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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2020
  • Sam Smith was 10-years-old when they came out to their family, but it was only two years ago that they heard the word that ultimately brought them relief and finally made them feel seen: “Non-binary”. As they release their new album Love Goes, the Grammy and Oscar-winning musician talks to contributing editor Paris Lees as part of British Vogue’s In Conversation series about the impact changing their pronouns had on their worldview, how a heart-wrenching break-up inspired their latest music, and why they are finally learning to be kind to themselves - a process that has felt to them like “coming home”.
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  • @jamisendinel663
    @jamisendinel663 3 года назад +362

    So glad they got a trans journalist to talk to Sam. She did wonderfully. This interview just felt like a podcast honestly with how well it flowed.

    • @FluentlyFletch
      @FluentlyFletch 3 года назад +15

      @Josue2018 Paris was born with male genitalia, however she has transitioned and identifies as female. You don't have to fully transition (i.e have surgery to change your facial features/genitals) to be trans, however I think I read that Paris has. :)

    • @oenrob98000
      @oenrob98000 3 года назад +8

      What?! She's a transperson??? Wow...she looks fabulous!

    • @angelhairlaser
      @angelhairlaser 3 года назад +8

      @Josue2018 Still ignorant.

    • @tatumshumway9713
      @tatumshumway9713 3 года назад +10

      @Josue2018 she is a real female :/

    • @samdedman7557
      @samdedman7557 3 года назад +16

      Come on everyone, give this guy a break ... he clearly isn't meaning to come across as transphobic! Be kind and educate the people who may not be used to the reality of trans people, but are clearly okay with it and open to learn.

  • @faganquin6483
    @faganquin6483 3 года назад +310

    One of the best interviews I’ve seen. Not because of who so much as because of how it was conducted. There was no striving, no contriving. It was just as was promised, a super casual conversation with cogent questions and thoughtful answers. A lot of lessons here for both interviewers and interviewees, Nicely done, and kudos to both of you. Stay safe, stay healthy, and stay with love. ✌🏻🙏🏻🤙🏻

  • @ximed13
    @ximed13 3 года назад +208

    this especial human holds a very very special place on my heart!! the way they carry themself

    • @elizaduxbury
      @elizaduxbury 3 года назад +4

      The way they carry themself

    • @ximed13
      @ximed13 3 года назад +7

      @@elizaduxbury you are absolutely right, correcting asap x

    • @GEOFF0906
      @GEOFF0906 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @budddwyer8141
      @budddwyer8141 3 года назад +3

      He

    • @dajjukunrama5695
      @dajjukunrama5695 3 года назад +1

      Elizabeth Duxbury Then how do I say they as in many people, if I have to say both I’ll just reserve my right to not know English

  • @partlylou2991
    @partlylou2991 3 года назад +47

    omg i forgot they're british!!! their voice is so soothing.

  • @feliperodriguessoaressampa7275
    @feliperodriguessoaressampa7275 3 года назад +89

    This is the most relaxed and entertained interview i have watched in sooooo long. Congrats to Paris Lee for been such a good interviewer.

    • @klaudiaklaudia7155
      @klaudiaklaudia7155 3 года назад

      Zane Lowe also does great interviews that feel similiar- just calm and respectful

  • @FluentlyFletch
    @FluentlyFletch 3 года назад +57

    Paris is a compassionate and wonderful interviewer. She always knocks it out of the park x

  • @dk5802
    @dk5802 3 года назад +122

    This was an EXCELLENT interview! I have never heard of the interviewer before, but her questions were just so thoughtful and insightful, not to mentions there is a realness and goodness to her👍. Sam is wonderful as always; I just love them! 👍❤️

    • @bruadarach9758
      @bruadarach9758 2 года назад +1

      Right! Would also highly recommend her interviews with Emma Watson, Owen Jones, and Abigail Thorn. And her book 'What it Feels Like for a Girl', which I literally just finished this morning, is a literary tour de force of a memoir.

  • @dana0x164
    @dana0x164 3 года назад +88

    What a candid and deep conversation, I loved it.

  • @rinnapattrat.3491
    @rinnapattrat.3491 3 года назад +20

    I really like the interviewer, she is really calm and good listener.

  • @samiranchakraborty9529
    @samiranchakraborty9529 3 года назад +8

    Am I the only one who feels that almost half of the interview was cut out?

  • @rav7563
    @rav7563 3 года назад +31

    If there’s one singer that I would ever want to talk to, it would definitely be Sam Smith.

  • @andreacharvatova6305
    @andreacharvatova6305 3 года назад +21

    One of the best interviews I've seen, thanks to Sam and mainly to the interviewer. She is really excellent, very calm, professional, nice.

  • @Voldemorti
    @Voldemorti 3 года назад +29

    "I'm financially okay" - lol, understatement of the year

    • @farhinmalik5475
      @farhinmalik5475 3 года назад

      U wanted sam to say I am financially very well off.. That wud have been rude rgt

    • @Voldemorti
      @Voldemorti 3 года назад +1

      @@farhinmalik5475 How would that have been rude? That's just the truth - he has millions haha

    • @violetjade64
      @violetjade64 3 года назад +3

      @@Voldemorti *they have

  • @user-lp8oj1cx1o
    @user-lp8oj1cx1o 3 года назад +33

    Thank you for interviewing this wonderful human so well! Enjoyed every bit of it. It's nice to know more about Sam's experience, nice to understand them deeper. Can't wait for crying to their new album!!

  • @maddison9872
    @maddison9872 3 года назад +98

    omg their voice is so soothing!!

  • @MingManlapaz
    @MingManlapaz 3 года назад +17

    those blue eyes 🥺

  • @beckix3662
    @beckix3662 3 года назад +12

    I‘m in love with Sam’s speaking voice

  • @flograce3409
    @flograce3409 3 года назад +10

    these british vogue interviews with paris are so interesting

  • @Julia-2709
    @Julia-2709 3 года назад +12

    Sam has such a lovely aura/charisma

    • @HAIRHOLIC_1
      @HAIRHOLIC_1 3 года назад +1

      He does indeed, it hurts me to hear all the hardships he’s gone through, I feel like he deserves everything he got because he’s such a beautiful human being all around

    • @dajjukunrama5695
      @dajjukunrama5695 3 года назад +2

      Catchmeifyoucan Yo if you say he you’re a fascist yo

    • @nyx476
      @nyx476 2 года назад +2

      @@HAIRHOLIC_1 Sam uses they/them pronouns

  • @udhav423
    @udhav423 3 года назад +18

    Sam’s voice can cure depression. & that’s on point blank periodt.

  • @luigisar6323
    @luigisar6323 3 года назад +83

    I love Sam Smith, special human being

    • @vedantsridhar8378
      @vedantsridhar8378 2 года назад

      I didn't even know he had gender dysphoria until now

    • @nil8404
      @nil8404 2 года назад +2

      @@vedantsridhar8378 just a reminder that he uses they/them pronouns:)

    • @vedantsridhar8378
      @vedantsridhar8378 2 года назад +1

      @@nil8404 Thanks! Yeah if they identify themselves as neither male or female, then 'they' should be the correct pronoun

    • @vedantsridhar8378
      @vedantsridhar8378 Год назад

      @@planethoth1238 that's true, but we should always use pronouns based on someone's gender identity. I'm currently a boy, but if I was born as a girl but felt like a boy, and people called me a girl, I won't feel good at all. Same applies for non-binary. Sam Smith can't fully accept the fact that they are a man. They feel more like they're somewhere between a man and a woman, and 'they' is the closest pronoun to use for something like this.
      Easiest way to imagine: How bad would it feel if you were to somehow magically transition into your opposite sex? I bet I wouldn't last more than a month without demanding my parents to pay for the gender-transitioning surgery. Now while non-binary wouldn't be as bad as transgender, it can still cause troubles.

    • @kikimcyoloswaggy
      @kikimcyoloswaggy Год назад

      @@vedantsridhar8378 non-binary people are also transgender. To suggest that we just 'can't accept' that we are male or female is absolutely wrong. There's no comparing between being mtf or ftm and being nonbinary. We are all transgender under the same umbrella and can have gender dysphoria that is just as severe as the other.

  • @fickle3835
    @fickle3835 3 года назад +18

    On a side note the interviewer is so beautiful

  • @lewisovhebn
    @lewisovhebn 3 года назад +8

    Love the vibe of this interviewer

  • @marvinraphaelmonfort8289
    @marvinraphaelmonfort8289 3 года назад +8

    i loved the quiff but i sort of wish that the fem sam was the one who everyone fell in love with and identified with. what an awesome family. that really makes one feel comfortable to go for dreams and be stable despite everything

  • @VivaldiCristian
    @VivaldiCristian 3 года назад +9

    WOW this human being inspires me so much. Love to you Sam. Thanks for existing.

  • @lancedeschenes4046
    @lancedeschenes4046 3 года назад +5

    Thank you so much for sharing yourselves in this way.

  • @remiesslinger5100
    @remiesslinger5100 3 года назад +6

    Love you both ! Thank u for this ! Can't wait for the album and Paris' book !!!

  • @jobalak9761
    @jobalak9761 3 года назад +7

    Sam I love you❤️, your authenticity is healing , you are an amazing artist and a kind person.

  • @markszabo4574
    @markszabo4574 3 года назад +23

    Wonderful
    Gorgeous human beings❤️❤️❤️

    • @lilimandula
      @lilimandula 3 года назад +1

      mindig megmelengetí a szívemet, ha elfogadó magyart látok:) ❤️

    • @markszabo4574
      @markszabo4574 3 года назад

      @@lilimandula jaaaj az enyémet is🥺🥺🥺, nagyon jól esett a válaszod❤️❤️❤️

  • @marvinraphaelmonfort8289
    @marvinraphaelmonfort8289 3 года назад +8

    love the banter that made sam cry from laughing lol

  • @elisefintland3897
    @elisefintland3897 3 года назад +6

    This is so beautiful. Thank you!

  • @sarahgunay537
    @sarahgunay537 3 года назад +7

    Great interview, thank you.

  • @RobinZipporah
    @RobinZipporah 3 года назад +12

    Sam has such a soothing, sonorous, sweet, lovely voice. Along with the British accent 👌

    • @Barnzy213
      @Barnzy213 Год назад

      Other then the fact he’s a bent clown that claims gender neutral.
      Worlds gone mad

  • @brizuniga
    @brizuniga 2 года назад +4

    This was the most extraordinary - remarkable interview I’ve seen in a while. Two amazing souls… I loved every second. We need more people like this in the world !! I felt warmth and pure genuinity …Does anyone know what the name of those books are?

  • @workinprogress3329
    @workinprogress3329 3 года назад +11

    Sam is wonderful. I can’t wait for the live stream show on October 30th.

  • @pieceocake6683
    @pieceocake6683 3 года назад +3

    This made me cry, it's wonderful. Thank you

  • @kiamanawatini9512
    @kiamanawatini9512 3 года назад +2

    aww I like 🥰...seconds into the opening, Paris shares with Sam...'I would like to touch you, I would like to embrace you' due. ... sweet words to my ears and heart. 👍🏼 British Vogue Thank you xo

  • @therandom_me2064
    @therandom_me2064 2 года назад +4

    He's a very kind, sweet and soft soul.

  • @bryceperry20
    @bryceperry20 3 года назад +1

    I love both these humans and enjoyed this interview so much! So excited for the album!

  • @lottieloves4431
    @lottieloves4431 3 года назад +2

    Love that Paris turns up and gifts books, my kind of person for sure.

  • @QualquerCoisa387
    @QualquerCoisa387 3 года назад +5

    I love Sam forever. Such a great human being. Great conducted interview. Tks Paris Lees, as well!

  • @dhirjasingh6250
    @dhirjasingh6250 3 года назад +6

    I also find it so therapeutic to dance

  • @jazco_
    @jazco_ 3 года назад +9

    I'm so in love with Sam, can't help it

  • @aungmyat1323
    @aungmyat1323 3 года назад +16

    'I would like to touch u' ......
    Me too paris...

  • @mariaangelicavillarraga2334
    @mariaangelicavillarraga2334 3 года назад +15

    Beautiful souls 🌺♥️💘

  • @julz63
    @julz63 3 года назад +15

    What a fabulous interview between Paris and Sam. We should all strive to be kinder to ourselves and one another, listen with open hearts, speak the truth as we know it, and always, always take the time to sniff a new book 📚 Sam you are someone I admire, and I could listen to you for hours ❤️

  • @HeroMike17
    @HeroMike17 Год назад +2

    14:00 LOVE this irony :)

  • @katczu
    @katczu 3 года назад +6

    I feel bad for them for sitting at the edge of this huge couch 😂 love them both

  • @reginadelreal9623
    @reginadelreal9623 3 года назад +2

    This was such a wonderful interview

  • @johnsloan4987
    @johnsloan4987 3 года назад +6

    I appreciate this conversation so much. I am very accepting yet struggled with understanding trans issues 10 years ago but truly wanted to be respectful. I am someone who needs to understand something for it to enter my soul. Eventually I found a few friends willing to discuss the topic and teach me what I didn’t know and I have been able to help many friends on their journey also. We can’t discount education.

  • @kshillingford6497
    @kshillingford6497 3 года назад +8

    I love smelling books too

  • @marvinraphaelmonfort8289
    @marvinraphaelmonfort8289 3 года назад +4

    lovely people! glad sam isn't one of those who paris interviewed that don't read

  • @stuartd5293
    @stuartd5293 3 года назад +1

    Wonderful interview!! Thank you!

  • @beecauve5138
    @beecauve5138 3 года назад +6

    Who is the interviewer? ❤️

  • @antonvinther31
    @antonvinther31 2 года назад +1

    This interview was so wholesome and sweet!

  • @sarahjanesmithson3703
    @sarahjanesmithson3703 3 года назад +3

    A beautiful person. .
    A beautifil voice .

  • @MrJacobrabbit
    @MrJacobrabbit 3 года назад +2

    Very well done

  • @henrymathews3671
    @henrymathews3671 3 года назад +5

    I love smelling books too Sam.....it’s just 😌

  • @iqachew8132
    @iqachew8132 3 года назад +4

    Most humble person eva 🥰

  • @wildflowers9318
    @wildflowers9318 3 года назад +3

    god, i love this interview smuch

  • @waynejones750
    @waynejones750 3 года назад +1

    Absolutely brilliant x

  • @mariapaulamangione4857
    @mariapaulamangione4857 3 года назад +2

    Es tan maduro y cuando habla tiene una paz, trasmite una muy linda energia, es un cantante increíble y como persona es mas increible todavía❤❤❤❤

  • @hadari29
    @hadari29 3 года назад +6

    Love Sam so much ❤❤

  • @Misskitttyrr
    @Misskitttyrr 3 года назад

    💗💗💗💗 love your new album!! Please come back to Australia as soon as lockdown is over! Can’t wait to dance with you 💃🏾😍😍😍😍

  • @danielmolina4266
    @danielmolina4266 2 года назад +1

    Sam Smith, he saved my life, I was in a very toxic relationship last year, and deal with the end of that relationship was a breakdown for me but Sam music was just on time, every word, every song made me go trough all those horrible feelings I got when I decided to left my ex. I’m a lot better now

  • @liannugraha4076
    @liannugraha4076 3 года назад +3

    you're enough, you're worthy (sam smith)

  • @pageslieahead
    @pageslieahead 3 года назад +3

    I love smelling books❤️

  • @TheImaxify
    @TheImaxify 3 года назад +2

    This is valuable to hear about his experience. I appreciate his bravery.

    • @michellepeuker7893
      @michellepeuker7893 3 года назад +6

      so true! :) but sam goes with they/them pronouns by the way :)

    • @TheImaxify
      @TheImaxify 3 года назад +1

      @@michellepeuker7893 true!

    • @coral5489
      @coral5489 3 года назад +2

      their*

  • @anuoluwapoobipehin4894
    @anuoluwapoobipehin4894 3 года назад +2

    Such a beautiful person😍😍

  • @terryarrow702
    @terryarrow702 3 года назад +7

    Thoroughly enjoyable listen. Made clear of serious issues Sam has had to deal with. Life would be wonderful if we could just be who we want to be without being judged. With no one taking notice of our sexuality. And most of all let’s be kind to one another. Thank you vogue 🧚🏼‍♀️💋♥️

  • @amgalvin2989
    @amgalvin2989 3 года назад

    Such an honest soul free to be like we all should be

  • @ryekim9246
    @ryekim9246 3 года назад +4

    Beautiful people❤️

  • @dannamacias8192
    @dannamacias8192 3 года назад +3

    the kindness of sam makes me so happy

    • @dajjukunrama5695
      @dajjukunrama5695 3 года назад

      It’s us* don’t be a capitalist gender knower.

    • @nyx476
      @nyx476 2 года назад

      @@dajjukunrama5695 what

  • @erikgarneau8102
    @erikgarneau8102 3 года назад +1

    I love to smell books too :)

  • @MatiasPoro
    @MatiasPoro 3 года назад +1

    A true icon an music legend

  • @Daniel_ddiaz
    @Daniel_ddiaz 3 года назад +11

    Editing’s a bit rough... Come on Vogue

  • @akshatsharma5536
    @akshatsharma5536 3 года назад +2

    I get so serious sometimes

  • @melinazaxariadou5773
    @melinazaxariadou5773 2 года назад

    very nice interview

  • @juicyfer1972
    @juicyfer1972 3 года назад +4

    Love Sam ❤️

  • @QueerIsHere
    @QueerIsHere 3 года назад +5

    When I hear sam talk explain his non-binary gender, it was like they knew exactly how I feel.

  • @Sunny-mz8sx
    @Sunny-mz8sx 3 года назад +2

    Paris is a great interviewer, I enjoy listening to her as much as the celebs. Wish we saw more of her on this channel

  • @mcallisterlaura4079
    @mcallisterlaura4079 2 года назад +2

    such a beautiful human being

  • @mandycatchymonkey4805
    @mandycatchymonkey4805 Год назад +1

    I think Sam Smith comes across as such a lovely person. They’re so beautiful

  • @love-lj7rr
    @love-lj7rr 3 года назад +3

    Why didn't they wear a mask?

  • @Nolie_CaNolie
    @Nolie_CaNolie 3 года назад +2

    Sam is my favorite singer, oh... that voice is of a Siren.... they’re voice can sink ships.

  • @nickyhendrie4032
    @nickyhendrie4032 3 года назад +5

    I've just started listening to Sam Smith and I'm not being funny, but I think I'm in love with them.

  • @romanbohdannazaryshyni4100
    @romanbohdannazaryshyni4100 3 года назад +1

    He is so real,so pure♥️

  • @Binarychaos_
    @Binarychaos_ 3 года назад +1

    yall are so adorable

  • @karlotta9874
    @karlotta9874 3 года назад +13

    They are just so lovely

  • @pambutterflyhigh
    @pambutterflyhigh 3 года назад +1

    We need more music from him, I am addicted to it.

  • @sohinidatta3978
    @sohinidatta3978 Год назад

    seeing how even an artist like Sam Smith gets stage fright .... I'm inspired

  • @lisazatewa8613
    @lisazatewa8613 3 года назад

    I can see that u have beautiful mind not just cause I love your music🧡

  • @simranbhatla6030
    @simranbhatla6030 3 года назад +4

    Cannot wait for their album omg!!!!

    • @GEOFF0906
      @GEOFF0906 3 года назад

      "Their"? oh, there's more than one of them then?

    • @nyx476
      @nyx476 2 года назад

      @@GEOFF0906 no Sam is non binary

    • @Geoooooooooo
      @Geoooooooooo 2 года назад

      @@GEOFF0906 one joke

  • @bk-xu2yg
    @bk-xu2yg Год назад +1

    I always listen to Sam Smith's songs when I am down.

  • @AndyB1286
    @AndyB1286 2 года назад +2

    Nice interview, and one that helps me continue to learn about gender identity.

  • @felisejanecalza2009
    @felisejanecalza2009 3 года назад +2

    SAMMMM 😭🥺

  • @vikingninja5033
    @vikingninja5033 3 года назад +2

    what a nice man

  • @desertcruisin5988
    @desertcruisin5988 Год назад

    I love his music. Its just good. I hate he's politically used in any way. And i hope we will all meet a time, where gender and sexuality don't have any impact to any career.

  • @rainealogan6068
    @rainealogan6068 11 месяцев назад

    A man of truth. Soul searching Artist 😮😊.👏👍🤗🤩💯

  • @s.ribeiro1836
    @s.ribeiro1836 3 года назад +11

    They're so beautiful!

    • @TofuKami
      @TofuKami 3 года назад +1

      ?

    • @s.ribeiro1836
      @s.ribeiro1836 3 года назад

      @@TofuKami what?

    • @TofuKami
      @TofuKami 3 года назад +1

      @@s.ribeiro1836 which one? So confused

    • @s.ribeiro1836
      @s.ribeiro1836 3 года назад

      @@TofuKami Both haha She and they!

    • @TofuKami
      @TofuKami 3 года назад

      @@s.ribeiro1836 I'm even more confused what do u mean by they?