[Vietsub] My Sexual Abuse Story - Dion Yorkie

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @JeffMende
    @JeffMende 6 лет назад +12

    Dion, you are a healer, by sharing this story....Abuse is wrong; Your story will make me a better man.....Respect for each other....dignity......and move on.....Jeff

  • @stormingsun1
    @stormingsun1 4 года назад +6

    I must admit I watched this bc we share the same name..but also I,like many others have been sexuallly ,emotionally and physically abused. I agree that it needs to be addressed. Suppressing it can be dangerous to one's self. After yrs off self hate and holding on to the past,which kept on having a impact in my day to day life... i hit rock bottom ..HARD! I then knew I had to seek help..and fast. I was fortunate enough to find a therapist I could trust and build a connection with. I went in full force ..i was no longer going to be a victim of this experience. Most of all I wasn't going to allow it to control me ..i needed to release the fear,mistrust in men,the worthlessness, the anxiety, the self hate ,the thought "I deserved it" and the control this situation had on me for many yrs. It was a rough journey facing it and reliving it..but it had to be done. But finally I was able to shift from victim to the strong, confident man I am today..mostly I was now free. This experience had no control over me,I had total control of it. I still to this day see the person who did this to me..as he is a family member( my family also know what he did) but chose to brush it under the carpet. Which hurt me more than the abuse. However i stood up,grabbed the bull by the horns and solidered on. So I really hope that others out there who went through such a traumatic time and are struggling with it,can see their worth and seek professional help...so they are able to take back their power and fianlly start living again.

  • @salper54
    @salper54 8 лет назад +28

    I came across your video quite by accident. It was hard to watch because it hit so close to home. You spoke many of my own truths. I admire your courage in speaking out, your honesty, insights, and the wisdom in your comments and advice. I wish you healing and peace as you continue your journey in life.

  • @andrewaway
    @andrewaway 3 года назад +4

    There are so many vultures. You keep strong. No one ever believes. ❤️

  • @hazelmay3310
    @hazelmay3310 4 года назад +6

    I’m a big fan of him and Sebb now and looking at Dion now I could never tell that he’s had to go through something like this he has gotten much stronger since this and I honestly can’t believe this happened and I didn’t mean to come across this video but it made me cry.

  • @ElectricSpokes
    @ElectricSpokes 5 лет назад +3

    You’re experience carries a lot of meaning for those who still need to face the past head-on and stop letting the bad have power over them. I’m just now starting this journey. I’m watching others tell their story, gay and straight, so I can find courage, of which I have none at the moment.
    I’m so torn up over my experiences and angry and confused and broken and hurting and I’m unsure if my sexuality was dictated by my experiences... it’s so f-ing confusing. My parents didn’t protect me. The relative consistently hurt me to the point it became, what I thought, was normal. I want to scream.
    After I came out, I was kicked out of home and my church at 16. I was free from the abuse but faced a whole new set of problems. Is their a time when it’s wrong to seek guidance? I feel like it’s my fault a lot. I’m really confused.
    Your story really is difficult however, your sharing what you felt... hurts me because I know how it feels and that makes me angry that you, or anyone, had to face this and will for for life. Stay strong. Seek trusting individuals and let them in. Ask for help. Take your power back.
    I know, it’s so easy to tell someone else to be strong and to open up but, for me, I’m scared.

  • @bradleyhaines656
    @bradleyhaines656 2 года назад +4

    I know how you feel I was raped it started when I was around 4or 5 years old and it is hard I have been through a lot growing up and decided to pray and God has helped me I am 50 now and it's still hard but be strong you are not alone

    • @Evermorestan9
      @Evermorestan9 2 года назад

      I’m so sorry that happened to you I hope your doing ok now

  • @orderinchaos
    @orderinchaos 7 лет назад +9

    What happened to you was totally wrong. There's nothing wrong with *you*, you are a victim and a survivor (I increasingly use "survivor" for my own experience). Congratulations on having the courage and bravery to confront it and to use it to help others.

  • @christopherplaya9712
    @christopherplaya9712 8 лет назад +8

    This touched me because I was abused when I was only 12 and felt like I was all alone

  • @alexisacevedo6044
    @alexisacevedo6044 8 лет назад +12

    I literally feel like he's the only one who actually understands me and feels the same.

  • @jamesjames1364
    @jamesjames1364 Год назад

    Bravo. Your words, details, and description was so accurate, that I couldn't have said it any better. I know. I lived it. You are a hero! Thank you.

  • @angieadams3346
    @angieadams3346 6 лет назад +3

    Love you Dion and proud of you cause you don't keep that inside you and you talk about it...xxx

  • @johnathanstevens8436
    @johnathanstevens8436 Год назад

    Any time there is a difference in age, experience or level of authority there is a large potential for someone to be hurt.
    Bringing it up, talking about it is sometimes is like being stabbed over and over but it's actually sort of like a splinter .. you CAN work it out if you get some therapy, supportive friends or a partner who can help you make some decent memories.
    A lot more people have faced this than you might think, you aren't alone, it's not your fault. It is possible to heal.
    You are a part of creation worthy of love, dignity and respect as any other.

  • @georgieroberts7627
    @georgieroberts7627 6 лет назад +3

    I had to stop watching this half way through because it reminded me of when my dad got really pissed at my mum and her shouted at us and said something that your parents wouldn't want you to know. About how my mum had been raped 5 years before I was born 😭😭😭 this broke my heart. And although I am religious and should not be saying this i think the sickos that do this should fit in hell. I'm so sorry this happened to you 😭😭😭

  • @daniellebennis2126
    @daniellebennis2126 3 года назад

    Sending so much love to anyone that is going through something like this or went through it. Abuse of any type is never ok at all so I hope you are able to find help and are able to get out.

  • @samray397
    @samray397 3 года назад +1

    U'r right! Such subjects are not discussed openly. They must be to enlighten others!
    Sorry for yr pain. Prayers heal. Whatever u believe in. U are undoubtedly a victim. ThT Predator will pay for his abuse 7 times more. With the same intensity he shall suffer the aftermath. I will continue praying for yr healing & for his paying back!

  • @motgiacmong3023
    @motgiacmong3023 6 лет назад

    cảm ơn những người đã làm vietsub cho những video của dion và seb,tôi rất hâm mộ cặp đôi này và ao ước có ai đó làm vietsub về họ để cho tôi hiểu hơn ý nghĩa,và hôm nay đã thành sự thật...tôi rất hạnh phúc về điều này. hi vọng sẽ được xem vietsub về tất cả video của dion và seb. Xin chân thành cảm ơn, chúc cho kênh của admin phát triển tích cực,có nhiều like và đăng ký..

  • @anaisfernandez8038
    @anaisfernandez8038 7 лет назад +2

    I feel like when u said I hope no one has to deal with this and 5 years down the road is still effected by it, I feel like I let u down dion Yorkie because it's been 5 years and I'm still mentally effected by this. In getting help but it's getting me no where

  • @richarddavis2107
    @richarddavis2107 5 лет назад +1

    I also came across your video by accident , obviously the memory is very painful for you, thank you for sharing. I fully endorse the previous comment about seeking professional help to help you over this pain. Wishing you well in the future and thank you once again.

  • @SarahJones-dh6ox
    @SarahJones-dh6ox 6 лет назад +4

    You are really brave to make this video.

  • @michaelmoore4700
    @michaelmoore4700 3 года назад

    You are a conqueror and you are helping countless others.

  • @avadheejain637
    @avadheejain637 6 лет назад +2

    Plzz don't cry....I love uhh Nd can't see u crying..U r so courageous...Go on dear

  • @ciaramurphy9567
    @ciaramurphy9567 5 лет назад +1

    When u cried that broke my heart 😢💔💔💔💔

  • @relmweaber
    @relmweaber 7 лет назад +8

    I'm glad your sharing and you've seek help and your ok.

  • @ddario2
    @ddario2 Год назад

    Guys, he is literally acting. How does no one recognise this?

  • @marlonmalcolm1738
    @marlonmalcolm1738 6 лет назад +4

    I can't get over his hair.
    Sorry for your experience

  • @tabathakromer4249
    @tabathakromer4249 2 года назад

    Stand up yourself stop hurting you fight this though this together God heal you Dion Yorkie storytime made tabatha crying right now emotional now so sad I'm worry about you can do this together Tabatha bullying me too they hurt me so emotionally drained wash my brain washed so bad for me I stand up too them I did I graduated Fayetteville high school 2004 so pain I feel broken heart too pieces right now I'm scared so much I need a friend Dion Yorkie please do for me I want hug you please be there for me you are my favorite Dion Yorkie read my comments be low

  • @rsi4561
    @rsi4561 2 года назад

    I hate to tell you..the effects of it never go away. none of it was your fault. good vibes your way.

  • @HaTran-xy7zo
    @HaTran-xy7zo 8 лет назад +1

    thật khó khăn để chịu đựng và thật khó để nói ra đối với a ấy

  • @tinhhienvien9074
    @tinhhienvien9074 8 лет назад +1

    thương a quá đi TT^TT

  • @brandonjardine3818
    @brandonjardine3818 3 года назад +1

    I was 13 and my bestfriend was 15, I told him to stop and he never stop on a drunk night

  • @tabathakromer4249
    @tabathakromer4249 2 года назад

    I came across this video made tabatha crying right now emotional right now support please Dion honestly wisdom advice his journey in my life protect me and you be strong you are my favorite Dion his favorite is Tabatha so much pain right now so am I I am wiser talking too you I need you most definitely perfect each other through this together support you are support me I'll always good amazing smile keep on smiling keep on loving keep on love you are adorable inside and outside just the way you are can be

  • @tabathakromer4249
    @tabathakromer4249 2 года назад

    Stand up yourself stop by hurting you like fight this though this together God heal you Dion Yorkie storytime made tabatha crying right now emotional now so sad I'm worry about you can do this together Tabatha bullying me too they hurt my me so emotionally drained wash my brain washed so bad for me I stand up too them I did I graduated Fayetteville high school 2004 I made it through it stayed my room all day crying eye out help me Dion

  • @mariabelaev6490
    @mariabelaev6490 6 лет назад +2

    thank you for sharing . You are a beautiful person

  • @superxxx47maxxan63
    @superxxx47maxxan63 5 лет назад +1

    You should not let nobody rape you stand up for your self

  • @pedrocarrillo3831
    @pedrocarrillo3831 3 года назад

    He's still to young to be dealing with this on his own. like he's trying to do!!! I just couldn't bear to watch it to the end of his video.

  • @penwayful
    @penwayful 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you for your courage to share.

  • @domingue4god
    @domingue4god 7 лет назад +4

    Great video! Get professional psychological help. Be careful not to hate what happened to you too much, to the point you become obsessed with the hate., because in psychology they say we tend to become what we hate most!! Forgive and move on. Jesus really is the answer! I've been where you are at! Thanks for being so honest! Best wishes!

  • @lissahlettybepete157
    @lissahlettybepete157 4 года назад

    Im sorry u had to go through that.. But im glad you stronger now and are a great influencer... Thank you for sharing ur story.
    #tohellwithallabusers

  • @isomlarryis
    @isomlarryis 6 лет назад +2

    Dion 💖 baby you could have said it. Ilysm 💖💖💖💖

  • @jeffroche8549
    @jeffroche8549 8 лет назад +11

    I was a little older but it was just as aweful. Our last night in town we got a Motel Room. I went to bed early cuz I work with the Capt on the bridge. I had to leave door open, friends still out. I woke up to a guy having Sex with me..I knocked him off me and he ran to the door. Goodthing he got away i would be in Jail for murder. Now what, I cant tell anyone I will be lableled Gay. I was definately 100% Straight. I put it away. Last fall i was stuck in a late Hurricane in South Carolina. We lost my car. Floated away. Me and my cousin walk to a fishing cabin to get out of the rain. The next day a couple with a kid and old lady walk up. I swear this was the guy..it wasnt, too young. Around Christmas I had some kind of emotional breakdown. I was in and out of VA Pysch Ward 4 times . Im actually suicidal over what this guy did to me. The weird thing is slowly after I was molested I thought i was bi. I dated guys. Now Im into just guys. How does that happen?..

    • @gabrielesperanza
      @gabrielesperanza 8 лет назад +5

      Maybe you weren't straight, you were probably too vulnerable to admit it because you didn't enjoy what happened and the specific gender that did it to you. You wanted to get away from the event. I never experienced this but I do have an open mind and eye on horrible events like this.

    • @CH3CH2OCH2CH3net
      @CH3CH2OCH2CH3net 8 лет назад +8

      Being sexually assaulted by another guy doesn't make you "gay": it makes you a victim of sexual assault.
      There are guys who do sexually assault other guys. What happened to you doesn't have anything to do with your sexual orientation: you're a straight guy who was sexually assaulted by another male.
      If you were a lesbian woman who was sexually assaulted by a man, you wouldn't be straight: you'd be a lesbian who was sexually assaulted by a man (and it does happen, by men who think they can "turn" a lesbian into a heterosexual by forcing themselves on her).

    • @derekkaye6828
      @derekkaye6828 8 лет назад

      carp bear

    • @derekkaye6828
      @derekkaye6828 8 лет назад

      carp bear

    • @relmweaber
      @relmweaber 7 лет назад +3

      Jeff Roche I'm so sorry. There are psychological and energetic effects that takes places when a person has been violated in such a horrific way. Look into the energetic body and Chakra systems

  • @rentboy7566
    @rentboy7566 Год назад +1

    Drama queen

  • @richardvergara
    @richardvergara Год назад

    Good job!!!

  • @ivangamboa1860
    @ivangamboa1860 2 года назад

    Hi, I dont mean this in any shameful or ridiculing form. But I hope you get some professional help. I strongly encourage Trauma Therapy, reintegrative therapy. You will get alot of healing, closure answers, much understanding; and of course a very healthy way to move forward.

  • @Christina-wy2zn
    @Christina-wy2zn Год назад

    I'm. Just saying you are not alone

  • @Christina-wy2zn
    @Christina-wy2zn Год назад

    Thank you Dion you help me I have been sexual abuse too when young

  • @maxmayhem1571
    @maxmayhem1571 5 лет назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    All the love to you
    #endabuse

  • @dontworryletspracticejihoo242
    @dontworryletspracticejihoo242 8 лет назад +5

    Thật là thương dion quá đi và cả những người bị lạm dụng nữa họ phải chịu quá nhiều tổn thương đau đớn dằn vặt cô đơn... mong họ luôn có đc động lực để vượt qua
    Làm ơn cho mình hỏi ngoài lế tí cái video bottom or top có ai biết dion hay sebb là top ko vì 2 ng bảo xem trên tên channel mà chẳng thấy

    • @gayvlogsvtrans6894
      @gayvlogsvtrans6894  8 лет назад +2

      vid troll đó bạn ơi :)) hôm trước mình có xem trên younow của Dion cũng có câu hỏi này nhưng Dion bảo vid đó chỉ để vui thôi, còn chuyện top hay bot thì Dion nói như kiểu là chuyện 2 người không muốn chia sẻ ra ngoài :D nhưng nếu bạn đọc cmt bên vid đó thì đa phần ai cũng bảo ngay từ thumbnail đã đoán đc r :))

    • @dontworryletspracticejihoo242
      @dontworryletspracticejihoo242 8 лет назад +1

      +Gay Vlogs Vtrans cảm ơn bạn nha 😊

  • @isomlarryis
    @isomlarryis 6 лет назад +1

    Awee

  • @PUAlum
    @PUAlum Год назад

    Were you trying to say something? I gave up after 1:20. I suggest in future you jump on the point faster. Especially if what your saying is to help others. Blessings.

  • @shawnbell9876
    @shawnbell9876 4 года назад

    Awww baby Dion I know how it feels I was raped if I could meet you I'd hug you

  • @motherofseven8403
    @motherofseven8403 6 лет назад

    I’m sorry that this happened to us but we are still here so they didn’t brake us.

  • @MrGOZATELO
    @MrGOZATELO 7 лет назад +2

    TRULLY BRO WITH ALL DO RESPECT, I WAS ALL GOOD UNTILL YOU GOT TO LADY GAGA... BYE

    • @rdbran2507
      @rdbran2507 5 лет назад

      Bah hahahaha....this was my response.
      "FAKE CRYING!! Give me a break!! So unbelievable...not even good acting skills. Trying to get attention. Drama QUEEN!! 1st Funny: Giving props to Lady Gaga. 2nd Funny: You are NOT bi-sexual! Bah hahahaha"

  • @fayyfayyy
    @fayyfayyy 7 лет назад +1

    Wow

  • @jonmintz37
    @jonmintz37 Год назад

    I know

  • @hamhuan5374
    @hamhuan5374 7 лет назад

    Tội Dion quá :(((

  • @mattilahde5220
    @mattilahde5220 2 года назад

    I know a 16 year old boy has been sexually abused for 8 years by countless men. I'm trying to get him to realize that he is a victim but he's not even close to that point.
    He is now a prostite and run from home last week. I don't know him that well and I have no idea what to say to him. I was having sex with adults when I was 16. My friends started at 14 years. But this boy was a small child when he's friends father started to abuse him. I have no idea how to deal with all this

  • @itsmiahtime
    @itsmiahtime 6 лет назад

    #Me2

  • @linhto0402
    @linhto0402 7 лет назад

    😭😭😭

  • @huyenbang8412
    @huyenbang8412 8 лет назад

    là s z các bn

  • @tonygilder7912
    @tonygilder7912 5 лет назад

    drama queen

  • @josiefarrell2101
    @josiefarrell2101 3 года назад

    Sorry, But I believe that your real sexual abuse started way earlier than that, and probably at home. Either you suppressed it or you’re In denial. It’s been my experience that rape or any other sexual abuse experienced by strangers was not the victim’s first experience. Predators have a tendency to SMELL or detect somehow their victims. Most sexually abused victims are incapable of reporting or exposing their real predators at home because they were made believe that they participated or contributed to the abuse. But parent-pedophiles are the ones abusing their children in the name of love. If this happened to you before you were violated, you will never heal emotionally until you face the complete truth. Be brave!

  • @q-filmfly2057
    @q-filmfly2057 8 лет назад

    lạm dụng có j kinh khủng đâu nhỉ. bình thuờng nhất vs bạn nam ^^

    • @gayvlogsvtrans6894
      @gayvlogsvtrans6894  8 лет назад +3

      Bạn không thấy kinh khủng vì bạn không phải là nạn nhân. Đó không phải là người yêu, càng không phải là người mà bạn quen biết, nhân lúc bạn say rồi xâm hại bạn. Đó không phải là vấn đề sao? Chưa kể chuyện không biết có bị bệnh truyền nhiễm hay không nhưng là 1 thằng con trai mà bị thằng con trai khác làm như vậy không gọi là kinh khủng thì gọi là gì? Không lẽ bởi vì ở nam không có cái "để mất" như nữ thì dù có quan hệ với ai cũng là bình thường sao bạn?

    • @q-filmfly2057
      @q-filmfly2057 8 лет назад

      +Gay Vlogs Vtrans 😯😢😨 bạn nói mình ms nghĩ. hazz cảm ơn bạn đã trả lời mih. hic hic

    • @lk-oe5cq
      @lk-oe5cq 8 лет назад +1

      hình như bạn nghĩ đơn giản quá rồi, lạm dụng tức là ko phải tình nguyện về tinh thần lẫn thể xác, đó đã là sự giày vò rồi, mà nam bị ko chỉ có "đút vào" rồi "sung sướng" như bạn nghĩ đâu, mà còn bị hành hạ ở phía sau, đau đớn lắm

    • @Miesndd
      @Miesndd 8 лет назад

      bạn biết cảm giác đó là gì không? đau đớn, sợ hãi, trống rỗng và đáng sợ nhất là nỗi cô đơn chiếm lấy tâm trí bạn khi đêm xuống. sự dằn vặt cắn xé bạn, dù là 10 năm hay 20 năm sau bạn vẫn sẽ không thể quên đi, không thể xóa bỏ cảm giác tồi tệ đó. kinh khủng hơn nữa là ám ảnh đến nỗi luôn bài xích khi người yêu muốn chạm vào, muốn gần gũi với bạn. khi xem GaGa biểu diễn Till it happen to you tôi cũng giống như cậu ấy, bao nhiêu năm trôi qua rồi, cảm giác đáng sợ ấy vẫn y nguyên...

    • @vinhnhac2446
      @vinhnhac2446 7 лет назад

      Đợi đến khi bạn trở thành một trong số những nạn nhân bị lạm dụng, bạn sẽ biết điều đó kinh khủng đến mức nào.

  • @Jamieishere1
    @Jamieishere1 6 лет назад

    It's my honest opinion that a significant portion of, if not the majority of, the detrimental effects this had on you are a result of how society treats sexually, particularly when it comes to minors, rather than those effects being intrinsic to the experience. People say minors are too easily influenced to consent but the more true that is, the more impactful the stigma proliferated by society is on how they conceptualise their romantic liaisons (coerced or otherwise).
    15 year olds "stroke the monkey" and in the UK more than a third have actually lost their v before they're 16 (Godeau et al., 2008, Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine, 162(1), 66-73). Obviously there are plenty of genuine rapes and without knowing the specifics of your situation I can't have an informed opinion on the level of coercion involved, though I'm commenting as above because I dislike the tendency to attribute an absolute degree of malevolence to the alleged perpetrator by default in these cases (not necessarily by you as that doesn't seem to be your emphasis).

  • @rdbran2507
    @rdbran2507 6 лет назад +1

    Drama Queen!

  • @rdbran2507
    @rdbran2507 5 лет назад +1

    FAKE CRYING!! Give me a break!! So unbelievable...not even good acting skills. Trying to get attention. Drama QUEEN!! 1st Funny: Giving props to Lady Gaga. 2nd Funny: You are NOT bi-sexual! Bah hahahaha

    • @isiscall7325
      @isiscall7325 5 лет назад +2

      He isn't fake crying , and if you can only say something mean don't say it at all.

    • @Meelzdiva
      @Meelzdiva 5 лет назад +2

      Get lost u fucking creep

    • @steamedlobster6754
      @steamedlobster6754 3 года назад

      Go away jerk

  • @lindaknownaslollyorpopsmct2
    @lindaknownaslollyorpopsmct2 7 лет назад +5

    sorry i can't watch this..i suffered at the hands of someone yrs ago.
    😭😭 no i just can't sorry huni.