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  • Опубликовано: 16 янв 2025

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  • @Mrs.Terry17
    @Mrs.Terry17 2 года назад +2689

    It's nothing wrong with what he said. Just because you don't meet his qualifications, don't shame him.

    • @rickybobbydastar6534
      @rickybobbydastar6534 2 года назад +86

      Yeah I definitely don’t think he want to take the hairstylist to a charity function lol

    • @porsha379
      @porsha379 2 года назад +3

      Please this dude ain’t neva been to a governors ball … he straight country and hood following suga booty Samuels gtfoh for real

    • @joshuatruvillion3044
      @joshuatruvillion3044 2 года назад +63

      Fact the rest of them mad

    • @akadashiki
      @akadashiki 2 года назад +60

      preach sis. the one's who refuse to grow may try to silence you

    • @e.6322
      @e.6322 2 года назад +184

      Something is wrong with what he said. He has a god complex. He says no woman is smarter than him and cannot take care of themselves on their own... He generalizes women to a negative aspect. Its no wonder he cannot find anyone lol

  • @chiefsmokestx
    @chiefsmokestx 2 года назад +199

    Lets go Michael! His preferences are 100% on point! 80% + of Kendra's audience dont fit the qualifications!

    • @KeepinItOneHunnnid
      @KeepinItOneHunnnid Год назад +9

      Facts!!..and that's why they in they feeling. Black women think they should always be in consideration by *EVERY* black man no matter how much of a mess they or they life is.

    • @29_____
      @29_____ Год назад +2

      Exactly a hit dog gone holla

    • @okorochukwunonso2563
      @okorochukwunonso2563 Год назад +3

      lol
      He said they cant be smarter than him as a woman. Good riddance.

  • @beautiful_wonderfullymade
    @beautiful_wonderfullymade 2 года назад +1899

    Look ladies whether you agree with his requirements or not, at the end of the day he’s a high earning man. He’s a locomotive engineer and has been in his profession for 16 years. That’s already a guaranteed 6 figure salary. With that being said he makes the money to be able to request what he’s asking for from women. Honestly he’s not asking for much. He is simply requiring a woman to be submissive, feminine, naturally beautiful, modest, available and to not have given her womb to another man. Mind you he doesn’t require for her to make a specific amount of money because he is prepared to take care of her should she meet his requirements. He’s in the top percentile of men so why would he settle for less than what he’s worked for.

    • @wholesomechick8259
      @wholesomechick8259 2 года назад +169

      Yes, he isn’t asking for much but his negative attitude is just a turn off. Those men in the manosphere that watch Kevin Samuels seem so unhappy.

    • @beautiful_wonderfullymade
      @beautiful_wonderfullymade 2 года назад +243

      @@wholesomechick8259 He didn’t seem unhappy to me. I think men with potential are just fed up with the dating options these days, which rightfully so. It’s like the Women today some of us have truly became what men don’t want and it might be frustrating to men like him. I can say the same thing about potential woman as well, they might be fed up with the options of men on the dating scene also, BUTTTT the only difference between the two is men are loosing out more than woman because a man is almost willing to make the most unattractive, unfit, woman with lack of potential his girl as long as she can make up for where she lacks in other areas such as being submissive and cooperative, but most woman aren’t willing to give unfit, unattractive men with lack of potential a shot.

    • @wholesomechick8259
      @wholesomechick8259 2 года назад +57

      @@beautiful_wonderfullymade Well if that man has money, women will most definitely give an unattractive unfit man the time of day. Also, I see this negativity from both bm and bw when they come on this show. They will list their preferences and then start going in on the opposite sex. It comes across as negative and most likely they will be equally negative once they pair up with someone. Perhaps he needs to travel more because Mississippi (one of the states with the most overweight people) is definitely not the place to find his requirements.

    • @beautiful_wonderfullymade
      @beautiful_wonderfullymade 2 года назад +2

      @@wholesomechick8259 A man with money will definitely allow his money and other assets to make up for the fact if he’s unfit or unattractive, but let’s be real it’s like no matter how ugly someone is money changes that. Biggie Smalls knew he was unattractive (per his words / R.I.P. however) but he knew it didn’t matter because he would still obtain woman based on his net-worth….The point I was trying to make is men are willing to go down in looks/physical appearance if that means he will instead get a submissive, cooperative, feminine woman. If we women can’t get a man who’s not financially stable we’re not willing to accept anything else from him. Women are a bit more shallow in the dating world, which understandably so because most women operate off hypergamy. The young man from the broadcast did say he’s willing to date outside of Mississippi. He called out Atlanta, Alabama, Florida etc… and there’s nothing wrong with someone whether male or female standing firm in what they want AS LONG AS FOR A MAN HE IS ELIGIBLE TO BE DEMANDING WHAT HES ASKING FOR WHICH IS DETERMINED BY HIS POCKETS AND A WOMAN HAS TO BE QUALIFIED TO DEMAND SUCH BY BEING IN SHAPE, NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL, FEMININE, SUBMISSIVE AND COOPERATIVE and depending on the man no kids or not much kids… As long as they meet the requirements they can demand all they want from their potential.

    • @praise3700
      @praise3700 2 года назад +95

      Exactly!!! I agree with you a 💯. A lot of the women angry are those who obviously don’t qualify. It’s okay to move along if he’s not your cup of tea or if you don’t meet his requirements. It’s on this same channel we see size 16’s who are average looking wanting a 6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pck, 6 in long man.

  • @lisac9440
    @lisac9440 2 года назад +425

    This is a REAL MAN. He knows what he wants. He's a provider, a leader , an intelligent man, a tradtional man, a man who likes to travel. Hope he finds Exactly what he deserves.

    • @pdiddy523
      @pdiddy523 Год назад +37

      Girl you don't know that man to be saying he's a real man. He could be sitting there doing a whole lot of capping. He might even be abusive.

    • @SunshineTarot
      @SunshineTarot Год назад

      HE'S A KEVIN SAMUELS PARAKEET - HE DIDN'T SAY ONE ORIGINAL THOUGHT EVERYTHING CAME FROM KEVIN. hE'S A BETA MALE WHO CAN'T THINK FOR HIMSELF.

    • @madant22
      @madant22 Год назад +8

      You just saying that because he have his stuff together and have money. That’s all. Only reason why you saying all that. Stop the cap. You not looking at his character.

    • @niag7273
      @niag7273 Год назад +2

      @@pdiddy523 😂😂

    • @visiow2691
      @visiow2691 Год назад +3

      Thank you! These feminists will all die alone

  • @tundra0828
    @tundra0828 2 года назад +668

    This guy is a hero. He knows what he wants and isn't hiding it.

    • @shellz831
      @shellz831 2 года назад

      Hero my a$$. the blackistan standard is in hell, hence doing the AVERAGE is looked at has "great". yall are a joke

    • @reynamonique6910
      @reynamonique6910 2 года назад +12

      Including young girls 🚩🚩🚩

    • @HelloKitty-pe4ho
      @HelloKitty-pe4ho 2 года назад +1

      @@reynamonique6910 Right! Only blk men think this is okay. Hell, they been creepy perverts anyway. 😭😹

    • @lelahill9778
      @lelahill9778 2 года назад +4

      Imagine u having a 20 year old daughter and she brings him home 🤔🤫🤔🤫🤔

    • @tundra0828
      @tundra0828 2 года назад +4

      @@lelahill9778 she'd know better.

  • @Missegyptlatesha
    @Missegyptlatesha 2 года назад +937

    I think I have an unpopular opinion on this man. I like him. That being said I'm married. My husband is very masculine, phenomenal provider, he thoroughly believes in gender roles. I am a stay-at-home wife my job is to cook clean and make sure he is happy. Prior to getting with him I worked 6 months out of the year and traveled for the remainder. I'm never been more happy. My life is simple, stable, and traditional.

    • @nicolea.7501
      @nicolea.7501 2 года назад +90

      I am married to a masculine, provider, protector, problem solving man. I also like this man. My husband and most of his friends are the same. The wives work if they want but taking care of the family and home is the primary role.

    • @alexandriacooper6054
      @alexandriacooper6054 2 года назад +97

      Girlllll I was looking for this comment. Same here!
      I’m a Stay at home mom, I have a great godly husband, I take care of our baby, cook and clean and work on my little businesses.
      Before I met him I was struggling to make ends meet. Now my life is so much better.
      And I love my family
      So I actually liked him a lot. But I understand everybody is different

    • @RP.Warrior
      @RP.Warrior 2 года назад +70

      I just want to give some praise to the married women here who actually have some traditional values which definitely work better than modern ones. I hope all you have a happy successful marriage til the end. It’s sad to see all these modern women complain about this man’s reasonable preferences. The only reason they are complaining is because they are not qualified for a good man like him.

    • @evonne437
      @evonne437 2 года назад +43

      @@RP.Warrior I don't think it's so much that they are not qualified, it's that these type of men have a non-spoken threat that only a stay at home wife can feel. The threat is, one wrong move, or one small NO and he will get mad and want to find another woman who will do what he say. It's not a stable life, it's a life of keeping your fingers crossed because you could be homeless, you would have no job history, no extra education....
      A housewife is like being confined for life, locked in the house no friends or family visits, while your husband only is free to leave the house. That's what men want a HOUSE wife not just a wife. He needs that person there to cook, clean, and watch his stuff his possessions while he is away. His life will remain in tact, his friends and family, if y'all divorce, while yours is nonexistent.

    • @d-nise6364
      @d-nise6364 2 года назад +44

      @@evonne437 This is exactly it! He doesn’t want his partner to grow. He wants her self-worth to be tied to him and the home. It’s his controlling attitude that sucks. Deep down this man is insecure. Total turn off 👎🏽

  • @ItsmeCR-g8j
    @ItsmeCR-g8j 2 года назад +505

    Women! Take note! The single Mom with multiple children, he found good enough to have sex with but nothing else. Single Moms must be careful of dealing with men if they’re seeking a real relationship.

    • @joeroot9142
      @joeroot9142 2 года назад +17

      Agreed

    • @RondelleMartin
      @RondelleMartin 2 года назад +7

      💯💯💯

    • @ampmiller370
      @ampmiller370 2 года назад +86

      Was he supposed to marry her or something with three kids? Women think brothers have to marry them if they have sex…ridiculous 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤔🤔

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 2 года назад +92

      @@ampmiller370 That's why shes warning them to look out and to properly vet before giving anything up

    • @d.kj.n1392
      @d.kj.n1392 2 года назад +63

      I'm a black man and yes I agree you all should be cautious, because most of us men don't value women with kids, especially one that just got knocked up by some random man and didnt marry the man...... I hate to say this, but single mothers are NOT A PRIZE. Women can lie to themselves til they are blue in the face, but how 95% of men think, SINGLE MOTHERS ARE NOT A PRIZE.

  • @dragonbloodtv
    @dragonbloodtv Год назад +173

    Im so confused. Why are the ladies so mad at this man? He’s literally one of the most qualified men on this damn show. He has no baby mamas, has a good job, knows what he wants. Why the backlash? Im convinced this community doesn’t want to succeed. Brotha, get ya passport. This community is cooked.

    • @MSquared-777
      @MSquared-777 Год назад +9

      I totally agree with you. Because he have criteria’s they been looking for in a man. But they do not have criteria’s he been looking for in a woman!

    • @Realaliatianna
      @Realaliatianna Год назад

      LMAO

    • @joe1deuce27
      @joe1deuce27 Год назад

      😂😂💯💯

    • @lulumort
      @lulumort Год назад

      ​@mariomorris2572 why all this truth now??😂

    • @consideredthoughts1791
      @consideredthoughts1791 Год назад +11

      Because 99% of the women who want this guy don't qualify for him. Or, to put it more succinctly.....
      Sour grapes

  • @AandP4dummieslikeme
    @AandP4dummieslikeme 2 года назад +605

    I like him. He knows what he wants and he stated it plainly. Good luck to him.

    • @shanafondon8767
      @shanafondon8767 2 года назад +8

      Ikr ... God speed to him.

    • @kayshawnsimmons6822
      @kayshawnsimmons6822 2 года назад

      He wants a dumb woman who let's him be the smart one but she has a car😹😹😹😹🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @JoyT01
      @JoyT01 2 года назад +2

      Agreed…

  • @ms.helpmeet4753
    @ms.helpmeet4753 2 года назад +1117

    Mike your standards are on point. Don't let no one tell you differently.

    • @yolly943
      @yolly943 2 года назад +13

      FACT

    • @Super007Saiyan
      @Super007Saiyan 2 года назад +13

      not even Kendra G. A woman biological time clock to having a baby goes down by age of 30 and he wants to have kids nothing wrong with age range cause that's the prime of a woman.

    • @markcampbell2702
      @markcampbell2702 2 года назад +18

      I saw nothing wrong with his preferences

    • @labelmeposh
      @labelmeposh 2 года назад +14

      @@markcampbell2702 Me either because these so called "strong" women sound ignorant. We know they've never been with a high earner. He said nothing about control and he's been married to a younger woman that was ok with it. These "boss chicks" CLEARLY haven't seen the "soft life" side of social media. There are A LOT of young women that would LOVE to live like he's speaking of. Shoot, a lot of older ones as well.

    • @samstevens8012
      @samstevens8012 2 года назад +17

      Man did these women get triggered by Michael..
      But strangely they have not been triggered by the dozens of delusional Women who have interviewed on the show in the recent past 🤔

  • @nevels2
    @nevels2 2 года назад +132

    Salute - 16 years with the railroad, and retiring as an engineer.... props my brotha

  • @paradiseinparaguay7714
    @paradiseinparaguay7714 Год назад +197

    Everything he said made SENSE!! He wants a SOFT, FEMININE woman that he wants to take care of. In other words, he just wants s traditional woman...NOTHING wrong with that. Kudos to him!!💖

    • @lesliea.3829
      @lesliea.3829 Год назад +6

      I definitely agree with him! Don’t settle! Best wishes!

    • @shawnasmith3594
      @shawnasmith3594 Год назад +5

      He'll find that in Mississippi

    • @Nicole_B.Ella-Ella
      @Nicole_B.Ella-Ella 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@shawnasmith3594 He said all the women he met in Mississippi have kids and he doesn't want a woman with kids.

    • @NetaaD
      @NetaaD 3 месяца назад

      👏🏽

  • @barbiefab7317
    @barbiefab7317 2 года назад +447

    I hope he finds what he’s looking for. This is a Good man right here

    • @shaakira134
      @shaakira134 2 года назад +30

      Exactly! I felt like he was being honest and genuine! I hope he finds true love!

    • @_.incredible_magnum._291
      @_.incredible_magnum._291 2 года назад +12

      Then why don't you try and contact him

    • @Shushawnna
      @Shushawnna 2 года назад

      Savanna

    • @d.kj.n1392
      @d.kj.n1392 2 года назад +1

      Lol Just keep it real, stop the lying.. most of our women hate these good men..

    • @_.incredible_magnum._291
      @_.incredible_magnum._291 2 года назад +1

      @@d.kj.n1392 ain't that the truth

  • @laurenlocd3180
    @laurenlocd3180 2 года назад +254

    I hate texting too. I honestly don’t trust a man that text all the time . Eventually I stop answering.

    • @Ghragle-
      @Ghragle- 2 года назад +23

      Yeah I hate texts. It’s like a notification in my calendar. Everyone you actually care about you speak too, face time, call, but when we date we are supposed to text? It’s the worst form of communication.

    • @rhnry1424
      @rhnry1424 2 года назад +8

      I feel that too I’d rather talk to the person

    • @MultiBizOwner
      @MultiBizOwner 2 года назад +2

      Me too!

    • @latricemurphy7009
      @latricemurphy7009 2 года назад +26

      When they text and say so tell me about your life, look I’m not about to text you a book about my life, when u get time call me like a normal person if not take care ✌🏽

    • @rhnry1424
      @rhnry1424 2 года назад +3

      @@latricemurphy7009 I agree

  • @BrooklynDodger
    @BrooklynDodger 2 года назад +490

    Michael is a good man. He brings a lot to the table. 95% of Kendra’s audience wouldn’t fit the qualifications.

    • @startingoverwithrelle
      @startingoverwithrelle 2 года назад +19

      lol I agree with you on this!

    • @sys691
      @sys691 2 года назад +4

      😳 wow

    • @JM-qg9bo
      @JM-qg9bo 2 года назад +4

      Lol and you know because???? He's not asking for much so don't count one out just yet.

    • @latoyaerwin9073
      @latoyaerwin9073 2 года назад +8

      I don't fit the qualifications to be apart of her audience. First and last viewing for me. And the more I listen to him, he seems like he's a Capper. In Texas we call it, just like Juvenile said it, "Acting like a Nigga who ain't NEVER had shit!"

    • @BrooklynDodger
      @BrooklynDodger 2 года назад +9

      @@latoyaerwin9073 Juvenile ain’t got shit. He had it and lost it. The man we talking about right here, got it and isn’t trying to lose it by messing with the average woman that watches these types of videos. A man that settles with Kendra’s audience can’t contribute anything positive to a man’s life. All they have is stress and drama. That is what this man is trying to avoid.

  • @brittneydavis8662
    @brittneydavis8662 2 года назад +49

    He’s a traditional man looking for a traditional woman…I don’t think he’s unrealistic in what he’s asking for tbh. He seems like a genuine man

  • @VeteranNomad
    @VeteranNomad 2 года назад +667

    Salute to this brother! This man has standards something a lot of women have a problem with. He worked hard to build himself into the man he is and should reap the benefits. They attacking the man that leads with his masculinity because they realize it’s a no slack zone!!!

    • @Magnolia3720Slim
      @Magnolia3720Slim 2 года назад +13

      True story! 💯

    • @VeteranNomad
      @VeteranNomad 2 года назад +30

      @@Magnolia3720Slim I encourage more men to embrace their masculinity!

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 2 года назад +15

      I was cool with what he said he wanted til he said he wanted a 20 yr old.

    • @marketateal637
      @marketateal637 2 года назад +12

      I understood clearly what he was saying. I am not sure if he clearly articulated what he wanted to say which can lose people in any realm. That's why it's key to simply keep the focus on what we want and leave what we don't want where it is.

    • @Magnolia3720Slim
      @Magnolia3720Slim 2 года назад +20

      @@VeteranNomad I wholeheartedly agree! But when we as Black men embrace our masculinity and set standards, we are often met with S.I.G.N language. Shame, Insults, Guilt and the NEED to be right by our women. For example, the lady that commented under your reply. Why did she get "lost" by him wanting to court/date a 20yr old woman??? We are the only culture that guilt trips men for wanting to date YOUNG GROWN women

  • @hotboiii_ced215
    @hotboiii_ced215 2 года назад +156

    The women completely missed the point when he said he didn't want a boss woman... the men completely knew what he meant

    • @evonne437
      @evonne437 2 года назад

      Of course, men know they could never keep her unless she had kids, was broke, and was not too smart. That's the Shopping List most men use for an ideal woman.

    • @dowardwashington9958
      @dowardwashington9958 2 года назад

      No man wants to be in a relationship with a man that just happens to have a 🐱

    • @brishaberries0101
      @brishaberries0101 2 года назад +25

      Instead of putting down successful women how about try being more ambitious and over achievers yourselves. That's how you overcome that insecurity.

    • @hotboiii_ced215
      @hotboiii_ced215 2 года назад +21

      @@evonne437 missed the point again... you can have all the fine things, JUST DONT FEEL THE NEED TO BROADCAST IT TO US MEN, damn its not rocket science

    • @hotboiii_ced215
      @hotboiii_ced215 2 года назад +9

      @@brishaberries0101 yawn

  • @simba5734
    @simba5734 2 года назад +148

    This man gave you his qualifications. His qualifications were not off the wall, but very simple. He's a masculine man looking for a feminine woman. He's getting shamed for wanting a traditional woman.
    He doesn't want a "Bad B" or a "Boss Chick". He doesn't want someone saying "I don't need a man". No man wants to be subservient to his wife.
    He's a true man.

    • @MOMOxbby
      @MOMOxbby 2 года назад +7

      A partner who refuses to be subservient to his partner because its called reciprocation is filled with arrogance and ego… and it isn’t someone worthy to be picked either.

    • @chikarayleigh4534
      @chikarayleigh4534 2 года назад +1

      @@MOMOxbby story for the gods.

    • @simba5734
      @simba5734 2 года назад +8

      @@MOMOxbby nowhere in the Bible does it says anything about marriage being a partnership or husbands and wives are soul mates. Those are terms started by women to defy the Word of God.
      Being head of the household doesn't mean a man comes home slamming the doors and saying, "woman, where's my dinner?" Being head of household means the man provide, protect and take care of his family. All he wants is kindness and cooperation from his wife.
      Ladies are mad at men being men. You're upset at 99% of the men because 1% of the men are the ***holes. 99% of the men are hard working and broke. These are the men that are caring for you, providing and protecting you. Yet, you're mad at these men, while the 1% of men, are your "evil oppressors."
      You all need to wake up and see how your feminist attitudes are destroying relationships.

    • @Sunny-tc3ul
      @Sunny-tc3ul 2 года назад +1

      No, women have different standards in this generation. Some are more level headed in this generation. They know what they want and if they’re not ready to be a wife at 21 baring kids in their 20’s don’t they have the right to that as well. He’s 40. Our generation is different he running into generation z they move a little different. He’s ready to settle down. So I hope he find him a little homebody lady because this generation move very different.

    • @simba5734
      @simba5734 2 года назад

      @@Sunny-tc3ul yeah and that's why other races of women are so far ahead of black women right now, in building wealth, in being healthy and being married. Your generation of black women will destroy yourselves because of your ignorance and your desire to be men.
      For some reason, your generation of women think that men want women who are strong, independent, money chasers and PhD seekers(basically, a man). Men aren't looking for that because that comes w/ arrogance, selfishness and stubbornness. No generation of men want to be w/ that.
      I'm for totally abandoning American women all together and focusing on an International culture of women. I'm for letting you "bag chasers" be what you want to be, something that you all hate the most but want to be like...men.
      I'm sure your generation of "women" will have no problem finding a "WIFE" in America. This generation of men will find our wives elsewhere.
      Goodbye and let us know how things work out for you when there's no men around to protect you.

  • @KP-hi1om
    @KP-hi1om Год назад +36

    I got mad resect for this guy. He has standards. He is a rare breed. He want's to be a provider and doesn't mind taking care of another man's kid if that kid is very young. Respect.

  • @fhill5239
    @fhill5239 2 года назад +92

    Real MAN. Positive energy. Genuinely wants a relationship.
    He's speaking of the attitude of a woman who thinks she's better than he is. Nothing wrong with him desiring a feminine woman (in attitude and presence). He said that he will provide!

    • @JoyT01
      @JoyT01 2 года назад +2

      Agreed…

  • @chocchip103tee
    @chocchip103tee 2 года назад +479

    My heart goes out to him. Ladies we need to listen to a MAN whom speaks his truth. We may not like what is said, but respect it!

    • @ShrekThaOGEE
      @ShrekThaOGEE 2 года назад +8

      This need more likes

    • @urbancommute5239
      @urbancommute5239 2 года назад +3

      i am curious what could be not to like what he said may I ask?

    • @kayshawnsimmons6822
      @kayshawnsimmons6822 2 года назад

      He wants a dumb woman with a car

    • @jbo6096
      @jbo6096 2 года назад +12

      Y'all need to learn to like what good real men say. That's y'all problem.

    • @liveyourbestsoftlife5705
      @liveyourbestsoftlife5705 2 года назад +8

      He has to respect others opinion.

  • @Chitownhommy
    @Chitownhommy 2 года назад +643

    I'm with Mike on this one.
    He Said What He Said!!!

  • @wtroupe64wt
    @wtroupe64wt 10 месяцев назад +18

    As a married man this guy is a good catch😂😂😂😂 if you’re mad about what he say/said oh well

  • @sweethoneyonarock
    @sweethoneyonarock 2 года назад +129

    He's a great communicator, he knows exactly what he want. Expresses himself well, its nothing wrong with wanting what you want.

    • @okorochukwunonso2563
      @okorochukwunonso2563 Год назад +1

      He said women cant be smarter than him as a woman. Good riddance.

    • @truthmatters142
      @truthmatters142 Год назад +2

      ​@@okorochukwunonso2563why do you care? He wasn't gay anyway!

    • @okorochukwunonso2563
      @okorochukwunonso2563 Год назад

      @@truthmatters142 what has gay got to do with my comment? Get lost you bigot!

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 Год назад

      You took it out of context…rewind.

  • @donnellbarber9733
    @donnellbarber9733 2 года назад +396

    This man deserves everything he is asking for

    • @JoyT01
      @JoyT01 2 года назад +7

      Agreed!

    • @jermainem4340
      @jermainem4340 2 года назад +13

      Most of our black women are lost

    • @donnellbarber9733
      @donnellbarber9733 2 года назад +4

      @@jermainem4340 I have to agree

    • @jmar385
      @jmar385 2 года назад +7

      He brags to much!!!

    • @CIZCI
      @CIZCI 2 года назад +2

      100 percent bro

  • @JSmooth89
    @JSmooth89 2 года назад +359

    With 16 years senority as a locomotive engineer he probably makes between 120-150 a year, has full benefits, and a railroad pension. That type of money In Mississippi is like making a quarter million a year in NY/DC/LA. He's literally one of those top 10% of men we speak of, and all the boss babes mad that they don't qualify. Perfect example of how your degrees and money don't matter to these men. When he climbs off the engine and into his castle he wants a hot meal, clean house, appreciation, and peace..., not competition, complaining, attitude, and problems from you and your children by other men.

    • @thuggboss745
      @thuggboss745 2 года назад +15

      Exactly and big Facts 💯 I live in Mississippi - Memphis area but originally from Saint Louis, moved there because my Wife is from the areaand I own a trucking company with employees and I make well over 200K and I have homeboys that live in Houston and in Florida who make the same thing and they are struggling and trying to Stay afloat so yes that type of money in Mississippi is like having 700k living in New York..

    • @Jame6999
      @Jame6999 2 года назад +22

      The biggest part is him being able to retire at 44🤗. I'm 45 and I will be working until I'm 100😠🙄

    • @Jame6999
      @Jame6999 2 года назад +20

      @@thuggboss745 yuck, I would never want to live in Mississippi. It's one of the worst states in the US.

    • @kamkam4571
      @kamkam4571 2 года назад +13

      @@Jame6999 don’t manifest what you don’t want!

    • @carrielewis6213
      @carrielewis6213 2 года назад +15

      Dude please I have my own money I don’t need his. Not every woman is a gold digger

  • @Sonji531
    @Sonji531 2 года назад +41

    I'm 58 yrs old and I have learned so much from watching this show. Who better to learn about men than from men? I truly never knew how important it is not to come off as too independent. I used to think the saying men need to be needed was a clichè.

    • @ancelcole4404
      @ancelcole4404 Год назад

      It's apart of our nature.
      Men not boys

  • @RS-fn6sl
    @RS-fn6sl 2 года назад +356

    Reginae hairstylist is the perfect example of what men absolutely do not want

    • @kingconfidence20743
      @kingconfidence20743 2 года назад

      Facts Facts Facts!!!!!! Reginae Is Lil Wayne's Daughter And She Can't Keep a Man.... Why Is Kendra Taking Advice From 23 Yr Old Women..... GOOFBALLS WHO HIDE BEHIND THEIR MONEY AND THEIR C LIST CELEBRITY STATUS

    • @beautiful_wonderfullymade
      @beautiful_wonderfullymade 2 года назад +97

      Yes!!!! Also Reginae is cap talking about a lot of woman in their twenties make more than 30,40 and 50 year olds (22:26) She’s only basing that off HER WORLD of celebrities, influencers and RUclipsrs. In the real world 20 year olds are NOT typically making more than the rest of society. If that’s the case there would be less middle class people in the US. There are more people between ages 18 to 29 that are in the lower class, which rightfully makes sense because this group consists of UNESTABLISHED young adults who haven’t made their mark on the world yet !

    • @nicolea.7501
      @nicolea.7501 2 года назад +68

      Her loud, brash voice and attitude proved his point. I am a woman and I would be traumatized if I had to listen to her more than 5 minutes a month.

    • @beautiful_wonderfullymade
      @beautiful_wonderfullymade 2 года назад +43

      @@nicolea.7501 Exactly! Very loud and unpleasant plus you can tell she’s argumentative as well.

    • @eligoldeneggswashington
      @eligoldeneggswashington 2 года назад +4

      Big Facts!!!

  • @Jakyjoseph
    @Jakyjoseph 2 года назад +183

    The hairstylist just crystallized his points and his experience. That is what he doesn’t want.

    • @rickybobbydastar6534
      @rickybobbydastar6534 2 года назад +11

      Fax women can have age preferences but men can’t . It’s crazy that a guy can tell a woman what he wants , then a woman comes and tell him what he wants, even though he just said what he wants smh

    • @Dream90210
      @Dream90210 2 года назад +1

      Nobody wants chics like hairstylist hoe she’s a problem fr

    • @redbunnyclassic
      @redbunnyclassic 2 года назад +20

      She started with "I feel like..." No sense can come after that line.

    • @Jakyjoseph
      @Jakyjoseph 2 года назад +15

      @@redbunnyclassic and additionally rather than sticking to a critique of what he said, right or wrong, she launched into a bunch of insults about this man she doesn't know that has nothing to do with topic at hand. Why would he want to be with someone like that who insults someone, especially him, so easily? Can you imagine what that home life will look like?

    • @saleemsharif736
      @saleemsharif736 2 года назад +1

      Exactly my friend! 💯🎯👌🏾👍🏾

  • @bidah007
    @bidah007 2 года назад +237

    If a woman says she doesn't need a man walk away it's her choice !I know women who prefer to be alone and they don't complain.

    • @hardlessons9732
      @hardlessons9732 2 года назад +16

      They complain once they are aged out.

    • @nwatson2773
      @nwatson2773 2 года назад +12

      @@hardlessons9732 what age is that? I

    • @EvilZeroSc
      @EvilZeroSc 2 года назад +10

      Most women want someone. It’s in their nature. Women are social. They aren’t built to be alone. Men are built to be alone

    • @s.r.hadden525
      @s.r.hadden525 2 года назад +13

      @@broco6608 emotional response especially when women outnumber men. Better wake up look at the old heads 45 and up.

    • @kumajoey6031
      @kumajoey6031 2 года назад +5

      @@nwatson2773 you know they are gonna say 30 or maybe 25, that's the new wall age.

  • @JenelleScanterbury
    @JenelleScanterbury Год назад +24

    He’s totally correct and he articulated just what he wanted to say… some will never get it and that’s ok …simply means he’s not looking for you .

  • @gospelofyashua
    @gospelofyashua 2 года назад +596

    I'm proud of Michael he's sticking up for what is right. 💪

  • @Jay-br3dv
    @Jay-br3dv 2 года назад +78

    the hairstylist was angry, it’s almost as if she was upset she wasn’t his type 😂

  • @mrlawrence3373
    @mrlawrence3373 2 года назад +271

    The "young" woman Kendra brought on afterwards was EXACTLY what the brother was talking about...She made his point...

    • @raineyfall628
      @raineyfall628 2 года назад +32

      Exactly. The ghetto hand gestures were ridiculous. I was second-hand embarrassed for her. I wish him luck. He was raised old school. Not a damn thing wrong with what he said at all.

    • @RECHARON
      @RECHARON 2 года назад +7

      Real bad!!!

    • @tunama1
      @tunama1 2 года назад +9

      Facts, women grow into being an op/opponent by default vs knowing who to work with someone with knowledge & inspiration

    • @gregbailey6441
      @gregbailey6441 2 года назад

      Absolutely.

    • @jellyshark8639
      @jellyshark8639 2 года назад +3

      Thats why she alone as a side chick talking smack with her hairstylist whos also alone and a side chick.

  • @strick2016
    @strick2016 2 года назад +211

    He is 💯 correct as a man. What he is saying, he has earned his position to be a man and lead. As a woman with a professional career and earnings, this is the only way I can respect you. Flat out! He is disciplined and has a vision for his family. God bless him ♥️

    • @kennettabradford6566
      @kennettabradford6566 2 года назад +5

      No. He's a controlling narcissist

    • @celesteporter2918
      @celesteporter2918 Год назад +8

      ​@@kennettabradford6566 I often wonder if a lot of women that interpret men like him as controlling had loving, strong/assertive fathers. These type of men seem very normal and actually are the definition of a man to me because they reflect the character of my father.

    • @durangobasics6195
      @durangobasics6195 Год назад +1

      ​​@@celesteporter2918ost likely the father was not present or if he was they were rebellious children who hated discipline. They are more like " free spirits" I do what I want type also children of divorce who over time became men haters because of their fathers absence that traumatized them and later on acted out thru being promiscuous and rebellious.

    • @okorochukwunonso2563
      @okorochukwunonso2563 Год назад +2

      He said you cant be smarter than him as a woman. Good riddance.

    • @memphisedepolore
      @memphisedepolore Год назад

      Clearly he doesnt have a vision for his family. since he doesnt know how to take care of children or even who will take care of the children.

  • @fa_lee_lee2133
    @fa_lee_lee2133 2 года назад +417

    Its refreshing to see an unapologetic Black Masculine Man!!! I pray he's found what he's looking for🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @lelahill9778
      @lelahill9778 2 года назад +22

      Imagine u having a 20 year old daughter and she brings him home 🤔🤫🤔🤫🤔

    • @kennettabradford6566
      @kennettabradford6566 2 года назад +14

      He's a controlling narcissist!!!!

    • @chadsmith2281
      @chadsmith2281 Год назад +5

      @@lelahill9778 better than 90% of the guys than mine date. Just to be 100%

    • @visiow2691
      @visiow2691 Год назад

      @@kennettabradford6566 That feminist bs will help you die alone

    • @daniella8400
      @daniella8400 Год назад +7

      @@chadsmith2281 damn, you ain’t teach her to chose better?

  • @v12benji
    @v12benji 2 года назад +368

    At the end of the day we fail to realize we both need each other as much as each other. It’s time for men and women to put our prides aside and bring Love and Understanding when we communicate and interact with each other. We all come from terrible pasts that scorned us. Today we are seeing it play out in our relationships. The men need to keep the men accountable and the women need to keep the women accountable in order to grow our relationship with each other. After that we need to be able to sit with one another in a safe place. We both need to understand that everyone in is coming from a good place and the conversations are for healing and togetherness. We need to stop taking it out on each other. They say hurt people hurt the ones closes to them. Please stop the ego wars. Let’s love again.

    • @Missmewbs
      @Missmewbs 2 года назад +10

      Say it again for the people in the back and let the church say amen. 👏👏👏👏

    • @SirDave
      @SirDave 2 года назад +4

      You said it!! ☝🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

    • @pink1237480
      @pink1237480 2 года назад +1

      that's easier said than done ill believe it when I see it.

    • @josephwhite3486
      @josephwhite3486 2 года назад

      For any woman to think they can survive without us. Their pride needs to be checked. We need women to have children. They need us to keep the world they live in livable.

    • @vibrationalliving5521
      @vibrationalliving5521 2 года назад +2

      LOVE THIS!!!!

  • @Bzee888
    @Bzee888 2 года назад +224

    lol that man was speaking facts in a logically confident way.he was on point,people especially women prefer comforting LIES rather then the uncomfortable TRUTH

    • @wudacudashuda_
      @wudacudashuda_ 2 года назад +4

      I like him too. He went off on a tangent at first, but I like him. He seems like he would be a good husband. He's not afraid to commit, and he knows what he wants, etc. He seems like the package! Women if you want a good man, here's one.

    • @katelady1370
      @katelady1370 2 года назад +3

      I was with him until he said no one over 30. Then he lost me. Man is 40.

    • @walkthedon
      @walkthedon 2 года назад +6

      @@katelady1370 how old are YOU?

    • @twongreen9968
      @twongreen9968 2 года назад +1

      @@katelady1370 it only hurts women who are not around the age limit because most of those women are still in their prime a woman 30+ most likely is passed her prime and used up women get mad because men in their 40s can go back and date women in their 20s and 37 years old single with no kids and a lot of younger women like me also most of the women who are around my age are again used up multiple baby daddies and ain’t even hitting on anything

    • @harlemsfinest1975
      @harlemsfinest1975 2 года назад +3

      @@katelady1370 so what? That's his preference. Y'all women have y'all preferences... Smh

  • @soundbangersentinc2231
    @soundbangersentinc2231 2 года назад +47

    Women don’t like men’s standards but we have to sit through women telling us their ridiculous standards

    • @zykira2010
      @zykira2010 11 месяцев назад

      Lol nahh forreal

  • @dianejarbath9061
    @dianejarbath9061 2 года назад +68

    You can tell he was raised well. A man of great substance… he stand firm on his standards. Nothing wrong with that…

  • @purearea5142
    @purearea5142 2 года назад +230

    I’m with him, a woman that said she don’t need a man is a huge red flag. The fact is that no one needs anyone, but we were made to be with someone! So if you wanna be alone just stay away from dating.

    • @ahtalyaclark3460
      @ahtalyaclark3460 2 года назад +14

      I think you’re looking at this a little too onesided.. there are ppl out here who casually date. Just because one doesn’t want to be committed long term / married does not mean they shouldn’t date. It’s a free mfn country wtf

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit 2 года назад +1

      A woman that says she don’t need a man is a big red flag, but the fact is that no one needs anyone? So aren’t you agreeing with the woman that says she doesn’t need a man? Make it make sense.

    • @GepsenLuv
      @GepsenLuv 2 года назад

      Stop trolling and get a life dusty

    • @latricemurphy7009
      @latricemurphy7009 2 года назад +13

      A man can see that a woman has her own car own home, automatically they think she doesn’t need a man which is wrong. Just because she has her own doesn’t mean she don’t need a man.

    • @cali2468
      @cali2468 2 года назад

      Trololololll

  • @dreambigger3201
    @dreambigger3201 2 года назад +23

    This guy is a real man , no player , no simp , just a real man.

  • @RockSolidPro
    @RockSolidPro Год назад +34

    It’s crazy how women on here can want a good man after having 5 kids with 4 men like that’s not insane but get mad a a man for not wanting them because they had kids with men they hate. This show is golden and I hope people can see how silly they really are

  • @kalonjikala9887
    @kalonjikala9887 2 года назад +228

    When a man gives his straight up no chaser wish list, these women come in to criticize his desires! He was able to avoid street culture,has a great career, and widower status who tried,who tried but failed to date women that didn't fit his life but the modern feminist were looking for something wrong. They would be the same women who criticize if he found a white or other woman more in line with him. Peace to all Black women who rather work hard for 40 years! I hope you save something for your golden years. Sassy can be sexy but most BW don't fit the timing,chemistry, or alignment to be wives. And there is nothing wrong with that! Do you!

    • @afroxfairyxxx8382
      @afroxfairyxxx8382 2 года назад +16

      Then date other races and leave us alone

    • @grigg1465
      @grigg1465 2 года назад +20

      @@afroxfairyxxx8382 will do

    • @afroxfairyxxx8382
      @afroxfairyxxx8382 2 года назад +5

      @@grigg1465 thank you

    • @WhoadyMac
      @WhoadyMac 2 года назад +14

      Hold up ...I'm crying....she said that....like enough women do in comment section....like it was a revelation......and my man said will do......of course we will ....and it works too 🤣😂🤣😂🥱

    • @samsimmons2831
      @samsimmons2831 2 года назад

      @@afroxfairyxxx8382 you don't speak for all women hairdresser

  • @desi4u1
    @desi4u1 2 года назад +208

    He doesn’t like a woman that texts, yet he wants a woman in her 20’s. A lot of the things that he’s looking for women in their twenties is going to be hard to find. I hope he finds what he’s looking for.

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 2 года назад +39

      A lot women in their late teens, early- mid twenties got a lotta fk kids 😂😂😂

    • @desi4u1
      @desi4u1 2 года назад +6

      Precisely, but as the other people in the comments are saying AIM HIGH KING. 😩😩😬

    • @madcobra2444
      @madcobra2444 2 года назад +5

      They talk on the phone too lmao. He means someone who only text

    • @desi4u1
      @desi4u1 2 года назад +3

      @@madcobra2444 right, I said what I said..

    • @madcobra2444
      @madcobra2444 2 года назад +7

      @@desi4u1 women who like you, talk on the phone with you

  • @daniellefields9354
    @daniellefields9354 2 года назад +694

    Mike is a great guy, what we need in the black community.

    • @kayshawnsimmons6822
      @kayshawnsimmons6822 2 года назад +35

      CHILLLLE, ARE YOU SERIOUS😹😹😹😹😹🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @veetahbee1368
      @veetahbee1368 2 года назад +15

      @@kayshawnsimmons6822 This can’t be life! 🫤

    • @israeljuda7963
      @israeljuda7963 2 года назад +2

      Exactly

    • @Rome__king
      @Rome__king 2 года назад +22

      @@kayshawnsimmons6822 I mean he is direct, honest, and traditional. He was being honest when he said 9/10 he will always make more than the woman he meets. He doesn't shack up. No plethora of babies... I can go on

    • @thegworlsarefighting
      @thegworlsarefighting 2 года назад +15

      @@Rome__king well he need to use some of that money and get a dental plan

  • @darlenejaguar3362
    @darlenejaguar3362 5 месяцев назад +5

    This is a man who knows what he wants. I which he was older, I would definitely throw my hat in the ring.. He definitely sounds like a good catch. GOOD LUCK, finding that love.

  • @HeyTwinTv
    @HeyTwinTv 2 года назад +126

    I'm all about a man in his masculine energy. But it's something about a man who is trying to convince you while criticizing you at the same time. Personally, I keep seeing these manipulative, narcissistic tactics.

    • @marierose9144
      @marierose9144 2 года назад +18

      Totally agree! He's single for a reason...seems to be insecure

    • @mauricewilson7859
      @mauricewilson7859 2 года назад +16

      Men's whole point is just because you feel good about yourself doesn't mean that you are feminine, wife material, or what the man wants. He has preferences just like you women do thats all. Lol

    • @amaris7619
      @amaris7619 2 года назад +21

      @@mauricewilson7859 And just because a
      Man feels as though he is a
      Man doesn’t mean he is masculine.

    • @brownbamagirl8236
      @brownbamagirl8236 2 года назад +8

      @@amaris7619 or a Man 😩

    • @mauricewilson7859
      @mauricewilson7859 2 года назад +11

      @@amaris7619 That's true but don't be a simp lol. We're talking about women and you did the same thing most women do. They deflect it back to the man instead of taking responsibility.

  • @HeartBr8kRach
    @HeartBr8kRach 2 года назад +95

    I feel him on this. He’s very upfront with his expectations. I don’t consider myself a traditional women but I respect it. Hey, either get w. it or get lost!.

    • @newbeginnings3603
      @newbeginnings3603 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for listening and being open minded.

    • @niamarielove
      @niamarielove 2 года назад +4

      I agree. I hope he finds what he's looking for.

  • @TheRaichu13
    @TheRaichu13 2 года назад +156

    Why is it when a woman wants a older man, it's OK. BUT when a man wants a younger woman it's the end of the world. You literally can't have one without the other.

    • @saleemsharif736
      @saleemsharif736 2 года назад +10

      😂💯🎯👌🏾

    • @faith6575
      @faith6575 2 года назад

      Men usually want them super young, no life experience, so they can groom them, isolate the away from their families, so he can exert control. Women typically like older men because mentally they’re more mature and they know what they want, plus they have more stability. For men, it’s sex and control. For women, it’s a sense of security and stability. Men want these children that have barely graduated high school. That’s sick. But anyways… go awf.

    • @bomzylondon4966
      @bomzylondon4966 2 года назад +5

      Most double standards benefit womenq

    • @jbo6096
      @jbo6096 2 года назад +2

      @@bomzylondon4966 all double standards exist bc of women

    • @opeyemiadegoke361
      @opeyemiadegoke361 2 года назад

      You think women want older men, everyone wants to date younger than their age ....the society conditions women through men predatory behaviour to think it's ok to date older .

  • @liftedenergy3693
    @liftedenergy3693 Год назад +29

    Someone who is accountable for themselves, has integrity and values!

  • @jackpotjoanna6208
    @jackpotjoanna6208 2 года назад +144

    Mike seems like a really great guy..smart, handsome, educated, established, employed, no kids, grandfather raised him the old fashioned way. I hope he finds the right one for him.

  • @tybeeboy320
    @tybeeboy320 2 года назад +78

    It always amazes me that women can't accept a man's preference but want a man to accept their preference. These two women are proven his point on why he doesn't prefer those types of women.

    • @melvonniebell
      @melvonniebell 2 года назад +3

      I agree

    • @Sunny-tc3ul
      @Sunny-tc3ul 2 года назад

      Yea but the woman that did not show her face she was 23 and she own her own business. Most women in this new generation having 6 figure job’s and being business women. Most of them are college educated and 25 to 30. But good luck in this dating generation.

    • @WolfamongSheep626
      @WolfamongSheep626 2 года назад

      @Tay T If you don’t need a man don’t call 911 next time you are in trouble, throw out all of your food in your fridge because male truckers delivered that to your super market, call the water company and tell them to shut off your water because men maintain those pipes, pack up and leave your home because I’m certain a man built that, throw away your phone because I’m certain a man built that, next time you need work done on your car 🤷🏾‍♂️ you don’t ask a mechanic that are mostly men, actually just stop driving that car a man built, stop driving on roads men maintain, cancel your electricity never seen a woman fixing power lines. Do all of that and see how long you survive. Women are so bratty and clueless nowadays.

    • @WolfamongSheep626
      @WolfamongSheep626 2 года назад +4

      @Tay T We literally made the world so comfortable that y’all are sitting back with a belly full of food, in an A/C home, with a hand held computer in your hand talking about you don’t need the very people that makes all of that possible everyday
      You can’t make this ish up!!

    • @nateword
      @nateword 2 года назад

      yep

  • @DisturbiaTrueCrime
    @DisturbiaTrueCrime 2 года назад +115

    I respect him sooo much that he doesn’t want to be around the kids if he’s not in a relationship. That says a lot. I really like this guy’s vibe. I hope he finds someone.

    • @JoyT01
      @JoyT01 2 года назад +4

      Me too…

  • @sashabri
    @sashabri 2 года назад +21

    He wants what he wants.. is who he is.. seems like a good dude.. I wish him love ❤️

  • @Chisom_Ijeoma
    @Chisom_Ijeoma 2 года назад +62

    I like him ngl he's a masculine man and wants a feminine woman he knows exactly what he wants and wants to be a provider

  • @KM-gr2il
    @KM-gr2il 2 года назад +117

    He’s fair. I hope he finds that special lady!

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 2 года назад +7

      He was fair til he said he wanted a woman that young smh. Sorry it’s creepy

    • @gdn7
      @gdn7 2 года назад

      @@FaithandNova take yo old ass back to cribbage and get your depends change, matlock

    • @jabbaweezy
      @jabbaweezy 2 года назад +2

      @@FaithandNova I'm young and I can assure you there's plenty of women my age that are seeking or open to being with a significantly older man. Its not one side interest...

    • @thepeopleschampion2088
      @thepeopleschampion2088 2 года назад +1

      @@FaithandNova Y’all make it seem as if he wanted a teenager. These are grown women.

    • @d.kj.n1392
      @d.kj.n1392 2 года назад

      @@FaithandNova creepy??? How??? So what do you say to the women that are 21-27 seeking men 34-45? They do exist, alot of these women exist

  • @ancestorbaby
    @ancestorbaby 2 года назад +71

    I loved this interview 🥰 that’s right Michael manifest your dream woman

  • @rosalynhayes2369
    @rosalynhayes2369 10 месяцев назад +5

    All ima say is…ladies better come correct with this one. He definitely wants a traditional young woman. Can’t hate on what he wants. He’s qualified to that, he’s single w/o kids. He def has options. He wants feminine, fit, and friendly.

  • @BreathingYogaWorks
    @BreathingYogaWorks 2 года назад +149

    These two ladies are a clear example of how women feel when listening to a mans needs.

    • @nikkibarnzable
      @nikkibarnzable 2 года назад +23

      Non submissive new generation

    • @Sun-KhissedSkin
      @Sun-KhissedSkin 2 года назад +17

      Was she listening at all? She repeated the same questions but heard what she disapproved of.

    • @newbeginnings3603
      @newbeginnings3603 2 года назад

      @@nikkibarnzable FACTS

    • @saintmichaelgrayson9641
      @saintmichaelgrayson9641 2 года назад +4

      @@nikkibarnzable he just stated how he’s superior to women…smdh

    • @Peace2dagawdz
      @Peace2dagawdz 2 года назад +10

      Those were not ladies. Those were men

  • @Nallisn
    @Nallisn 2 года назад +259

    Thats ridiculous to say that a woman won’t be smarter than him. Everyone has their own area that they’re highly intelligent in. I’m in the medical field and he would absolutely not know what to do if a patient is coming to the ER in cardiac arrest. Likewise if he’s in IT, he would definitely be smarter than me in that field. No one should be putting themselves above their partner.

    • @MrHeat1up
      @MrHeat1up 2 года назад +15

      You are absolutely correct, but I believe he was talking more about wisdom than knowledge. I don't know how old you are but if a teenager act like they know more than you about life. You would say because life experience you would know more than all teenagers. Now I'm not defending him because he did say some things that were coming from left field.

    • @Ghragle-
      @Ghragle- 2 года назад +23

      But he’s genuine and isn’t actually asking for much. He basically asking for a good person who doesn’t hold their intellect over him. I don’t think he was literal about “intelligence”. He’s a simple man asking for a simple woman. I would never talk to any man woman or child who says “I don’t need you”.......duh.
      Why would a man want a woman who doesn’t need them. Men are utilities not literally but we need to have a use in order to feel useful. When I with a woman I want and need her, she gives me something I can’t attain alone. A woman who doesn’t want and need me, is of no use to me.

    • @nwatson2773
      @nwatson2773 2 года назад +24

      @@Ghragle- You are right, he is a simple man, so he would not appeal to most intelligent women who watch the show!

    • @lockedhoneyprincess7333
      @lockedhoneyprincess7333 2 года назад +50

      I work in the medical field too and i would never entertain him. Being arrogant and ignorant like that is a turn off. The reality is you DONT know everything

    • @monicasaffold9405
      @monicasaffold9405 2 года назад +1

      I agree

  • @mr.metaphor9509
    @mr.metaphor9509 2 года назад +204

    Bro he articulated himself just fine.

  • @sonjadunning1579
    @sonjadunning1579 10 месяцев назад +8

    He has principles and he stands on them! Hope he finds his love.

  • @nzingalou7556
    @nzingalou7556 2 года назад +351

    Wanting someone who’s in their early 20’s who “can’t outthink” him and “can’t survive on their own” is the only red flag. As a 20 year old who had very sheltered, strict parents, I’ve experienced being preyed upon by older men and in retrospect it’s very inappropriate. I think a preference for younger women is fine and normal, but if I was in high school 3 years ago then you best gone somewhere and date an ACTUAL adult who is at least 23. Them little 2-3 years of actual adult life experience make a huge difference. Most 20 year olds still live with their parents. I’m about to be 21, lived on my own for about a year and a half now since I left home for college. I’m just now starting to see myself as an autonomous adult. I’m just now getting used to not having a curfew and being able to do whatever I want without having to ask for permission. A grown up decision for me is getting my ears pierced despite the desires of my religious parents. I have no business talking to someone that 40. You’re like a father to me lmfao

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 2 года назад +48

      You are correct young lady! And what would your parents say if you brought a 40 yr old man home?

    • @nzingalou7556
      @nzingalou7556 2 года назад

      @@staceywilliams1863 I wouldn't dare. That's a suicide mission for me and a homicide mission for him.

    • @Pressureddiamond
      @Pressureddiamond 2 года назад +68

      Girl I love u for being healthy enough to understand a 40 yr old man makes no sense in your journey🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 года назад +39

      He’s looking for someone to use that’s why he wants a young women

    • @TyTy-zc4rw
      @TyTy-zc4rw 2 года назад +27

      I’m 21 and I totally agree still trying to figure life out! it’s no way a 40 year old should date someone in there early 20’s

  • @rockmyworldmusic
    @rockmyworldmusic 2 года назад +50

    4:40
    Quote, "Me, I'm the boss of my company... but it's not even my company, it's the one I work for."
    Huh?!?!

    • @tmc4471
      @tmc4471 2 года назад +4

      😂😂😂

    • @evonne437
      @evonne437 2 года назад +7

      That's called double talk...double back on your words.

    • @Youtubewatcher3
      @Youtubewatcher3 2 года назад +14

      I almost spit my water out when he said that 😂 I was like… soooo, your point is???? Because he made himself look slow 😂

    • @Only1Dizzle
      @Only1Dizzle 2 года назад +4

      He most likely has staff that he manages at the company he works for. Not hard to understand.

    • @MYEVERYTHINGJR11
      @MYEVERYTHINGJR11 2 года назад +4

      Why 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @latisaclark
    @latisaclark 2 года назад +102

    There was nothing wrong with anything he said at all. He has a right to his preferences.

  • @gretchen725
    @gretchen725 7 дней назад +1

    He's one of the best men that has been on the show.

  • @prettiilexii672
    @prettiilexii672 2 года назад +102

    He seems like a really great man. I'm so sorry to hear about how he lost his wife, that is so sad😢. May he find healing and happiness again.

  • @BeardGawd88
    @BeardGawd88 2 года назад +20

    This brotha on track, he know what he talking about for sure.

  • @lilj1702
    @lilj1702 2 года назад +220

    It’s always good to see how women behave when they disagree with something.

    • @newbeginnings3603
      @newbeginnings3603 2 года назад +3

      Yeah they were wrong talking about a mobile home. MH are very popular nowadays and common here in the south.

    • @newbeginnings3603
      @newbeginnings3603 2 года назад +8

      I wonder if the hairstylist has a man.

    • @ChanChan-ux8nn
      @ChanChan-ux8nn 2 года назад +1

      Most of the women in the comments agree. Don’t be a GRIFTER. It’s low level

    • @lilj1702
      @lilj1702 2 года назад

      @@ChanChan-ux8nn what does that have to do with what I said?

    • @ChanChan-ux8nn
      @ChanChan-ux8nn 2 года назад +1

      @@lilj1702 went over your head. Don’t worry about it Jeff

  • @yvetteshokere7818
    @yvetteshokere7818 6 месяцев назад +6

    He's a old fashioned man, love it

  • @oldsoul94395
    @oldsoul94395 2 года назад +48

    He is a good man!! There needs to be more like him!!

  • @terrellseldon6973
    @terrellseldon6973 2 года назад +218

    The second half of this video just proves a MASCULINE MAN is not allowed to have a preference or standards in this society. I’m 26 and agree with him 100%. The thought process of these woman is truly disgusting and this why they will remain single. Stand firm in your preferences brothas 👊🏽

    • @Tena714
      @Tena714 2 года назад +7

      Indeed! Basic Truth

    • @melindausher8671
      @melindausher8671 2 года назад +2

      😲

    • @djohn8687
      @djohn8687 2 года назад +5

      Exactly!!

    • @jmar385
      @jmar385 2 года назад +5

      But he also brag to much about what he got! Money & material things riot a man’s ego

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 2 года назад +1

      I am a woman in my 40s and agree that everyone has a right to their standards .People today want to force people to think like them .

  • @brishaberries0101
    @brishaberries0101 2 года назад +273

    Never met a group of man who want to be needed so badly, but they never come through. 🙃

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 2 года назад +76

      Yep and be the same group turn rite around and be talking about their woman is too needy but yeah okay

    • @justinmaple3015
      @justinmaple3015 2 года назад +75

      They don’t come through for y’all 😂😂 Us BM come through for the women we actually want. The ones we just want to smash and pass get the “they never come through” results 😂🤣

    • @brownsugako7772
      @brownsugako7772 2 года назад +39

      Very needy creatures, very childlike...

    • @aguy9071
      @aguy9071 2 года назад

      The man had a wife of 5 years until she was taken from him… what more do you want. He didn’t come through for her?
      Y’all have no idea what men want or what they’re for. Perpetually single

    • @MrsNicolas
      @MrsNicolas 2 года назад

      @@justinmaple3015 I've noticed that a woman is only needy when he doesn't like her, and only want to use her as a cum dumpster. When it's a woman he can see himself spending the rest of his life with, then those same behaviors aren't needy.

  • @DreamzCity21
    @DreamzCity21 9 месяцев назад +1

    They the only 1s that got weird vibe i feel my bro much respect

  • @MACK472
    @MACK472 2 года назад +215

    Anyone should want to have someone that doesn't need them but truly wants them.

    • @7mileawesumdre539
      @7mileawesumdre539 2 года назад +14

      Why is it that black women are the only race of women in mass that need to debate this topic? You claim you don't want nor need BM yet always complain how we ain't shit. Maybe not y'all but I hear this often.

    • @Reneesaidit
      @Reneesaidit 2 года назад +5

      That part... it's simple to those who have their ish together and hold their own. When you actually want and desire to be around a person, that love hits different.

    • @Reneesaidit
      @Reneesaidit 2 года назад

      @@broco6608 Right. Maslow's hierarchy of needs

    • @MACK472
      @MACK472 2 года назад

      @thehappyhuman of course we do you're taking it out of context. I'm speaking of romantic relationships

    • @tropicalunicorn7024
      @tropicalunicorn7024 2 года назад

      Dude is living in the 1990’s 😂. Nothing but thots and single moms out here bro. All the good women are wife’s up. He gonna have to break up a happy home.

  • @tmc4471
    @tmc4471 2 года назад +349

    He wants a 20 years old but doesn't want one that texts. 🤣🤣😂😂😭😭😭😭

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 2 года назад +22

      Rite 🙄

    • @MrHeat1up
      @MrHeat1up 2 года назад +83

      He didn't say he wanted a woman that don't text. He said a woman that tries to have a conversation over text. That sht is annoying. Just call.

    • @CDub-df2us
      @CDub-df2us 2 года назад +8

      Lmao. Exactly!

    • @Gaia007
      @Gaia007 2 года назад +6

      Facts, they don’t know any other way

    • @RP.Warrior
      @RP.Warrior 2 года назад +19

      20-30, I know you got triggered but he stated it clearly in English

  • @natalierhodes4130
    @natalierhodes4130 2 года назад +77

    That is so sad about his wife being killed by that drunk driver. I hope that he finds a good, supportive woman ❤

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina6544 9 месяцев назад +4

    The 1st lady that came at Michael was nuts. She is the perfect example of what he was saying about older ladies

  • @reasterling1969
    @reasterling1969 2 года назад +194

    I’m a high earner, and when I was 30, I met a 19-year-old woman who knocked me off my feet. One year and two days later, I put a ring on her finger. 18 months later, she was my wife. In September this year, it will be 20 years of blissful marriage. We have two sons, 13 and 10. Michael is on the right track. And it sounds to me that when he does meet that woman, she will be very lucky. Good luck Michael!

    • @Sunshine44488
      @Sunshine44488 2 года назад +101

      A 19 year old and a 30 year old is predatory. If there is a large age gap and at least one of the people in the relationship isn’t a fully developed adult that is called GROOMING. People are still kids at the age of 19 and 30 is fully grown, so it’s disgusting that grown people would even be in the same spaces with teenagers. A 40 year old dealing with a 29 year old is completely different than a 30 year old and a child. Continued happiness to you though.

    • @idontplaygames3k296
      @idontplaygames3k296 2 года назад +13

      @@Sunshine44488 Yeeaah, you don't know their relationship so relax and she is definitely of age to make that decision especially if both families supported the union.

    • @Sunshine44488
      @Sunshine44488 2 года назад

      @@idontplaygames3k296 Predator. Some of you are really gross. Pedo vibes.

    • @helloify498
      @helloify498 2 года назад +8

      @@Sunshine44488 if u think 19 yo and 30 yo is predatory then in most African countries 70% of the men will be in jail. It's plenty of 50 + men in Africa married to 20-25 yo. 19 and 30 is Veryyyy ok. Maybe because I'm African. My back. I guess cultural differences.

    • @helloify498
      @helloify498 2 года назад +3

      @@idontplaygames3k296 thank you. I see Nothing wrong In 19 yo dating or married to 30 yo. Women matured faster than men a 19 yo is a 25 yo male mindset

  • @dorianbernard6921
    @dorianbernard6921 2 года назад +291

    He can get a good 28-year-old that would be able to give him everything he needs if he's lucky. His requests are pretty standard for a man stay on his purpose and that has his priorities straight.👍🏾💯

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 2 года назад +5

      folk a clown and he’s looking for a come up out that rooming house😅

    • @CyberMachine
      @CyberMachine 2 года назад +31

      I'm 29 and he's too old to me

    • @dorianbernard6921
      @dorianbernard6921 2 года назад +13

      @@CyberMachine you're one person , most men that's in their 40s with no kids wouldn't date or try to have a relationship with a woman that's older than them.

    • @CyberMachine
      @CyberMachine 2 года назад +20

      @@dorianbernard6921 He can date a woman in her mid to late 30s. I don't see any of my ppl from high school date 40+ either

    • @dorianbernard6921
      @dorianbernard6921 2 года назад +8

      @@CyberMachine most women in their late 30s already have kids , and most women past 35 have difficulties getting pregnant. He doesn't want a woman that already have kids and his age preference is no older than 30.

  • @bankheadrc2757
    @bankheadrc2757 2 года назад +158

    This is exactly the woman he doesn't want, a masculine woman
    She proved his point and woman like these women will be Lonely , head rolling Boss Chick's, with a lot of money 💰 and a dog 🐕 and no HUSBAND.
    That's 💯 Grand

    • @JoeBlowThaLovaman
      @JoeBlowThaLovaman 2 года назад +18

      Booom!!!! Let women talk long enough they tell on themselves.

    • @SwerveKing7135
      @SwerveKing7135 2 года назад +9

      Kevin S.

    • @steelbltz
      @steelbltz 2 года назад +2

      BINGO

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 2 года назад +12

      Yes he doesn’t want a stable woman he can’t manipulate…” she can work at Burger King as long as she got a car “ 🤣🤣🤣 yea 👌🏾 ok real high value 😂

    • @ImtheONEnotthetwo
      @ImtheONEnotthetwo 2 года назад +12

      But he’s lonely 😂😂 yet he’s so amazing lol.
      And a husband is NOT an accomplishment!

  • @indramami9080
    @indramami9080 2 года назад +14

    He’s a Good man and also good looking. I respect his preferences. He’s old school & traditional…Goodluck to him, hope he finds what he deserves…

  • @blackred4180
    @blackred4180 2 года назад +149

    The joy I got seeing these women feelings crushed over this man's standards to where they had to come and try to talk bad about him and try to fake laugh it off it was delightful lol hold the line men! This man is all the way up....the pure motivation I got from him to continue doing what I do best is invigorating

    • @bigdaddyromeo9631
      @bigdaddyromeo9631 2 года назад +7

      Kendra makes them feel validated cuz she doing nothing but laughing these two ladies acting like they actually making a point when they sound stupid I don't agree with him being 40 wanting a twenty-year-old that's just dumb but that's him

    • @blackred4180
      @blackred4180 2 года назад +14

      @@bigdaddyromeo9631 he wants children and the older females are stuck in their ways and can't really deal with them. If he wants children then she needs to be young not past her prime

    • @bigdaddyromeo9631
      @bigdaddyromeo9631 2 года назад +2

      @@blackred4180 I wasn't responding to him at all..... I was just making a comment about when women say they don't need a man

    • @blackred4180
      @blackred4180 2 года назад

      @@bigdaddyromeo9631 oh ok bet

    • @SpiritChild0980
      @SpiritChild0980 2 года назад +5

      Yow I share in it cause I’m 40+, no kids,military career (instructor),investments, local/intl, car almost paid off, in shape, sane, and stacking for my retirement and I am sure that as a man,I need a woman who’s able to cater to me as I’ll cater to her. I want to take care of my wife but that woman who’s talking ish, she just sad and bitter talking trash about a man she clearly doesn’t know.

  • @anthonylee3323
    @anthonylee3323 2 года назад +95

    I like the dude he's straightforward and don't sugarcoat anything. He said what he's looking for in a woman. It ain't anything wrong with that more men need to be honest with these women. And let her know what your expectations are and what you want tolerate. A lot of guys put up with things from women they shouldn't be putting up with. She's either going to follow your lead and do what you expect. Or leave her alone. A guy wants a woman that is submissive, feminine, friendly, approachable. He don't want no boss chick or no female that claims she's a alpha female. There's no such thing as a alpha female. I see some of the women have a problem with what he's saying. But it's what it's and he needs to stick to his principles.

    • @michaelmckenzie6311
      @michaelmckenzie6311 2 года назад +4

      A woman whom cooks, cleans, rear children and overall embraces femininity/womenhood would be my definition of a true Alpha Woman! Helping w/bills here or there is icing on the cake! They're out there but make sure you're truly accepting manhood as well! Thanks!

    • @rickybobbydastar6534
      @rickybobbydastar6534 2 года назад +3

      Women have all these standards & requirements, but as soon as a man has some it’s a problem. He’s straight forward and women can’t respect it

    • @itsHappening-ry2ef
      @itsHappening-ry2ef 2 года назад +1

      Child bye the black men can’t give women a reason to submit these podcast really got y’all mentally messed up ⬆️ who meets some one and start submitting gtfof

    • @itsHappening-ry2ef
      @itsHappening-ry2ef 2 года назад +3

      @@rickybobbydastar6534 Bs

    • @rickybobbydastar6534
      @rickybobbydastar6534 2 года назад +7

      @@itsHappening-ry2ef lies .When the guy said he want a woman 20-30 and stated why this is what he likes. Women have an issue wit it. But a woman can be 28 and say I only want a guy 35 & up it’s not a problem

  • @grindhard4312
    @grindhard4312 2 года назад +216

    "Somebody that's actually a woman." "Not trying to be a man." "Not trying to a BOSS chick." "Or a THOT." "Be a woman at ALL times." "You're representing ME!" I'm from MS myself living in Atlanta and when I tell you I couldn't agree more! When I hear this Boss Chick, queen mess I'm instantly, INSTANTLY turned off! OMG. Women, black women, need to get control of this, it's not attractive to any man of good character. We don't want it or need it. Thank you.

    • @epluribusunumspeaks571
      @epluribusunumspeaks571 2 года назад

      Kendra G is a fukkin idiot who is SPEARHEADING THE BS. This is why we can't get anywhere. Everybody has negative shit to say about black women. We as men, are slightly embarrassed.

    • @shannenfox7547
      @shannenfox7547 2 года назад

      You sound ignorant. Be a business women isn't been a man. I from MS my self and something wrong with both of you. Yall don't know what a women is. You just want her to be a certain way . A man can't tell female what a women vice versa.

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 2 года назад +2

      @@shannenfox7547 And what certain way is that I want her to be??

    • @psychnurse964
      @psychnurse964 2 года назад

      If the Black women is not a "boss chick" there wouldn't be a boss at all. You black men really need to get over your femininity.

    • @sugarwaterpurple5280
      @sugarwaterpurple5280 2 года назад

      There are a lot of men of good character and successful men fine with a successful woman. Black men need to get over this. There's not enough education or wealth in the black community for black men to act like those things aren't important.

  • @AJ-yb4vp
    @AJ-yb4vp Месяц назад +1

    I liked this man!! I hope he finds what he’s looking for.

  • @DebraMonae
    @DebraMonae 2 года назад +35

    He is everything wishing him the best that loves comes again for him - what he said made sense and I loved it 🥰

  • @ME-tb8zv
    @ME-tb8zv 2 года назад +39

    I’m a woman, and in my opinion there was nothing wrong with what that gentleman was asking for. He was clear with his wants. The women speaking after him proved his point of the dating pool that he has come across. How is it that women can have a 30 list requirements, but men can’t? Heck just because you ask for it, doesn’t men you’re gonna always get it, but at least you know what you want. To me, that man wants PEACE, and truth be told, there is a portion of the female population that don’t understand that. If the man is agreeing to step into the role of a provider and makes sure your needs are fulfilled, he’s not trying to hear a woman sucking their teeth, rolling theirs eyes and neck and nagging 24/7. I don’t understand what happened to a subset of the women that they no longer want to simply be nice to a real man. It seems as if these platforms nowadays are so fixated on trying to prove why the other sex is lacking instead of finding ways to compliment each other and find out how men and women can work well together.

    • @danawiley3728
      @danawiley3728 Год назад

      And this is why, unfortunately , many of our women/black women are single and walking around saying they don't need a man, as if it's a badge of honor. Well said, my friend! We have got to do better... the black culture is the only culture that shots our men down and pretends we would rather be alone than to be with a man that requires us to be the women God intended. If you are making money, great, but don't allow that money to have you round here lonely for the rest of your life.

    • @glynisgibson4933
      @glynisgibson4933 10 месяцев назад

      Michael, needs counseling

  • @ms.k.1543
    @ms.k.1543 2 года назад +20

    This gentleman seems very sincere and he is not asking for much at all. It's basically what most of us want as women and men. I'll be your "Florida Evans" all day everyday!😆

  • @sherrygetsyoufit8943
    @sherrygetsyoufit8943 10 месяцев назад +2

    I really like him and his mentality. He wants to be a man man! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @DivineLightFitness
    @DivineLightFitness 2 года назад +167

    This man has every right to make the requests that he is making. He has earned that right. Who are we to say other wise? He is the definition of a Man’s Man. Period. No explanations necessary.

  • @Sfpenelopel
    @Sfpenelopel 2 года назад +13

    Mike sounds like a great guy and has his head in the right place . I’m glad he brought up all about that “boss babe”, “I don’t need no man “ BS .

  • @msreen269
    @msreen269 2 года назад +43

    I didn’t find anything wrong with what this man said. He is a man who chooses to lead and provide for his family.
    He seems pretty traditional. Same job for 16 years, so has no problems with loyalty. This is how my husband is. We both work, but he is the head of our household and does what he should do in that role.

  • @lindasimpson6740
    @lindasimpson6740 10 месяцев назад +2

    I like him. Good luck Michael.

  • @J00530065
    @J00530065 2 года назад +44

    Agreed with 95% of what Mike said. Good luck, brother!

  • @thankthelord4536
    @thankthelord4536 2 года назад +86

    The man is reasonable and he's not asking for much. A real man.

  • @aleciapruitt9421
    @aleciapruitt9421 2 года назад +59

    He's extremely clear on what he wants and who he is...He will find what he's looking for

  • @e1000usa
    @e1000usa Год назад +8

    Protect this man💪🏾