Sam Smith Talks Gender Identity, Break-Ups and Stage Fright | In Conversation | British Vogue

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @jamisendinel663
    @jamisendinel663 4 года назад +364

    So glad they got a trans journalist to talk to Sam. She did wonderfully. This interview just felt like a podcast honestly with how well it flowed.

    • @FluentlyFletch
      @FluentlyFletch 4 года назад +15

      @Josue2018 Paris was born with male genitalia, however she has transitioned and identifies as female. You don't have to fully transition (i.e have surgery to change your facial features/genitals) to be trans, however I think I read that Paris has. :)

    • @oenrob98000
      @oenrob98000 4 года назад +9

      What?! She's a transperson??? Wow...she looks fabulous!

    • @angelhairlaser
      @angelhairlaser 4 года назад +8

      @Josue2018 Still ignorant.

    • @tatumshumway9713
      @tatumshumway9713 4 года назад +10

      @Josue2018 she is a real female :/

    • @samdedman7557
      @samdedman7557 4 года назад +16

      Come on everyone, give this guy a break ... he clearly isn't meaning to come across as transphobic! Be kind and educate the people who may not be used to the reality of trans people, but are clearly okay with it and open to learn.

  • @ximed13
    @ximed13 4 года назад +207

    this especial human holds a very very special place on my heart!! the way they carry themself

    • @elizaduxbury
      @elizaduxbury 4 года назад +4

      The way they carry themself

    • @ximed13
      @ximed13 4 года назад +7

      @@elizaduxbury you are absolutely right, correcting asap x

    • @GEOFF0906
      @GEOFF0906 4 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @budddwyer8141
      @budddwyer8141 4 года назад +3

      He

    • @dajjukunrama5695
      @dajjukunrama5695 3 года назад +1

      Elizabeth Duxbury Then how do I say they as in many people, if I have to say both I’ll just reserve my right to not know English

  • @FluentlyFletch
    @FluentlyFletch 4 года назад +58

    Paris is a compassionate and wonderful interviewer. She always knocks it out of the park x

  • @partlylou2991
    @partlylou2991 3 года назад +50

    omg i forgot they're british!!! their voice is so soothing.

  • @feliperodriguessoaressampa7275
    @feliperodriguessoaressampa7275 4 года назад +89

    This is the most relaxed and entertained interview i have watched in sooooo long. Congrats to Paris Lee for been such a good interviewer.

    • @klaudiaklaudia7155
      @klaudiaklaudia7155 4 года назад

      Zane Lowe also does great interviews that feel similiar- just calm and respectful

  • @andreacharvatova6305
    @andreacharvatova6305 4 года назад +21

    One of the best interviews I've seen, thanks to Sam and mainly to the interviewer. She is really excellent, very calm, professional, nice.

  • @dk5802
    @dk5802 4 года назад +122

    This was an EXCELLENT interview! I have never heard of the interviewer before, but her questions were just so thoughtful and insightful, not to mentions there is a realness and goodness to her👍. Sam is wonderful as always; I just love them! 👍❤️

    • @bruadarach9758
      @bruadarach9758 3 года назад +1

      Right! Would also highly recommend her interviews with Emma Watson, Owen Jones, and Abigail Thorn. And her book 'What it Feels Like for a Girl', which I literally just finished this morning, is a literary tour de force of a memoir.

  • @rav7563
    @rav7563 4 года назад +31

    If there’s one singer that I would ever want to talk to, it would definitely be Sam Smith.

  • @dana0x164
    @dana0x164 4 года назад +88

    What a candid and deep conversation, I loved it.

  • @maddison9872
    @maddison9872 4 года назад +99

    omg their voice is so soothing!!

  • @PolinaTolpygina
    @PolinaTolpygina 4 года назад +33

    Thank you for interviewing this wonderful human so well! Enjoyed every bit of it. It's nice to know more about Sam's experience, nice to understand them deeper. Can't wait for crying to their new album!!

  • @rinnapattrat.3491
    @rinnapattrat.3491 4 года назад +20

    I really like the interviewer, she is really calm and good listener.

  • @samiranchakraborty9529
    @samiranchakraborty9529 4 года назад +8

    Am I the only one who feels that almost half of the interview was cut out?

  • @Voldemorti
    @Voldemorti 4 года назад +29

    "I'm financially okay" - lol, understatement of the year

    • @farhinmalik5475
      @farhinmalik5475 4 года назад

      U wanted sam to say I am financially very well off.. That wud have been rude rgt

    • @Voldemorti
      @Voldemorti 4 года назад +1

      @@farhinmalik5475 How would that have been rude? That's just the truth - he has millions haha

    • @violetjade64
      @violetjade64 3 года назад +3

      @@Voldemorti *they have

  • @luigisar6323
    @luigisar6323 4 года назад +83

    I love Sam Smith, special human being

    • @vedantsridhar8378
      @vedantsridhar8378 3 года назад

      I didn't even know he had gender dysphoria until now

    • @nil8404
      @nil8404 3 года назад +2

      @@vedantsridhar8378 just a reminder that he uses they/them pronouns:)

    • @vedantsridhar8378
      @vedantsridhar8378 3 года назад +1

      @@nil8404 Thanks! Yeah if they identify themselves as neither male or female, then 'they' should be the correct pronoun

    • @vedantsridhar8378
      @vedantsridhar8378 2 года назад

      @@planethoth1238 that's true, but we should always use pronouns based on someone's gender identity. I'm currently a boy, but if I was born as a girl but felt like a boy, and people called me a girl, I won't feel good at all. Same applies for non-binary. Sam Smith can't fully accept the fact that they are a man. They feel more like they're somewhere between a man and a woman, and 'they' is the closest pronoun to use for something like this.
      Easiest way to imagine: How bad would it feel if you were to somehow magically transition into your opposite sex? I bet I wouldn't last more than a month without demanding my parents to pay for the gender-transitioning surgery. Now while non-binary wouldn't be as bad as transgender, it can still cause troubles.

    • @kikimcyoloswaggy
      @kikimcyoloswaggy 2 года назад

      @@vedantsridhar8378 non-binary people are also transgender. To suggest that we just 'can't accept' that we are male or female is absolutely wrong. There's no comparing between being mtf or ftm and being nonbinary. We are all transgender under the same umbrella and can have gender dysphoria that is just as severe as the other.

  • @beckix3662
    @beckix3662 4 года назад +12

    I‘m in love with Sam’s speaking voice

  • @MingManlapaz
    @MingManlapaz 4 года назад +18

    those blue eyes 🥺

  • @floragrc
    @floragrc 4 года назад +10

    these british vogue interviews with paris are so interesting

  • @udhav423
    @udhav423 4 года назад +18

    Sam’s voice can cure depression. & that’s on point blank periodt.

  • @fickle3835
    @fickle3835 4 года назад +18

    On a side note the interviewer is so beautiful

  • @Julia-0411-k8x
    @Julia-0411-k8x 4 года назад +13

    Sam has such a lovely aura/charisma

    • @HAIRHOLIC_1
      @HAIRHOLIC_1 3 года назад +1

      He does indeed, it hurts me to hear all the hardships he’s gone through, I feel like he deserves everything he got because he’s such a beautiful human being all around

    • @dajjukunrama5695
      @dajjukunrama5695 3 года назад +2

      Catchmeifyoucan Yo if you say he you’re a fascist yo

    • @nyx476
      @nyx476 3 года назад +2

      @@HAIRHOLIC_1 Sam uses they/them pronouns

  • @VivaldiCristian
    @VivaldiCristian 4 года назад +10

    WOW this human being inspires me so much. Love to you Sam. Thanks for existing.

  • @marvinraphaelmonfort8289
    @marvinraphaelmonfort8289 4 года назад +8

    i loved the quiff but i sort of wish that the fem sam was the one who everyone fell in love with and identified with. what an awesome family. that really makes one feel comfortable to go for dreams and be stable despite everything

  • @lewisovhebn
    @lewisovhebn 4 года назад +8

    Love the vibe of this interviewer

  • @RobinZipporah
    @RobinZipporah 3 года назад +12

    Sam has such a soothing, sonorous, sweet, lovely voice. Along with the British accent 👌

    • @Barnzy213
      @Barnzy213 Год назад

      Other then the fact he’s a bent clown that claims gender neutral.
      Worlds gone mad

  • @jobalak9761
    @jobalak9761 4 года назад +7

    Sam I love you❤️, your authenticity is healing , you are an amazing artist and a kind person.

  • @brizuniga
    @brizuniga 3 года назад +5

    This was the most extraordinary - remarkable interview I’ve seen in a while. Two amazing souls… I loved every second. We need more people like this in the world !! I felt warmth and pure genuinity …Does anyone know what the name of those books are?

  • @lottieloves4431
    @lottieloves4431 3 года назад +2

    Love that Paris turns up and gifts books, my kind of person for sure.

  • @lancedeschenes4046
    @lancedeschenes4046 4 года назад +5

    Thank you so much for sharing yourselves in this way.

  • @julz63
    @julz63 4 года назад +15

    What a fabulous interview between Paris and Sam. We should all strive to be kinder to ourselves and one another, listen with open hearts, speak the truth as we know it, and always, always take the time to sniff a new book 📚 Sam you are someone I admire, and I could listen to you for hours ❤️

  • @sarahgunay537
    @sarahgunay537 4 года назад +7

    Great interview, thank you.

  • @marvinraphaelmonfort8289
    @marvinraphaelmonfort8289 4 года назад +8

    love the banter that made sam cry from laughing lol

  • @remiesslinger5100
    @remiesslinger5100 4 года назад +6

    Love you both ! Thank u for this ! Can't wait for the album and Paris' book !!!

  • @johnsloan4987
    @johnsloan4987 4 года назад +8

    I appreciate this conversation so much. I am very accepting yet struggled with understanding trans issues 10 years ago but truly wanted to be respectful. I am someone who needs to understand something for it to enter my soul. Eventually I found a few friends willing to discuss the topic and teach me what I didn’t know and I have been able to help many friends on their journey also. We can’t discount education.

  • @markszabo4574
    @markszabo4574 4 года назад +25

    Wonderful
    Gorgeous human beings❤️❤️❤️

    • @lilimandula
      @lilimandula 4 года назад +1

      mindig megmelengetí a szívemet, ha elfogadó magyart látok:) ❤️

    • @markszabo4574
      @markszabo4574 4 года назад +1

      @@lilimandula jaaaj az enyémet is🥺🥺🥺, nagyon jól esett a válaszod❤️❤️❤️

  • @workinprogress3329
    @workinprogress3329 4 года назад +11

    Sam is wonderful. I can’t wait for the live stream show on October 30th.

  • @QualquerCoisa387
    @QualquerCoisa387 4 года назад +5

    I love Sam forever. Such a great human being. Great conducted interview. Tks Paris Lees, as well!

  • @elisefintland3897
    @elisefintland3897 4 года назад +6

    This is so beautiful. Thank you!

  • @therandom_me2064
    @therandom_me2064 2 года назад +5

    He's a very kind, sweet and soft soul.

  • @jazco_
    @jazco_ 4 года назад +10

    I'm so in love with Sam, can't help it

  • @katczu
    @katczu 4 года назад +7

    I feel bad for them for sitting at the edge of this huge couch 😂 love them both

  • @dhirjasingh6250
    @dhirjasingh6250 4 года назад +6

    I also find it so therapeutic to dance

  • @Misskitttyrr
    @Misskitttyrr 4 года назад +1

    💗💗💗💗 love your new album!! Please come back to Australia as soon as lockdown is over! Can’t wait to dance with you 💃🏾😍😍😍😍

  • @kiamanawatini9512
    @kiamanawatini9512 4 года назад +3

    aww I like 🥰...seconds into the opening, Paris shares with Sam...'I would like to touch you, I would like to embrace you' due. ... sweet words to my ears and heart. 👍🏼 British Vogue Thank you xo

  • @mariaangelicavillarraga2334
    @mariaangelicavillarraga2334 4 года назад +15

    Beautiful souls 🌺♥️💘

  • @dannamacias8192
    @dannamacias8192 4 года назад +4

    the kindness of sam makes me so happy

    • @dajjukunrama5695
      @dajjukunrama5695 3 года назад

      It’s us* don’t be a capitalist gender knower.

    • @nyx476
      @nyx476 3 года назад

      @@dajjukunrama5695 what

  • @danielmolina4266
    @danielmolina4266 3 года назад +2

    Sam Smith, he saved my life, I was in a very toxic relationship last year, and deal with the end of that relationship was a breakdown for me but Sam music was just on time, every word, every song made me go trough all those horrible feelings I got when I decided to left my ex. I’m a lot better now

  • @reginadelreal9623
    @reginadelreal9623 4 года назад +3

    This was such a wonderful interview

  • @beecauve5138
    @beecauve5138 4 года назад +6

    Who is the interviewer? ❤️

  • @TheImaxify
    @TheImaxify 4 года назад +3

    This is valuable to hear about his experience. I appreciate his bravery.

    • @michellepeuker7893
      @michellepeuker7893 4 года назад +7

      so true! :) but sam goes with they/them pronouns by the way :)

    • @TheImaxify
      @TheImaxify 4 года назад +1

      @@michellepeuker7893 true!

    • @coral5489
      @coral5489 4 года назад +2

      their*

  • @wildflowers9318
    @wildflowers9318 3 года назад +3

    god, i love this interview smuch

  • @marvinraphaelmonfort8289
    @marvinraphaelmonfort8289 4 года назад +4

    lovely people! glad sam isn't one of those who paris interviewed that don't read

  • @nickyhendrie4032
    @nickyhendrie4032 4 года назад +6

    I've just started listening to Sam Smith and I'm not being funny, but I think I'm in love with them.

  • @iqachew8132
    @iqachew8132 4 года назад +5

    Most humble person eva 🥰

  • @kshillingford6497
    @kshillingford6497 4 года назад +8

    I love smelling books too

  • @antonvinther31
    @antonvinther31 3 года назад +1

    This interview was so wholesome and sweet!

  • @terryarrow702
    @terryarrow702 4 года назад +8

    Thoroughly enjoyable listen. Made clear of serious issues Sam has had to deal with. Life would be wonderful if we could just be who we want to be without being judged. With no one taking notice of our sexuality. And most of all let’s be kind to one another. Thank you vogue 🧚🏼‍♀️💋♥️

  • @hadari29
    @hadari29 4 года назад +6

    Love Sam so much ❤❤

  • @aungmyat1323
    @aungmyat1323 4 года назад +16

    'I would like to touch u' ......
    Me too paris...

  • @AndyB1286
    @AndyB1286 3 года назад +3

    Nice interview, and one that helps me continue to learn about gender identity.

  • @bryceperry20
    @bryceperry20 4 года назад +1

    I love both these humans and enjoyed this interview so much! So excited for the album!

  • @Sunny-mz8sx
    @Sunny-mz8sx 4 года назад +2

    Paris is a great interviewer, I enjoy listening to her as much as the celebs. Wish we saw more of her on this channel

  • @mariapaulamangione4857
    @mariapaulamangione4857 3 года назад +2

    Es tan maduro y cuando habla tiene una paz, trasmite una muy linda energia, es un cantante increíble y como persona es mas increible todavía❤❤❤❤

  • @MrJacobrabbit
    @MrJacobrabbit 4 года назад +2

    Very well done

  • @karlotta9874
    @karlotta9874 4 года назад +14

    They are just so lovely

  • @sarahjanesmithson3703
    @sarahjanesmithson3703 4 года назад +3

    A beautiful person. .
    A beautifil voice .

  • @romanbohdannazaryshyni4100
    @romanbohdannazaryshyni4100 3 года назад +1

    He is so real,so pure♥️

  • @fionay5347
    @fionay5347 4 года назад +6

    The way he talks is so calming ☺️

    • @lioruizc2849
      @lioruizc2849 4 года назад +7

      they*

    • @jasmijn7478
      @jasmijn7478 4 года назад +2

      They*

    • @fionay5347
      @fionay5347 4 года назад +3

      @Charles Raay omg I didn’t know the background of the interviewer , but yes definitely they* loved the interview ☺️ they are both amazing

    • @jasmijn7478
      @jasmijn7478 4 года назад

      @@fionay5347 :)

    • @tatumshumway9713
      @tatumshumway9713 4 года назад

      @@fionay5347 the interviewer identifies as she/her i believe, sam identifies as they/them :)

  • @anuoluwapoobipehin4894
    @anuoluwapoobipehin4894 4 года назад +2

    Such a beautiful person😍😍

  • @simranbhatla6030
    @simranbhatla6030 4 года назад +4

    Cannot wait for their album omg!!!!

    • @GEOFF0906
      @GEOFF0906 4 года назад

      "Their"? oh, there's more than one of them then?

    • @nyx476
      @nyx476 3 года назад

      @@GEOFF0906 no Sam is non binary

    • @Geoooooooooo
      @Geoooooooooo 2 года назад

      @@GEOFF0906 one joke

  • @liannugraha4076
    @liannugraha4076 3 года назад +3

    you're enough, you're worthy (sam smith)

  • @waynejones750
    @waynejones750 4 года назад +1

    Absolutely brilliant x

  • @destin.marie.
    @destin.marie. 2 года назад +4

    Such a beautiful interview ☺️ thank you for educating me on how it feels to be non binary my teenage in law is struggling and this helped me connect better ❤️

  • @Daniel_ddiaz
    @Daniel_ddiaz 4 года назад +11

    Editing’s a bit rough... Come on Vogue

  • @pambutterflyhigh
    @pambutterflyhigh 3 года назад +1

    We need more music from him, I am addicted to it.

  • @mandycatchymonkey4805
    @mandycatchymonkey4805 2 года назад +1

    I think Sam Smith comes across as such a lovely person. They’re so beautiful

  • @ryekim9246
    @ryekim9246 4 года назад +4

    Beautiful people❤️

  • @rainealogan6068
    @rainealogan6068 Год назад

    A man of truth. Soul searching Artist 😮😊.👏👍🤗🤩💯

  • @mcallisterlaura4079
    @mcallisterlaura4079 3 года назад +2

    such a beautiful human being

  • @henrymathews3671
    @henrymathews3671 3 года назад +5

    I love smelling books too Sam.....it’s just 😌

  • @pageslieahead
    @pageslieahead 4 года назад +3

    I love smelling books❤️

  • @Nolie_CaNolie
    @Nolie_CaNolie 3 года назад +2

    Sam is my favorite singer, oh... that voice is of a Siren.... they’re voice can sink ships.

  • @s.ribeiro1836
    @s.ribeiro1836 4 года назад +11

    They're so beautiful!

    • @TofuBebe
      @TofuBebe 4 года назад +1

      ?

    • @s.ribeiro1836
      @s.ribeiro1836 4 года назад

      @@TofuBebe what?

    • @TofuBebe
      @TofuBebe 4 года назад +1

      @@s.ribeiro1836 which one? So confused

    • @s.ribeiro1836
      @s.ribeiro1836 4 года назад

      @@TofuBebe Both haha She and they!

    • @TofuBebe
      @TofuBebe 4 года назад

      @@s.ribeiro1836 I'm even more confused what do u mean by they?

  • @HeroMike17
    @HeroMike17 Год назад +2

    14:00 LOVE this irony :)

  • @morethanjustromantic
    @morethanjustromantic 4 года назад +3

    they have such a calming voice

    • @morethanjustromantic
      @morethanjustromantic 3 года назад +1

      @Levent A. did you really scroll back just to say that?? obsessed much,, you know sam isnt gonna see your comments right?

    • @morethanjustromantic
      @morethanjustromantic 3 года назад +1

      @Levent A. you are scientifically wrong but im assuming someone in a youtube comment section isn't gonna convince you
      your close mindedness isnt cute i hope you will realize that

  • @ahmedjamal5345
    @ahmedjamal5345 4 года назад +5

    First time watching an interview of Sam Smith, i love his music so much since years, but never expected to actually watch him sit and talk so deeply. I love deep conversations, behind the scenes stories etc... He looked nervous but so Genuine

  • @timothy2491
    @timothy2491 4 года назад +4

    Sometimes I wake up as a chicken but more so as a duck. Maybe one day I'll be an eagle or toaster. The possibilities are endless and humans shouldn't limit their experiences. Let's all be woke together.

  • @melinazaxariadou5773
    @melinazaxariadou5773 3 года назад

    very nice interview

  • @eurydice5890
    @eurydice5890 4 года назад +4

    When they talk about gender, I really relate to what Sam is saying, because my story is really similar to theirs, and their coming-out kinda help me in mine.
    by the way, I also love smelling books

  • @ele9875
    @ele9875 4 года назад +3

    Can i just say that i find sam the sweetest human😍🥺they have this presences ab them which draws me in so much. He calmes me down and at the same time makes me want to strand up and do exacly what i wanted to do for years but i was scared

  • @sohinidatta3978
    @sohinidatta3978 2 года назад

    seeing how even an artist like Sam Smith gets stage fright .... I'm inspired

  • @bk-xu2yg
    @bk-xu2yg 2 года назад +1

    I always listen to Sam Smith's songs when I am down.

  • @amgalvin2989
    @amgalvin2989 4 года назад

    Such an honest soul free to be like we all should be

  • @kathy6937
    @kathy6937 4 года назад +7

    Their skin is glowing to the gods!

  • @MatiasPoro
    @MatiasPoro 4 года назад +1

    A true icon an music legend

  • @erikgarneau8102
    @erikgarneau8102 4 года назад +1

    I love to smell books too :)

  • @desertcruisin5988
    @desertcruisin5988 2 года назад

    I love his music. Its just good. I hate he's politically used in any way. And i hope we will all meet a time, where gender and sexuality don't have any impact to any career.

  • @thatsbk7174
    @thatsbk7174 3 года назад +2

    He is different then i expected him to sound be he seems cool

    • @raven4912
      @raven4912 3 года назад

      Sam goes by they/them pronouns😊

    • @thatsbk7174
      @thatsbk7174 3 года назад +2

      @@raven4912 thats doesnt change his biology. 😊

    • @raven4912
      @raven4912 3 года назад

      @@thatsbk7174 may you explain me what their pronouns have to do with biology, because I'm not sure I can follow you...🤔

    • @thatsbk7174
      @thatsbk7174 3 года назад +1

      @@raven4912 pronouns have nothing to dso with biology which is kind of the issue. I dont call you by what you feel like, I call you what you are, he may feel like something but he is and always will be a guy

    • @QueerCapricorn6572
      @QueerCapricorn6572 3 года назад

      @@thatsbk7174 you don't know if they are intersex person. Just because of their masculine gender expression, it doesn't mean they identify as man/boy.

  • @steflop92
    @steflop92 8 месяцев назад

    Sam is so lovely and Paris even lovelier!❤

  • @Binarychaos_
    @Binarychaos_ 4 года назад +1

    yall are so adorable