i disagree. You know how there is a male gaze and a female gaze? there is also a gay gaze. the things that g*y people find attractive doesnt align with what women find attractive. a lot of them are into really weird aesthetics
@@callusniegier5056what??? They both like fine men (men they find attractive) if a gay dude points out a man he finds attractive to his homegirls chances are they will find him attractive too (in the black community at least) and vice versa tbh.
@@Shecksballin if a gay guy started hitting on me or asked me if i was gay, tbh i would be offended. and so would most men. They'd respond by saying smth like "do i look gay?" 😂😂
It’s not true, majority of gay men don’t want to ask someone out because they’re afraid of homophobic attacks. There’s plenty of attractive women who barely get hit on due to guys being too intimidated to ask them out so imagine how a gay man feels?
I remember I was in a bathroom flexing once and some guy stopped and looked for a second and left, when I got out he said in the most zesty voice “can I see your abs again 💅” I swear to god I was speechless lmao 😂
@@ARTDEVGRU247You must be a bit dull, this video is trying to tell you that gay men are more picky than straight women, so if gay men are hitting you up you’re very obviously doing something right, you don’t have to respond or you can flat out reject them
No you don’t want those problems but it happens to very handsome men all the time when I lived in NYC it happened at least once or twice a week you can’t get but so mad at it. If you do you will be having words every other Day. Just shake your head No and keep walking. Twice I had to really almost punch out a gay dude.
as uncomfortable this topic is. it's very true. Women are way more subtle than men. We as men have a hard time holding our desires in. Like when we see a bad chick. Women choose on attractive men as well but way more subtlety most of the time.
It’s not just gay men fam, if you’re attractive people naturally look at you more. Just like when a hot girl walks down the street. Not just guys are looking at her, women too ✌🏼
Personally just take it as a compliment that both sexes find you attractive ya don’t gotta make it weird by asking why are you thinking about men finding you attractive when it’s not that, it’s about the fact that they’re finding you attractive in the first place
i remember a dude that looked like Ricky Martin straight up walked up to me and i thought he was going to ask me some random stuff about the meeting were both in but he just directly asked for my number. I didnt register then, i thought it was kinda weird but figured it was just for hanging out or something. But looking back, we never talked during the meeting and he kept glancing at me throughout. So yeah i am not homo in any sense, but I was like damn, a good looking guy like that asked for my # gave me so confidence boost for sure.
When I first attracted a gay man it was my first day on a new job, and it was a group of girls who came up to me asked me for my ig and they said their friend thought I was cute. Got off looked and see who followed me it was a nigga, man did I have a story to tell when I got home😭
Ts jus happened to me, dude was tryna chit chat it up asking personal questions right after a workout. I played it cool but i wasnt with exchanging no information😂
I'll be honest, this is extremely true. I have attracted the attention of not just gay men but lesbian women and everything in between. Thank you for the reminder and confidence boost brother 🙏🏼 haha
I have experienced this on multiple occasions, especially when I was a student at the university. Guys trying their best to do you or for you to do them... And sometimes they would not take no for an answer... They almost turned me into a metoo activist lol I thought to myself "damn, sometimes men can be really difficult to deal with" Sad thing is a women could not threaten to become violent toward a guy forcing his way like a man, without using pepper spray or a tazer. They made me empathetic towards women more on that regard.
Facts bro….. I was around so many females in highschool people thought I was gay. Guys would be mad whenever the girl they like rotated around me. I had guy inbox me and all
Truth! I like women, but gay and bi dudes have always tried to talk to me! Very interesting fact that most people won’t talk about but have experienced.
Bruh this shit is crazy but true I had a bisexual dude hit on me at a bus station one time his exact words he asked me do I get down the bi way? I told him nahh I got a girlfriend and he was surprised I didn’t slap him for him trying to get at me. Because he said most people he try to approach do.He also said he was sorry he tried to get at me but he couldn’t help himself when he see something he like he go after it. Crazy experience motivated me to get whip after tho so I didn’t have to take the bus from far ass distances anymore for sure😂
I was actually hit on by this gay Arabic guy that worked at a gas station. He wrote his number down piece of paper told me to call him but of course once I got to my car I threw it away
So I've seen a few of these now and I think what you're missing is that usually straigh tmen would be better off investing in things that make them more capable durint the time you spend getting ready. Cut the 2 hours of getting ready to 30, get to the gym shower brush your teeth and move forward as opposed to things that just make you 'look' better. it makes more sense when it regards the opposite sex Because women typically look for someone who is capable and commanding and the sexual attraction and such are built over time. ( for long term relationships)
I get what he’s saying. But, I’ve had very few gay men approach me over the years. But even in my 50s, now, I get approached at least once, if not twice a week by females, and half my age, just going about my way. I doubt I’m doing anything “wrong.” I’m happily married, and give zero attention to women when I’m out and about (seriously, I go out of my way to NOT speak to them to avoid a situation). But for some reason young women in their 20s and thirties constantly approach me. Blanket statements rarely have actual merit, so I don’t put a lot of stock in them as a general rule. But saying a man isn't attractive if gay men aren’t after them is patently false.
Because you clearly hold a masculine frame. Austin is very metrosexual, so he’s probably giving off gay vibes, as a result these men feel safe to test the waters.
Physical attractiveness is not the only reason women like men. Ladies love taken men, it's called social proof sir. There's also the obvious maturity/stability you portray
Lucky I’m fugally and still have a 10 I honestly always thought looks mattered to women as much as it does to men but honestly your body just has to be in decent shape and you can basically pull any girl you want
I’ve noticed this that I will get hit on by some gay man every now and then I took this as a sign, that I am probably more attractive than I thought, but need to reevaluate how I carry myself
This is 100%. In fact, when I blew up on social media, I literally had an occult following from Brazil they still are around to some extent, my content didn’t help either😂😂
This is true, I remember when a few gay dudes tried to hit on me, I was in a wild era of sleeping around but when I let myself go, there were none… Truth be told
It happens on me all the time and I know it was bcs I’m to much masculine attractive man.. it’s simple logic when a man finds u attractive imagine how the women’s think about u
This is weird but it happened 2 times and I was super uncomfortable 1 was a friend of my gf at the time and flirted with me, 2nd a random guy dming me wanting to smash
Haters looking for reasons to clown. But that's based af. U dont tell d homies since it aint a flex but the info is good 2 kno as an objective feedback.
Gay men are like my attractiveness meter. I’ve lost weight twice and when I noticed a random gay man act very friendly towards me that’s when I know I’ve reached a good level of attractiveness. It gives me a confidence boost and a green light to know that if I approach, I’m at least looking good 😂
Throughout my life I only attracted two gay guys. One of my ex crush’s friends and my friend when he was Bi. Yet I still manage to get turned down by women wtf!? 😂
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Gay man here and I must say Austin you are too damn handsome 😘
Hit us with the outfits bruh.
I did and it was weird I laughed it off then ran my ass to the car went home
This is a weird and yet very true observation! 😂
It’s surprisingly true 🤣
It’s because gay men are more picky than straight women. I thought this was an obvious fact?
After all gay men 😂put in hours to look good 😂and think you're gay too
If u prioritize your looks
😂
Shit just happen to me twice today! Like an hour ago
Hahaha this is facts. A girl once told me years ago, you know you're attractive when both sexes think you're attractive.
Scary but facts
She was probably talking about herself. It’s far more common for a girl to gain attraction from both sexes.
You zesty punks are coming out of the closet.
@@H.K.5 Exactly men and women have been attracted to me
I mean he's not lying tho unfortunately 😂
i disagree.
You know how there is a male gaze and a female gaze? there is also a gay gaze.
the things that g*y people find attractive doesnt align with what women find attractive. a lot of them are into really weird aesthetics
@@callusniegier5056 he just spoke about that. and unless youre a pretty boy gay men will be on all good looking men
@@callusniegier5056what??? They both like fine men (men they find attractive) if a gay dude points out a man he finds attractive to his homegirls chances are they will find him attractive too (in the black community at least) and vice versa tbh.
@@callusniegier5056same as a lot of women, your points coexist with his doesn’t mean he’s wrong lmao
@@Shecksballin if a gay guy started hitting on me or asked me if i was gay, tbh i would be offended. and so would most men.
They'd respond by saying smth like "do i look gay?" 😂😂
Bro has his tinder set to men and women 😂
Now imagine what will happen to your confidence when a trans dude hits on u
Lmao 😂😂😂😂
That's gonna be Austin next short in a year from now
A trans did like me on tinder 😂
bruh💀
All thr time bro lmao
too much internet today i’m
off ✌️
Same !!!!!!!
This is true but I think this is one of those things that just sounds better in your head than out loud
It’s not true, majority of gay men don’t want to ask someone out because they’re afraid of homophobic attacks. There’s plenty of attractive women who barely get hit on due to guys being too intimidated to ask them out so imagine how a gay man feels?
@@H.K.5then it just means you're attractive *and* approachable
I remember I was in a bathroom flexing once and some guy stopped and looked for a second and left, when I got out he said in the most zesty voice “can I see your abs again 💅” I swear to god I was speechless lmao 😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
@element5817loooool he gon touch it 💀😂😂😂😂
@element5817 nah man unfortunately not, he left too soon 🤣
🧢🧢
This guy's trying to make me feel bad that dudes don't hit on me lol
ahahahaha I love internet
Only logical observation
@@GR-uc1gq do you get hit on by men?
😂😂😂😂
😂 😂😂
Man wtf Austin 😂😂
These dudes get weirder and weirder everyday 😂😂😂😂😂. Him, fitx...etc 😂😂
It’s true doe
@educatedtyrone 😂
@@ARTDEVGRU247You must be a bit dull, this video is trying to tell you that gay men are more picky than straight women, so if gay men are hitting you up you’re very obviously doing something right, you don’t have to respond or you can flat out reject them
@@UniqueHandlesdon’t even bother this dudes are coping cl0wns
I don’t think I want those type of problems 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Trust me, you don't 🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤦🏽♂️
No you don’t want those problems but it happens to very handsome men all the time when I lived in NYC it happened at least once or twice a week you can’t get but so mad at it. If you do you will be having words every other Day. Just shake your head No and keep walking. Twice I had to really almost punch out a gay dude.
It’s annoying asf sometimes 🤦♂️
As a gay man.
You sir won’t ever have them.
I don’t need dudes to validate me bro I’m cool
Fr 😂
We need ray Willam to talk about this guy lol
“If ur trying to attract a girl and you can’t attract a gay guy ur not attractive” 💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂
😂😂
Ray William Johnson?
Is he gay?
😂😂 forgot about that guy =3
All my homies are hitting on me... I am so fucking hot
Started from doing pull up videos to this quality of content.
as uncomfortable this topic is. it's very true. Women are way more subtle than men. We as men have a hard time holding our desires in. Like when we see a bad chick. Women choose on attractive men as well but way more subtlety most of the time.
Gay men are more picky than straight women, this video is facts on that basis alone, you putting down game Austin
interesting
I be going for to their clubs for a confidence boost
All there clubs for lesbians? Asking for a friend
You creep
It’s not just gay men fam, if you’re attractive people naturally look at you more. Just like when a hot girl walks down the street. Not just guys are looking at her, women too ✌🏼
Ok Austin, it's time to lay off social media and go out into world my friend
Austin is the type of guy who looks for validation everytime he leaves the house.
I get this , ngl sometimes I just be giving in n shit
Bro?
😂hell nah
Yooo 😂
Pause
😂🤣
Personally just take it as a compliment that both sexes find you attractive ya don’t gotta make it weird by asking why are you thinking about men finding you attractive when it’s not that, it’s about the fact that they’re finding you attractive in the first place
This mane never misses 😅🐸☕️
i remember a dude that looked like Ricky Martin straight up walked up to me and i thought he was going to ask me some random stuff about the meeting were both in but he just directly asked for my number. I didnt register then, i thought it was kinda weird but figured it was just for hanging out or something. But looking back, we never talked during the meeting and he kept glancing at me throughout. So yeah i am not homo in any sense, but I was like damn, a good looking guy like that asked for my # gave me so confidence boost for sure.
Gay men looooove me, women think I’m ok
I used to be willing to be friends with anybody regardless of their sexualilty but maaaan did they ruin that shit quick😂
So you would or use to hang out with a bunch of gay dudes lol I couldn’t do it bro
You’re gay yourself though…
@@Sillywabbitrix whatever you say my guy
@@tracer073 Who said a bunch of gay dudes? Not me
Omfgggggggggg yo lmfao
Austin ....i dont think u wanna go down this route...because people literally use this accusation against you..
Its confirmed. Homeboy is a flamer 🔥 😂😂😂
This is actually a very good insight and observation🔍
This happens to me sometimes, but I don't know how to go about changing my image specially, because I'm happy in it.
Bro if your gay just say it 💀
I swear he's the only RUclipsr that keeps it real
When I first attracted a gay man it was my first day on a new job, and it was a group of girls who came up to me asked me for my ig and they said their friend thought I was cute. Got off looked and see who followed me it was a nigga, man did I have a story to tell when I got home😭
BRO WTF 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ts jus happened to me, dude was tryna chit chat it up asking personal questions right after a workout. I played it cool but i wasnt with exchanging no information😂
this is a curse and a blessing when you are ugly you will not be harassed but you will be ignored suffering from both good and bad sides
I'll be honest, this is extremely true. I have attracted the attention of not just gay men but lesbian women and everything in between. Thank you for the reminder and confidence boost brother 🙏🏼 haha
So true, I have so many so direct hits from a few, they don’t wait around, they beat women on that
Respect because most straight attractive men don’t like to mention this
tf, why do you know, I often feel uncomfortable about this 😂
I have experienced this on multiple occasions, especially when I was a student at the university.
Guys trying their best to do you or for you to do them...
And sometimes they would not take no for an answer...
They almost turned me into a metoo activist lol
I thought to myself "damn, sometimes men can be really difficult to deal with"
Sad thing is a women could not threaten to become violent toward a guy forcing his way like a man, without using pepper spray or a tazer.
They made me empathetic towards women more on that regard.
Facts bro….. I was around so many females in highschool people thought I was gay. Guys would be mad whenever the girl they like rotated around me. I had guy inbox me and all
Bro it’s weird but so true 😂😂😂
Truth! I like women, but gay and bi dudes have always tried to talk to me! Very interesting fact that most people won’t talk about but have experienced.
Bruh this shit is crazy but true I had a bisexual dude hit on me at a bus station one time his exact words he asked me do I get down the bi way? I told him nahh I got a girlfriend and he was surprised I didn’t slap him for him trying to get at me. Because he said most people he try to approach do.He also said he was sorry he tried to get at me but he couldn’t help himself when he see something he like he go after it. Crazy experience motivated me to get whip after tho so I didn’t have to take the bus from far ass distances anymore for sure😂
😹 i had this 2 times it was a weird feeling but looking back at it super funny😹👌
Buddy made this video to feel better about gay men hitting on him so much 😂
Austin is phine asf tho 🤷🏾♂️
Nah this ain’t it 😂😂
a girl once told me "you got the juice if you attract both sexes" i was like damn i ain't know nobody still said juice anymore lol
This made me feel flattered… yet somehow disrespected at the same time 🤔😂😂
Since when is attracting a gay man a flex???
I was actually hit on by this gay Arabic guy that worked at a gas station. He wrote his number down piece of paper told me to call him but of course once I got to my car I threw it away
Yeah.. of course you threw it away..
@@carlito9727 But somehow at Dubai rn
You are lucky
Gay and Arabic? That’s a new one
hahahha
So I've seen a few of these now and I think what you're missing is that usually straigh tmen would be better off investing in things that make them more capable durint the time you spend getting ready. Cut the 2 hours of getting ready to 30, get to the gym shower brush your teeth and move forward as opposed to things that just make you 'look' better. it makes more sense when it regards the opposite sex Because women typically look for someone who is capable and commanding and the sexual attraction and such are built over time. ( for long term relationships)
Get those numbers up boys
This has happened a few times to me. I mean it's good but I initially thought I had to fix my image. Now I guess there's nothing wrong tho 😂
Yoo literally same bro. I thought there might be something wrong with my image or vibe, but it’s just that we’re attractive
Weird, but thanks for the confidence boost
I get what he’s saying. But, I’ve had very few gay men approach me over the years. But even in my 50s, now, I get approached at least once, if not twice a week by females, and half my age, just going about my way.
I doubt I’m doing anything “wrong.” I’m happily married, and give zero attention to women when I’m out and about (seriously, I go out of my way to NOT speak to them to avoid a situation). But for some reason young women in their 20s and thirties constantly approach me.
Blanket statements rarely have actual merit, so I don’t put a lot of stock in them as a general rule. But saying a man isn't attractive if gay men aren’t after them is patently false.
Big flex 🔥
Because you clearly hold a masculine frame. Austin is very metrosexual, so he’s probably giving off gay vibes, as a result these men feel safe to test the waters.
Physical attractiveness is not the only reason women like men.
Ladies love taken men, it's called social proof sir.
There's also the obvious maturity/stability you portray
This has happened to me twice in person. Shit was so fucking uncomfortable.
Lucky I’m fugally and still have a 10 I honestly always thought looks mattered to women as much as it does to men but honestly your body just has to be in decent shape and you can basically pull any girl you want
Bog facts my guy. Never thought of it that way.
I’ve noticed this that I will get hit on by some gay man every now and then I took this as a sign, that I am probably more attractive than I thought, but need to reevaluate how I carry myself
This is 100%. In fact, when I blew up on social media, I literally had an occult following from Brazil they still are around to some extent, my content didn’t help either😂😂
Ye it's like if you get muscle it won't just be gym Bros asking about your routine
This is true, I remember when a few gay dudes tried to hit on me, I was in a wild era of sleeping around but when I let myself go, there were none…
Truth be told
This is uncomfortable but yes it has happened to me on more than one occasion
I must be fucking gigachad then 😂😂
Lowkey can flex that 😂😂🤦♂️
Why do I want gay men to find me attractive?
And when your friends or acquaintance moms always call you handsome 😂
weird way to try and motivate people to look their best but good video brother
Facts💯
bro is speaking from experience
I like most of Austin's videos, but wtf man 😂
It happens on me all the time and I know it was bcs I’m to much masculine attractive man.. it’s simple logic when a man finds u attractive imagine how the women’s think about u
This video is funny af 🤣
Wow thanks for making my day brother
Nah bruh that’s crazy. He’s right
He not cooking on this one😂😂😂😂😂😂
He’s not promoting homosexuality, he’s just stating that people like attractive people .
This is weird but it happened 2 times and I was super uncomfortable 1 was a friend of my gf at the time and flirted with me, 2nd a random guy dming me wanting to smash
There aren't gays in my country. At least not in the open. It's seen as taboo here to be homosexual.
Nah bro i be pulling all em straight guys
Haters looking for reasons to clown. But that's based af. U dont tell d homies since it aint a flex but the info is good 2 kno as an objective feedback.
Austin is right.. sometimes I get on grinder just to make sure I'm still sexy..
Fax i hate it when they stare at me sometimes i wish i looked like beatlejuice 🥴😩
Ngl I would look so much better if I changed my wardrobe and ate healthier so my skin would be clearer
I Just had one who writed me on social media, i blocked that weirdo ASAP
Boi u mads u didn't have
I’m not worried about attracting men😂
Well that all makes sense now
Gay men are like my attractiveness meter. I’ve lost weight twice and when I noticed a random gay man act very friendly towards me that’s when I know I’ve reached a good level of attractiveness. It gives me a confidence boost and a green light to know that if I approach, I’m at least looking good 😂
maybe sometimes, but mostly it's because you don't look manly or masculine enough so they think you are also gay. this is true in my case
Just a part of the territory. Happens. Get use to it.
I have this issue
But I don't really like
Because one of them is persistent and it's beginning to bother me😢
Facts u probably don’t know their gay but if you caught guys staring at you chances are their gay
I’ll stay ugly then
Throughout my life I only attracted two gay guys. One of my ex crush’s friends and my friend when he was Bi. Yet I still manage to get turned down by women wtf!? 😂
Bro my confidence went📈📈💀
Man this is dark truth hahaha but i totally agree. It makes perfect sense ive been there a few times hahaha
Yup. Spot on
Yeah, but it was very traumatic, it's still a bit unnerving when it happens.