Hey Dan, I’m currently dating my ex again and a lot of my success so far has to do with the info in you provide in your videos. I still have a long way to go but just wanted to say thanks... cheers
Awesome! Good on you for taking action and following through on the advice. Keep building on her attraction for you and she will have a reason to want to stay with you. Enjoy! Cheers, Dan
This is on point. Literally all you have to do is show confidence. That’s literally it. You’re doing no favors to yourself by trying to be cute, needy, whiney. The cuteness and loci was comes AFTER they’re attracted to you and feel respect for you again. Just cal down, and be cool my dudes ✌️You got this.
Hi Dan, I've discovered your channel and I couldn't be more pleased. I've understood some valuable things that I put into practice with success. My ex told me that she wasn't feeling the same about me anymore, no love/no respect. I know I was emotionally weak, not manly enough, with fear and anger, controlling, etc. So she broke up with me definitely. After a few days of "please dont leave me I'm sorry" that didnt change her mind, I friendly accepted her decision and let her go. I tried the NC rule for 2 weeks, then I stumbled upon your videos and rethink the whole approach. I messaged her in a funny confident way, sounding casual, and making her laugh about something we went through once. She replied a bit cold, but I didnt let that defeat me. I kept at it and I finally called her out of a sudden. In the conversation I mix confidence, laughter, love, respect, interest about her and flirting a bit. I was "dominating" the conversation with coolness. She didnt put much resistance and went along for 30 minutes. I propose to see each other the following week so we can chit chat in person before I'm away for work for 2 weeks next month. She said she'll like that. Then I lovingly send her a kiss and end the conversation. Now my concern is how to approach the meeting in person. I still think she's not wanting to get back with me, she is quite committed to her decisions, family and friends know about this situation, and overall i feel that is not an easy thing at all.. How can I move from here? Small steps? Going all in? Please advice!
Hey Dan, Thanks for all the lesson, I watch all your videos when I follow this, I literally heard my Ex said that " you really are an awesome guy" under her breath. Right now I'm dating with her again although I still have a long way to go. I can feel the sparks are happening again. Thanks Dan for helping us out. Love ya!
Hi Dan, I love your videos. So much great advice that I was clueless of before. My ex broke up with me just over two weeks ago, we were together for over 4 years. She broke up with me two times before this, but we ended up getting back together each time within a month. Now she says this time it’s different. She’s talking to another guy from her work. When she dumped me, she had nothing but nice things to say, even looked at me and said she loves me. But she has gut feeling she needs to do this. Somethings missing she says. I realized in the past two weeks that I was very insecure, jealous, emotionally weak all the time, as well from this video, I didn’t do enough to show her I loved her. I’ve told her these things. I’ve called her once a week after, and we talked for over an hour. And I just recently got her two meet me for dinner for almost two hours. Had some laughs and she had some tears when I admitted my mistakes, but she’s still convinced that she needs to take a new road. Then we hugged and that was it. She’ll text me like once or twice day. She I be optimistic? And what should I do from here?
If she's still texting you that often, then there's still something between you and her. It's not over. However, you're not going to get her back by always being nice, friendly and available when she texts you. You've got to mess with her a bit to make her feel more attracted. Here are some example: ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html
Dan Bacon Ok. Thanks for responding man, and for the advice. It’s really tough to not want to speak with her haha. But I’m taking your advice and always watching your videos. They are mind opening to say the least. So giving her space, not talking about our past relationship and not ever telling her I feel is a good start?
Dan Bacon And just wanted again to say how real and legit your advice is. Just started watching them two weeks ago. Never realized how bad I was in my last relationship. Being chill, always nice and good in bed are definitely not the only important things. If I followed you years ago, I would’ve been married to my ex now. Crazy. Good deal man.
yes sir....... she definately likes me again, she always loved me, just wasn't attracted to the way I was anymore. it took a few months, but was worth it. I feel like a new man as well, I like myself again too. thanks again Dan.
To those who dislike his videos or post poor comments. His videos are inspirational and a great tool for just life in general. I myself don’t want my ex back but I still use his tools for future relationships and for just showing my ex what she is missing out on. And to make her want me back. To Dan I say keep it up. Ur words of wisdom are always spot on.
For any one thinking this is too much work...this is more than just about women. This is about finding true balance as a man. Not too sensitive and not too arrogant.
Hey man, thanks for the advice. I’m currently in the process of trying to get my ex back using these methods instead of the begging and pleading that I’ve been doing a week after we broke up. Now it will almost be three weeks and I feel more confident than ever!
Im that guy who was too nice too sweet and she walked over me and gave me attitude and didnt want me. I was different today and she was more sweet hugged me and stuff. It works
My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me two weeks ago. He said he has lost feelings for me he was loving me at like a 60 and I was loving him 100. He said he was feeling this way for about 3 months. He still wants to be friends with me but said he loves me like a friend now who knows what the future holds. Will we ever be together again
Thanks, I'm trying to get my boyfriend back I know its ment for a girl but the situation your talking about is the same one I'm in, I'm insicure and things like that
Hi Dan, me and my gf have just recently texted back , I still love her and so does she ( i know that because she told me) . But, she doesnt want us to be back together. Maybe because I treated her badly in the past and now she's scared of being like that again , but I've changed myself a lot since then . How can I show her that and what should I do in this situation ? We are still care of each other , texing everyday ? Pls answer me , thank you so much.
Hey Dan, when I met my ex, I was so confident, but after a while, I got so insecure and unconfident. Now she broke up with me because we argued so much. Now after a month, she is tired and cold with me.I'm pretty sure it's because I didn't behave manly. Last night she said she doesn't love me any more, tomorrow is her birthday. How can I win her back(I'm working on my confidence, please give me some advice)
Hey Dan, Yet again another great video! I have a probelm with my ex, We broke up a month ago, and over the past few weeks ive been begging her, pleading her and just straight up annoying her with messages of sadness and emotions, than ill send photos of us in the past and i can tell it really annoys her too the point where she doesnt want to talk to me at times. Today i said to her will we ever get back and she said " No sam, we wont ever get back just accept the break up and move on with your life" she always tells me too move on and stop trying for somethign that isnt working and wont work. I dont know what too do. Can you help me out Dan?
Dude, you're giving her way too much power. She doesn't want to have that kind of power and decision making authority over the relationship. Women go with how they feel and you are turning her off. So, she is naturally going to say no. Additionally, you shouldn't actually be ASKING for another chance. You should just be making her feel attracted to you and allowing her to naturally WANT to give you another chance. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
I said to my ex: ,,I have been thinking a lot about you." She told me: ,,What do you..mean by that?: ,,I said: I mean it like I say it." She didn't say anything after that.
Dam, my wife left me after 25 years and she's still mad after 9 months apart. I have done e everything wrong so far and all connections are cut off. She's moved out to our home state and in trying to get back there myself. I have finally got control of my motions when I do talk her but now I don't have anyway to show her that I changing. Is it best to leave her alone and hope she misses me? 25 years was a long time of memories that I know wasn't all bad.
Hey Dan. Big fan. I will really appreciate it if I get a reply. So here's the thing. My ex and I broke up for the first time in 2016 after dating each other for nearly 4 months. I was destroyed and then I found coaches talking about the NCR. I applied it in vein cuz that looked the only savior. After 19 days... I broke it for a reason which I won't describe cuz I wany the comment to be as short ap. Yet After a month or so, as I had started working on myself and my skills of interacting, I got her back. She broke up for the second time this January by giving a BS excuse that she needs to find herself and her desires. She actually got bored of me and meantime , she was talking to a new guy who she used to mention all he time. After she broke up, she started dating her but he was clingy so she broke up with her. As you suggest to get active to make her feel renewed sense of respect and love, I have been trying. She is just not interested. I had been alpha enough and making her laugh too. I call her daily. Whenever we tend to have a deep conversation(just twice), she falls out of love. Should I minimize contacting her, or continue pursuing? Cuz although she blames me of the break up of taking her for granted and not caring about her whenever we talk , but the core reason of the break up was I was insecure and boring. I can confidently say this that the latter is the reason. So here's the thing. She has said ,'I love yous' a couple of times, but gets unsure after some deep conversations. Twice that happened and she would say she never meant to getting back. So not making this any longer, should I take a 7 day break now? I had taken a 3 days break but then , things were different. So should I take a break that long and continue improving myself or keep pursuing her kinda cluelessly now? PS: I really need your advice. Cuz I believe in you the most. Thanks
"I call her daily." That's your problem. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/8NERcd2vI6E/видео.html Also, don't have deep and meaningful conversations. Women only want to have that with a guy that they are in love with, not an ex that they are currently unsure about. Women feel turned off by it because it feels as though you're trying to use those conversations as a way back into her heart. The way back into her heart is via sexual attraction. You can't achieve that if you're calling her daily, trying to have deep conversations and being on your best behavior with her. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
Thanks a lot Dan. Your advice was really helpful and I discovered that new thing of attracting her and pulling yourself out of the spectrum to create attraction, from the former video. Anyway, as a sincere follower of your channel , although I know you have made a video already on this, but I and people like me will be really benefitted with a video explaining how to keep her after patching up, for life. Will be looking forward for your advice there. And again , thanks a lot!!!!! Cheers :D
Your videos have been so helpful Dan but I keep self sabotaging myself, everytime things are going fine I fall into a trap of insecurity and whenever she kinda does something she used to do a lot a lil bit less I start thinking the worst and become needy. I really need help with that also she's strong and independent and she doesn't feel any dominance from me
Hey Dan, amazing videos! Sounds so much more logical to me than those 30 day no contact thing. I know this page is mainly for men but maybe you can help me too. My Ex broke up with me because he was bored and felt too much pressure. So after giving him some time and space without writing I made contact again, trying to sound cool as in the beginning. But all this kind of jokes that I used to make when we were dating or when still everything was fine does not work anymore. His kind of reaction shows me that he thinks he's better than I and his reaction make my messages feel so desperate. What can I do to reattach him again? It feels like inside he has closed up and whatever I would do, it will seem desperate and awkward/embarassing... Can you give me some tipps? Greetings Al
Dude I've left some comments and I'm so glad to come back and say right now that I did it. The sex has been off the fucking hook and although she still has her own place I've been staying there for the past week and a half but I haven't asked her back I'm waiting for her to label us LOL. I'm doing all the things that I wanted to do but was also afraid would not happen. But I was patient and I did what Dan said I even fucked up a few times but immediately fixed it by focusing hard on the videos. When I say fuck up I mean try and sound like I'm begging but then I just stopped and acted like everything was cool but I also made sure that she knew that I wanted her back. She asked for space several times and I tried to give it to her for a day and it was tough but then she ended up calling because I was patient and oddly enough we've been Inseparable ever since. She moved out their parents two months ago and into her own apartment about 3 weeks ago and this was no easy task. I literally relied on Dan and felt like my life depended on this relationship but I did what I had to do to not make it appear that way. I never want to feel the way I felt without her again and I also feel confident that I know when to push in pool when necessary and how to stay present in the relationship and keep the flame lit. She had told me that it burn out and had tried but it would just wouldn't Spark. I did everything I was capable of based on Dan's advice and it was uncomfortable but in the end it was worth more than anything I could place a value on. I can't wait to propose again but I'm going to for a little while and make it perfect when the time is right. Thanks Dan
Hi Dan Didn't get to meet her for coffee because She's moved back to London! 👍🏻 from china. Now she's only an hour away, and still reads my messages, but rarely replies by the time you read this I will be in London cause I'm flying out to Hong Kong for a week to see Chinese New Year (so plenty of FB fun method opportunities) so I'm staying in a hotel the day before my flight near the airport in London any advice? I will have till 5:30 UK time before I fly on the 13feb, she will be off work too! not sure if I should ask her meet now before I fly or wait till I'm back from my flight after my 7day holiday in HK Thanks for all the help dan weather you reply or not you've already helped me a bunch I figured this video was perfectly timed to maybe get some good advice 👍🏻
I'd recommend asking her a few days after you get back from your holiday. Don't just outright ask her though. Start by making her smile and laugh first. Get her feeling some attraction and opening back up to you before you suggest it. Best to get on a call after a few texts if you can.
Dan Bacon thanks Dan I was going to meet her last night too but decided not to. Figured I'll be much more confident when I'm back from this (thinking the programs/videos taught me) hopefully she stays single while I'm away then I'll have adventures to talk to her about when I'm back You're right getting her to laugh/be curious at texts has been the best way to get a phone call You think video chat may be a better option if I can, I'm way more confident when I can see the girl for some reason and as a bonus I could show her the area on vid chat etc Sure I can use what I've learned to make a bunch of friends in Hong Kong as well
Sir I once yelled and abused my partner (don't judge me) and she felt like I disrespected her. I apologised her but she left me. She somehow come back as I am not well but not as a feeling of love but as a sympathy feeling. I don't know whether she is dating someone or not. Could you please help me?
@dan bacon bro, finally after about 5 months, i was able to meet her. i have followed a lot of your advice and although she has a "rebound", it was her idea to meet. i focused on showing her a good time and i got a hug at the end (was best i could get). i have confidence in hanging out with her again, but do you think I should send her something small on valentines day to make that guy react negatively or should i just wait until the weekend to ask her to hang out?
Valentine's Day has passed now, but anyway: If she was attracted and seemed to want to get back together when you met up, you could have sent her a text with "Love you" and a love heart emoticon. If she wasn't very attracted, a text like, "Hey ex girlfriend - Happy Valentine's Day. Love, your handsome ex, [name]" with a love heart emoticon.
Dan , my concern is, should I acknowledge and take full blame for the mistakes I have made in our relationship on the first meeting after the breakup? i'm not sure if I should just talk quickly about it or try to explain myself.
Great video Dan. I'm a customer for your products and I'm planning to email your team about some questions I have. It's good that you stress that to get a woman's love back we have to make her feel respect for us and our value and dominance in the relationship. But it's hard for lots of us because of the level of instant attraction we feel when around them. That strong attraction pushes us to show it to them, submit to them in hopes of pleasing her/them. Do you suggest that we deny the attraction, pretend we don't mind losing her, in order to appear dominant and in control??
Hi Nick. FYI (and for anyone else reading along): I don't have any record of a purchase under the name Nick Pop. About your question: Good point. The answer? Do a great job of Step 3 from Get Your Ex Back Super System and you won't be feeling as though she is more attractive than you. If you still feel it, you need to do Plan B from the system. Plan B is located at 2 hours, 19 minutes into Step 2 (Fix and Improve). BTW: The lessons in this video will help you also: ruclips.net/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/видео.html
My ex broke up with me but I have no reason why. I assume it’s because she got bored of me since I had to keep things routine in the last month of our relationship because I was busy and I couldn’t be interested in her interests since I simply didn’t have time. I didn’t talk to her afterwards for two months to focus on my life but now I’m ready to be in a relationship again. We have great text conversations but she acts unsure around me in person. What should I do? Should I just forget about her and date someone else?
Hey Dan, Yet again another great video! I have aprobelm with my ex, We broke up a month ago and we didnt talk for a few weeks due for the no contact and her being busy. The past week when me and my ex have texted each other the convos go nowhere and properly end within 5-10 minutes. I've asked to call her and meet up soon and she has denied both of them. She doesnt miss me at all, she hasnt felt heartbreak or sadness ever from the break up. She doesnt love me or has any feelings, And today she said too me "I've made up my mind and i dont wanna get back with you ever" and she always tells me too move on and stop trying, But i really want her back. From the way she talks too me and what she has said about me too her friends i just feel like ill never get the chance too get back with her. What do i do, advice would be greatly appericated.!!
You don't need her permission to call her. When texting, focus on making her smile and laugh and then just call her out of the blue. Don't ask for permission. If she doesn't answer, just text her, "Lol...oh, I forgot - you're a shy girl." Anyway, that opportunity has passed for you now by the sound of it. Now that she's said that she has made up her mind, you're going to need to use advanced techniques to get her to change her mind. I teach those techniques in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html Here's a free, beginner tips video for you if you can't afford the program: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
Dan I've got the ex back super system, before I found you I made the stupid mistake of 30 days no contact before I got your system, anyway I've been leveling up and my wife has notice, she contacts me everyday and never miss a chance to meet up. My question is my wife said that she feels like "I'm trying to date her again" I made a joke of it and didn't take it seriously but I can tell she likes it but she's playing very hard to get what do you think I should do? She currently lives with parents.
She's just testing your confidence to see if you will react by either lying (e.g. "Oh, no...I just want to be friends"), explaining yourself to her, (e.g. "Hey, I love you...I'm just trying to make this work") or changing your approach (e.g. suddenly stopping what is working and going back to being neutral). What you need to do: Step 3 of the system. If you've already done that, do it for another week and then begin Plan B. Plan B is located at 2 hours, 19 minutes into Step 2 (Fix and Improve).
Hi Dan, I'm trying to get back with my ex but she's being cold and distant toward me. I have only made her laugh a couple times, but the guy she is with now and she laughs a lot more often. Could you go into more detail on how to create a spark of attraction?
Sure. Here are some videos with examples: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
we broke up and she told me she loved me and wanted to get back together. We were friendly for a while and then started arguing. Friends told her that I said things about her that I didn’t say and she wouldn’t believe that I didn’t say them etc and then said I didn’t give her enough space but the reason I didn’t was because I was trying to prove I didn’t say these things. She’s now blocked me on Facebook etc but has told friends she knows I haven’t said these supposed things
Stop trying to explain yourself to her and just get on with re-attracting her. What's most important is that you reawaken her feelings of sexual and romantic attraction. If you do that, she's not going to care about what may have been said because she will just want you back. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
Hey dan, me and my ex broke up about 4 weeks ago, we met up on Friday for her to give me my house key back, we went for a few drinks and everything went good apart from her saying she doesn’t want to be with me nomore, she was trying so hard not to look at me, and she won’t answer my texts or see me again, we were together for 4 years, I walked her home and we gave each other a hug I pretty sure when she was walking towards her front door she started crying, I want her back!! I’ve tried most of your techniques but nothings working! Please help mate!!
Sounds like you need more advanced techniques to get her back. Before asking for another meet up, you will need to do 1-2 very important things to get her to bring her guard down and open back up to you. That info is only in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
I want to maintain no contact with my ex from today but her birthday in 10days do I need to send birthday wishes or should I still maintain no contact??
Hey Dan, just found out your RUclips channel wish i did it at least 2 weeks earlier sad story. In short i’d like to ask you for an advice: ive been dating this girl for over a year now, weve had troubles along the way but usually we would overcome them. Two weeks ago we had a quarrel i was to blame for some stuff in our relationship we talked for like a week and in the end she said she loved me that she would give me another chance, and we tried to date again but I didn’t feel how to say it, but i didnt feel much involvement from her and when i told her that that was it. She said that she loves me but cant pretend that everything is as it was,that i deserve better than her and she made me feel bad a lot of times(tho truth to speak i didnt feel like that), that she wants to cut all contact with everyone and be left alone, she loves me but at the same time she doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. I love her very much and dont want to leave her side, truth is i was insecure and feeling this 2 weeks, i want to be with her again what can i do to at least ameliorate the current situation and how can i bring her back if at all possible. Edit: ive met with her today had some fun and talked about lots of things, she told me that she doesnt want to forget about me but still wants to hang out as JUST FRIENDS, this made me upset but i tried not to show it. I wanna br a couple again with her and not just friends cuz it warms my heart when im with her. When i asked her if she still loves me she said that she still has some feelings, not many, for me.
When a woman says that you deserve better, it usually means that you're too nice to her and she wants a guy who is a good guy, but is more ballsy and isn't afraid to put her back in her place in a dominant, but loving way. About being in the friend zone with her, watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
Sorry to bother you again, so regarding the situation:forgot to mention that she was feeling insecure a lot before the breakup, and when the last quarrel took place there was this phrase: "I still love you, but the hate for myself for not paying the required attention to you, for not helping you when you needed and seeing you hurt it is just bigger than the love i have that is why i don't want the relationship" after this phrase came the one with you deserving better and not wanting to be in a relationship because we are not compatible are going to follow the same pattern and quarrel again and everything else don't know if this may sound familiar to you maybe if it does you could give me some tips the cause for that problem was that i snapped because she didn't pay enough attention to me and what i did, anyway returning back to present i have talked with my ex and we agreed to meet up in a cafe the day after tomorrow, but she said that she wants to be alone and doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone anymore right now so even if she agrees to meet it will just be as friends and asked me not to hope for anything more and not try to change anything because she is not ready atm then i made the mistake of joking like "I can still make you fall for me the same way you did before", the response was an indifferent one and smth along the lines of "no you cant do that if i said that i want to be alone" i don't want to f*uck smth up again and i'm planning on slowly regaining everything and least to try to, you said to be dominant but in a loving way if at all possible could you give me some tips or maybe a link to a video that i may by chance missed on your channel that would be very helpful in this situation i've learned my lesson well, i was a downer most of the time and regretted everything i did leading to the breakup had a bad breakup and then begged and did all the wrong stuff, sounds kinda silly but your videos as i said regret not coming across them sooner, they motivated me very much to develop myself and become better or should i say myself again, because i lost my drive somewhere along the way when i tried to become a perfect man and not be myself the person she fell for, well anyway i learned my lesson i still hope that i can make up with her if not that means that this is it and i have to move on holding all the good memories i had and all the new things a learned. Edit: regarding the upcoming day of valentines, and her birthday this friday should i try to give her a present or that would just make things worse? And i dont want her to feel like “wow how good it is to be with him when he is just a friend i should leave it as it is because i like it”
No, a present won't do anything to change the situation. She broke up with you because you don't make her feel the kind of attraction she knows she wants. You can't make her feel that attraction with a gift or flowers. It's about you. In your case, you literally have to level up and become a much more confident, ballsy version of yourself. That is the only thing that will get her to pay attention. That and the other, somewhat easier to use techniques that I teach in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Dan Bacon thank you for your tips man, well we met today and had some coffee i gave her the present cuz i saw that she was feeling miserable, didn’t push for a relationship and tried to have a nice chat about things, asked her if we could stay friends for now, she said “srly i cant even tell rn, i have so many mixed feelings about all this” dunno if its a good sign or a bad one, anyway ill just keep watching your videos and try to level up myself.
Hey Dan ! I followed your steps to get her back my talking over the phone and i was able to make her smile and laugh through the call and yes I felt that i was confidence when talking. But when texting her via whatsapp should i greet her good morning or goodnight (as the first person to do) ?
Hello, I’m trying to get my ex back, but as the time pass by, she loses more and more attraction for me, or she makes it look on that way. She now prefer to walk with other guy and that guy makes her laugh and have fun. What should I do? I see her everyday, but she doesn’t want to be near me. Please help me, also by messages she doesn’t want to text, we broke up 3 weeks ago. Hope you reply me
If she has moved on with another guy, use this approach: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html To make her really want you again, you will need to use a different approach to attraction. This includes via text, on the phone and in person. Here are some texting tips for you: ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html
Dan Bacon thank you so much. But what about if she doesn’t even want to text me back? What should I do in order to make her want to text me back? And when she does text me back.. she takes like 2 or 3 days to reply to one of my messages.. what do you recommend for me?
Dan Bacon also.. tomorrow is Valentine’s Day.. should I get something for her? She told me” please don’t come on Valentine’s Day to my house or please don’t bring me any gift. What should I do? Help!
Hi, I need an advice on how to act now. I had a long distane relationship my ex girlfriend, different states, we have been seeing each other lately this last 2 months, we've been going on trips just the 2 of us, we've slept together as well and have rekindle during these times. She stopped texting for 4 days, and last night she texted me saying to forgive her for not having the courage to get back into a solid relationship with me right now, that she loved me so much in the past and cares a lot about me still, but her life right now is a mess and can't concéntrate on getting back together, that she needs to put her self together first. What is the best thing I can do right now.?
Hey Dan, what if my ex happened to go back to talking to her old ex in the timespan that we broke up? It's been about 3 months and I think she just kind of settled because I didn't really show her I wanted her after hooking up. What should I do? She says that she thinks she will be happy with him and because he is one of her exes i feel that it may be a bit of a stronger connection than just a simple new guy? I know he didn't use your techniques, but just got lucky or rebounded to. There long distance and will be for years if she does get back with him. what should I do?
Hi dan, not sure where to start, I'm watching videos of yourself and I don't think you can help with this one, the last year or so I've struggled a lot with depression and I pushed my ex wife away and I truly wasn't myself and I was horrible and tried turning people against her, tried suicide and I've been seeking help and I'm starting to feel like my old self again and I've been trying some things in your videos and we had a heart to heart tonight and she said there was no going back, so I'm not sure if there is anything you can suggest really, please help
Sorry post again dan, we talked again tonight, and she said she can't go back because of what other people think after how I was and what I put her through, she said she was in a different place, we kissed the other night and she stopped it as she said it would have been wrong and it didn't feel like it used to either, doesn't want to give me the wrong impression, christ I'm so confused and I'm not sure what road to take any more, I've tried lots stuff from your vids making her laugh and stuff but nothing seems to work, I have changed massively in the last 5 weeks thanks to my couseling and yr tips but I genuinely think this is last fixing, sorry but I don't know if yr system will work, we have a disabled little boy as well and I miss us being a team
Hi dan love ur videos well i still talk to my ex she is single mother and she broke up with me bc i was being Insecure and jeloues of her ex guy bc he is still in the picture bc of her son and i would always worry about that and she finally had enough and broke up with me she says she still loves me and we txt everday but i cant get her to give another chance she worries i will go back to my old ways we still see each other at times and there still somthing there but she just doesnt give me a chance i worry that maybe she might go back to her son dad ... i love her so much dan thanks for your help
In a case like yours, you need to stop trying to get a relationship. Just focus on making her want you by being different to how you were before. Don't go on and on about how you are different. Just be different (i.e. no longer display any of that insecurity, fear or jealousy about her ex). Additionally, you can also use other techniques to make her feel like she is losing you and needs to get you back quickly. All is explained here: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Thank you dan everthing i have watched is making more sense . i appercaite your help your adivce is so helpful she said she missed me for the first time and that she felt like she need me it was so amazing so im continue watching your videos and taking ur advice ..and im stop worrying about her ex and just focus on trying to build that spark and atteraction she had for me ....just one more question dan and thank you so after awhile of building that attraction and spark again will she be the one asking for a reletionship or should I ...i dont want to mess up i really love her ...thank you dan and your work is amazing i see you help alot ppl thank u again
Hi Dan! Can i get my ex back and marry her for life? We both are currently married to diff partners but we still talk daily for hours and still have that love connection. Although through words, she says now that she is married to her husband she can't marry me now and calls it a destiny and all. Although when she was in my town for 6.months we kept meeting and came very close sexually also
There are a lot of "ifs" when it comes to a situation like that. However, if you and her feel like you should be together, it usually happens despite the difficult circumstances. This video will help you: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
hie Dan l enjoy your vidz and learning more although l have not attempted the flow. l broke up with her 2 days ago and l was the one who made the move now l am now recalling that she is the only one and l want her back so my question would be should l attempt early with your ex back procedure or process to reattract her like now or wait for 5 more days coz if l make a move right now it may seemz like being tooo desperate and in other ways to prevent her from being taken by other guys she is so cool dan need help pliz ..live in Africa looking forward for your responce thnx Bacon
If you think she will accept you back quickly, then go ahead and contact her tomorrow. If you think she will need a bit more time to stop feeling angry at you, give her a week. Then, do this: ruclips.net/video/C8SY44KANQE/видео.html
1:55 is basically describing me 🥺💔 this video is basically me I miss my ex because she means the world to me and i really want her because life is hard and its also hard to be happy anymore 🥺🔫💔
hi dan :) i have problem me and my girl broke up november last year and im doing the no contact rule :( in the 1st week im amaze because she text me and wanting me back :( but the "no contact rule" said that dont contct ur ex no matter what happen :'( i really miss my girl but sad thing about it is she have a new guy now and there are long distance relationship(thats the good thing) i want my girl to feel attracted again :( i just want some advice :)
This is why I never recommend the NC rule. It didn't get your ex back. She moved on. These two videos will help you: ruclips.net/video/1bXsYo8fW2g/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/ZCin073JNKs/видео.html
Dan I need help ! Or maybe anyone here on the comment section who done this successfully, I need replies ! I started interacting with my ex a week after the “break up” (we didn’t say we broke up) and she was cold and all and I threw in some humor and being light, I tried to arrange a meeting a day after interacting and went over to her (a 1 hour drive) and even though it felt like she didn’t wanted to meet I was assertive and confident and met her at the supermarket with her mom and she was surprised I went to say hello and I was really light and smiley, we talked for a minute and also spoke to her mom (her mom really loves me) and cracked a few jokes with my ex and got her smiling and stuff, we hugged and separated She still haven’t sent a massage since then (2 days ago) And now I’m going for a week of work and can’t plan to see her during this week Should I interact via massages? Or should I wait until ill be able to see her in person and then send her a massage or so ?
She haven't contact me in months. Every time I go tact he she usually brings up thing I did wrong or she's starts am argument. She's I a relationship now. It kills me but I feel my hands are tight. I can't meet her, contact her because she not open to talk or meet. What can I do? What's should I do? I haven't talk to her in 2 months.
Are you contacting her via text? If so, don't do that. Don't behind texts. If you are calling her, then laugh at her for being a pain in the ass when she brings up what you did wrong. She's waiting for you to create a spark with her. Make it happen.
Yeah, usually. She don't want me calling her. I'll try again. I'll try to call her and try get her to meet. I really don't want to push her to him by calling her and getting into argument. I would say it's a rebound, she got with him a few days after we broke up, one of her friends
If she has moved on, I highly recommend that you watch this: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html About her not wanting you to call her: If you want her back, you can't play by her rules. You have to do what works (i.e. attract her on a phone call and in person). If you play by her rules and only text her, it's much more likely that you will turn her off, or she will be argumentative or play hard to get.
Hey Dan, I’m currently dating my ex again and a lot of my success so far has to do with the info in you provide in your videos. I still have a long way to go but just wanted to say thanks... cheers
Awesome! Good on you for taking action and following through on the advice. Keep building on her attraction for you and she will have a reason to want to stay with you. Enjoy! Cheers, Dan
This is on point. Literally all you have to do is show confidence. That’s literally it. You’re doing no favors to yourself by trying to be cute, needy, whiney. The cuteness and loci was comes AFTER they’re attracted to you and feel respect for you again. Just cal down, and be cool my dudes ✌️You got this.
From a 40 yr old woman's perspective, Dan nails it EVERY time.
Best dating and relationship expert ever.
Thanks Nick!
Hi Dan, I've discovered your channel and I couldn't be more pleased. I've understood some valuable things that I put into practice with success. My ex told me that she wasn't feeling the same about me anymore, no love/no respect. I know I was emotionally weak, not manly enough, with fear and anger, controlling, etc. So she broke up with me definitely. After a few days of "please dont leave me I'm sorry" that didnt change her mind, I friendly accepted her decision and let her go. I tried the NC rule for 2 weeks, then I stumbled upon your videos and rethink the whole approach. I messaged her in a funny confident way, sounding casual, and making her laugh about something we went through once. She replied a bit cold, but I didnt let that defeat me. I kept at it and I finally called her out of a sudden. In the conversation I mix confidence, laughter, love, respect, interest about her and flirting a bit. I was "dominating" the conversation with coolness. She didnt put much resistance and went along for 30 minutes. I propose to see each other the following week so we can chit chat in person before I'm away for work for 2 weeks next month. She said she'll like that. Then I lovingly send her a kiss and end the conversation. Now my concern is how to approach the meeting in person. I still think she's not wanting to get back with me, she is quite committed to her decisions, family and friends know about this situation, and overall i feel that is not an easy thing at all.. How can I move from here? Small steps? Going all in? Please advice!
Hey Dan, Thanks for all the lesson, I watch all your videos when I follow this, I literally heard my Ex said that " you really are an awesome guy" under her breath. Right now I'm dating with her again although I still have a long way to go. I can feel the sparks are happening again. Thanks Dan for helping us out. Love ya!
Hi Dan, I love your videos. So much great advice that I was clueless of before. My ex broke up with me just over two weeks ago, we were together for over 4 years. She broke up with me two times before this, but we ended up getting back together each time within a month. Now she says this time it’s different. She’s talking to another guy from her work. When she dumped me, she had nothing but nice things to say, even looked at me and said she loves me. But she has gut feeling she needs to do this. Somethings missing she says. I realized in the past two weeks that I was very insecure, jealous, emotionally weak all the time, as well from this video, I didn’t do enough to show her I loved her. I’ve told her these things. I’ve called her once a week after, and we talked for over an hour. And I just recently got her two meet me for dinner for almost two hours. Had some laughs and she had some tears when I admitted my mistakes, but she’s still convinced that she needs to take a new road. Then we hugged and that was it. She’ll text me like once or twice day. She I be optimistic? And what should I do from here?
If she's still texting you that often, then there's still something between you and her. It's not over. However, you're not going to get her back by always being nice, friendly and available when she texts you. You've got to mess with her a bit to make her feel more attracted. Here are some example: ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html
Dan Bacon Ok. Thanks for responding man, and for the advice. It’s really tough to not want to speak with her haha. But I’m taking your advice and always watching your videos. They are mind opening to say the least. So giving her space, not talking about our past relationship and not ever telling her I feel is a good start?
Dan Bacon And just wanted again to say how real and legit your advice is. Just started watching them two weeks ago. Never realized how bad I was in my last relationship. Being chill, always nice and good in bed are definitely not the only important things. If I followed you years ago, I would’ve been married to my ex now. Crazy. Good deal man.
Dan you are the man! We are on track, working out our life together. Could NOT have done this without you brotha~!
Congrats mate! Glad to hear that you and your wife are back together.
yes sir....... she definately likes me again, she always loved me, just wasn't attracted to the way I was anymore. it took a few months, but was worth it. I feel like a new man as well, I like myself again too. thanks again Dan.
To those who dislike his videos or post poor comments. His videos are inspirational and a great tool for just life in general. I myself don’t want my ex back but I still use his tools for future relationships and for just showing my ex what she is missing out on. And to make her want me back. To Dan I say keep it up. Ur words of wisdom are always spot on.
For any one thinking this is too much work...this is more than just about women. This is about finding true balance as a man. Not too sensitive and not too arrogant.
I love her so much... And it's my fault that she's gone... I miss her so much.. I will do whatever it takes to get her back...ANYTHING
Hey man, thanks for the advice. I’m currently in the process of trying to get my ex back using these methods instead of the begging and pleading that I’ve been doing a week after we broke up. Now it will almost be three weeks and I feel more confident than ever!
Im that guy who was too nice too sweet and she walked over me and gave me attitude and didnt want me. I was different today and she was more sweet hugged me and stuff. It works
My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me two weeks ago. He said he has lost feelings for me he was loving me at like a 60 and I was loving him 100. He said he was feeling this way for about 3 months. He still wants to be friends with me but said he loves me like a friend now who knows what the future holds. Will we ever be together again
You are amazing dam. I love your tips. It working. You changed my life.
Thanks mate this is helping l trying to get my girl back.
Thanks, I'm trying to get my boyfriend back I know its ment for a girl but the situation your talking about is the same one I'm in, I'm insicure and things like that
Trust this guy. He knows whats hes talking about.
the world needpeople like dan whu work more than a father
Hi Dan, me and my gf have just recently texted back , I still love her and so does she ( i know that because she told me) . But, she doesnt want us to be back together. Maybe because I treated her badly in the past and now she's scared of being like that again , but I've changed myself a lot since then . How can I show her that and what should I do in this situation ? We are still care of each other , texing everyday ? Pls answer me , thank you so much.
best teacher 😍
Hey Dan, when I met my ex, I was so confident, but after a while, I got so insecure and unconfident. Now she broke up with me because we argued so much. Now after a month, she is tired and cold with me.I'm pretty sure it's because I didn't behave manly. Last night she said she doesn't love me any more, tomorrow is her birthday. How can I win her back(I'm working on my confidence, please give me some advice)
Hey Dan, Yet again another great video! I have a probelm with my ex, We broke up a month ago, and over the past few weeks ive been begging her, pleading her and just straight up annoying her with messages of sadness and emotions, than ill send photos of us in the past and i can tell it really annoys her too the point where she doesnt want to talk to me at times. Today i said to her will we ever get back and she said " No sam, we wont ever get back just accept the break up and move on with your life" she always tells me too move on and stop trying for somethign that isnt working and wont work. I dont know what too do. Can you help me out Dan?
Dude, you're giving her way too much power. She doesn't want to have that kind of power and decision making authority over the relationship. Women go with how they feel and you are turning her off. So, she is naturally going to say no. Additionally, you shouldn't actually be ASKING for another chance. You should just be making her feel attracted to you and allowing her to naturally WANT to give you another chance. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
Thanks man!!
I said to my ex: ,,I have been thinking a lot about you." She told me: ,,What do you..mean by that?: ,,I said: I mean it like I say it." She didn't say anything after that.
Hey Dan, She accuses me of things I haven't done, calls me drama when I said I don't agree.. what would be a best come back?
Dam, my wife left me after 25 years and she's still mad after 9 months apart. I have done e everything wrong so far and all connections are cut off. She's moved out to our home state and in trying to get back there myself. I have finally got control of my motions when I do talk her but now I don't have anyway to show her that I changing. Is it best to leave her alone and hope she misses me? 25 years was a long time of memories that I know wasn't all bad.
Hey Dan. Big fan. I will really appreciate it if I get a reply. So here's the thing. My ex and I broke up for the first time in 2016 after dating each other for nearly 4 months. I was destroyed and then I found coaches talking about the NCR. I applied it in vein cuz that looked the only savior. After 19 days... I broke it for a reason which I won't describe cuz I wany the comment to be as short ap. Yet After a month or so, as I had started working on myself and my skills of interacting, I got her back.
She broke up for the second time this January by giving a BS excuse that she needs to find herself and her desires. She actually got bored of me and meantime , she was talking to a new guy who she used to mention all he time. After she broke up, she started dating her but he was clingy so she broke up with her. As you suggest to get active to make her feel renewed sense of respect and love, I have been trying. She is just not interested. I had been alpha enough and making her laugh too. I call her daily. Whenever we tend to have a deep conversation(just twice), she falls out of love. Should I minimize contacting her, or continue pursuing? Cuz although she blames me of the break up of taking her for granted and not caring about her whenever we talk , but the core reason of the break up was I was insecure and boring. I can confidently say this that the latter is the reason. So here's the thing. She has said ,'I love yous' a couple of times, but gets unsure after some deep conversations. Twice that happened and she would say she never meant to getting back. So not making this any longer, should I take a 7 day break now? I had taken a 3 days break but then , things were different. So should I take a break that long and continue improving myself or keep pursuing her kinda cluelessly now?
PS: I really need your advice. Cuz I believe in you the most. Thanks
"I call her daily." That's your problem. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/8NERcd2vI6E/видео.html Also, don't have deep and meaningful conversations. Women only want to have that with a guy that they are in love with, not an ex that they are currently unsure about. Women feel turned off by it because it feels as though you're trying to use those conversations as a way back into her heart. The way back into her heart is via sexual attraction. You can't achieve that if you're calling her daily, trying to have deep conversations and being on your best behavior with her. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
Thanks a lot Dan. Your advice was really helpful and I discovered that new thing of attracting her and pulling yourself out of the spectrum to create attraction, from the former video. Anyway, as a sincere follower of your channel , although I know you have made a video already on this, but I and people like me will be really benefitted with a video explaining how to keep her after patching up, for life. Will be looking forward for your advice there. And again , thanks a lot!!!!!
Cheers :D
Does this work from a girl to try get her ex boyfriend back? im assuming,,, right?
Your videos have been so helpful Dan but I keep self sabotaging myself, everytime things are going fine I fall into a trap of insecurity and whenever she kinda does something she used to do a lot a lil bit less I start thinking the worst and become needy. I really need help with that also she's strong and independent and she doesn't feel any dominance from me
Hey Dan,
amazing videos!
Sounds so much more logical to me than those 30 day no contact thing. I know this page is mainly for men but maybe you can help me too.
My Ex broke up with me because he was bored and felt too much pressure. So after giving him some time and space without writing I made contact again, trying to sound cool as in the beginning. But all this kind of jokes that I used to make when we were dating or when still everything was fine does not work anymore. His kind of reaction shows me that he thinks he's better than I and his reaction make my messages feel so desperate. What can I do to reattach him again? It feels like inside he has closed up and whatever I would do, it will seem desperate and awkward/embarassing...
Can you give me some tipps?
Greetings Al
Dude I've left some comments and I'm so glad to come back and say right now that I did it. The sex has been off the fucking hook and although she still has her own place I've been staying there for the past week and a half but I haven't asked her back I'm waiting for her to label us LOL. I'm doing all the things that I wanted to do but was also afraid would not happen. But I was patient and I did what Dan said I even fucked up a few times but immediately fixed it by focusing hard on the videos. When I say fuck up I mean try and sound like I'm begging but then I just stopped and acted like everything was cool but I also made sure that she knew that I wanted her back. She asked for space several times and I tried to give it to her for a day and it was tough but then she ended up calling because I was patient and oddly enough we've been Inseparable ever since. She moved out their parents two months ago and into her own apartment about 3 weeks ago and this was no easy task. I literally relied on Dan and felt like my life depended on this relationship but I did what I had to do to not make it appear that way. I never want to feel the way I felt without her again and I also feel confident that I know when to push in pool when necessary and how to stay present in the relationship and keep the flame lit. She had told me that it burn out and had tried but it would just wouldn't Spark. I did everything I was capable of based on Dan's advice and it was uncomfortable but in the end it was worth more than anything I could place a value on. I can't wait to propose again but I'm going to for a little while and make it perfect when the time is right.
Thanks Dan
Hi Dan
Didn't get to meet her for coffee because She's moved back to London! 👍🏻 from china. Now she's only an hour away, and still reads my messages, but rarely replies
by the time you read this I will be in London cause I'm flying out to Hong Kong for a week to see Chinese New Year (so plenty of FB fun method opportunities) so I'm staying in a hotel the day before my flight near the airport in London any advice? I will have till 5:30 UK time before I fly on the 13feb, she will be off work too!
not sure if I should ask her meet now before I fly or wait till I'm back from my flight after my 7day holiday in HK
Thanks for all the help dan weather you reply or not you've already helped me a bunch I figured this video was perfectly timed to maybe get some good advice 👍🏻
I'd recommend asking her a few days after you get back from your holiday. Don't just outright ask her though. Start by making her smile and laugh first. Get her feeling some attraction and opening back up to you before you suggest it. Best to get on a call after a few texts if you can.
Dan Bacon thanks Dan I was going to meet her last night too but decided not to. Figured I'll be much more confident when I'm back from this (thinking the programs/videos taught me) hopefully she stays single while I'm away then I'll have adventures to talk to her about when I'm back
You're right getting her to laugh/be curious at texts has been the best way to get a phone call
You think video chat may be a better option if I can, I'm way more confident when I can see the girl for some reason and as a bonus I could show her the area on vid chat etc
Sure I can use what I've learned to make a bunch of friends in Hong Kong as well
Very well put, your exactly right
Sir
I once yelled and abused my partner (don't judge me) and she felt like I disrespected her.
I apologised her but she left me.
She somehow come back as I am not well but not as a feeling of love but as a sympathy feeling. I don't know whether she is dating someone or not. Could you please help me?
What if your ex has been brainwashed and thinks you have done things you have not? Manipulated by her friends that don't like me 😤
DAMN THIS VID HIT ME HARD... THANKS DAN.
What if the interactions are on the phone only because of where she lives and she won't reach out "needs space"
The story relates to me and my ex so much 😖😖
@dan bacon bro, finally after about 5 months, i was able to meet her. i have followed a lot of your advice and although she has a "rebound", it was her idea to meet. i focused on showing her a good time and i got a hug at the end (was best i could get). i have confidence in hanging out with her again, but do you think I should send her something small on valentines day to make that guy react negatively or should i just wait until the weekend to ask her to hang out?
Valentine's Day has passed now, but anyway: If she was attracted and seemed to want to get back together when you met up, you could have sent her a text with "Love you" and a love heart emoticon. If she wasn't very attracted, a text like, "Hey ex girlfriend - Happy Valentine's Day. Love, your handsome ex, [name]" with a love heart emoticon.
My wife switched off his phone, she was lived far away from me. He broke up 80 days ago.She was not contacted. Parents are involved.Please advice.
This video will help you: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
Very good at the point
Dan , my concern is, should I acknowledge and take full blame for the mistakes I have made in our relationship on the first meeting after the breakup? i'm not sure if I should just talk quickly about it or try to explain myself.
Great video Dan. I'm a customer for your products and I'm planning to email your team about some questions I have. It's good that you stress that to get a woman's love back we have to make her feel respect for us and our value and dominance in the relationship. But it's hard for lots of us because of the level of instant attraction we feel when around them. That strong attraction pushes us to show it to them, submit to them in hopes of pleasing her/them. Do you suggest that we deny the attraction, pretend we don't mind losing her, in order to appear dominant and in control??
Hi Nick. FYI (and for anyone else reading along): I don't have any record of a purchase under the name Nick Pop. About your question: Good point. The answer? Do a great job of Step 3 from Get Your Ex Back Super System and you won't be feeling as though she is more attractive than you. If you still feel it, you need to do Plan B from the system. Plan B is located at 2 hours, 19 minutes into Step 2 (Fix and Improve). BTW: The lessons in this video will help you also: ruclips.net/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/видео.html
My ex broke up with me but I have no reason why. I assume it’s because she got bored of me since I had to keep things routine in the last month of our relationship because I was busy and I couldn’t be interested in her interests since I simply didn’t have time. I didn’t talk to her afterwards for two months to focus on my life but now I’m ready to be in a relationship again. We have great text conversations but she acts unsure around me in person. What should I do? Should I just forget about her and date someone else?
This is the best video
Hey Dan, Yet again another great video! I have aprobelm with my ex, We broke up a month ago and we didnt talk for a few weeks due for the no contact and her being busy. The past week when me and my ex have texted each other the convos go nowhere and properly end within 5-10 minutes. I've asked to call her and meet up soon and she has denied both of them. She doesnt miss me at all, she hasnt felt heartbreak or sadness ever from the break up. She doesnt love me or has any feelings, And today she said too me "I've made up my mind and i dont wanna get back with you ever" and she always tells me too move on and stop trying, But i really want her back. From the way she talks too me and what she has said about me too her friends i just feel like ill never get the chance too get back with her. What do i do, advice would be greatly appericated.!!
I would really like help Dan ! Cheers
You don't need her permission to call her. When texting, focus on making her smile and laugh and then just call her out of the blue. Don't ask for permission. If she doesn't answer, just text her, "Lol...oh, I forgot - you're a shy girl." Anyway, that opportunity has passed for you now by the sound of it. Now that she's said that she has made up her mind, you're going to need to use advanced techniques to get her to change her mind. I teach those techniques in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html Here's a free, beginner tips video for you if you can't afford the program: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
Dan I've got the ex back super system, before I found you I made the stupid mistake of 30 days no contact before I got your system, anyway I've been leveling up and my wife has notice, she contacts me everyday and never miss a chance to meet up. My question is my wife said that she feels like "I'm trying to date her again" I made a joke of it and didn't take it seriously but I can tell she likes it but she's playing very hard to get what do you think I should do? She currently lives with parents.
She's just testing your confidence to see if you will react by either lying (e.g. "Oh, no...I just want to be friends"), explaining yourself to her, (e.g. "Hey, I love you...I'm just trying to make this work") or changing your approach (e.g. suddenly stopping what is working and going back to being neutral). What you need to do: Step 3 of the system. If you've already done that, do it for another week and then begin Plan B. Plan B is located at 2 hours, 19 minutes into Step 2 (Fix and Improve).
My girlfriend dumped me cos I kept on telling her hurtful things and she hates me and won't give me another chance💔
Hi Dan, I'm trying to get back with my ex but she's being cold and distant toward me. I have only made her laugh a couple times, but the guy she is with now and she laughs a lot more often. Could you go into more detail on how to create a spark of attraction?
Sure. Here are some videos with examples: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
Dan Bacon I'm not sure how to attract her in new and exciting ways. Any suggestions?
Dan Bacon and thank you for what you have sent.
we broke up and she told me she loved me and wanted to get back together. We were friendly for a while and then started arguing. Friends told her that I said things about her that I didn’t say and she wouldn’t believe that I didn’t say them etc and then said I didn’t give her enough space but the reason I didn’t was because I was trying to prove I didn’t say these things. She’s now blocked me on Facebook etc but has told friends she knows I haven’t said these supposed things
Stop trying to explain yourself to her and just get on with re-attracting her. What's most important is that you reawaken her feelings of sexual and romantic attraction. If you do that, she's not going to care about what may have been said because she will just want you back. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
Dan Bacon thank you Dan!
Hey dan, me and my ex broke up about 4 weeks ago, we met up on Friday for her to give me my house key back, we went for a few drinks and everything went good apart from her saying she doesn’t want to be with me nomore, she was trying so hard not to look at me, and she won’t answer my texts or see me again, we were together for 4 years, I walked her home and we gave each other a hug I pretty sure when she was walking towards her front door she started crying, I want her back!! I’ve tried most of your techniques but nothings working! Please help mate!!
Sounds like you need more advanced techniques to get her back. Before asking for another meet up, you will need to do 1-2 very important things to get her to bring her guard down and open back up to you. That info is only in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Can’t afford your program dan, can you give me some help
Hey Dan I really need some help im not sure what to do from here
I want to maintain no contact with my ex from today but her birthday in 10days do I need to send birthday wishes or should I still maintain no contact??
Hey Dan, just found out your RUclips channel wish i did it at least 2 weeks earlier sad story. In short i’d like to ask you for an advice: ive been dating this girl for over a year now, weve had troubles along the way but usually we would overcome them. Two weeks ago we had a quarrel i was to blame for some stuff in our relationship we talked for like a week and in the end she said she loved me that she would give me another chance, and we tried to date again but I didn’t feel how to say it, but i didnt feel much involvement from her and when i told her that that was it. She said that she loves me but cant pretend that everything is as it was,that i deserve better than her and she made me feel bad a lot of times(tho truth to speak i didnt feel like that), that she wants to cut all contact with everyone and be left alone, she loves me but at the same time she doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. I love her very much and dont want to leave her side, truth is i was insecure and feeling this 2 weeks, i want to be with her again what can i do to at least ameliorate the current situation and how can i bring her back if at all possible.
Edit: ive met with her today had some fun and talked about lots of things, she told me that she doesnt want to forget about me but still wants to hang out as JUST FRIENDS, this made me upset but i tried not to show it. I wanna br a couple again with her and not just friends cuz it warms my heart when im with her. When i asked her if she still loves me she said that she still has some feelings, not many, for me.
When a woman says that you deserve better, it usually means that you're too nice to her and she wants a guy who is a good guy, but is more ballsy and isn't afraid to put her back in her place in a dominant, but loving way. About being in the friend zone with her, watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
Sorry to bother you again, so regarding the situation:forgot to mention that she was feeling insecure a lot before the breakup, and when the last quarrel took place there was this phrase: "I still love you, but the hate for myself for not paying the required attention to you, for not helping you when you needed and seeing you hurt it is just bigger than the love i have that is why i don't want the relationship" after this phrase came the one with you deserving better and not wanting to be in a relationship because we are not compatible are going to follow the same pattern and quarrel again and everything else don't know if this may sound familiar to you maybe if it does you could give me some tips the cause for that problem was that i snapped because she didn't pay enough attention to me and what i did, anyway returning back to present i have talked with my ex and we agreed to meet up in a cafe the day after tomorrow, but she said that she wants to be alone and doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone anymore right now so even if she agrees to meet it will just be as friends and asked me not to hope for anything more and not try to change anything because she is not ready atm then i made the mistake of joking like "I can still make you fall for me the same way you did before", the response was an indifferent one and smth along the lines of "no you cant do that if i said that i want to be alone" i don't want to f*uck smth up again and i'm planning on slowly regaining everything and least to try to, you said to be dominant but in a loving way if at all possible could you give me some tips or maybe a link to a video that i may by chance missed on your channel that would be very helpful in this situation i've learned my lesson well, i was a downer most of the time and regretted everything i did leading to the breakup had a bad breakup and then begged and did all the wrong stuff, sounds kinda silly but your videos as i said regret not coming across them sooner, they motivated me very much to develop myself and become better or should i say myself again, because i lost my drive somewhere along the way when i tried to become a perfect man and not be myself the person she fell for, well anyway i learned my lesson i still hope that i can make up with her if not that means that this is it and i have to move on holding all the good memories i had and all the new things a learned.
Edit: regarding the upcoming day of valentines, and her birthday this friday should i try to give her a present or that would just make things worse? And i dont want her to feel like “wow how good it is to be with him when he is just a friend i should leave it as it is because i like it”
No, a present won't do anything to change the situation. She broke up with you because you don't make her feel the kind of attraction she knows she wants. You can't make her feel that attraction with a gift or flowers. It's about you. In your case, you literally have to level up and become a much more confident, ballsy version of yourself. That is the only thing that will get her to pay attention. That and the other, somewhat easier to use techniques that I teach in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Dan Bacon thank you for your tips man, well we met today and had some coffee i gave her the present cuz i saw that she was feeling miserable, didn’t push for a relationship and tried to have a nice chat about things, asked her if we could stay friends for now, she said “srly i cant even tell rn, i have so many mixed feelings about all this” dunno if its a good sign or a bad one, anyway ill just keep watching your videos and try to level up myself.
Hey Dan ! I followed your steps to get her back my talking over the phone and i was able to make her smile and laugh through the call and yes I felt that i was confidence when talking. But when texting her via whatsapp should i greet her good morning or goodnight (as the first person to do) ?
Man i love you, you helped me a lot
I hope I get my ex to still love me
Hello, I’m trying to get my ex back, but as the time pass by, she loses more and more attraction for me, or she makes it look on that way. She now prefer to walk with other guy and that guy makes her laugh and have fun. What should I do? I see her everyday, but she doesn’t want to be near me. Please help me, also by messages she doesn’t want to text, we broke up 3 weeks ago. Hope you reply me
If she has moved on with another guy, use this approach: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html To make her really want you again, you will need to use a different approach to attraction. This includes via text, on the phone and in person. Here are some texting tips for you: ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html
Dan Bacon thank you so much. But what about if she doesn’t even want to text me back? What should I do in order to make her want to text me back? And when she does text me back.. she takes like 2 or 3 days to reply to one of my messages.. what do you recommend for me?
Dan Bacon also.. tomorrow is Valentine’s Day.. should I get something for her? She told me” please don’t come on Valentine’s Day to my house or please don’t bring me any gift. What should I do? Help!
damn this is so helpful, thanks a lot
She said i didnt make her happy and now shes moved on she said its too late to try again what should i do please help sir.
If she has moved on, you need to use this approach to get her back: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html
Does this work to get boys back
Hi, I need an advice on how to act now. I had a long distane relationship my ex girlfriend, different states, we have been seeing each other lately this last 2 months, we've been going on trips just the 2 of us, we've slept together as well and have rekindle during these times. She stopped texting for 4 days, and last night she texted me saying to forgive her for not having the courage to get back into a solid relationship with me right now, that she loved me so much in the past and cares a lot about me still, but her life right now is a mess and can't concéntrate on getting back together, that she needs to put her self together first. What is the best thing I can do right now.?
Great video 🤔 keep it up
Thanks Tony!
how to initiate text or chat to interact/re attract her . Thankyou Dan hoping someone to reply
Hey Dan, what if my ex happened to go back to talking to her old ex in the timespan that we broke up? It's been about 3 months and I think she just kind of settled because I didn't really show her I wanted her after hooking up. What should I do? She says that she thinks she will be happy with him and because he is one of her exes i feel that it may be a bit of a stronger connection than just a simple new guy? I know he didn't use your techniques, but just got lucky or rebounded to. There long distance and will be for years if she does get back with him. what should I do?
If she is moving on with him, you need to use this approach to get her back: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html
Great video thank you....
Thanks Virginia!
Hi dan, not sure where to start, I'm watching videos of yourself and I don't think you can help with this one, the last year or so I've struggled a lot with depression and I pushed my ex wife away and I truly wasn't myself and I was horrible and tried turning people against her, tried suicide and I've been seeking help and I'm starting to feel like my old self again and I've been trying some things in your videos and we had a heart to heart tonight and she said there was no going back, so I'm not sure if there is anything you can suggest really, please help
Sorry post again dan, we talked again tonight, and she said she can't go back because of what other people think after how I was and what I put her through, she said she was in a different place, we kissed the other night and she stopped it as she said it would have been wrong and it didn't feel like it used to either, doesn't want to give me the wrong impression, christ I'm so confused and I'm not sure what road to take any more, I've tried lots stuff from your vids making her laugh and stuff but nothing seems to work, I have changed massively in the last 5 weeks thanks to my couseling and yr tips but I genuinely think this is last fixing, sorry but I don't know if yr system will work, we have a disabled little boy as well and I miss us being a team
Hey Dan what if she says that we will probably only hang out if we are with a group of friends.
Can I apply this to my wife
Hi dan love ur videos well i still talk to my ex she is single mother and she broke up with me bc i was being Insecure and jeloues of her ex guy bc he is still in the picture bc of her son and i would always worry about that and she finally had enough and broke up with me she says she still loves me and we txt everday but i cant get her to give another chance she worries i will go back to my old ways we still see each other at times and there still somthing there but she just doesnt give me a chance i worry that maybe she might go back to her son dad ... i love her so much dan thanks for your help
In a case like yours, you need to stop trying to get a relationship. Just focus on making her want you by being different to how you were before. Don't go on and on about how you are different. Just be different (i.e. no longer display any of that insecurity, fear or jealousy about her ex). Additionally, you can also use other techniques to make her feel like she is losing you and needs to get you back quickly. All is explained here: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Thank you dan everthing i have watched is making more sense . i appercaite your help your adivce is so helpful she said she missed me for the first time and that she felt like she need me it was so amazing so im continue watching your videos and taking ur advice ..and im stop worrying about her ex and just focus on trying to build that spark and atteraction she had for me ....just one more question dan and thank you so after awhile of building that attraction and spark again will she be the one asking for a reletionship or should I ...i dont want to mess up i really love her ...thank you dan and your work is amazing i see you help alot ppl thank u again
Please tell me I'm hurting
Hi Dan! Can i get my ex back and marry her for life? We both are currently married to diff partners but we still talk daily for hours and still have that love connection. Although through words, she says now that she is married to her husband she can't marry me now and calls it a destiny and all. Although when she was in my town for 6.months we kept meeting and came very close sexually also
There are a lot of "ifs" when it comes to a situation like that. However, if you and her feel like you should be together, it usually happens despite the difficult circumstances. This video will help you: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
hie Dan l enjoy your vidz and learning more although l have not attempted the flow. l broke up with her 2 days ago and l was the one who made the move now l am now recalling that she is the only one and l want her back so my question would be should l attempt early with your ex back procedure or process to reattract her like now or wait for 5 more days coz if l make a move right now it may seemz like being tooo desperate and in other ways to prevent her from being taken by other guys she is so cool dan need help pliz ..live in Africa looking forward for your responce thnx Bacon
If you think she will accept you back quickly, then go ahead and contact her tomorrow. If you think she will need a bit more time to stop feeling angry at you, give her a week. Then, do this: ruclips.net/video/C8SY44KANQE/видео.html
Hey Dan. Can this program help with a situation of seperated but still living together? Thx in advance.
I'm in a position and I need to know what to do next. Can you help me?
We've got two kids. It's killing me
55555 views thank u thank u thank u so much universe
1:55 is basically describing me 🥺💔 this video is basically me I miss my ex because she means the world to me and i really want her because life is hard and its also hard to be happy anymore 🥺🔫💔
hi dan :) i have problem me and my girl broke up november last year and im doing the no contact rule :( in the 1st week im amaze because she text me and wanting me back :( but the "no contact rule" said that dont contct ur ex no matter what happen :'( i really miss my girl but sad thing about it is she have a new guy now and there are long distance relationship(thats the good thing) i want my girl to feel attracted again :( i just want some advice :)
This is why I never recommend the NC rule. It didn't get your ex back. She moved on. These two videos will help you: ruclips.net/video/1bXsYo8fW2g/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/ZCin073JNKs/видео.html
Dan I need help !
Or maybe anyone here on the comment section who done this successfully, I need replies !
I started interacting with my ex a week after the “break up” (we didn’t say we broke up) and she was cold and all and I threw in some humor and being light, I tried to arrange a meeting a day after interacting and went over to her (a 1 hour drive) and even though it felt like she didn’t wanted to meet I was assertive and confident and met her at the supermarket with her mom and she was surprised I went to say hello and I was really light and smiley, we talked for a minute and also spoke to her mom (her mom really loves me) and cracked a few jokes with my ex and got her smiling and stuff, we hugged and separated
She still haven’t sent a massage since then (2 days ago)
And now I’m going for a week of work and can’t plan to see her during this week
Should I interact via massages? Or should I wait until ill be able to see her in person and then send her a massage or so ?
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She haven't contact me in months. Every time I go tact he she usually brings up thing I did wrong or she's starts am argument. She's I a relationship now. It kills me but I feel my hands are tight. I can't meet her, contact her because she not open to talk or meet. What can I do? What's should I do? I haven't talk to her in 2 months.
Are you contacting her via text? If so, don't do that. Don't behind texts. If you are calling her, then laugh at her for being a pain in the ass when she brings up what you did wrong. She's waiting for you to create a spark with her. Make it happen.
Yeah, usually. She don't want me calling her. I'll try again. I'll try to call her and try get her to meet. I really don't want to push her to him by calling her and getting into argument. I would say it's a rebound, she got with him a few days after we broke up, one of her friends
If she has moved on, I highly recommend that you watch this: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html About her not wanting you to call her: If you want her back, you can't play by her rules. You have to do what works (i.e. attract her on a phone call and in person). If you play by her rules and only text her, it's much more likely that you will turn her off, or she will be argumentative or play hard to get.
Hi Dan, does this apply to asians?
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