Quantity is likely to turn into quality overtime. If you start writing a book or start programming for example, you may think you shouldn't do it at all if you aim for too high quality before even knowing how to do it. Starting by doing it actually gives you results. Once you get better you get more quality without even trying that much, you can even purposely try to get more quality once you're starting to master what you're doing. Same applies to NoFap, u learn on that journey some new habits and you adapt a new lifestyle. The longer streaks start to happen when you're mastering your life. And this same applies to building a RUclips channel and doing sports, you need some experience before you can make quality videos or hit tennis ball with quality. Repetition. Keep sharing your philosphies Erno! This short video resonated in me :)
Yup, 100%. You learn so much about yourself in the process that you will be better able to find the right way and rhythm for yourself specifically to get things done in the best way. I appreciate the comment, thank you so much!
I always try to search for smaller NoFap channels on YT. I want to hear experiences from guys that aren't above an addict, but rather understanding and giving their points of views. Not saying that succesful nofapper with a big channel can't be emphatic, but I want to hear stuff from someone who's trying the same as I am, or a success story from someone who's human :D If you're trying to grow your channel I think you need that one hit, and I believe you are most likely to make it with a video title about NoFap (+something that draws attention). I may not be the only one who searches videos with word nofap and then puts a filter to most recent releases. These videos from smaller channels are actually very interesting. Others basically doing video journaling or sharing their experiences and success stories and tips. I am not a kind of guy who would make videos, it is not me. Also I found journaling on paper a bit pointless and I found it stupid or myself being stupid :D But one of my NoFap tools is watching inspirational NoFap videos. I also like videos about mental health and improving your life. It's all the same in the end. Porn is the biggest enemy there is. Scandinavian Bob said that porn isn't about sex/sexuality, but imo because human are sexual beings and we have our needs, it makes it super difficult to stay away from pleasuring yourself and trying to get satisfied. Bob may have meant something different with his point, but for me it is the biggest obstacle when I am bored; trying to not seek that dopamine. I have also one question that hasn't been answered in any video yet by anyone. Is bustin a nut to imagination a good tool to stay away from porn? Is it good when you're rebooting? It does give temporary fullfilment, but does it help with the progress or backfires it?
First of all I want to thank you for the thoughtful and lengthy comment! I completely understand what you mean. There’s self improvement channels like Hamza, who haven’t struggled for as long as people such as me and who have had great success with sex and women etc so the relatability was never that great for me.. this is also why I think Pablo Benz is one of the best channels out there - his struggle is the real one. He shows exactly what I went through all my life. Relapsing every 3-10 days. I can make a video where I talk about the imagination part and post it sometime next week :) the short answer is.. if you have been addicted to porn from a young age, I’m afraid imagination will very easily bring you right back to porn. Why? Because chances are, you think porn sex has something to do with real sex. Your mind will easily drift to porn fantasies because all your sexuality is connected to porn.. I even tried fapping while in my current relationship after having quit porn and I found out it would ruin me, simply because fapping made me fantasize and those fantasies turned into porn fantasies. Soon I was fantasizing about porn sex. This actually had an effect on the intimacy with my current partner for a while and it scared the hell out of me. So now I’m on nofap and retention except when I’m intimate with my girlfriend. I hope you got something out of this comment, it’s a rather complex topic..
Quantity is likely to turn into quality overtime. If you start writing a book or start programming for example, you may think you shouldn't do it at all if you aim for too high quality before even knowing how to do it. Starting by doing it actually gives you results. Once you get better you get more quality without even trying that much, you can even purposely try to get more quality once you're starting to master what you're doing. Same applies to NoFap, u learn on that journey some new habits and you adapt a new lifestyle. The longer streaks start to happen when you're mastering your life. And this same applies to building a RUclips channel and doing sports, you need some experience before you can make quality videos or hit tennis ball with quality. Repetition. Keep sharing your philosphies Erno! This short video resonated in me :)
Yup, 100%. You learn so much about yourself in the process that you will be better able to find the right way and rhythm for yourself specifically to get things done in the best way.
I appreciate the comment, thank you so much!
Yes, very good advice. Thank you Erno
Hey man dont be sad, we are here to support!!!
We gonna get stronger king
I appreciate it. I have realized I’ve been too much in the victim mode recently. It’s time to get after it properly.
96 subs!!!
Approaching 100!
Scandinavian Bob brought me here.
Appreciate it!! I will post some NoFap videos next week for my new subs from Bob
Same, I like your channel bro, I am from Spain
@@Miguel-lf9iothank you for watching and commenting! I’m still in disbelief how many new subs I got.. it’s amazingly crazy
I always try to search for smaller NoFap channels on YT. I want to hear experiences from guys that aren't above an addict, but rather understanding and giving their points of views. Not saying that succesful nofapper with a big channel can't be emphatic, but I want to hear stuff from someone who's trying the same as I am, or a success story from someone who's human :D If you're trying to grow your channel I think you need that one hit, and I believe you are most likely to make it with a video title about NoFap (+something that draws attention). I may not be the only one who searches videos with word nofap and then puts a filter to most recent releases. These videos from smaller channels are actually very interesting. Others basically doing video journaling or sharing their experiences and success stories and tips. I am not a kind of guy who would make videos, it is not me. Also I found journaling on paper a bit pointless and I found it stupid or myself being stupid :D But one of my NoFap tools is watching inspirational NoFap videos. I also like videos about mental health and improving your life. It's all the same in the end. Porn is the biggest enemy there is. Scandinavian Bob said that porn isn't about sex/sexuality, but imo because human are sexual beings and we have our needs, it makes it super difficult to stay away from pleasuring yourself and trying to get satisfied. Bob may have meant something different with his point, but for me it is the biggest obstacle when I am bored; trying to not seek that dopamine. I have also one question that hasn't been answered in any video yet by anyone. Is bustin a nut to imagination a good tool to stay away from porn? Is it good when you're rebooting? It does give temporary fullfilment, but does it help with the progress or backfires it?
First of all I want to thank you for the thoughtful and lengthy comment!
I completely understand what you mean. There’s self improvement channels like Hamza, who haven’t struggled for as long as people such as me and who have had great success with sex and women etc so the relatability was never that great for me.. this is also why I think Pablo Benz is one of the best channels out there - his struggle is the real one. He shows exactly what I went through all my life. Relapsing every 3-10 days.
I can make a video where I talk about the imagination part and post it sometime next week :) the short answer is.. if you have been addicted to porn from a young age, I’m afraid imagination will very easily bring you right back to porn. Why? Because chances are, you think porn sex has something to do with real sex. Your mind will easily drift to porn fantasies because all your sexuality is connected to porn..
I even tried fapping while in my current relationship after having quit porn and I found out it would ruin me, simply because fapping made me fantasize and those fantasies turned into porn fantasies. Soon I was fantasizing about porn sex. This actually had an effect on the intimacy with my current partner for a while and it scared the hell out of me. So now I’m on nofap and retention except when I’m intimate with my girlfriend.
I hope you got something out of this comment, it’s a rather complex topic..
@@indiesorcerer ty for taking your time to answer :) I got a lot out of your reply👍