We first covered Uncle Mun Cheong in 2018, when he was still operating his stall at Chinatown. Thought it was quite annoying to ask for likes and shares during the video, but do give us some support by liking, subscribing and sharing! You can check out the original video at: ruclips.net/video/F5IIcFdR1iI/видео.html
@@omega_3_998 yeah I thought the same thing, especially when he said he lived in Chinatown. I was looking forward to visiting his stall when I came to Singapore, but I guess it can't happen anymore :< Wish all the best for him and his wife!
@@minhchau1719 Hey! You could always come by and visit Mun Cheong's older brother's dessert stall at Chinatown Complex! They sell similar desserts! ruclips.net/video/F5IIcFdR1iI/видео.html You might spot Mun Cheong and his wife there too!
You will be surprise that most seniors with dementia may not remember their children but it's always their partners ❤️ I work in a nursing home and have a fair share of stories like this.
@@condorX2 At your own risk. Some of them can even tell you that you're lying to them. I personally wouldn't recommend playing mind games unless it's necessary. E.g. Not wanting to shower for days (Common behaviour among seniors living with dementia) and it's really important for them to maintain hygiene.
This is the most beautiful thing I have seen since my dad took care of my mom up until her death. She had 2 strokes, and 3 bouts of cancer before she died. He absolutely refused to put her in a nursing home and she was blessed to be able to die in her own bed in her house with Dad by her side the entire time. He loves her still and can't wait to be with her again. They were married 48 years when she died. Another beautiful example of true love. We miss you Mom.
My dad went through the exact same situation, he took care of my mum every moment, we all accompanied her through repeated hospital visits for chemo and endless treatments.. my mum fought hard under my dad's care until she passed in 2020. I've lost my grandma and grandpa too since then and the number of my family is just getting lesser and lesser something I never imagined I would have need to go through when I was a little kid..
Umm. There's two people in the relationship. Meaning it takes two to work on the fate they were bestowed in this lifetime. Love is the only thing real, everything else is an illusion. If they want to reincarnate they will find each other as their bond is strong in this lifetime
5:35 it sounds as if uncle was choking abit on his tears. my heart broke when he said the cantonese saying, you could really feel how much he cherish her. Our society is really progressing at such a rapid pace and sometimes I wonder how scared and anxious our elderlies feel when facing the unknown... Truly, dementia is such a horrible thing - it takes away every memory you share with your loved one... Good health to uncle and auntie, and thank you for your wise words....
Watched till the end and it gets sad. I could tell you that not many would want to stay with their partner any longer when one of them got diagnosed badly. Some left because they couldn’t bear the burden, but here we got an uncle who keeps his promises and vows just like they did 50 years ago 😢
Most people marry for sex or money so obviously when you lost either one of it , it is just too miserable to go on. From the town I come fro., Sibu divorce is rare amongst retireees. Most would choose to drag on in grudge and sufferings. Domestic violence mostly in verbal abuse is common.
I am in tears just to hear how devote he is to her, and still love her and still treasure her....May they be together til the end without suffering too greatly🤦♂️🤦♀️🙏🙇♀️...
@@Embole-uk1tlThank you. Hopefully, you know she is dementia, sometime she couldn't not recognise him then she would asked you who this man. ,,😂 ...he looked after her but she a few time ran off. Then mum in law had to move to aged care facility, and dad in law go to see her everyday... sometime she came to see him.
I believe there are very loyal zodiac signs that will keep their promise till the end, like cancer , Capricorn etc. Also we create our own reality. If we are pure, we also attract pure soul mates in our lives (same can be said for superficiality). We can manifest our true love if we want
In india,most of the wives would take care of their husband even in their period of sickness ,to say it simple till their last breath,but very very rare to see that the husband would take care of his wife in the same way during wive's hardtime.After seeing this couple,the world become hopeful.
That's imbalanced, and not a good environment esp for children. It will create too much ancestral karma. Finding true love and harmonious relationship has to be balance, like the yin and yang ☯️
my mother has dementia for about seven years now and she totally forgot who my brother and I were to her but recently she called me by my name and cried like a baby....its devastating not only to the person but also the family.
Hope this sweet elderly couple is still living well and happy now. Hope the wife dementia condition can get better or at least don't get worse. May them be healthy and happy till their last moments
You can patronise his elder brother's stall at Chinatown Food Complex. They sell similar desserts! PS. You might spot Mun Cheong and Yong Jnn hanging out at his brother's stall ;) ruclips.net/video/F5IIcFdR1iI/видео.html
Dementia is really sad. You just have to be patient, talk to them and listen to them. The good thing I would say is that I saw the love that my grandparents have for each other.
So very true. My mother has it and it is totally heart breaking. Feels like you want to cry but no tears are coming out. She lost everything. She didn't even know me as her son. Devastating.
@@MrBoliao98 definitely well-kempt especially considering Mun Cheong at 80yrs looks like the only one cleaning, cooking and caring for his wife. I’m sure a lot of the stuff in the house help ground Yong Jnn and reminds her of who & where she is.
It looks like a normal 3 room flat to me. I live in a 3 room flat and so do my grandparents. You must be a rich heir or smth Edit: Their kitchen looks bigger than an old 3 room estate
Dementia seems to the worse possible thing, you spend your entire life making treasured memories especially with your significant other or even family and one day your brain starts deteriorating. Progressively getting worse, I've got older relatives and I don't look forward to this stage in their life. 😓
My father is suffering from dementia..about 6-years after his diagnosis,mom was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Mom is physically sick.dad is mentally sick.
@@ycl9234 not that simple. My late grandpa had Dementia. It gets to a point where he just eat, sleep, stare at TV shows with no reaction. Even when we all talk to him, there is nothing. It’s like his soul had already left his body. Very easy to say this, but are you willing to clean your dad/Mum private parts after they soil themselves? That is a impt question. Sometimes it’s not a matter whether we want or not, it’s whether can we do it? Will your employer let you take frequent annual leave or leaving work early? Most of the time, we can’t. So we had to hire private nurse and a maid to take care of him.
@Matsotello Molefe My grandma told me similar, she does crossword puzzles and activities that stimulates her brain rather than not do that. She said she read an article that said it helps, never stopped since with her brain activities.
This loving husband has demonstrated what true love means. In our highly materialistic society today, most couples marry for money and good times. However, when the money or good time is gone, and so is their love. How sad! Honestly, if I am young and just want good times, I don't need to get married. In my opinion, marriage means to find your better second half who really loves and appreciates you no matter if it is in good times or in bad situations. A loving spouse will encourage you when you fail, wipe your tears when you are sad, life you up when you fall, and stay by your bedside when you are sick. When there is true love, it doesn't matter how much work you do in caring for your ailing spouse, you will still find joy from it. Have you ever wonder why you have chosen your spouse out of more than 7 billion people in the world? I hope that all married couples would love and appreciate your second half just like the loving husband in the video.
My grandmother gave me some sage words of advice; a wedding is lovely but is nothing but fluff and ceremony. A marriage is the important thing and is how well you stick to your vows every day after. It means when times are hard, when you aren’t getting along, through the sleepless nights and when your partner is sick, you stand by them, support them, encourage them and advocate for them as best you can. It has helped me immensely and 23 years later we are still going strong..
I used to work at nursing homes back in Australia and took care of people with dementia. I LOVE THAT JOB.!!! People with dementia are my favorites. I love them differently from others.!!! I never get tired in dealing with them!!!It was hard work looking after them but very SATISFYING!!! I have so much memories of them! Talking about it makes me teary and miss them. I had so much fun with them, we used to laugh together, cry together at times I would sit and eat with them. I have many funny stories from the residents. Lol. They are hilarious. Lol. Cherish your family and those that care and love you while they still alive and remember you. Never know what life brings next.
I cried watching this episode. My granny has dementia & my grandfather used to be the one who take care of her daily life including making sure she eats & making sure she takes her medications on time. But Feb 2021, my grandfather passed away, everything seems so different now, home is so quiet (because no one is there to talk to granny & she don’t like to talk to us due to dementia). I miss seeing the both of them at home :(
Reminds me so much of my late grandparents. Grandma use to have pretty severe dementia, but grandpa never got tired of taking care of her day in and out . Tho sometimes it gets frustrating he’s always been so loving and patient with her. I swear , the love our grandparents use to have is so pure and genuine. Back then people use to mean it when they say “till death do us part “.
Going through this problem as well. I dote my mum more than anyone else in this world. Whenever I came back from work,, she would stood there and asked me this question, "who are you? what are you doing in my house?" I cried almost everyday. She always tell me how much she love her son & she misses him, that was when I know she is talking about me, because I'm her only son. I went into depression and was badly affected, not just at work but at home too. Please take care of your parents and spend more time with them.
my grandmother had dementia too. Do pray and look up some good resources on interacting with dementia patients. E.g. love them, laugh with them, hug them (if they're willing) or else just touch them in ways they can appreciate. Give them things they enjoy. Play hymns or soothing music. Use scents they like in the house eg lavender oil or lemongrass or lemon or orange. Talk to them in ways they can understand and never give up, always listen to them. But accept that her brain biochemical processes have caused her to be unable to access memories - accept it, don't contradict her but always smile, be kind, and always love... (I went through the "grieving" process of 'losing' my grandma's mind already; now I'm happy when she's happy, and be happy as they can mirror ur emotions.)
This reminds me of my grandpa suffering from dementia and has forgotten everyone else yet still remembers my granny and their love. Granny passed away last year but we had to tell him shez with a cousin in the US for medical treatment. He would cry and wear multiples clothes and tie a bundle of cloth with biscuits inside and pretend to sleep and once he thinks he has fooled us he would run out to go to my grandma😭. Luckily we live in a close knit society but still scary what if someday he manages to slip past everyone 😭
Please closed eye on him, one of a cousin on my sister husband side. He was young and in a mild stage but got out and he went around talking none sense, people think he is crazy and younsters bullied him, beat the crab out of him....several times the end he passed away from brain damaged😢
😭😭😭😭 this reminds me of how much my grandfather takes care of my grandmother when she was still alive. She got stroke and the left side of her body got paralyzed for years. She couldn't speak much too. They'd usually guess what she's trying to say. My grandfather cleans my grandmother's fake teeth, he gives her her medicines, he always eats with her, breaks down her food into little pieces, etc. She eventually got lung cancer and died. My grandfather was very sad. I don't know how long they've been married they got 6 children, my dad is the 5th child.
I knew of a family who were so loving & caring towards their 87year old mother who was suffering from dementia.The son would let her stay in her reverie since the mother's memory had taken her back to the time she was a young girl staying at her parents house & would think that her son was her elder brother & ask him to take her back to her parents house.The son would then take her out for a ride & let her sing & enjoy the outdoors before coaxing her to get her back home.He would listen to her & keep her engaged.She lived a very happy & peaceful life till she reached 92 years of age & left this world in her sleep.
We often forget how fragile life is and take everything for granted. Cherish every moment we have with our loved ones and always treat them as if its the last time you're seeing them.
My grandfather and grandmother are both the same age as them, with my grandmother having dementia as well. This just made me cry and regret how much time I didn't spend with them when they were here.
As someone who looks after dementia sufferers, my heart aches for them, repeating the same conversation, and often they know they are losing their memories, at times they burst into tears and breakdown over it, and their spouse, feels lost from it... I pray me and my fiance never face this heartache
I once helped out with a charity org. It seems some with dementia can totally forget about everything and some have short term memory lost but remember clearly what happened 70 to 80 years back.
Brings tears to my eyes, not only from how Dementia robs memories away but also how he has resigned to coping with his wife suffering from it 🥺 His love for her is not only admirable but incredibly beautiful ❤❤❤ I know it so very well when my dad had Dementia before finally succumbed to a heart attack & passed on 😔 I wish you both a long, happy life together
Listening to uncle talks of his wife's appetites, I think she has Lewy Body dementia. My mom had Lewy Body dementia, beside memory loss, the loss of appetite as well as body weights.
If this gentleman is not a real man then I don’t know who is and thank you for not abandoned your wife and to care for her and it’s hard but in the end you will be embraced by heaven for being a kind man and a wonderful heart and I wish you two the best of the best in every journey you two may cross
This is never easy. Especially when a couple is together for more than half their life time. I know it first hand, my mum is currently experiencing dementia and my dad is taking care of her.
There's nothing in this world that could ever destruct the willful power of love that pushes through boundaries and difficult circumstances with strength and loyalty.
my father is loosing touch with reality - and its hard to accept. But like this guy said it.... you can forget everything but love will never change. We can't blame them thus we have to work around it. T_T Touching.
My father just seems a bit forget things now, days ago he cant move his body, cant talk, can't take a bath, can't eat by himself, so sudden, and now he can do normal activities but seems he forgeting things, like why he in the place he is now, he forget where i go (i go abroad to work), i'm so afraid he will forget me, I'm not really ready😢😢😢
Thank you brother for you respecting the woman of your rib. You are a fine example of a human being. Many more days and blessings for the both of you. Bro yo and her look great!😇💞😎🥰
Another point from the story: uncle still ran his business long after the average retirement age. Really an inspiration! Thanks for sharing this beautiful content OGS 😍
I lost both of my grandparents to Dimentia. They were married 65 yrs and died 4 months apart. One of the hardest parts was having to remind my grandfather that his wife had passed everytime he asked where she was and watch him take that news as if it were the first time he'd heard it. My heart broke with his everytime😣 He couldn't and didn't want to live wout her. LOVE IS ABSOLUTELY 💫ETERNAL AND INFINITE♥️🔥 God Bless🌻🐞 Love&Light to ALL🙏🏽
To show you love someone comes from action. He was such a good man to give up his business to take care of the wife. I said the wife had to be the luckiest person to have such a wonderful husband. That's called Love.👍👍👍💖💖😎😎
We first covered Uncle Mun Cheong in 2018, when he was still operating his stall at Chinatown. Thought it was quite annoying to ask for likes and shares during the video, but do give us some support by liking, subscribing and sharing! You can check out the original video at: ruclips.net/video/F5IIcFdR1iI/видео.html
no wonder he look so familiar lah! Wow, means i have been a supporter of OGS for years =x
@@omega_3_998 thanks for supporting us all these years! 🙆🏻♀️
@@omega_3_998 yeah I thought the same thing, especially when he said he lived in Chinatown. I was looking forward to visiting his stall when I came to Singapore, but I guess it can't happen anymore :<
Wish all the best for him and his wife!
@@minhchau1719 Hey! You could always come by and visit Mun Cheong's older brother's dessert stall at Chinatown Complex! They sell similar desserts! ruclips.net/video/F5IIcFdR1iI/видео.html You might spot Mun Cheong and his wife there too!
@@OGS.Official I'll definitely pay a visit! 😊
Thank you for bringing such a wonderful story to us, OGS ❤
This uncle honoured the vows "in sickness and in health." He is a great husband.
True we all want that love
I fully agree.
❤❤❤ love 💯💪🦾🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰
Grandma forgets her age but she rmmbrs the love grandpa gives. That is true love 💚💚☺️
You will be surprise that most seniors with dementia may not remember their children but it's always their partners ❤️ I work in a nursing home and have a fair share of stories like this.
Lol I can't tell if she's faking it with all those smiling.
@@matildalieu8139 Can you use trick like reversed psychology on them to do what you want?
@@condorX2 At your own risk. Some of them can even tell you that you're lying to them.
I personally wouldn't recommend playing mind games unless it's necessary. E.g. Not wanting to shower for days (Common behaviour among seniors living with dementia) and it's really important for them to maintain hygiene.
@@matildalieu8139 cheers for the fast reply.
I have a follow up question. What's the basic prevention for dementia?
This is the most beautiful thing I have seen since my dad took care of my mom up until her death. She had 2 strokes, and 3 bouts of cancer before she died. He absolutely refused to put her in a nursing home and she was blessed to be able to die in her own bed in her house with Dad by her side the entire time. He loves her still and can't wait to be with her again. They were married 48 years when she died. Another beautiful example of true love. We miss you Mom.
My condolences 💐 to you and your family I hope your dad is ok now without your mom might be so hard for him. God bless you all.
Lovely, 😍😘😇🙏
Yes we all want that love
Am sorry for your loss may she RIP.
My dad went through the exact same situation, he took care of my mum every moment, we all accompanied her through repeated hospital visits for chemo and endless treatments.. my mum fought hard under my dad's care until she passed in 2020. I've lost my grandma and grandpa too since then and the number of my family is just getting lesser and lesser something I never imagined I would have need to go through when I was a little kid..
My dad had dementia and died in 2014 of a heart attack. This uncle is such a gem. His wife is lucky to have him.
Umm. There's two people in the relationship. Meaning it takes two to work on the fate they were bestowed in this lifetime. Love is the only thing real, everything else is an illusion. If they want to reincarnate they will find each other as their bond is strong in this lifetime
Yes
5:35 it sounds as if uncle was choking abit on his tears. my heart broke when he said the cantonese saying, you could really feel how much he cherish her. Our society is really progressing at such a rapid pace and sometimes I wonder how scared and anxious our elderlies feel when facing the unknown... Truly, dementia is such a horrible thing - it takes away every memory you share with your loved one... Good health to uncle and auntie, and thank you for your wise words....
Yes .. he was choking on his tears before he offered his Cantonese saying & its at that point, im sure many tear up including me 🥺
年轻那么美
If they practice Taoism ☯️ they would be fine.
Watched till the end and it gets sad. I could tell you that not many would want to stay with their partner any longer when one of them got diagnosed badly. Some left because they couldn’t bear the burden, but here we got an uncle who keeps his promises and vows just like they did 50 years ago 😢
Most people marry for sex or money so obviously when you lost either one of it , it is just too miserable to go on. From the town I come fro., Sibu divorce is rare amongst retireees. Most would choose to drag on in grudge and sufferings. Domestic violence mostly in verbal abuse is common.
My father in law 85, he stills want to keep his wife 80 yrs with dementia with him coz he felt lost without her too. They been together since he 20s.
I am in tears just to hear how devote he is to her, and still love her and still treasure her....May they be together til the end without suffering too greatly🤦♂️🤦♀️🙏🙇♀️...
@@Embole-uk1tlThank you. Hopefully, you know she is dementia, sometime she couldn't not recognise him then she would asked you who this man. ,,😂 ...he looked after her but she a few time ran off. Then mum in law had to move to aged care facility, and dad in law go to see her everyday... sometime she came to see him.
I believe there are very loyal zodiac signs that will keep their promise till the end, like cancer , Capricorn etc. Also we create our own reality. If we are pure, we also attract pure soul mates in our lives (same can be said for superficiality). We can manifest our true love if we want
Truly loving husband, no complaints and resentment , respect to him! Truly loving couple.
In india,most of the wives would take care of their husband even in their period of sickness ,to say it simple till their last breath,but very very rare to see that the husband would take care of his wife in the same way during wive's hardtime.After seeing this couple,the world become hopeful.
That's imbalanced, and not a good environment esp for children. It will create too much ancestral karma. Finding true love and harmonious relationship has to be balance, like the yin and yang ☯️
True
@@NetiNeti-gm5bz yes.
@@abinayaradhakrishnan6382 thank you for acknowledging.
He is a loving and devoted husband. I pray to find someone like him🥰
Yes true. God bless you
Hope your wish comes true.
You are a noble man to stick with your wife in sickness and in health. God bless your loyalty and kind heart.
Yes
Uncle still looks good at 80.
Yes aged well
my mother has dementia for about seven years now and she totally forgot who my brother and I were to her but recently she called me by my name and cried like a baby....its devastating not only to the person but also the family.
Oh my dear 😢
God bless you
Ohnim sorry my friend
Hope this sweet elderly couple is still living well and happy now. Hope the wife dementia condition can get better or at least don't get worse. May them be healthy and happy till their last moments
This Chinatown Hawker Centre desserts uncle always keeps his hair neat and tidy..wedding....at work previously and now at home....miss his Ice Jelly
You can patronise his elder brother's stall at Chinatown Food Complex. They sell similar desserts!
PS. You might spot Mun Cheong and Yong Jnn hanging out at his brother's stall ;)
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Yes. I remembered his ice jelly top up with cocktails fruits. Best I had ever eaten.
He has alot of patience and i respect that
Yes amen
Dementia is really sad. You just have to be patient, talk to them and listen to them. The good thing I would say is that I saw the love that my grandparents have for each other.
True
So very true. My mother has it and it is totally heart breaking. Feels like you want to cry but no tears are coming out. She lost everything. She didn't even know me as her son. Devastating.
So rare to find love like this in this modern times.
Truly a lasting commitment to marital vows for eternity.
Yes beautiful
Looks like a small run-down flat, but they are some of the most blessed people. True love is rare.
This is not run down, it's just a retro well-kempt house. Just a generic 3 room flat that a lot of people stay in.
Not very rundown in my opinion though, all it needs is some cleaning and packing (between the tiles especially)
@@MrBoliao98 definitely well-kempt especially considering Mun Cheong at 80yrs looks like the only one cleaning, cooking and caring for his wife. I’m sure a lot of the stuff in the house help ground Yong Jnn and reminds her of who & where she is.
@@weiwenwwe2066 you haven't watch renovaid before, their condition very dignified and kempt
It looks like a normal 3 room flat to me. I live in a 3 room flat and so do my grandparents. You must be a rich heir or smth
Edit: Their kitchen looks bigger than an old 3 room estate
很尊敬 Uncle 对妻子不离不弃的爱情❤和照顾。 👍👏💐
Now THIS is called true love.
Yes true love
Dementia seems to the worse possible thing, you spend your entire life making treasured memories especially with your significant other or even family and one day your brain starts deteriorating. Progressively getting worse, I've got older relatives and I don't look forward to this stage in their life. 😓
So true 😔 Dementia is a horrible thing and it progresses too. I hope that we will find a cure for it one day
The sad thing in most cases nobody wants to care! Even own offsprings or spouse! Most would want a fee!!!!++
My father is suffering from dementia..about 6-years after his diagnosis,mom was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Mom is physically sick.dad is mentally sick.
@@ycl9234 not that simple. My late grandpa had Dementia. It gets to a point where he just eat, sleep, stare at TV shows with no reaction. Even when we all talk to him, there is nothing. It’s like his soul had already left his body.
Very easy to say this, but are you willing to clean your dad/Mum private parts after they soil themselves? That is a impt question.
Sometimes it’s not a matter whether we want or not, it’s whether can we do it? Will your employer let you take frequent annual leave or leaving work early?
Most of the time, we can’t. So we had to hire private nurse and a maid to take care of him.
@Matsotello Molefe My grandma told me similar, she does crossword puzzles and activities that stimulates her brain rather than not do that. She said she read an article that said it helps, never stopped since with her brain activities.
Hearts never ever forget. True love never dies.
This loving husband has demonstrated what true love means. In our highly materialistic society today, most couples marry for money and good times. However, when the money or good time is gone, and so is their love. How sad!
Honestly, if I am young and just want good times, I don't need to get married.
In my opinion, marriage means to find your better second half who really loves and appreciates you no matter if it is in good times or in bad situations.
A loving spouse will encourage you when you fail, wipe your tears when you are sad, life you up when you fall, and stay by your bedside when you are sick. When there is true love, it doesn't matter how much work you do in caring for your ailing spouse, you will still find joy from it.
Have you ever wonder why you have chosen your spouse out of more than 7 billion people in the world? I hope that all married couples would love and appreciate your second half just like the loving husband in the video.
My grandmother gave me some sage words of advice; a wedding is lovely but is nothing but fluff and ceremony. A marriage is the important thing and is how well you stick to your vows every day after. It means when times are hard, when you aren’t getting along, through the sleepless nights and when your partner is sick, you stand by them, support them, encourage them and advocate for them as best you can. It has helped me immensely and 23 years later we are still going strong..
please God don't take my memory from me. this is so heart wrenching. I'm crying because I know how much this affect our loved ones...
I used to work at nursing homes back in Australia and took care of people with dementia.
I LOVE THAT JOB.!!!
People with dementia are my favorites.
I love them differently from others.!!!
I never get tired in dealing with them!!!It was hard work looking after them but very SATISFYING!!!
I have so much memories of them! Talking about it makes me teary and miss them.
I had so much fun with them, we used to laugh together, cry together at times I would sit and eat with them. I have many funny stories from the residents. Lol. They are hilarious. Lol.
Cherish your family and those that care and love you while they still alive and remember you. Never know what life brings next.
Bless you're so my friend
You are a true angel. 👍💐
i started bursting into tears.....
Oooooh of all places
What a beautiful person this grandpa is 🥲
I cried watching this episode. My granny has dementia & my grandfather used to be the one who take care of her daily life including making sure she eats & making sure she takes her medications on time. But Feb 2021, my grandfather passed away, everything seems so different now, home is so quiet (because no one is there to talk to granny & she don’t like to talk to us due to dementia). I miss seeing the both of them at home :(
I shed a tear at the last part. He is so sweet and dedicated to his wife.
Reminds me so much of my late grandparents. Grandma use to have pretty severe dementia, but grandpa never got tired of taking care of her day in and out . Tho sometimes it gets frustrating he’s always been so loving and patient with her. I swear , the love our grandparents use to have is so pure and genuine. Back then people use to mean it when they say “till death do us part “.
Going through this problem as well. I dote my mum more than anyone else in this world.
Whenever I came back from work,, she would stood there and asked me this question, "who are you? what are you doing in my house?"
I cried almost everyday. She always tell me how much she love her son & she misses him, that was when I know she is talking about me, because I'm her only son.
I went into depression and was badly affected, not just at work but at home too.
Please take care of your parents and spend more time with them.
Be strong..
my grandmother had dementia too. Do pray and look up some good resources on interacting with dementia patients. E.g. love them, laugh with them, hug them (if they're willing) or else just touch them in ways they can appreciate. Give them things they enjoy. Play hymns or soothing music. Use scents they like in the house eg lavender oil or lemongrass or lemon or orange. Talk to them in ways they can understand and never give up, always listen to them. But accept that her brain biochemical processes have caused her to be unable to access memories - accept it, don't contradict her but always smile, be kind, and always love... (I went through the "grieving" process of 'losing' my grandma's mind already; now I'm happy when she's happy, and be happy as they can mirror ur emotions.)
This reminds me of my grandpa suffering from dementia and has forgotten everyone else yet still remembers my granny and their love. Granny passed away last year but we had to tell him shez with a cousin in the US for medical treatment. He would cry and wear multiples clothes and tie a bundle of cloth with biscuits inside and pretend to sleep and once he thinks he has fooled us he would run out to go to my grandma😭. Luckily we live in a close knit society but still scary what if someday he manages to slip past everyone 😭
I cried reading this 😭😭
@@Kangkuuung 😢
Please closed eye on him, one of a cousin on my sister husband side. He was young and in a mild stage but got out and he went around talking none sense, people think he is crazy and younsters bullied him, beat the crab out of him....several times the end he passed away from brain damaged😢
@@Embole-uk1tl dear lord that's terrible 😭
😭😭😭😭 this reminds me of how much my grandfather takes care of my grandmother when she was still alive. She got stroke and the left side of her body got paralyzed for years. She couldn't speak much too. They'd usually guess what she's trying to say. My grandfather cleans my grandmother's fake teeth, he gives her her medicines, he always eats with her, breaks down her food into little pieces, etc. She eventually got lung cancer and died. My grandfather was very sad. I don't know how long they've been married they got 6 children, my dad is the 5th child.
I knew of a family who were so loving & caring towards their 87year old mother who was suffering from dementia.The son would let her stay in her reverie since the mother's memory had taken her back to the time she was a young girl staying at her parents house & would think that her son was her elder brother & ask him to take her back to her parents house.The son would then take her out for a ride & let her sing & enjoy the outdoors before coaxing her to get her back home.He would listen to her & keep her engaged.She lived a very happy & peaceful life till she reached 92 years of age & left this world in her sleep.
So love to hear how sweet he talks about their marriage..
Yes it is amazing
We often forget how fragile life is and take everything for granted. Cherish every moment we have with our loved ones and always treat them as if its the last time you're seeing them.
My grandfather and grandmother are both the same age as them, with my grandmother having dementia as well. This just made me cry and regret how much time I didn't spend with them when they were here.
After you are dead, only love survives the grave. All good people will be met by Love on the other side.
Yes true my friend
True love ❤️ is unconditional ❤️
True love is so rare. I pray to be one of the lucky ones. When BOTH are in love. Not just one.
I wish you all the best my friend
As someone who looks after dementia sufferers, my heart aches for them, repeating the same conversation, and often they know they are losing their memories, at times they burst into tears and breakdown over it, and their spouse, feels lost from it... I pray me and my fiance never face this heartache
the best thing you can ask for in life :). so precious
It is precious like you
Wedding photo of them is so beautiful 😍, What a Handsome pair
I once helped out with a charity org. It seems some with dementia can totally forget about everything and some have short term memory lost but remember clearly what happened 70 to 80 years back.
I got tears in my eyes. It is not easy to find a partner who would love and stay with you during your darkest times.
Brings tears to my eyes, not only from how Dementia robs memories away but also how he has resigned to coping with his wife suffering from it 🥺
His love for her is not only admirable but incredibly beautiful ❤❤❤
I know it so very well when my dad had Dementia before finally succumbed to a heart attack & passed on 😔
I wish you both a long, happy life together
Listening to uncle talks of his wife's appetites, I think she has Lewy Body dementia. My mom had Lewy Body dementia, beside memory loss, the loss of appetite as well as body weights.
What a love story of 2 pwople is inlove even do grandma ia suffering from dimentia god bless u both
A lovely couple. He shows so much of sincerity both are inseparable. God bless.
If this gentleman is not a real man then I don’t know who is and thank you for not abandoned your wife and to care for her and it’s hard but in the end you will be embraced by heaven for being a kind man and a wonderful heart and I wish you two the best of the best in every journey you two may cross
I agree with you I agree with you
Granny looks so pretty when she was young..
This is never easy. Especially when a couple is together for more than half their life time. I know it first hand, my mum is currently experiencing dementia and my dad is taking care of her.
Indeed. True love is hard and is long suffering. Its not about fluttering passion, but a lifetime commitment.
I agree my friend
God bless him and her.
An incredibly moving story! Love how Uncle says” It takes thousand years being cultivated to be married to each other”
True love story my friend
A true love unconditionally..caring for each other in heath and sickness ..all the very best to u 2 .👍
She's blessed to have such a faithful husband! Nowadays we seldom have this type of husband!
He hold on firmly on that Chinese philosophy in marriage. Man like him is real rare to find nowadays.
God Bless this beautiful couple. Hope they will be healthy for years to come.
There's nothing in this world that could ever destruct the willful power of love that pushes through boundaries and difficult circumstances with strength and loyalty.
Heart warming love. To be cherished. God bless them.
Been together for 52 years...you are very responsible & caring husband ...Thank you for your story uncle Mun Cheong
To grow old and be in love is an unparalleled blessing ❤
my father is loosing touch with reality - and its hard to accept. But like this guy said it.... you can forget everything but love will never change. We can't blame them thus we have to work around it. T_T Touching.
very lovable couple. true love does exists.
My father just seems a bit forget things now, days ago he cant move his body, cant talk, can't take a bath, can't eat by himself, so sudden, and now he can do normal activities but seems he forgeting things, like why he in the place he is now, he forget where i go (i go abroad to work), i'm so afraid he will forget me, I'm not really ready😢😢😢
I send you grandpa and grandma all my best wishes and hugs. I wish you both good health and continue to be strong.
Now that's TRUE LOVE. You say it best, when you say Nothing at All..May God Bless them both with Good Health, Uncle for Strength
I think this is the most beautiful love story on the whole of the internet. ❤
This is LOVE IN ACTION>
God bless both of them for a long and happy life together.
Wonderfull husband and wife so loving and so caring god bless them
Thank you brother for you respecting the woman of your rib. You are a fine example of a human being. Many more days and blessings for the both of you. Bro yo and her look great!😇💞😎🥰
Wow, 52 years!!
They're so nice and amazing.. hehe
Wow what a gentle and kind man! So moved
Such genuine feelings... Admirable...
Another point from the story: uncle still ran his business long after the average retirement age. Really an inspiration! Thanks for sharing this beautiful content OGS 😍
This couple is truly forever lasting love 💕💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹
Beautiful people with beautifully soul
This is what true love looks n feels like... Amazingly beautiful
wedding photo of a Beautiful couple...yesterday,today and tomorrow😍
Im crying.. of this beautiful story between man and woman
This is the true meaning of joyful and hapiness♡
Thank you for sharing this beautiful yet heart breaking story. This is the definition of love ❤️. I wish them all the best
he is great n his quotes. God bless dem
Love is something that develops over many many years
This was so sentimental and sweet.
What a wonderful husband!!!! This is everyone dream to be loved and well taken care off.
This is so heartwarming to see bless them
You are a remarkable man. I have so much respect for men who loves & takes care of their wives in times like these
So heart touching.. May God continue to take care of them
I lost both of my grandparents to Dimentia. They were married 65 yrs and died 4 months apart. One of the hardest parts was having to remind my grandfather that his wife had passed everytime he asked where she was and watch him take that news as if it were the first time he'd heard it. My heart broke with his everytime😣 He couldn't and didn't want to live wout her. LOVE IS ABSOLUTELY 💫ETERNAL AND INFINITE♥️🔥 God Bless🌻🐞 Love&Light to ALL🙏🏽
What a beautiful couple so devoted to each other after so many years together. Caring for her in such ducficult times shows how deep the love is. ❤❤
Such a lovely couple, uncle taking care his wife so,patient with her. God bless them both ❤️❤️❤️
❤️. Words fail me coz I understand completely. I wish there was a cure for this. I wish.. I wish..
So nice love story...its great.kudos to husband he loves his wife soooooo much.God bless you two...
It made me cry, so much love and understanding for each 😘😍🥰
we miss u uncle and auntie...you both takecare! love ur story 😥❤
God bless this couple in so many ways. ❤😭
Soulmates💞🙏 God Bless
True love salute to this grNdpa may you too live long
To show you love someone comes from action. He was such a good man to give up his business to take care of the wife. I said the wife had to be the luckiest person to have such a wonderful husband. That's called Love.👍👍👍💖💖😎😎