How To Deal With Your Emotional Baggage

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024

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  • @datingcoachryanpatrick
    @datingcoachryanpatrick  3 года назад +1

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  • @Heather-vg1dh
    @Heather-vg1dh 4 года назад +26

    It is rough out here but you make great points Ryan . I believe focusing most of your energy on bettering yourself through exercise, and meditation, to enhance yourself spiritually, and emotionally is ultimately what is going to lead you to someone special .

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +4

      Totally Floral! We just got to remember to keep things "tidy," internally and externally 😉

  • @bassoonmusic601
    @bassoonmusic601 4 года назад +2

    I was so thankful that I had therapy to run to literally the day after he walked out of my life without warning. This video was a great way to review my progress over the last 10 months. I'm still working to uncover my own dating patterns, but I'm slowly getting to a better place. Also, small victories are awesome! Thanks Ryan! 😊❤

  • @krystavi05
    @krystavi05 4 года назад +5

    This is a very important topic to discuss regarding, well not just relationships, but living a healthy emotional life as well.
    Thank you so much Ryan!

  • @valeriegriffith886
    @valeriegriffith886 3 года назад

    Ok...so what if we don't want to date younger men because it's just gross. I'm 50 and I'm not dating a 35 year old the same age as my own kids. Ewww...

  • @MrStarfire12344
    @MrStarfire12344 4 года назад +3

    hey guys! was hoping i could get some advice. so i recently moved states for college and i met this guy early on through a friend. I liked him right away but my friend liked him and started dating him however, me and this guy became really close friends over about 4 months. flash foward me and this girl are no longer friends and him and i talked over the phone all break. he even bought me a christmas present. I had felt the chemistry for a while and they broke up in november so i decided to tell him how i felt. I got almost no reaction just "well i never really thought about you that way." I had two more talks with him after that. He told me that things with his ex were also complicated. I really felt a good vibe and chemistry with him and dont know what to do since he seems to care about me a lot. this is only a third of the story but i would appreciate some other opinions. Thanks yall.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +4

      I wouldn't go there, if you want my opinion. He's already told you he's no into you like that, so a friendship is one thing, but beyond that, not so much. I know you said you're not friends with this girl anymore, but if you were to put for something more, this girl isn't going to circle around to being your friend any time soon. Quite the opposite, in fact. Not worth it 😕

  • @vickiweber4718
    @vickiweber4718 4 года назад +7

    I really needed this!

  • @BajanPana
    @BajanPana 4 года назад +1

    Omgoodness. Thank you for this message. Most definitely needed to hear this

  • @TipsForWomen76
    @TipsForWomen76 4 года назад +2

    Great video, I host a similar channel to yours, great topic you chose, keep up the great work

  • @sandyb7672
    @sandyb7672 4 года назад

    What if mine is that my kids are in foster homes because my mental disability makes me unable to raise my babies properly so I can only see them once a month for an hour, which is not at all right now. My son also has severe mental illness. I blame myself for not mentally being able to be a mother who can raise her own kids. And every time I see them then half to say goodbye again I constantly half to re-live the grief process over again. And right now with isolation it's worse. So how do I get rid of this emotional baggage if I can't? My babies mean everything to me. There is a guy I really like and he knows about my kids and what I go through but I want to not bring him down but I don't want to loose him or forever stay away from men because I constantly half to grieve my kids every month. What do I do?

  • @sharonlizmiller
    @sharonlizmiller 4 года назад +4

    So helpful, thank you!

  • @AtengJoy
    @AtengJoy 4 года назад

    I have just recently found you in RUclips after I started going back to dating scene after a long time. I appreciate how you present your ideas, how you breakdown steps for us, and how you give us what we can do to improve. I also appreciate how you act out guys internal dialogue, I find myself giggling at times while watching you. Thank you

  • @carolinabu7412
    @carolinabu7412 3 года назад

    Powerful message. Thank you so much. It maid me feel so much better

  • @ambercarroll9011
    @ambercarroll9011 4 года назад

    Really enjoyed this video. I just had the same situation discussed in the beginning happen to me. Thank you for posting this.

  • @missybarbie152
    @missybarbie152 3 года назад

    I binge watch all your videoss you are amazing and they have helped me realize a lot of things

  • @Jessica-md4hb
    @Jessica-md4hb 4 года назад +3

    That was Awesome advise

  • @DrJenTattoo
    @DrJenTattoo 4 года назад +4

    Thank you Ryan. I needed to hear this.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +1

      You bet, Jen! Glad it could be helpful 😀

    • @DrJenTattoo
      @DrJenTattoo 4 года назад +1

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick When are you going to post another video?

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад

      @@DrJenTattoo Tomorrow! I post new vids every Monday 🙂Hope you like!

    • @DrJenTattoo
      @DrJenTattoo 4 года назад +1

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick Awesome. I'm sure I will

  • @sarapatch616
    @sarapatch616 4 года назад

    Noone wants to feel my traps that's where the tension ( emotional energy) is trapped bahahah

  • @meljstephan
    @meljstephan 4 года назад

    Dammit, stop knowing me better than me.

  • @myriamdoll2930
    @myriamdoll2930 4 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for this video 🌸

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +1

      You bet, Myriam! Tomorrow's vid should be solid too! Hope you like! 😉

    • @myriamdoll2930
      @myriamdoll2930 4 года назад +1

      Oh so excited !! Bring it on Daterboy 😉

  • @tianaclark7553
    @tianaclark7553 4 года назад

    This was great! Thank you!

  • @gabiposts
    @gabiposts 4 года назад +2

    3:45

  • @rebecadeleon4446
    @rebecadeleon4446 4 года назад +1

    Thanks Ryan! Happy Monday 💫

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад

      You bet, Rebeca! Got a good one coming out tomorrow! Hope you're well 🙂

  • @aminaali7305
    @aminaali7305 4 года назад

    Love this thank you ❤

  • @divineserendipity1196
    @divineserendipity1196 4 года назад +2

    quick and useful feedback if you are interested in improving, can you turn down the volume of your "jingle" at the beginning of the video? I have begun to see you have little and in general I put you in playlist and headphones but every time your video starts, that little music almost leaves me deaf! please turn down the volume or take it out !!!!! thanks