The Best Life Advice You’ve Ever Heard is Probably Wrong
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2020
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In this short, fiction story, we follow a man's journey through different parts of the world, collecting a variety of wisdoms along the way, only to conclude one consistent thing from all of them.
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“The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.” -Mr.Watts
"Why do so many people need help? Life is not that complicated. You get up, you go to work, eat three meals, you take one good shit and you go back to bed. What’s the fucking mystery?!" - George Carlin
Sharingan
humans in general are bunch of stupid kids pretending to be grown wise adults by making things complicated. But hey im just an another idiot that comments on this thread so just disregard this comment if you think its stupid.
eh Hanz eh, pretty insightful.
"I'm thinking tacos" - Manson.
He probably said that once
'Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced' -Soren Kierkegaard
Once upon a time the human race was none the worse for its non-existence.
An experience, if you think about it, requires you to solve multiple set out problems made out of more intricate problems, complications, and observations.
Thanks Big Papa Orgy
Chris felt a sense of immense clarity in this quote as he thought about it over to himself. It made great sense to him and sounded appropriately wise. Still somewhat unsatiated chris continued on his travels..
@@animationspace8550 not necessarily, no. An experience is just an occurrence by which a conscious mind is present and aware of its respective surroundings and circumstances. It requires detection (senses) and process (reception senses and thought processes). The type of problem solving you’ve just described is merely one type of experience.
"Guys chill with the quotes"
-me
Lfmaoo
😅🤣😂
😂 lamo
"No"
- Me
😂😂
'The best life advice you've heard is probably wrong' - The best life advice I've heard.
A paradox!
Arkadeep, I think you will enjoy this:
The following sentence is absolutely true.
The preceding sentence is absolutely false.
It says "probaably"
Vsauce music*
@@kulanchandrasekaran4462 Wow, these things which you said are never ending cycle. Read and think over and over just to discover that this makes sense and no sense at the same time.
The probably part is there to save some 😂
'In zen we don't find the answers, we lose the questions.' - Zen saying
Excellent
BTW That reminds me a *little* bit of this by Sextus Empiricus "Those who claim for themselves to judge the truth are bound to possess a criterion of truth. This criterion, then, either is without a judge's approval or has been approved. But if it is without approval, whence comes it that it is truthworthy? For no matter of dispute is to be trusted without judging. And, if it has been approved, that which approves it, in turn, either has been approved or has not been approved, and so on ad infinitum." Because of these and other barriers to acquiring true beliefs, Sextus Empiricus advises that we should suspend judgment about virtually all beliefs; that is to say, we should neither affirm any belief as true nor deny any belief as false"
@@IamThat00 I'm sorry but I didn't understand. Can you please sum it up in a line or two?
No, that is not anywhere in any Zen text.
@@sarry__3736 in simple words, he meant "if a leader or someone who claims to know the truth and passes on the wisdom, no one can prove that his truth that he's passing on to other people is actually true or not and lets say we manage to get someone else to back up the claim that its true but now how do we know that this new person knows the truth. this forms an infinite cycle. so all beliefs like religion etc should not be considered as true or false because we just dont know enough, unless you have concrete proof(which is why its a belief not a fact)
And then Chris started a RUclips Channel called Pursuit of Wonder.
Damn😂🔥
Oh shi
I mean Pursuit of Wonder used to have the voice of an old man.
Lmaooo😂
@@kerzariz8717 he became young when he came back from China
" I'm sorry Chris, but it's impossible to be with someone who is never happy."
Damn, I felt that.
sad truth
Its also impossible to be with someone who's always happy as well . But yeah that quote really stuck with me .
This hits me hard!
My gf recently left me exactly bc of this
@@avoavoavo not being happy Definitely is the reason for growth but to a few few who can endure it without self destructing
I’m not joking about this, as a Z generation child, i have been born to the internet and to the endless void of all the shitty content yet this is the best content creator i’ve ever seen, i am grateful for being able to watch all this. Internet is not so bad after all lmao.
Me too bro
tru
Agree
ong
I feel bad for the people still stuck on that void
Don't take life too seriously. No one gets out alive.
Deep
Didn't Jim Morrison of The Doors say that?
Van Wilder
You get yours baby, I'll get mine..gonna make it baby in our prime!
there is no return
"The only wisdom is in knowing you know nothing." -Socrates
@C C badass even in the face of death 👏🏼
How can you be so sure? :-)
@@Skoda130 have you read Plato?
good quote but I feel like I see it multiples times a week. It is interesting that is resonates with so many people so deeply
Socrates says that but he's a bit of a prick at times
what's really impressive is chris knowing all languages known to mankind and being able to easely have a conversation with any one
They speak English in other countries,,,
@@lightbeingpontifex you have never visited other countries haven't you
he talked to each country's wisest...so they might know how to speak english
@@uzieluzieluzieluzieluzielu6021 wisest doesn't mean smartest
@@Ihaaab it actually means that 😂🤦♂️
“everyone is their own hero and their own villain in their own story”
-Baco
I don't think i have any lead part in the movie
@@PIERRECLARY then you are a passive protagonist, but the camera is following you regardless, so even the little things matter :)
Good advice what you think through
Good advice hope it comes to you
Good advice maybe very old or new
Good advice one plus one to be two
Good advice is taken by the lucky few
Who the hell is Baco?
The best life advice I've ever gotten is that everyone is right in their own little world.
Not only are they right in there own little worlds but un the whole world since most the things people believe stem from opinions and not objective facts and as you probably know it is impossible to disprove an opinion since you know it's an opinion.
True. Sometimes I think introversion is the best for everyone.
@@PajamaManor yep, in your little world thats right
I like to think everyone is wrong in their own little world.
Because how can 1 truly comprehend the vastness of life? So heptic. So crazy. So many emotions.
And it's wrong.
"Beware of false knowledge; it is more dangerous than ignorance."
― George Bernard Shaw
Question Everything - Thought Provoking Ideas how many quotes do you even have bro
Aha
Question Everything had an apt quote for all situations,.. It's great
'FAKE NEWS'!
Ahimsa42 not to mention a lot of our power comes from their processed remains.. (Fossil fuels!
“better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing, than a long life spent in a miserable way”
-Alan Watts
Yep, he smoked like a chimney and drank like a drinker
@@AC-cj9zl lmaooo
I’m so glad that Chris traveled the world for us to know each of every persons views, so that I don’t have too. Thanks Chris
world now small enough that they were mere click away on our fingertip
it would be a shame if we didnt harness this advantage while it last
im glad we all here do
But the knowledge from a click although great it may be. It also leaves a lot out. To search something and to actually go live in that culture is very very different. It doesn't givw you the same lessons.
The best way to learn how to live a good life is through living it. However we choose to live, we'll end up learning _something_ .
And something is better than nothing.
Amen
It does also help to hear about some severe mistakes in past lives, so we don't make them in our own.
@@TapDat52K Nothingness is better than suffering.
@@nihilism6226 that is why your name is nihilism, huh?
@@juanburgos8176 No, it's because this world does not deserve to exist.
"To live life in its ordinary form is courage. To find meaning in its mundane meaninglessness is a sort of genius."
This is so true.
And by true you mean total bullshit?
It is another cliché, just like the ones stated earlier in the same text.
@C C My statement is not about it being a cliché, it is about lacking awareness about this particular insight being cliché while pointing other approaches in the same text are. They are equally valid and invalid depending on the situation. You can't answer all of the lifes problems and questions with a single answer.
@C C I disagree, then you got hammer and nail problem, which rarely works. But, of course, there may be some carry-over from a solution to other problems.
I came to this video to make myself sad, why am I learning
Every day that passes by makes me realise how close and similar the concepts of "everything" and "nothing" really are.
to understand life means we must first understand ourselves , our cultures in which we live , our history , our future , and the nature of the universe. in the end you will find life is both meaningful and meaningless and all that matters is how you form your own reality as everyone has their own.
@@carlosmoreno5063 in my opinion, truely opinion. World no need meaning. A rock in the river no need meaning or name "rock" to exist. because they dont need and never need. yet human need meaning to all things, for what ? firstly the power of make a meaning to things is from our survival sense. "if i can recognise this, i'll survive, rock is hard, eat if hungry, and etc." SO is life need meaning ? is life need purpose, no. they dont. it;s just reaction after reaction and continou untill end, with no purpose or mean, is not because they're meaningless but because they don't need a meaning.
@@-MJamilHarseno Damn, that perfectly summarizes something I've thought for a long time but have never actually been able to put into words👌
And that tie in to our evolution is really amazing to me because, when you really start thinking about it, just about every part of the human condition / psychology can be traced back to our evolutionary roots as communal hunter-gatherer tribes back in the good old Paleolithic and Neolithic ages.
imagine if he went to those countries in a different order. he would have been very confused
Underrated comment.
No, you confused me
Not at all the premise still remains, there seemed to be a pattern but there really wasn't
Wrong mindset.
@@ErtosAcc There is no wrong or right mindeset, everyone is privileged to their own opinion
The main takeaway:
Chris is rich.
And he speaks fluently in many languages
And privileged to may have conversations with the smartest persons
And visited several countries several times
Chris is definitely white and from a rich western nation.
His beard makes me think he's british
You know, at times like these, it really strikes me how much this one quote from Minecraft - yes, Minecraft - can ring with truth.
"To tell them how to live, is to prevent them from living."
It does. I always come back there once in a while, I can't help but feel at peace. Reading those words on a screen.
Really there's nothing wrong with taking wisdom from what is not necessarily meant to give advice.
In The End we're just like kids, we copy others in order to understand something or because we admire a particular detail that seems good to us or maybe even out of curiosity. We just don't notice.
It's really not the kind of habit that goes away (fortunately).
Curiosity is really a blessing in my opinion. It makes for a open mind. And we're always changing, always evolving.
And I certainly wouldn't mind learning something even from a game where gravity doesn't work properly..
And now if you don't mind, I'll just go watch the Minecraft ending again. B;P
What's the quote ?
"A good medium is rare." -The Scooby Doo Show
A medium is an individual held to be a channel of communication between the earthly world and a world of spirits.
Therefore, a good medium is probably pretty rare.
The joke is, it's a play on words because medium and rare can also indicate to what extent a piece of meat is cooked.
@@shrimptastic-life wth made you come back and explain it weeks later?
@@rosegold2025 It showed up in my notifications so I figured i might as well answer
@shrimptastic I like my steaks medium rare.
It can't be both. Either your steak is medium or it's rare....
I feel like this video is a paradox, because in the end, it's giving us a life advice that's probably wrong.
So.... we're all fucked with nobody to guide us
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lol
@@ahmadparak6742 thanks for making me smile
Except that it gives no advice. It just points out that people have all sorts of answers and non of them are universally true.
There is no good that comes from worrying over life. Just enjoy each moment for what it has to offer. Stay blessed everyone.
Exactly, overthinking it makes people pretentious.
I am trying to. It’s difficult but I’m trying.
Even your advice is wrong
Aphorisms become axioms
Just Vibin' 💕💕 same man, we’ll get through this
And at the end, the wisest answer was given by Chris himself.
Nah. His girlfriend was right about him all along. 😜
After listening to every one he took inspiration from them all.
That's because he gathered some KNAWLEDGE.
@@NinjaMK unfortunately, he never got it in a garage
@@josephdesquitado8056 dude...
“The true art of gaining knowledge, is knowing what to ignore”.
My guy died less than a month after his 58th birthday. He always amazed me. He contemplated life, and enjoyed it to the fullest. He owned little, traveled only as necessary, loved animals, and seemed dull. But he wasn't dull, he was happy. He seemed to know what life meant and never let much bother him. I sure miss him.
The saddest thing for me to fathom is that This life takes everything that it has given. From every person, thing, and idea. Existence is the middle way between the Yin and the Yang. It is neither one nor the other, but both at the same time. All directions are infinite and nonexistent.
No proof to back this up, but I liked it.-- "Life is but a dream, waiting to be awakened by death."
Read the three advices written on the gates of the Temple of the Oracle of Delphi. That's the secret.
I feel for you
@@abhishekghosh7518 can you quote them here? I have no money to travel to the Temple of Delphi.
We do not receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us 🖖
I object. You can certainly gain wisdom through teachings of people who have gone on that journey. You can make the argument that 'it won't be true wisdom' because its not experienced first hand. To that I say 'I'd like to think we are smart enough to understand and sympathize to fully comprehend such teachings, that it can be gained from second hand.
It's weird. We have to find our own way. But we are raised by those around us. It is a tricky dilemna.
Pablo Razo to be honest the way I see it wisdom doesn’t come from us at all. I would like to think I spend a lot of time thinking, but no matter what comes out can you really say it came from you (disregarding the question of you). like when someone has a life changing experience and seems to have this flood of understanding and wisdom, even drugs have this effect even though your sloped over on a couch completely unaware of what happening around you. So I ask where does this thing we call wisdom come from maybe it’s just a construct but the fuck if I know. And probably never will
On the real, I think A but I also think B too.
From my experience Wisdom is not something you seek. It comes to you just by events and living. If you intend seek it you’ll become lost and confused and be left with more questions than answers.
"Life is an impossible puzzle, missing a majority of its pieces. " - Pursuit of Wonder
This quote really hit me.
It doesn't make me feel better ;)
Many people misinterpret this statement as meaning something negative. It's actually supposed to uplift, To help realize that you are not incontrol and you will never be. The illusion of control, can make you feel so happy in the moment, But when that control inevitably breaks, You will fall into a deep depression, Feeling angry, afraid and Vulnerable. This is why is so important to not only be self-aware but also to never shut out external information.
Allelujah vaymire thanks for the insights
I agree... no one knows what to make of our time here.
May be life is not a puzzle after all.
"I’m simply an accident, So why take it all so seriously?” Emil Cioran.
So basically nobody knows what they're talking about for certain, which basically means that your guess is as good as anyone else's.
I think it means everything is relative. Good advice today may be bad advice tomorrow depending.
Also, this is all paradoxical. His philosophy is all philosophy is wrong (as explained above). But this is just another philosophy. What makes him more correct than others?
The truth is, there is no easy way. Struggle influences growth.
There are laws of nature, there a certain things we can be certain of, things we can observe with our 5 senses, but anything outside of that is fair game
I assume the least people will agree with this 😂😂😂
Yey existentialism for a month
Nothing like a fresh glass of existentialism to quench those thirsts.
I hate how oxymoronic these comments make me feel.
That's not existentialism, and you missed the point of this video.
@@thegrandnil764 It is, don't pretend to be a big brain philosopher, this is a comment section in youtube.
So u r telling me bombing ppl is wrong?
But my teacher said we need to sacrifice ourselves to lower world population
None of the answers satisfied him but the experience.
One time somebody told me that the best advice is not to take any advice.
When I heard that, I thought it didn't make sense. But the older I get the more I realize how many bad advices I've taken in my life..
Sometimes it's best not to take any advice and just do what you think is best.
But don't take my advice. (No pun intended)
True. Advices are usually opinions that work best for the advisers themselves.
Chris wrote in his notebook, "I should learn the people's languages before asking them my questions. True wisdom is knowing and accepting this condition."
Best advice I have ever received:
think for yourself.
Especially when voting.
I try to do that. But then I think that I am impacted by everything and everyone in life, regardless how hard I try to find my own way.
But thats OK.
@@whocares2087.1 Best advice I ever received. Don't vote lol. It's a sham.
George Harrison
@@TapDat52K if natural laws say that every fource generates a counterfource, so it means you also impact everything and everyone in your life, as much they impact you. Use it to your favor.
After questioning myself for so many years finally ended up with " My purpose of life is to experience it"
Only appliances needs purpose. What you need is to be loved. And you'll have to start with yourself. It is the most courageous thing one could ever do.
pure genius
No,, the soul is trapped here because of you,,, your purpose is not to experience your life it's to escape it and transcend death freeing the soul out of forced repetitive reincarnation,,,
As a man named Christopher, who has never been an accountant, in a five year relationship, or to China...
I HAVE given away everything and hitchhiked to Acapulco Mexico with no money from Waco Texas, hiked hundreds of miles over several months in 00, 03, 05, 14, and 15, and also bicycled more than 25k miles pulling a trailer with a pitbull in it across 14 States raising awareness for suicide prevention for a year and a half.
What I have learned is...
I am a spirit in search of experience.
I embrace the highest motives of man to create.
I have faith which signifies that I live a spiritual life.
I overcome adversity with an open heart and an open mind.
And that everything is exactly as it should be until it changes for better or worse when it becomes exactly as it should be.
Be blessed folks 🙏
Also named christopher looking to start traveling as soon as possible
@@trapmozart9217 it's the best way to escape drudgery and find yourself
Be blessed my friend
Greetings from Greece! Happy to still mention our little yet great country!! 🙂🙂
Gold Bless Greece and all who live her
American here! Greece is beautiful, so rich in history and culture. I hope to be able to visit some day
“The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge.”
― Daniel J. Boorstin
🤙
Hi Mr.J
I think you didn’t get the point.
So u r telling me bombing ppl is wrong?
But my teacher said we need to sacrifice ourselves to lower world population
@@CarlosGomez-lp9zi nah he got it, you didnt
I wasted many years trying to find my passion or purpose. Just to realise it is relative to each person. For me everyone has only two purposes in life.
1. Go do their best.
2. Give something back to humanity. By even planting a tree.
I’m glad you have those purposes. I haven’t watched the video yet, but life is more fulfilling when you’re not a nihilist
@@putinsgaytwin4272 but he’s literally a nihilist
@@bigmanbarry2299I thought nihilism is when you believe there is no meaning or purpose(s) to life.
@@putinsgaytwin4272 he spent years trying to find his purpose, only to realise it didn’t exist, that it is subjective and only we can bring meaning into existence as it otherwise doesn’t exist.
To believe that meaning is subjective means there is no higher meaning. It’s just what you personally think it is
Ikigai. Finding a balance between, what you like to do, what you’re good at, what’s needed by the world and what you can be paid for.
This just saved me a lifetime's journey
"Happy is the man that knows avsolutely nothing" -my father
"We are condemned by our awareness of the future and the perpetual slipperiness of every moment. We are stuck between the finite and the infinite. The now, and the later. Unable to ever reconcile this balance and how to make the most of either.
To make the most of now risks the future, to preserve the future risks never making the most of now.
To be human is to be aware of and desire both, forced to live in between, and to live between is to never touch either. Wisdom is accepting this condition. Live with the pessimism and lower your expectations and the good will emerge once in a while" - Pursuit of Wonder
Not bad
So well written. Favorite part of the video
That German Philosopher's words
this video ironicaly debunks the whole need for Blinkist in a way
Great observation Johannes !
But just in one way. For those who seek wisdom. But blinkist provides knowledge for the ones who want to learn.
Two different things.
I'm just here to fuck around and find out
The best advice I got from my difficult battle with the COVID19 virus, the non quantifiable value of just one breath.
"people only live their life in what they think is right and true"
-itachi
Man of culture
Lol
It's all so tiresome just thinking about shit lol
It's weird.
Sometimes when I try to space out and not think because I am exhausted from doing so... The thoughts flood through my mind more freely.
Imagine being an INTP like myself
52K / TapDatApolis
Try zazen.
Nice donovan pfp
@@axelescobedo6027 heheh imagine INTP-T
“Real knowledge is to know the extent of one’s ignorance.”
--Confucius
Bot or copypaste
@@ladofthedamned7796 please dude.
@@QuestionEverythingButWHY why? You literally commented after 7 secs of the video being posted! Theres no fucking wayy its not a copy and paste!
@@ladofthedamned7796 well, hes actually pretty smort imo. Im a sub and since i always saw him in vids , id say these are all different. Rlly, all quotes are different from my perspective
@@aqilrashidi1410 yes
I love your narrative style, the way you make your characters experience the same events over and over again but with each instance always having a different answer so that they, ultimately, reach to a sound, multifaceted conclusion.
I like the Taxpayers cover!
“One must cultivate one’s own garden” -Voltaire
no one know about you better or can be better adviser than yourself.
This hit me differently as I wonder how to make the most of my life rn 😭
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Arinze it's a crazy question huh!
Maybe you're living your best life and you don't realise yet...
Or maybe you're in a metaphorical cocoon, yet to emerge...
Or maybe your imagined future is vastly different to your actual future, each entirely ephemeral at this point.
Maybe you're really good at something you're barely aware of.
@Nick, you are right... It's just maybes. All seems true, but none at this point is.
I'm trying to figure it out as well... I lost my girlfriend of three years and all of my friends in April. I had a nervous breakdown due to all of it and quit my job of 5 years. I'm 33 and wondering if the best years are behind me...
Eat raw meat. Drink of its blood. And swallow it's organs. And you will know that life consumes life.
You have to be in the right mindset to truly appreciate the wisdom of great people. To a person that is not ready, it will sound like a waste of time or even stupidity. "Why delay gratification when I can enjoy myself, silly..." xD
lol but nobody knows for sure how to live best
@@kshirin0298 Sure, but we know that some ways are better than others depending on what you value. If you want fulfillment, developing a drug addiction will probably not lead to that. We don't know how to live best, but there are plenty of ways to learn how to live better.
Ryan Rue definitely!! we should listen and make reasonable choices for our own life, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that anybody truly knows what they’re doing
@@kshirin0298 hahahhaha keep lying to yourself until you cant anymore
@@kshirin0298 when your future self looks nothing like what you could have become then you can see what wisdom was better
By saying that, chris creates a paradox by saying that every piece of wisdom has its own situation and don’t work in some scenarios, yet this on its own is a piece wisdom
"accepting there is no purpose to life means we can do what we want with it, not what the universe wishes to do with it"
"A point in every direction is the same as no point at all."
-Harry Nilsson
I find peace in knowing the mere fact that I am alive. As long as you exist, you cannot do it wrong. Every experience of every being is the experience of a life no matter what. All I truly need is a steady stream of consciousness and awareness about this fact. And it doesnt require anything nor it does crash with other thoughts: you can believe any religion, appreciate any philisophy. It's all still the experience of a life. Even doubting this thought is part of it... Ah yes, paradoxes. Have fun with existence yall, much love
"All that matters is what we do with the time we have"
Gandalf
and who decides what matters there? take for people like hitler vs for saints like you.
Chris's Accounting Firm Boss: "You were gone? We hadn't noticed."
Every piece of “grand scale true meaning of life” advice i heard i always felt lacking and could very easily be argued against, until I always reach the conclusion that nothing really matters, but at the same time, anything can matter / or be meaningful.
“The only true wisdom is knowing you know nothing.” As Socrates said.
I absolutely love your videos, Pursuit of Wonder.
It’s all matter.
there is no good advice for life , just for some time , you change your mind every once in a while , but it’s always great to hear some good life advice
How is it great to hear good life advice when there is no good advice for life?. What are you trying to say
I love Pursuit of Wonder! They inspired my sci-fi/futurist channel!!
stop plugging your channel
I saw some of your videos, information is awesome...
Advice :. trying using high quality video instead of images and instead of beat backgroud use something soothing.
Genius marketing comment. In directly peaking interest of the reader without directly saying it. Good strategy!
This is my favorite video on youtube and has literally changed how I see life, thank you.
When i have friends who are troubled, the advice i usually give is: keep moving forward, pick your battles, actions define who you are, and accept help when it is offered. Even if it may be wrong, these words of advice are how i live.
Many of us view our life in relation to some far off goal, our passion becomes our prison and we view not achieving it as an indictment on ourselves. The point of life is to just live it.
Great video.
" To just exist for the time one has and to do one's best, that's wise enough. "
I wish I had Chris's money.
Lol.... true
Don't wish make it a reality
"There are no truths, only interpretations" F.N
It is important to draw wisdom from many different places. If you take it from only one place, it becomes rigid and stale. -Uncle Iroh
Motivation and inspiration are fleeting. What you need is a strong why to give you the DRIVE that pushes you forward each and every day
Can't agree more ❤️
Ok Jaxx
That's exactly why you don't need it. The point is everything contradicts itself, there is no right answer besides the one you create yourself.
misery loves company and peace loves solitude. true joy, genuine happiness, can ever only be found within.
i don't think it is necessary to travel around the earth seeking that wisdom, it is here, in the comments and in your videos. i truly appreciate it
ok............not outside but in our inside answer and questions we must have already..............
My belief is "ya don't need a good memory if you tell the truth." Its a moto that has never failed me- however, im aware that it leaves me open to abuse because I almost expect others to be as truthful as I try to be. This belief system leaves u vulnerable to being taken advantage of by trusting people u probably shouldn't.
I think the lesson is two fold... i can see straight though peoples lies now. I don't get taken advantage of anymore by punching holes in untruthful claims.
I still stand by my moto "you don't need a good memory if you tell the truth."
holy shit this is the best conversation i've had in a really long life
The meaning of life is to learn how to not suffer, and to learn how to live, to make the good and the bad one. Everyone achieves that differently.
make your way, never give up, and keep a beginners mind to keep learning new things. Face the challenge and happiness happens! May the force be with you!
I'm glad to be early
I just want you to know your videos have surely helped me through some dark times
The way you narriate and tell these stories that have such beautiful lessons it's just amazing
The book,your videos everything is just amazing
Thank you pursuit of wonder for gifting me with such wisdom
I liked how every so called wise man of society contradicted.
Thank you Chris and Pursuit of wonder. Years of stories and observations in minutes.
To live is to bear with our hopeless desires. Never quite satisfied with what we have and where we are. Always wishing or striving for something better.
Amazing how good a little old lady at the foot of the Himalayas is at English!
She's a witch.
@vishal tv it requires intelligence and dedication to be good at a language
@@saschamayer4050 😄
Sometimes we think too muck about our decisions...the problem is that we tend to measure our spent moments with the amount of success we've had achieved in those, categorise them into good or bad, we question are we making the most of our lives in the limited time we have? In all these pressures, we forget to explore our lives....
This one has my name on it. I’m an actual Chris who got told ‘you’re too negative.’ I left everything behind and went to Asia …and have been here for the majority of my adult life (a long time). I absorbed all sorts of self help before and after leaving. I’m still me. I’ve managed to shut some of life’s noise out and to trust that I know what’s going to work best for me (cardio - nothing levels my mood like cardio). Advice? Don’t shy away from having experiences, even if you might be bummed out at the time. Moods and circumstances change😉.
“To make the most of now risks the future, to preserve the future risks never making the most of now”.
Maybe instead of questioning, we should question our questioning.
Instead of constantly seeking answers, we should ask ourselves if we're even asking the right questions.
@@aeroslothy create a paradox, oh wait u already have
"hi there" -death
This is amazing...definitely relatable, which is why this is such an awesome video. I love how Chris came back and was going to repair what he had bc "to live it in it's ordinary form is courage...to just exist for the time one has and to do one's best, that's wise enough...this wisdom is always a means and rarely an end."
Love your vids. Nobody else is doing anything quite like what you’re doing. These really speak to me and have an impact. Keep up the great work!
Yet, I keep thinking that the first woman gave Chris the best advice:
"Do not chase worldly pleasures or material successes, Chris. Do not succumb to the temptation of the moment. The only real is the eternal real. Work for what is hard but necessary. What is meaningful in the long run. Let go of yourself and dissolve into this. You only have one chance at this life; you must take it seriously and make something of it. Give up trivial pleasures and desires in consideration of the long game. Live and contemplate in the garden of life beyond you. Always be growing and improving and adapting. Leave your legacy strong and sturdy. That is what it means to live a good life." ❤
This advice can be dangerous as people can become obsessive over the future and what part they will play in it, I personally know this is something I struggle with and because of plainly overthinking I have missed opportunities in every aspect of my life, but that begs the question would I have even had those opportunities had it not been for this obsessive lifestyle?? I believe the best advice is that you have to realize that your mind will forever be stuck in between the future and the present. Not sure which person said this but I think it leads to the truth that you have to be selective in your lifetime of what moments you give your presence to and when it is necessary to contemplate the possibilities your life still has.
Chris finds me. Ask me the question.
Me: Learn C++
this channel is so triggering to my existential crisis yet it is so intellectual that I don't even care
"If you've ever lost your hearts desire, chances are you'll find it in your own back yard." Dorothy Gale (Wizard of Oz), after coming down off her trip.
I don't know why, but I love this kind of conversations
I can relate. Maybe, just maybe we're destined to watch this video to realize something..
These types of lessons should be given at school 🏫
Sadly it's not.
They do at the right schools
I've lived in pessimism all my life, whenever I tried to rise up from it(which I tried a lot), people kept dragging me down. Then I just accepted my way of thinking is correct cause it serves my life. I met my aunt the other day and she sighed after a conversation about something and said "our family has a very negative way of thinking " and for the first time I felt a sense of relief, that it's not just me.
Sometimes optimism is ignorance whilst pessimism is learning fom the past.
I just cried. Thank you for your posts.
For me, in the extremely short time we all have in this world, I want to spend my time enjoying myself. Sure we have ups and downs throughout this journey but that is the ride we are on and we can’t change that. Try to enjoy every minute you have on this earth. Love you all!
Love how you guys show meaningful videos 💯💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I so get this .
Our circumstances constantly change yet we look for that one idea that will serve us all our days .
There is no such thing .
The amount of Wisdom this channel has bestowed upon me is overwhelming.