Strategist Reacts to Dr. Bryant & Cam Newton | A Lesson in Gaslighting and Verbal Manipulation

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @SolCareMimi
    @SolCareMimi 2 месяца назад +8

    So grateful to Cam and the algorithm!!! I got a new 👸🏾 to subscribe to!! And what a voice! Are we called The Absolutelys?? ❤

    • @Shalondria
      @Shalondria 2 месяца назад +3

      So happy! I’m new here too. Cam ain’t shit.

    • @empressfayer
      @empressfayer Месяц назад +1

      @@Shalondria 😂😂😂

    • @OGseoulite
      @OGseoulite 24 дня назад

      @@ShalondriaLMFAOOOOO

  • @rachelmazique7363
    @rachelmazique7363 2 месяца назад +53

    Imagine being broken and not wanting to acknowledge it. “They are everywhere “

  • @Creacy21
    @Creacy21 2 месяца назад +41

    He was not listening to a DAMN thing. His only thought was "Pivot". Like Brother, she ANSWERED the question....why are you not doing the same?

    • @FeminineSuccess
      @FeminineSuccess 2 месяца назад +2

      “ok let’s bring it back to me now!” 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

    • @FeminineSuccess
      @FeminineSuccess 2 месяца назад +4

      When he asked, “have you dated outside your race?” “yes” “are you willing to date outside your race?” “yes” (literally she just answered that!!), “are you open….?” That’s when I knew FOR SURE that he was out of his depth and not an adept interviewer.

    • @absafcknlutely
      @absafcknlutely  2 месяца назад

      Basically.

  • @ljohnson1908
    @ljohnson1908 2 месяца назад +43

    It’s funny to see him sit there in the depths of his ignorance really thinking he’s “one upped” Dr. Bryant. I will not suffer fools who don’t want genuine conversation, but whose only goal is to “humble” me and all other women.

    • @absafcknlutely
      @absafcknlutely  2 месяца назад +14

      It's embarrassing that he can't see it. But he doesn't actually care. Too busy upholding his persona.

    • @leighbotts9694
      @leighbotts9694 2 месяца назад +6

      Girl when he tried to flex his Sociology degree and the fact that he had to take a psychology class as a way to say she should respect his opinion I was done! lol. That man was not ready for that conversation.

    • @SolCareMimi
      @SolCareMimi 2 месяца назад +4

      Upholding his persona was exactly what I wrote in another comment section! He’s shameless I’d be shocked if he changes ever! Just this year the man boy tried to repo a 2017 car he gave to the mother of his first children and partnered with for 10 years. He’s sitting on the wrong couch.

    • @ljohnson1908
      @ljohnson1908 2 месяца назад +4

      @@leighbotts9694 That "Let me know when I can speak" said more than he did in almost 3 hours. He wasn't interested in a conversation. He wanted to give a lecture.

    • @leighbotts9694
      @leighbotts9694 2 месяца назад +3

      @@ljohnson1908 exactly. And to catch her up in a “gotcha” type situation. She handled it masterfully.

  • @IAuMatu
    @IAuMatu 2 месяца назад +26

    Translation: “But baby I’m THEE Cam Newton, how could you possibly say that you wouldn’t change your so-called standards to date MEE under any circumstance? That’s ludicrous! I know that’s not true!”

  • @Dawn23244
    @Dawn23244 2 месяца назад +18

    Great stream. Cam wants polygamy. At best. Zero self awareness. Great stream per usual!

  • @xtrapuffed17
    @xtrapuffed17 2 месяца назад +25

    She answered him 10 times to try and get it through to him! How thick can you get?!

    • @absafcknlutely
      @absafcknlutely  2 месяца назад +5

      The celebrity ego is wild.

    • @xtrapuffed17
      @xtrapuffed17 2 месяца назад +3

      @@absafcknlutely the Limelight is definitely a Cluster B magnet for sure.

    • @stormyskyz7881
      @stormyskyz7881 2 месяца назад +5

      He don’t want to get it.

    • @absafcknlutely
      @absafcknlutely  2 месяца назад +3

      @@stormyskyz7881 that part.

  • @thehighpriest333
    @thehighpriest333 2 месяца назад +16

    Literally LOVE opening this godforsaken app and seeing one of your videos as my FIRST suggestion! True MOTHER to the people! Love yoooouuu ❤

  • @VoxMachina8
    @VoxMachina8 2 месяца назад +20

    Cam definitely thinks he's intelligent.
    You can see him trying to sound intelligent. But missing the point entirely.
    He had no clue his ego and fears were on full display.
    She is surprisingly skilled. Ran circles around him. And in a respectful yet direct manner.
    How are you mentally afraid of commitment, but physically never afraid to committing your body to the sport you love?
    Theres no guarantees in either.
    With a high likelihood of being hurt in both. Yet, in one you never hesitate. You'd commit to a team right now. Drop everything else in an instant if one called.
    But, zero commitment in relationships.

    • @nikkie_a
      @nikkie_a Месяц назад +1

      Yeah, it has nothing to do with getting hurt. Cam doesn’t want to share his “ things “ with a woman. He knows he doesn’t want to be monogamous, so a marriage for him will most likely end up in divorce and would result in him “ losing “ half of the assets. So he would rather con a woman in to doing all of the wifely things , without actually being a wife. That man doesn’t care about being hurt because you can’t truly hurt someone who isn’t even faithful.

    • @VoxMachina8
      @VoxMachina8 Месяц назад

      @nikkie_a Actually, you can hurt someone who's afraid of commitment. It's likely that they've been hurt before and you're reminding them of that underlying fear.
      Or there may be an insecurity.
      Fear that someone will leave them if they get too close and really get to know the real person at their core.
      Anyone who is fearful can be hurt.
      And pretty easily if you know the buttons to push.

    • @nikkie_a
      @nikkie_a Месяц назад +2

      @VoxMachina8 Yes, but Cam isn't afraid of commitment. Having a child is commitment....well it's supposed to be. He was committed to the team he played for. He's committed to his jobs. He is not scared to commit. He is scared of monogamy. He has not expressed a track record of being cheated on or hurt. He has been the one to cheat while simultaneously putting babies in the women he's cheating on because " I just want God to bring em". So, can someone with a track record of being cheated on and hurt have a traumatic relationship with commitment? Yes, absolutely. Is that the case with Cam and men like Cam? Absolutely NOT!!!!! So, like I said, you cannot hurt men like Cam with cheating. Maybe if you stole some money from him, that would hurt him. Bruise his ego, maybe....but let's not confuse hurt pride with a broken heart. It's not the same. Cam and men like him are afraid of the accountability of commitment, not commitment itself.

    • @VoxMachina8
      @VoxMachina8 Месяц назад

      @nikkie_a I get what you're saying. I agree he is committed in some areas vs others.
      When people say how you do one thing is how you do everything that clearly isn't true here.
      I don't think his issues in relationship stem from him being cheated on. I think it pre-dates romantic relationships in his life.
      It seems to be connected to a childhood experience. Possibly some type of feeling of abandonment or betrayal. It's likely he doesn't fully trust being vulnerable with anyone maybe other than his kids.
      His real fear is of being vulnerable.
      His defense is never committing on an intimate level.
      The worst case he's defending from is the hurt of abandonment most likely.

    • @nikkie_a
      @nikkie_a Месяц назад +1

      @VoxMachina8 Nah, because if that's the case he wouldn't be living with these women and teasing them with the proximity to marriage. He would stay single and truly live the bachelor life. You are trying to coddle him and excuse his behavior with the idea of trauma and I'm not going. Now, he may have some issues stemming from childhood and that's understandable, but it still doesn't give validity to " fear of commitment " or "scared of being hurt". He has a fear of responsibility. Again, if Cam was cheated on in his past ,he wouldn't have hesitated to bring that up with the doc to use as an excuse for his behavior. He never did. He never expressed being cheated on or hurt by a woman in that capacity anywhere in that conversation or ever. However, he has expressed and it is known that he has cheated on the women that he has partnered with. With that being the case, what you are saying doesn't add up. His issues with committing do not stem from being scared of being hurt. Cam doesn't care about that because he knows he can get another one to fill the spot. In order to feel hurt, you have to love someone. Cam does not love these women. Jas literally does EVERYTHING for him and has to go cry in the shower because he won't listen to her. He loves their acts of service and any woman with a cute face and nice body that is willing to let him have his way will suffice. Cam doesn't commit out fear of being tied to responsibility.

  • @VICTORIOUSONE22
    @VICTORIOUSONE22 2 месяца назад +9

    CAM women are Human. WOMEN are not incubators. The women in these scenarios had trauma to their bodies, mental health and who knows what else after dealing with you. The women took the risks.

  • @THEGODDESSTHEYNEVERSAWCOMING
    @THEGODDESSTHEYNEVERSAWCOMING Месяц назад +8

    He came in there saying "I have my boxing gloves on"🙄 Cam, go to therapy.

  • @gpmiranda873
    @gpmiranda873 2 месяца назад +5

    I can listen to you talk for ages. You have a very soothing voice. Thank you for the content.

  • @MsYooToob
    @MsYooToob 2 месяца назад +11

    This was soooooo difficult to watch oh my God 😩

  • @Roxkis
    @Roxkis 2 месяца назад +5

    Man, I'm a fan of Cam, but that was not a good look. Would this be an example of someone's ego trying to protect them?
    I can kinda understanding how someone telling you that you make broken homes could trigger a defensive reaction. I just don't know how I would handle something like that and not get defensive.

    • @3DSuccess
      @3DSuccess Месяц назад +2

      I’m sure it was uncomfortable, however he started the ENTIRE interview throwing side jabs, unfortunately.

  • @Karla-lf7kx
    @Karla-lf7kx 2 месяца назад +5

    What I heard from Cam was I have a set of questions and I'm going to ask these set of questions and that's it.

  • @JazzThaMost333
    @JazzThaMost333 2 месяца назад +4

    16:33, whats sad is he did that pretty much the entire interview. It was so painful to watch. Especially cuz she is clearly highly intelligent and his responding to her like that was condescending and disrespectful

  • @aliciastalksessions
    @aliciastalksessions Месяц назад +2

    I certainly hope she was paid well for her time, or that this increased traffic to her social medias and website. No amount of anything would allow my being to be subjected to this type of character for such a length of time

  • @Swayyy02
    @Swayyy02 2 месяца назад +3

    Nooo let it run some more you have great insight I wanted to hear so more.

    • @absafcknlutely
      @absafcknlutely  2 месяца назад +3

      Tryin' to torture a sista?! Thank you for watching, beautiful!

  • @RiverPaisley
    @RiverPaisley 2 месяца назад +3

    Your voice is really resonant in this video. If you ever decide to do a strategist variation on guided meditation (specifically yoga Nidra) sign me up. 🩵

  • @TM-nb9zf
    @TM-nb9zf 2 месяца назад +6

    These rich men have been embarrassing and abusing all these beautiful women that the average working man would cherish....from cassie to jazz...Jeanie....jhene...many more.

  • @lalat5899
    @lalat5899 Месяц назад +7

    This video has shown me how much work I’ve done on myself. And I am so grateful 🥹. Listening to the conversation for first time(and only time) here and I’m exhausted lol. I can’t imagine dating someone like him.

    • @absafcknlutely
      @absafcknlutely  Месяц назад

      Right?! Thank you for watching. I think you would enjoy the Black Tea Sessions on Patrion at the Spice Rack level ;)

  • @andrealipscomb8284
    @andrealipscomb8284 Месяц назад

    Being a boy mom, this conversation was over about 45 minutes. Dr. Bryant clearly didn’t take courses in body language.

  • @myssmajesty9567
    @myssmajesty9567 2 месяца назад +2

    You got a new follower!

  • @kkulist
    @kkulist 2 месяца назад +3

    "[..] let's see what happens here where cameron potentially runs into a brick wall that is a woman who knows what the fck she's talking about" many such cases, i'm afraid.

  • @Shalondria
    @Shalondria 2 месяца назад +1

    Dr. Bryant reminds me of my therapist the more I hear her speak. I love it. She was hot! And I enjoyed seeing her FLAY him. Though….wtf made her go on his or Cannon’s show in the 1st place. I can’t see how either weren’t a waste of time. She got publicity but as I type that it seems stupid. She didn’t need the attention these folks brought. Wait….did she do this to TAKE THEM DOWN a notch or few, in their communities. Hmm. Idk. Overall a waste of time for HER. You know what…I thank her for wasting her time so that WE could be entertained and laugh AT this man. Who knows….maybe others will choose better after seeing his gaslighting, ego, selfishness and stupidity laid out (almost chronologically) for all to see in 1080p HD video.

    • @3DSuccess
      @3DSuccess Месяц назад +1

      I think she’s very passionate about a particular subject and that led her to agree to the interview. I believe this subject matter is heartfelt and she had purposeful intentions.

  • @missdllindsay1023
    @missdllindsay1023 Месяц назад +2

    He met his....EGO DEATH AT THAT MOMENT...money doesnt equal common sense...yes he is successful and rich ....that's why he acts the way he does....most NFL , NBA players act like they are a prize due to status and bank account...walking around sleeping around not being accountable....

  • @GlikeGod
    @GlikeGod 2 месяца назад +4

    Ok nah…. You could be reading the dictionary and I’d be locked in lol

  • @mossburglarue5854
    @mossburglarue5854 Месяц назад

    As a father and grandfather I feel that if you haven't lived a life as a parent you can speak on someone how has or has raised children. I am from a broken home and so are my kids. At the same time all of us are successful in life. So her whole argument is a opinion based of what she wants. When most of the our population in this country are brought up in broken homes.

  • @danniecurlett8702
    @danniecurlett8702 2 месяца назад +1

    to be honest they both was in disagreement the whole time lol