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  • @tiffanythinks
    @tiffanythinks  2 года назад +409

    my cancer journey is just going to be a bit longer 💙 thank you so much for your love, prayers, messages & comments. Be part of my tiffanythinks family & subscribe. IG & FB: @tiffanythinks
    we got this 💙 I love you so much my loving and caring tiffanythinks family x

    • @MrsHB2011
      @MrsHB2011 2 года назад +8

      Love you 💙 we got this 💙

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 года назад +11

      @@MrsHB2011 love youu 💙 we got this 💙

    • @rajshreechapaneri2933
      @rajshreechapaneri2933 2 года назад +3

      Thank you so much

    • @carries7637
      @carries7637 2 года назад +10

      Your a fighter you will kick its butt and your surgery will be a breeze just a little complicated but you’ll get it!! You have an amazing support system!! 💙 🙏🙏

    • @carriemarcott6302
      @carriemarcott6302 2 года назад +23

      Darling Tiffany, even though it is terribly scary, remember you have only had 7 treatments and already it is shrinking. Any time a doctor says you have responded well to chemo after only 7 treatments that is awesome. I have all the faith you will continue to heal. All in God’s perfect timing my love! Please do tell Matt he is amazing! So loving and supportive. WE GOT THIS!!

  • @beckybyrd3256
    @beckybyrd3256 2 года назад +834

    This man. This man in your life is absolutely incredible with you. Everyone should have that kind of support.

  • @staceyfullerton6274
    @staceyfullerton6274 2 года назад +325

    Don’t give up Tiffany.
    I was diagnosed 5 years ago with stage 4 ovarian cancer and I’ve been cancer free for 5 years.
    Matt is such a blessing.

    • @johannacollins1130
      @johannacollins1130 2 года назад +8

      Oh wow! Fantastic !

    • @daisyrose2425
      @daisyrose2425 2 года назад +5

      Amazing💕

    • @emmyruiz4057
      @emmyruiz4057 2 года назад +6

      That is wonderful and very motivating

    • @susandaly59
      @susandaly59 2 года назад +14

      Stacey Fullerton - Yes. Always have hope. Diagnosed with Stage 3C Ovarian Cancer 6 yrs ago. Almost cancer free 5 years. 💙

    • @lorij6796
      @lorij6796 2 года назад +2

      Stacey Fullerton
      Great news congratulations 🎊

  • @dsmith1228
    @dsmith1228 2 года назад +329

    Exactly as Matt said....my 20 year old son had stage 4 adenocarcinoma (later downgraded to 3) of the colon, had to have chemotherapy, radiation, then surgery. Twenty five years later, it is clear that protocol was the right one and he is doing so well. So will you! Current medical science is SO much more advanced than 25 years ago. We got this!

    • @sharonm2799
      @sharonm2799 2 года назад +24

      I'm glad the treatment worked for your son so many years ago and for a cancer more advanced. Very hopeful. 💙

    • @johannacollins1130
      @johannacollins1130 2 года назад +9

      Wow that is amazing! 😀

    • @lorij6796
      @lorij6796 2 года назад +3

      D Smith
      Amazing news!

  • @whattheplants7625
    @whattheplants7625 2 года назад +378

    Dear Tiffany, I'm a Radiation Therapist from Australia. From what I can see through your channel, it looks like you are in great hands. Beautiful family and partner to walk with you every step of the way. I also wanted to reassure you that your course of treatment is the current gold standard for your situation and diagnosis...evidence based practice. Your Oncology team are giving you every treatment available to ensure you have the best chance of cure. Radiation therapy itself will wear you down mainly because you have to come in everyday (usually weekends off) so you may start to feel fatigued, especially towards the end of your course...you are given a small dose everyday, and the effects are cumulative. You will not feel a thing when the treatment is delivered. The side effects from radiation therapy vary from person to person and highly dependent on the treatment area. Keep up the fluids and nourish your body with plenty of nutrient rich foods as this will really help your body heal faster. Much love to you, Matt and your mum ❤

    • @krisjames4276
      @krisjames4276 2 года назад +16

      Helpful advice and words ❤️

    • @kecrn4132
      @kecrn4132 2 года назад +10

      So happy to read this comment and I hope that Tiffany sees it! Thank you for writing this!

    • @viorelscrob6391
      @viorelscrob6391 2 года назад +2

      Hi. You are a doctor radioterapist?

    • @krisjames4276
      @krisjames4276 2 года назад +5

      @@viorelscrob6391 she says she is a radiation therapist so will, I am sure, have a lot of knowledge of this treatment.

    • @lydiasaenz2243
      @lydiasaenz2243 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for the great advice. I hope she reads your comment. I felt better just reading this for ❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @janetterocha3609
    @janetterocha3609 2 года назад +505

    I’m so glad Matt was with you. He’s thinking very realistically. This process is usually a year long. You had good news. It did not spread and it is reducing in size in less than 3 months. I think you handled this really well. Keep thinking positive. The brain has tremendous power. You got this Tiffany. ❤️

    • @bendietrees
      @bendietrees 2 года назад +9

      I haven't watched yet but yes that is really good news ❤️❤️❤️💓💓💓💓🙌🏻 Thank you God for protecting our girl!

    • @lunis471
      @lunis471 2 года назад +3

      Janette Rocha my sentiments exactly you wrote a lovely reply to Tiffany ❤️

    • @deborahdishington735
      @deborahdishington735 2 года назад +1

      Amen🙏🏻💘

    • @lorettabridges7751
      @lorettabridges7751 2 года назад

      Later treatments may include immunotherapy which has been effective in pancreatic cancer. Previously considered fatal. 10-15 years later living well. There is much hope today. I’ve just started watching your channel… you are inspiring.

    • @yvonnevang
      @yvonnevang 2 года назад

      @@lorettabridges7751 yes she is!

  • @bksundar
    @bksundar 2 года назад +303

    It clearly show Matt has such a fantastic upbringing. His parents should be proud of him. Go Ireland!

    • @pedrosttau
      @pedrosttau 2 года назад +22

      Just a wonderful top notch Human Being, i completely agree with you.

    • @RLifestyle453
      @RLifestyle453 2 года назад +2

      this statement is everything

    • @margaretomahony7528
      @margaretomahony7528 2 года назад +2

      🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪

  • @crismodem
    @crismodem 2 года назад +337

    Your boyfriend is the sweetest and he helping you to understand and know that everything is temporal and using logic is so nice ! he is so smart and you are so lucky to have him with you. I’m an oncology nurse and sadly i have to tell you that normally no one is cured in less than a year, this is a long process and most all patients go trough what you are going trough, i have patients with invasive surgeries that are thriving now!! THE BEST IS YET TO COME Tiffany, you have a whole life ahead and this will be a bad memory

    • @kathytonagel2332
      @kathytonagel2332 2 года назад +2

      What type of cancer does she have?

    • @Sheila612Miller
      @Sheila612Miller 2 года назад +4

      I pray u are right!

    • @XxBelle21Xx
      @XxBelle21Xx 2 года назад +8

      Tiffany, you’re such a sweetheart. Matt is a wonderful partner. He is doing such an incredible job taking good care of you, offering you support & showing you unconditional love. My dad has neuroendocrine cancer, as a family I/we know what you’re going through. It’s incredibly tough sometimes but you’re doing extremely well dealing with it all. Dad is the same. Always positive. Keep smiling. Sending lots of strength & love to you & your family 💚

    • @fatimaeichenberg
      @fatimaeichenberg 2 года назад +2

      Everything is going to be fine. Just have patience and faith. I'm so happy to see how much love you receive from your family.

    • @Icklemaryf
      @Icklemaryf 2 года назад +2

      Great that you took the time to share your professional knowledge. Hope Tiffany sees abs is uplifted by it.

  • @bettablue2660
    @bettablue2660 2 года назад +3

    My father has been fighting pancreatic cancer, and they did a while surgery. The surgeon explained to us is that just a microscopic cell could just float away and implant itself somewhere else in the body. Now we’re waiting one of his lungs. It a terrible disease. I highly recommend you insist on chemo and radiation after your surgery. A good while after surgery,because you have to be strong. Good luck! You’ve got this.

  • @julv5767
    @julv5767 2 года назад +157

    Matt is right Tiff, no need to put a timeline on things, just live in the moment and continue on this journey/period of your life of getting better! We got this!

    • @miipmiipmiip
      @miipmiipmiip 2 года назад +7

      Putting desperately positive expectations on the future will leave you crushed when the fantasy inevitably crashes. That's why living in the moment and allowing yourself time is so important!

    • @Niki-qr1nd
      @Niki-qr1nd 2 года назад

      You are so special and I prayed for a miracle too so sorry you were sad this is a long process and you got good news it’s going in the right direction smaller, And you Got Matt and he makes everything better and your wonderful mom, most cancer takes about a year to treat and go into remission, we will pray for that so happy you didn’t get bad news Thank God.🌹🌹🌹♥️ I am still going to pray for a miracle LOL PJ

  • @susankristoff5866
    @susankristoff5866 2 года назад +39

    Matt is such a gift!! Tell him he has a fan club as well!!Love to you both!!

  • @JackKirbyFan
    @JackKirbyFan 2 года назад +124

    This allow me to give some love to an unsung hero. Your boyfriend and his love for you is always amazing and I feel bad I've never mentioned it. He's been on this journey with you and the love he has for you is just so strong. You are truly blessed to have such a great man in your life. Often times we focus on you, but my shout out to him for his bravery and courage and support. he's a great man.

  • @Nomoretime33
    @Nomoretime33 2 года назад +1

    Stay strong, my mom was diagnosed with cancer stage 4, she lost her hair, 9 chemotherapies and 23 radiotherapy. That was 19 years ago, after that she went reconstructive surgery for her left breast, now she's grandmother very healthy woman. Everything is posible. You got this.

  • @dudette317
    @dudette317 2 года назад +15

    Tiffany..this is neoadjuvant therapy
    For colon cancer, we don't directly do surgery because it causes large chunks of fibrosis (body's normal mechanism to heal a part after an incision/injury) for colon, we don't want much of it because it can later cause obstruction..and another set of problems
    This is where radiotherapy becomes a boon..to shrink it to size so that it becomes easier to perform a surgery with better outcomes
    You are on the right track Tiffany..at the right hospital..getting the best treatment(newer modalities of treatment)
    Don't lose your strength
    You are gonna be fine Singapenney😘💙
    Love you♥️♥️♥️
    Lots of love,
    - Dr. Meghna
    From 🇮🇳

  • @glennamiles3566
    @glennamiles3566 2 года назад +3

    You have the sweetest husband. Sending you good energy. Please don't fear the radiation.

  • @monicassurprises5900
    @monicassurprises5900 2 года назад +1

    My mother had stage four cancer at the age of 61 years old. lymphoma cancer. I took her to all her chemotherapy and everyday for her radiation. The cancer diminished after all of her treatments . God is good Tiffany. I watch of all your videos and pray for you. The same I would do for my mother just 2 years ago. Keep up your faith. Xoxoxo

  • @vickident5762
    @vickident5762 2 года назад +156

    Radiation cured the cancer cells my Dads surgery left behind. It saved his life. 20 years cancer free. Take care special lady. X

  • @sandiedakin1081
    @sandiedakin1081 2 года назад +11

    Tiffany you have a man walking beside you who is worth his weight in gold - you have family and friends, and us your you tube family who will shore you up when you're in need of a little help and that's something we all need at times. Many of us have had our lives, or those we love dearly, touched by cancer You live your live life for now, don't be sad - we've got this xx

  • @julv5767
    @julv5767 2 года назад +36

    "My happiness coffee, cake and Matt" so cute, that melted my heart 😭

  • @carolliskovice7250
    @carolliskovice7250 2 года назад +17

    It’s ok to cry. Everything seems so overwhelming and out of your control. Don’t be afraid of the radiation. If you do everything the tell you there will be very few side effects. I had 20 chemo treatments, 20;doses of immune treatments, two surgeries and ended with 6 months of oral chemo. You seem to be a strong positive woman and really will get through it. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.I’ve been clear for 3 years and know you will reach that point.

    • @cynthiadavid5282
      @cynthiadavid5282 2 года назад

      Prayer prayer prayer my dear god is warching over u always

  • @ga6589
    @ga6589 2 года назад +67

    My husband had 26 rounds of radiation (5 weeks) last summer for his advanced prostate cancer (inoperable) and affected lymph nodes. Treatments are so fine-tuned and targeted now- not the ordeal it was years ago. He thought of it as burning away the cancer and it was a psychological boost. He became fatigued, but recovered well within a few weeks without any other side effects. Along with the radiation and ongoing ADT therapy, he's now in remission without chemo! The worst part is waiting for bloodwork and scan results, but we've learned to just take it a day at a time. Best wishes, Tiffany!

    • @dalhousieDream
      @dalhousieDream 2 года назад +1

      Congrats on his remission! 🌻🌸🌼

    • @juicyjessica2298
      @juicyjessica2298 2 года назад

      congrats to hubby!!! this comment is so hopeful

  • @rosem1162
    @rosem1162 2 года назад +2

    I am praying for you sweetheart! God, family and friends are with you and so are your RUclips subscribers. We all love you so much!

  • @1971haris
    @1971haris 2 года назад +26

    My sister in law had continuous radiation for several weeks. It’s not as bad as you may think it is. She had surgery and now is cancer free. We got you !!❤️🙏🏽

  • @angelchild201079
    @angelchild201079 2 года назад +1

    Praying God will heal you and give you strength for your journey. I was diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer in 2016 and by God’s grace im still here🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Our God is a healers

  • @meenuiyer7011
    @meenuiyer7011 2 года назад +37

    We all need a Matt in our lives. Good job, Tiff, you were really brave today. Keep at it and before you know it, you'll be cancer free. Trust the process to heal you.

  • @barkingfromnewmexico9448
    @barkingfromnewmexico9448 2 года назад +40

    Tiffany, I was praying for a miracle also, and if you consider everything this cancer has been putting you through, I'm going to say we did get one because the cancer has NOT moved into stage 4. Stay strong and keep on fighting. YOU GOT THIS!

  • @jeanniesbeanies9900
    @jeanniesbeanies9900 2 года назад +74

    You're young and otherwise healthy and strong, you'll get through this and live to tell your grandkids!!
    I've got a couple decades on you, fighting Graves Disease w/ heart issues and the demon cancer found its way to one of 'the girls'. I'm idling this week, spinning my wheels with a cancelled chemo treatment due to a possible infection caused by taxol. Should have been my 3 round of my second treatment ( 4 rounds of other chemo drugs November/December.
    At last check-up, neither I or my oncologist could feel the lump, so, yes, it's possible to wipe out quite a bit of a tumor.
    We CAN and WILL do this! WE are strong and determined women that will endure! Hugs from across the pond my dear!♥️

    • @oreocookie3743
      @oreocookie3743 2 года назад +4

      Sending all the positivity and healing vibes your way 🙏🏽

    • @jeanniesbeanies9900
      @jeanniesbeanies9900 2 года назад +5

      @@oreocookie3743 thank you!! Lots of plot twists on journeys such as these! Hoping to be able to receive Treatment this upcoming Tuesday , I don't like leaving the little demon to its own devices for too long, but doc said he was very confident in skipping a treatment for a week due to the success of treatment so far. Sounds like Tiffany's are doing the trick too!! We are on different treatments for different cancers, but I believe we have been in treatment for the same amount of time.

    • @sawdust2556
      @sawdust2556 2 года назад +2

      Sending you love and prayers!💕🙏🏼

    • @jeanniesbeanies9900
      @jeanniesbeanies9900 2 года назад +2

      @@sawdust2556 thank you♥️ certainly not what I had planned or asked for for the next several months, but we'll get through it, and only come out wiser and stronger for it!♥️

    • @ems0up
      @ems0up 2 года назад +1

      @@jeanniesbeanies9900 loving your positivity on your journey!

  • @kayelabenseman2783
    @kayelabenseman2783 2 года назад +19

    I love how hes so supportive and explains everything to u and is loving but also straight up about it

  • @colleencurley906
    @colleencurley906 2 года назад +64

    I've been saying my rosaries for you. My friends all who had cancer had to have chemo and radiotherapy and they said the radio was a walk in the park. Keep positive once the operation completed the cancer will be eventually out of ur body and you will be fine x

    • @MillionaireMindMotivation
      @MillionaireMindMotivation 2 года назад +1

      Leviticus 19:4
      4 “ ‘Do not turn to idols or make metal gods for yourselves. I am the LORD your God.
      “And those who know your name put
      their trust in you,
      for you, O LORD, have not forsaken
      those who seek you.”
      Trust in the only name that can save you which is Jesus Christ!
      -Psalm 9:10

  • @malissabadal-yang523
    @malissabadal-yang523 2 года назад +2

    The best advise was given by Matt no need to put a time line, live in the moment. God bless I’m still praying that you have a miracle.

  • @Thefibrosewist
    @Thefibrosewist 2 года назад +15

    Just needed to share with you my Mums experience of Radiotherapy. She was unable to have surgery because of poor health , the only option was intensive radiotherapy for one week , she had mouth cancer . To everyone’s amazement there is now no sign of the cancer !. So please don’t be disheartened you really have got this ❤️

  • @jenniferreed7370
    @jenniferreed7370 2 года назад +30

    Matt is so amazing! You both are so blessed to have each other. He’s so patient and kind. You got this!

  • @catblue7065
    @catblue7065 2 года назад +43

    Convinced God sent you Matt at this time for a reason. He’s such an angel and so are you and your mom. Pain, treatments and troubling news are simply an inconvenience. It’s GREAT that you’re hopes are high. Stay positive, lovely. WE GOT THIS!!!

    • @lorij6796
      @lorij6796 2 года назад +1

      Tiffany, I love your mother.
      I was wondering how she handles your diagnosis.
      You have such a beautiful relationship with her.

  • @Rlovencupcakes
    @Rlovencupcakes 2 года назад +10

    Your boyfriend is a sweetheart, so happy you have him to be with you through your journey. 💗

  • @ChristyValley
    @ChristyValley 2 года назад +57

    We got this 💙💙💙 you are loved! You are responding to treatment…hallelujah! Small steps forward are still steps! 🙏🏻❤️

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 года назад +20

      thank you so much 💙💙 yeah small steps and ill get there in the end 💙 thank you for your lovee & support

    • @bendietrees
      @bendietrees 2 года назад +4

      @@tiffanythinks you got this girl! 💙💕🙌🏻💪🏻

    • @foxysil52
      @foxysil52 2 года назад +7

      @@tiffanythinks We are waiting for that big day when you're cancer free and all of us can celebrate with you. After it's all past you, We will be looking forward to see you and Matt get married and become One. That's my wish for you. God Bless You, Matt, and mom. Shes so strong and it radiates within you. Love, hugs, and prayers sweetie! From California to you.❤😊👍🙏😘

  • @Ariana-zr2cr
    @Ariana-zr2cr 2 года назад +8

    I am a young cancer survivor and I’ve been 5 years in remission. You can do this!!!!

  • @a.mysticpearl4146
    @a.mysticpearl4146 2 года назад +24

    The fact that you ARE responding to chemo is truly amazing.
    My best friend's radiation gave her alot of relief, honestly.
    This really REALLY is just a season in your life. It is only part of your journey. I'm sorry it's longer than you thought or expected but please stay hopeful! Matt is spot on with everything he's saying! Live! YOU'RE IN THE *PROSSES* OF BEING HEALED!!!
    Sending you TONS OF LOVE!
    💙💙💙💚💙💙💙WE GOT THIS!!!!!!!💙💙💙💚💙💙💙

  • @harrietparadis8051
    @harrietparadis8051 2 года назад +1

    I wish I had someone to walk this cancer journey with me. Wishing you all the best

  • @carolbaswell5019
    @carolbaswell5019 2 года назад +12

    Sweet girl--I have had many friends who saw NO CHANGE with chemo. I think this report is very encouraging. Your tumor is responding to this treatment and now they are going to go in with cannons blasting, and there will be even better results. I believe this with all of my heart. WE GOT THIS!!!!

    • @mysteryandmeaning297
      @mysteryandmeaning297 2 года назад +1

      Exactly I would ask see the scans myself see if it really shrank at all. But tha would just depressed her and they knew that.

  • @nancyphillips7558
    @nancyphillips7558 2 года назад +1

    Old retired nurse here. This is a small detour in the overall scheme of your life. The road still leads to where you are going, you just take the detour, stay in the minute, look at the scenery while you are on this different path. The people you will meet, the kindness in the caregivers, detours are a chance for us to meet people we never would have had we not taken the detour. keep your focus on the end healing and don't have expectations of timeline, as you are not the engineer on this train, trust the process and keep on going, day by day.

  • @PandaOnTheRainbow
    @PandaOnTheRainbow 2 года назад +15

    This man 💙 I feel so much respect for his parents for growing such a lovely down to the earth man. Im inspired every single time by his words and actions. He knows what to say and when to say to be your safe place. We got this 💙

    • @dalhousieDream
      @dalhousieDream 2 года назад

      I wish we knew more about him as we know Tiff's family. He is so steadfast and kind. The world needs more like him!!

  • @lisahart6668
    @lisahart6668 2 года назад +7

    I love how Matt talks to you in car after appt. He clearly understands how difficult it is for you but he is right, it is scary thinking about surgery etc but it is something that needs to be done and you will get through it. People I know with other types of cancer all had 2 or 3 lots chemo & radiation & op & they won the fight & still well after many years. Take each stage at a time. You have so many people willing you along, because you are such a lovely person. We got this !

  • @amitabhmehta1973
    @amitabhmehta1973 2 года назад +93

    Hey Tiffany. Don't worry about the surgery. I had to delay mine because of the margins as well... Which was better for me because more of the cancer cells will be killed and then the surgery is cleaner. And you'll be knocked out and won't know it's done at all. You'll be fine. Honest...❤️❤️❤️

    • @miipmiipmiip
      @miipmiipmiip 2 года назад +2

      And the pain meds are good, I hear!

  • @sandraballardini2510
    @sandraballardini2510 2 года назад +2

    My husband had the chemo/radiation but no surgery. He is doing great. You will be OK! Its your journey and it isn't easy but it will be OK. One day at a time. Thinking of you.

  • @hamster100
    @hamster100 2 года назад +13

    I’ve been wearing my We Got This t shirt all week, day and night, 24/7 because this week girl we got this harder than ever 💙💙💙

  • @joannereall2097
    @joannereall2097 2 года назад +18

    Matt is amazing and you're very lucky to have him. He's truly an amazing human being and loves you so much. Your family is also so wonderful and supportive. Your mom is so strong watching her baby girl go thru something so scary and she's always so stoic. God bless everyone in your life and just remember to breathe and give yourself a break. You don't always have to be so strong. You have your family and friends to help hold you up when you feel like you can't deal anymore. Most importantly, remember that you've got this.

  • @michemicheb
    @michemicheb 2 года назад +20

    I know it's hard. But the fact that it's stage 3 and not 4 makes all the difference. You will beat this. It might take a bit longer but you got this!

  • @deusvult2302
    @deusvult2302 2 года назад +10

    It's great news Tiffany, it would have been unrealistic to get what was initially thought off to be a stage IV to a stage I in such short time! You responded well to the chemo and now they will work on the rest. Nice results happy for you

  • @catmama54
    @catmama54 2 года назад +5

    My friend had a very rare and aggressive stage 4 cancer. Lots of chemo and radiation and one year of hell. This is over 30 years ago.There will be a light at the end of the tunnel.🙏

  • @TheBeesKnees1993
    @TheBeesKnees1993 2 года назад +12

    Matt is so good with you and he explains things very well. I work in Histopathology, so we see lots of colons every day. The closest resection margin or CRM is important because if the tumour is too near to that when you have the surgery, as Matt said, they may not remove everything, meaning there is a greater chance cells will be left behind and that's not what you want. Hoping that although your journey is going to be a little longer than you expected, your treatment plan works and your tumour will shrink nicely, so that you have the best long term outcome darling. Sending lots and lots of love 💙💙💙💙 You got this!

  • @juliehayden9648
    @juliehayden9648 2 года назад +31

    Please be positive Tiffany. I'm often right about feelings about friends and family, and I feel a positive, good outcome for you. Stay strong xx

    • @miipmiipmiip
      @miipmiipmiip 2 года назад +3

      I get what you mean but I'd rather say it would be better to be realistic with an open mind. Toxic positivity can lead to suppressing "negative" emotions and always, always hoping and striving for the best of the best outcome, even if that's not realistic, and then you get disappointed.

    • @juliehayden9648
      @juliehayden9648 2 года назад +1

      @@miipmiipmiip i stand by my comment. Positivity can never be a bad thing. Its what I truely believe

    • @Lisa-uu4vs
      @Lisa-uu4vs 2 года назад +1

      @@juliehayden9648 I completely agree!

    • @Tomas-major
      @Tomas-major 2 года назад +1

      My wonderful partner and love of my life lost his battle, it was never operable like
      Tiffany’s but he never lost hope, even though for him there was no chance of a cure, never ever lose hope in your life, he was the bravest man I have ever known and I will be proud of him forever, you got this Tiffany, never ever lose hope, you are surrounded by so much love 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

    • @SS-yu6xt
      @SS-yu6xt 2 года назад +1

      @@miipmiipmiip completely agree. Staying realistic and taking it day by day is the best way forward.

  • @poojav2585
    @poojav2585 2 года назад +2

    Tiffany i cried with you while watching. God bless you , i don't want u to go through more pain but that's wat puts an end to all of this then we got this . You will be fine one day. We all pray for u 💙

  • @footballskatemom
    @footballskatemom 2 года назад +48

    This happened to me and I had to do treatment for 5 months before they would do surgery. It was a good thing as the treatment killed a lot of the cancer and surgery was far more effective. I had stage 3 metastatic renal cell carcinoma and I have been no evidence of disease for15 months! You have this!

    • @deborahdishington735
      @deborahdishington735 2 года назад +3

      🙏🏻💙👼🏻

    • @paulachin9130
      @paulachin9130 2 года назад +1

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @carolpainter4305
      @carolpainter4305 2 года назад

      I'm so pleased that you're cancer-free, and I'm sure that Tiffany will gain a lot of strength and courage from your encouragement.
      God bless

  • @jod8160
    @jod8160 2 года назад +4

    I love how positive you are in your videos. My brother had bowel cancer a few years ago...he went through chemo,radiation and surgery and he is now fine and cancer free. You got this!

  • @stephanieotoole9151
    @stephanieotoole9151 2 года назад +36

    It's all a process Tiffany, they sound like they have a good plan in place for you, you've got this. ❤

  • @shellsfacebook
    @shellsfacebook 2 года назад +2

    Oh my goodness.. Matt explaining to Tiffany made my heart melt. Two beautiful souls You have this!

  • @SarahRenniexoxo
    @SarahRenniexoxo 2 года назад +27

    You'e got this Tiffany! Radiation is just a little bump in the road to recovery and I know you'll get through this! You're a strong, brave beautiful girl, you've took chemo head on and I know you can do the same with radiation! Your Tiffany Thinks family is here for you every step of the way to support you through this. Sometimes life is so unfair but this is just another journey for you and your family to get through and when you get out the other end of it you'll be stronger than ever! You truly are an inspiration and don't forget it's okay to cry, it's okay to feel, you don't have to be strong for the camera we're here for you always! I'm so sorry it wasn't really the results you were wanting, I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as always! WE GOT THIS! 💙💙💙

  • @paula4968
    @paula4968 2 года назад +13

    I'm so glad you had Matt with you, he's truly an angel. I'm sorry the journey is going to be a little bit longer than we had hoped, but overall it's very good news and you're going to be just fine. I can't wait for the day when you're outside the hospital doing your cancer free dance. We'll all be right here cheering. We love you. We got this. 😘💙

  • @MrsHB2011
    @MrsHB2011 2 года назад +11

    My dear tiffany. Everthing will be ok. Im praying for you. Seeing you like this breaks my heart and i wish i can take this pain of you. I love you and we got this 💙 watching you instagram stories with the result broke me but i know you will be cancer free very soon 💙🙏

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 года назад +4

      hello my darling, thank you so much for your prayers and love. I think I was shocked and expecting too much yesterday, it'll just take a little bit longer - I can't expect to be cancer free straight away. Thank you for caring so much x we got this 💙

  • @mastermind-hk4ho
    @mastermind-hk4ho 2 года назад +1

    We are all with you and we will be with you until you become cancer free. We got this! This is our battle girl!!!

  • @sandypandy9161
    @sandypandy9161 2 года назад +10

    17 years ago to the day I was told I had 30% survival rate if I did chemo and radiation. After surgery they told me to get my affairs in order because I was now stage 4 and the cancer was in my lymph nodes. I never looked back. I did the chemo radiation and I NEVER went back to the oncologist again. Not even once in 17 years. Yes they hounded me for about 6 months to get scans get blood work. I just ignored it all and let God do with me what he will. What I did is not for everyone and I have received alot of " you're stupid, you're an idiot ...blah blah blah" ...apparently I'm stupid but still alive...point of this is...God is in control and its HIS will...you WILL make it thru Tiffany...I feel the same way about you as I felt for myself...

    • @onyinye-4188
      @onyinye-4188 2 года назад +3

      Thank God for your life and amazing story. I hope Tiffany sees this.

  • @Leesion73
    @Leesion73 2 года назад +4

    some good news in here and so glad you see it, Tiffany I was 15 when I broke my neck at C5-6, my body went through so much, and bounced back in ways I didnt know possible, BELIEVE IN THE POWER OF YOUR YOUNG BODY TO RECOVER AND HEAL BECAUSE IT IS REAL, I'm living proof at 48 and healthy, working, and loving. Thinking of you all and sending big huge good energy! YOU GOT THIS. Matt is the man.

  • @sandrareali8324
    @sandrareali8324 2 года назад +4

    I love how you guys call each darling, make a vision board of what you see you're life will be in the future and look at every day, you've got this

  • @lydiasaenz2243
    @lydiasaenz2243 2 года назад

    My husband and I have the fire on tv every night from thanksgiving week though the new year. We love falling asleep with the crackling of the fire wood. The love I see between Amma, Matt and you is so sweet. I miss my mom being with me when Im scared or sick So much! You are very Blessed to have your family and so many of your you tube family praying for you…. Prayer is the best medicine. When you pray before your chemo I’m praying with you as I know everyone is too by what I’ve read in the comments. 💙💙💙We got this💙💙💙. Stay strong! Blessings and love from Texas💛

  • @Pammie1221
    @Pammie1221 2 года назад +22

    God bless you Matt for staying strong for her. You both "Got This"!

  • @carolehanrahan
    @carolehanrahan 2 года назад +1

    God bless you dear girl. Unfortunately cancer is a battle for most people but you have a strong army surrounding you and propping you up and fighting with you. God is the best general of your army. Keep your faith and you will get through this.

  • @melissaparrish1870
    @melissaparrish1870 2 года назад +30

    Love to see you and Matt talking thru this experience....he's your angel, Tiffany 💙 Sending you love and prayers

  • @mianone7486
    @mianone7486 2 года назад +2

    Matt is so right, dont set a time on it. Enjoy every single second of life. There will be bumps and there will be highs... You have got results after just 3 months which is great. Stick to the plan, try not to worry about what to come. The crazy thing is you will handle whatever comes... there is no other option.

  • @bobo275
    @bobo275 2 года назад +6

    I love Matt so much
    He is so sensitive, gentle, realistic and comforting and pleasant, he is your best gift for this journey. It's going to be ok, keep being with the family and Matt as much as possible ... we are waiting for you, says cancer free

  • @nmcdonald1712
    @nmcdonald1712 2 года назад +1

    We all hope and wish you get better and feel great again soon. You are so lovely

  • @brandyswider5051
    @brandyswider5051 2 года назад +7

    I continue to pray for you Tiffany! For you, Matt and Amma. We've got this! You are in wonderful hands. Matt is such a wonderful support person and significant other! Bless you sweet girl!

  • @tiinaiiceey
    @tiinaiiceey 2 года назад +1

    We are here for you love. Everything will be okay ❤️

  • @sarahwolstenholme2615
    @sarahwolstenholme2615 2 года назад +12

    I completely emphasise with you and know that when you receive any results it can be overwhelming and all sorts of emotions come flying out. Of course, you need a little time to process it but look how far you've come already Tiffany! I was diagnosed with Grade 3 Breast Cancer in November 2020 and had a Mastectomy, Chemo & Radiotherapy. It is a journey but I know you can do this! Think of each stage as a checklist your ticking off and climbing each step to get to the top of those stairs. You are stronger than you can imagine and have the love of your Boyfriend, Mum, family...and all of us too!! Sending you a virtual hug right now xx😘

  • @esterlinefromme6475
    @esterlinefromme6475 2 года назад +1

    You got this Tiff do not stop fighting there is always a storm before a rainbow and your rainbow is coming beautiful! Don't give up the good fight and One day I hope to meet you and give you a big hug and cancer will be a distant memory. Rooting for you! You are not alone. Enjoy and be present in each day and moment. Just think of the future keep your eye on the end goal you will get there. ❤

  • @maryostroski2203
    @maryostroski2203 2 года назад +6

    I had a hysterectomy and was out grocery shopping that evening. You are much younger than me and you’re strong. You’ve got this!

  • @lauravasquez1768
    @lauravasquez1768 2 года назад +1

    GOD BLESS YOU AND THE MAN THAT IS ON YOUR SIDE AND SUPPORT YOU.

  • @MurielsAnimatedStories
    @MurielsAnimatedStories 2 года назад +6

    Hi Tiffany. I have been lurking here for a while now and following your journey. Last year I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and I decided to start documenting my journey here on YT when I started chemo. By then I'd gone through the rollercoaster of examinations and I'd had surgery. In my case that was supposed to be laparoscopy first and major surgery (called debulking it means taking out the uterus, ovaries, cervix and omentum) later, but the tumour started to bleed and they had to perform the full-scale operation right away. I could sense your fear when you talked about the surgery you will need and that's why I'm reaching out to you. I was scared too, of being in pain, of having a huge scar, of having to stay in hospital ... etc. Hopefully I can put your mind at ease a little bit: I was never in any real pain (discomfort yes) and I was allowed to go home very quickly. You're young and otherwise healthy and I'm pretty confident you'll come through this very quickly. It's not fun, but it's necessary to restore your health.
    You are a lovely person and your family and Matt are incredibly supportive, as is your YT family. Best of luck to you. Lots of love from Belgium 💕💕💕

  • @dhariniparthasarathy3901
    @dhariniparthasarathy3901 2 года назад +2

    So glad you have Matt with you. He's not sugar-coating it and seeing both the positive and negatives for what they are. Often such reports are not as clear cut in any one direction. You will be well soon. Keep up with the treatment. Will be wishing you a fast recovery and good news soon!

  • @patricial641
    @patricial641 2 года назад +27

    It shrunk by 50% - that is amazing and worth celebrating! Yes, the road has a few more speed bumps in it but focus on your destination - cancer free with your whole life ahead of you and Matt. One step, one treatment at a time. We got this 💙

  • @LAURIEOHIOLPN
    @LAURIEOHIOLPN 2 года назад

    One single day at a time !!! You are experiencing normal feelings.. upset & some downs.. keep moving forward at your pace.. You are so very blessed to have Matt & your Family nearby... I will keep praying for you !

  • @Pinkhippo0607
    @Pinkhippo0607 2 года назад +7

    Matt is a amazing guy! He loves you so so much!!! You got this Tiffany!!! I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! You are such a positive human and I admire that in you so much! ♥️

  • @anika4774
    @anika4774 2 года назад +1

    I think making small goals will help you manage your expectations, and remember there will always be new things to work out. You’ll get there!!!

  • @heatherjunker967
    @heatherjunker967 2 года назад +6

    The way through this is to take it one day, one hour and even one minute at a time. You have a great support system. Matt is a great guy.

    • @icon.2158
      @icon.2158 2 года назад

      Wise wise advice!! Lung cancer survivor here....everyday I remind myself to CHILL and trust the process!!!

  • @lisad8263
    @lisad8263 2 года назад

    My dad had cancer 3x...starting from his 40s....he is now 84 and in better health than anyone in his age group at his independent living facility. May God be with you and your family.

  • @chelsealouise1717
    @chelsealouise1717 2 года назад +7

    I know it's not the news you were hoping for and it's hard to feel disappointed but thank goodness the tumour has shrunk a little and you are responding well to chemo. I'm so pleased to hear its doing its job. You are strong and I believe you have the willpower to blitz through more chemo and radiotherapy. We got this 💙

  • @joycebrown6079
    @joycebrown6079 2 года назад

    Tiffany you've got this, please don't be scared, it's really not all that bad. Myself having had the same treatment as is recommended for you, however mine was triple negative breast cancer, 16 years ago. Yep 16 years cancer free now! You've got this sweet Tiffany!
    And yes I so agree with all the other comments on Matt and what a angel you have by your side! Please stay strong, yes you've got this!! 🌻❤👼

  • @donnaescalada3045
    @donnaescalada3045 2 года назад +12

    You got this!💙. Matt is so wonderful - what a supportive partner and he is totally right don’t put a time on any of this. One day at a time. The prayers are working this was a good visit, the tumor is shrinking YAY! 🤗

  • @CountryGirl8324
    @CountryGirl8324 2 года назад +1

    Hey Tiffany, you got this just like i did. April was 5 yrs cancer free. I had 6 rounds of Chemotherapy 2 different kinds and 33 radiation treatments and then surgery. The radiation is a breeze compared to the Chemotherapy. You got this Tiffany. Your healing is taking place just like mine through all the skills, gifts and talent and knowledge he has given to the doctor's. It okay and i did the same thing looking for that instant miracle. Gods given you your miracle just through different means. You are such a warrior and im so thankful i found you and Matt on RUclips. You are amazing and its ok to have emotion it its a strong battle you are going through but keep you faith keep praising him because greater is he that is in us then he who is in the world. Bless you and Matt! Lot of love and prayer, Melody

  • @mariabachmann2862
    @mariabachmann2862 2 года назад +6

    You have so many people praying for you; and your attitude is so positive,so stay strong although I know it's not easy.We are all praying for you, your mom and Matt, who is such a Godsend.

  • @carinaheed4344
    @carinaheed4344 2 года назад +2

    The operation is a big thing and will remove the tumor, i was in hospital 4 nights, it’s tuff but ”you got this”❤️

  • @nas1909
    @nas1909 2 года назад +7

    You are so so brave Tiffany, there’s a saying in my religion and that’s “God does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear”. So you will fight this and make a full recovery! Sending so many prayers your way, you’ve got this! 💜

  • @michellelair3102
    @michellelair3102 2 года назад +1

    You are such a beautiful soul. Please keep up the positivity. My husband was diagnosed stage 4 in July of 2017, and has been free of tumors since 2019. His order of treatment was surgery, chemo, radiation. KEEP THE FAITH!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @judi7282
    @judi7282 2 года назад +8

    You have got this Tiffany, and we are with you all the way! Love you sweetie, and praying for you. You are being healed, God is with you! I have so much faith, I just ordered your sweatshirt! We’ve got this ❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @ntinakoutsavli404
    @ntinakoutsavli404 2 года назад

    Never lose your optimism and your smile. I send you all my love from Greece. Everything will be fine. 🌻

  • @beckyirving4857
    @beckyirving4857 2 года назад +4

    Stay strong! I just finished my radiation and chemotherapy for stage 3 rectal cancer and it wasn't too bad. They just found a nodule in my lung so meet with the pulmonary doc next week and the surgeon in March. I don't know if the radiation helped yet but I will keep you posted on that and the lung nodule. Stay strong! You have great support as do I!

  • @meghanh2511
    @meghanh2511 2 года назад

    Keep fighting no matter how shitty or hard it's going to get. Your family and friends need you.
    My aunty fought cancer for 5 years, it spread everywhere over the course of those years. The tumours shrunk but then became resistant towards chemo. So she was on a new/different chemo every year. It was like a rollercoaster ride. She had surgery so many times too.
    Eventually she stopped chemo altogether because she was tired of fighting and feeling nauseous every day, making it near impossible for her to eat, even though her tumours were shrinking.
    We miss her every day. She was like a second mum to me.

  • @Georgesmomsu
    @Georgesmomsu 2 года назад +15

    Sending so much love your way. We Got This 💜

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 года назад +5

      aww thank you for your love 💙 lots and lots of love - we got this 💙

  • @themakeupaddict01
    @themakeupaddict01 2 года назад

    When my dad was still here we had a motto of any treatment is better than no treatment. It is good they want to keep trying. They know you stand a good chance of success. I promise the radiation isn’t as scary as it sounds. 💕

  • @bhava4795
    @bhava4795 2 года назад +22

    I’m sorry to hear that these weren’t the results you were hoping for Tiffany. It might take a little longer than expected but your fighting spirit and our prayers are going to get you through this! Sending you lots of love x 💙

  • @beccavry
    @beccavry 2 года назад

    Sweet, sweet love, I'm sorry you've experienced this speed bump, but you WILL get through this...and it is good news because it didn't get bigger and your lungs are fine. Amen!