"I paid for my trip to Florida to see a stranger because I was bored that weekend" "I want a submissive man who makes 6 figures" "I might get married 4-5 more times, I don't care" "Sometimes I still sleep with my husband" "A guy will be lucky to be with me because I'm hilarious" 🤔 to whoever messages her, you deserve what you get.
I can’t get past that this mother of two children saw nothing wrong with flying down to another state to hook up for the weekend with a man that’s pretty much a stranger
Yep I totally agree! But he will say that word,(N-Word) and someone will tune his ass up! As for his friends that allow that word to be used shame on them! Perhaps we should look to boycott their shows or products. Good video Kendra!
I'm from the south, we don't co-sign non-blacks using the n word. It's weird, though, how she would continue to hang with him if she's so ashamed with him being white or using the n word. Like why force yourself to be in a situation you're uncomfortable with?
Yeah that's what I was thinking too like if he already told her he use the n word and she didn't like it then why did she still travel to go see him anyway if she thought he was racist???? It sounds like she set herself up for that mess 😂
He’s actually arguing about his justification to say a racist word. Imagine anyone arguing with a Jewish person about being anti-Semitic. This is ridiculous. This guy is a red flag and unacceptable. The girl is just as toxic. Both need to get therapy before they date again.
That's why blacks need to stop using nigga and shit if your feelings going to get hurt by the word. Then other races would stop using the word like it cool Because we black keep using it.
I am black and I am offended if anyone uses the N word around me black or white. His problem is Kendra is telling him as a black women that using the N word as a white person is not okay, his only defence is he is not a racist and his so called black friends don’t mind.
So Kendra is the authority for all black people, but his friends are "so called black friends" make it make sense. This is deeply personal issue he respects that Kendra doesn't like it and doesn't drop it around her (based on this interaction), but there's plenty of black folks who don't care. Me personally I don't like anyone using the word but I can't escape it I like hip hop. Something doesn't stop being a slur because of your identity and if we are supposed to "own it" other people saying it wouldn't be upsetting that would be the point of owning it because it would have no power over us but it does so maybe we should stop saying it.
@@mrrdw77 I, personally think she NEVER thought he was the answer from the start... Seems as if she only dealt with him because she was bored and thought he could show her a good time for that moment... Honestly, I don't understand people seriously involving themselves with others they have met online, PERIOD 🤷🏾♀️
A married mother of two gets on a plane to meet a man she doesn't know at all. All she has for protection is a phone and loses it! Hope she never goes missing.
She is crazy for sure. Crazy people make irrational decisions where most normal person won't do. That white people spoke with facts. She is crazy and you can tell. Her second husband is a fool.
@@Sammiein I hope the father uses these videos as evidence and can get custody. Let her run wild and do what she wants as long as she’s not the one who has the children
Because she shares your reflection!! Just your every day programming of trying to remove a stigma attached to the collective group of those who share your reflection...... Signed a black man
Maybe the guy paid for it. She be married twice, yah she may not be marriage material. One divorce okay- two or three - don’t give me no advice on relationships. Thanks.
It's crazy the amount of times he claimed the woman was being racist towards him /white people, but he refuses to see how offensive it is for him to use that word. A word that is rooted in racist origins.
Just because some black people allow you to say it . Doesn’t mean you should say it around all, like it’s disrespectful and disgusting. They don’t have no self respect.
Yeah I literally have a cousin who didn't care that his white girlfriend said the n word he thinks she's not racist just because she let's him fuck her 🙄🙄🙄
I'm a 52 year old man from Mississippi that feels some kinda of way about that word. How ironic that was da last word many of our people heard before they were hung from a tree. Now we're trying to make da word acceptable for entertainment. These entertainers and rappers let it slide off their mouth without even thinking about it but you never hear them use ethnic slang for no other group in America 🖕🖕🖕. Let that white boy say that shit to somebody down south and see want he win da wet t-shirt contest.
@@Firespawnable i know plenty of bm like that. They don’t care how a woman treats them long as they getting the p . It’s sad and degrading. It’s normal here in Virginia and they love white women that degrade them. I have to stop these white women in their tracks .
@@eddieelliott1496 Im from Memphis Tennessee very close to south haven Mississippi . & from what I seen , in my generation they let white people say Whatver they wanna say and do nothing about it .
@@taviarenee1911 Exactly, more foolishness. No real man is going to do that. She may need to stick to the 60+ crowd. Some of them are losing their memory. That's the only way to get a real man to cowar like that is if he forgets that he's a real man. 😅😅
I’m sick and tired of black people using it in FRONT of white people and thinking it’s cute. The word is a fucked up word - period. And it ain’t cute no matter whose lips it comes from.
They get a few black friends an think we ALL have to accept they b.s. He is to ignorant to understand why it's not ok for him to say it. I bet if a black man told him to watch his mouth he wouldn't have called a man a bitch. He weak af🤡🤛🏾😒
She’s been reckless to go stay at a random dude’s place for a weekend and he’s been reckless to welcome a random girl at his place. See how everything went?
This video just showed me why certain people that come on this show are single . No respect for each other , no standards or boundaries, delusional, reckless, toxic, drama out, crazy and pure silly as hell.
Sadly this something I need to work on in my life...I'll be married in 3 weeks he's in the army and we go to a lot of functions and im learning to shake some bad habits I'm forever grateful to that 2 ⭐ Gen wife a white lady who pulled me to the side and schooled no me on how I was presenting myself and my future husband to those around us I took it personally at first but after calming down and speaking to him I kinda understood what she was saying ya know
@@ReeRee_Donita wish someone make it makes sense, I’ll never understand ...as Asians, we’d never use go*ok or other degrading term to normalize its word on each other, ever.
@@thuandao4243 bro, God is my witness, I have tried to sensify this nonsense myself and I’m paralysed in discombobulation every time. 😂 Well done👏🏾it’s honestly commendable. You guys have standards and principles that actually make sense. Uphold them as much as possible. Please, for the sake of my sanity, keep being an example to those who don’t get it. This nonsense is pissing me off.
They jump from one one night stand to the next…they’re not dating, just hooking up. Work on yourself , you can’t go wrong there. I’ve never hopped on a plane bc I had nothing to do.
Because he’s a part of an ignorant culture who has turned it into a word used in every day language… and that ignorant assed culture who believe it’s cute that he’s a part of is OUR culture.
@@sheania7jahmari Ok I just wanna say how I feel about it...as a white person...you don't say racial slurs to me and I don't say them to you. I don't like hypocrisy. Also I think racism is for stupid people. And I honestly don't care if you want to say the n word...im not one of those "if you say it..I can too". I don't have a hang up about that. I just want you to show me respect like I show you.
Because y'all made it cool to say I don't think it's because he's racist but it's just a cool thing to say these days especially when y'all put it in songs it sounds very cool to say
I don’t approve of any non black using the N word!! He is toxic and feels entitled even when Kendra tried to explain to him about using the word. Any black woman that dates him is insane.
Shawnee & Shaliha 100% black girl names lmao yall just trying to justify this crazy b actions by making him look like the bad guy. There is a reason she is going through 2 divorce and expecting to get married 5 more times. I messed around with a black chick once and never again.
Lol I'm 6'4 225. 37 with no kids. Own everything, I earn 6 figures a year. I don't club or hang out in the streets. Just got out a 4 year relationship with a lady with 2 kids. No criminal record. She thought she could find someone better so I let her go see. And of course she tried to come back but Never! All that too say is Good Black Men do exist we just rather be out the way until we find our wife! Not someone else's! #S/O to the Alpha Heterosexual Men! 💪🏾💪🏾
Stay strong! But if a baby mamma left you, even w all the assets you listed, um, you're probably not that goodlooking. 🤷♀️ But, lucky for you, Mr. Average-looking! - the ageing process is on your side when it comes to the sexual marketplace. ~ happy ageing... 🤷♀️
Well your story sounds too good to be true. You must of hit a nerve for her to leave you if you have all of those good qualities going on for yourself. As they say, there's two sides to a story.
Did she tell you what could be better than you ? Like did she voice what she felt you lacked for her to want to find better? Obviously you don’t have to answer but I am curious because it seems the grass was already green with you 🤔
He has a problem listening. Everytime Kendra tries to explain the problem with him using the word, he cuts her off. He'll use it around the right one and find out.
He doesn’t have a problem listening . Hes listening to respond … aka “ I know what you’re saying but I don’t give a fuck what u say imma still use it “
He doesn't have a problem listening, yall do. He and Kendra already said they've had this convo, and agree to disagree, why keep having it? You clearly couldn't convince him before, do you think that's gonna change? Hell nawl
Who cares. When they really got into it I paused the video because it got too tedious, comment here, and then leave. If black people keep using it as a form of affection and ridicule, people of other races who consider themselves our friends will never stop using it.
If Black people are telling you that they don't feel comfortable with you using the N word, and you're not Black...? Hang it up. You should AUTOMATICALLY stop saying it. Imagine a white person arguing with me that they should be allowed to say it and I'm offended. Also, hip hop culture is BLAAAACK. You're a guest. Be grateful they even allowed you to be in the room with them. You don't come in someone's house and demand that you be entitled to my things... NO. The dude is racist. Period. This dude is a clown. Taking y'all culture, the way you speak, disrespecting your women... Why do Black men keep allowing others to come in and blatantly disrespect you and your culture? Gatekeep what's yours. It's sacred. Also, reverse racism is not a thing. She can be prejudice or traumatized, but she has no power to oppress you. Ugh!
Red Flag is if a non-black person wants to say it alot it's a PROBELLMMM if they care about you. And you ask them to stop saying it 🛑 if you my real friend. He's to invested in saying it The obsession is Real with this guy 🤦🏽♀️ Sheeesh
As a black women and having ancestors that died by that word blacks shouldn't even use a word that whites made in the first place Jews and every other culture don't use they're deragatory slurs made by whites
@@thefreebabe I mean if you pair that with her behavior from the previous time she called and the way she skipped right past telling her version of the story it seems pretty accurate because she certainly didn't want to acknowledge the story when Kendra asked about it, Especially when she was so excited to bring it up and talk about what a mess it was
Whatever I think he is telling the truth plus he said he recorded her. She is wreck less still dating while married and looking for another man to pay for her divorce I am sure. All I can say she got a white black type brother and he was probably not catering to her financially when she flowed out. And him not wanting to come on with her we all no she would have talked over him and started yelling. And calling her the B word he could have took the high road however so what she probably is a B. Spending the child support money on a ticket I am sure take the trash out homie and he dodge a bullet.
@@leichaurellelux7547 She is also wreckless for going to stay at a man’s home that you don’t know in another city for 3 days. Does her husband know that she was going and putting herself in harms way? Because he could have ended up a single father behind some crazy mess like that.
Right! I'm still in the middle of his story, but I thought she lost her phone. When did she find it to be texting her friend? Maybe I missed something. Edit to say he cleared it up, but they both were still wrong.
Any man that’d take her seriously after hearing her admit that she and her husband sometimes sleep in the same bed together is a fool. She’s not worth the risk.
glad Kendra addressed the use of the n-word. anyone who has used it around me 1x, i never spoke to again. i'll leave the dinner or leave their presence if its at a party never to speak to them again.
Yeah honestly I'm giving her the die eye because he said he already told her in their messages that he uses the n word and she claims to be against it and she called him racist but she still travelled to go see him and was still around him anyway. 🙄 Like to me if she truly was not okay with him saying the n word and truly thought he was racist then she wouldn't have been around him since like you said people that don't like it stay away from those people not travel to go see them. 😖 So agree with him that she's on some bullshit. 🤣🤣🤣
@@Firespawnable exactly, homegirl just wanted to have something to say just to deflect on what her main purpose of contacting Kendra ,which was to say how "bad " the date was 🙄Typical narcissist and she will always have to get divorce after divorce with her nonsense.
@@YourAverageChick yeah honestly I think she just wanted to say the date was bad and bitch and complain 🤣 but she the one that travelled to go see him so she look like a fool 😂😂😂
He is the example of why black people should not make non blacks comfortable to say that word. The very fact people have said they are uncomfortable & won't stop tells me everything I need to know 😒
There's a reason this woman is facing divorce after her SECOND marriage. You would think he was such a terrible guy from the way she explained it but turns out she has no good relationship skills. How do you buy 6 bottles of liquor on a first date?? She's a train wreck..
It's machiavellianism. It's disgustingly common among women. Machiavellianism in psychology refers to a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. Machiavellianism is one of the traits in what is called the 'Dark Triad', the other two being narcissism and psychopathy.
@@kuja5809 I grew up around women with this mentality and I have always found it disgusting. I would get called names because they would say that I'm naive when it comes to relationships, meanwhile they had bad relationships their whole lives, always wanting men to fall to their every needs and wants just because they're supposed to be in a "relationship " and they give "sex" so they automatically feel that they can't be told No for nothing, smdh.
Tf are you talking about. He would rather leave than have a double standard Relationship where she shits on his skin color, is ashamed of his skin color, and literally makes everything about his skin color. The dude made the right choice. It wasn’t about the term. It was about her shitting on him for his skin color. He said he can slowly take it out of his vocab, it’s gonna take awhile. I’m glad he left her racist ass. Racism has no color.
To go out of town to meet a guy for the first time and not get a room is crazy. I do believe he’s story I could tell she’s crazy. She’s definitely looking for a man to provide for her financially but let her run wild
Then tried to double down. When I meet people who don't like it I stop talking to them. I cannot promise I'll stop saying it... I bet if he started getting lumped up every time he used the racist slur he would try hard as hell to avoid ever letting that word slip from his thin ass lips again!
@@asiatic254 🤣😂 and I would try to cut him so that individual wouldn't be near me. I'm sure none of the prominent black male figures he mentioned would allow him to use that slur in their presence.
He’s indigence on using the N-word alone is racist. As a BW, if I tell a BM that I’m uncomfortable with him using the N word, the man will not use it out of respect. This WM needs to use the word so much that he said it’s a deal breaker if he can’t say it around the woman he’s dating. This man is a solid racist.
@@kmariamv He’s not ignorant. Ignorant means lacking in knowledge. He is very aware of how blaq people feel about him using that word and he’s chooses to ignore it.
@@thickthickly docile to fuck her, not docile to live with that everyday for the rest of ur life. If going to sleep is better than being awake then death is a Calvary
If he didn’t Name Drop of knowing Kendra would she have even given him the time of day🙄🤔 She was looking for a goofy/sponsor. She paid $300 for a trip THINKING she was going to finesse him for $3,000…..
She could use that $300 towards her divorce or on her children. She need to give herself a month or two or more a break from any relationship and find herself.
right, The fact she didn't go into detail and just said it was a mess and brought up the fact he uses the N-word, was just deflecting and a distraction from her actually saying what happened..
Totally feels like Touch is racist just on the strength that he’s adamant that he should be allowed to use racist slur and associates not using it with DUMBING IT DOWN
The word bothers u that much when they say it in a non demeaning way but u cool with black people saying it? Maybe if no one said it they would not have an excuse
Just because you use a word that every single one of your friends and your environment taught you growing up to use doesn’t make you racist. Simply makes you a human who is extremely impressionable like any other human. Kendra is absolutely right. White shouldn’t use the word. But in places like NYC and Miami, many Hispanics (definitely Puerto Ricans) grow up black. They have been brainwashed into our culture so immensely they barely know their own. Good luck training them to not say the word.
He seems to be telling the truth...I believe him 💯 %. That woman on her 2nd divorce and flying out to meet men with two small children??? That is reckless. behavior.
For a woman that has 2 children, mistake #1 was going to that man's city, on his turf, staying in his house that soon. Ladies, I been flown out twice in my younger years, and that's after talking for months of talking, them visiting ME 1st and me paying that $30-$35 background check after knowing his FULL NAME! Be smart.
@@mikeandmars2345 Exactly, my first trip to my ex fiance, he flew me to Seattle and booked me at a Marriott downtown Seattle. I took a pic of his address and his license plate and sent to my friend girl and cousin. I already spent time with him in my city twice. Women got to be more careful, period! I had 3 kids to worry about and liked him a lot, but still needed to make sure I was safe above all.
He’s annoying AF with the loud, repetitive ranting about the N word and celebrity friends. Dude!!! Be quiet and listen. The young lady was annoying and delusional.
@@GetIntoTheBLACK Nah. If a woman I'm trying to talk to knows you and I know you too I'm ABSOLUTELY name dropping you lol. How else on social media are you supposed to close the gap and sound different than everyone else saying "hey beautiful"? Sorry lol. Now I'll make sure to put our friendship or acquaintance in the proper light and not oversell it, but if you REALLY are my friend then yes I am absolutely going to say "oh yeah I know Kendra, that's my homegirl". Every single time lmao!
Be a submissive male? What? 6 figures.. open relationship.. Chile lol go ahead and get you a dog and call it quits on dating lol also there has to be some unresolved drama with her legal husband.
You really think she just flew out to meet him for a 3 day trip and her babies were not being taken care of at home? 🙄 That's what a baby sitter is for lol 🤣
@@teewilliams4520 No, you're not sure you don't even know her 😑 if she can pay 300 dollars to go on trip then she can pay a damn baby sitter she don't gotta ask her mom to baby sit like broke people do 🙄
@@teewilliams4520 Obviously, I don't know her that's why I'm not saying I'm sure like you did lol 🤣 But from this video she clearly has money so it's obvious she can afford a baby sitter lol 😂
She also ever told her side of the story and any man who refers to a woman as the b word imo is not a nice guy. I mean he’s even sitting her arguing about wanting to use the n word I was sitting their rolling my eyes the whole time because they both sound foolish
The discussion about race and use of the N word during this segment was unexpected but valuable. I thought Kendra did a good job of explaining how different Black people feel about who uses the word.
I’ve been watching Kendra’s videos and I’ve been getting better at detecting bullshit and material. If someone says “im a good person im a loving person” that’s bullshit, but “im working on finding my 3rd husband, short men are mean and angry I need tall dark and handsome but im 300lbs and 5’5 with 3 short baby daddies” that’s material
🤔 Love it or hate it, the n word is a common word still used by a majority of people (of ALL races) in our society. As a Black man, I accept that. However, my stance has always been: "If you don't hear me say it around you, then you best not say it around me." Period. I NEVER say it around non-Blacks because I don't want them thinking it's cool to say to, or around, me. This is where alot of us, as Blacks, mess up. Many of us throw the word around in front of ANY & EVERYBODY but then get pissed off when someone of another race says it around us. I agree with Kendra in regards to anytime it's used by whites, it will NEVER sit right with me & I will not ever let it go unchecked. Trust!
Respectfully, it makes zero sense to me that it is okay for blacks to be accepting of it with each other knowing full well that it is a derogatory term, but have issues with it when any other race, especially whites say it? Again, respectfully, don't say it at all. Let the word die.
I agree He loves hip hop so much But has no love for the people “his friends “ who created it If someone tells you from that culture that you saying that word makes them feel uncomfortable then why say it It’s so many other words that you can use that has the exact same effect Bro or king being some It’s ridiculous
I never use that word / PERIOD, but I know people who do and it bothers TF out of me… when it bothers me the most, though? When they use it around other non-black folk. I think it’s cringeworthy and lacks self respect whenever it’s used… but I can give you props for not taking that ignorance outside of “the house”. 👏
This is ur standard of horrible...wth She jus some one some guys wouldn't date..all the dirty mess going on in life and u call her horrible..in what reality
What you all missed when the dude spoke on the date is that this Krazy chick tried to smash his condo patio door by throwing a wine bottle! No matter how trifling she tried to portray the dude, WHY DESTROY HIS PROPERTY??
This is a prime example of why gatekeeping is so very important. This yt boy is way out of line, but apparently some "black" folks allow him to say it w/o cleaning his clock smh *BLACK PEOPLE CANT BE RACIST, prejudice maybe...
This live broke my heart. Too many black people let white privileged slide. We are the only race that does NOT STAND TOGETHER. Kendra was really hot and had to end her live cause of a black woman being trifling. Where is that ANGER AT THIS WHITE MAN AND HIS DISRESPECT 🤦🏾♀️
I think he left out certain details that would make him look bad and having her back on the show he knew she would say those specific things. He was more detailed, but he was only detailed about how "crazy" she was. My ultimate opinion on him: he uses his status to sleep with women. He thinks he's engulfed in the culture enough and feel that he has a right to use that word. His only concern is making himself out to be the good guy.
He gave a lot more detail about the date than she did. I don’t agree with him using the N-word, but he seems a lot more credible than she does. At least he had viable explanations for most of the things she mentioned.
@@pink1237480 - She didn’t go into *ANY* details about the trip to Miami, whereas he did, so yeah, from that standpoint alone, he’s automatically more credible than her.
@@johnbrowntheprophet as I mentioned, he only gave details about her - not about him. So it's like getting half of the truth bc we never heard from her again. What I'm hearing you say, is that bc of his many negative details about her - his explanations makes him a viable source... But why do you think he didn't want her back on the live? Why do you think he ran smooth passed that "she said, I don't wanna have sex with you"? It was never brought up any other time until the end of his story and I honestly think he said it accidentally. He could've been a complete creep but we won't know that bc he didn't want her back on the live. I can only judge what I see and bc I didn't see her responses to his accusations, then I can't just say that he's more credible. That's just being logical IMO. How can he be a viable source when he makes an excuse for using a racial slur🤔🤔
@Taffeta Jackson - My point is that he admitted to what he said (using the N-word). I’m not saying that he’s a patron saint. However, the fact that he was willing to divulge a lot more information than her is very telling. I’m much more inclined to believe his story than hers.
Serves her right for going out with a cave dweller! You thought he had money, but all he had was a racial slur and a few celebrity names. Besides, what self respecting woman would pay to go see a complete stranger out of state?
Regardless of who he’s around, he doesn’t get to determine if the word is racist or not. That’s a prime example of white privilege even in “hip hop culture”.
I’m not one for interracial dating, so it’s hard for me to sympathize with her. I feel like she got what she signed up for when she chose that route. With that said this young lady need to grow up, her mentality is all over the place in a immature way, she relishes in drama, confusion, just toxic
I’m not into mixing ethnicities either - I honestly think they’re using that word at their convenience and as an excuse to use the word These women get exactly what they sign up for thinking there going to be saved by white man/men 🙄
I personally don't mind IR dating but she did seem a bit immature to be 32 years old. She'll probably always have a bunch of drama going on because she invites that energy.
Bm will fetishize bw if they have light skin, eyes or hair or if her hair is long or if she is dark skin with long hair or light eyes. Therefore being a black woman and dating will be unique no matter what.
I love IR dating. But only in the aspect that they have a different culture than American. I love dating and experiencing new cultures and exploring it with someone you love.
Honestly, I believe him. From her interview with Kendra I can tell she was crazy, this non-divor say second married, talking about she's looking for a man who makes 100k she doesn't care if he's in a relationship, standards and expectations all over the place, she sounded real bizarre and I absolutely believe this man when he said that she was a drunk, that she disrespected him by calling him racist, and that she held sex over his head and made him feel guilty for being a white boy and portraying that she only wanted to be friends. She thought this man was going to fall for the okie doke and wine and dine and spoil her when she went out there to meet him. I think she had a rude awakening when he wasn't falling for her crap. She was pissed, and then was mad she received the same disrespectful treatment that she dished out to him. His account was way too detailed to be false, he also conveyed his role in the whole scenario so again, I definitely believe him. Even from her interview she seemed unstable and all over the place, absolute insane and bizarre behavior.
I’m 32 with 2 kids. Soon to be twice divorced, and I want a man who makes at least 6 figures, even that’s only 10% of the US population (not taking into account for marital status, age, race or sexual preference). And I’d prefer him to not have kids. Oh, and I sometimes sleep with my soon to be ex husband, although we don’t have sex. The entitlement is real gentleman.
Touch needs to research racism. But even if his “friends” are okay with him saying it he should automatically nerf himself when he is other black people.
Whew, she was all over the place. She's ready to enter into another relationship when she hasn't legally ended her marriage. She blew me when she said she wants the man to be submissive to her, he needs to make six figures, he can't have children, & she doesn't want more children. The man can see other people, she's into women, etc. But in spite of it all, I do believe their is someone for everyone.
Talking about they still can share a bed together. That guy is doing it to himself. Why is he still giving access to someone who clearly isn't into him? Any man that involves himself with this woman is a fool
Because she's lying and he was going to expose exactly what she did and it would've been uncomfortable for her and she wouldn't have been able to control the narrative
@@EB-ok3io Yeah but Kendra asked and she pretty much skipped past it, how do you bring up something and talk about how big of a mess it was and then skip over it???? When we hear his side of the story and it's like wow no wonder she didn't talk about it
Because she wouldn't do anything but try to over talk him. As a Black man, I know Black woman love to argue and get loud. She got what she deserved 🤷🏿♂️
Why is she splainin for paying to go see w-zaddy? I was bored, had nothin to do, it was only $300 dollars, blah-blah-blah, and blah-blah-blah. Her day has come and gone, nobody is buying what she's selling anymore.
She’s divorced, dating while married to the second and is divorcing him too, in her 30s with kids and requires the 6/6/6 standard which is rarer than 1%? What else is new around here. 🤣
The sad part is there's actually a lot of men that are DM her.... And then we wonder why these women feel entitled and that they could do whatever they want and they can still believe they get a man 🤦🏿🤷🏾
They are in her dms for sex and that's it like most women. It's just a lot of women are slow and they think they have options when in reality they have options to get fucked.
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"I paid for my trip to Florida to see a stranger because I was bored that weekend"
"I want a submissive man who makes 6 figures"
"I might get married 4-5 more times, I don't care"
"Sometimes I still sleep with my husband"
"A guy will be lucky to be with me because I'm hilarious"
🤔 to whoever messages her, you deserve what you get.
She's funny alright! 🤦♀️
@@jesusmywholehaschanged !!!
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Facts....
Lisstteennn!!!
A mother of two young kids who is bored with “nothing to do” on the weekeds…RED FLAG!!!!
Right …. How about spending time with your kids on the weekend?????
@@mzcain1521 Exactly, I was about to say the same thing. I'm like girl don't you have kids?🤔
Facts. Bright red flag!!! Take your kids to the park on the weekends. Smh
Booty call.
My thoughts exactly. Maybe it was Daddy's weekend.
I can’t get past that this mother of two children saw nothing wrong with flying down to another state to hook up for the weekend with a man that’s pretty much a stranger
I mean she should’ve got a hotel but if you are dating you will always be taking a risk
I think she went in Kelvin Samuels show too.🤔
I was thinking, wtf. I barely go in a plane when relocating my life. Let alone just to visit a stranger on a weekend. SMH hell naw
Agree! Apparently she does not watch the news?
Exactly she was willing to risk her life for a total stranger.She didn't have her children in mind .That they would need their mother.
Never heard someone go so hard defending that word. The friends that let him say it aren’t doing him any favors, he’s going to run into the wrong one.
And he said he’s still gon say it! 🤦🏾♀️
Me,lol
Never never never accepting this...never. I had to log off early.
And I hope he does!
Yep I totally agree! But he will say that word,(N-Word) and someone will tune his ass up! As for his friends that allow that word to be used shame on them! Perhaps we should look to boycott their shows or products. Good video Kendra!
I'm from the south, we don't co-sign non-blacks using the n word. It's weird, though, how she would continue to hang with him if she's so ashamed with him being white or using the n word. Like why force yourself to be in a situation you're uncomfortable with?
If he told her beforehand and she still went she probably figured out the money was funny.
Yeah that's what I was thinking too like if he already told her he use the n word and she didn't like it then why did she still travel to go see him anyway if she thought he was racist???? It sounds like she set herself up for that mess 😂
Because she's a narcissists she had intentions of using him
@@kuja5809 She's not a narcissist, she's just selfish.
That may be a FL thing cause it's not the first time I've heard that. I've also heard that some white members of black gangs in FL get to say it.
Kendra should do more follow up shows like this! 🤣🤣🤣 I wanna hear what happens to people after they are on here! This is great!
Great idea !!!!
I concur. More follow up shows.
Yessssss!
same here.
I ain’t never skipping an update show
He’s actually arguing about his justification to say a racist word. Imagine anyone arguing with a Jewish person about being anti-Semitic. This is ridiculous. This guy is a red flag and unacceptable. The girl is just as toxic. Both need to get therapy before they date again.
Just ask Whoopi Goldberg....... Haha
Therefore, blacks should stop using that very racist word period.
That's why blacks need to stop using nigga and shit if your feelings going to get hurt by the word. Then other races would stop using the word like it cool Because we black keep using it.
True I see your point
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I am black and I am offended if anyone uses the N word around me black or white. His problem is Kendra is telling him as a black women that using the N word as a white person is not okay, his only defence is he is not a racist and his so called black friends don’t mind.
Exactly when clearly one of his black friends does care but obviously that isn’t enough
So Kendra is the authority for all black people, but his friends are "so called black friends" make it make sense. This is deeply personal issue he respects that Kendra doesn't like it and doesn't drop it around her (based on this interaction), but there's plenty of black folks who don't care. Me personally I don't like anyone using the word but I can't escape it I like hip hop.
Something doesn't stop being a slur because of your identity and if we are supposed to "own it" other people saying it wouldn't be upsetting that would be the point of owning it because it would have no power over us but it does so maybe we should stop saying it.
You prefer he say he a racist?
I agree with you.
Those are the worst ones
The fact that he’s fighting so hard to justify being able to say the n word overshadowed how outrageous she was.
Neither parties need to be using that word tbh…
The fact that she thought a white dude was the answer was hilarious. However, she needs to find another White dude and leave the brothers alone.
Yeah he got to let that go.
@@mrrdw77 I, personally think she NEVER thought he was the answer from the start... Seems as if she only dealt with him because she was bored and thought he could show her a good time for that moment...
Honestly, I don't understand people seriously involving themselves with others they have met online, PERIOD 🤷🏾♀️
No it doesn’t
A married mother of two gets on a plane to meet a man she doesn't know at all. All she has for protection is a phone and loses it! Hope she never goes missing.
She is crazy for sure. Crazy people make irrational decisions where most normal person won't do. That white people spoke with facts. She is crazy and you can tell. Her second husband is a fool.
God forbid but she keep playing around in these crazy times she’ll end up deleted by a wm that the police deem “too nice” to possibly be a suspect
@@MarvelousJP It just blows my mind that a mother would put her life at risk knowing she has a 4 year old son depending on her. SMH.
@@Sammiein I hope the father uses these videos as evidence and can get custody. Let her run wild and do what she wants as long as she’s not the one who has the children
Bring your phone
She cant pay for her divorce but can pay for a flight to meet a stranger. Smh, why do I feel soooooo embarrassed?
Because she shares your reflection!! Just your every day programming of trying to remove a stigma attached to the collective group of those who share your reflection...... Signed a black man
@@saikoa2129 damn bruh 🤔 facts!
@@Truthisstrangerthanfiction8 she gold digger that properly make about 30ish year
Because it's a shameful situation. I feel second hand embarrassment for her.
Maybe the guy paid for it. She be married twice, yah she may not be marriage material. One divorce okay- two or three - don’t give me no advice on relationships. Thanks.
It's crazy the amount of times he claimed the woman was being racist towards him /white people, but he refuses to see how offensive it is for him to use that word. A word that is rooted in racist origins.
He???
He’s not using it in a racist way. He’s using it to refer his buddy’s.
Refer to your buddies as “homie” or something other than the n word
im black and clearly you didnt heard nothing he said!!! i understood what he was saying
@@indo3052so we’re going to pretend it’s not offensive because his friends don’t mind? 😂
Just because some black people allow you to say it . Doesn’t mean you should say it around all, like it’s disrespectful and disgusting. They don’t have no self respect.
Yeah I literally have a cousin who didn't care that his white girlfriend said the n word he thinks she's not racist just because she let's him fuck her 🙄🙄🙄
I'm a 52 year old man from Mississippi that feels some kinda of way about that word. How ironic that was da last word many of our people heard before they were hung from a tree. Now we're trying to make da word acceptable for entertainment. These entertainers and rappers let it slide off their mouth without even thinking about it but you never hear them use ethnic slang for no other group in America 🖕🖕🖕. Let that white boy say that shit to somebody down south and see want he win da wet t-shirt contest.
@@Firespawnable i know plenty of bm like that. They don’t care how a woman treats them long as they getting the p . It’s sad and degrading. It’s normal here in Virginia and they love white women that degrade them. I have to stop these white women in their tracks .
@@eddieelliott1496 Im from Memphis Tennessee very close to south haven Mississippi . & from what I seen , in my generation they let white people say Whatver they wanna say and do nothing about it .
@@dangdeionn Yeah and by the way do you have Instagram so I can follow you because you seem cool your comments are funny as hell 🤣🤣🤣
She's lived her life out of control and now she wants a man of structure while still living out of control. MEN OF VALUE DONT MOVE LIKE THIS!!!!!!!!!
I agree
Yes she a mess you said it mr noble
She doesn’t want a man of value….. she’s wants a submissive . Not to be questioned …
@@taviarenee1911 Exactly, more foolishness. No real man is going to do that. She may need to stick to the 60+ crowd. Some of them are losing their memory. That's the only way to get a real man to cowar like that is if he forgets that he's a real man. 😅😅
This is MOST of them today
She paid for her own flight but didn't book her own hotel ????!!! Number one fail . Why stay at his house ? He's a stranger
I’m sick and tired of WP acting as if they don’t know about the “N” word.. 🙄 🤦🏾♀️
He hangs around with alot of black men. They allowed his ignorance to continue.
Exactly…they know better than anyone
What the word means 🙄
He isn’t even white, he’s Jewish.
I’m sick and tired of black people using it in FRONT of white people and thinking it’s cute. The word is a fucked up word - period. And it ain’t cute no matter whose lips it comes from.
They get a few black friends an think we ALL have to accept they b.s. He is to ignorant to understand why it's not ok for him to say it. I bet if a black man told him to watch his mouth he wouldn't have called a man a bitch. He weak af🤡🤛🏾😒
Even without his story, I can tell she’s bat shit crazy. My gosh…
😆 🤣 😂
You can tell she's crazy as hell because her eyes are always out her head😳😳🤣
She said he was crazy but didn't give any details; he gave all the details 😂😂😂
Took the words right out of my mouth, verbatim!
😂😂😂😂I thought I was the only one who saw it
He's going to find himself in a bad situation if he keeps using that word
I hope it happens as soon as possible. He'll say it by the side of the wrong bm and finally get his a** whopped. I hope we hear from him
Yup!
She’s been reckless to go stay at a random dude’s place for a weekend and he’s been reckless to welcome a random girl at his place. See how everything went?
They both cray….
This video just showed me why certain people that come on this show are single . No respect for each other , no standards or boundaries, delusional, reckless, toxic, drama out, crazy and pure silly as hell.
Exactly !!!! play stupid games and get stupid prizes .
They're both bat sh*T crazy! 😉🤦🏻
It went just as it should.....2 da left 🥱
I don’t even say it around non black people and I cringe when other blacks do, that’s why white folks feel comfortable!😩
Please say that again for the slow ones !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ain't that much hip hop in the world!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you. I don’t know why we classify such disparaging words as “terms of endearment”
Sadly this something I need to work on in my life...I'll be married in 3 weeks he's in the army and we go to a lot of functions and im learning to shake some bad habits I'm forever grateful to that 2 ⭐ Gen wife a white lady who pulled me to the side and schooled no me on how I was presenting myself and my future husband to those around us I took it personally at first but after calming down and speaking to him I kinda understood what she was saying ya know
@@ReeRee_Donita wish someone make it makes sense, I’ll never understand ...as Asians, we’d never use go*ok or other degrading term to normalize its word on each other, ever.
@@thuandao4243 bro, God is my witness, I have tried to sensify this nonsense myself and I’m paralysed in discombobulation every time. 😂 Well done👏🏾it’s honestly commendable. You guys have standards and principles that actually make sense. Uphold them as much as possible. Please, for the sake of my sanity, keep being an example to those who don’t get it. This nonsense is pissing me off.
This show should be used as a case study for mental health. These people crazy as hell
They jump from one one night stand to the next…they’re not dating, just hooking up. Work on yourself , you can’t go wrong there. I’ve never hopped on a plane bc I had nothing to do.
😂😂😂😂😂😂....I agree
🚩🚩 She came back with even more flags!! Does not want a guy in Kansas City because of her reputation out there. 🚩🚩🚩
Fact women like her are walking bomb. Truth women who hide their passed are nothing more then a street walker.
Ho ho ho 😭😭🤣🤣🤣
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I found that odd. She dismissed an entire city.
She's Santa out there 😆 ho ho ho
They both sound delusional I can’t lie. Why does he want to say the n word so bad, omg.
Determined to say it! Smh
Good question. Can we use a racist slur with him?
Because he’s a part of an ignorant culture who has turned it into a word used in every day language… and that ignorant assed culture who believe it’s cute that he’s a part of is OUR culture.
@@sheania7jahmari Ok I just wanna say how I feel about it...as a white person...you don't say racial slurs to me and I don't say them to you. I don't like hypocrisy. Also I think racism is for stupid people. And I honestly don't care if you want to say the n word...im not one of those "if you say it..I can too". I don't have a hang up about that. I just want you to show me respect like I show you.
Because y'all made it cool to say I don't think it's because he's racist but it's just a cool thing to say these days especially when y'all put it in songs it sounds very cool to say
Every time Kendra attempted to explain that the word has a dark side behind it and the pain it has caused us, he kept talkin over her. SMH
I don’t approve of any non black using the N word!! He is toxic and feels entitled even when Kendra tried to explain to him about using the word. Any black woman that dates him is insane.
Exactly🍸
Shawnee & Shaliha 100% black girl names lmao yall just trying to justify this crazy b actions by making him look like the bad guy. There is a reason she is going through 2 divorce and expecting to get married 5 more times. I messed around with a black chick once and never again.
Preach
FACTS!!! He somehow believe that it is a part of the culture that he can use the word. Heck I am black and it's not a part of my culture.
@@luvbig41 Naw if homie use that word around me he getting handled he ain’t one of my brothers
Lol I'm 6'4 225. 37 with no kids. Own everything, I earn 6 figures a year. I don't club or hang out in the streets. Just got out a 4 year relationship with a lady with 2 kids. No criminal record. She thought she could find someone better so I let her go see. And of course she tried to come back but Never! All that too say is Good Black Men do exist we just rather be out the way until we find our wife! Not someone else's! #S/O to the Alpha Heterosexual Men! 💪🏾💪🏾
Stay strong!
But if a baby mamma left you, even w all the assets you listed, um, you're probably not that goodlooking. 🤷♀️
But, lucky for you, Mr. Average-looking! - the ageing process is on your side when it comes to the sexual marketplace. ~ happy ageing...
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Well your story sounds too good to be true. You must of hit a nerve for her to leave you if you have all of those good qualities going on for yourself. As they say, there's two sides to a story.
Her loss !
Did she tell you what could be better than you ? Like did she voice what she felt you lacked for her to want to find better? Obviously you don’t have to answer but I am curious because it seems the grass was already green with you 🤔
Fours years? Perhaps she knew you were wasting her time and was never going to marry her. Also I am always wary when someone thinks they are perfect.
If they are NOT single -- they do not qualify to be on the show. That means NOT going through a divorce.
He has a problem listening. Everytime Kendra tries to explain the problem with him using the word, he cuts her off. He'll use it around the right one and find out.
He doesn’t have a problem listening . Hes listening to respond … aka “ I know what you’re saying but I don’t give a fuck what u say imma still use it “
He doesn't have a problem listening, yall do. He and Kendra already said they've had this convo, and agree to disagree, why keep having it? You clearly couldn't convince him before, do you think that's gonna change? Hell nawl
Who cares. When they really got into it I paused the video because it got too tedious, comment here, and then leave. If black people keep using it as a form of affection and ridicule, people of other races who consider themselves our friends will never stop using it.
You’re just a “black” woman apologist. Either you’re a siiiiiiiiistha or a simp facts.
@@johnow7 facts
If Black people are telling you that they don't feel comfortable with you using the N word, and you're not Black...? Hang it up. You should AUTOMATICALLY stop saying it. Imagine a white person arguing with me that they should be allowed to say it and I'm offended. Also, hip hop culture is BLAAAACK. You're a guest. Be grateful they even allowed you to be in the room with them. You don't come in someone's house and demand that you be entitled to my things... NO. The dude is racist. Period. This dude is a clown. Taking y'all culture, the way you speak, disrespecting your women... Why do Black men keep allowing others to come in and blatantly disrespect you and your culture? Gatekeep what's yours. It's sacred. Also, reverse racism is not a thing. She can be prejudice or traumatized, but she has no power to oppress you. Ugh!
Ase
Well said. This should be pinned to the top of the comments
I was going to say the exact same thing but your explained it so well
Thank you Queen
Word! & part of the problem is those "I don't like you saying it but we're still friends" folks. How does that even work?
Pin this! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Red Flag is if a non-black person wants to say it alot it's a PROBELLMMM if they care about you. And you ask them to stop saying it 🛑 if you my real friend. He's to invested in saying it The obsession is Real with this guy 🤦🏽♀️ Sheeesh
Jesus the way this man was defending himself for saying the N words mind boggling
So he’s so distraught she called him a “racist” but he can’t stop saying n-. 🤔Someone please make this make sense.
And he knows he’s not black
Uses the N-word
As a black women and having ancestors that died by that word blacks shouldn't even use a word that whites made in the first place Jews and every other culture don't use they're deragatory slurs made by whites
I'm now side eyeing DJ Envy and Jada Kiss if he's saying HNigga around them, he said he say's it around 'all his friends'.
They are both a POS match made in heaven... no Hell. Black men run away
@@QueenHonor Exactly, I know the history of the word. No matter who says it it's still derogatory. Black folks need to do better.
He’s equally responsible for letting a stranger in his home
He said the n word and she stood in business and that’s all that needs to be understood…. Glad sis represented
The man’s story was so detailed I believe it 100%
when dude break down DAY for DAY , that boy. aint lyin😂😂
Being detailed doesn't mean it's accurate, honestly. That's what I found out.
@@thefreebabe I mean if you pair that with her behavior from the previous time she called and the way she skipped right past telling her version of the story it seems pretty accurate because she certainly didn't want to acknowledge the story when Kendra asked about it, Especially when she was so excited to bring it up and talk about what a mess it was
Whatever I think he is telling the truth plus he said he recorded her.
She is wreck less still dating while married and looking for another man to pay for her divorce I am sure.
All I can say she got a white black type brother and he was probably not catering to her financially when she flowed out.
And him not wanting to come on with her we all no she would have talked over him and started yelling.
And calling her the B word he could have took the high road however so what she probably is a B.
Spending the child support money on a ticket I am sure take the trash out homie and he dodge a bullet.
@@leichaurellelux7547 She is also wreckless for going to stay at a man’s home that you don’t know in another city for 3 days. Does her husband know that she was going and putting herself in harms way? Because he could have ended up a single father behind some crazy mess like that.
Something is a little off with BOTH of their stories... ( and he is definitely name dropping and dead WRONG for using the N word)
Right! I'm still in the middle of his story, but I thought she lost her phone. When did she find it to be texting her friend? Maybe I missed something. Edit to say he cleared it up, but they both were still wrong.
Yeah he was definitely name dropping and bragging he obviously used the fact that he's friends with famous people to try to impress women lol 🤣
Both of them sounds touched 😆 on god
I still for the life of me can't understand why whyte folks want to be able to use that word so badly.
Neither parties need to be using that ugly disgraceful word…black, white, or anywhere in between.
I agree!
Any man that’d take her seriously after hearing her admit that she and her husband sometimes sleep in the same bed together is a fool. She’s not worth the risk.
glad Kendra addressed the use of the n-word. anyone who has used it around me 1x, i never spoke to again. i'll leave the dinner or leave their presence if its at a party never to speak to them again.
Yeah honestly I'm giving her the die eye because he said he already told her in their messages that he uses the n word and she claims to be against it and she called him racist but she still travelled to go see him and was still around him anyway. 🙄
Like to me if she truly was not okay with him saying the n word and truly thought he was racist then she wouldn't have been around him since like you said people that don't like it stay away from those people not travel to go see them. 😖
So agree with him that she's on some bullshit. 🤣🤣🤣
@@Firespawnable exactly, homegirl just wanted to have something to say just to deflect on what her main purpose of contacting Kendra ,which was to say how "bad " the date was 🙄Typical narcissist and she will always have to get divorce after divorce with her nonsense.
@@YourAverageChick yeah honestly I think she just wanted to say the date was bad and bitch and complain 🤣 but she the one that travelled to go see him so she look like a fool 😂😂😂
@@Firespawnable right smh 🤣🤣🤣
@@Firespawnable right chile 🤣🤣🤣
He is the example of why black people should not make non blacks comfortable to say that word. The very fact people have said they are uncomfortable & won't stop tells me everything I need to know 😒
There's a reason this woman is facing divorce after her SECOND marriage. You would think he was such a terrible guy from the way she explained it but turns out she has no good relationship skills. How do you buy 6 bottles of liquor on a first date?? She's a train wreck..
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It's machiavellianism. It's disgustingly common among women. Machiavellianism in psychology refers to a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. Machiavellianism is one of the traits in what is called the 'Dark Triad', the other two being narcissism and psychopathy.
@@kuja5809 I grew up around women with this mentality and I have always found it disgusting. I would get called names because they would say that I'm naive when it comes to relationships, meanwhile they had bad relationships their whole lives, always wanting men to fall to their every needs and wants just because they're supposed to be in a "relationship " and they give "sex" so they automatically feel that they can't be told No for nothing, smdh.
Psssh . Its so expected too. I really be waiting for them to speak about how terrible their ex was even though shes been single for 5 years
How do u go see a stranger out of state and stay at his house is beyond me 😂
He would rather leave a woman than stop using a racist term 🤦🏾♀️
Why would any blackwomen want to date any whiteman that says it
Racist term? Lol shut up Karen
Tf are you talking about. He would rather leave than have a double standard Relationship where she shits on his skin color, is ashamed of his skin color, and literally makes everything about his skin color. The dude made the right choice. It wasn’t about the term. It was about her shitting on him for his skin color. He said he can slowly take it out of his vocab, it’s gonna take awhile. I’m glad he left her racist ass. Racism has no color.
Would you like to be in a relationship where someone shits on your skin color? No.
Weird af
To go out of town to meet a guy for the first time and not get a room is crazy. I do believe he’s story I could tell she’s crazy. She’s definitely looking for a man to provide for her financially but let her run wild
I’m so irritated with this white man arguing why he says a racial slur
It felt emotionally abusive 😔💭
He's ignorant af! I bet if a black man told him to watch his mouth he wouldn't have called him a bitch😒🤡🤛🏾.
Then tried to double down. When I meet people who don't like it I stop talking to them. I cannot promise I'll stop saying it... I bet if he started getting lumped up every time he used the racist slur he would try hard as hell to avoid ever letting that word slip from his thin ass lips again!
@@BluMoonFiction Said He'd Try n Cut Back🙄
@@asiatic254 🤣😂 and I would try to cut him so that individual wouldn't be near me. I'm sure none of the prominent black male figures he mentioned would allow him to use that slur in their presence.
He’s indigence on using the N-word alone is racist. As a BW, if I tell a BM that I’m uncomfortable with him using the N word, the man will not use it out of respect. This WM needs to use the word so much that he said it’s a deal breaker if he can’t say it around the woman he’s dating. This man is a solid racist.
He may be ignorant but I wouldn’t consider him racist
@@kmariamv
He’s not ignorant. Ignorant means lacking in knowledge. He is very aware of how blaq people feel about him using that word and he’s chooses to ignore it.
and he chooses to date BW!!! and they choose him back smh
I agree with you, any black woman that dates that man is crazy.
He said most black people he's around don't care and even Kendra knows he uses the n word and she's still friends with him
Why would she stay at a strangers house for 3 days? She should've stayed at an Airbnb! She looks & sounds desperate for companionship!
Right
she is looking for a docile guy who's willing to put up with her BS. okay girl.
There are a lot of those...Now do they have the money she wants? That's another question.
@@thickthickly Thing is-- they may exist but they wont last long with her. Why do women think they can reverse the gender role?
@@thickthickly docile to fuck her, not docile to live with that everyday for the rest of ur life. If going to sleep is better than being awake then death is a Calvary
That girl is a whole borderline personality.
Yes! His story is true. I believe him! Flight to see a stranger she crazy lol
Tends to happen when you can’t pair bond. She’ll never be able to be a wife because of her past
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🤣🤣🤣 She left out the whole story.
I totally believe this guy but using the n word is a no no for me. I don't even like when other black people say it.
If he didn’t Name Drop of knowing Kendra would she have even given him the time of day🙄🤔
She was looking for a goofy/sponsor. She paid $300 for a trip THINKING she was going to finesse him for $3,000…..
Good call I missed that!
You nailed it and if he has friends in the entertainment world you do speak of people it is okay.
She could use that $300 towards her divorce or on her children. She need to give herself a month or two or more a break from any relationship and find herself.
Looking for a hot fresh goofy
Factz sis, she's looking for a come up not a husband
Dude on the phone said she is crazy, and she just proved it.Psycho is an understatement.
I believe him😂😂😂he gave wayyyy too many details and even admitted to calling her out her name
She call him out of his name so I don't blame him for retaliating
right, The fact she didn't go into detail and just said it was a mess and brought up the fact he uses the N-word, was just deflecting and a distraction from her actually saying what happened..
Yeah I think he told the truth so I respect his honesty 😅
So because he gave "details" that makes it the truth? Are people really this stupid?! This is just not realistic lol I'm dreaming right now.
It's amazing how many black ppl defend racist and call them friends
Totally feels like Touch is racist just on the strength that he’s adamant that he should be allowed to use racist slur and associates not using it with DUMBING IT DOWN
The word bothers u that much when they say it in a non demeaning way but u cool with black people saying it? Maybe if no one said it they would not have an excuse
@@RaBrando I never said I was cool with black people saying it. Realistically it’s too promoted in hip hop culture so it may never be unspoken.
@Berlin Miles on god 😆
Every yte person is racist this should not come as a surprise
Just because you use a word that every single one of your friends and your environment taught you growing up to use doesn’t make you racist. Simply makes you a human who is extremely impressionable like any other human.
Kendra is absolutely right. White shouldn’t use the word. But in places like NYC and Miami, many Hispanics (definitely Puerto Ricans) grow up black. They have been brainwashed into our culture so immensely they barely know their own. Good luck training them to not say the word.
He seems to be telling the truth...I believe him 💯 %. That woman on her 2nd divorce and flying out to meet men with two small children??? That is reckless. behavior.
Unfortunately ignorance is more dangerous than covid. I bet he wouldn't call someone who's Jewish out their name!!
Black people allow too much leeway with that word from other folks.
This isn’t even ignorance because he knows he’s wrong and how harmful the word is it’s racism at this point.
He is jewish, I bet he wouldn"t like it if someone was throwing the k word around in his presence smh.
She’s probably crazy and he’s entitled. They are both a no for me.
He has no right to use the N word but I believe his side of the story. Dude broke everything down day by day.
This guy feels like he can use this word because there's never been consequences for him. But this day will come sir
For a woman that has 2 children, mistake #1 was going to that man's city, on his turf, staying in his house that soon. Ladies, I been flown out twice in my younger years, and that's after talking for months of talking, them visiting ME 1st and me paying that $30-$35 background check after knowing his FULL NAME! Be smart.
Right she went out there paid for own 🎫 there for she should have gotten her own room and bought a friend with her
@@mikeandmars2345 Exactly, my first trip to my ex fiance, he flew me to Seattle and booked me at a Marriott downtown Seattle. I took a pic of his address and his license plate and sent to my friend girl and cousin. I already spent time with him in my city twice. Women got to be more careful, period! I had 3 kids to worry about and liked him a lot, but still needed to make sure I was safe above all.
She’s a bird she has no common sense or forethought and her current and ex husbands are both goofballs for even taking this gnat serious
I don't know how other women watch this without cringing with shame and embarrassment.
He’s annoying AF with the loud, repetitive ranting about the N word and celebrity friends. Dude!!! Be quiet and listen. The young lady was annoying and delusional.
"Stop name dropping that you know me" as she's texting him on his personal number 🤣🤣🤣
lol She said they’re friends.
lol I understood what she meant. Like we friends but don’t be using my name to slide into women’s dms
@@GetIntoTheBLACK Nah. If a woman I'm trying to talk to knows you and I know you too I'm ABSOLUTELY name dropping you lol. How else on social media are you supposed to close the gap and sound different than everyone else saying "hey beautiful"? Sorry lol. Now I'll make sure to put our friendship or acquaintance in the proper light and not oversell it, but if you REALLY are my friend then yes I am absolutely going to say "oh yeah I know Kendra, that's my homegirl". Every single time lmao!
And they had a rapport 😅
@@r.j.w7924 especially if the woman has just been on Kendra’s show. Makes sense to me.
That chick is a walking red flag
Be a submissive male? What? 6 figures.. open relationship.. Chile lol go ahead and get you a dog and call it quits on dating lol also there has to be some unresolved drama with her legal husband.
She needs a sub, maybe she's a dom
A mother with nothing better to do that to fly out to meet a stranger 😳🥴
You really think she just flew out to meet him for a 3 day trip and her babies were not being taken care of at home? 🙄 That's what a baby sitter is for lol 🤣
@@Firespawnable and im sure her babysitter was her mom....Just so she can live the life lol
@@teewilliams4520 No, you're not sure you don't even know her 😑 if she can pay 300 dollars to go on trip then she can pay a damn baby sitter she don't gotta ask her mom to baby sit like broke people do 🙄
@@Firespawnable that is a possible option. You know her?
@@teewilliams4520 Obviously, I don't know her that's why I'm not saying I'm sure like you did lol 🤣 But from this video she clearly has money so it's obvious she can afford a baby sitter lol 😂
That entire trip was toxic and they both need to get their lives in order 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
exactly- two toxic folks combusted
Who leaves a stranger in their house, because they need to walk the dog 😄
Right! Who allows a stranger to stay with them for three days? Like if you don’t go get an Airbnb 😂
His story was crazy & entertaining. His story sounds accurate.
The mans story usually is. Women run circles to not take responsibility.
Most should have known everything he talked about w this girl prior to hearing his story.
She also ever told her side of the story and any man who refers to a woman as the b word imo is not a nice guy. I mean he’s even sitting her arguing about wanting to use the n word I was sitting their rolling my eyes the whole time because they both sound foolish
That's just wild.
The discussion about race and use of the N word during this segment was unexpected but valuable. I thought Kendra did a good job of explaining how different Black people feel about who uses the word.
I've learned more about this woman in 15 mins, than any of her husbands.. the red flags are all there.
I’ve been watching Kendra’s videos and I’ve been getting better at detecting bullshit and material. If someone says “im a good person im a loving person” that’s bullshit, but “im working on finding my 3rd husband, short men are mean and angry I need tall dark and handsome but im 300lbs and 5’5 with 3 short baby daddies” that’s material
Wait I forgot “I’m a fluffy THICK woman”
i learned something about her in the first 2 mins...lol
OH NO YOU DIDN'T! I saw her first video. She took those dudes through the ringer. The 2nd husband kinda got what he deserves, though.
🤔 Love it or hate it, the n word is a common word still used by a majority of people (of ALL races) in our society. As a Black man, I accept that. However, my stance has always been: "If you don't hear me say it around you, then you best not say it around me." Period. I NEVER say it around non-Blacks because I don't want them thinking it's cool to say to, or around, me. This is where alot of us, as Blacks, mess up. Many of us throw the word around in front of ANY & EVERYBODY but then get pissed off when someone of another race says it around us. I agree with Kendra in regards to anytime it's used by whites, it will NEVER sit right with me & I will not ever let it go unchecked. Trust!
Respectfully, it makes zero sense to me that it is okay for blacks to be accepting of it with each other knowing full well that it is a derogatory term, but have issues with it when any other race, especially whites say it? Again, respectfully, don't say it at all. Let the word die.
I agree
He loves hip hop so much
But has no love for the people “his friends “ who created it
If someone tells you from that culture that you saying that word makes them feel uncomfortable then why say it
It’s so many other words that you can use that has the exact same effect
Bro or king being some
It’s ridiculous
Exactly! I never use that word around non blacks! They better not say it around me!
I never use that word / PERIOD, but I know people who do and it bothers TF out of me… when it bothers me the most, though? When they use it around other non-black folk. I think it’s cringeworthy and lacks self respect whenever it’s used… but I can give you props for not taking that ignorance outside of “the house”. 👏
Facts..! It’s real that simple
One thing I admire about Kendra is she's going to stand her ground! Be it man , woman , black , white ... she's standing up for what she believes !!
Wow, that woman was horrible. Imagine if he wasnt able to give his side of the story.
That's most cases. We'll believe her side without hearing the truth. They are the biggest liars but the world says men are.
I agree and I am a woman.
But she never told her side of the story only that he was using the n word and his money was funny
This is ur standard of horrible...wth
She jus some one some guys wouldn't date..all the dirty mess going on in life and u call her horrible..in what reality
But you wasn’t there. Both could be lying.
What you all missed when the dude spoke on the date is that this Krazy chick tried to smash his condo patio door by throwing a wine bottle! No matter how trifling she tried to portray the dude, WHY DESTROY HIS PROPERTY??
Oh we didn’t miss it! She such an entire train wreck that there’s just so much to pick apart.
This is a prime example of why gatekeeping is so very important. This yt boy is way out of line, but apparently some "black" folks allow him to say it w/o cleaning his clock smh
*BLACK PEOPLE CANT BE RACIST, prejudice maybe...
He is really hanging on that word...
She's clueless She only offers her drama and oussy
This live broke my heart. Too many black people let white privileged slide. We are the only race that does NOT STAND TOGETHER. Kendra was really hot and had to end her live cause of a black woman being trifling. Where is that ANGER AT THIS WHITE MAN AND HIS DISRESPECT 🤦🏾♀️
He telling the truth I knew she was fucking crazy but that N word he need to stop
Why he need to stop saying it?
@@RaBrando because using it around the wrong person could be hazardous to his health..on god 😆
@@jaelee6390 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣period !🥴🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Will never happen
Every ra'ce can be ra'cist. No question about it.
I think he left out certain details that would make him look bad and having her back on the show he knew she would say those specific things. He was more detailed, but he was only detailed about how "crazy" she was.
My ultimate opinion on him: he uses his status to sleep with women. He thinks he's engulfed in the culture enough and feel that he has a right to use that word. His only concern is making himself out to be the good guy.
He gave a lot more detail about the date than she did. I don’t agree with him using the N-word, but he seems a lot more credible than she does. At least he had viable explanations for most of the things she mentioned.
@@johnbrowntheprophet so because he used Certain words in a certain way he's more credible? Lol questionable judgment right now. That's very stupid.
@@pink1237480 - She didn’t go into *ANY* details about the trip to Miami, whereas he did, so yeah, from that standpoint alone, he’s automatically more credible than her.
@@johnbrowntheprophet as I mentioned, he only gave details about her - not about him. So it's like getting half of the truth bc we never heard from her again.
What I'm hearing you say, is that bc of his many negative details about her - his explanations makes him a viable source...
But why do you think he didn't want her back on the live?
Why do you think he ran smooth passed that "she said, I don't wanna have sex with you"? It was never brought up any other time until the end of his story and I honestly think he said it accidentally.
He could've been a complete creep but we won't know that bc he didn't want her back on the live. I can only judge what I see and bc I didn't see her responses to his accusations, then I can't just say that he's more credible. That's just being logical IMO.
How can he be a viable source when he makes an excuse for using a racial slur🤔🤔
@Taffeta Jackson - My point is that he admitted to what he said (using the N-word). I’m not saying that he’s a patron saint. However, the fact that he was willing to divulge a lot more information than her is very telling. I’m much more inclined to believe his story than hers.
32 and 2 divorces? Red flag
Worst first date ever🤦🏾♂️🤣🤣🤣 This story needs an animation video 📹
Serves her right for going out with a cave dweller! You thought he had money, but all he had was a racial slur and a few celebrity names.
Besides, what self respecting woman would pay to go see a complete stranger out of state?
Cave dweller? Is that racist ?
Ah yes cry about racial slurs while using racial slurs to describe someone else. Hypocrite much.
Regardless of who he’s around, he doesn’t get to determine if the word is racist or not. That’s a prime example of white privilege even in “hip hop culture”.
I’m not one for interracial dating, so it’s hard for me to sympathize with her. I feel like she got what she signed up for when she chose that route. With that said this young lady need to grow up, her mentality is all over the place in a immature way, she relishes in drama, confusion, just toxic
Exactly.
I’m not into mixing ethnicities either - I honestly think they’re using that word at their convenience and as an excuse to use the word
These women get exactly what they sign up for thinking there going to be saved by white man/men 🙄
I personally don't mind IR dating but she did seem a bit immature to be 32 years old. She'll probably always have a bunch of drama going on because she invites that energy.
Bm will fetishize bw if they have light skin, eyes or hair or if her hair is long or if she is dark skin with long hair or light eyes. Therefore being a black woman and dating will be unique no matter what.
I love IR dating. But only in the aspect that they have a different culture than American. I love dating and experiencing new cultures and exploring it with someone you love.
Honestly, I believe him. From her interview with Kendra I can tell she was crazy, this non-divor say second married, talking about she's looking for a man who makes 100k she doesn't care if he's in a relationship, standards and expectations all over the place, she sounded real bizarre and I absolutely believe this man when he said that she was a drunk, that she disrespected him by calling him racist, and that she held sex over his head and made him feel guilty for being a white boy and portraying that she only wanted to be friends. She thought this man was going to fall for the okie doke and wine and dine and spoil her when she went out there to meet him. I think she had a rude awakening when he wasn't falling for her crap. She was pissed, and then was mad she received the same disrespectful treatment that she dished out to him. His account was way too detailed to be false, he also conveyed his role in the whole scenario so again, I definitely believe him. Even from her interview she seemed unstable and all over the place, absolute insane and bizarre behavior.
Boom 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥
Some black women think Caucasian men are perfect. This is a perfect example of how they’re not.
I’m 32 with 2 kids. Soon to be twice divorced, and I want a man who makes at least 6 figures, even that’s only 10% of the US population (not taking into account for marital status, age, race or sexual preference). And I’d prefer him to not have kids. Oh, and I sometimes sleep with my soon to be ex husband, although we don’t have sex. The entitlement is real gentleman.
Touch needs to research racism. But even if his “friends” are okay with him saying it he should automatically nerf himself when he is other black people.
On god...but I bet he wouldn't try that shit with Jews
FACTS.
@@jaelee6390 his last name is Rosenberg what do you think he is lol.
@@belmoor3219 since he's a jew ~~ would he find it ok if his black friends used a jewish sleur 🤔
@@texas1977 He probably have to suck it up. He from Brooklyn he probably use to it.
I'm hooked on this show!
Whew, she was all over the place. She's ready to enter into another relationship when she hasn't legally ended her marriage. She blew me when she said she wants the man to be submissive to her, he needs to make six figures, he can't have children, & she doesn't want more children. The man can see other people, she's into women, etc. But in spite of it all, I do believe their is someone for everyone.
So basically she wants a sponsor that won't question the things she do.
She's deluded
She need to stop trying to take his money and get the divorce u want so bad. Smfh. I'll never dm her. She want a beta male.
Not even a regular beta male will deal with that s**t. She wants a straight sucka.
Unfortunately, many men will ignore her red flags if they find her physically attractive
Talking about they still can share a bed together. That guy is doing it to himself. Why is he still giving access to someone who clearly isn't into him?
Any man that involves himself with this woman is a fool
I bet she used the co'urts to ste'al half of her ex husbands resources. It's clear she adds very little value to a man.
😂😂😂 “we still can sleep in the same bed”
I wonder why he doesn't want her coming on with him? I would want to confront my accuser unless I got something to hide.
Because she's lying and he was going to expose exactly what she did and it would've been uncomfortable for her and she wouldn't have been able to control the narrative
They both are immature!! I would never travel to meet a man
@@JDMHaze She wanted to come back on. He didn’t want HER to
@@EB-ok3io Yeah but Kendra asked and she pretty much skipped past it, how do you bring up something and talk about how big of a mess it was and then skip over it???? When we hear his side of the story and it's like wow no wonder she didn't talk about it
Because she wouldn't do anything but try to over talk him. As a Black man, I know Black woman love to argue and get loud. She got what she deserved 🤷🏿♂️
Why is she splainin for paying to go see w-zaddy? I was bored, had nothin to do, it was only $300 dollars, blah-blah-blah, and blah-blah-blah. Her day has come and gone, nobody is buying what she's selling anymore.
She’s 35 😊 she slipped up and said her real birth year, ‘89 😂
The shock in her face when she gave her real date of birth 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah she's in her mid 30s
She’s divorced, dating while married to the second and is divorcing him too, in her 30s with kids and requires the 6/6/6 standard which is rarer than 1%? What else is new around here. 🤣
I couldn't say it any better myself.🤦🏾 But she already said it herself.. she'll make herself happy lol 😅
Shut the Fuq up! Running her stats down, what's yours?
666, she's wants The Antichrist 🤷
The sky is blue 😃
Nothing at all
I know him personally too….. he is a HOT ASS MESS smhhhhhhh
The sad part is there's actually a lot of men that are DM her.... And then we wonder why these women feel entitled and that they could do whatever they want and they can still believe they get a man 🤦🏿🤷🏾
She might have options for sex but not necessarily relationships
@@kind5244 exactly there's a difference
Exactly right, sex, not a long term relationship/marriage. Big difference
@@kind5244 She's not in it for relationships. She's looking for the next sucker to finesse. These dudes are dumb.
They are in her dms for sex and that's it like most women. It's just a lot of women are slow and they think they have options when in reality they have options to get fucked.