The school should be held accountable. How do you hire a teacher that just got fired for molesting a child. They should be sued. His parents were absent
This man is a walking billboard for if an adult takes an unusual interest in your child’s life then something is not right about that. This is 100% no exceptions.
Yes, but it also severely taints the intentions of adults who are looking to mentor kids, too. I clicked with a kid at a residential where I worked. He was so broken and just wanted connection, so we talked a lot. We played video games during free time and I would talk to him a lot in the common area. I'd take him to the horse barn for therapy. There was NEVER EVER a thought of inappropriate behavior on either end (he's gay...) But someone started spreading rumors that we were sexually involved (which made no sense because we were never alone, always other staff around and cameras). It got me fired, despite it just being nasty rumors spread by a staff who didn't like me.
@@cheril8891 It depends. There is unhealthy interest, and there is focused interest. Coaches take a focused interest in kids who are going to excel in their sport. Tv producers take a focused interest in kids who are going to sell their product. In that context, 'too much interest' is seen as producting their investment and helping the child to succeed. Unhealthy interest is NOT the same thing, consistently requesting time alone, or 'secrets' or persistent physical contact, or inappriopiate conversations etc. Bottom line is I don't think taking an interest in seeing a young student do well who came from a troubled background and helping them as they deal with things in life is wrong. Of course, when a machine is invented that can read minds to determine whether an adult has sexual interest in children, then we can use that.
@@cheril8891 I don't think so, often people that could not or ended up not having children and maybe don't have any nephews, especially elderly people, really like to be around kids. I've seen it with my eyes, my aunt became close friend with this man who lived alone with his mom and use to leave my cousin there overnight, and sometimes me and my sister too. My aunt didn't have much money at the time and worked a lot, the man was a real angel he bought my cousin toys that she couldn't have had otherwise and he and his mom were the kindest people ever. But I completely get what you're saying, I think there's much more consciousness nowadays about how widespread sexual assault is, so even though nothing happened and I have the sweetest memories of that house, now that I'm grown it really shocks me that my aunt and especially my mom that barely knew the guy (my aunt's family lived in a different city) allowed us to just stay there overnight, so many bad things could have happened. No way I'm taking those kinds of risks if I'll have children. Even though exceptions exist is definitely not worth taking the risk considering that the whole life of a harmless kid could be completely ruined. My boyfriend told me that a (male) friend of his brother offered to babysit his kids (3 and 5 years old) for free. No matter how close that friend of mine is I'm not leaving my 5 years old kid with a man who's not family or a professional on a weekly basis, and even for a professional I will always pick a woman (yes women can do it too but is FAR less common so lest's not be hypocrites). Especially if a child is 3 years old and can barely talk I'd be EXTRA careful, they're extremely vulnerable. Saving some money is not worth potentially ruining your kid's life
@Bubbles Butterfly It's one thing to have an interest in that child to succeed, where the adult holds themselves accountable and is in communication to the parents, etc. It's another to have interest and take them to locations privately after school activities, alone. There's a difference and parents need to be vigilant.
Mr. Glover, I have the strength to listen to the women's story, their stories are so much like my own, but as I began to hear your story strength left me, my heart immediately broke, and my eyes filled with tears. I do pray you will know that there are women like me who admire you and never lose respect for you, and for all men no matter what their lives become, we always love and always believe in you all.
Thank youuuu!!! I've been needing to hear a woman say that for YEARS! Many men are hurting too...but your the first woman to ever have empathy for us. Thank you thank you thank you.
Hi Guerry, My name is Betsy & l too was assaulted as a child, but not by a teacher, but by my eldest brother, 7 & a half years my senior. I was 5 & l cried & screamed & begged my mother for help, but she denied my reality & the rapes continued for 8 years, until he left for college. It took me until my late 20s to self destruct enough to get therapy & admit what had happened to me. You tell your story with such awareness, it's obvious you've done a lot of work to heal. My heart goes out to you & all the boys that this man disregarded & disrespected in order to feed his sickness. I worry for children a great deal because l know that pedophiles are rampant everywhere in this world & l pray that we will find a way to stop the cycle. I'm so sorry that you endured his abuse & wish you every possible good, as well as healing. Love to you & all of the boys that survived him.
Have you anything to say besides a smear of sarcasm? And that done for some thumbs up from fellow smirkers...another form of darkness to a survivor. Say something nice, can you?
It is astonishing how many times his parents let him down, didn't protect him, and kept handing him back to the abuser. And that school needs to be shut down.
Barbie: His parents were IMO...lazy and put way too much trust in the abuser/sexual predator, school and teachers. With that said, I want to know what drugs and or alcohol were the parents doing all these years? Any parent in their right mind would see their child’s suffering.
I say get a few together and give the creep a severe dose of reality for what he done, then deal with the cops later, because i doubt you would get the chance again. But that was Guerry's story and what a story it was, what a wonderful man Guerry is! I absolutely admire his courage and endurance to come all the way through it.
@@RBLong0928 I mean parents. A principal or a priest are not law enforcement. They should not be making any decisions about what to do to a pedophile. Only law enforcement.
@@RBLong0928 molliemollie wasn't suggesting the CHILD go to the police. She's saying the PARENTS need to report it to the police since schools are known to hide sexual predator teachers or coaches.
Law enforcement is no help. They are are pedophiles as well and are in the perfect position to turn a blind eye to other pedophiles or give the bastards a slap on the wrist
I think they are scared they will get the wrong person in trouble and ruin their lives, and thevabusers family life. So if they deny it, there is no trouble, no change in the status quo.
Hope you are able to heal from what this evil monster did to you and your friends. I felt the same way after my brother molested me. You are a hero to tell and try to stop him!
You can live the rest of your life knowing that your bravery has helped heal the other victims and you have been a savoir of the potential victims of his. I wish you all the best in life 💖
Guerry, at 9 years old You were still a baby, forgive Yourself, You are love by GOD, the drinking was to excape the madness, it is a suicidal spirit, but GOD wants You to live and help others, Pray, study Your bible and love Your enemies. And let GOD deal with enemies. Be at peace, Shalom !
Thank you ! I was also sexually abused by a male . When I spoke to a therapist I was mortified to share that I enjoyed the feeling of having myself inside of his mouth .Ar the same time I had an intuitive feeling that it was WRONG! Thank you for releasing the beach ball!
That’s where the shame comes in, the body is made to respond to this kind of contact, which in turn causes such shame. And that is what torments the victim 😢 and in many cases prevents us from speaking about it.
Hi I am proud of you. I was a victim and I am a survivor because God washed away all the hurt and pain. I never got Justice as far as court, however I forgave my abuser and give the person over to God the pain is gone and I am free!!! SO sorry you are still hurting. It was satan who try to tear your life apart. But your still standing. Pray trust God he will heal the pain. Hugs your in my prayers!!
godskidable I can’t really understand how can you forgive a animal like that, my abuser, I just think about him as a animal, because it is not a person.
I could forgive, but justice demands punishment. Especially to put these incurables away so they can't hurt anyone else. I will say, if anyone touches my granddaughter, God Himself won't be able to save their life.
Guerry, wow...thank you. Our stories are so similar. My attacker was the band director. 1979-80. The US Supreme Court read the case in the 0ct.'88 term. Kids should have the right to attend school in safety. Lotta good that did. It was sent back down through the system. He was hired in my small hometown after a neighboring district fired him for the same cruel behaviors, which they knew about pre-hire. He was given just probation, responsibility for SOME court costs which he did NOT pay & community service - which HE got to choose for himself. He chose to give private music lessons which is where his abuse began with me. Thirty-eight yrs later, he gets arrested yet again, just this March past. His arrest photo was in my hometown paper. But, I think he must be a free man bc his bail was only $75,000, which means he had to post only $7,500 to get out. Easy for him, he opened a music store to sell instruments & the like & to also give private lessons in order to fulfill his community service. He never stopped in all these decades even though I was not the only one who sued. And, our justice system hasn't stopped him either, thanks to Covid-19. He's been free as long as we have been on lockdown. Sounds eerily familiar. If anybody sees this, & cares, plz pray for justice. Isn't it past time?
I cried listening to your story. I'm so very sorry that pretty much EVERYONE failed you. Please go have a good life. You deserve everything good to happen for you now. I hope you find peace.
What an amazing, beautiful strong man I am so grateful you made it and so sorry for your pain. Unbelievable to hear the monster followed you to your next school. You are a remarkable man.
I’m a 54-year-old guy who, at 15, spent 4 months on a psychiatric ward. I was the only boy, amongst 5 other girls (and other adults) when I arrived. My reason for being there had nothing to do with sexual abuse, but for some there (including a girl on another ward whom I also befriended) it was. I learned to care for all them, and they loved having me there from the moment I showed up. But the whole experience did something to me that I wouldn’t fully understand, until later in life when I had my spiritual awakening at 45. I eventually sought out a dear friend from that place, whose last name I still remembered, and I found her! While inadvertently triggering her awakening in the process. Long story short, we have remained in touch ever since (10 years now!). She is a scientist, yes, a scientist! She had overcome her demons and got into science in her late 20s. I tell this story for any survivors out there. You are loved, and you can thrive!!! ♥️🙏🏻✌️
I won't forgive and I can't forget. I hate the person who abused me and I hate my mothet for protecting him. It has damaged me, however I'm a survivor. I'm stronger then they are and always will be. I have Morales, something they never had and never will have.
Girl you are the type of person i know that great things will happen and maybe are happening in ur life now. Gods always with you and im not this amazing Christian girl but believing is seeing. When u ask God for guidance i know from experience he hears you. So my sweet Amy Evens,you are brave and i know from reading a paragraph of yours i would def love 2 be your friend. Good luck my friend. Keep being a brave survivor. Love you girl.
@@plutonicfireball1559 Thank you for your kindness. You have given me a fresh perspective a new way of looking at myself in that way. For a long time I've just been a survivor but I've always wanted to find a way to start living. Peace, Love and Health to you, your family and your friends.
Dear sister, please don't allow hate to rule your life. Your anger is righteous, and it often protects us during times of crisis...for a time. Then, it begins to destroy you. By allowing the hate that was transferred from your abuser onto you, you are allowing him to continue to control your life. Forgiveness is not about excusing the evil behavior that was done to you. It is about setting yourself free from the chains of anger, resentment, and hurt. Anger is a surface emotion, and it covers up what is really there: hurt, frustration, betrayal, sadness. I am a survivor as well, and I promise you that your anger is keeping you from TRULY connecting and loving others. You may think that you are OK, but if you're still angry, you will never find peace. My anger destroyed my life for many years. I am currently watching it happen to my beloved niece, who hates her mother so much that she doesn't trust anyone, she drinks heavily, and she pushes away the people who love her the most. When we invite her to come and just hang out with us, she becomes angry, thinking that we're "guilt-tripping" her for not seeing us often enough, so she hurts when given love! We tell her that an invitation is not a guilt trip; it's simply an invitation! But her rage toward her mother has become rage and distrust of the entire world. Please understand that I am saying this with loving concern. Unchain yourself from the anger. Don't let him win. I love you and I hope you at least think about what I've said.
Guerry Glover, what a good man you are to have gone to lawyer, Gregg Myers, to start working for equal consideration and justice for all young people who were abused--and stopping others from becoming among the already abused. That was very brave and decent of you.
Parents, YOU and only YOU are responsible for the well-being of your child. If your child has issues then you seek help, but YOU need to be the source of help to implement that. You should supervise those around them. Especially if you child begins to act out. Then something is seriously wrong. And you don't pass that issue on to others to deal with. Maybe they were naive. But you have to know they were not connected to their child's emotional well-being. Out of touch is a very dangerous place to be with your kids. Sexual predators can see and sense that a mile away and they prey on that. Know what grooming is and teach your children how the predators work. Also helping your child to have healthy self esteem and clear boundaries, this will protect them. And them knowing that if someone hurts them in anyway they are not responsible and they can come to you for protection. And you will help them deal with it. And dont just end the abuse but help and validate the child. PLEASE STAY IN TOUCH WITH THEM DAILY.
My love to you, Mr. Glover. My father molested six of my sisters. I had a big mouth and would blurt things out, so I think that's why I was not molested. He only beat me to near unconsciousness on a regular basis. Once, for two or three tense moments, he put his pistol to my forehead. He cocked it. We stared at each other for what seemed like eternity and I could see my death in the reflection of his eyes. I could clearly see him struggling with his desire to pull the trigger, probably thinking "jail" or "prison" holding him back. His eyes were jet black, his face was beet red. My mother intervened and that's the only reason I'm still alive. I was 11 years old. You see, he wanted a boy and I was the last child born, a girl. In retrospect, I sometimes think had he pulled the trigger I would have been much better off. He was an animal, perverted and angry.
Thank you for sharing your story. I was married to a man who was sexually abused as a child. Unfortunately he never got help and we divorced due to his promiscuous behavior with women. I believe this was to prove his masculinity to himself. Sad.
That sounds like such a horrific set of circumstances & experiences that I'm amazed that he got through it. Not only survived but looks to have built a stable & productive life. & look at how hard he fought for other potential victims. Incredible.
You are a hero for stopping this monster. An absolute hero. The people who hid and protected this guy in his crimes bear such guilt. You are one strong guy. If you haven’t found Jesus yet please know that He can heal you completely.
Wow! Thanks for sharing. After so much pain having the courage to be open and help so many it is amazing. We all need to be aware in protecting the children around us.
Guerry I can hear the pain in ur words. I'm not gonna say what should of happened different or how people should of helped, because u already know that. But hey ur stronger then ever helping those who might be going threw the same thing. Helping others is wat really makes a difference. I'm glad u let the beach ball go....
Mr. Clover thank you for coming out and taking a stand , not just after the perv but the school leaders. I was sexually abused by a family member all my young life. No adults believed, the teachers said yes we believe , but there's nothing we can do. In 1974 I started running away from home. I just want to say thank you for calling out adults who deny and or cover sexual abuse. You are a hero.
As a survivor, I've had talks with my kids....halfway through this, I had another one with them. I never want them to feel they have no where to turn to. 💔
I wanted to thank you for the first comment I've read, from someone that seems to understand that the problem stopping these offenders quickly, is often the victims of the abuse not feeling they have anyone they can turn to and speak openly about what has happened. Many of the other commentors, seem clueless that it's the society we live in, making it so hard for survivors to speak up.
I’m amazed at the failure of adults in these stories. Why on God’s green earth after learning Fisher was a pedophile fire him! He’s a sick dude send him to prison! Call law enforcement are you kidding me?
This is the reality of the so-called "good old days". All this stuff went on, but it was covered up and denied and people saw it and did nothing. And today, finally, it gets dragged out in the open and the perpetrators are finally getting punished. Finally.
We need to change the name from sexual abuse to something more telling. Abuse sounds tame for the outcome that victims endure. What people who haven't been victimized don't know is that being sexually victimized once or over and over has life altering effects on EVERYTHING. Imagine a glass vase filled with pebbles. Fill that vase with water. Every surface of every pebble is touched by water. That's what sexual abuse does to a victim's life. It touches, alters, changes, breaks, ruins and devastates everything you are and were. The damage is so encompassing that it leaves a shell of a person behind. I'm sorry this happened to you Guerry. You were robbed of your childhood AND your adulthood just because someone thought that what they wanted was more important than your life and soul. I'm 63 and my life is a train wreck due to a pedophile. I hope you find resolution in knowing that you did the right thing and stopped him and I hope you find yourself. ♥️
Beautiful said....the terminology needs to be changed. It's a living hell. It changes everything. I'm so sorry you have endured this sick abuse. My freaking heart....
Thank you for your bravery to take on this mammoth. Society as a whole puts this kind of man on a medestal, and they attack anyone who breaks their illusion. You were up against a community. May there be more people like you in the world. Peace and love.
This man is incredible. He deserves apologies from every person who had any influence or power in his life. Imagine all the children who would have been saved if any one had paid attention to him or listened once he had the strength to speak out. What courage and determination!
What is huge is Mr. Glover's courage, tenacity and his will to prevent this to happen to one more child is the greatest example of humanity and respect for every single soul. Thank you Mr. Glover, your story gives me courage to be a better human being. I feel love listening to your voice.
Guerry, I hope you’re still thriving and you see my comment. This is one of the most courageous things I have heard. Inspiring. Finding an obstacle at every turn and persisting. Never giving up over years and years. I’ll never forget your story. You, warrior, got the job done.
I can tell you are still so full of pain and thankful you survived and are sharing this. I am a middle school teacher who grew up innocent and protected, loved, all that, and realize I am so naïve about these things. As a mom, I’ve tried to pay attention & protect my own children but think how easily these awful things still happen to kids. I’ll protect my students anyway I can.
I don't know why...but men's stories are so much more painful to me. As much shame and pain as there is for us as women, there is another facet of shame for the boys and men.
I feel like women deal with fear of not being believed or killed, and men deal with fear of those things, AND being seen as gay, or worse, people thinking you are sexually attracted to kids.
You're so brave and strong to be telling your story. I'm so sorry and so angry that this happened to you. I truly believe that the monster who hurt you, and those like him, are worse than murderers.
I can understand and relate so much to this. The predators look for kids that have nice parents. Its like a sixth sense to them.They also look for cracks in families and prey on them. I don't blame you one tiny bit for drinking! I would too. I had a drinking problem later on age 21-26. It was a slow death. But drinking sure helped me get through some serious crap. I am so sorry for your childhood! You have a world of support and empathy. You are helping so many people. You are so brave. A truly beautiful person! PS I love your science project. Thats so awesome!!!
Guerry, thank you for your courage in speaking about this and making a video. I have a comment concerning your parents. I think it is extremely odd that parents would take so little interest in finding out what is going on with their son and instead pretty much hand over parental responsibilities to a non-family member. In listening to your story, I felt a great deal of anger towards your parents who seemed to take no interest in what was happening. I feel they should have been a big part of your healing journey and instead, you don't mention them. This, to me, says that they have their own history with childhood sexual abuse. In my own journey of healing the pain of such abuse, the role of my parents was a big factor and I realized just how much anger I felt towards them for not protecting me. In the words of my therapist, "There is no such thing as a non-offending parent. The unwillingness of parents to protect their children is an offense."
I’m a mom and a teacher. Mr. Fischer and the ones in charge knew and who allowed this to happen sicken me to my core. You have brought tears to my eyes. Your story is so important. It shouldn’t be forgotten because it will happen again somewhere else. Awareness is powerful. Thank you for bringing these monsters to justice, even though your lives have been changed forever. Many prayers for you and other victims today and in the future.
You courageous man. I am so deeply sorry that this happened to you. I have never been through what you have endured, but I am trying to love and support a man who has. Thank you for helping me to understand better. Thank you for sharing your incredibly difficult story. Love from Australia.
🌿Thank you, Sir, for your courage, and for being such a beautiful person, a beautiful man! May your story encourage many others who see your video, to speak up asap, if they're experiencing something like you experienced, or something similar. You're absolutely right, sparing "EVEN ONE" person from abuse, makes a HUGE DIFFERENCE. And you were...and ARE...that difference! Yahweh, God Mightily Bless You in your life. And all of those you Love as well. In Yeshua's Holy Name. Amen.👑 Elise, aka Godgirl
Why are so many parents so damn naive... I blame the parents totally...You are the parent and you should never trust your children around anyone and not let oldest kids be around your small children period.
As a survivor of abuse, I know the threats that are inflicted on the victims and the fear they live with of the abuse continuing and the pain of not being believed by those who love you. What sickens me is when it finally surfaces and the knowing adults stand by and do nothing in fear of losing their job while the child is in fear of losing their sanity and/or life.
I think lots of times, we see people drinking or taking drugs and we judge them, but we don't realize that often they need to use these substances to ease their pain.
I am sorry Guerry suffered as long as he did. I am hopeful his life is filled with happiness and love. I spit on Eddie Fischer (although he is not living...thank goodness) and the school. Very best wishes Guerry.
I hate the way survivors of abuse have to learn and deal with the abuse and that it doesn't just heal alone. They have to deal with the abuse and then they have to fix themselves.
Wow, if you can stop the ripples of one child, how profound. And truly is huge. God bless and so sorry for you but so glad you have a voice now and are being heard. And thank God for that lawyer...
Thank You for your bravery and confront of that evil person. The executives should have went to prison too. May you live a long and happy life. You have helped so many people by coming forward and persisting.
God bless u for your courage! People need to hear the truth....these evil predators need to be stopped ...1 in 4 girls and 1in 6 boys are sexually abused. Their perceived shame keeps them from facing it. No shame for any of you....only great respect!
This man should write a book. I have so many questions... His parents' reactions. How did his life turn out? Did he marry? Is he homosexual? Asexual? I cannot imagine how horrific this was.
This should be a wake up call to many parents to watch out for those wolves who pretend to be helpful to children when they are secretly doing disspeakable activities with these children and ruin their lives forever. It is even worse when it is done by the "parent , "who is supposed to protect these children. I have not experienced this kind of pain but I respectfully admire adult as well as children who come out and speak about their painful experiences. It is not easy to come out and tell the world such a story but you do. You are heroes. Your stories help many people around the world. May God give you total healing as he has given you courage.
I can see that this still affects you deeply, and that it is very difficult to talk about. I can see how it would have been impossible for your younger self to say anything then. I pray that you will truly be free and that this chain is broken off of you. I'm so sorry, and also so proud of you for being able to tell your story. May you TRULY come to the knowledge of the love that the True God of the Bible (meaning not the one you've been taught about, but the one that the Bible actually reveals) and your healing in and through Him. Peace to you, Guerry.
Your testimony is amazing. I also was victimized as a child, told the right person, who in turn did nothing. As a survivor I found myself exposing abuse of others throughout my life. At first they resented the exposure. Later they thanked me. It’s a terrible thing for anyone to deal with. These sins can be justly brought into the light by the weak and the brave alike. Sometimes justice prevails! God bless you and those who endured and escaped the damaging influences of this man.
The school should be held accountable. How do you hire a teacher that just got fired for molesting a child. They should be sued. His parents were absent
EXACTLY. They must all be punished. The parents as well.
Amen!
This man is a walking billboard for if an adult takes an unusual interest in your child’s life then something is not right about that. This is 100% no exceptions.
Yes, but it also severely taints the intentions of adults who are looking to mentor kids, too. I clicked with a kid at a residential where I worked. He was so broken and just wanted connection, so we talked a lot. We played video games during free time and I would talk to him a lot in the common area. I'd take him to the horse barn for therapy. There was NEVER EVER a thought of inappropriate behavior on either end (he's gay...) But someone started spreading rumors that we were sexually involved (which made no sense because we were never alone, always other staff around and cameras). It got me fired, despite it just being nasty rumors spread by a staff who didn't like me.
@@christinag.7801 It's not normal for an adult non parent to take too much interest in a child. At all.
@@cheril8891 It depends. There is unhealthy interest, and there is focused interest. Coaches take a focused interest in kids who are going to excel in their sport. Tv producers take a focused interest in kids who are going to sell their product. In that context, 'too much interest' is seen as producting their investment and helping the child to succeed.
Unhealthy interest is NOT the same thing, consistently requesting time alone, or 'secrets' or persistent physical contact, or inappriopiate conversations etc.
Bottom line is I don't think taking an interest in seeing a young student do well who came from a troubled background and helping them as they deal with things in life is wrong.
Of course, when a machine is invented that can read minds to determine whether an adult has sexual interest in children, then we can use that.
@@cheril8891 I don't think so, often people that could not or ended up not having children and maybe don't have any nephews, especially elderly people, really like to be around kids. I've seen it with my eyes, my aunt became close friend with this man who lived alone with his mom and use to leave my cousin there overnight, and sometimes me and my sister too. My aunt didn't have much money at the time and worked a lot, the man was a real angel he bought my cousin toys that she couldn't have had otherwise and he and his mom were the kindest people ever. But I completely get what you're saying, I think there's much more consciousness nowadays about how widespread sexual assault is, so even though nothing happened and I have the sweetest memories of that house, now that I'm grown it really shocks me that my aunt and especially my mom that barely knew the guy (my aunt's family lived in a different city) allowed us to just stay there overnight, so many bad things could have happened. No way I'm taking those kinds of risks if I'll have children. Even though exceptions exist is definitely not worth taking the risk considering that the whole life of a harmless kid could be completely ruined. My boyfriend told me that a (male) friend of his brother offered to babysit his kids (3 and 5 years old) for free. No matter how close that friend of mine is I'm not leaving my 5 years old kid with a man who's not family or a professional on a weekly basis, and even for a professional I will always pick a woman (yes women can do it too but is FAR less common so lest's not be hypocrites). Especially if a child is 3 years old and can barely talk I'd be EXTRA careful, they're extremely vulnerable. Saving some money is not worth potentially ruining your kid's life
@Bubbles Butterfly It's one thing to have an interest in that child to succeed, where the adult holds themselves accountable and is in communication to the parents, etc. It's another to have interest and take them to locations privately after school activities, alone. There's a difference and parents need to be vigilant.
I can hear such pain in voice still. So sad. He's having trouble even finishing a sentence about it.
Mr. Glover, I have the strength to listen to the women's story, their stories are so much like my own, but as I began to hear your story strength left me, my heart immediately broke, and my eyes filled with tears. I do pray you will know that there are women like me who admire you and never lose respect for you, and for all men no matter what their lives become, we always love and always believe in you all.
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Thank youuuu!!! I've been needing to hear a woman say that for YEARS! Many men are hurting too...but your the first woman to ever have empathy for us. Thank you thank you thank you.
Hi Guerry, My name is Betsy & l too was assaulted as a child, but not by a teacher, but by my eldest brother, 7 & a half years my senior. I was 5 & l cried & screamed & begged my mother for help, but she denied my reality & the rapes continued for 8 years, until he left for college. It took me until my late 20s to self destruct enough to get therapy & admit what had happened to me.
You tell your story with such awareness, it's obvious you've done a lot of work to heal. My heart goes out to you & all the boys that this man disregarded & disrespected in order to feed his sickness. I worry for children a great deal because l know that pedophiles are rampant everywhere in this world & l pray that we will find a way to stop the cycle.
I'm so sorry that you endured his abuse & wish you every possible good, as well as healing. Love to you & all of the boys that survived him.
I had a boyfriend who was molested by a coach when he was young. It affected his whole life
The school administrators need to pay too. Why aren’t they in jail?
@Isis Antelo. These pedophiles are organized. Maybe all the administrators were in on it.
Happened to my brother and to the day, he is a recovering alcoholic with a lot f issues. God bless him.
Eddie Fischer is now known to almost 28,000 more people because of your strong testimony.
My thing is why would a school let a teacher like that into another school , knowing what he has done at the previous school putting more kids at risk
He still seems almost speechless
I agree... He is choking on his words it seems.
Uncomfortable
True. His speech still seems guarded.
And making excuses for why he couldn’t stop the abuse. As if he had a choice. I feel for him
Have you anything to say besides a smear of sarcasm? And that done for some thumbs up from fellow smirkers...another form of darkness to a survivor. Say something nice, can you?
This man's parents are equally responsible for his plight, how could they not see their son was having serious issues?
Stop blaming the parents !!
Barbie who else is there to blame aside from the abuser???
It is astonishing how many times his parents let him down, didn't protect him, and kept handing him back to the abuser. And that school needs to be shut down.
Barbie: His parents were IMO...lazy and put way too much trust in the abuser/sexual predator, school and teachers. With that said, I want to know what drugs and or alcohol were the parents doing all these years? Any parent in their right mind would see their child’s suffering.
Parents concentrate on the other (good) kids
There should be NO talking to schools and churches about a pedophile !!! When anyone hurts a child CALL LAW ENFORCEMENT !!!!!
A child does not have the bravery to go to a cop. They should be able to trust the school or someone in the church.
I say get a few together and give the creep a severe dose of reality for what he done, then deal with the cops later, because i doubt you would get the chance again. But that was Guerry's story and what a story it was, what a wonderful man Guerry is! I absolutely admire his courage and endurance to come all the way through it.
@@RBLong0928 I mean parents. A principal or a priest are not law enforcement. They should not be making any decisions about what to do to a pedophile. Only law enforcement.
@@RBLong0928 molliemollie wasn't suggesting the CHILD go to the police. She's saying the PARENTS need to report it to the police since schools are known to hide sexual predator teachers or coaches.
Law enforcement is no help. They are are pedophiles as well and are in the perfect position to turn a blind eye to other pedophiles or give the bastards a slap on the wrist
This became a huge scandal, and Guerry is a brave man.
As one human to another, I’m so impressed with your bravery and courage. You are a warrior, Guerry! Thank you for your story.
why do adults turn a blind eye to helpless children.most children are so pure and beautiful.
because they are cowards
Veronica Morgan Because they are often secretly abusers themselves. Glass houses.
I think they are scared they will get the wrong person in trouble and ruin their lives, and thevabusers family life. So if they deny it, there is no trouble, no change in the status quo.
They're weak and selfish. They don't want to rock the boat. The Boomers have betrayed us.
ALL children are pure and beautiful
I feel so sorry for this poor man, This is a classic example of what has happened to so many people and had their lives ruined.
So many children have been treated like this and it seems so common. It is such a crime.
Hope you are able to heal from what this evil monster did to you and your friends. I felt the same way after my brother molested me. You are a hero to tell and try to stop him!
You can live the rest of your life knowing that your bravery has helped heal the other victims and you have been a savoir of the potential victims of his. I wish you all the best in life 💖
Guerry, at 9 years old You were still a baby, forgive Yourself, You are love by GOD, the drinking was to excape the madness, it is a suicidal spirit, but GOD wants You to live and help others, Pray, study Your bible and love Your enemies. And let GOD deal with enemies. Be at peace, Shalom !
Thank you !
I was also sexually abused by a male .
When I spoke to a therapist I was mortified to share that I enjoyed the feeling of having myself inside of his mouth .Ar the same time I had an intuitive feeling that it was WRONG!
Thank you for releasing the beach ball!
That’s where the shame comes in, the body is made to respond to this kind of contact, which in turn causes such shame. And that is what torments the victim 😢 and in many cases prevents us from speaking about it.
Guerry still cannot express fluently the magnitude of the evil doing from all those adult monsters.
Hi I am proud of you. I was a victim and I am a survivor because God washed away all the hurt and pain. I never got Justice as far as court, however I forgave my abuser and give the person over to God the pain is gone and I am free!!! SO sorry you are still hurting. It was satan who try to tear your life apart. But your still standing. Pray trust God he will heal the pain. Hugs your in my prayers!!
godskidable I can’t really understand how can you forgive a animal like that, my abuser, I just think about him as a animal, because it is not a person.
So where was God when the abuse was happening? He let it happen to an innocent but NOW he'll help? Do you not see an issue with that kind of thinking?
I could forgive, but justice demands punishment. Especially to put these incurables away so they can't hurt anyone else. I will say, if anyone touches my granddaughter, God Himself won't be able to save their life.
Yes. Only GOD can and he does
@@debbymccormack6525 God was there. He gave them red flags and they ignored them.
Guerry, wow...thank you. Our stories are so similar. My attacker was the band director. 1979-80. The US Supreme Court read the case in the 0ct.'88 term. Kids should have the right to attend school in safety. Lotta good that did. It was sent back down through the system. He was hired in my small hometown after a neighboring district fired him for the same cruel behaviors, which they knew about pre-hire. He was given just probation, responsibility for SOME court costs which he did NOT pay & community service - which HE got to choose for himself. He chose to give private music lessons which is where his abuse began with me. Thirty-eight yrs later, he gets arrested yet again, just this March past. His arrest photo was in my hometown paper. But, I think he must be a free man bc his bail was only $75,000, which means he had to post only $7,500 to get out. Easy for him, he opened a music store to sell instruments & the like & to also give private lessons in order to fulfill his community service. He never stopped in all these decades even though I was not the only one who sued. And, our justice system hasn't stopped him either, thanks to Covid-19. He's been free as long as we have been on lockdown. Sounds eerily familiar. If anybody sees this, & cares, plz pray for justice. Isn't it past time?
I think the government BACKS pedophiles.
Talk about a failed justice system.
What and why do these schools and churches keep these Degenerates around and given unending chances? Are they also guilty of the same perhaps?
The moment we enact Zero Tolerance for pedophiles, so much SUFFERING and substance use would be unnecessary!!!
Exactly. It's like is society gonna start giving these monsters the what they deserve??
I cried listening to your story. I'm so very sorry that pretty much EVERYONE failed you. Please go have a good life. You deserve everything good to happen for you now. I hope you find peace.
What an amazing, beautiful strong man I am so grateful you made it and so sorry for your pain. Unbelievable to hear the monster followed you to your next school. You are a remarkable man.
❤...love and strength to you....you are amazing!!
I’m a 54-year-old guy who, at 15, spent 4 months on a psychiatric ward. I was the only boy, amongst 5 other girls (and other adults) when I arrived. My reason for being there had nothing to do with sexual abuse, but for some there (including a girl on another ward whom I also befriended) it was. I learned to care for all them, and they loved having me there from the moment I showed up. But the whole experience did something to me that I wouldn’t fully understand, until later in life when I had my spiritual awakening at 45. I eventually sought out a dear friend from that place, whose last name I still remembered, and I found her! While inadvertently triggering her awakening in the process. Long story short, we have remained in touch ever since (10 years now!). She is a scientist, yes, a scientist! She had overcome her demons and got into science in her late 20s. I tell this story for any survivors out there. You are loved, and you can thrive!!! ♥️🙏🏻✌️
YES, we REALLY can!
I won't forgive and I can't forget. I hate the person who abused me and I hate my mothet for protecting him. It has damaged me, however I'm a survivor. I'm stronger then they are and always will be. I have Morales, something they never had and never will have.
Girl you are the type of person i know that great things will happen and maybe are happening in ur life now. Gods always with you and im not this amazing Christian girl but believing is seeing. When u ask God for guidance i know from experience he hears you. So my sweet Amy Evens,you are brave and i know from reading a paragraph of yours i would def love 2 be your friend. Good luck my friend. Keep being a brave survivor. Love you girl.
@@rachelroark2341 Thank you.
through this pain , look at the healer you are, bless you
@@plutonicfireball1559 Thank you for your kindness. You have given me a fresh perspective a new way of looking at myself in that way. For a long time I've just been a survivor but I've always wanted to find a way to start living. Peace, Love and Health to you, your family and your friends.
Dear sister, please don't allow hate to rule your life. Your anger is righteous, and it often protects us during times of crisis...for a time. Then, it begins to destroy you. By allowing the hate that was transferred from your abuser onto you, you are allowing him to continue to control your life. Forgiveness is not about excusing the evil behavior that was done to you. It is about setting yourself free from the chains of anger, resentment, and hurt. Anger is a surface emotion, and it covers up what is really there: hurt, frustration, betrayal, sadness. I am a survivor as well, and I promise you that your anger is keeping you from TRULY connecting and loving others. You may think that you are OK, but if you're still angry, you will never find peace. My anger destroyed my life for many years. I am currently watching it happen to my beloved niece, who hates her mother so much that she doesn't trust anyone, she drinks heavily, and she pushes away the people who love her the most. When we invite her to come and just hang out with us, she becomes angry, thinking that we're "guilt-tripping" her for not seeing us often enough, so she hurts when given love! We tell her that an invitation is not a guilt trip; it's simply an invitation! But her rage toward her mother has become rage and distrust of the entire world. Please understand that I am saying this with loving concern. Unchain yourself from the anger. Don't let him win. I love you and I hope you at least think about what I've said.
Good on you for fighting for your rights and the rights of others. You are amazing.
Guerry Glover, what a good man you are to have gone to lawyer, Gregg Myers, to start working for equal consideration and justice for all young people who were abused--and stopping others from becoming among the already abused. That was very brave and decent of you.
Parents, YOU and only YOU are responsible for the well-being of your child. If your child has issues then you seek help, but YOU need to be the source of help to implement that. You should supervise those around them. Especially if you child begins to act out. Then something is seriously wrong. And you don't pass that issue on to others to deal with. Maybe they were naive. But you have to know they were not connected to their child's emotional well-being. Out of touch is a very dangerous place to be with your kids. Sexual predators can see and sense that a mile away and they prey on that. Know what grooming is and teach your children how the predators work. Also helping your child to have healthy self esteem and clear boundaries, this will protect them. And them knowing that if someone hurts them in anyway they are not responsible and they can come to you for protection. And you will help them deal with it. And dont just end the abuse but help and validate the child. PLEASE STAY IN TOUCH WITH THEM DAILY.
Well done Guerry. You make so much sense.
I'm so proud of your for coming forward. You saved dozens of other boys and YOU ARE A HERO
Sir: Thanks for your courage to come out and tell your story. You have our respect.
My love to you, Mr. Glover. My father molested six of my sisters. I had a big mouth and would blurt things out, so I think that's why I was not molested. He only beat me to near unconsciousness on a regular basis. Once, for two or three tense moments, he put his pistol to my forehead. He cocked it. We stared at each other for what seemed like eternity and I could see my death in the reflection of his eyes. I could clearly see him struggling with his desire to pull the trigger, probably thinking "jail" or "prison" holding him back. His eyes were jet black, his face was beet red. My mother intervened and that's the only reason I'm still alive. I was 11 years old. You see, he wanted a boy and I was the last child born, a girl. In retrospect, I sometimes think had he pulled the trigger I would have been much better off. He was an animal, perverted and angry.
You saw an open window into his soul.
I hope it taught you something,
and that you have gone far
on your Journey of Self-Discovery.
Best wishes, Zen
Thank God you are still here with us and May God hold your heart and bring you all the way through this to the other side. 🥲
Thank you for sharing your story. I was married to a man who was sexually abused as a child. Unfortunately he never got help and we divorced due to his promiscuous behavior with women. I believe this was to prove his masculinity to himself. Sad.
That sounds like such a horrific set of circumstances & experiences that I'm amazed that he got through it. Not only survived but looks to have built a stable & productive life. & look at how hard he fought for other potential victims. Incredible.
You are a hero for stopping this monster. An absolute hero. The people who hid and protected this guy in his crimes bear such guilt. You are one strong guy. If you haven’t found Jesus yet please know that He can heal you completely.
Wow! Thanks for sharing. After so much pain having the courage to be open and help so many it is amazing. We all need to be aware in protecting the children around us.
I am so deeply inspired by this man's courage.
Jesus... that poor boy didn’t stand a chance
this man saved a child from the hell that he endured
Guerry I can hear the pain in ur words. I'm not gonna say what should of happened different or how people should of helped, because u already know that. But hey ur stronger then ever helping those who might be going threw the same thing. Helping others is wat really makes a difference. I'm glad u let the beach ball go....
Mr. Clover thank you for coming out and taking a stand , not just after the perv but the school leaders. I was sexually abused by a family member all my young life. No adults believed, the teachers said yes we believe , but there's nothing we can do. In 1974 I started running away from home.
I just want to say thank you for calling out adults who deny and or cover sexual abuse. You are a hero.
And thank you for all you did to free others who were abused by this man. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
As a survivor, I've had talks with my kids....halfway through this, I had another one with them. I never want them to feel they have no where to turn to. 💔
This, totally.
I wanted to thank you for the first comment I've read, from someone that seems to understand that the problem stopping these offenders quickly, is often the victims of the abuse not feeling they have anyone they can turn to and speak openly about what has happened. Many of the other commentors, seem clueless that it's the society we live in, making it so hard for survivors to speak up.
I’m amazed at the failure of adults in these stories. Why on God’s green earth after learning Fisher was a pedophile fire him! He’s a sick dude send him to prison! Call law enforcement are you kidding me?
So true&so sad! 😪
This is the reality of the so-called "good old days". All this stuff went on, but it was covered up and denied and people saw it and did nothing. And today, finally, it gets dragged out in the open and the perpetrators are finally getting punished. Finally.
Finally
We need to change the name from sexual abuse to something more telling. Abuse sounds tame for the outcome that victims endure. What people who haven't been victimized don't know is that being sexually victimized once or over and over has life altering effects on EVERYTHING. Imagine a glass vase filled with pebbles. Fill that vase with water. Every surface of every pebble is touched by water. That's what sexual abuse does to a victim's life. It touches, alters, changes, breaks, ruins and devastates everything you are and were. The damage is so encompassing that it leaves a shell of a person behind. I'm sorry this happened to you Guerry. You were robbed of your childhood AND your adulthood just because someone thought that what they wanted was more important than your life and soul. I'm 63 and my life is a train wreck due to a pedophile. I hope you find resolution in knowing that you did the right thing and stopped him and I hope you find yourself. ♥️
More like acid not water. But genuinely life altering.
Beautiful said....the terminology needs to be changed. It's a living hell. It changes everything. I'm so sorry you have endured this sick abuse. My freaking heart....
Thank you for your bravery to take on this mammoth. Society as a whole puts this kind of man on a medestal, and they attack anyone who breaks their illusion. You were up against a community. May there be more people like you in the world. Peace and love.
... Because as he is speaking it's causing him to relive, feel those years of abusive emotions all over again.
I can't even watch this no more I'm sick to my stomach at only three minutes into the video.. please what is going on in this world..
This man is incredible. He deserves apologies from every person who had any influence or power in his life. Imagine all the children who would have been saved if any one had paid attention to him or listened once he had the strength to speak out. What courage and determination!
What is huge is Mr. Glover's courage, tenacity and his will to prevent this to happen to one more child is the greatest example of humanity and respect for every single soul. Thank you Mr. Glover, your story gives me courage to be a better human being. I feel love listening to your voice.
Guerry, I hope you’re still thriving and you see my comment. This is one of the most courageous things I have heard. Inspiring. Finding an obstacle at every turn and persisting. Never giving up over years and years. I’ll never forget your story. You, warrior, got the job done.
Good Lord how does a child survive such abuse.
I can tell you are still so full of pain and thankful you survived and are sharing this. I am a middle school teacher who grew up innocent and protected, loved, all that, and realize I am so naïve about these things. As a mom, I’ve tried to pay attention & protect my own children but think how easily these awful things still happen to kids. I’ll protect my students anyway I can.
This man is amazing. Thanks God for that lawyer that helped him.
I don't know why...but men's stories are so much more painful to me. As much shame and pain as there is for us as women, there is another facet of shame for the boys and men.
your bravery and courage surely saved a child (if not many) from the same fate. Thank you for sharing
God bless you and heal you bringing into His light!
I feel like women deal with fear of not being believed or killed, and men deal with fear of those things, AND being seen as gay, or worse, people thinking you are sexually attracted to kids.
Well done Sir. You are resilient as hell.
You're so brave and strong to be telling your story. I'm so sorry and so angry that this happened to you. I truly believe that the monster who hurt you, and those like him, are worse than murderers.
Tmarie PI that’s why convicted murders kill them in prison.
I can understand and relate so much to this. The predators look for kids that have nice parents. Its like a sixth sense to them.They also look for cracks in families and prey on them. I don't blame you one tiny bit for drinking! I would too. I had a drinking problem later on age 21-26. It was a slow death. But drinking sure helped me get through some serious crap. I am so sorry for your childhood! You have a world of support and empathy. You are helping so many people. You are so brave. A truly beautiful person! PS I love your science project. Thats so awesome!!!
It's unreal how the world coddles pedophiles smh like why??!!
Teach children to speak up. 1 in 4 girls & 1 in 6 boys go through this he'll.
Guerry, thank you for your courage in speaking about this and making a video. I have a comment concerning your parents. I think it is extremely odd that parents would take so little interest in finding out what is going on with their son and instead pretty much hand over parental responsibilities to a non-family member. In listening to your story, I felt a great deal of anger towards your parents who seemed to take no interest in what was happening. I feel they should have been a big part of your healing journey and instead, you don't mention them. This, to me, says that they have their own history with childhood sexual abuse. In my own journey of healing the pain of such abuse, the role of my parents was a big factor and I realized just how much anger I felt towards them for not protecting me. In the words of my therapist, "There is no such thing as a non-offending parent. The unwillingness of parents to protect their children is an offense."
God Bless you! I feel your pain! I can hear it in your voice...big hug to you!
Thank you💔💗😞 your story is helping so many people understand what a child and as a adult now go through,stay strong, Prayers for you continuously❤
Dear sir, I can't watch this, my heart breaks for. You never deserved this evil from the monster. You are the winner. God bless you.
I’m a mom and a teacher. Mr. Fischer and the ones in charge knew and who allowed this to happen sicken me to my core. You have brought tears to my eyes. Your story is so important. It shouldn’t be forgotten because it will happen again somewhere else. Awareness is powerful. Thank you for bringing these monsters to justice, even though your lives have been changed forever. Many prayers for you and other victims today and in the future.
You courageous man. I am so deeply sorry that this happened to you. I have never been through what you have endured, but I am trying to love and support a man who has. Thank you for helping me to understand better. Thank you for sharing your incredibly difficult story. Love from Australia.
🌿Thank you, Sir, for your courage, and for being such a beautiful person, a beautiful man! May your story encourage many others who see your video, to speak up asap, if they're experiencing something like you experienced, or something similar. You're absolutely right, sparing "EVEN ONE" person from abuse, makes a HUGE DIFFERENCE. And you were...and ARE...that difference!
Yahweh, God Mightily Bless You in your life. And all of those you Love as well. In Yeshua's Holy Name. Amen.👑
Elise, aka Godgirl
Why are so many parents so damn naive... I blame the parents totally...You are the parent and you should never trust your children around anyone and not let oldest kids be around your small children period.
Where was this mans FATHER???
As a survivor of abuse, I know the threats that are inflicted on the victims and the fear they live with of the abuse continuing and the pain of not being believed by those who love you. What sickens me is when it finally surfaces and the knowing adults stand by and do nothing in fear of losing their job while the child is in fear of losing their sanity and/or life.
My heart breaks for you and the hell you endured. I hope you can heal.
I think lots of times, we see people drinking or taking drugs and we judge them, but we don't realize that often they need to use these substances to ease their pain.
I am sorry Guerry suffered as long as he did. I am hopeful his life is filled with happiness and love. I spit on Eddie Fischer (although he is not living...thank goodness) and the school. Very best wishes Guerry.
I hate the way survivors of abuse have to learn and deal with the abuse and that it doesn't just heal alone. They have to deal with the abuse and then they have to fix themselves.
Thank you for your relentless pursuit of Justice.. We will never know all of the affect your story has, but we know for sure it's alot. Brave man.
This poor guy! Sexual abuse ruins men and women! Protect your children’s innocence!! The system on every level failed this man.
I agree this poor guy if anyone touched my daughter or MY SON they would be fucked up seriously
Guerry is a very brave, courageous man. God bless him.
So sad this happened to you - Guerry You deserved better.
Wow, if you can stop the ripples of one child, how profound. And truly is huge. God bless and so sorry for you but so glad you have a voice now and are being heard. And thank God for that lawyer...
Thank You for your bravery and confront of that evil person. The executives should have went to prison too. May you live a long and happy life. You have helped so many people by coming forward and persisting.
God bless u for your courage! People need to hear the truth....these evil predators need to be stopped ...1 in 4 girls and 1in 6 boys are sexually abused. Their perceived shame keeps them from facing it. No shame for any of you....only great respect!
IT'S HARD FOR HIM TO EVEN TALK ABOUT IT.
I’m so happy that you are starting to heal , I think the most important thing for you to accept is that it wasn’t your fault
This man should write a book.
I have so many questions...
His parents' reactions.
How did his life turn out?
Did he marry?
Is he homosexual?
Asexual?
I cannot imagine how horrific this was.
The hurt in his eyes and the pain in his voice is so loud 😢 I’m so sorry this happened to you.
This should be a wake up call to many parents to watch out for those wolves who pretend to be helpful to children when they are secretly doing disspeakable activities with these children and ruin their lives forever. It is even worse when it is done by the "parent , "who is supposed to protect these children. I have not experienced this kind of pain but I respectfully admire adult as well as children who come out and speak about their painful experiences. It is not easy to come out and tell the world such a story but you do. You are heroes. Your stories help many people around the world. May God give you total healing as he has given you courage.
Pure courage. This is a story of a true survivor.
I can see that this still affects you deeply, and that it is very difficult to talk about. I can see how it would have been impossible for your younger self to say anything then. I pray that you will truly be free and that this chain is broken off of you. I'm so sorry, and also so proud of you for being able to tell your story. May you TRULY come to the knowledge of the love that the True God of the Bible (meaning not the one you've been taught about, but the one that the Bible actually reveals) and your healing in and through Him. Peace to you, Guerry.
It's so empowering hearing the survival stories of these courageous men! God Bless him!!! *TEARS*
Your testimony is amazing. I also was victimized as a child, told the right person, who in turn did nothing. As a survivor I found myself exposing abuse of others throughout my life. At first they resented the exposure. Later they thanked me. It’s a terrible thing for anyone to deal with. These sins can be justly brought into the light by the weak and the brave alike. Sometimes justice prevails! God bless you and those who endured and escaped the damaging influences of this man.
Guerry is a brave man. And good for his Dad. We did not speak of these things back then and he didn’t shut up gosh I want to hug that man thank you💗
What an absolute wonderful man.
Your courage is amazing! Your courage is the help for all of us! Your courage is changing and healing the world! Thank you !