It has nothing to do with Social Class but it's not always a good idea to have a relationship with someone who works with you or for you. I have no issue with dating a Filipina that works as a maid but I don't think I could get into a relationship with one that lives with me. It's possible to fall in love with a maid because sometimes Love is that powerful..but I would not preplan for it to happen by hiring a maid I could fall in love with
One thing he narrator forgot to mention is that having a maid in the Philippines is a good idea whether she is live in or not, because she will be buying groceries and other items for you. A number of merchants will charge foreigners more money for goods and services, so a maid can help avoid that problem.
At times when living in Indonesia I have had maids cleaning and laundry, never had any complaints although none of them were what most people would call attractive but they were employed to partake specific roles not to look at.
Honesty and Trust are essential. Consider her future. My wife worked for an American family in Singapore. She worked 7 days a week, with Sunday afternoons off. In addition to cooking and cleaning, she cared for 2 children. She made $80 a month in 1995. Not much opportunity for a family of her own. Fortunately we're happily settled in Central Texas now, with 2 great kiddos of our own.
God bless you and your wife if you work the job for an American family in 1996 making $80 a month that’s way way too low. The work she was doing all that bag then minimum $250 a day
In Hong Kong, I used to get up early to bring my son down to the school bus stop before dawn, as the school was quite far away. I would see another mother there with her child, but she still required their maid to accompany them to the bus stop before dawn. I bet she had to work until 8 pm minimum as well. What's the point of that? It's just abusive if the mother is able to bring the kid to the bus.
It's almost like a honey trap. Maybe it's best to frequently rotate maids? Find out what the goals/ambitions of the maid are and attempt to help them achieve these goals. That will make it much easier to move on at the end of a contract.
The old proverb of "Don't poop where you eat." applies here in my opinion. Having a live-in maid is a great idea, especially when she knows all the best places to shop and avoids the "foreigner tax" that so many businesses in the Philippines will charge you just because they perceive you as being uber rich and able to afford it. Falling in love with your employee is just a bad idea. Keep it civil, keep it professional, keep it respectful, even try to make it FRIENDLY, but don't make it into something more.
Sounds like good advice but I counter with don’t overlook possibilities. How many women have you worked with when you realize what a truly great woman she is? Don’t blow it it off because she “only a maid”.
@@lavern007 Good point, but let me counter with this: Even two wonderful people can fail at a relationship, and when it does fail, it more often than not results in at least some hard feelings and separation. Now, take that and add to it the strong potential of losing a wonderful maid in the process (the Philippines is, unfortunately, full of "not so good" maids") and you lose twice. As for falling in love with a woman that is "only a maid", nothing wrong with that. I just think you need to keep your romantic live separated from your professional one. Anyway, take it easy, mate!
I had many live in maids in my adult life. I started in the 80's when I was n the Navy. Our submarine would have a 30 day upkeep in Subic Bay. Many of us would live in town and have a maid included in the rent. She took care me all time I as there cooked, cleaned, and paid the bills on time. She also my guide to the beaches and places to shop. But nothing came from it. It wasn't until I retired from the Navy and worked for a company that was building the new airport in Bangkok, Thailand. The apartment the company rented provided a cook and a maid. The maid was her daughter, she was young, beautiful, and attentive to you me. I didn't want to change the employer-employee relationship, however she wore me down an today we are happily married.
Women and men in the Philippines are very hard working. It’s very easy to fall in love in the Philippines women and men are respectful hard working treats their partner as a queen/king they are always happy and grateful.
Yes they can end up falling in Love. Love is about taking care of each other and whenever two people are in Love then they can decide to pursue a relationship.
In the early 80's I was stationed in Korea and had friends that were stationed in the Philippines before the bases were closed. Most of them had rented homes off base and had maids and gardeners. It was extremely affordable, even for military personnel. Sometimes there were extra curricular activities going but that was very common in the PI at that time.
There was a tv show called The Courtship of Eddie's Father (1969) with Bill Bixby. Everyone in the country wondered why he didnt just marry his Japanese housekeeper, Mrs Livingston (Miyoshi Umeki). It rode on the tail of post-war obsession with Japanese and other asian women. As a side note, the theme song by Harry Nilsson, Best Friend, is one of the greatest theme songs ever. I never figured out why she was named Mrs Livingston.
You can ask the same question of any boss/employee scenario. The answer is always no, it's a bad idea. Just because she is a maid and works in your home rather than working in an office you manage doesn't make it a better idea. No, no, no.
Unfortunately a man and a woman living together will likely turn to romance. Especially with Filipina's because they are the most kind and beautiful women you will ever meet.
@@Shaolin91zTry it anywhere in the world you will find this will happen. A man or woman can not live together without getting close. As far as being a simp that's funny in the fact that you don't know me since I am 62 divorced 40 years, debt free and half mil in investment and don't date at all and would never let a women live with me because I know this happens all the time.
@@HiTechFX I understand. I have one of those brat Filipina too. They aren't all that great. They enjoy ordering people around. Especially the kids and me the husband. I give her trouble if she gets out of hand. I just tell her. Now sex. That pisses her off. Filipina is an uncontrollable sex manic. And I don't have to explain that either.
@@HiTechFX I know you do. I meant no sex. Not now sex. Filipina is always ready. But they are too dumb to understand how the mans sexual function works.
Culture VS nurture but be careful ..People misinterprets job description with benefits versus trust and responsibilty.On the other end of the spectrum one encounters bad employer, some are unkind, rude and abusive. There are contributing factors to a relationship between employer and employee. .You nailed it right in your own story. Being a maid is a job just like working in an office or institution. Work ethic is always the standard of engagement in a career. One's personality include upbringing, good behavior and education. There are stories about a maid and employer that ends in a good relationship becoming in love with each other. Vulnerability , closeness ,trust and willingness to share feelings of care can develop into something reciprocal just like in any love story ..
My parents separated. Went home to visit my dad in the Philippines. Come to find out our maid who was in her late 30s having relations with this man. I shoke my dad's hand and told him to enjoy his life 😂.
Easy to start, nearly impossible to end. When you and the person live like spouses, any separation is extremely painful. You can think that she is just a maid that you are having a relationship with in the house. But she sees you as a partner and an emotional support. As a single, sometimes paying for sex is not a bad idea. Because having a relationship is seriously very stressful. You may think its 'free' sex, but in reality you are or will ultimately be paying more than just that handful of dollars.
Don't do it. You will never know if it is love or finances. Keep the relationship business. Also, make sure to have a lawyer write up a work contract. If there is no work contract a woman that lives with you may take you to court and take half of your money.
@Michael Lewis A woman in the philippines does not have to be married to you to take half your property. She only has to show that she was your girlfriend.
For me, keep it professional, but if a relationship develops and is really based on love, mutual respect and concern for each other, it might lead to marriage which would be a blessing, however if not, then it can easily lead to many problems and potential disaster and legal problems for one or both of them.
@@Bravefit Very true on a few counts. No, I haven't experienced real love. Yes, women do fall in love very fast. And just as fast they fall out of love. Especially if you run out of money.
*Kamusta kayo ate.* Yes, I subscribed and your comments are very good and accurate, in my opinion. I am practicing Tagalog writing as well as speaking, since my Filipinan wife and I each have over 10,000 mostly Filipino subscribers. Mabuhay po.
If a single man has a woman who takes care of all the household chores, and he has to treat her with respect and fairness (as well he should treat her, just like he should treat everyone with respect), that woman should be called a wife! That is the duty of a traditional wife. If he does not want to "wife her up", keep it strictly professional and don't have her live in his home! Pay her a livable wage so that she does her work during the day and goes back to her own domicile at night.
Live in is better and keep It business - those live in maids are indispensable for family Support. They are part of the family but should Not be the spouse
Personally 🎉 YES that would be an exciting way to start a glamorous exciting relationship way of true love 💕 because having a live in maid means she's single & so let the sparks ignite!!!
Man if I was 20 years younger I would love to move to the Philippines. Some of the most beautiful women in the world . Great weather and very reasonable cost of living.
That can be an uncomfortable situation! for example, if the live in maid falls in love with her employer because she sees he's well off! and can provide for her & her family! The employer realize it but doesn't feel the same about her! It could get dicey! she may want to sabotage his food, finances, or set him up to get robbed or worse! On the other hand it may work if he sees beyond her physical attraction and notices she has virtue, no children, the employer runs' a security check! She doesn't have a criminal history or arrest record, no bad reputation as a slut or bar girl. Isn't a drinker,smoker, drug user or gambler. Submissive, kind, and prudent. I can see myself falling in love with a woman like that definitely!!!
I've been an expatriate in many countries and had maids in most. Never a live in maid. A number of times, the maid had been a widow or a divorcee. Ive had great relationships and affairs with these maids. The good thing is that this goes under cover.. no one knows and is usually mutually beneficial, giving the maids extra money.
Before I became disabled my Filipina wife used to visit the PIL 12 years in a row. We had several young girls as maids however I would NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH 'THE HELP.' My wife and I have a 33-year marriage and we have no intentions of messing that up.
I married a Philippine lady and have changed her life beyond her wildest dreams and have secured her lifetime future making her a Philippine millionaire many times over
Employee/Employer relationships should remain Professional. In very limited circumstances, a Single guy with a "Hottie" Maid, so long as she has no Husband or long term Boyfriend....It could happen, but if things don't work out, it could be disastrous.
I never though of this since I have been alone for 14 yrs and moving to the philippines where I want to enjoy life with a woman who I can talk too and the possibility of a relation forming seems like a good Idea if you are older and just need someone around. Its a good relationship. I would have never tired online dating if I could hire a maid and just be a friend in the house.
If two people fall in love, it is between them, not us. Same with age differences. Some people, especially in countries like here in the USA, put too much focus on age. I have met so many couples that are the same age but are very unhappy, I have seen men in their 70s with women in their late twenties or in their 30s that are deeply in love with each other, and both are happy. Love is the key, not money, not looks, not age, etc, but do they love and respect each other, THAT'S what really matters.
Love is love, relationships happen, so it’s fine as long as their is no exploitation of the situation. The decision that has to made is the one of when the employer needs to go home. Does he commit to taking her back with him.
Love has no boundaries Universal lore of respect When you connect to someone money religion colour status means nothing Finding your true ♥️its the 💖✨️✨️ Finding the foundation for your little 🍎🌳 means ♥️♾️
Philippines is a beautiful country with beautiful people, it will be my second home, i will come back every year. I would like to have a maid, someone ho helps me with things and just somone to talk to. And the Filipino people is the most friendly and hospitable people in the world. i just love it there. But i don't know how to find a maid there, is there a agency for that, or just advertising?
It can easily happen, but what happens if they DO fall in love with each other? Her daily tasks wont change all that much going from maid to wife, but few husbands pay their wives a monthly salary.
I think it would be a little weird to fall in love with someone who is essentially your employee/employer. Although on the flip side, if you are living together and spending time getting to know one another on a more personal level I think it's bound to happen from time to time. You can't help who you fall in love with. It's just something that happens and it either works or it doesn't. As long as you are open and honest about it, I don't really see that big of an issue.
Well I'm a pretty easy-going guy. Semi-decent looking. Definitely kind nature but I refuse to let people take advantage of me. I would like a beautiful Filipino maid with brains hard to find. No children. I would be willing to pay her higher rates than normal as long as she save money in an investment account in the Philippines for her future. Some sort of investment account in a legitimate institution. Not a crazy amount of money. Mentally stable Filipina woman. Honest decent Filipina woman
You may find one but most of them will spend all the money she makes to support even extended family in village or wants money to treat sick buffalo in village!
I would recommend that you or anyone presented with an opportunity to form a love relationship with a filipina maid should not do so. The economic situation of most maids, combined with their lack of education and mis-understanding of western relationships, makes them a very poor candidate for a lasting relationship. Yeah, they can cook and clean good, and they will probably satisfy the physical desires of her boss/mate, but if you choose to go this route....it is far likely that you will end up a sugar-daddy and supporter of both her and her family, (Extended and otherwise). Its far better to keep it just business.
Speaking only for myself. If a man is seeking companionship because he's lonely, and the housekeeper is seeking employment for a steady income. Then they should not be involved in a relationship. The man is simply trying to fill an empty spot of loneliness with a relationship and it could be anybody. The housekeeper is seeking financial security these are not a good basis for a relationship.
If your maid falls in love with you , you are a lucky man , now you have a women that knows some of your secrets and excepts them , also you already have an independent women with an fixed allowance, plus a full time maid , win/win
This can also apply to a live in Filipina nanny. However, if I'm a single guy hiring a maid and she's hot and something happens, well, things can and will happen sometimes. Wink, wink!
All things being equal, this is the truth EVERYWHERE: From "Paint Your Wagon" Horace Tabor : Wait a minute! You can't buy a woman for money. Mad Jack Duncan : You just try and get one without it.
Reading westerners comments show how clueless we are. I say this as I grew up in Texas but in an Asian family. The cultures are very different but not incapable of mixing.
One major thing your informative video neglected was: where to hire maids. This can't be overstated! If you go through an agency, they will charge you more, but you are assured that you will not find your possessions stolen at some random time. They need to have a police clearance and other background checks done to ensure they say who they are is a fact. Beware of scammers!
no need for maid on every day basis.theres little to clean every day.one day a week is sufficient. and cooking can be arranged as delivery. on the other hand you keep freedom of not having her in apt every day and night. avoid too much contact with maid
Do you think it's right to begin a relationship with your maid if she falls in love with you? Please let us know your opinion in the comments!
yes, she has proven she can be a good wife.
These women have way to high a body count. With a small bank account and if a foreigner you can take your pick. I do 10000th tonight
You should always separate business from private things.
It has nothing to do with Social Class but it's not always a good idea to have a relationship with someone who works with you or for you. I have no issue with dating a Filipina that works as a maid but I don't think I could get into a relationship with one that lives with me. It's possible to fall in love with a maid because sometimes Love is that powerful..but I would not preplan for it to happen by hiring a maid I could fall in love with
No.
I lived in Panama for four years and had a full time maid all of that time. We always kept it strictly business. My house was always impeccably clean.
One thing he narrator forgot to mention is that having a maid in the Philippines is a good idea whether she is live in or not, because she will be buying groceries and other items for you. A number of merchants will charge foreigners more money for goods and services, so a maid can help avoid that problem.
Unless the maid says she is paying the foreigner costs , yet pockets the difference
@@grahamhutton1633 To leave a comment in RUclips videos is good, unless your wife is cheating while you are here.
And also she can scam, rob you or set you up to be killed, never trust a Filipina lady or any Filipinos.
At times when living in Indonesia I have had maids cleaning and laundry, never had any complaints although none of them were what most people would call attractive but they were employed to partake specific roles not to look at.
Honesty and Trust are essential. Consider her future. My wife worked for an American family in Singapore. She worked 7 days a week, with Sunday afternoons off. In addition to cooking and cleaning, she cared for 2 children. She made $80 a month in 1995. Not much opportunity for a family of her own. Fortunately we're happily settled in Central Texas now, with 2 great kiddos of our own.
God bless you and your wife if you work the job for an American family in 1996 making $80 a month that’s way way too low. The work she was doing all that bag then minimum $250 a day
In Hong Kong, I used to get up early to bring my son down to the school bus stop before dawn, as the school was quite far away. I would see another mother there with her child, but she still required their maid to accompany them to the bus stop before dawn. I bet she had to work until 8 pm minimum as well. What's the point of that? It's just abusive if the mother is able to bring the kid to the bus.
$80 is worth it
@@bahjatshamoun2772. You don’t pay US prices in foreign lands. You pay the local prices. That includes wages.
Texas?
33 years later. Still married. And my filipina is great.
Most men don't know what they are truly missing in life until they have been taken care of by a Filipna or Thai.
Marvelous!
Sometimes company friendship is worth more than having a complicated relationship in life
Filipinas are sweet and respectful.Two qualities rare in the west.
I'm in the states with many Filipino friends, the way they treat my special needs son 🙏🏽💟 is beyond measure!
Not mentioned are the difficulties of ending the contract after a maid has become dependent on you for food, housing and income.
It's almost like a honey trap. Maybe it's best to frequently rotate maids? Find out what the goals/ambitions of the maid are and attempt to help them achieve these goals. That will make it much easier to move on at the end of a contract.
As a Philippino it's always been my dream to have an American housekeeper.
😂
😂😂😂
You’ll be mighty disappointed 😅
I'm sorry to tell you this but the reality is an American maid would be fat, watch 2.5 men
The old proverb of "Don't poop where you eat." applies here in my opinion. Having a live-in maid is a great idea, especially when she knows all the best places to shop and avoids the "foreigner tax" that so many businesses in the Philippines will charge you just because they perceive you as being uber rich and able to afford it. Falling in love with your employee is just a bad idea.
Keep it civil, keep it professional, keep it respectful, even try to make it FRIENDLY, but don't make it into something more.
Sounds like good advice but I counter with don’t overlook possibilities. How many women have you worked with when you realize what a truly great woman she is? Don’t blow it it off because she “only a maid”.
@@lavern007 Good point, but let me counter with this: Even two wonderful people can fail at a relationship, and when it does fail, it more often than not results in at least some hard feelings and separation.
Now, take that and add to it the strong potential of losing a wonderful maid in the process (the Philippines is, unfortunately, full of "not so good" maids") and you lose twice.
As for falling in love with a woman that is "only a maid", nothing wrong with that. I just think you need to keep your romantic live separated from your professional one.
Anyway, take it easy, mate!
I had many live in maids in my adult life. I started in the 80's when I was n the Navy. Our submarine would have a 30 day upkeep in Subic Bay. Many of us would live in town and have a maid included in the rent. She took care me all time I as there cooked, cleaned, and paid the bills on time. She also my guide to the beaches and places to shop. But nothing came from it. It wasn't until I retired from the Navy and worked for a company that was building the new airport in Bangkok, Thailand. The apartment the company rented provided a cook and a maid. The maid was her daughter, she was young, beautiful, and attentive to you me. I didn't want to change the employer-employee relationship, however she wore me down an today we are happily married.
Women and men in the Philippines are very hard working. It’s very easy to fall in love in the Philippines women and men are respectful hard working treats their partner as a queen/king they are always happy and grateful.
All Filipino people deserve all things good! If the world was more like the Philippines, the world would be a better place.
As an American (native American) I agree 💯!
I would have a hard time being single if a beautiful maid were taking care of me all day
Yes they can end up falling in Love. Love is about taking care of each other and whenever two people are in Love then they can decide to pursue a relationship.
Yes that is very true I wish I could find one
I like your sales pitch. It is important to treat her with respect, trust and fairness.
When a man and a woman live together things just happen.
Familiarity and trust is a big deal, it’s amazing how people will forgo looks or initial attraction if they find someone that gives them security.
Life .... finds a way
It's called biology.
In the early 80's I was stationed in Korea and had friends that were stationed in the Philippines before the bases were closed. Most of them had rented homes off base and had maids and gardeners. It was extremely affordable, even for military personnel. Sometimes there were extra curricular activities going but that was very common in the PI at that time.
delicious as always
@@cryptowhale1615
👍
There was a tv show called The Courtship of Eddie's Father (1969) with Bill Bixby. Everyone in the country wondered why he didnt just marry his Japanese housekeeper, Mrs Livingston (Miyoshi Umeki). It rode on the tail of post-war obsession with Japanese and other asian women. As a side note, the theme song by Harry Nilsson, Best Friend, is one of the greatest theme songs ever. I never figured out why she was named Mrs Livingston.
I remember that show.
@@meowco69 didn’t they wind up together on Who’s The Boss?
Yes Mr Eddie's father
Maybe her husband was Mr. Livingston (Not the most Japanese surname I've heard)
One of the great shows of the 60's!
My father in law lived in PI for many years. His philosophy on maids was simple.
Never screw the help. You'll never get any work out of them, again.
Bingo!
They gom from maid to girlfriend status and want you to hire new maid.
You can ask the same question of any boss/employee scenario. The answer is always no, it's a bad idea. Just because she is a maid and works in your home rather than working in an office you manage doesn't make it a better idea. No, no, no.
If she’s willing and eager it’s different.
I enjoyed the Philippines very much. The two times I was there were some of the finest times of my life.
Unfortunately a man and a woman living together will likely turn to romance. Especially with Filipina's because they are the most kind and beautiful women you will ever meet.
Depends on the person u r living with.. they could be a bxxtch and u can’t stand them
Simp 🤪
That's your opinion, I wouldn't say all!
@@Shaolin91zTry it anywhere in the world you will find this will happen. A man or woman can not live together without getting close. As far as being a simp that's funny in the fact that you don't know me since I am 62 divorced 40 years, debt free and half mil in investment and don't date at all and would never let a women live with me because I know this happens all the time.
@@hanzocloudThis really has to becoming from a western man who's had bad relationships with Western women.
I'm married to a Filipina. I feel like the maid most of the time, but I'm happy with our marriage.
How is that possible?
@@PassTheCollectionPlate If I have to explain it to you, you wouldn't understand.
@@HiTechFX I understand. I have one of those brat Filipina too.
They aren't all that great.
They enjoy ordering people around. Especially the kids and me the husband.
I give her trouble if she gets out of hand.
I just tell her. Now sex. That pisses her off. Filipina is an uncontrollable sex manic.
And I don't have to explain that either.
@@jesse75 I understand
@@HiTechFX I know you do. I meant no sex. Not now sex.
Filipina is always ready. But they are too dumb to understand how the mans sexual function works.
Culture VS nurture but be careful ..People misinterprets job description with benefits versus trust and responsibilty.On the other end of the spectrum one encounters bad employer, some are unkind, rude and abusive. There are contributing factors to a relationship between employer and employee. .You nailed it right in your own story. Being a maid is a job just like working in an office or institution. Work ethic is always the standard of engagement in a career. One's personality include upbringing, good behavior and education. There are stories about a maid and employer that ends in a good relationship becoming in love with each other. Vulnerability , closeness ,trust and willingness to share feelings of care can develop into something reciprocal just like in any love story ..
The best blog I’ve seen on this topic!
Thank you!
I would rather marry my nurse.
My parents separated. Went home to visit my dad in the Philippines. Come to find out our maid who was in her late 30s having relations with this man. I shoke my dad's hand and told him to enjoy his life 😂.
Lawrtuz. LEE love uos ok prac
Oh no, your dad bangs a maid, who cares.
Easy to start, nearly impossible to end. When you and the person live like spouses, any separation is extremely painful. You can think that she is just a maid that you are having a relationship with in the house. But she sees you as a partner and an emotional support. As a single, sometimes paying for sex is not a bad idea. Because having a relationship is seriously very stressful. You may think its 'free' sex, but in reality you are or will ultimately be paying more than just that handful of dollars.
Don't do it. You will never know if it is love or finances. Keep the relationship business. Also, make sure to have a lawyer write up a work contract. If there is no work contract a woman that lives with you may take you to court and take half of your money.
Most Pinay maids are full service . Trust me she does not love you
Excellent response. Lean to cook and clean youself!
You never know if it’s love or finances with any woman. So it’s not any difference if she’s your maid or nor
@Michael Lewis A woman in the philippines does not have to be married to you to take half your property. She only has to show that she was your girlfriend.
How would anyone take half of your money if it's in the US? Is she going to hire an international law firm? Thanks for the legal advice, chump.
Yes and it’s a great way to get to know each other better.
For me, keep it professional, but if a relationship develops and is really based on love, mutual respect and concern for each other, it might lead to marriage which would be a blessing, however if not, then it can easily lead to many problems and potential disaster and legal problems for one or both of them.
True. Love can develop between two people of different social backgrounds, as long as the man is the one with money...just sayin'
That's love of convience.
So sad you men have never experienced love. Women fall in love very fast - especially Filipinas
That’s one of the facts of life. You can complain about it but it would never change. Women want guys with money.
@@Bravefit Very true on a few counts. No, I haven't experienced real love. Yes, women do fall in love very fast. And just as fast they fall out of love. Especially if you run out of money.
As a Stroke survivor I would love to have a maid to talk to!
*Kamusta kayo ate.* Yes, I subscribed and your comments are very good and accurate, in my opinion. I am practicing Tagalog writing as well as speaking, since my Filipinan wife and I each have over 10,000 mostly Filipino subscribers. Mabuhay po.
Love can develop between two people if the chemistry is right. Unlike many others, I do NOT rate a person by their job title or wealth.
The girl with the umbrella is a cutie 😊
If a single man has a woman who takes care of all the household chores, and he has to treat her with respect and fairness (as well he should treat her, just like he should treat everyone with respect), that woman should be called a wife! That is the duty of a traditional wife. If he does not want to "wife her up", keep it strictly professional and don't have her live in his home! Pay her a livable wage so that she does her work during the day and goes back to her own domicile at night.
Live in is better and keep
It business - those live in maids are indispensable for family
Support. They are part of the family but should
Not be the spouse
It starts out being just professional and things tend to get out of hand.
Thank you for this excellent information 💯👍🏻
Personally 🎉 YES that would be an exciting way to start a glamorous exciting relationship way of true love 💕 because having a live in maid means she's single & so let the sparks ignite!!!
Love the people of the Philippines. Very humble and loving people.
No their not be wary its a set up.
Thanks for your good explanation, that is a really good chance to open up for both sides. Very good 😊
Great Vlog Very Informative
Hello nice video , I think its a wonderful plan to have a lady from the Philippines take care of your home and needs . Thank you.
Thanks for ur video for about Philipino
Obedience and respect is key.
Man if I was 20 years younger I would love to move to the Philippines. Some of the most beautiful women in the world . Great weather and very reasonable cost of living.
Love is love. BUT, be sure that it's GENUINE.
That can be an uncomfortable situation! for example, if the live in maid falls in love with her employer because she sees he's well off! and can provide for her & her family! The employer realize it but doesn't feel the same about her! It could get dicey! she may want to sabotage his food, finances, or set him up to get robbed or worse!
On the other hand it may work if he sees beyond her physical attraction and notices she has virtue, no children, the employer runs' a security check! She doesn't have a criminal history or arrest record, no bad reputation as a slut or bar girl. Isn't a drinker,smoker, drug user or gambler. Submissive, kind, and prudent. I can see myself falling in love with a woman like that definitely!!!
Why would she poison his food? How would she get any money out of that lol
I've been an expatriate in many countries and had maids in most. Never a live in maid.
A number of times, the maid had been a widow or a divorcee. Ive had great relationships and affairs with these maids.
The good thing is that this goes under cover.. no one knows and is usually mutually beneficial, giving the maids extra money.
I know 2 men who left their wives taking the maid with them, That kind of thing happens a lot here with foreigners.
Before I became disabled my Filipina wife used to visit the PIL 12 years in a row. We had several young girls as maids however I would NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH 'THE HELP.' My wife and I have a 33-year marriage and we have no intentions of messing that up.
I married a Philippine lady and have changed her life beyond her wildest dreams and have secured her lifetime future making her a Philippine millionaire many times over
Employee/Employer relationships should remain Professional. In very limited circumstances, a Single guy with a "Hottie" Maid, so long as she has no Husband or long term Boyfriend....It could happen, but if things don't work out, it could be disastrous.
Yes ,its all good with falling in love with Maid ❤❤😊
I never though of this since I have been alone for 14 yrs and moving to the philippines where I want to enjoy life with a woman who I can talk too and the possibility of a relation forming seems like a good Idea if you are older and just need someone around. Its a good relationship. I would have never tired online dating if I could hire a maid and just be a friend in the house.
Love is where you find it .
That’s what I need!!!
I hope so.
I need one over here in America for that price.
If two people fall in love, it is between them, not us. Same with age differences. Some people, especially in countries like here in the USA, put too much focus on age. I have met so many couples that are the same age but are very unhappy, I have seen men in their 70s with women in their late twenties or in their 30s that are deeply in love with each other, and both are happy. Love is the key, not money, not looks, not age, etc, but do they love and respect each other, THAT'S what really matters.
Yes. With a happy ending
Love is love, relationships happen, so it’s fine as long as their is no exploitation of the situation. The decision that has to made is the one of when the employer needs to go home. Does he commit to taking her back with him.
There is a job. That give the employe full time work.
And position that should be respected. God bless
Sounds good to me ❤❤❤
Love has no boundaries
Universal lore of respect
When you connect to someone money religion colour status means nothing
Finding your true ♥️its the 💖✨️✨️ Finding the foundation for your little 🍎🌳 means ♥️♾️
Philippines is a beautiful country with beautiful people, it will be my second home, i will come back every year. I would like to have a maid, someone ho helps me with things and just somone to talk to. And the Filipino people is the most friendly and hospitable people in the world. i just love it there. But i don't know how to find a maid there, is there a agency for that, or just advertising?
Boros022,
It can easily happen, but what happens if they DO fall in love with each other? Her daily tasks wont change all that much going from maid to wife, but few husbands pay their wives a monthly salary.
If you marry your maid she might want to get her own maid. But I’ll bet that she only hires ugly ones.🤣
Love is love
0:23 "...provide a much needed helping hand" oh yeah, i need a "helping hand" from time to time lol
Yes it’s a perfect method to find a beautiful lady
thanks
I always employed an older maid, so to avoid this situation. However at 71 she was slow.
I think it would be a little weird to fall in love with someone who is essentially your employee/employer. Although on the flip side, if you are living together and spending time getting to know one another on a more personal level I think it's bound to happen from time to time. You can't help who you fall in love with. It's just something that happens and it either works or it doesn't. As long as you are open and honest about it, I don't really see that big of an issue.
I'd buy her a French maid outfit😍
Never forget....It is always cheaper to rent than buy.
I think I can use a live in maid here in the US considering how busy life is here in general!!!
Yup happens all the time
Why not? It starts at a very personal contact....
Well I'm a pretty easy-going guy. Semi-decent looking. Definitely kind nature but I refuse to let people take advantage of me. I would like a beautiful Filipino maid with brains hard to find. No children. I would be willing to pay her higher rates than normal as long as she save money in an investment account in the Philippines for her future. Some sort of investment account in a legitimate institution. Not a crazy amount of money. Mentally stable Filipina woman. Honest decent Filipina woman
You may find one but most of them will spend all the money she makes to support even extended family in village or wants money to treat sick buffalo in village!
I would recommend that you or anyone presented with an opportunity to form a love relationship with a filipina maid should not do so. The economic situation of most maids, combined with their lack of education and mis-understanding of western relationships, makes them a very poor candidate for a lasting relationship. Yeah, they can cook and clean good, and they will probably satisfy the physical desires of her boss/mate, but if you choose to go this route....it is far likely that you will end up a sugar-daddy and supporter of both her and her family, (Extended and otherwise). Its far better to keep it just business.
Bingo!
Speaking only for myself. If a man is seeking companionship because he's lonely, and the housekeeper is seeking employment for a steady income. Then they should not be involved in a relationship. The man is simply trying to fill an empty spot of loneliness with a relationship and it could be anybody. The housekeeper is seeking financial security these are not a good basis for a relationship.
Hellooooo philipines ❤
It’s true my aunt is Filipino
This entire video's voice over played on only the right channel. I wondered if this was intentional?
Wow I wish I had one here in the United States
Haha 😂 that’s how 4 of my cousins came to be…. ❤
One thing leads to another. 😅
If your maid falls in love with you , you are a lucky man , now you have a women that knows some of your secrets and excepts them , also you already have an independent women with an fixed allowance, plus a full time maid , win/win
This can also apply to a live in Filipina nanny. However, if I'm a single guy hiring a maid and she's hot and something happens, well, things can and will happen sometimes. Wink, wink!
❤ Boa noite linda interessante a tua cidade muito bonita parabéns sucesso
honestly i have fell in love with my PC long time ago. because i couldn't find anyone around me except my steam Library. 😂
LoL, I call my PC my GF all the time (it's MOSTLY a joke, but it also rings fairly true)😅
yes❤? ....
All things being equal, this is the truth EVERYWHERE:
From "Paint Your Wagon"
Horace Tabor : Wait a minute! You can't buy a woman for money.
Mad Jack Duncan : You just try and get one without it.
If your maid looks like the girls in this video I don't see how you could not fall in love with her, I did just watching ..Vernon from Missouri USA...
Men, be sensitive to what happens to her after you are done with her, both her feelings and finances. Be kind. Be a good man.
Men are in love, women are in business.
Reading westerners comments show how clueless we are. I say this as I grew up in Texas but in an Asian family. The cultures are very different but not incapable of mixing.
Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes
One major thing your informative video neglected was: where to hire maids. This can't be overstated! If you go through an agency, they will charge you more, but you are assured that you will not find your possessions stolen at some random time. They need to have a police clearance and other background checks done to ensure they say who they are is a fact. Beware of scammers!
no need for maid on every day basis.theres little to clean every day.one day a week is sufficient. and cooking can be arranged as delivery. on the other hand you keep freedom of not having her in apt every day and night. avoid too much contact with maid