Heartbroken dad discusses Jessie Bardwell's fatal relationship with killer boyfriend

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  • Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2024

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  • @Liz-nq9rc
    @Liz-nq9rc 3 года назад +1608

    To the dad, please forgive yourself. As children we make choices beyond our parents control. You went above and beyond.
    My dad wouldnt even know I was dating someone, let alone in trouble. You were a great father to her.

  • @jamesstewart1598
    @jamesstewart1598 4 года назад +2902

    An abuser will always try to isolate you from your friends and family.

    • @roadwarrior3203
      @roadwarrior3203 4 года назад +39

      youre very right james stewart,we experienced it in our family,my younger sister dtick like a leech to her drug addict husband no matter the abuses she experienced,if killing a man is legal,i should have done it years ago,damn those kind of husbands and boyfriends!

    • @micheledavis9280
      @micheledavis9280 4 года назад +38

      That's the goal, isolation

    • @triton6083
      @triton6083 4 года назад +21

      Not if the abusers are your friend and family 😂

    • @sjora6927
      @sjora6927 4 года назад +3

      @@triton6083 oof

    • @pamspencer5733
      @pamspencer5733 4 года назад

      @@roadwarrior3203 codependency! Scary

  • @sandramramba1160
    @sandramramba1160 3 года назад +301

    When your parents say 'that boy ain't good for you, HE AIN'T GOOD FOR YOU!' My heart bleeds with the dad.

  • @luvmarjorie
    @luvmarjorie 4 года назад +1597

    My heart BROKE once her dad began to cry. I can’t even imagine his pain of losing a child... absolutely heartbreaking.

    • @elizaveta6401
      @elizaveta6401 4 года назад +11

      marjorie I can't stop crying 🙏🏻 RIP Angel

    • @SKC193
      @SKC193 4 года назад +7

      marjorie Believe me, it changes you as a person & you never “get over it”. I lost my daughter and only child.

    • @zombielicious100
      @zombielicious100 4 года назад +5

      He sings and plays music for her often. My heart breaks for him daily. They were so close.

    • @luvmarjorie
      @luvmarjorie 4 года назад +4

      @@baahu242 she’s not stupid. She mostly definitely wanted out but a possessive, abusive man like that... there no escape.

    • @baahu242
      @baahu242 4 года назад +3

      @@luvmarjorie her dad said come with me this man not good but she say I stay with Jason
      She stupid

  • @tomsparks6099
    @tomsparks6099 4 года назад +2895

    Dad needs self-forgiveness. This is a terrible story, but he has to accept her choices were out of his control.

    • @lol-vx3uf
      @lol-vx3uf 4 года назад +184

      You are right but the primitive psychology of parenthood doesn't work that way, you always feel like there's something you should have and could have done.

    • @bluemakem459
      @bluemakem459 4 года назад +13

      Tom Sparks
      That's true........

    • @lisaw7633
      @lisaw7633 4 года назад +37

      Exactly she was a grown woman and knew that guy wasn't right.

    • @renee4414
      @renee4414 4 года назад +36

      So much easier said than done though..at least he’s letting his pain out

    • @derekwalter4238
      @derekwalter4238 4 года назад +54

      You'll feel different when you have kids of your own. You always wonder what you could have done different. You never completely forgive yourself or get over it.

  • @cellenepomuceno3621
    @cellenepomuceno3621 3 года назад +202

    "He took my world" this line hit me so much. I just cried. May her soul rest in eternal peace knowing how much she is loved and missed by her family.

  • @Mckinley-mick
    @Mckinley-mick 4 года назад +2661

    So this is what it’s like to have a loving dad. She was one lucky girl to have him.

    • @xxoMIKoxx
      @xxoMIKoxx 4 года назад +40

      McKinley Mickelson uh... she was murdered. Couldn’t be more unlucky.

    • @doodle5609
      @doodle5609 4 года назад +160

      @xxoMIKoxx oh come on,you know what she meant.

    • @Mckinley-mick
      @Mckinley-mick 4 года назад +115

      @@xxoMIKoxx I thought very carefully before posting. She *was* lucky, past tense because she is dead. Lucky “to have him” specifically. Not lucky in general, because as you pointed out, she wasn’t too lucky overall.

    • @glamcoffee841
      @glamcoffee841 4 года назад +41

      I feel you here, honey

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 4 года назад +62

      xxoMIKoxx it doesn’t matter what happened to her she still has a lovely father it’s not her father’s fault.

  • @ashleyl871
    @ashleyl871 4 года назад +2336

    This dad drives 11 hours to see his daughter and mine won't even drive 8 miles. My heart breaks for the dad 💔😭

    • @ashleyl871
      @ashleyl871 4 года назад +42

      @Kitten Lyric I did, every week. Til my truck broke down. Thank you though.

    • @JazZippo
      @JazZippo 4 года назад +79

      My dad hasn’t come back from the store in 22 years

    • @ashleyl871
      @ashleyl871 4 года назад +10

      @E KL thank you!!!!

    • @ashleyl871
      @ashleyl871 4 года назад +40

      @@JazZippo that is so sad. I'm so sorry. I have 3 kid, raising my youngest 2 on my own because their father found a new gf and decided he no longer wanted some of his kids (he takes care of his other 4, including his new baby) I just can't imagine walking out on my kids. That is something I will never understand.

    • @christineleahy2013
      @christineleahy2013 4 года назад +29

      @Kitten Lyric no need to be such a nasty little troll , nothing nice to say? Say nothing at all

  • @emilyeaston8506
    @emilyeaston8506 3 года назад +485

    This man IS (not was) an incredible father. I really hope he can find forgiveness for himself and happiness. His daughter is waiting and watching with a heart full of love. He could not have stopped this.

    • @tokah01
      @tokah01 2 года назад +4

      He should watch “the shack “

    • @eckankar7756
      @eckankar7756 2 года назад +3

      I wonder how he treated his son. I've seen parents that so favored one Child and ignore the other.

    • @LillyR539
      @LillyR539 2 года назад

      @@tokah01 Beautiful movie and book

    • @monysokhun2333
      @monysokhun2333 2 года назад

      If he was incredible his daughter would be alive lol

    • @jimyanjianwan281
      @jimyanjianwan281 2 года назад

      @@eckankar7756 the lulu of the l

  • @coreystanfill9064
    @coreystanfill9064 4 года назад +1234

    They should just let him out of custody, and let her Daddy do whatever he wants to that demon.

  • @TheGuitarded1
    @TheGuitarded1 3 года назад +1758

    Proof that a girl can have a great father and still fall in love with a total piece of sh!t

    • @emmaday5842
      @emmaday5842 3 года назад +58

      Good observation. I wonder if he got her into drugs as well.

    • @michaelfellner9822
      @michaelfellner9822 3 года назад +44

      And even kids with great parents can turn out to be dumb ( generaly speaking ). For cases like this, and im not saying she was dumb, but you wonder why the fuck they didnt let them help. You have a caring family at home, this couldve been the key to get him locked up and ultimately away from women. She mustve been okay with some kinda violence yet even the first little violence against you should make you turn the other way. I could never imagine hurting any person i love .. so yea, stop thinking thats alright and leave them and / or get some help .. a person who truly loves you would NEVER intentionaly hurt you. NEVER.

    • @rethgual8227
      @rethgual8227 3 года назад +49

      @@michaelfellner9822 I hear you but I feel like it's not that simple. He might have threatened her family or friends which kept her at his side.. we never know what really happens behind closed doors. I think manipulative people like him will slowly break down a person until theres nothing left, he might have been very nice, kind, loving at first and probably changed over time.

    • @PaperMario64
      @PaperMario64 3 года назад +39

      Narcissists know how to lure people in. They are predators. They study their prey.

    • @jasegalaxy74
      @jasegalaxy74 3 года назад +3

      That’s the shit thing ! So sad

  • @curlypretzel6871
    @curlypretzel6871 3 года назад +353

    As a girl who has been through this, it breaks my heart. I remember telling my family that my ex was perfect for me when in reality I was losing a grip on everything. I was distancing myself from my entire family. LADIES IF YOU NOTICE THIS RUN

    • @Dan55888
      @Dan55888 Год назад +3

      Why though? Why step away from others when you have a terrible boyfriend??
      As a guy who no woman wants I just don't understand why some women are driven to be with and stay with monsters.

    • @curlypretzel6871
      @curlypretzel6871 Год назад +3

      @@Dan55888 I guess I was blind honestly. I didn't see how bad things were...

    • @billoakes4475
      @billoakes4475 Год назад +1

      So glad you came out alright - please be a voice for girls/women being abused by their so called significant other.

    • @aljabirxiju9475
      @aljabirxiju9475 Год назад +1

      why did you keep telling them he was perfect ffs. please women...if you are alone, dont just take some "cute boy" who you like to take instagram pics with and "show off" to friends. dont think about "cute babies" and don't think about "changing him". the emotional immaturity and insecurity that draws women into these situations...PLEASE STOP and get some mental health help! take stock of yourself. no this is not blaming the victim. it is EXPLAINING the victim to help prevent it!

    • @CosplayDreams16
      @CosplayDreams16 Год назад

      Same here. I just got out of a terrible relationship.

  • @fookustudios3279
    @fookustudios3279 3 года назад +911

    "I get pissed off when I see other people happy. He took my world away"
    Wow, I'm not an emotional dude, but that one got me.

    • @butterflyjessica1
      @butterflyjessica1 3 года назад +8

      💔

    • @monabarber3549
      @monabarber3549 3 года назад +7

      Maybe you should try to be happy 😊 when others are happy ! That’s how happiness comes your way !

    • @Sara-tr2gh
      @Sara-tr2gh 3 года назад +67

      @@monabarber3549 pardon but your comment is just so gullible and naive. Sometimes happiness is literally robbed from people, especially in such situations. If I had a child and I spent years caring, loving, creating and supporting them, then all of sudden she/he is taken away from me by a piece of trash? I don’t have children but the sheer thought/imagination of it makes my blood boil.

    • @gregoryholstein3033
      @gregoryholstein3033 3 года назад +16

      @@Sara-tr2gh You said that really well. I lost my son, so I’m aware of how this loving father feels. It’s a physical pain in you heart like someone is squeezing it. I can feel his pain, it never gets easy.

    • @expandhealthinc.1887
      @expandhealthinc.1887 3 года назад +4

      @@Sara-tr2gh Jesse would want him to be happy.

  • @MorbidKat
    @MorbidKat 4 года назад +624

    Oh my Lord. The dad sobbing "I don't know how much more I can take of this" is one of the most heart breaking things I've encountered. I pray he finds some kind of peace some way.

    • @rebekahwolkiewicz449
      @rebekahwolkiewicz449 3 года назад +25

      I’ve never wanted to give a stranger a hug more in my life... I wish I could have been there. I don’t even care if it’s not ‘appropriate’ to give it to a stranger, I’d give him my warmest hug.

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 2 года назад +5

      I just cried too ugh

  • @ismrph
    @ismrph 3 года назад +77

    You’re an amazing father, Sir! Forgive yourself, your baby doesn’t want you to blame yourself, she’s probably telling you that you’re right

  • @CodeNameV
    @CodeNameV 3 года назад +379

    As a Dad myself I never even want to imagine the pain this man feels, I feel so sorry for him.. So so very sorry.

    •  2 года назад

      I hope you have a boy, not a daughter... If you have a daughter, I hope you have no idea what she's up to when she's out around town at night. Nine - and a half - out of 10 girls out there are sluts, and the stuff they do for "fun" is also a dad's nightmare.

  • @maddisontraina-smith7464
    @maddisontraina-smith7464 4 года назад +386

    I cried harder each time her daddy talked about her. I can’t even imagine the heart break

  • @DelaniaAndTheDogs
    @DelaniaAndTheDogs 3 года назад +76

    First time I ever cried over a True Crime Daily and I love the beautiful, kind hearted reporter. Her compassion is obvious. Peace to the father and mother of this lovely young woman gone far before her time.

    • @crazyscience7713
      @crazyscience7713 Год назад +1

      The only person responsible here is the abuser,

    • @itsmedeeeee
      @itsmedeeeee Год назад +1

      Same for me🤍 this one was hard. You can just feel his pain

  • @farba7713
    @farba7713 4 года назад +640

    This one made me physically sick 😭 that poor fathers grief is killing my heart!! As a parent, I couldn’t ever handle something like this!! Rest in piece beautiful girl!! I pray that father finds some kind of peace!!

  • @CC-lf3xl
    @CC-lf3xl 4 года назад +893

    This is so sad and disgusting. Be careful who you call your friend, girlfriend or boyfriend. Not everyone has the best intentions for you.

    • @inesnaglic472
      @inesnaglic472 4 года назад +15

      That's true

    • @sandyc6569
      @sandyc6569 4 года назад +7

      👍

    • @davyfutral9695
      @davyfutral9695 4 года назад +11

      My heart is broken

    • @cafezo87934
      @cafezo87934 4 года назад +25

      true. work on yourself first emotionally and mentally so people with bad intentions dont use that against you.

    • @betzaidavelez6604
      @betzaidavelez6604 4 года назад +6

      Facts

  • @Awesomefood4u
    @Awesomefood4u 3 года назад +178

    I felt so bad for the dad I couldn’t stop crying for some reason when he broke down.. he seems like a great father!! Hopefully God gives him strength to keep going.. this terrifies me I have 3 daughters 2 of them are teenagers. I pray to God that he blesses them with young men that fear the Lord..

    • @julietcrowson3503
      @julietcrowson3503 2 года назад +4

      Good
      I'm so glad you said that.
      Please be aware of the 'incel' movement and 'players' in order to prepare your daughters for how to assess a man's attitudes to women and her. Better Bachelor and Taylor the Fiend are examples of RUclips channels that reveal the intentions of some men towards women. Please veto you daughters' choice if boyfriend if you have a hunch or feeling he's bad/ narcissistic because only Dads have the priceless, irreplaceable Daddy instinct.
      Bless You
      🙏⭐🤗💫🌟🕉️☮️☯️⛪✝️
      Big hug from England

    • @BS-dq1kz
      @BS-dq1kz 2 года назад

      Same here! I have three kids. Two girls and an adult son. I pray the same for each of them.

    • @sam-fc9ky
      @sam-fc9ky 2 года назад

      hardly any of those young men around

    • @judybrown1810
      @judybrown1810 2 года назад

      Maybe we can ground them till they are 21. Serous

  • @ObsoleteOddity
    @ObsoleteOddity 4 года назад +557

    ....parole doesn't mean he's gonna get out, and justice might be served inside well before that.

    • @maje4120
      @maje4120 4 года назад +4

      From beautiful karma!!

    • @permabulk1454
      @permabulk1454 3 года назад +6

      Optimism ❤️

    • @aquarius9055
      @aquarius9055 3 года назад +6

      One can only hope

    • @buffalove_
      @buffalove_ 3 года назад +2

      Here's hoping

    • @falquest
      @falquest 3 года назад +4

      Manson was up for parole a dozen times... it was laughable,

  • @TessaDShort
    @TessaDShort 4 года назад +648

    I lived with a "Jason" for 3 years. I ended up leaving everything behind & running out of state. I wish Jessie could've gotten away.

    • @LyJo5
      @LyJo5 4 года назад +54

      Good for you. I'm glad you're ok. Leaving can be the absolute hardest thing to do 🖤🌻🖤

    • @she_sings_delightful_things
      @she_sings_delightful_things 4 года назад +39

      YOU ARE LUCKY! And SMART!!!!
      Best of luck to you in the future, I'm so glad you were able to break free, I hope your life is happy!

    • @alyciaholloway2151
      @alyciaholloway2151 4 года назад +39

      I had a Jason too. Nauseating. They get you away from your family, control you. People think it’s easy to get out but it’s incredibly hard. Especially if there’s a child involved (not the losers child). I wish she could have seen the light in time. Maybe she did and tried to leave, and he killed her. I may be wrong but, I feel like Jason, being the narcissistic sociopath he is, just used sex as her last act in life as a way get at her dad. To try and somehow taint her image of the innocent girl in her Daddy’s mind. He failed miserably because he murdered her. Just a terrible situation. I pray for her Daddy to maybe get some help with his grief. Southern men don’t typically do that though. (No one bite my head off, I’m a southerner & that’s why I said that)

    • @Timmering
      @Timmering 4 года назад +5

      ❤️

    • @erikaleary997
      @erikaleary997 4 года назад +16

      I dated a "Jason'" as well for a year and left before I could get hurt 🙏🏾

  • @juliebosgraaf3259
    @juliebosgraaf3259 4 года назад +503

    I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s killed other women. There’s something really wrong with this guy. Beyond the obvious.
    I feel so bad for her Dad. To live with thinking you could have done more must be torture. I hope he can heal and realize he’s not at fault.

    • @tammyandersonparker3068
      @tammyandersonparker3068 4 года назад +13

      😥 Yes, such a beautiful dad and daughter. How heartbreaking. And I agree that monster is a serial killer, no doubt. Praying he never gets out of prison. Calling all Avengers 🙏

    • @birdyelke775
      @birdyelke775 4 года назад +11

      @Julie ..his father had tried his best to help her to her refuseal and he had even told us he would never 4got her phrase. It's very understandable that he is suffering, but he shouldn't, cause sadly the daughter made a bad choice.

    • @zombielicious100
      @zombielicious100 4 года назад +3

      He’s tried to. There are two ex girlfriends who had been choked by him

  • @ObsoleteOddity
    @ObsoleteOddity 4 года назад +843

    In many ways his sentence is worse than death....he'll be looking over his back every day inside. He won't think he's so tough anymore, no more women to beat up...he's going to be the on the receiving 'end'.

  • @troubletime8684
    @troubletime8684 3 года назад +45

    At 51 I'm still a daddy's girl, my stepdad my hero 🥰🙏🏻

  • @zombielicious100
    @zombielicious100 4 года назад +137

    I knew her personally... her dad still grieves daily. That was his baby girl. ♥️ Rest In Peace Sweet girl

    • @buckethead133
      @buckethead133 3 года назад +2

      I feel bad for the father only.

    • @departureready8976
      @departureready8976 3 года назад +19

      If you ever see her dad, please give him a hug for me. Tell him that he is a wonderful dad.

    • @jasmindumalay2002
      @jasmindumalay2002 3 года назад +3

      Just put in your heart She was an angel!RIP

  • @marietaylor5174
    @marietaylor5174 4 года назад +377

    That monster should NEVER see the outside of a prison wall.

    • @mmooraj
      @mmooraj 4 года назад

      Technically he will see sunlight since prisoners do gardening work in their penitentiary but yeah he wont be leaving the station but he will get to walk around the place when he has to for example to eat,drinkpiss,shit,shower,work.etc

    • @mariaperros
      @mariaperros 3 года назад +3

      I don't think he should see the inside either.... I think he should see nothing anymore...

  • @heatherbukowski2102
    @heatherbukowski2102 3 года назад +61

    I have a southern dad like him. I'm 31 and I still listen to him. If only she did.

    • @maliklofton5748
      @maliklofton5748 3 года назад +3

      Damn your right but Love make you blind.

    • @maureenspano6988
      @maureenspano6988 3 года назад +4

      My Dad was good. I listened too. But he liked my Ex Husband. Who turned out to be a piece of crap. Narcisstic people are able to con others. And he never seen my ex's ugly side.

  • @maureenlippincott9528
    @maureenlippincott9528 4 года назад +145

    Sad story. Jesse's Dad and Brother are such sweet and caring guys.

  • @SerenaHunter512
    @SerenaHunter512 4 года назад +201

    Listening to her father cry made me cry 😭

    • @miriammanolov9135
      @miriammanolov9135 4 года назад +6

      Right !! I had to stop the video and get me some kleenex 😢

    • @corissavenrick903
      @corissavenrick903 4 года назад +5

      I agree....I watch SO many of these shows, but this one, it hits different.. when the dad started crying I couldn't hold in the tears. This is just awful in every way.

    • @miriammanolov9135
      @miriammanolov9135 4 года назад +1

      And her story is on the ID channel now, and had a tear in my eye the minute I saw the father again talking about the dream he had about her being dead 😥

    • @chelseadelacruz7343
      @chelseadelacruz7343 4 года назад +2

      Me too, I’m bawling!

    • @s.c3796
      @s.c3796 4 года назад

      Yepppp

  • @roseelley4470
    @roseelley4470 2 года назад +25

    This dad is such a great dad. I wish I had had a dad like you.

  • @CuteDwarf11
    @CuteDwarf11 4 года назад +440

    I really wish the ex girlfriend went ahead and pressed charges when that bastard tried to kill her.
    RIP Jesi...

    • @tammyandersonparker3068
      @tammyandersonparker3068 4 года назад +33

      Yes! She was so wrong to drop charges. Horrendous. The state should have followed through and sentenced him to attempted murder for, and at the very least first degree assault based on the desperate 911 call. They could have given her a Lie Detector test and him too. I'm sure there are many witnesses to his violence over the years including cruelty to animals. She was rendered unconscious! What a demon he is.

    • @CuteDwarf11
      @CuteDwarf11 4 года назад +25

      @@tammyandersonparker3068 My thoughts exactly. If she hadn't regained consciousness when she did, she would be dead. I'm not trying to play the blame game, but I feel that she was just as responsible for Jesi's death because she didn't press charges against him and put him away when she had the chance; if she had, Jesi would probably be alive today.

    • @karascene13
      @karascene13 4 года назад +26

      Its true. I understand being so scared to press charges, but look what happened!!! The ex girlfriend isn't responsible for what happened to Jessie-- but maybe it could have been prevented. Idk. Maybe he would have come back to kill the ex. I'd like to see some statics on how often that really happens.

    • @CuteDwarf11
      @CuteDwarf11 4 года назад +18

      @@karascene13 If she pressed charges for attempted murder, I have a feeling that he would have been put away for a very long time. I get she was scared, but in my opinion, she should have pushed through with the charges, bought a gun, and learned self defense. If she had pressed charges, Jesi's death could have been prevented...

    • @SnowFoxParty
      @SnowFoxParty 4 года назад +12

      Exactly. If she didn't drop the charges the girl would not have died

  • @zachm.6572
    @zachm.6572 4 года назад +159

    This is a father’s worst nightmare.

    • @SMA1mommy
      @SMA1mommy 4 года назад +3

      Any good parents worst night mare is losing your child in any manner... knowmatter how a child's life is taken from a good parent it hurts just as bad and the same. No child should die no parent should have to outlive their child ot is against nature.
      ( I'm speaking as a parent to a terminally ill child 😭🤍🙏❤ I cry all the time and live in fear I will never be who I use to be. A part of me broke and I don't know how to find it let alone fix it.)
      Blessings to you all and enjoy each second because that is truly all we have 🙏🙏🙏

  • @meggieolvera
    @meggieolvera 3 года назад +75

    This man is an amazing father. She knew how much he loved her too. I hope and pray he is at peace with that and never questions if she knew how much he loved her.

  • @stkelsiej
    @stkelsiej 4 года назад +183

    Ouch, my heart. What a piece of garbage. This was no accident.

  • @DeeDee-sy5hf
    @DeeDee-sy5hf 4 года назад +198

    This father-daughter relationship is so beautiful , he did everything right and raised a strong woman ... this make it even more heartbreaking ...
    I hope he can get over his guilt ...
    May she rest in peace ....

    • @frank0092
      @frank0092 4 года назад +1

      Sadly I don't think he will,he is taking that broken heart to the grave

  • @12thDecember
    @12thDecember 3 года назад +42

    "There's a brand-new break in my heart every day."
    Oh, man, I wasn't expecting anything expressed so beautifully and yet so painfully. 💔

  • @TheUniqueHistoryChannel777
    @TheUniqueHistoryChannel777 4 года назад +189

    yeah i dont buy that "she fell in the shower." stuff. he would of called for help if that happened.

    • @dn3607
      @dn3607 4 года назад +6

      Right Like any sane person would

    • @americanchloe-q5s
      @americanchloe-q5s 4 года назад +1

      Yes I have used this excuse for cut on my face .

    • @Flaminhotcheetoh89
      @Flaminhotcheetoh89 4 года назад +3

      Okaay exactly!! Who the fuck puts someone who slipped in the shower in the trunk or hatchback ??? SOMEONE WHO KILLS ON PURPOSE SMH..He should never be released !

    • @AnalystManIssac
      @AnalystManIssac 3 года назад +4

      I have a strong feeling what the first girlfriend describe he probably did that to Jesse except for this time he succeeded because he learned his lesson the first time

    • @davidrobinson9528
      @davidrobinson9528 3 года назад

      Not to mention the car damage. Seems like he hit her with the car and she had head trauma

  • @ObsoleteOddity
    @ObsoleteOddity 4 года назад +561

    Breaks my hear to see the father's heartrending grief - time to bring back good old fashioned stoning.

    • @amandacharlebois9295
      @amandacharlebois9295 3 года назад +8

      That’s archaic. That wouldn’t be justice, it would be revenge.

    • @JustKelso1993
      @JustKelso1993 3 года назад +2

      @@amandacharlebois9295 Too many people don't know the difference.

    • @raquelvlogzz1183
      @raquelvlogzz1183 3 года назад

      FOR REAL!!!.

    • @carolyngrey2853
      @carolyngrey2853 3 года назад

      Right!!!

    • @carolyngrey2853
      @carolyngrey2853 3 года назад +5

      @@amandacharlebois9295 it would get rid of the badd ppl & teach the other bad ppl what will happen when they do bad things. Maybe ppl would think twice about murdering their girlfriends if they thought it would pur their own lives at risk.

  • @chelsss12112
    @chelsss12112 2 года назад +24

    I’ve watched countless cases like this, but that poor father genuinely broke my heart. I hope he heals

  • @PebblezfrmDetroit80
    @PebblezfrmDetroit80 4 года назад +121

    He reminds me of my daddy!!! Daddies of this caliber are a rare breed and cut from a different cloth!!! I pray for peace to surround this wonderful man!!! RIP beautiful girl, you didn't deserve this atrocity!!!!

  • @kylanNpeyton1
    @kylanNpeyton1 4 года назад +335

    I WENT TO SCHOOL WITH JESSIE!!! THIS IS SO FREAKIN' SAD 😥 😞 😢.. R.I.P HONEY... WE LOVE U ALWAYS ND 4EVER!!!

  • @urfavlatina557
    @urfavlatina557 3 года назад +77

    I love how the dad basically restrains himself from saying shit while talking about Jason. Her and her dad had such a good bond, like me and my dad. I hope she is resting in peace

  • @oculipura3148
    @oculipura3148 4 года назад +57

    It's always the parents that truly love and adore their children that end up losing them first. I shed tears listening to this mans immense heartbreak. What an amazing father.

  • @trishhill7563
    @trishhill7563 3 года назад +33

    This father's pain is visible & absolutely breaks my heart, as a mother.....

  • @rosabetances6098
    @rosabetances6098 3 года назад +130

    Never dismiss a case of attempted murder. Find all the protection in the world but never dismiss that case because he or she will do it again and probably be successful at it like in this case.

    • @Soffity
      @Soffity 3 года назад +12

      Indeed. If the previous girlfriend had pressed charges Jessie might still be alive. She was probably scared out of her wits and worried he would really kill her if she didn’t drop the charges. A very difficult position to be in. I feel for her and of course Jessie’s dad.

  • @daisycassidy2448
    @daisycassidy2448 3 года назад +70

    This Dad deeply loved his daughter and his grief was overwhelming. I wish my dad had loved me like that. God bless you, sir, and I hope you are doing better.

  • @glow1815
    @glow1815 3 года назад +22

    Dad crying " he took my whole world" breaks my heart. Please forgive yourself you did all you did.

  • @ofentsetswai9694
    @ofentsetswai9694 3 года назад +119

    Some people have fathers out there. Forgive yourself dad, you tried your best to help. May you find healing💐😢

  • @sevillem5343
    @sevillem5343 4 года назад +194

    Omg I cried when the dad cried, I wish I could hug him.

  • @destineeherrera
    @destineeherrera 3 года назад +20

    “I get pissed off when I see somebody happy” that’s pain right there I’m so sorry 😢

  • @Sammiesjourney24
    @Sammiesjourney24 Год назад +49

    This poor father is racked with guilt and it’s not his fault. He tried to get her to come home. He did everything he could do. I’m going to pray for this man so he could forgive himself, I’m sure his daughter wouldn’t want him to feel like this and live this way.

    • @judybrown7601
      @judybrown7601 Год назад +1

      Kayla
      I felt that way when my 23 year old died.
      I need to put it on here
      David wilkerson last blog....scroll for a bit till you get to TO THOSE GOING......
      I will try to get it on here.

    • @allisonlopez7552
      @allisonlopez7552 Год назад

      Iloilo loop loop loop polo loop look loop kolo Kuopio polio pop oooookiio

  • @-me.
    @-me. 4 года назад +146

    The fathers song to his daughter shattered my heart

    • @laurenburghard5507
      @laurenburghard5507 4 года назад +4

      Yeah that broke me

    • @little_luna9521
      @little_luna9521 4 года назад +3

      mhm it’s so sad 😢

    • @s.c3796
      @s.c3796 4 года назад +5

      I couldn't watch...got like 2 words in and I'm out! Men crying over true heartbreak...fkn allergies are terrible today! Ugh lol

    • @vawexa123
      @vawexa123 4 года назад +4

      Damn thats a real dad. I wish i had one like him

  • @jewel6949
    @jewel6949 4 года назад +601

    Jason grew up Nextdoor to me.. he had literally the sweetest parents ever but since he was a kid, he always was very cold, quiet and always had a dead look in his eyes. He always struck me as off and it confused me because his parents were so not like that. After this happened his parents disappeared and moved away they were so embarrassed.
    Rip Jessie

    • @stevemulwitz8683
      @stevemulwitz8683 4 года назад +39

      HIS PARENTS MAY HAVE BEEN SWEET BUT HIS UPBRINGING WAS ANYTHING BUT SWEET!

    • @jewel6949
      @jewel6949 4 года назад +184

      STEVE MULWITZ actually he had an amazing upbringing. It comes to the theory of nature vs nurture. He was born evil for sure.

    • @stevemulwitz8683
      @stevemulwitz8683 4 года назад +29

      @@jewel6949 JULIA--NO ONE IS BORN EVIL---HE WAS NOT GIVEN LOVE! I CANNOT DISAGREE WITH YOU MORE!

    • @zorrakas320
      @zorrakas320 4 года назад +17

      STEVE MULWITZ Good and evil are prejudices placed on people. Change my mind.

    • @giovanna722
      @giovanna722 4 года назад +115

      @@stevemulwitz8683 There is a genetic predisposition in some people, that can put them at risk of exhibiting antisocial behavior. See Dr. Park Dietz's interview of the Iceman, Richard Kuklinski.

  • @carolyncasey8960
    @carolyncasey8960 2 года назад +33

    To Jessie’s dad- do not blame yourself. Your daughter made her own choice. My heart breaks for parents who have to bury a child. In the 1980’s my niece was murdered and the whole family was never the same. She left behind a loving family, including two beautiful little children. Please forgive yourself. You did all you could.

  • @carmenstephenson1137
    @carmenstephenson1137 3 года назад +109

    She was so lucky to have a dad like him! I wish I could know how that feels :-(

    • @managingmonasmoula9811
      @managingmonasmoula9811 2 года назад +4

      My dad could care less about seeing me. I know how it is to have a father who doesn't give a crap about me. He is nice on the surface but cold, uncaring, stint and selfish. She was lucky to have a father like Mr. Bardwell.

    • @KingDeku6967
      @KingDeku6967 2 года назад +5

      @@managingmonasmoula9811 I'm not a girl but I wish i had a dad to:/

  • @dsmusicbird
    @dsmusicbird 4 года назад +121

    He didn't "snap". This is just who and what he is and does. Ugh, his eyes!!! 😯
    Pause @ 16:25 & 16:27 & 16:30

    • @SMA1mommy
      @SMA1mommy 4 года назад +6

      👁👁 the windows to one's soul's .... wisdom to live by 🙏🙏🙏

    • @srk54989
      @srk54989 4 года назад +3

      Yes

    • @dnw75
      @dnw75 4 года назад +7

      Yes, his psychopathic eyes tell it all.

    • @barbarabutts9939
      @barbarabutts9939 3 года назад +2

      Yes, crazy eyes 👀

  • @Gabbyosgood
    @Gabbyosgood 3 года назад +34

    I can’t even imagine the pain this man is going through. I choked up with tears in my eyes the moment that father spoke how he wishes he would’ve went to Texas. My goodness. If this story doesn’t touch you in any way, you are not human and you are just as bad as Jason Lowe

  • @stephaniecalhoun804
    @stephaniecalhoun804 4 года назад +106

    If jessie died like he said then why didn't you call 911 instead of hiding her body?

    • @simplyme9016
      @simplyme9016 4 года назад +8

      Exactly. Liar!

    • @SMA1mommy
      @SMA1mommy 4 года назад +3

      Or carring around 🤮 he is a danger to society and should be in chains somewhere forever plus a day

    • @kdbwiz
      @kdbwiz 3 года назад +1

      He’s a psychopath murderer

  • @TheSam10pate
    @TheSam10pate 4 года назад +160

    i feel so bad for the dad when he breaks down. i cant imagine his pain

  • @MsMoneyonMyMind
    @MsMoneyonMyMind 2 года назад +27

    It’s sad enough dealing with the death of a child at the hands of evil incarnate but to also feel as if there was something you could’ve done to prevent it has to be doubly horrible... prayers for peace for her dad ✨

  • @roxanamarroquin640
    @roxanamarroquin640 3 года назад +74

    This Dad is A Prime Example of a Loving Dedicated father 😭😭😭 I cried when he cried & he sang the song he wrote for her, gosh when were in love we can get so blind & stupid if only she would of listened to her dad when he asked to go back home 😩😩😭😭 but May Jessie RIP & hope that scubbag rotss in prison

    • @pearl1269
      @pearl1269 3 года назад +1

      True..its so heart breaking💔😭🥺🥺😭

  • @kathleenoldenburg2534
    @kathleenoldenburg2534 3 года назад +107

    Omg when the dad cried at the end, broke my heart. He needs to forgive himself.

  • @maryronan9758
    @maryronan9758 3 года назад +50

    “He took my world away”- oh my gosh, that poor father....

  • @whitneytucker1224
    @whitneytucker1224 4 года назад +180

    God please cover this family in love and light. No one should ever have to bury their child. I’m so sorry sir.

  • @johnub4
    @johnub4 4 года назад +46

    These abusive relationships I can't stand. I LOVE my girlfriend. I would NEVER hurt her in anyway. She's the best girlfriend ever. I can't find myself to yell at her and if that comes to it I'd walk away. Abusive relationships begin with words then end with death.

  • @theblackpearlofbraavos
    @theblackpearlofbraavos 3 года назад +11

    When he spoke about why his back hurt, it made me remember all the times I did the same to my dad. Good dads rock❤❤

  • @drew3467
    @drew3467 4 года назад +38

    as someone who’s been in a toxic/abusive relationship i can tell you sir it is 100% not your fault. she was probably in love with that man and would’ve done anything for him. i know i shut a lot of people out and treated them poorly because my mind was occupied with my ex. it was horrible but i want that dad to know that him always checking up on her and calling her showed her that he cared.

  • @fergthegemini12
    @fergthegemini12 3 года назад +52

    I don’t know how it feels to be a parent but my heart hurts for him 😔 Not only for him but for every parent who has to live with that discomfort pain of losing their child.

  • @swapnamenon
    @swapnamenon 2 года назад +13

    Omg this story just breaks my heart. I wanna give that father a hug. 😭

  • @ladymisanthrophy1436
    @ladymisanthrophy1436 4 года назад +102

    Sir, that won’t be of any consolation. Nothing can. My heart breaks for yours. But please, try and not blame yourself. Unfortunately love makes you blind and she was in love with a monster. It’s happened to me. Life can be stupid and cruel and there’s nothing you could have done differently. The more you’d have insisted, the more she’d have hang onto him. Please, let me tell you one thing on her behalf, if I may, as my dad has never been interested in me for anything else than abusing me: you have been a wonderful father. Her life has been cut short, but the few years she lived were filled with love and joy. I would exchange in the blink of an eye my destiny with hers if it meant having a father like you. Please, get better. Marie

  • @8purks
    @8purks 4 года назад +205

    If anyone touch someone who in my family im going to prison for murder!

    • @orangehoof
      @orangehoof 4 года назад +7

      A pyromaniac is someone with a compulsion to set fires, just to be clear.

    • @8purks
      @8purks 4 года назад +3

      Bob Hulsey yea but something set a fire in him

    • @dzekadzenan6977
      @dzekadzenan6977 4 года назад +1

      @@8purks so, something is pyromaniac?

    • @8purks
      @8purks 4 года назад +1

      dzeka dzenan yes that man is crazy he had something fired up on him.

    • @cynthiasommac
      @cynthiasommac 4 года назад

      @@8purks that doesn't make sense at all

  • @anitagoodman9002
    @anitagoodman9002 3 года назад +7

    Thankyou to all the brave people sharing these stories it has been a direct influence in my life and I managed to so far escape a very violent partner and get a protection order in place after he strangled me unconscious twice after a very abusive couple of hours... In front of our 5 year old daughter and my 12 year old son... I was given strength through my children and awareness through videos like this. I believe me and my babies are as safe as possible now.

  • @alleyosun
    @alleyosun 4 года назад +44

    This rocked my hometown. Didn't know her personally but had mutual friends. Bless her heart.

  • @JudieSanthosh
    @JudieSanthosh 4 года назад +49

    This is why you should never ignore your intuitions.. Pay attention to your gut feelings and follow it before it's too late

  • @brittanyMdavis
    @brittanyMdavis 2 года назад +8

    I just want to hug Jesse's dad and bring her home. I myself have lost my son. Chance Malachi. He was only 28 days old. The pain is immeasurable. Sending love to her family. ❤

    • @forgoneconclusion2861
      @forgoneconclusion2861 2 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss ❤

    • @brittanyMdavis
      @brittanyMdavis 2 года назад +2

      @@forgoneconclusion2861 thank you for the kind words. Baby/child loss is the most painful. Your children should NEVER go before you. 💔

  • @TenieceCoulverson3686
    @TenieceCoulverson3686 4 года назад +74

    Ladies plz stop dropping charges on these scumbags, it could save lives.. I feel so sorry for Jessie's family

    • @siiiiiuu7
      @siiiiiuu7 4 года назад +5

      Absolutely. I know a few girls who experienced abusive relationships (and even rape) in high school. None of them pressed charges and now those young men are older men. I often wonder who they're with now and how they're treating them. I hope and pray that they magically became better people but... doubt that.

  • @idontcare1481
    @idontcare1481 4 года назад +63

    I’m so sorry Jessie’s daddy! Praying for you to forgive and find peace for your daughters sake.

  • @MarcellusTorres
    @MarcellusTorres Год назад +13

    I feel so bad for the father, that man needs all the love and peace in the world

    • @ashleygray3744
      @ashleygray3744 Год назад +1

      He most definitely deserves it. Such a great father that so many kids aren’t fortunate to have. There are no words to describe his pain & no words that can take it away.

  • @terrimichaels3018
    @terrimichaels3018 4 года назад +106

    Praying for family who lost a loved one to senseless murder.

    • @49ers_red_and_gold2
      @49ers_red_and_gold2 4 года назад +1

      How about praying for people when something bad doesn't happen?

    • @MamaLauren523
      @MamaLauren523 4 года назад +1

      @@49ers_red_and_gold2 Seriously? Anyone who prays...at all, will pray for good things to happen to others, they will pray for happiness for others and most importantly they will say prayers of thanks!
      Stop trying to be edgy please. It only makes you seem like a jerk!

    • @triton6083
      @triton6083 4 года назад

      @Lauren Iversen stfu 😑

    • @jessicamitchell4482
      @jessicamitchell4482 4 года назад +1

      @@49ers_red_and_gold2 AMEN I LOVE HOW YOU MENTIONED THIS BECAUSE THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT IS NEEDED... LOT'S OF PRAYERS!!!!

  • @KathyAnne28
    @KathyAnne28 4 года назад +41

    Everything about this case is so sad and devastating.
    As someone who's dealt with a stalker in the past, I can only imagine the guilt and pain the ex must have felt when she heard about Jessie's murder, wondering and wishing.
    And Jessie's dad - I pray he's able to find some peace and know that he's not at fault for anything that happened in ANY form. Absolutely a parent's worst nightmare, and you can feel his heartbreak in every word and expression.

  • @elizabethshepard3090
    @elizabethshepard3090 3 года назад +14

    My heart bleeds for this father, he adored his daughter and wanted to save her from this monster, he tried so hard but the monster had her manipulated!!!

  • @jennyjen3985
    @jennyjen3985 3 года назад +54

    Literally cried when her dad started to cry, so heartbreaking 😞.

  • @deniseabrams7212
    @deniseabrams7212 4 года назад +50

    Ladies please be careful wit who u are dating...... Guy's like this make me feel good about being single... Rip jessie🙏🙏🙏

    • @goo1358
      @goo1358 4 года назад +3

      Before you make it official, introduce your man to your family and friends and let them make an opinion
      Her father tried to take her away and she refused. That was a big mistake

    • @siiiiiuu7
      @siiiiiuu7 4 года назад +4

      @@goo1358 Agree. Family and friends can give you a bird's eye view of what's going on. Unfortunately, some people fall hard and fast for their abuser, and then there's nothing anyone can say to change their minds. It's like a trance.

  • @drama9241
    @drama9241 3 года назад +8

    Garys such a genuine loving father, this breaks my heart

  • @Faisey648
    @Faisey648 4 года назад +35

    Man the love of a father is so beyond this world my heart pours for him 😭

  • @majackslelo827
    @majackslelo827 4 года назад +69

    You see warning lights, LEAVE that person or place. Because not everyone gets a second chance😔. RIP🙏🏿 strength to her family🙏🏿

    • @bougie1012
      @bougie1012 4 года назад +4

      The devil is a lie ... God got this ...

  • @jlm8560
    @jlm8560 3 года назад +4

    Seeing that father cry was absolutely heart wrenching. Made me miss my dad, and think about every bad decision I've ever made. How mad I'd get at him, not knowing how he really felt. This guy actually looks just like my dad.

  • @th3_only_blubbu
    @th3_only_blubbu 4 года назад +70

    Now that's a dad

    • @s.c3796
      @s.c3796 4 года назад

      Zuckerberg?

  • @seliassin2337
    @seliassin2337 4 года назад +45

    I pray that the father forgives himself
    He couldn’t make her choices for her

  • @mickeymortimer4407
    @mickeymortimer4407 3 года назад +16

    My deepest condolences to you Sir, and to Jessie's mother and brother. I'm going to tell my daughter this story when she grows up.

  • @shanonvasquez2035
    @shanonvasquez2035 3 года назад +33

    Seeing and hearing this man cry for his beautiful daughter is absolutely heartbreaking.

  • @MR-qs8zc
    @MR-qs8zc 4 года назад +13

    I wish everyone had a Dad like that; unconditional love and loyalty.

  • @tripleeathletics
    @tripleeathletics 3 года назад +5

    The heartache & grief that man has is almost too much for me to handle. That hit me some type of way, and absolutely destroyed my heart…

  • @meena5534
    @meena5534 4 года назад +75

    Damn my eyes got watery when the dad said please hide my gun from me 😖😖😖😖😢😢😢

    • @icecoffeeonlybihhh87
      @icecoffeeonlybihhh87 3 года назад +3

      Hey Twin! 🙌

    • @meena5534
      @meena5534 3 года назад +3

      @@icecoffeeonlybihhh87 hey girl 😭

    • @icecoffeeonlybihhh87
      @icecoffeeonlybihhh87 3 года назад +2

      It's so rare to see a Meena with two E's lmao 🙌😂😍

    • @meena5534
      @meena5534 3 года назад +3

      @@icecoffeeonlybihhh87 I know right 🤣 hope ur doing well wherever u are 🥰🥰

    • @icecoffeeonlybihhh87
      @icecoffeeonlybihhh87 3 года назад

      @@meena5534 Awww thank you honey! Same to you too, stay safe! The world need more Meena's! 😉🥰

  • @ndg7134
    @ndg7134 3 года назад +44

    You can literally see sorrow in his eyes that wasn't there in his pictures with his daughter. That is heartbreaking....

  • @rymoats6460
    @rymoats6460 3 года назад +10

    I’m fucking bawling. These shows don’t do that to me. This fathers heartbreak killed me.

  • @jessicaannbowman1962
    @jessicaannbowman1962 4 года назад +71

    This has really spoke to me. My name is Jessie as well, I only have my father in my life because my mom passed when I was 9 yrs old...so my daddy raised me, so I too am a daddy's girl, and have been in multiple toxic and abusive relationships since I was a young teenager, its almost as i seek out those toxic people, maybe i didn't feel like i deserved anything better for myself? I dont know really. But I do know that this video and Jessie's daddy has spoke to me in more ways than one. And I will NEVER, EVER let myself be trapped or abused by another man. Who knows what a person is capable of? And I would never want my daddy to have to feel the pain that this family has indured because of an evil monster. Prayers for your family, prayers for Jessie..may her sweet soul rest in peace along with my sweet mommy 🙏 thank you for your story,...it has helped me so much ❤

    • @headkandywhore
      @headkandywhore 4 года назад +8

      Jessica Ann Bowman I hope you find a great partner that will treat you with love, respect and kindness 💜💖

    • @AishaKontehSesay
      @AishaKontehSesay 4 года назад +5

      Jessica you’re beautiful and you deserve better . Continue to love yourself more and don’t forget to be positive 😘

    • @pamspencer5733
      @pamspencer5733 4 года назад +9

      Ditto, deceased Mother,lonely,desperate for love.Had serious stalkers,ended up in hospital.Dont throw your life away.Find a strong female role model at College.Dangerous Narccisists prey on sweet empaths( Narc supply).Dont be emotional,be logical,smart.Exercise your brain like a muscle🙏❣️🌅

    • @FallenAngel9979
      @FallenAngel9979 4 года назад +5

      Hope you find a partner who deserves you Jessica.❤️Hugs from across the pond.🇬🇧

    • @artemisnectar7
      @artemisnectar7 4 года назад +4

      Jessica🙋🏽‍♀️🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽.. You are valued, never 4get,, okkkk💯💯

  • @brennathecatlover4360
    @brennathecatlover4360 4 года назад +149

    Maybe the ex was scared of pressing charges cuz she’s right if he found out he could’ve come for her and she was scared

    • @cuteowltv3917
      @cuteowltv3917 4 года назад +4

      Yes but it’s still messed up

    • @boardwalkbw7130
      @boardwalkbw7130 4 года назад +15

      That's bc our system is so messed up...violent offenders get less time than someone with drugs...its crazy.

    • @banut2116
      @banut2116 4 года назад +3

      Exactly there's plenty of cases where the woman pursues the offender and the violence escalates

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 4 года назад

      @@cuteowltv3917 I would probably be scared to do the same thing

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 4 года назад

      @@boardwalkbw7130 it is