heal your hearts and give you peace and understanding. I know for me it was always.. Why !! What could I have done differently.. Truth is nothing , Pray, Pray and Pray some more. That is the only way you and your husband will make it through this hard time 😊 Praying for your family

  • @shantij.2231
    @shantij.2231 4 года назад +25

    Never clicked so fast in my life!
    Edit: Lots of love and prayers your way during this healing process❤️❤️❤️❤️😔🥰🥰🥰

    • @bushrahussain7648
      @bushrahussain7648 4 года назад

      So sorry to hear about ur lost. Sending u lots n lots of doas n loads of love. May Allah bless u both n ur darling Angel. Regards from Malaysia 🇲🇾

  • @dianelolin7247
    @dianelolin7247 4 года назад

    I’m so sorry for loss 😔. Thank you for sharing your story. It helps those of who are mourning or hurting because we are having trouble trying to start or grow our family❤️

  • @dmora8578
    @dmora8578 3 года назад

    Sending you so much love!! Know that Sophia heard the beating of her mommy's heart where she will always be.

  • @natalyaanpilogov7685
    @natalyaanpilogov7685 3 года назад +5

    You’re not alone for sure, this happens so often. I have 2 girls and 1 boy and lost 2 babies in between my other pregnancies at 3 months.... it’s definitely the saddest 😢 But you will still have your girl at the right time, God’s time😊 when I had my 2nd miscarriage,It was a boy ( that I had in my dream) then I got pregnant after 2 months again and had a healthy baby boy ( exactly the one in my dreams 🥰) I’m so thankful to God. He knows best. May God bless your family 😘

  • @fanessfirstplace70
    @fanessfirstplace70 4 года назад +19

    So Sorry For Your LosS Mija! I myself had went through thee same exact thing by myself about 15 year's ago,And even it has been that long ago,I can remember like as if it was yesterday! So "MEDICALLY-They call it "SPONTANEOUS-ABORTION"....I was 3 1/2 months pregnant,My Dear! And I lost my baby which I had to come up With a name for my baby,And I came up With "ANGEL"! Cuz I know "ANGEL" is in "HEAVEN" With so many other "ANGEL'S"...I know hun how you feel,I was there once upon a time! What helped me heal was counseling,for me and my already 2 1/2 yr. old @ that time! I was so scared to get pregnant there after,but dont fear to get pregnant again! I now have 6 beautiful,healthy babies now...My eldest is 17 yrs. old,@ that time he was only 2 1/2 yrs old...I will keep you and ur family in my prayers,my dear! Try to take it day by day,@ least that's what I did daily W/thee help of seeking counseling! Be Safe,Ur Beautiful,And so is ur Family! God Bless,xOxOxOxO From Cali...!

  • @savednerd4009
    @savednerd4009 4 года назад +1

    This is so heartbreaking . I am so sorry 😔. You all are so strong 🙏🏽 my family will say a special prayer for you tonight. Sending love and hugs from Florida ❤️

  • @gabriellemadisonstudio
    @gabriellemadisonstudio 4 года назад +2

    Who could ever even DISLIKE THIS!!! LIKE WHAT!! Sending you guys so much love and prayers!! God is with you all overshadowing you so stay strong!! We love you guys sooo much!!! Jessi know that you are not a failure in any way shape or form! I strive to be just like you and hope that I can be half the women and mother you are!!! Sending all the love and positivity 🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @EwciaMa
    @EwciaMa 3 года назад +3

    I'm 25 week pregnant and I'm really sorry for your loss....that must be hard...

  • @justvicky3625
    @justvicky3625 3 года назад +44

    To the 76 people who disliked this video. You lot have no heart. Lots of love, hugs and support to you both and your families during this difficult time xx

    • @annarocha3254
      @annarocha3254 3 года назад +16

      I think people who dislike these videos often do so because this situation is too hard for them. It is hard to "like" a video like this. While I did so to be supportive, other people may feel that they are disliking it to be supportive in that no one 'likes' losing a child. ♥️

    • @jennaleigh5782
      @jennaleigh5782 3 года назад +4

      @@annarocha3254 Yes, this. 1000000000%. ❤️♥️

    • @Pppp10101
      @Pppp10101 11 месяцев назад +1

      Shame on them

    • @patricias5122
      @patricias5122 10 месяцев назад +1

      They're basically just bots.

    • @Valentina-Steinway
      @Valentina-Steinway 2 месяца назад

      Shame on anyone who disliked this video.
      You are heartless.

  • @sheilapalushi2526
    @sheilapalushi2526 3 года назад

    This has got to be one of the most beautiful yet emotional videos I have seen in a while in RUclips.I just want to say that you were both very brave to share this part of your life online and talk about it because it is really important. My heart and my prayers have been with you and your family since the beginning Jessi and all I want for you is happiness, joy, love and all the great things of life.Sending you guys a lot of blessings and love your way, you are strong 💗💗

  • @noam2859
    @noam2859 3 года назад

    I’m so sorry for the loss. I had a similar experience two years ago and you will get through it. It’s unfortunate how common it is. We have to find a way to prevent future women from experiencing this. I pray for your healing. Sending love to you and your family.

  • @angiecsoto
    @angiecsoto 4 года назад +3

    My deepest condolences I have gone thru it n it’s devastating sending you.both virtual hugs 🙏🙏😢

  • @ral6620
    @ral6620 4 года назад +63

    sorry for your loss :( she is in a better place

  • @rachaelp1412
    @rachaelp1412 3 года назад

    I know what you’re going through 💔 the pain never goes away but you definitely get stronger ❤️ God bless you and your family 🙏🏽

  • @larawade6
    @larawade6 3 года назад +1

    I am so incredibly sorry for your loss as a family, as a mother, as a father and as a man and wife. No amount of sympathy or love will ever be enough to help you fully heal from this, and for that I am so sorry. I hope that one day it will hurt that little bit less and your will be able to move forward, with your beautiful angel baby girl,Sophia, watching over your family and blessing you. Stay strong, stay together, stay safe. 🤍x

  • @gretavarga7394
    @gretavarga7394 4 года назад +22

    I’m so sorry

  • @nnejdee5094
    @nnejdee5094 3 года назад +5

    This makes me so sad and you’re right, we need to make it less taboo to talk about. It’s a horrible thing to go through in isolation. I’m so sorry for your loss and feel your pain. My husband and I have lost every pregnancy we’ve had.

  • @alevas9764
    @alevas9764 3 года назад +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss...I lost my pregnancy at 10weeks and even though it was so early it was something so hard to go through... my heart goes to you and your family!!! I’ll be praying for your sweet family.

  • @veronicasalinas7723
    @veronicasalinas7723 3 года назад

    I'm so sorry for your loss.I too know what it's like to loose a baby.That song for your daughter was beautiful and that letter brought tears to my eyes.