How being a Good Listener builds healthy Relationship with others | Drishti Sharma

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024

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  • @wordsbydivya
    @wordsbydivya 11 месяцев назад +70

    Aaj ki thumbnail Ohhoooo ❤❤❤. Yup you are good listener drish. Even when it's a virtual zoom call you are a good listener. Btw you are the first girl after my sister with whom I talked for 1 hour. I usually never speak on live call or a normal call more than a minute but with you I talked for an hour & it was not brand drain for me. One of the nicest memory & manifestations of my life ❤❤

    • @drishtiispeaks
      @drishtiispeaks  11 месяцев назад +24

      That's so amazing! Yes I remember our conversation❤️❤️

  • @nandita_tanya14
    @nandita_tanya14 11 месяцев назад +49

    Being Non judgemental is a very important point in a conversation. Everyone should learn it.
    Thanks for the video Drishti Di ❤️🌻 keep growing 💗😇

  • @AmyPen
    @AmyPen 11 месяцев назад +19

    My take aways from this video
    1.stay Mindfull and observe
    Don't answer just heard and see
    2. Asking open ended questions
    3. Being comfortable with silence
    Empathy is important
    4. Being non judgemental
    5 first focus on yourself
    My personal learning is skills to have a deep conversation along with emotional connection 😌
    I am so grateful for this video , drishti thanks for being consistent cuz your videos gives me a new way of life ❤😊

  • @sreeshusreeshu
    @sreeshusreeshu 11 месяцев назад +9

    My biggest takeaway from this video is the idea of asking open ended questions it really makes a conversation with ur loved ones or your friend better and long

  • @watchlater6244
    @watchlater6244 11 месяцев назад +4

    My Takeaway 😂
    Samajh me kuch nahi aaya.
    But sunne me achcha laga!
    😅
    So Attractive Drishti 🎉

  • @nasrin-2003.
    @nasrin-2003. 11 месяцев назад +7

    I think I am a good listener because my family members share their feelings and my friends also share their feelings. They know I really want to hear them. I listen to them very seriously at that moment.😌

  • @shikhakumari5271
    @shikhakumari5271 11 месяцев назад +1

    Dusro ki baat sunna is such a skill aur mene ye dekha hai ki log apni baat to rakhte Hain but dusro ki baat unhe bohot aivai lgati hai
    I think ki aaj ye video I can share to those people.
    Thanks Drishti Dii❤❤❤

  • @protonivity
    @protonivity 11 месяцев назад +28

    Literally your Sunday videos are like medical dose Drishti!
    It heals me every week and makes me start the next one with a fresh mindset...
    Thank you! :)

    • @drishtiispeaks
      @drishtiispeaks  11 месяцев назад +1

      Means so much to me. Glad that you re liking them❤️

  • @harshitagohil0802
    @harshitagohil0802 11 месяцев назад +10

    This video came to me just on right time , I faced today that I'm not being heard , I didn't feel that the other person really wanna listen to me . Thank you so so much drishti for this video. Also I learned from this video to ignore the talks someone is saying when they are in negative state of mind . Thank you so much drishti . #qualitycontent

    • @drishtiispeaks
      @drishtiispeaks  11 месяцев назад +1

      Im glad you found it useful❤️

  • @ansh.me11
    @ansh.me11 11 месяцев назад +19

    You are the only person who's talking about the littlest things that an individual might often think or ponder upon, but rarely anyone talks about it. Genuinely love to her and talk about these things. So Thankful to Drishti for talking about it❤❤

    • @drishtiispeaks
      @drishtiispeaks  11 месяцев назад +2

      Im so glad you found this helpful❤️

  • @11Vaishnavi
    @11Vaishnavi 11 месяцев назад +5

    Loved it! And this makes me realise I'm not a good listener but can be one by consciously implementing this❤

  • @priya...2622
    @priya...2622 11 месяцев назад +1

    Ha dusro ki bate sunne me ye sab bhut important he. Thanks for this video❤

  • @dhruvdesai391
    @dhruvdesai391 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hey, your videos are always relatable. Often people consider that people who speak less are not smart. Being an introvert I have noticed contributions of introverts are often ignored. Waiting for more such videos.

  • @harshitagohil0802
    @harshitagohil0802 11 месяцев назад +4

    Now this is why I pay for my internet ! Loved it drishti ❤

  • @muskan.4307
    @muskan.4307 11 месяцев назад +3

    7:17 Even the listener needs to be heard!

  • @vishaldaswanii
    @vishaldaswanii 11 месяцев назад +9

    honestly I never open up to anyone except my mom, she hears me and doesn't judge. Even though i've some really good friends but I still feel like my mom would make me feel much better than anyone could. But I'll definitely try to be a better listener to people so I could give them enough space to feel comfortable and sympathetic. ❤

  • @mayank_airy
    @mayank_airy 11 месяцев назад +1

    Depth❤ , actually it is something which is constant in every single video.

  • @nityagupta2451
    @nityagupta2451 11 месяцев назад +3

    Indeed a very important topic to make stronger bonds with friends. Thank you very much for this Drishti, really needed to hear this😊

  • @sanjana456sannu
    @sanjana456sannu 11 месяцев назад +4

    I think this is one of the way to be more attractive around social circle and that one habit of saying something nonsense in that weird silence is one of mine 😂

  • @Cook164
    @Cook164 11 месяцев назад +4

    I have one friend, she is very intelligent and knowledgeable person but she always interrupt others and never let others to speak in front of her. I believe that being a good listener is very much important apart from the knowledge one had.

    • @drishtiispeaks
      @drishtiispeaks  11 месяцев назад +2

      Maybe you can guide her where she is going wrong!

  • @Mariamemon36
    @Mariamemon36 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hey drishti I’m so impressed with your content and I’m also like you , I can familiar myself with you . Thank you for encouragement . Best wishes for your whole life ❤

  • @shivanichiluka1806
    @shivanichiluka1806 11 месяцев назад

    Well said Drishti. The most important thing people forget is to not JUDGE.Even I suffered from that.😞😞😞😞

  • @clivedcosta7299
    @clivedcosta7299 11 месяцев назад +2

    Very meaningful video. Being mindful and letting others speak is very helpful in maintaining good connections !!!!!
    I do try to be a good listener but being I struggle with it sometimes.
    Thanks for the video !!!!! I'll definitely try to use it 💯❤

  • @siddhikhedekar1802
    @siddhikhedekar1802 11 месяцев назад

    I just love the way her video pops up when i need someone the most, like I'm leaving my job for a long term goal but there is no one to listen to me about how im going through and she is just magic, like i don't need someone to listen now as i watch her videos❤

  • @ruchikachoudhary05
    @ruchikachoudhary05 11 месяцев назад +2

    Beautifully explained ❤️

  • @frosty2314
    @frosty2314 11 месяцев назад +1

    my best friend is a very good listner she some time listen me to hours and i just go to her chat and just freely chat to her when ever my emotions are high and i am thank full that i had a friend like her

  • @muhammadwaseemaa
    @muhammadwaseemaa 11 месяцев назад +2

    Be Respectful And Listen Carefully. After Listening, some moment silence of you is normal to create answer, so chill.

  • @nishantkumar408
    @nishantkumar408 11 месяцев назад +3

    That moment when you have so many things to say but you don't get those words.. It happens with me everytime I saw your videos.. everything you speak.... every topic you choose is so much relatable for me that I can't evey say..... Deep inside my heart I'm know.. and I'm very much confident about this that I'm going to meet you one day for sure... and then I speak my heart to u.. Everything I'm going through... and hopefully how I came out from it.. You're kind of a person I'm dreaming to meet.... lots of love from my side.. ❤....

    • @drishtiispeaks
      @drishtiispeaks  11 месяцев назад +1

      We will definitely meet soon!

    • @nishantkumar408
      @nishantkumar408 11 месяцев назад

      @@drishtiispeaks Hopefully very soon!!!

  • @arpitanaik7815
    @arpitanaik7815 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Drishti ma'am, started watching your videos few days ago and they're very helpful. I've seen a lot of self help videos, psychological videos but the way you make videos it's like having a connection and real conversation with you. Thank you so much. Keep going. ❤️

    • @ShubhamKumarPatel01
      @ShubhamKumarPatel01 11 месяцев назад

      Do you believe in introverted and extroverted things and are you introverted or extroverted?

    • @arpitanaik7815
      @arpitanaik7815 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@ShubhamKumarPatel01 see, all I believe is that each one has a different personality, some maybe introvert , extrovert or ambivert. And I'm an introvert in general.

  • @jagratishrivastav273
    @jagratishrivastav273 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love you and your work Drishti. I have watched your many videos some even in repeated mode. I'm starting my healing and self love journey. Positive affirmations, how not to overthink, less lazy and completing small goals etc hope I'll be able to become that person I wanted to be always.
    Thanks for making these videos. Please make more videos.

  • @bookswithraj
    @bookswithraj 11 месяцев назад +2

    I read somewhere in a book which states, “A listener needs a listener too.” 🙃

  • @MukeshKumar-yv2be
    @MukeshKumar-yv2be 7 дней назад

    1:41 Be mindful and present
    3:37 Asking open ended questions
    4:48 Comfortable with Silence
    5:37 Be non-judgemental

  • @namitanaik7564
    @namitanaik7564 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thankeeewww so much di🥹❤️

  • @shreyamishra3197
    @shreyamishra3197 7 месяцев назад

    your personality is like Priyanka Chopra ❤❤😊
    So confident and graceful

  • @sindhuranair3096
    @sindhuranair3096 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for making this video ❤

  • @shreyavaidya615
    @shreyavaidya615 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your videos really helps me a lot, to open up, to understand. Thank you so much and please don't stop sharing such a useful content either on RUclips or on Instagram 😊❤❤❤

  • @msetia20
    @msetia20 11 месяцев назад +1

    please make a video on how to avoid complaining during conversations

  • @reveur_624
    @reveur_624 11 месяцев назад

    Blessed to have a mentor like you litrally nothing is more satisfying than your 8 mins!
    You Exactly tell the same what i prefer to do.

  • @Shanker_Singh_62
    @Shanker_Singh_62 11 месяцев назад +1

    3 lakh Subscriber. Soon . Congratulations for 2.97 lakh Subscriber ❤❤❤❤❤.... Great knowledge.🙏🙏❤️❤️✨️❤️ May God bless you 🙏 ❤️ ✨️ ♥️

  • @magnumcold333
    @magnumcold333 11 месяцев назад

    I accidentally see your video on youtube and I liked it so much and subscribed your channel. You became an inspiration for me dhrishti.❤❤

    • @magnumcold333
      @magnumcold333 11 месяцев назад

      I am good listener and non judgemental. I want to heal people from what they are going through . I want to comfort people with words I wished to hear😊

  • @SimranBalmiki
    @SimranBalmiki 7 месяцев назад +1

    दीदी आप बहुत glow करते हो ❤और आपकी videos मुझको बहुत पसंद है

  • @SootheSpectacles
    @SootheSpectacles 11 месяцев назад

    Best channel i found ever for my journey of personality development ❤❤

  • @spiritual645
    @spiritual645 11 месяцев назад

    Thanku so much hmare liye itni mehnat krne ke liye ❤

  • @aniruddhad60
    @aniruddhad60 11 месяцев назад

    Taking one word - "Listener". Yeah! Agreed.

  • @vishvathacker
    @vishvathacker 11 месяцев назад

    I am also the person who listen to respond...Infact i am not listening to other. thank you for realising the same mistake. Now I practice to be a good listener.

  • @tahahakim7409
    @tahahakim7409 11 месяцев назад

    Great ..for me the takeway would be ..being comfortable with silence..that pause where u feel obliged to fill in the gap..just not needed!

  • @poorvansh_gupta
    @poorvansh_gupta 11 месяцев назад +1

    Consistentency on it's peak😅 Awesome Drishti❤

  • @rupachemudupathi9569
    @rupachemudupathi9569 11 месяцев назад

    Hey u made me realise I am smart I always thought I have problem with making friends or interaction but ya I actually analyse situation and room , observe a lot , but also thought I am shy to talk ! Now I realise it's not shyness it's my nature of being smart

  • @priyanshichoubey779
    @priyanshichoubey779 11 месяцев назад

    Your content is so relatable from us

  • @sunki.lakshmireddy
    @sunki.lakshmireddy 11 месяцев назад

    Shared already....somewhere all of us are like that while speaking and listening too

  • @pritimishra2302
    @pritimishra2302 11 месяцев назад +1

    thanks deedu your
    advices are really helpful

  • @Asif_The_Warrior
    @Asif_The_Warrior 27 дней назад

    Aaj ki video dekke yeha aya hoon litreally this video is so underated loved this vedio.

  • @chandanvishwakarm4287
    @chandanvishwakarm4287 8 месяцев назад

    Didi aapki iss video ko dekh ne ka purpose ye hai ki main na baat cut ta hu toh mere ko ek genuine solution chahiye tha taki meri iss galti ko solve kar paunga and last aapne ye jo badminton wala example Diya tha jo mere kafi practical laga ye mere one to one conversation main hota hai or Mera solution dene wala mindset hai na ki sunne wala thanks for this valuable video ❤❤❤❤ loves from mp

  • @UshmaSoni
    @UshmaSoni 8 месяцев назад

    Hey! Drishti . You are amazing and in this video I learn a lot and you are a perfect girl
    in your life 👍💖

  • @Glowwandgrow
    @Glowwandgrow 11 месяцев назад

    Hey ... You know it was too helpful for me. For some days I was finding the same content(as simple) but I didn't get it but I believe that the universe is something so he gave me some positivity through your video...

  • @nikhilsw24
    @nikhilsw24 11 месяцев назад

    Mere bahot aise friends hai, jab unse mai face 2 face bat karta hu tab unko pata chalta hai ki me unke point ko, problem ko sunta hu. Aur sach me sunta hu.Lekin jab call pe bolte vakt unko bich me nahi tokta ya bhir haa, hmm, okk nahi karta, aur unko bolne deta hu. To logon ko lagta hai ki unki baat sun nahi raha. Patience to hote nahi logonko. Sabkuch aise quick chahiye sabko. I hope I'm not the only one here. Your videos are awesome and audible. I suggest your channel to my friends(specially without phone spent one day go pro vala video)

  • @Lailah-uo2uf
    @Lailah-uo2uf 11 месяцев назад +6

    Hi Drishti... Thanks a lot for your videos and hardwork .....can you please give us a tip or something to accept both good and worst situations ?...like how to cope up with...it would be really helpful... Thank You ❤

  • @Wasabijo593
    @Wasabijo593 11 месяцев назад

    Just found your channel, loved this video. Coincidentally just got this recommended after my therapy session which was kinda related to this, this was actually very helpful. Thanks.

  • @arunimamaheshwari155
    @arunimamaheshwari155 11 месяцев назад +1

    Will Try To Follow These Tips And Trickes In Daily Conversation But Wanna Say Thank You So So Much Covering Such Unique And Interesting Topics ♥️
    Btw I Hope You Know Me (Maybe) 😂Much Much Love From This Side 🇵🇰🫶

  • @itsmerishitha9967
    @itsmerishitha9967 11 месяцев назад

    Hi sis . It felt much better after seeing ur videos. From past 3 days I am feeling very low and suddenly I am scrolling through yt I got to see the video of which is dealing with loneliness and other video fomo ,this video also . While you say every word it connects me very fast and ur videos are like 💥 each and every word u say I deal with it for some time it comes again.Till now I didn't seen a yt channel like this. I feel very relaxed, motivated. Thx sis for making this type of videos.
    Lots of ❤ from Telangana

  • @Designertashu
    @Designertashu 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hey I love your videos ❤ and I want more videos on good looking personality and one question where from you buy your pretty watch 😅

  • @RimpiDas-l8s
    @RimpiDas-l8s 11 месяцев назад

    You are the Master of real life ❤

  • @vidh_ee
    @vidh_ee 11 месяцев назад

    **An Important topic** We should know how to be a good listener. Even I am not a good listener at times, so it helps
    Thankyou for the video.xoxo

  • @sanskari_meme
    @sanskari_meme 3 месяца назад

    Thankyou is not enough for you ❤

  • @DurgashShira
    @DurgashShira 12 дней назад

    A good listener also needs a good listener

  • @shradhaa683
    @shradhaa683 11 месяцев назад

    Actually for it's really hard to talk anyone who is not Happy or kind of there is a big trouble is going on his life ....like something happened like this that made the person crying...i really get so emotional while talking i don't know what to say in that situation...
    I try to feel them that I m there for them whenever they need ...
    I will apply some your tips from now .
    Thank you for the video❤
    I really wait for ur videos.
    Lots of love ❤❤❤

  • @ahaeeeitsaashi8520
    @ahaeeeitsaashi8520 11 месяцев назад

    *Thankyou so much 🥰💖✨ drishti didi what a wonderful 😊🙌🙌 video !! Indeed 😊💗💗💗

  • @shama_k2604
    @shama_k2604 11 месяцев назад

    Mera ek close frnd hai jo bohot accha listener hai usko dekhke mai thodi bohot improve hui hu listening mai, phir bhi there are many instances where I've tried to talk about practical & logical advises when the other person is in an emotional state.. usko avoid karna hai... & the last thing u said is very true sometimes we'll be going thru an emotionally low phase toh hum chahte hue bhi poora present nhi ho paate to the person in need... that makes me feel guilty sometimes..

  • @suhaniraj1896
    @suhaniraj1896 11 месяцев назад

    Wao yrr explained very beautifully..❤

  • @wondersamadhan
    @wondersamadhan 11 месяцев назад +1

    Don't listen to speak up!🎯🎯

  • @vaishnavijadhav5632
    @vaishnavijadhav5632 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the video ❤️🌻

  • @priyankachandrawat7120
    @priyankachandrawat7120 11 месяцев назад

    Your tips and tricks help me a lot to overcome by my under confidence❤❤

  • @SnigdhaMajumder-bz6pl
    @SnigdhaMajumder-bz6pl 5 месяцев назад

    Mein. Bhi pehle good listener nhi thi ...ab mein bhi sunti huuu❤

  • @SMPositivevibes
    @SMPositivevibes 11 месяцев назад

    Listen to understand, not reply.
    Very helpful tips 🙌

  • @santoshkumari1505
    @santoshkumari1505 4 месяца назад

    Great di....unique vedio...❤🎉life changing content 😊

  • @irenaafrida7185
    @irenaafrida7185 11 месяцев назад +1

    o god i was laughing because i can relate many things, which we human do 😂.. Being observant and non judgemental is quality i am trying to practice 😊

  • @amanpreet12thnon-medical46
    @amanpreet12thnon-medical46 11 месяцев назад

    I was having some issues in making deep connections with my partner, he stoped telling me his thoughts and said u broke my trust i was completely shattered at that point this video made me realise my whole mistake i'm very thankful to u drishti di🥰🌺☘

  • @priyankamannaart
    @priyankamannaart 11 месяцев назад +1

    I always come and takeaway some good lessons from your video, is this a coincidence or what each time you post about a topic which was currently moving in my mind😅

  • @lets_know68
    @lets_know68 11 месяцев назад

    I like ur videos a lot... It's gradually help me to improve my self..... I hope u keep making such videos.... ❤🤗

  • @mohitmorya
    @mohitmorya 11 месяцев назад

    Great content on listening

  • @TheBasiccapture
    @TheBasiccapture 6 месяцев назад

    Dii amazing ❤l like to listen your videos then I feel very calm

  • @Gunjankauniverse_
    @Gunjankauniverse_ 11 месяцев назад

    Your hands are so slim and beautiful 🤩🥰
    Please bring a video for handcare

  • @supriyakurade9035
    @supriyakurade9035 11 месяцев назад +3

    Hello sister..recently I got your videos and it’s helping me some extent. I have 1 request for you to make videos on negative thoughts or being always negative about whatever happening around you. I myself felt negative lot of time for me and for others as well…sometime I thought I can’t think positive anymore.. please see of you can do this would really appreciate. Have a good day Thanks you 😊

  • @Nova15735
    @Nova15735 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am that room observer cause I m always unheard 😶‍🌫.

  • @Avoid012
    @Avoid012 11 месяцев назад

    Great content ❤

  • @aryanmeshram24
    @aryanmeshram24 11 месяцев назад

    I think don't make other feel better be honest with them all the time I hear others problem they are actually problem there perspective and first respect your time !! I know I sound negative but ya I believe in this

  • @ShitalTakle-ue5nf
    @ShitalTakle-ue5nf 12 дней назад

    Recently am watching your current vid and you say in that vid why thid vid not get good veiw.....acchi chiz pane ke liye der to lgti hai na😅.....by the way this vid made very secure about someone's felling ❤❤

  • @ankitadas231
    @ankitadas231 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for this video ❤
    Please make book review's and recommendation videos

  • @amanagarwal6123
    @amanagarwal6123 11 месяцев назад

    Drishti ur looking khoobsurat ❤

  • @sahilbhadauria1043
    @sahilbhadauria1043 11 месяцев назад

    heyy!! di I just want to tell you that you help me a lot with my life you also make me feel like you are my elder sister
    i'm watching you since a long time and i swear it helped a lot!!!
    thanks di!! lots of love 💓💓💖💖❤

  • @magnumcold333
    @magnumcold333 11 месяцев назад

    Drishti ap is topic pe video banaein ke jin karibi logon per hum trust karte hein aur wo hamare trust ko tor kar hamein hurt karte hein, unke sath kese deal karein.

  • @divyanshiaggarwal3484
    @divyanshiaggarwal3484 11 месяцев назад

    Hi di, really loved your video. There is just one thing that's stuck with me. I am a good listener, but I feel like no one else is, around me. Its like, I'm listening to them patiently, but my words are heard by a wall, or just are going in a deaf ear. I feel extremely unheard when I'm around my "friends".

  • @gourav.chatterjee
    @gourav.chatterjee 10 месяцев назад

    It will help me no doubt❤

  • @saksham_kumar_11
    @saksham_kumar_11 23 дня назад

    7:37 dost to nhi mai hi sunta hu unko 🤗❤

  • @ZIO751
    @ZIO751 11 месяцев назад +1

    Drishti you are the best why are not upload video everyday ❤❤

  • @MarketxMarvelz
    @MarketxMarvelz 11 месяцев назад +1

    Please Mam can you make your Next video on some thing that we should follow our dream and we should try to achieve them and We should step out and try to achieve them give yourself time slowly and gradually we will achieve....This all ...That we can show you to our parents ❤️🥺

  • @vaibhavkumararya9952
    @vaibhavkumararya9952 11 месяцев назад

    I iust love the way you explain everything❤❤😍😍

  • @shanujangra6924
    @shanujangra6924 11 месяцев назад

    Keep going girl❤#you're the one I can relate with✨

  • @KhushiJain-s2v
    @KhushiJain-s2v 11 месяцев назад +1

    Di the video was awesome❤. I want to know how to deal with to toxic people.

  • @hanaehere_
    @hanaehere_ 11 месяцев назад

    Loving how are you giving out videos about various topics🥹🫶🏻