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  • @tonyxhyon
    @tonyxhyon 7 месяцев назад +84

    The part where Erik doesn’t take pictures unless he’s not with Colleen was cute and touching 😢

  • @emmashurter7342
    @emmashurter7342 7 месяцев назад +53

    sometimes i feel like erik just doesn’t want to understand you because i think you explained the vertical and horizontal thinking perfectly hahahahha. y’all are too funny! love you both so much!!

  • @jenniferconnolly8849
    @jenniferconnolly8849 6 месяцев назад +77

    The tint with driving is illegal due to police not being able to see inside your vehicle and nothing to do with you driving in general

  • @alwayzjello
    @alwayzjello 6 месяцев назад +19

    I'm with Erik too. I feel like I'm invisible when I'm wearing sunglasses, and that's nice. Probably because I can't see well with them on, so it feels like people can't see me either.

  • @createconsiderconnect3356
    @createconsiderconnect3356 6 месяцев назад +35

    Colleen 😍 You’re hair is beautiful! Perfectly on point in this episode!

  • @kaylyn11
    @kaylyn11 6 месяцев назад +7

    I AM SUCH A BIG LIGHT PERSON. I’ve never met anyone else like that!! People get so mad at me when I watch movies with friends/family! I get that you can see the screen better, but I just like being able to see everything ELSE. I have to sacrifice this so often though to please others😭😭😂

  • @LisamarieNHtoTx
    @LisamarieNHtoTx 7 месяцев назад +38

    Omg Collleeeen. I am a BIG LIGHT girl too. I open all the windows and turn all the lights on all day and the second my husband gets home he closes the shades and it DRIVES ME NUTS. Ugh!! Light fuels my soul. I get it girl.

  • @Misshissproductions
    @Misshissproductions 7 месяцев назад +28

    Totallly agree and literally just said to my husband….”I know I sound like an old person but I’m so scared for the future and the kids today between AI and scammers, hackers, etc” That is why I love how much non technology you do with your kids…. Dancing, music classes, crafts, being outside…smart parents.

  • @katiehanson6253
    @katiehanson6253 6 месяцев назад +15

    OMG ERIC'S "well why dont you??"" I spit taked... 😂😂😂😂😂😂 i am finished! Soo funny!!!

    • @katiehanson6253
      @katiehanson6253 6 месяцев назад

      Honestly this moment from Colleen and eric you see the love in their relationship. Soo cute❤️ all the love:)

  • @larkrose
    @larkrose 6 месяцев назад +9

    THE LIGHT ! Everyone around me loves the darkness, but i need every light on always. Sunlight specifically. I want all windows open so it’s as bright as it could possibly be at all times. No sunglasses either. I very deeply understand you colleen

  • @Sara-AnneRybinski
    @Sara-AnneRybinski 7 месяцев назад +75

    The puppets 😂

    • @imgabiireyes
      @imgabiireyes 7 месяцев назад +5

      they feel like a fun little easter egg every podcast 😂

    • @erinanderson1990
      @erinanderson1990 7 месяцев назад +6

      Loving this new trend. Keep it going 🤣

  • @aylastyles1312
    @aylastyles1312 7 месяцев назад +12

    Erik needs some crocks by the front and back door for real

  • @omarkaakour4953
    @omarkaakour4953 6 месяцев назад +11

    I just rewatched colleens "reversed mukbang" and she mentions a habit Eric has where he says "you know what I mean" a lot between sentences and I just noticed how many times he says itt😂😂

  • @lizzyo6179
    @lizzyo6179 6 месяцев назад +9

    " I bought them FOR driving" lol. Love you guys

  • @cstump2005
    @cstump2005 7 месяцев назад +11

    I absolutely understand the explanation of the TikTok. NT brains see a road mapped out of things to do, where ours is like a wall of “STUFF TO DO” that we slam into. It’s paralyzing

  • @rachelthomas4276
    @rachelthomas4276 7 месяцев назад +6

    My husband bought me an Apple Watch and I hate it. It constantly buzzes and is a real distraction when driving. Also it absolutely does sweat underneath and it stinks 🤢. Can’t not wear it though because it was a present, but let me tell you when it dies, I will not be replacing it. I’m with Colleen on keeping things simple.

  • @prncssdck03
    @prncssdck03 6 месяцев назад +1

    Colleen, I just have to say I am HERE for your look today! The high pony? The comfy sweatshirt? The 90s vibes are fantastic and this just might be my favorite hair look on you!

  • @kimberbee70
    @kimberbee70 6 месяцев назад +1

    Erik’s big comfy chair reminds me of a maple bar donut.

  • @Emjh56
    @Emjh56 6 месяцев назад +6

    My husband is very linear thinking but my neurodivergent brain is anything but linear lol I get you girl!

  • @Te7ka
    @Te7ka 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi! I think the thinking of everything at once is an anxiety thing, I also do it. I've been advised to write things down and not keep them in my mind, because my brain is anxious and is constantly "holding" the tasks and is trying to remind me what I need to do and this cost a lot of mental energy because you're holding onto everything (I hate writing tasks down though 😅 )

  • @RachelK4982
    @RachelK4982 6 месяцев назад +1

    I need to wear glasses when I'm driving and I have prescription sunglasses because my eyes are pretty sensitive to light. I love them!

  • @klaraz.9861
    @klaraz.9861 6 месяцев назад +3

    I have to keep the sun glass debate going because I think you missed the MOST important point: sun glasses are not primarily to look cute. Their purpose is to literally protect you from cancer. Eye damage and cancer in the eye are common and real bad. I don’t like the feeling of glasses as well but especially in places with lots of sun it‘s so important!

  • @szonja859
    @szonja859 6 месяцев назад +1

    Erik freaking out that Colleen doesnt wear any accessories for 54 minutes straight 😂 ❤ loved it thank you for the fun episode

  • @authorgirlpetparent
    @authorgirlpetparent 6 месяцев назад +3

    I have indoor crocs and outdoor crocs... I REALLY don't care how I look 🤣

  • @DeborahTyllack
    @DeborahTyllack 6 месяцев назад +1

    Eric: "...because you look cool." Colleen (wearing the sunglasses, completely dry tone): "Do I?!" 🤣😂🤣 Love it!

  • @user-cs9kr2wl6n
    @user-cs9kr2wl6n 6 месяцев назад +1

    I do remember you talking about the vertical and horizontal thing!! You were talking about the months being listed jan-dec in vertical not horizontal

  • @Alyssa-Michelle
    @Alyssa-Michelle 7 месяцев назад +8

    Lmao malls are only for Adults who go shopping for 1 hour and teenagers who stay all day. Malls are still popin just gotta go to the right one

  • @Kittehcat3000
    @Kittehcat3000 6 месяцев назад +1

    As someone with blue eyes if I forget my sunglasses I can't drive it's so dangerous!

  • @sailornamek
    @sailornamek 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sunglasses: a nice little brain snuggle. Lol

  • @heatherhinson5801
    @heatherhinson5801 6 месяцев назад +3

    I'm on Erik's side with the whole light thing lol during the day I will open the blinds or curtains and use the natural light but will not turn on a big light! At night I always turn my lamps on the lowest setting unless I absolutely need more light to see something 🤣

  • @abbywisher
    @abbywisher 6 месяцев назад +3

    I love you guys and we’re all so grateful for you & carrot with the podcast! I hope you’re both well

  • @ExitLight
    @ExitLight 6 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t have ADHD and I think of a list as a chunk of things to do. I can’t even imagine just ignoring the rest of the list and concentrating on one thing. What’s that world like? And yes, I have anxiety and panic attack disorders so…..maybe my brain is neurodivergent? Great, I’ll be up all night wondering about that……

  • @jessicalicemily9030
    @jessicalicemily9030 6 месяцев назад +1

    I agree 100% with everything Erik feels about sunglasses!

  • @samanthabaxter8688
    @samanthabaxter8688 6 месяцев назад +2

    I feel so seen about the lights 😂 I must have lights on until bedtime! My parents never have the light on in their living room just the TV, no matter what time it is and it drives me crazy being in such a dark room.

  • @Courtney813
    @Courtney813 6 месяцев назад +5

    Ok…I NEVER comment on videos lol. But let’s get more into the ADHD convo because Colleen, my mind is the absolute same way. The first task I need to do is at the top of the vertical and then everything else follows. BUT, when I start a task I add mini tasks in between my already original tasks. Does that make sense???

  • @theamanuel8825
    @theamanuel8825 6 месяцев назад +2

    I totally understand the vertical thinking! You're telling me people think horizontally???

  • @Wendisty
    @Wendisty 6 месяцев назад +3

    I think I know what you're talking about Colleen. It is called something like adhd paralysis, where you feel stuck and can't do anything because you're thinking too much about everything you have to do. Sometimes it makes us look lazy

  • @melrox8809
    @melrox8809 6 месяцев назад +1

    I didn't like sunglasses when I was younger but I need them when I'm driving. I have dark brown eyes too. I'm with Erik about sunglasses. I always wear them in the sun & on the beach

  • @jos4222
    @jos4222 6 месяцев назад +3

    Sitting here wondering if Erik’s chair reclines, but then I see the ottoman/stool, so probably not (?) Also, when talking about visualizing things vertically or diagonally, you talked about something similar but it was about how you see days of the week or the months, I believe. I just love the love you two have for each other and how you listen to and engage with one another. I’m lucky to have that with my husband too. If I was still with my first husband, I would be feeling like I was missing out, but now I can enjoy you guys and feel lucky that I have a good one too! 🥰

  • @janiceFLORIDA77
    @janiceFLORIDA77 6 месяцев назад +4

    I love watching you enjoy each other’s company 💞

  • @arwensdorf8311
    @arwensdorf8311 6 месяцев назад +1

    Colleen i am WITH YA getting inordinately angry at any kind of object imaginable ESPECIALLY technology.

  • @reenibeanie5812
    @reenibeanie5812 6 месяцев назад

    I saw the same ADHD tik tok and it made soooooo much sense to me! It explained perfectly why I have so much anxiety over having a busy day! It absolutely blew my mind.

  • @AlyssaB2552
    @AlyssaB2552 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’m definitely a big light person. I sleep with the big light on. Can’t stand darkness at all

  • @aliyah6943
    @aliyah6943 7 месяцев назад +10

    I fear for the youth too in terms of technology !

  • @Savvy955
    @Savvy955 6 месяцев назад +1

    Not me at 1252am laying in bed with my bedroom light and hallway light on watching this. I can NOT stand sitting in the dark

  • @KatiBoBati
    @KatiBoBati 6 месяцев назад +1

    Colleen, you don’t need a wallet but you would benefit from a cardholder! Wallets are too big and bulky to fuss with but a cardholder fits perfectly in your pocket and keeps your stuff organized at the same time!

  • @abbey720
    @abbey720 6 месяцев назад +1

    Okay but Colleen you look so cool with sunglasses hahahaha

  • @sharonzona4346
    @sharonzona4346 6 месяцев назад +1

    Love the puppets this week! You are very creative!!

  • @destinygarcia4630
    @destinygarcia4630 7 месяцев назад +1

    Your list discussion makes so much sense. I am able to plan out each task I have and when I am done with my current task I move on to the next!

  • @bosquetblues7919
    @bosquetblues7919 6 месяцев назад

    Oh, Colleen, the sunglasses thing… I totally understand what you’re saying and experiencing. AND I have light blue, very sensitive eyes and chronic migraines. So I kind of HAVE to wear the sunglasses even though they make me claustrophobic, make me panic and bother my vision. I don’t wear them often enough. When I’m on holidays, I can get used to them and benefit from the safe space that they provide (what Erik spoke about). But it always starts with some days of avoiding going outside or doing it while being panicked and dissociated. Oh the brains, why are they so… neurospicy.

  • @emmacollins454
    @emmacollins454 6 месяцев назад

    The lights! OMG I HATE THE BIG LIGHT! The big light in my house has only ever come on when I accidentally hit the wrong switch. Give me the dimmable light, black out curtains, the darkest window shade ever made! I love the dark… maybe that’s the depression talking 😂😂

  • @kylielewis6235
    @kylielewis6235 6 месяцев назад +1

    Neurodivergent doesn’t just mean ADHD colleen haha. Erik can relate to this because anxiety qualifies as neurodivergence

  • @savannahcasteel4403
    @savannahcasteel4403 6 месяцев назад +2

    I literally always have the big lights on in my house! I can’t see if they are off and it gives me major anxiety…all of my friends think I’m crazy!!

  • @Tina_Rinaaa
    @Tina_Rinaaa 7 месяцев назад +2

    I worked at target for my first job and that EXACT same situation Erik was talking about happened to me!!

  • @9gracie97
    @9gracie97 6 месяцев назад +1

    I definitely prefer the big lights. I want to be able to see!! And if I’m looking at a screen it looks way too bright when the room is too dark. My husband hates the big lights though so we try to compromise. We changed all the big light lightbulbs to yellow lights and he can deal with those and we keep the big lights off in his office

  • @lindsaylobotomy4355
    @lindsaylobotomy4355 6 месяцев назад +1

    I have blue eyes and they are super sensitive. I can't be out in the sun without sunglasses and my eyes water like crazy. I'm also scared of getting cataracts. I don't want any kind of eye surgery ! 😬

  • @savannahlowery4270
    @savannahlowery4270 6 месяцев назад

    I absolutely understand the thinking vertical. It makes it feel like you have so much to do it’s impossible and overwhelming to the point you can’t do anything at all instead of just getting it done

  • @lorena-2508
    @lorena-2508 6 месяцев назад +1

    With Colleen on the sunglasses debate!!!!! It's like an itchy sweater, but on my vision.
    I was in the car with my brother the other day and I randomly asked him "how do feel about sunglasses" as I've never seen him wear any. He promptly replied "They keep me from seeing the real world". YES.
    We're team see the world in real time and real color. No sunglasses allowed!!! 💖🌟

  • @alwayzjello
    @alwayzjello 6 месяцев назад +2

    I feel like wallets made more sense before technology, when most people paid with cash and we collected business cards and such. Now it's all on our phones. I also have a pocket in my bag for my credit card and ID and that's basically all I need (and my phone).

  • @alicerice8506
    @alicerice8506 6 месяцев назад

    I think about my to do’s the same way you do Colleen. I’m not diagnosed ADHD but my mind is always thinking of everything I have to do next instead of focusing on the thing I am doing. I always tell myself “you have to focus!”

  • @LizaFergison
    @LizaFergison 6 месяцев назад +2

    Spectacles, testicles, wallet, and watch = the sign of the cross from the hillarious film.

  • @miikayla
    @miikayla 6 месяцев назад +1

    100 billion percent with Colleen on the shoes. absolutely one of my biggest trigger points hahaha, her logic is exactly what i'm trying to tell everyone

  • @amymc2257
    @amymc2257 6 месяцев назад

    The puppets are giving me circus vibes today 😂❤ love it so much!

  • @freya4729
    @freya4729 6 месяцев назад +1

    Colleen literally looks blind when she had sunglasses on 😂
    Not making fun of blind people here. Just funny how Colleen's posture and movement changed after wearing glasses.

  • @amberleannhartline4179
    @amberleannhartline4179 6 месяцев назад

    That fiddle leaf fig needs to relax 😂

  • @CryStealHeart
    @CryStealHeart 6 месяцев назад +1

    Colleen, I totally understand about the list on the wall of things to do immediately. I think you were thinking about steps people take one after the other on finishing their tasks and picture it in their mind this way too. Erik may understand library horizontal catalogs of books before the net which is the opposite of long vertical lists. It's all relative of abstract thoughts and directions that connect your thoughts that do the different directions. I dont know. Maybe my comment is more confusing lol

  • @mariemarquis1467
    @mariemarquis1467 6 месяцев назад +1

    I am a no sunglasses and pro big light person myself. Maybe they’re related? One of the reasons why I usually don’t enjoy eating at restaurants at night is because the restaurants turn the lights down so dim I feel like I’m wearing sunglasses inside and I can’t see my food! Gotta have all the light!

  • @shannonrosado6453
    @shannonrosado6453 7 месяцев назад +2

    I cannot live without my sunglasses 😎

  • @arielleburbee8898
    @arielleburbee8898 6 месяцев назад

    I never comment on anything... but 100% ALL the big lights and lamps on even at 1am😂😂

  • @melrox8809
    @melrox8809 6 месяцев назад +1

    I agree with Colleen about wearing shoes in the house & my husband does the same thing. I also don't wear a watch LoL

  • @alysiasmith7702
    @alysiasmith7702 6 месяцев назад

    Omg Colleen! Although I wear sunglasses cuz I feel the sun is blinding, I can’t be in dim lighting.
    I hate restaurants and places with low lights. Unless it’s like just a candle lighting a space, I feel like my eyes are not open! Especially in restaurants, how can I read this glossy menu in the dark!
    Excited you guys are back on the podcast. Thanks for that. ❤

  • @evermore5432
    @evermore5432 6 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely agree with the BIG Lights. I have all the lights on no matter what time of the day it is. Especially because I am not a fan of the dark.
    I also sleep with either the TV or a light on.

  • @laurennlauren33
    @laurennlauren33 6 месяцев назад +2

    I used to work at a decently popular store on the Strip in Vegas and having to ID people was the worst of the worst thing. At my old store, you CAN bypass having to scan their ID because customers do have a choice in the matter. You would just type in their birthday.
    Also, the cashier would have to be at least 21 to sell alcohol. Is that really too young for facebook?

  • @bleuLorax
    @bleuLorax 6 месяцев назад +1

    Who organizes those puppets on the couch each week? 😅😂👀🤣

  • @hajara3214
    @hajara3214 6 месяцев назад +1

    38:14 I felt this in my soul 😂 as a neurodivergent who is surrounded by neurotypicals
    Eric just being at a loss of words, is how all of my loved ones sound
    It’s pure love but genuine confusion 😂
    Love you guys and team “least amount of accessories on my person, possible” alllll the wayyy
    With much love to “team accessories, always” because without you guys, we’d be in big trouble 😂

  • @alwayzjello
    @alwayzjello 6 месяцев назад +1

    I also don't like wearing watches. I don't like things on my wrist. When I was in junior high school, I would carry a watch around in my pocket (this was before cell phones).

  • @laurenschlein1394
    @laurenschlein1394 7 месяцев назад +3

    Love the puppets 😂

  • @shannontaylor5094
    @shannontaylor5094 6 месяцев назад

    Colleen. Omg. I moved into an apartment without realizing there were NO big lights. I have to rely on daylight and lamps and it hurts my souls daily. Can’t wait to move

  • @stephschabacker9590
    @stephschabacker9590 6 месяцев назад

    Back to the sunglasses thing- I relate to you, Colleen!! You know how people have to turn down the music in their car when they’re getting close to their destination? I do the same thing with sunglasses! If I really need to see something I have to take them off!! I wear them because it’s safer for my eyes, and I had lasik done on my eyes and was recommended to always wear sunglasses in the sun. Also because they’re cute. But for sure need them off when I’m looking for something lol!

  • @ShannonPetrie-vv2cf
    @ShannonPetrie-vv2cf 6 месяцев назад

    Okay like a lot of the other sunglass commenters i too have never commented on a video but i feel the EXACT same way about sunglasses (obstructs my vision, feels claustrophobic, need to see the world in HD) yet i have blue eyes…so that combination just results in me squinting a whole lot and dealing with the fact that i will have deeeep crows feet around my eyes when i’m older. I sometimes wonder if it’s an adhd thing at least for me because they kinda distract me from what i’m doing and the same goes for lights, i need my phone brightness up, all the lights on around me, blinds all open, etc. it makes a big difference in how productive i am or else i’ll feel like something’s off the whole time

  • @kanubhatia2304
    @kanubhatia2304 6 месяцев назад

    Not Colleen missing out the chance to say : “I am the problem, it’s me! @ 34:19….!!

  • @tracywestby2231
    @tracywestby2231 6 месяцев назад

    I think vertically for sure. My husband very early on in our relationship was absolutely delighted to discover he could erase my mental list while I was making it. And erase my chalk board when I'm trying to figure out a math problem.... I think we visualize so accurately that it is like you are writing on paper.

  • @marionsicard6479
    @marionsicard6479 6 месяцев назад +1

    Team childhood snoopy watch here 😂

  • @olivernightingale8260
    @olivernightingale8260 6 месяцев назад +1

    I hate light - couldn't live without my sunglasses!

  • @shelleyjacobs7871
    @shelleyjacobs7871 6 месяцев назад

    Also sunglasses are made for us to wear to protect our eyes from the UV rays from the sun. That's why they are called sunglasses.

  • @barbaramay97
    @barbaramay97 6 месяцев назад

    I think with the vertical vs. Horizontal thing, it's more like neurodivergent people approach all the tasks for the day at once and they are all unorganized so it can be hard to tell them apart chronologically or by how important they are to get done. Neurotypical people tend to approach the tasks one at a time according to how important they are and where they fit chronologically into their day. It's the difference between essentially a videogame tutorial that goes task by task and being handed a to do list with tasks in a random order.

    • @barbaramay97
      @barbaramay97 6 месяцев назад

      I also want to add that the neurodivergent version is also a common thing for people with anxiety disorders so that may be why Erik doesn't get what Colleen is saying because they both see it the same way.

  • @cleosworld9096
    @cleosworld9096 6 месяцев назад

    Omg im same with lights. I looooove lights on all the time and no one else does. Colleen the more u talk the more I just love someone else is like me.

  • @veevs1990
    @veevs1990 7 месяцев назад +1

    I SAY THE EXPRESSION ALL THE TIME AND I GOT NO TESTICLES 😂

  • @TinaLouise81
    @TinaLouise81 6 месяцев назад

    I remember the vertical/horizontal talk on a previous podcast

  • @Liiszu
    @Liiszu 6 месяцев назад +1

    I usually don't comment on videos, but I just had to say that I am the same way as Colleen- I don't wear sunglasses, don't have a wallet or a watch, don't were shoes inside (that's the norm in Estonia anyway). When we leave the house my husband has the keys and I have backpack with things for our three kids. 😂

  • @GonniGettingFitter
    @GonniGettingFitter 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh, I need SO MUCH light! ALL OF THE LIGHT PLEASE! I need vibrancy and clarity in every inch of my environment at all times. It might drive my bf insane but oops

  • @alwayzjello
    @alwayzjello 6 месяцев назад

    I like the big light too. It feels like a vacation to my eyes when it's bright. I can't see in the dark!

  • @katiehanson6253
    @katiehanson6253 6 месяцев назад +2

    Isn't it illegal because officers can't see into the vehicle?! Thats what i always thought... is that not true? I totally thought it was fr officer/ first responder safety.

  • @mbuck100
    @mbuck100 7 месяцев назад +1

    Every time I get new prescription for glasses I always get prescription sunglasses and never use them!!! They stay in my purse and literally never use them!😊

  • @melrox8809
    @melrox8809 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wear does Colleen get her sweatshirts? LoL I can see her mom having that one lol

  • @chichigames4589
    @chichigames4589 6 месяцев назад +1

    It's me. I'm one of the two people that needs the lights on... LOL

  • @joemaymayers2212
    @joemaymayers2212 6 месяцев назад

    I loved the last part and the chat about how kids are doing and what they like it really felt like old friends getting together and chatting about the fam ❤ love you guys

  • @savannahfance2038
    @savannahfance2038 6 месяцев назад

    The audible gasp I gusped when Colleen said she was a big light person... I am SHOCKED! If I could never have the big light on, I would do it.

  • @LOVEMEMORE247.
    @LOVEMEMORE247. Месяц назад

    You have to put things in the wallet and take things out of the wallet 😂😂😂

  • @faeriesandrainbows
    @faeriesandrainbows 6 месяцев назад

    I like keeping ALL the lights on ALL the time too. Except when I'm trying to wind down at night, which is usually just when I'm brushing my teeth and cleaning my face. 😅
    It helps my depression to have lights on most of the day, especially in the Pacific Northwest.