Finding friends that matches your Vibe an Adult ft.
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- Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
- This is a conversation style video wherein me, @Amanjain0907 & @AyushiMathur talk about how to make friends as an adult, how to find good friends and how to maintain friendships as an adult. We even spoke about difference between good friend and best friend.
All that you need to know about adulthood friendships is covered in this video. Show some love to this conversation by hitting that like button and commenting your best moment from this video!
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#howtofindfriends #howtomaintainfriendship #goodfriendvsbestfriend #drishtisharma #drishtiispeaks
Making friend is not hard but finding people who vibes as you is really hard.
So trueeeeee.👍👍👍I can make friends, I have friends but not a single one with same vibe.😓😓😓
It's true
U are absolutely right ,& where to find them is also big task.
Truee
Exactly ❤
Having no friends is way much better than having bad friends 😭😭😭😭😭
There is a very strong saying "words cut deeper than any blade" and yeah it's true 😭😭
These topics are so crucial for today's youth because everyone face this problem but no one knows the answer ..thank you so much drishti, definitely try some of these as I am also introvert
When they said I am the fourth one of this circle I felt so good I am smiling 😌😻😊
Me too☺😌😊
Same here 😄😄
One of the best channels I randomly stumbled upon few months back, and at a time I needed the most♥️
Happy to hear that Sanket!
Same 😜
I don't know why, but I find Drishti mam's content so relatable. It feels ki like yeh toh koyi bilkul mere jaisa hai. Humesha yahi dua karunga ki your channel keeps growing❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌. Love your content.
Same
Same👌
Same here
Haa yaar sahi mein muje bhi jesa chiye as like friend vese muje drishti mam mil gyee🥰
I joined Gym after watching this and on the very first day, I made 2 friends. It's not that hard as I used to think.
You serious??? That is so great!!
Yep, and thankyou 💚
@@drishtiispeaks share me that jeans link.. Pls
I cant THANK YOU enough for making video on this topic Drishti.. ! I literally lost contact with majority of my friends as Im busy with something or other during weekdays.. and feel tired to meet anyone on weekends. Plus i dont vibe with people i dont match vibe with... This is a big problem of our generation i think.. Thanks so much for bringing up this topic..
Glad it was helpful!
This was so relatable, when your mindset changes, you grow differently other than your old friends. Now they try to bring you down, they want you to be in the same version in which you used to be. That's where you realise they were not your true friend.
Aww that virtual hug 🥺, Amazing conversation and amazing content di .. as always 😊
Title bohot lowkey sa lag rha h par content aisa hai isme jo pata sabko hota hai ander hi ander pr conprehend hi mahi kar pata ye baatein insaan saalo tak.
Loved you content and loving it more now.📈📈
Can you suggest me a better title??
@@drishtiispeaks Is it possible to make good friends as an adult.
8:43 it's not just about introverts we extroverts also suffer
I found it difficult to have friendships in school and college because i was quiet, mature, rule-abiding, teachers pet good boy and introverted, i.e, acting like a much older person. In contrast to peers who were raucous, party-lovers, naughty guys. So when i realised this at the age of 29, and i completely transformed into an immature, boisterous, party-loving, drinking, rule breaking and rebellious guy, i still find it difficult to make friends because now everyone has become as mature and boring as I used to be earlier! 🙄🙄
It's actually true that you make friends easily when you have a common topic to have a conversation on with random people. 🙃
I actually find this tip pretty useful and knowingly or unknowingly I have used it in the past and have been successful in making companions from even junior classes (despite they were there for a short duration!).🤭
Have always followed
Try to be good with everyone
Don't get attached emotionally too much with anyone so that their betrayal may affected you too much
Then just make as much as possible new friends
This is so relatable Drishti!
I am a 16yo, currently struggling to make friends in my new college.
This is gonna be helpful ig
Thank you :)
Same 😄
Can we be friends?
@@pallavishivamath sure :)
Hey we can become frnds 😊
2 saal pehle mere bohot dost the or tab lagta tha ki ye meri bohot care krte hai ...n mujhe sach me geneuliy samjhte hai but aisa kuch nhi tha koi dost 'SACCHA' nhi hota sab time ke sath apne chehre dikhate hai
I'm just 17 & I realize that ki mujhko sirf vahi logn chahiye jo mere vibe ke ho meri success for whatever m help kre or nothing just a dream frnd
But now I literally don't have any expectations from anyone like frnd & all m to
Mein group wala bnda tha mujhe lgta tha ke sab mere frnd he dhire dhire sab ne faiyde ke liye use kiya fir mera bachpan ka dost jisse ke saath rehke pata chala it Is really difficult to make friends now I can call him best friend good job dristi and aman bhai big fan
I thought I was the only who is going through this....pls upload next part also if u have more suggestions..
Ye 4th insaan bolke yaar tm log ne dil jeet liya Kitna aisa insaan hoga jo is conversation ka 4th insaan hoga hm bata bhi nhi sakte...
Koi video itni zyada productive aur fruitful kaise ho sakti hai? I can't believe!
Excellent job👌🏻Best wishes in all that you do. Greetings from Scotland 😊 Have a great day everyone 🌻
As an introvert I can totally relate with it....... please make such more videos on this
It would be really helpful for us 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I have no friends
And I am happy 😊
Focus on your career guys 🔥🔥
Keep it up drishti
You are different from some youtube creater. Ap Jo reality hota h wahi बताती हो
Brave. Difficult.
easier said than done.. i also used to think like this but socho kalko sachme apko kisi ki zarurat pdi koi help chahie toh kon help krega ? if u hv frnds then there are chances they might come as help na
@@notusingaccountanymore1249 right
The feeling after watching this is AMAZING! Loved this conversation...😍
I'm glad you liked it Neel!
Esse hi topic per podcast leke aao di like how to talk to stranger , how to talk extremly attractive people and how to have good eye contact etc please more on this
Such a great topic u have discussed on...which no other YT creators speaks in such a relatable manner.
I loved this discussion, in fact I used to think ki mujhme problem hai that I dont have so many friends & now I am happy that I have few very good friends now. Also, I have made so many friends at different places schools, colleges, Coaching classes, gym, trips, colleagues, flatmates but most of them were only alive until that situation post that tu apne raaste mai apne, nobody putting any effort kind of. Maintenance is tough again.
Wow,thanks for discussing on this topic,which most feel daily but no one really speaks for this...I face similar myself,introvert, shy,No siblings,no such friends,passed college...
Even this time is my new session in my college. .I'm in second year now..but still koi aesa nhi hai jise sach m kh sku ya hangout kr sku k haan ye mera koi frnd hai🙂
Thanks for making a video on this, was much needed & I could connect to many points discussed. Agr Drishti mere ghar ke pass hoti toh meri friend zaroor hoti bcos your maturity level or mental level is so much like mine. 💞🌸
I have two time tested friend which was enough for me . I don't took friend as permanent things .For me . Myself is first. Second Parents . Third everything other .
Its sad that how numerous same age people with similar mindset are feeling alone..
Such a good thing in my life is your content ,your all videos are great di , love you ❤ and please tell us more about to express ourselves freely and confident
Loved this conversation and really good topic ❤️🙌
I'm so unlucky in friendship actually i don't have any even a single friend. Sometimes I feel very lonely and i don't enjoy my life. When i see people with their friends group i seem weep 😭😭 and my thinking is like why i don't have friends why why why😭😭 i feel depressed on that time.
I did schooling from Bihar board that's why I don't have friends because in Bihar board school its just for taking admission and no need to go school. Direct u will give your board exam where board exam will be conducted. That's it.
When i took admission in college ( B-tech). In college also I am not able to make any frnd ( because I am a introvert guy I never go first and talk with anyone ). In college also I felt I am alone.
Recently 4 month ago i got a job. Now I am doing job as a software engineer but problem is that it's going work from home. So that's why I didn't make any frnd yet( because u can't make friends like). Let's see in this month my manager told us that we will have to work from office now but i didn't go right now but i will go soon. I will go office taking with a hope may be in office and i will find friends. Let's see hope for best. 🥺
I need atleast one or group friend 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Lastly i would like to say thank you for making this video on such a crucial topic.
Thank you so much❤️
U make things so simple for people , and this was a topic in which I m lagging so much and feeling left out , thanks for making it easy and so much relatable ......
And the last the virtual hugs made feel like I was also a part thank u for that too
Glad to hear that!!!
When he said abt th toxic frnd....i can reallly connect....also this is a rare topic to talk about...really grt..
I truly agree with all 3 of you.
I am really lucky about friends though i am not an adult now 18 year old
I didn't had any good friends till 8 th standard
But in 8 th i got 2 friends which are really close to me now
And in 11 th i got another 2 friends one is a little annoying whereas other one understands me quite well
Hey hi....i actually found you on shorts and then searched you....i found your channel really informative...so i follow you now..... actually I'm a boy of 8th grade....i don't have many friends....i have only one best friend which is becoming toxic day by day....means if any person tease me he also laughs at me the same way......i also had a childhood friend whom I called my best friend in childhood but from the beginning itself he was toxic and acted nice in front of me and at my back he was the opposite......at now at the end i only talk to my classmates just to pass my time and no one is my true kind of friend..😔
Give some time to yourself and try interact with new people at a party or event you attend...you'll make new friends soon!
@@drishtiispeaks hey thanks di for replying.....and yes I love dance and go to my dance classes and I've made a good friend there🌟
This is an underrated topic, a lot of people struggle to make friends, just like Me ;(
Enjoyed watching your video. Thankyou for bringing up such content ! 😊🙏🏻
You three are now my friends for the great guidance!!
Wow di you just refresh my mood i was feeling like i was there with you guys. I relate to every points and I'm gonna share this video to my current friends ❤️ not purane coz purane bhul gye hain. Love you and thankyou for talking about this topic it was super chill
haha!! I'm so happy that you liked the video!
My persona is enough strong to make adult friends and this develops over time.....love your content keep it up 🌚🌼💜
❤❤❤❤just love it!!! muze bhi lagta tha ki mere jyada friends nahi hai toh muzme kami hai..! but no !😂😅🤣😉
Heyy drishti, as you said you started reading books and all..... And your friends were jealous of your growth, this shit even happened to me, now I don't have a group of friends, I just have two three good and honest friends, jinse meri vibe match hoti hai and I'm happy now. BTW love your videos 💞✌☺💗
Thank u so much dii, ye batane ke liye ki ye sab ke sath hota he, currently I am goings through this situation & blemming to me that I can't make frds & all, u know what I think "ye sab mere sath hi ho rah he". Vedio dekh kar yeto samajme aa gaya ki me akeli yesi nahi , sabse sath hota he 😅.I will try your suggestion 🙂
I am also feeling that your all videos are very relatable for me sometimes I was thinking that your problem is my problem exactly same...
And your video is very helpful for me thank you dristhi for such a useful content i wise your channel grow and reach in the top
Really a very nice video. Love the way how you captured the real conversation on such a important topic which nobody is discussing. I am really interested to watch more videos like this. Keep making such good content. Thank you.
Amazing ! love your videos. The gym part is quite relatable and makes a lot of sense. Keep making such content :)
PS : Idea/Suggestion : You can start a discord server where everyone can meet and hangout.
hi di u r really awesome.. kindly make video on how to make friends in college. especially after lockdown thoda sa difficult ho gya hn cause since 2 year itna kisi se baat nhi hui ..jo honi chahiye thi i hope ap samajh go gye honge. nd kindly make video on whats the difference between shy and being an introvert
This video feels like I am hanging out with you guys! 😁😁 Awesome 😁
The problem with me is I'm use to staying inside my room from childhood. So u can make out how big introvert I am. I use to have few school friends who don't interact anymore and that's why I started crying 😭. Felt like I lost all old friends. So I decided to move on and start fresh.
why you need someone in your life....i hope you to live alone and spend time with your self
@@ishajoshi6925 Yes i did. It feels much better now.
@@izhanvk8546 spend time with yourself...knowing yourself better....and expect that you dont have friends...you dont need a friend...you are enough for yourself
@@ishajoshi6925 tysm🤝
we need to do this more often bossss!
Bilkul!!!!
The same problem with me now I am a little much clear. I am trying to make a new friend 🤗🤝
I just have a friend and to be very precise I am the lucky people about whom you talk.
I have a friend who is with me from class 7 and right now we are in NIT Agartala 2nd yr .
The conversation was just so....... enjoyable
I was deeply into it.
Funpart:- initially I was observing the colour of the cups like if they are drinking milk will it get empty 😂😂😂😂
Lovedddd it..! Lasttt walii virtual hug 🥺🥀😁😅😂 soooo cutee
In the last conversation I feel like you all are really my friend 😍😍
You are❤️
You're so pretty!!🦋
I can't take my eyes off to you 🥺
Di ,
Would you like to make a vedio on how to start reading books .
Why don't you start a podcast Drishti? This conversation was fab!
For me initiation from my side is difficult for me, if others initiate then I get into the flow of talking.
Simple wow few days ago randomly i landed your channel and now i am getting content is soo much relatable and this video is great 👍 thanks for such nice conversation.
I have a friend from LKG and it has been 16 years we are still together ❤️❤️ I am lucky to have her in my life
Wow!!
@@drishtiispeaks ❤️❤️😘
Thank you drishti for this video.it is so informative and enjoyable to watch. Keep growing
Jindagi ke safar me chalte jao sahi log sahi samay pe milte rahenge, aur dost bante rahenge
Ha kisiko samay kam jyada lag skta hai but koi na koi milta jaroor hai
Digitally gale milna to muskil he par imagine kar liya ! chalo milenge kisi din chai ki kisi tapri me 😃😃😃
Since 2 months I was keep thinking how can I make friends. Here Im
Thank god , I finally get sukoon ke duniya me mere jaise b log hai thank you so much drishti ✨✨
Talking about toxic friend, mera ek dost tha and bhaisahab usne kaha tha ki hamara poora group usko Yaad rakhega.
And, he kept his words. Aaj hum baaki saare log dost hain par wo nahin hai lekin we all still remember him.
The reason is usne hum sabse paise udhaar leke rakhe hain aur kisi ka paisa nahin lautaya hai aajtak😅😅
Total mila ke rs. 35,000 udhaar le rakha hai usne hum sab 15 log se mila ke. And, the thing is usne ye paise tab liye the jab humlog 10th-11th mein liye the.
will love to see more of such conversation
Virtual Hug 🤗🙌 as 4th Person.
Loved this Conversation ❤️
I also Feel Like it's hard to Find Like Minded People
But You are right I have to Make Effort to Find Friends or Community.
felt like i am a part of the convo , thankyou and great work
Drishti, hamari thinking bhi kuch kuch aisi h, lekin aapka explain krne ka tareeka bhaut achchha h 😄👍
Keep growing 💖😇
Drishti Di I love watching you and your videos!! Thank you so much for helping us grow 😇
Great video yrrr.. i was waiting for this video from the last week when you said that the next video is on this topic. I clicked with eachhhhh and everythingggg you said. Like you said ki apko phle lga ki bigbrainco k log friendly nhi honge but jb bat kri to pta chla bhut open and friendly hai aur jaise ap jada text me bat nhi krti but jb face to face milte hai to bhut bate hoti hai and all that introvert stuff... Uff i can't explain it how much i connected with it. I think it's the most connected video i could ever get over any social media. Love you all three of them and bigbrainco 🌼💯❤️
I'm so glad you liked it buddy!!
Amazing video love the ending when you guys said aap 4the insaan ho aajao
Awesome drishti di you are doing awesome 😴❤️
I love your vibe even we have not met yet😇😇
Lucky to have a friend, feeling blessed ❤️☺️
Colleagues can never be your friend. I realized it at an incident. When we enter our service period it's necessary to choose friends. My school and university friends are till now my friends. Instead of toxic friends it better to not have friends. I wish if you are my friend in my college!
I love watching your videos ❤️ you're growing rapidly as your videos are great ..loads of love to you.
I know many find it is challenging to make friends but it's just a matter of approaching them. Yes for maintaining you need to think about tastes and interests but probably you won't need same people in the same situation every time.
Good Bro...Jitna Maintain karoge utna hi rayta failega.
Yeah, making friends with good mindset person will leads to Good and best one, 👍👌
thank you for taking me in the group ..
Everything you're telling about yourself I can related to all this somehow I also feel like problem is me I can't make friends or etc but thank you so much, I saw one of your video yesterday and after this I continuously watching your videos whenever got time.
Really loved the concept of friendship
I have some clarities or to say get some brainstorming..feel good n positive towards my life approach 🤗💕
Ya great discussion and podcast indeed
you should bring these discussion more ...🥰
and i feel also agree Drishti ki texting se utna trust ni develop hota for being friends milna zaroori he bhot zaroori he
instapies and fbpies , etc. are just.. my perspective..
I just like your discussion. Looks like Real Friends Discussion!
3rd person is herself.. one should be friends with oneself first..
No friends but still happy🙃
Such positive n healthy vibes i got in u guys.... ❤❤❤🙌🙌
Muje ese dost ni mile yarr .... I really miss ths in my lyf.... N also d purpose u made ths conversation is so benefetial n interesting .... n one more thing that.... In u al 3 guys m getting tht vibes....a real friend jo hmesha se talash me h😊❤
B blessed...grow more guys😇😇❤❤❤
Hey Drishti, I follow your content regularly. But this video formal was really good. Seemed liked a really nice set of friends from whom I can learn just came together and had informative conversation. Not gyaan types. "Vibe match ho gayi yaar!" XD
Haha!! I'm glad you liked it buddy!
I have seen your confidence boost video
Today i also took a first step towards confidence like you i mean iss bar mene apne doubts clear kiye thankuuu so much !!! ❤️