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"a woman who cuts her hair, is a woman who has really decided to change her life".....life truly is the art of learning, unlearning and relearning. love all you have going for yourself right now my girl. God bless ♥️
"Just because i made a terrible egg this morning, that does not make me a bad cook and we are not defined by our failures" 😭😭😭 im crying coz ive been struggling with letting my failures define me but i am unlearning too and thank you Clarissa for this discussion and letting us take our power back!! Yes you are gorgeous in everyway and very much capable 🥺🥺❤ you are such a blessing and thank God for you Clarissa
U look pretty. I shaved all of my hair a year ago and it's flourishing again. I always tell ppl that it's hair, it will grow back. Don't be scared of change
Watching this video really made me so emotional, I can't wait to actually tell myself that "I'm proud of myself". God knows it's been so hard for me to actually say this to myself.
Why does this make me cry 😭. Thank you for writing this. It truly reminded myself that I too have come far and I should at least clap for all that I’ve become this far 🥺❤️.
I saw you in public about a month ago and was so starstruck. I could tell you were not in a good space so I didn’t approach you that day, I’m so glad I can hear the story about how your life has been lately. May you continue on your healing journey and continuing to inspire us
the most prettiest girl i've eveeeeer....no one gets to put a label on you. you are the only one to put a label on yourself...be you and do you girll..love from Botswana🥺
I know the feeling of wanting to be your old self again, and I’m grateful for this video because I’m moving on from that now and just focus on the new book of my life ❤️
You look so beautiful. Just in perfect time for your new year. You're really encouraging me to go for my big chop! I've been thinking about it for a while now. Love the new beginning for you sis! 💕💕
Thank you for reminding us that nothing external defines who we are. You are beautiful ❤️Your inner light is shining through Tbh. I spent this year stressing about braiding my hair, doing this and that. Really none of that matters anymore. Never did. Bless your journey sis 🙏🏾❤️
I’m literally at the verge of crying, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. If anything this year has really humbled me, I quickly had to learn that all the ideas people had of me and that I myself started to believe isn’t even close to what the Lord has for me. I had to do (still am) a lot of unlearning and leaning more onto my intuition and discovering my personal desires. I had also clung soo tightly to my hair even though I wasn’t enjoying it anymore because everybody around me pretty much worshiped my hair and so I had been dancing around the idea of cutting but never really settling on it. This really is all that I needed! We love and appreciate you this side Clarissa❤️
This is so inspiring, I was just telling my friends that I also want to do a big chop just for a fresh start 🥺Ill take this as a sign , I’m definitely proud of you wishing you all the best in your new chapter 🤍
It is indeed your time to shine bestie, you are an amazing person, you have an amazing personality and overall you beautiful. Thank you thank you so much for your content, you inspires inspires me❤️❤️❤️🫂
I'm not crying...you are 😭 I'm so proud of you sthandwa, this is all so relatable, I'm so emotional right now. Cheers to your new book, thank you for taking us along for the ride. ❤️
you are so beautiful and I love this sooo much for you 🥺! You often to speak so much sense and it gets me! You are growing hey , and I love the fact that you're so honest and lenient to yourself. I'm 13 and you motivate me so much❤️! I've been a part of the coffee bean family and I don't regret it. Love you so much bestie!🥺
That was so beautiful Clarissa! Each and every word that you uttered was meaningful and powerful. For the longest of time, I just wanted to hear something that was so meaningful and relatable like that. Thank you❤💫💯.
I watched this video yesterday and today I finally got the courage to cut my hair off. I had been contemplating cutting it off for a while and this video just seemed like a sign for me to just do it. So, thank you❤️❤️
Here to send you all the love❤ I didn’t know about you before that reality show but I’ve since fallen in love with you and your content. You are doing amazing, your channel is doing amazing and there’s serenity one leaves with from watching your videos. Be proud of yourself, you’re amazing! ❤ And the haircut honey😍 so gorgeous bestie!
I love this video so much, I needed to hear all that you said. I especially love that you're calling it a new book which you will be writing with so much gentleness and patience, love that for you and I will also adopt it❤️ Btw, you look so gorg and you're totally rocking this bald look😍😍
Wow. I'm blown away by the content Clarissa. Stellar 👌🏼 you are indeed beautiful, but your growth... Chiiiiile😍 absolutely on point. I started following you for the hair content (I have a similar hair type) but I stayed for your inner beauty that shone through. You're doing great! Keep it up🤗
I literally cried watching this, I love you so much,hair or no hair,your beauty is out of this world😍...your coffeebean here all the way from Lesotho 🇱🇸
Its the fact that you went to cut your hair with your edges on point!! I remember a long time ago in one of your videos you said you wanted to cut your and said “it’s just hair”. I’m really happy you finally did it❤️
I’ve never watched anything more relatable 😭🥺🥺 I’ve also recently cut my hair and it really was about letting go of the hurt I kept putting myself through and like you said writing my new book in which I define my own terms🥰🥰 Love you so much Bestie🥺❤️❤️
Ooo Chile, love your content, love the look and can't wait to read the new book 💛. You don't know how many people you're inspiring rn !! Stay shinning 🔥
The guy cutting your hair is so sweet, oh bless him lord. 🥺
Congratulations bestie, I love you! 🤍
right? love him sm!! Thank you sm bestie, I love you more 🥺❤️❤️
A true definition of ..”you are not your hair “ ❤❤
100%❤️
"a woman who cuts her hair, is a woman who has really decided to change her life".....life truly is the art of learning, unlearning and relearning. love all you have going for yourself right now my girl. God bless ♥️
amen🥺 thank you sm❤️🫶🏾
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how sweet Johnson is😭😭😭
Forever Coffee Bean❤
"Just because i made a terrible egg this morning, that does not make me a bad cook and we are not defined by our failures" 😭😭😭 im crying coz ive been struggling with letting my failures define me but i am unlearning too and thank you Clarissa for this discussion and letting us take our power back!! Yes you are gorgeous in everyway and very much capable 🥺🥺❤ you are such a blessing and thank God for you Clarissa
Thank you sm bestie. Glad I could help🥺❤️
"Just because I made a terrible egg this morning doesn't mean I'm a bad cook" I really needed to hear this.Thank you Clarissa
U look pretty. I shaved all of my hair a year ago and it's flourishing again. I always tell ppl that it's hair, it will grow back. Don't be scared of change
100%!! thank you so much bestie 🥺❤️
Clarissa and Johnson are responsible for all the gorgeous gorgeous huns being baldilocks this summer 🥺🥺❤
yaaaas ❤️🫶🏾
I’ve been contemplating cutting my hair and this for me is really the sign🥺❤️
🥺❤️ so liberating
Not me looking for scissors 😭🥺❤️
Watching this video really made me so emotional, I can't wait to actually tell myself that "I'm proud of myself". God knows it's been so hard for me to actually say this to myself.
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aww sending love and light bestie 🥺❤️ keep embracing the process
@@coffeenomilk Thank you sis ❤️
Why does this make me cry 😭. Thank you for writing this. It truly reminded myself that I too have come far and I should at least clap for all that I’ve become this far 🥺❤️.
I don’t know why, but this is so emotional🤭🥺and the background music doesn’t make it easier
I get that 🤣 thank you bestie 🥺❤️
“Healing is not linear” 🙌🏾 So proud of you girl! ❤
I saw you in public about a month ago and was so starstruck. I could tell you were not in a good space so I didn’t approach you that day, I’m so glad I can hear the story about how your life has been lately. May you continue on your healing journey and continuing to inspire us
“We are not defined by our failures…..”
This hit close to home……this was very therapeutic and a wake up call to charge of my story
Why am I tearing up as he's cutting it 🥺
girl that was me. I was just like if I cry I can never come back here so let me not 😭
I was heart broken .....but I'm so proud of you for doing this
thank you sm🥰
" You are not your mistakes " 😭❤
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You need to have a podcast because your word truly is powerful.
the most prettiest girl i've eveeeeer....no one gets to put a label on you. you are the only one to put a label on yourself...be you and do you girll..love from Botswana🥺
thank you soo much bestie 🥺 amen & amen🥺❤️
So happy you’re in this space. You look beautiful and seeing and hearing how light you are at this point is refreshing. All the best!
thank youuuu omg I love this comment sm. this means a lot thank you bestie ❤️❤️🥺
I’m amazed by how beautiful you look with or without hair, I’m emotional and wish you all the best on your new chapter 🥹❤️
I’m hearing you 100%. 2022 is for CHANGE. We are tired of our hair being our brand ❤ I’m proud of you my baby 🥰
100%!! thank you sm bestie 🥺❤️
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You are not alone and you are love. Im so proud of you for reclaiming your power. It's giving big QUEEN energy ❤✨
She’s so beautiful 😭😭
I know the feeling of wanting to be your old self again, and I’m grateful for this video because I’m moving on from that now and just focus on the new book of my life ❤️
This is the best video I’ve watched in such a long time. Super duper proud of you and I’m excited for this new book 🥺❤️❤️
I’m in tears 😣 a lot you said touched me. Super proud of you ❤
Girl I'm sorry for what you went through,
I love you, I love your content, I just love your whole energy, it's refreshing🥺
You look so beautiful. Just in perfect time for your new year. You're really encouraging me to go for my big chop! I've been thinking about it for a while now. Love the new beginning for you sis! 💕💕
Preach it girl. I'm so proud of you babies ♥️
Thank you for sharing this with us. Change is so scary, but it's worth it. So so worth it. I'm proud of you, you have grown a lot. Keep going.
I genuinely love and appreciate you and your content so much! You inspire me❤
Thank you for reminding us that nothing external defines who we are. You are beautiful ❤️Your inner light is shining through
Tbh. I spent this year stressing about braiding my hair, doing this and that. Really none of that matters anymore. Never did.
Bless your journey sis 🙏🏾❤️
Sending lots of love to you ❤️Thank you for being so vulnerable with us.
I'm actually crying right now iyohh girl you're amazing ❤❤❤🔥you just put me in a right space
I’m so proud of you Angel ❤️ you’re amaaziinggggg
I think a lot of us needed to hear this! Thank you! And damn you still look gorgeous ❤
I’m literally at the verge of crying, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. If anything this year has really humbled me, I quickly had to learn that all the ideas people had of me and that I myself started to believe isn’t even close to what the Lord has for me. I had to do (still am) a lot of unlearning and leaning more onto my intuition and discovering my personal desires. I had also clung soo tightly to my hair even though I wasn’t enjoying it anymore because everybody around me pretty much worshiped my hair and so I had been dancing around the idea of cutting but never really settling on it. This really is all that I needed! We love and appreciate you this side Clarissa❤️
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I am really proud of you bestie,love your courage and confidence....you always inspire me🙏
Big YES to being the one to define your story!! I absolutely love your new look bestieee!!!!!!!!!!!
thank youuuu bestie 🥺❤️
Why am I sobbing😭😭😭😭! Girl you look beautiful!
thank youuuu 🥺❤️
I'm sooooo proud of you. This got me so emotional in all ways. Best wishes in the new Chapter/Book ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is so inspiring, I was just telling my friends that I also want to do a big chop just for a fresh start 🥺Ill take this as a sign , I’m definitely proud of you wishing you all the best in your new chapter 🤍
Clarissa is such a motivation and inspiration. she gives us a warm and safe space to interact with her. thank you so so much.❤️❤️❤️❤️.
It is indeed your time to shine bestie, you are an amazing person, you have an amazing personality and overall you beautiful. Thank you thank you so much for your content, you inspires inspires me❤️❤️❤️🫂
I'm not crying...you are 😭 I'm so proud of you sthandwa, this is all so relatable, I'm so emotional right now. Cheers to your new book, thank you for taking us along for the ride. ❤️
please I love you so much 😭🥺my biggest inspo, love your work & your comforting words❤
Definitely proud of you… just here to remind you that you did the right choice and you’re sooo beautiful 😍 🎉
Not me watching this video twice so i can make notes and comment repeatedly coz it is soo relatable, thank you sooo much for this Clarissa 🥺🥺❤
ugh I appreciate you!! thank you 🥺❤️
I just love how you confident hun keep it up girl we love you big time
Oh love seeing this. I did this 4 years back it reinvented my relationship with my hair in the most positive way.
thank you 🥺❤️
Girl you inspire me, keep shining✨
I am definitely gonna come back to view this video a couple more times🥺❤. Thank you for being authentic and sharing your story. God bless you sis.
girl ,i am rooting for you , i'm so glad I came across your channel. I am a proud coffee bean and I am so proud of you , all the best mama
"A new chapter? Nah. A new book"
love that line.💕 love this for you sis
your smile has been accentuated! So pretty
you are so beautiful and I love this sooo much for you 🥺! You often to speak so much sense and it gets me! You are growing hey , and I love the fact that you're so honest and lenient to yourself. I'm 13 and you motivate me so much❤️! I've been a part of the coffee bean family and I don't regret it. Love you so much bestie!🥺
This is so beautiful to see you grow man especially being an OG coffeebean, seeing you transition into the woman you are becoming ma'am!!🥺🥺
this is so beautiful ❤
your head is PERFECTLY ROUND this is the cutest! good for you!
U are absolutely stunning,inside and out. Thank u for the message i really needed this.
That was so beautiful Clarissa! Each and every word that you uttered was meaningful and powerful. For the longest of time, I just wanted to hear something that was so meaningful and relatable like that. Thank you❤💫💯.
Loved this video so much,🥺 and congratulations on your new book🥺❤️
It's how much I can actually relate. I'm so proud of you sis❤
This is amazing ❤
thank you bestie 🥺❤️
May you be blessed with greatness on your journey baby girl❤❤❤❤
Your hair looked so beautiful 🥺😍😍
omg-this literally made me feel better...like i'm down so bad and ngl this legit made me feel better and im happy for you girl...sending love
I’m so glad it did bestie. love you lots 🥺❤️
Your failure doesn’t define your potential 🥺🥺 this is literally the best thing I have heard today ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️
I watched this video yesterday and today I finally got the courage to cut my hair off. I had been contemplating cutting it off for a while and this video just seemed like a sign for me to just do it. So, thank you❤️❤️
Oh girl, I'm proud of you gorgeous!
I needed to hear this🥺shed a tear or two❤️bless you ❤️
I smiled watching this whole video 🥹 congrats on your new journey love ❤ God bless you!!!
I love this for you 😍❤️ and you look absolutely amazing chile!!!!
I needed this fr🥺
Here for the big QUEEN energy and the wins we are yet to witness honey❤️❤️
Such a wholesome video. Proud of you bestie. You beautiful.❤️🥺
This was soo beautiful to watch , and you look absolutely beautiful 💗
Girllllll.... You take alot of big girl steps sis.
I'm so proud of you. Period!
a queen! 🥺🥺🤎
Am so proud of you bestie, you look pretyyyyyy❤️❤️❤️. Love you so much ♡♡
YOU LOOK AMAZING GIRL!!!!
Here to send you all the love❤ I didn’t know about you before that reality show but I’ve since fallen in love with you and your content. You are doing amazing, your channel is doing amazing and there’s serenity one leaves with from watching your videos. Be proud of yourself, you’re amazing! ❤
And the haircut honey😍 so gorgeous bestie!
I love this video so much, I needed to hear all that you said. I especially love that you're calling it a new book which you will be writing with so much gentleness and patience, love that for you and I will also adopt it❤️
Btw, you look so gorg and you're totally rocking this bald look😍😍
Teresa !!!! I love wat u serve like u are so real an it's inspiring seeing someone being themselve on utube u deserve more than 100k subscribers ❤️
Wow. I'm blown away by the content Clarissa. Stellar 👌🏼 you are indeed beautiful, but your growth... Chiiiiile😍 absolutely on point.
I started following you for the hair content (I have a similar hair type) but I stayed for your inner beauty that shone through. You're doing great! Keep it up🤗
I literally cried watching this, I love you so much,hair or no hair,your beauty is out of this world😍...your coffeebean here all the way from Lesotho 🇱🇸
Really love the new look ❤️
You are absolutely stunning!
Its the fact that you went to cut your hair with your edges on point!! I remember a long time ago in one of your videos you said you wanted to cut your and said “it’s just hair”. I’m really happy you finally did it❤️
love this, you look so beautiful bestie!
You are so calm, I cried.
no man, i just love you ! 😍😍😍
OMG! Was I not teary through out the entire video 🥹 you look so beautiful bestie ❤
I cut my hair first week of October... And I've been seeing people with short hair ever since it's definitely the Era...
yes🥺❤️
I am so proud of you, and this was incredibly heartwarming to watch ❤ You are doing great!!!!
thank you so much 🥺❤️
I’ve never watched anything more relatable 😭🥺🥺 I’ve also recently cut my hair and it really was about letting go of the hurt I kept putting myself through and like you said writing my new book in which I define my own terms🥰🥰 Love you so much Bestie🥺❤️❤️
This is such a SPIRITUAL SETTINGS! I'm happy for you ❤️
Ooo Chile, love your content, love the look and can't wait to read the new book 💛. You don't know how many people you're inspiring rn !! Stay shinning 🔥
thank you so much!! I appreciate this🥺❤️
I love how you chose to take back all the power and kept your head up☺️❤️super proud of you coffee bean🤎
thank you sm bestie 🥺❤️