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Hey guys, it's Charlotte Dobre here and in this video, we're going to be talking about petty revenge. We've all been there - someone does us wrong and we can't help but plot our revenge. But sometimes, the revenge we seek is more petty than it is satisfying.
In this video, we'll be exploring some of the most outrageous examples of petty revenge out there. From stealing someone's parking spot to giving them a taste of their own medicine, we'll be diving into the world of small-scale revenge tactics.
But revenge isn't always a laughing matter. We'll also be discussing the impact that petty revenge can have on our mental health, our relationships, and even our safety. When revenge takes priority over forgiveness and understanding, it can lead to a never-ending cycle of pettiness and negativity.
So get ready to join me on a journey through the world of petty revenge. We'll be sharing some outrageous stories, providing some insights into human behavior, and maybe even learning a thing or two about how to let go of the need for revenge. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of our channel. Let's get started!
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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My ex-husband told me while we were married he hated women with short hair and redheads. He completely screwed me over with thousands of dollars of debt and ruined my credit score after five years together. I showed up to divorce court with short red hair. It was the best petty moment of my life.
I am sure you absolutely rocked it ❤!!!
@Freya778 been rocking it for 14 years, baby ❤️
😂😂
Yess girl
My MIL said short hair was “unfeminine”. I have naturally super curly hair, so the maintenance can be insane. I told her she was welcome to pay a hairdresser to show up at my house to do my hair, at least 2 hours before work each day while I continue to sleep, so that I don’t have to deal with it. I promptly cut it off the next day. Strange how she wasn’t willing to do that💁🏻♀️
My mother in law got us all shoes for Christmas one year, and my father in law, brother in law, and husband all had issues with their shoes, so she AUTOMATICALLY assumed I hated the absolutely AMAZING AND COMFORTABLE boots that she picked out for me. Thing is I genuinely loved those boots. But she insisted that I must hate them. We got into a heated argument because I had no issue with my gift. So I made it a point to wear those boots to every family gathering for the next two years. Even in the dead of summer.
That's the sweetest pettiest thing I've heard all week 😭
I get her thinking that you were just being polite, but having a heated argument over it when someone insists they're not?? Wtf
@@jasonellis4330 my mother-in-law is a special sort of something.
@@jasonellis4330 Unfortunately I've known people like that, it eludes me how the f they think...
@@LeeAllanSpades Stupid?
When my sister finally broke up with her abusive boyfriend a few years ago, my husband and I ordered pizza. We also bought cake, soda, chips and candy and had a sugarhyped picnic in our bed while watching a movie marathon to celebrate. I didn't dare tell my sister about that until about a year later and she just gave me this exsperated look that still makes me chuckle when I think about it. 😂
😮 I would have invited her 😁😆
Last night at work I got the best compliment. This lady is maybe in her 60's and she's having a glass of wine, everyone is jiving having a good time and I go to close her out. She says to me "you know who you remind of? Charlotte Dobre, you have her mannerisms."
Ya'll the squeal I squelt, I was so excited. It made my night and when she was done she looked at me before she left and went "Subscribe!"
Honestly the most wholesome moment of my life.
My petty story: In the late 1980s, I worked as a receptionist at a small company, owned by a couple. The wife was a very gossipy, nosy, nose-in-the-air type. One day, I was called into her office for wearing my skirts too short. Actually, my skirts hit me at the same place other women's in the office did, but my legs are long and I'm tall, I suppose more leg was showing. She informed me I was to buy new skirts or let out the length. I went home, let out the hems, and then left the raw edges unhemmed. I wore one to work the next day, all sassy and stuff, loose threads blowing in the breeze. Her husband nearly choked on his coffee when he saw me. She never said a word. I wore them like that for the next year. Thirty years later, when I run into former coworkers, they still remember that. I could have handled it better, looking back....but I was younger and the petty gene was still fresh.
You've got guts! And are now on my role models list!
You’re my hero for that! 😂
@@Amber-yq9ee maybe you could have dressed in a burqa or nuns robes instead haha. You tried you best under impossible circumstances so good for you. I’m sorry it was so bad and that you ended up not being totally pleased with your own conduct, but that’s how we grow.
I love this
Omg you are freaking awesome😂
I was in an abusive relationship in HS n then he moved to FL but came back to “bring” me there. I finally stood up for myself and that was that. Several yrs later was just talking to my Mom about how I did that and never let anyone do that again. Anyway, she said he sent many letters from FL read them and threw them out so I wouldn’t get sucked back in! She was the best MOM! Lost her a few mths back.
Sometimes we need someone to save us from ourselves.
That was a good mom! I just lost my mom in February. Hardest thing I've ever gone thru! Big hugs!💞
Imagine how many times she rolled her eyes when she read those 😂😂
Seashoremeg, your mom sounds awesome and I'm sorry sorry she's gone! 😞
I am so very sorry for your loss my most sincere condolensces! 💔
The girl at the end who said her petty is being nice so they can’t say anything bad about her: it is so effective. I used to be a preschool and kindy teacher. I worked with a woman who was super difficult, would scream at me in front of our students about things she thought I should be doing but I was under no obligation to do. For example: it was my free planning time to go wherever I needed to go to plan my lessons, and her time to supervise playtime. She expected me to plan in the playroom with her to “share the responsibilities” meanwhile she never did this on her planning time, so she knew this was BS. Also have you tried typing and getting quiet time around 40 little kids under the age of 5? It is impossible to have any sort of extended concentration to type up lesson plans or create materials bc all the kids are just going to come up and want to play with the materials lol. I loved the kids but that was the truth. Anyways, I never got aggressive back with this woman. I kept everything factual and unemotional, and I even went out of my way to be “nice and helpful” during other times. I gave her absolutely NOTHING to come back at me. Partially bc I just like the kind of workplace where everyone is respectful of each others time but still makes an effort to help each other out when we can. It’s not expected, but always pleasantly surprising and grateful when help happens. I had this kind of relationship with EVERYONE else on the staff. The other part of me knew if I kept it civil, she would have a long track record of popping off at people and being demanding, and my record would be squeaky clean.
So for the petty revenge: her contract came up for renewal. Now, the HR lady didn’t know about all the outbursts bc my manager handled it at the time. So she drafted up a new contract for the teacher to sign. Then, all the other teachers were upset and voiced to HR and mgmt. They all had run ins with that teacher and were pissed they’d have to work with her another year. Well I didn’t rly say much until I was asked “so what do you think?” And I just….told the truth. That I tried to be reasonable to her, and all I got back was hostility and aggression and insults. I detailed some of the things she screamed at me. The owner of the school said to HR: “take back the contract. if Val has a problem with her then there is a real problem. She is gone.” And that day, the woman was really really REALLY angry to everyone, and straight up stopped speaking to me at all. She was gone about a month later. Her replacement ended up becoming one of my best friends in the whole world. The lesson is: if you’re nice all the time and someone is being rude to you, they look like the asshole. So stay nice to spite them lol. Karma will come in the end. Or at least the court of public opinion hahaha.
When I was 13, I cut my hair "boy short" and dyed it fire engine red. My grandmother started on about how it was so ugly and people were going to think I was a *gasp* LESBIAN, etc. Looked her straight in the eye and said "Well, I didn't ask what you think, I don't care what they think. And, I'm bisexual." It was a big stink in the family for a while and was the first step to many of the reasons various family members don't speak to me anymore.
Edit to add another story: When my cousin had her first child, she posted on FB and all that, and her brother left a comment that said "Ew. Unfollow." Obviously, it was a joke and THAT side of the family actually has a sense of humor.
Okay, but that lady with the lashes is NAILING that outfit. I like how she went "I'ma be petty, AND look good."
Doja Cat!
2:06 the voiceover of Charolette singing “Since You’ve Been Gone” in a Cartman voice made me re-watch this segment
HAHAHAHA gotta avoid copyright claims somehow
@@CharlotteDobre I’d listen to the whole track 😂
Me too 😂
Honestly it sounded like Toad to me but either one works. They’re both amazing
Yes! I want more! 😂
I low key hate when people say ‘you’ve got to be careful about what you say about your partner unless you want your friends to hate them’
My ex use to say something VERY similar to this and I realise now it was only because he didn’t want me telling people all the horrible things he would do to me and realise how abusive he was to me. Maybe if I had talked about it more I would of realised how abusive he was and gotten out sooner.
Let’s normalise talking about partner. If your friends hate him, chances are they have a pretty good reason too.
💯 just make sure you tell them the good too lol
I agree 💯! Consider it something to reflect on and ask yourself what good could come from sugar coating the truth of your relationship, and what are you doing for your own mental health? Every situation is different but if you have to hide something out of fear, shame, or guilt, that’s a red flag.
My long distance boyfriend flew in for my Senior prom. So I had to pay for everything. I couldn’t afford to get new shoes, so I had to make do with what I had. He was shorter than I was and it was an issue for him. We made it through the picture line and then he threw such a fit we ended up leaving!! I never got to have my senior prom because he was mad I was taller than him. On the bright side, the photographer pulled me aside and told me I looked like Nicole Kidman…I think he knew there was an issue and tried to make my night, bless him.
The artist that did your lips did a great job. It looks naturally enhanced. Your body, your choices and you chose well.
Yes! 🎉Agreed!❤
100% 😍🙌🏼
I think she just permanently colored it, she didn't enhance them. Hence the natural look, because they are natural.
Didn’t even notice till she said something! That color matches her skin tone sooooo well!
Amen!!!!❤
I wish we could've gotten an "after" picture of the first one...after her hair cut! I'll bet it was BEAUTIFUL!
Yeah I was very disappointed we didn’t see the new do
I would love to see the result as well ❤!
I saw her in my reels or shorts and it's stunning!
She would of rocked it especially with her facial structure.
I thought the same thing.
7:46 "DING!!!" Lecturer stops talking...this was the absolute funniest...TypeWriterUs InterruptUs...
Best line... "Let's go get hideous today" absolutely slayed that in the first clip!
That typewriter one is SERIOUSLY petty because I have a typewriter and have been looking for ink strips to be able to use it for TEN. YEARS. They’re so hard to come by now, so he REALLY did something with that one 😂
Ebay and Amazon both carry typewriter ribbons. I love my typewriter.
Did you find some??
Sooooo did ya find some lol
I hope you find them. Your comment made the video extra petty and I appreciate you
ahem... were gonna need an update on your ink strips...
My husband and I did that very same break up dance when our oldest broke up with their significant other after a very long and toxic relationship. I can relate 100%.
The very last vid, the one about being petty with niceness, is legit how I live. I work in customer service and my absolute favourite thing to do is be so nice to grumpy customers that they end up kinda getting more annoyed because I’m not giving them any reasons to validate their rudeness. It’s literally killing them with kindness and it’s the best 😂
I give a big smile and wave to the people who finally pass and glare at me after I was "forcing" them to drive the speed limit. The limit in my city is 35. I've lived here for over 34 years. You don't speed here because the cops are bored af and are looking to write tickets. Will you get a ticket for 1 or 2 mph over? Yep. Rolled through one of the many stop signs? You bet. They don't play. I was cited two years ago on my birthday because the tail light was out. They could have just warned me, but they playing the petty game too.
Working at an airport has honed a level of subtle sassiness I never knew existed within me.
So satisfying getting a dig in and it goes over the passenger's head 😂
Oooh that last one is my favourite flavour of petty too. My ex spread stories I was the hysterical ex who can't let go (when we hadn't talked in months?) and then when there was a party of our shared group of friends for the first time in months, he brought his new girlfriend. So I was just really joyful and kind especially to her, just not showing a worry in the world. He got all mad and they left within half an hour and we never saw him again, lol. Obviously just showed up to see me get upset and got frustrated when I saw right through his plan and countered it with kindness!
I'm 36 with breast cancer and got through 3 treatments shaved my hair off with a #2 guard. Best thing I could have done for myself took control and did it, I look like a damn Goddess❤
When my moms chemo was over her hair grew back a beautiful silver and her hair short made her look 20 years younger. Have a beautiful journey ❤
I did the same thing!
We OWN that cut, that look.
When both my daughters and I cut off our hairs to give to Cancer Society ( she was 9, then when the youngest was born, she was 3) to make wigs. I was criticized for this action.
So, we did it until they started colouring their hairs. They were ok with the donations. I didn't stop until I got ill in 2016. We all knew someone that was touched by Cancer. Since those we knew then were young adults, it's specially detrimental for their mental development to not to experience doubts. And for them to develop their self worth and confidence. It may be a small thing, but for those that used our gifts, I hope that it aided them in their growth and recovery.
Chemo bald here, too. It's growing back but it's at that ugly stage where can't really do anything with it. I've grown my hair out before and know that in probably the next couple of months it will look much better. But right now I'm so sick of it looking like this I'm tempted to shave it off again. 😆
I have a chronic pain condition and my hair is naturally so thick and heavy that it was causing even more so it now gets shaved to scalp and it's the best thing ever. I don't think I can go back to having hair.
I love how she did the lashes.
And you should always be ready to throw a party when those you care about break up with a jerk.
Time to spill some tea…I had a long-term relationship in college and we were seriously discussing marriage, to the point that he asked my parents for permission to marry me. 2 weeks later, he dumped me, but me being me I begged for us to get back together and work things out (I used to be a major doormat but I’ve gotten much better). We dated another year after that (my entire senior year of college) but just before grad in May, my parents decided they’d be moving 4 states over to Houston (from Atlanta). They knew I was really torn about leaving my bf, but they gave me an “opportunity.” They said that they would never financially support me ever again if I stayed there with him, for him, and married him. But they WOULD buy me a BRAND NEW CAR if I dumped his ass and left the state with them. What to do, what to do? He and I were already having a bit of trouble, mainly his issues, and I suspected he cheated too. Soooo, I dumped his ass and took the brand new car! The look on his face was priceless…the same confused Pikachu face I had when he broke up with me, but this time around he was the one hurt and begging and pleading. Ahhh sweet sweet redemption! Best decision I ever made! I’m now happily married 8 years now to a wonderful man that respects me and is able to provide for us and loves me just the way I am. Had I not left, we would either have broken up anyways or I would have ended up working through til retirement at 60, despite being disabled, as a HS teacher married to another lowly paid HS teacher. Thank the Lord above for saving me from that hell and for giving me such awesomely petty yet just parents. Best grad gift ever…I still have the car which is still under 100k miles, in amazing condition, and a bonus…no payments were made on my part because my parents bought it free and clear, leaving me with zero debt. Were they petty for doing it? Probably, but more so desperate. Was I bribed? Yes, but it was worth it. Was it also the best thing my parents could have possibly done for me? Also yes. Sometimes your parents do know best, but bribery, especially financial or materialistic, helps the medicine go down in the most delightful way☂️🎶 (Mary Poppins anyone?)
Parents are sometimes the masters of petty, and the masters of “how do we get through without as much resistance? Time for a left turn!”
@@monroerobbins7551 That’s for sure! As a grown woman now, I can completely appreciate that and I even respect some of their decisions a lot more with some hindsight.
My daughter started coloring her hair magenta pink a few years ago…lots of people were like, “ Omg, it’s too bright, you couldn’t pick a better shade?” 🙄She said, “ Good thing it’s my head & not yours” Now, all I see is people with the same exact color in their hair…guess it was a good choice after all? 😂 Mind your business & carry on -it’s a good way to live life👍🏼
One of my professors at Uni told us to put our laptops away for her class and take notes by hand. She explained that it has been proven that when you hand write your notes, you retain the info better. You usually can't write every word down so you're forced to process what is being said and summarize it in a way that makes sense for you to study later (versus typing everything that's being said).
I take notes by hand. I think the physical process also helps to encode the information
That is 1 of the ways I excelled in school. I have a VERY good memory. So typically I never had to study really. There were some classes that were harder for me & required more attn than normal. & More so once I got in College but my methods stayed the same & proved time & time again that that were effective. I took notes by hand or even by laptop. But then when I'd get home regardless if it was written or typed, I would hand-write my notes into my notebook to make it look neater & not be so sloppy & to fix mistakes or edit them to make more sense to me. & Then I would re-write them (again by hand) in my notebook but this time I would color code my notes. Which typically meant that I pulled out my many colored pens & rewrote them in diff colors either corresponding to a Key like vocab is pink, facts are blue , etc. But sometimes it wasn't color coded for a reason. Just I found it more obvious & clear to see each separate point in a diff color so they didn't run together. & I could distinguish between them. Oft times I found that last step not really necessary bc it was already so ingrained in my head I didn't even need to look at my notes to rewrite them. But it helped me feel more prepared & especially when it was a subject I had more trouble w\ or rather the ones that just didn't come easy or natural. But it worked 💯% of the time!
Until you want to review your notes and your handwriting is illegible chicken scratch. I wish I could have typed notes in class.
It would be great if I didn't have carpal tunnel 😂 mind I didn't know I have it until I was 30.. 😂 fck 😅
Between handwriting my notes and recording the lectures, it was a total game changer for me.
Good Morning Petty Potatoes!
Good morning fellow petty potato 😄
Good evening you mean 🙈 #Netherlands 🇳🇱 it's 18:15 over here.
I love sitting down with my dinner every day and put Charlotte on 😁
Good afternoonnnnn
🌅 🥔 ❤
9 am here on the west coast of the USA!
I've been watching true crime videos for at least 4 years. Watching hours of murder videos has taken a toll. I switched to your channel. Who knew pettiness and bridezillas could be such a refreshing change.
Oh, it’s totally me, sis! 😄
My petty story from this week comes from my neighbor mowing her lawn at 6:40am. She finished by 7 then started in on her neighbor's lawns. She was mowing down weeds with no collection bag on the mower for a good couple hours while everyone else trying to sleep. I poured myself a coffee. That was a good morning.
Why though
As a girl who’s shaved her head multiple times and cut it a bunch of times I laugh at this. 😂
lmfao me too
I shave the sides and back, top is long but it's up in a ponytail, bun, or braid so it's visible
Same. It's just hair, it grows back!
my ex MIL told me when i was in beauty school... oh your hair is short, you dont plan on taking it shorter right? any shorter would be so masculine. i went and got it cut boy short the next day and showed up at the next dinner with it hot pink and purple. she never brought up me looking feminine again. i told her, i love it, i could care less how anyone feels about it. she was like what about your husband? i said, he fucked me last night, no issues, i think hes ok with it. her mouth fell on the floor. my hub spit his drink on the table and my FIL busted up laughn so hard he almost choked on his dinner.
I shaved my hair for 4 years and the day after my wedding I probably will again 😅 my mom thinks it’s a waste but still supports me.
I've 'only' shaved my head once and my grandmother forbade me from coming to church on Christmas lol
I was like _No biggie, we've been over this when you called me a slut for wearing lipstick at 14 Nonna. Can't wait to hear about how much your ass hurts from those old benches._
Come next year, my male cousin had grown his hair to shoulder length just to piss her off. I really love all my cousins but he sure has a special place in my heart lol
That dishwashing one was a trigger. When I was in college my passive-aggressive mother used to vacuum down the hall and run INTO my bedroom door with the vacuum on Saturday or Sunday mornings if I'd been out the night before.
Charlotte + her editors = pure magic 🖤🖤 I look forward to this everyday!! Now every time my kids want something and it’s a no I’m always like “ absoluteeeely NOT “ except I’m the only one who gets the joke 😂
I've definitely accidentally picked up some of her speech patterns, too!!
After the break up of my daughters first relationship not only did I jump up around, I whipped out my wallet, took her and her best friend shopping, then to the spa, then to the coolest restaurant, dropped them off for a few hours smiling the whole. The attention those two got was worth every penny ❤
As a girl spoilt for leaving the abusive relationship it really helps solidify that it was best to leave and have a huge self esteem boost becausetu loose th😅
I had a horrible very short male manager who always tried to position himself to be taller...in weird awkward ways.
So all the women took to wearing platform shoes and standing really close so he had to look up. I had a pair of 4" platforms. I was willing to risk breaking my ankle..
Very petty and satisfying.
The Oreo story is such a classic sibling story. I really feel like I lived through the same kinds of arguments with my sister.
In regards to short hair versus long hair, I had short hair from 1st grade until 7th grade (ages 7-13), and no one ever told me I needed to have long hair. Eventually I decided to grow it, and I’ve had it long ever since, but their are times when I miss my short hair. Especially when my hair is wet and takes forever to dry since it’s so thick. Also for sibling pettiness, I once took one of my brother’s game cube games and hid it in the couch cushions so they couldn’t play it! One of my brother’s got a football video game for Christmas, and wouldn’t stop playing it. I got so sick of not being able to watch tv when I wanted, that I took the game and hid it in the couch cushions of the old couch in the basement. It took them months to find it, and I honestly think it was my mom that found it. I told her that I hid it there and she just laughed.
Dead set, when I was a teen, my mum would vacuum our house at 8am on a Saturday morning with Queen blasting on the stereo while I was still sleeping and I would be so angry. As a mum myself now… I respect her pettiness 😅
💯% & Ive a new appreciation for things I didn't understand then & she'd say 1 day you'll understand. Probably when you're a Mom yourself. & I want you to remember I TOLD YOU SO! & I would be SO FREAKING TICKED📴! & now I'm like 🙄😒 lol. & I find enjoyment in discovering new & inventive ways to torture my children & embarrass them .. pretty sure that makes me kinda evil. But I would never hurt them actually. Just harmless petty fun! 🤣🤣
Grandma was really good at getting everyone to pitch in on Saturday cleaning.
She managed to make a huge pot of dressed up cream of wheat with fruit, eggs, toast and bacon.
If you wanted any you had to get up when you heard her calling and help do your share of the jobs for the day.
If you ignored her you had the kitchen assigned to you after you got up with whatever was leftover after everyone ate
I’m not even a mum, but I’m turning into my mum more and more every year, lol!
I set off the smoke alarm at 7am every morning for a week (that's legally what time you can make noise from). Because the neighbours kept me up until 6am, three week days in a row, I had to be up at 6, so no sleep.
@@UsandEveryoneWeKnow I love that! I had neighbours that used to play very loud club music until 4am, when I had to be up at 6am the next morning. I used to go and tell them to turn it down all the time.
Can we appreciate how gorgeous Charlotte looks in every vídeo? Her hair, makeup, clothes, smile...she's amazing. An inspiration. ✨✨✨👑
Agreeeddd
I might have to look into lip tattoos ❤ her lips look gorgeous 😍
Her smile brings me unreasonable joy. ❤
She’s caiotic yet beautiful
Your lips turned out absolutely flawless!!! I wouldn't even have known without the super cool video earlier! I didn't even know it was a thing! You're just out here doing the Lord's work.
Not Charlotte whisper screeching “yeah” into the mic when that one woman said “Sometimes it’s fun to be petty sometimes” 😂😂❤
When my last boyfriend broke up with me I said "I guess no one wants me" and my dad said "I'll always want you" and gave me a hug. ❤
Years ago, I told a long time man friend that a woman friend was going to have brain surgery and I was going to shave my waist length hair off in support. Our friendship ended that day. He thought it was a stupid idea. Thank you Mr for your honesty. It turned out a full shave was unnecessary so we didn't do it!
I think it is wonderful that you wanted to support your friend.
Things like that mean a lot.
He self selected himself right out of your friendship. Good on you for being a supportive friend!
He's missing out on a good friend but probably was there for something else anyway 🙄way to support your friend who's doing something terrifying 🥰🧡💜🧡
My cousin had meningitis, and her natural hair became matted when she was in the hospital and there was talk of shaving her head. I told a mutual friend (her maid of honor, btw), that if that happened, I'd shave mine in solidarity. She was like "Um, no, I'm not doing that."
It...absolutely changed how I saw her. Like, someone can say they'd do anything for someone else, but stuff like that tells you who really would do anything for you, you know?
(We ended up not having to do it--my mom and aunt spent hours combing it out while she was in her coma)
You can be as nice as possible and they'll STILL find SOMETHING to talk about. Truth 👏🏻
But you should be proud of your behavior.
I was in the opposite situation. I always had very long hair and I never contemplated cutting them, until I lost someone I loved and went a bit crazy because I was going through a roigh time. So I decided to change my entire look and get a bob cut.
I kept it for two years or so, I was kind of searching for my style at the time, but eventually I decided that I was more confortable and myself with a classic haircut and decided to grow them back.
All of ny aunts have short haircuts, !two are lesbians and the third is a hardcore feminist) and when I decided to grow my hair back they kind of shamed me for it. Like my short hair were a sign of emancipation from the patriarchy or something and letting them get longer again was like submitting back to stereotypical femininity.
I LOVE it when Charlotte has her hair up 'bratty' style 😂
On a different note, As someone who had her hair boy-short -and now has healthy long hair that I'm proud of- it's SUPER comfortable and practical. My bathing/showering time, blowdrying time, product consumption etc was A TENTH of what it currently is. Especially if you have a busy life or certain jobs, it's perfect. I cut it when I was 17 and kept it short throughout college, and as someone who had to go to a different city for med school, and was living in a compact dormitory, it was not just easy, but healthy as well, with reduced risk of infection (fungus, lice etc.). And after that it became a new beginning for my hair to grow healthily with proper maintenance. if someone is stopping you from cutting your long hair, ask them if they're going to do your hair care routine for you. They won't, so don't listen to them.
As someone who has preferred my hair in a pixie cut, I completely agree. My sister commented that I look like a boy. And I replied, "So?" With the tone of "Do I look like a give a fuck?"
I use same amount of shampoo as someone with short hair 😅 shampoo is for scalp not the whole length of hair 😂
@@laurastrele you're right but I'd argue that it's far easier applying shampoo directly onto your scalp when you've got short hair especially if your hair is quite thick like mine. I didn't even need to sectionalize short hair.
Also my hair and scalp somehow feels oilier than when I had short hair and I shampoo my hair twice, while I didn't need to before.
@Azure I have thin hair amd long. I find my hair hard to deal with because I need only so small amounts of shampoo, otherwise it doesn't wash out and feels dirty straight after, especially if I haven't died in a while 😅 we all have so different hairs and we all care for it different
Dad once said I was prettier with long hair. I have gone with a masculine pixie cut the past seven years now. He hasn’t said anything.
And I no longer have neck and shoulder problems. My hair is just so dratted thick! Very fine strands, but a LOT of them. The stylist I go to loves my hair, says it’s some of the softest she’s ever had the delight to work with.
My mom dated a classmate of mine a few years back (him and I were in our mid/late 30s, but still weird). He ended up stalking her for another 2.5yrs & after she retired 1500 miles away, until I posted about it all over my social media and let our small town of 7K people take care of it for her. They did. I’m still allowed to say told you so.
My true crime brain is loving this. Is he missing presumed dead.😂
@@PandaMonium92827 lol now you've got me thinking! But you can't arrest a whole town right?😅 l o l.
My mother dated a younger man for a while he wasn't exactly my age. Maybe maybe 6 or 7 years older and it was a little odd.(and so was he) I can see it being more difficult if they were actually a classmate or a former friend. I hope she moved because she wanted to not because she was trying to get away from this jerk. But Of course, My other thought is your mom must look really good for her age which means you are going to look great too!!! So that's a positive that your family has good genetics! ( No offense intended if she's not your bio mom.)
The energy on “well bitch, you’re NOT invited” was perFECTION
10:15 my sister does this, she will have snacks and I eat them because she doesn’t eat them and when she goes to eat them months later she yells at me.
Umm hello eat them when you get them 😂😂😂
LMAO!!! One of my 4yo twins just came in the room while I was watching you singing "since you been gone" and he busted out laughing and said "mommy shes silly like you!" ...Omg adorable. Love you, Charlotte!
I have really long, thick, frizzy hair. One summer I was irritated at how hot I was and feeling the sweat sticking to my nape so I asked my stylist for an undercut. It was terrifying because I had never done anything like that before but Omg… it was soooo nice to feel the breeze and feel cool during the summer. I thought most of my family members would think it was hideous, especially if my hair was pulled up. But I was shocked that everyone was super supportive and said it looked great. And my dad who is the most critical of them all said it looked “badass!” Lol. I might do it again soon. I grew it out for my wedding. I kinda miss it.
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Hey, it's not just mustard; it's Dijon. I've got class, dammit!
no laptops his entire room just slowly devolved into laughter understanding the pettiness of the entire situation just cant be mad XD
As someone who buzzed their hair for the gender euphoria, those who love you will support you regardless of your hair and will be happy to see you happy!
Yeah I was like I bet this family member is queer and I love that their cool family member is standing up for them wirh her own hair
When I cut my hair short (pixie cut!) A lot of my friends told me it looked amazing! I felt so confident and happy with my choice. Years later, when my hair grew back, they told me to never do that again because I looked like a little boy and they were embarrassed to be seen with me! 😅
Well, guess who had only one friend left after that? 😋 The one who told me right away that she didn't like the look on me, but still supported me!
Can confirm, have shaved my head several times for lots of reasons (was probably bald under the wig happening in my profile pic) and it's the greatest feeling ever. Well, until you realize that the draft from the HVAC system will make you wear a hat to bed. Still a great way to go
@@SensationallySilky omg no literally I was not ready for how cold I was before it started to grow out 😂
@@ConstantChaos1 we love a supportive family member 🥹
Am I the only one absolutely loving the blue eyeliner Charlotte is rocking in this video, like it's subtle but such a statement!!
Your videos give me a much needed break from my anxiety everyday, I appreciate you so much!
Love that the type writer dings at the end of every line 🤌 muah
I love the "No laptops? Okay I'll use a typewriter then." part, the professor talking so quietly about whatever and the CLICK CLICK CLIK.....DING!!!!! from the typewriter omg the ding and everyone laughing because of it, that is insane and i love it. ^_^
I had a toxic boyfriend in 2011 (I was 16, in year 11 UK). Mum spotted the red flags, called up her brother (who lived across the country), and had me spend a few days with him and his wife. I'd ghosted him, revised for my end of year exams, and when I came back home, I confirmed with mum that we'd broken up 🤣 3 years later, I met my soon-to-be husband. Mum loves him!
I love the energy of the woman in the first one. I had a "boy cut" (aka pixie cut) for years and just recently started growing my hair out again in 2020 because of the pandemic. Anybody who rocks short hair is just as gorgeous as those with long hair.
You always look 110%!! Your literally one of the most beautiful RUclipsrs inside and out and you are authentically your crazy self 😅 that’s why we all love you!! You do you 💜💜
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this is a dad that has had to listen to EVERY drama filled minute of this doomed relationship for a LONG time...
1. I didn't even notice it was a tattoo! Good for you, it looks great and now you don't have to wear lipstick/stain unless you really want to, lol. Hope it heals well!
2. The lash look is amazeballs, and reminded me of something: I like saying that spite is a great motivator. Spite is a close cousin of pettiness. I had a college professor that thought all anime and manga was nothing but porno and not worth the time spent making it. I'm a huge nerd and study comics, so this pissed me off to no end. The final paper for that class (Japanese Art History) was supposed to be a maximum of 8 pages on any topic relating to the class. I wrote 26 pages on the history of Anime and Manga, carefully noting how it evolved from scrolls we had spent *more than one class* discussing, its use as a propaganda tool, how Japan technically had the first animation *ever*, etc etc.
I changed his mind on the subject and am still proud of that. Fuck close-mindedness. (I still have the paper, too.)
I'd never think of a thing like tattooing lips.... that's a fantastic idea!
Also, that's awesome! Good for you! Some people just need put in their place 😂
The typewriter scene is FABULOUS!!!
Spent night at friends house, her mom woke us up at 3am...I told you both to do dishes last night...so she stood there while we did the dishes at 3am....bless you ms.strong
Omg I relate to the last one! At work right now they told me to “maybe work on yourself” so that I could get the position next time… I asked my boss and my bosses boss if they had ANYTHING I’d be able to do better. Any examples, or corrections to be made, gave them a week, and they didn’t have anything to say but “it’ll get easier for you in time!” 😒 it most certainly will… as soon as I find a different job and quit.
My family very openly hated my first bf, but they did not dance when we broke up. My parents were very understanding and comforted me. My sisters might have celebrated, though.😂😂😂
Girl, you have come so far since naked man! I know it was hella scary going out there on your own, but look at you! And now you have The Swipe Life?? Ahhhhh! So proud and so happy for you!
I laughed so hard when she said, "No laptops? How are we supposed to take notes?" I'm so old I took typing in high school. I used to ask my Zoomer daughter if it was distracting to have the sounds of a whole class typing on their laptops during a lecture. That was one advantage of using notebooks and pens. It was very quiet. And you didn't need a power source to study.
Imma be so honest I’m Having the absolute worst past 8 months of my life and you’ve really helped me out if it means I can get a little laugh in my day
Nowhere to go but up 💜
I can definitely relate, last few months have been really tough for me as well, but even when it feels annoying, find your silver linings. You gotta take time to feel the sad/angry/whatever, but not for too long or it can put you in such a bad headspace. Find the good or the "at least..." of it all and truly whatever has been put in your way you can handle it even if you didn't think you could before. Stay tough!
❤
In high school I told my mom I was THINKING about breaking up with my then boyfriend while we were shopping at Target. She seriously started crying tears of joy in the isle and had to call my dad right away to tell him the news. So you can about imagine her reaction when I actually DID break up with him. 😂
The last one my mom calls killing with kindness, nothing makes a disgruntled customer more mad or thrown off than meeting their rage with sweetness
Having short hair feels amaaazziiiinnnggggg. I get really bad migraines and live in FL so I cut my hair pretty much as short as you can without it being a buzz cut. I absolutely love it
Just got out from having a root canal, perfectly timed to watch my daily dose of Charlotte!
As an RN working 3-11 shift, I cleaned the house, did the laundry and had dinner ready for my husband ( now ex) and the kids to put in the oven, I got home and the house was a disaster, sink full of dishes ( we had a dish washer) bathroom a mess, I woke them all up, and told them “ I left this place spotless, I’m going to take a shower, it better be spotless when I get done” ! They never left the house a mess again !
My youngest niece cut her hair short last summer just before graduating from senior school (= age 16, here in England, then you go onto academic or vocational courses), looks cute, really suits her. Doesn’t do dresses. Didn’t want to go to the official school prom, so my sister threw her an “anti-prom” in their back garden. She & the other guests dressed in “ugly prom” (= 1980s hideous frilly or whatever). Niece rocked up dressed all MIB/secret-agent-cool, including sunglasses, and looked fabulous doing so! 😎🥰
Omg! The 2am cleaning, I can so relate. I told my son that because he was skipping work and I was working (we work at the same job, at home), he can clean up the kitchen. Later that night, when he was sleeping, and hadn't touched the kitchen, I let my chagrin be known by THROWING the cutlery from one side of the kitchen, to the other side, where the dishwasher was....one.. piece...at...a...time.
I dated a dude for 2 and a half years. I thought everyone really liked him because of how much time they all spent with each other.
One day, I tell my mom I was gonna break up with him that day, and she told me, “it took you that long?!” 🤣
4:12 I though she would make a dress ENTIRELY made with eyelashes, but that is funny.
I freaking love it when women do things for THEMSELVES that please THEM. They say critical folks speak the loudest, but I hope that changes in my lifetime. I try to speak up IRL as well as on tik toks and the like when bullies start flapping their yaps. P.S. Your smile looks wonderful Charlotte and whoever did your tattoo did fantastic job!
Ok I love the Oreo one. The fact that he knew all the math, how many sleeves, Oreos, and the timeframe...lmao! Dark Brandon is legit, he's said some amazingly petty things.
Your lip tattoo is gorgeous and people who don't mind their own business have nothing better to do in their lives . Hugs from Italy, Charlotte 🫂❤
Thank you bestie! Claudia is my moms name!
The only good thing I got from an ex was the phrase “You don’t have to marry them” (as in, got issues with a person, well guess what, you don’t have to live with them and their decisions and if their life and decisions aren’t birthing themselves or others, just shrug, keep your rude thoughts to yourself, and just be glad “you don’t have to marry them” and get along with your day) Haters must have very boring lives if being critical of others is the best thing they’re doing with their time 🤷🏻♀️😘👍🏼
Hahaha what an autocorrect, that was meant to be if they’re not *hurting* anyone 🤦🏻♀️🙃
@@Slowplaymae you said what you said! 😉 I followed it tho and thought you were implying that if they were not birthing goodness and joy but this is cool too. 😉
I want a crazy amount of her videos today, and I didn’t even know 😂
YEEEES on that last one. I call it my “Classy Petty.” It takes time & patience but it INFURIATES your enemies. It’s delectable 😈
The dishes part is so relatable ... except when i have to yell "BUT THEY'RE YOUR DISHES!!!?"
The being as nice as possible is exactly what I do at work lol. Like they know they're looking for an argument, and I know they're looking for an argument, and when I give them literally nothing to complain about they don't know how to handle it. I had a lady break her own shopping bag trying to get away from me so fast because she didn't know what to do 😂.
My Man just looked over my shoulder and asked ‘Is that Charlotte??’ (He recognized her beautiful hair!) I said yes, of course!
I had no idea the Potato Family reached so far!! We’re both in our mid forties, lol, but we both love good comedy!
Thank you Charlotte!!
Wishing you all well, my friend!
Have a great day!♥️
(Hey Mike!👋🏻)
I was surprised when my first long-term boyfriend broke up with me my quiet asf dad was like…”hopefully the next boyfriend won’t be such a total weiner, you can do better” 🤭
lol. Your Dad is awesome.
I can relate to the unfollow girl one. I dont give people a chance to unfriend me cause as a child i was bullied for being overweight and then they would friend request me and i would deny them with a reminder of how crappy they treated me.
Don’t listen to the haters, be petty, be yourself! Thanks Charlotte! ❤
6:12 my first boyfriend was also about 1 inch taller than me and I love wearing platform shoes. He would always make me feel self conscious about my height. After we broke up I wore my favorite shoes out to the bar (platform of course) and he was there and made a comment about my height which I replied “Maybe you should grow a little then” 🙊
I just adore these videos so much 😂 Thank you for yet another great dose of petty 😊
That first one made me laugh. I've mostly had boy short hair all my life, mostly because my hair gets super curly and thick as it grows out. I might look okay with long hair, but having my hair moulting everywhere and looking like I've been electrocuted isn't worth it lol.
honestly i went through an emotional spiral once and unfollowed everyone i hadn’t spoken to since leaving school (past best friends included) and it’s been like 4 years now and a lot of them still follow me and i feel so bad and want to follow them back but at this point i don’t think i can😭
Haha that one at the end. I used to work in retail and just never took anything personally so I was able to stay polite and professional. One time a guy got mad at me for, I kid you not, "being TOO nice". He wanted to make a complaint but the manager was literally right next to me during this and just could not help busting out laughing in front of the guy. He might have had a point tho. I tend to smile even bigger the more irrational a customer is 😅
I used to be a long hair girlie. I became disabled and it became difficult to care for, plus my hair started falling out anyway. So I started looking at short cuts and I cut it all off! Then I kept getting shorter! I love the freedom and the ease of caring for it now that it's shorter than my shoulders.
The lashes was the most creative response. But the typewritter was superb and made me laugh.
Once the (to be expected) swelling went down, your lips looked (and still do) fabulous. Color's a great shade on you, the shape the artist inked looks very natural and suits your face...what's not to love? They did great work, and you look fab, Potato Queen! 🥔👑💋
I had a university professor that said they would prefer people use laptops for taking notes. A couple weeks in she had a huge presentation on the big projector screen of all the photos her TAs took of people playing games, checking their social media, RUclips, etc., and said they're not wasting her time but they are wasting their own time AND their money by coming to class but not paying attention. lol
I had a few professors in my college who didn't allow us to take notes on our laptops.
Scientifically, you remember more when you handwrite notes rather than typing them.
I love how no one laughed until the typewriter went "ding!". That little bell has been the punchline in so many things...
I love u charlotte, i swear my mornings are not complete without you! Queen petty potato ❤ thank you for everything you do, you’ve saved me without knowing and ill always be grateful