Dr. Ochberg, thank you so very much for all you helpful videos. You did explain why victims are afraid to tell. It could be further stressed why they can't instead of initially saying they don't tell their mothers. Plz consider making a video about victim's who do tell mothers but are blamed, accused, attacked and abandoned. Also when the mother is a narcissist the victim is brainwashed into worrying more about the mothers feelings and abandons her own. This creates extreme added guilt.
my experience was my mom was abused as well. she would be over a 100 today. I have learned to forgive her for not protecting me from my perpetrator. God saved me in 1996 from suicide, and He has been working at me every since. I am working up the courage now to see a doctor to finally get the help I need.My my kids are all messed up because of my behaviour. Ihave been using cannabis to cope.
I understand and it hurts like hell. You deserved to have a loving mother that made you the priority. She did not! I am angry with her for that. Yes you are a "Superhero"!!!
I want to start off by saying that my brother who is three years older than I am sexually molested me from the time I was eight until I was fourteen which is when I finally got the courage to he had to stop molesting me. There was penetration from the beginning. In fact, when I was almost twelve, I was afraid I might be pregnant, and I expressed my fears to no one. Also, when my mother was alive, I never told her about the abuse because I didn't know how to tell her, and I was afraid that a revelation of this sort could destroy her. At this point, I have basically no contact with my brother for my own well-being. Because of what happened between me and my brother, the thought of being in a sexual relationship period terrifies me. I don't know how I'd handle a sexual relationship if I were to find a serious partner or husband.
Dr. Ochberg, thank you so very much for all you helpful videos. You did explain why victims are afraid to tell. It could be further stressed why they can't instead of initially saying they don't tell their mothers. Plz consider making a video about victim's who do tell mothers but are blamed, accused, attacked and abandoned. Also when the mother is a narcissist the victim is brainwashed into worrying more about the mothers feelings and abandons her own. This creates extreme added guilt.
my experience was my mom was abused as well. she would be over a 100 today. I have learned to forgive her for not protecting me from my perpetrator. God saved me in 1996 from suicide, and He has been working at me every since. I am working up the courage now to see a doctor to finally get the help I need.My my kids are all messed up because of my behaviour. Ihave been using cannabis to cope.
none offending parent should have noticed something and saved their child.
I understand and it hurts like hell. You deserved to have a loving mother that made you the priority. She did not! I am angry with her for that. Yes you are a "Superhero"!!!
loss of intimacy with the non-offending parent?!? THERE IS NO NON-OFFENDING PARENT!!!!
I want to start off by saying that my brother who is three years older than I am sexually molested me from the time I was eight until I was fourteen which is when I finally got the courage to he had to stop molesting me. There was penetration from the beginning. In fact, when I was almost twelve, I was afraid I might be pregnant, and I expressed my fears to no one. Also, when my mother was alive, I never told her about the abuse because I didn't know how to tell her, and I was afraid that a revelation of this sort could destroy her. At this point, I have basically no contact with my brother for my own well-being. Because of what happened between me and my brother, the thought of being in a sexual relationship period terrifies me. I don't know how I'd handle a sexual relationship if I were to find a serious partner or husband.
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