7 Fashion Mistakes That Make You Look 10 Years Older
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- These are the fashion mistakes that are aging you, and here's how to fix them!
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I just realized that at my age, it's impossible for me to look ten years older than I already am! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You do not want to look younger, you want to look STYLISH
Well, here's the thing: I AM old, and nothing is going to change that.
But you don’t have to look frumpy and blah!
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Chi, you're brilliant. It's not just your solutions and ideas but your clear explanations.
I’m 67 and 5’1 and a size10 and curvy. I sew a lot of my clothes because I have a hard time finding anything that doesn’t look frumpy or like an old lady. I haven’t tucked a shirt in pants or pleated pants since I was in my 30’s. But I hate long tunics that you see a lot of. Makes my legs look even shorter. I like crop tops but I don’t want something that will show my belly. I also find the knit tops that are twisted in the front too with a maxi skirt.
I am your age , I am your twin. I just hate everything I wear. I am just too picky! What do I wear? I'm working on it!
@@ronniemontoya2152 I find slightly fitted blouses that are right above my hips….something with darts work well for me. I like flare leg pants…not low rise and hate the wide leg they show that come up above my ankle. Looks like high waters! Definitely no skinny jeans! I like slightly fitted blazers too and love jean jackets!
Thank you Chi for another well done video. Your side by side comparisons are so appreciated. No one else does it like you 💕
The vivaia shoes are hideous and ageing.
I am 5’0 and at 180lbs I just want to hide 🫣
I was at 120 but due to mayor health issues my weight has change drastically 😭
Now I do not now how to dress my body!!! It’s so difficult 😥 everything looks ugly I am looking like a total mess 🥴
Shopping is the hardest thing To do! NO JOY in shopping 🛍️
I'm there with you. I used to like the way I looked. Proud of it, even. Now I can't stand to look at myself. I get rude comments from total strangers, and that doesn't help.
Ditto! I used to range between 99 and 117. Now I’m 170. So hard to lose weight. Illness sucks! Good luck to you! ❤😊
Me too. 5' and 150. Vacc injured and so hard.... am restarting intermittent fasting. Maybe that will help. ??
Consult a stylist if you can afford it. You're likely far more beautiful than you think. Wearing the right color and the right cut will probably do wonders for you
Same height & weight. I've learned going up a size helps. No shame in my game. If iBooks good, I'm sporting it!
I wish I found you sooner ,, you have helped me so much especially now that I’m a new mom I need to find my style again
I'm living proof that you don't have to put on weight as you age. Menopause middle is real, but it doesn't have to be permanent or ongoing. I've lost the weight I put on over my late 40's and now weigh the same as I did when I was 17. For the first time in my life I'm not minding wearing belts!!
You are so right! I'm 66 and a size 6 and 8. I work hard to keep my weight in proportion to my height: speedwalking 4 MPH for 1.5 hours each day, lifting 8, 9, and 10 pound weights 480 times a day, doing push-ups, eating food that is healthy, a veggie lifestyle, no soft drinks, no fast food, no smoking. It pays off! In three months, I toned my arms so that the batwings are gone, baby, gone! I don't have an aches, pains, diseases, illnesses, ailments, and I don't take any medications. To stay healthy, I've learned that I must WORK HARD to be healthy!
You mentioned cardigans which is great but I don’t like the trendy one that looks like an old Chanel one. Those are so ‘old lady’ 80’s to me. They were trendy on the 80’s hit show Dynasty. To me, those are very aging. I would still like to see more examples of how to wear summer layer items like a cardigan with dresses. Or perhaps a button up shirt? The one I’m considering is in cotton gauze. My style is much more ‘natural’ as I wear only linen dresses in the summer and I like them long, ankle length. Short, cropped cardigans don’t look good with long flowy, linen, ‘ natural or organic style. At least I can’t figure out a style of cropped cardigan that would go. Obviously the one you showed would not. I think longer ones do work with it. I know you probably only have your clothes and style to work with to show us examples but it sure would be nice to see your tips in other ‘styles’ as we don’t all have your style taste or lifestyle. Perhaps you could show examples of your tips in other styles using Pinterest photos as I’ve seen other RUclipsrs do. I’m finding it more challenging to apply a lot your tips because my style is so different than yours and I’d never wear many of the items you suggest or I can’t find them. Hopefully just some constructive feedback.
I am 70 and know that certain items of clothing hate me. Cardigans, trenchcoats and puffer jackets. I tried and failed. Linen shirts (whether worn as jackets or tucked in) like me. Biker jackets (in leather or velvet) love me. Blazers don't mind me
I love the “lady jacket” sweaters, stripes give them a classic edge.
The Chanel-like jackets and cardigans are back in style. If they flatter your shape, ignore the 80s and give them a try. For a more natural look -- are we talking Kibbe? -- try a cotton or linen shirt worn as a cardigan over your dress. I'd add a belt or tie it at the waist for waist definition. Look at what Jennifer Aniston or Melissa McCarthy wear for casual fashion if you're a Kibbe Natural body type like me.
Wear à Chanel style cardigan with denim
I am so tired of casual clothes on everybody for every occasion - it is aging and does nothing to make one look better/more pulled together. I have what I call an uniform. I have multiple pencil skirts I wear with cardigans and kitten heels (really like the shoe line you talked about - VIVAIA). Though simple I get lots of compliments but most of all I feel comfortable and stylish. Lastly I agree with you concerning ankle pants. I wear these for super casual days. We all need to find an "uniform" we like and looks great and then get multiples. Thanks for great tips.
I agree with you %100 👍👍
Pencil skirts comfortable? Nope, nope.
@@missmayflowersame thoughts. This is the first time I see pencil skirts described as comfortable.😅
I mean people do but it’s jeans and a hoodie.
this is just one person's way to feel better than those filthy casuals and justify wearing the same pancil skirts, not counting in that people are different, have different lifestyles, different clothes styles and that some may actually enjoy wearing whatever they're wearing.
better than thou complex
I love when you show the "do" versus the "don't", but I'll admit that the floral pants with the tank top on you made me LOL! Thanks for keeping it real.
Idk I like bold prints and juicy colours. florals, stripes, etc. Maybe I AM old 😂 solids look gorgeous on other people. Probably would look great on me too. But I just like to wear prints.
QUESTION: Why are manufacturers creating so many dresses and styles with the back out...and zero support in the bust area. We are grown women. We deserve BETTER. At least Lululemon (despite their flaws) is creating tops with bras in them, to justify all of the new styles they are introducing. They make sure that you see value in the new items they are bringing out lately. Unlike many dress manufacturers who create all of these beautiful halter and "back out" styles that cost $500, yet you STILL have to invest in a "special" bra, or invest in having them altered, etc. It's TRASH behavior and shows zero concern/respect for womens bodies, financial investments, economical contributions, and support of their products and brands.
I am a customer of your store, I would like to know if you are going to include belts and bags, it would be a great help for us petite girls.
I absolutely do not agree with the negativity around wide leg printed flowy pants. They are,in fact, very stylish if well-made and with a beautiful design. High-end designers are making and selling them for very high prices. They need to fit around the waist and through the top of the hip and flow from there. They are fantastic when dressed-up with a lovely, heeled sandal or wedge and a silky, well-fitted top.
Very few are chic. Most are tacky
@@Kelly-pp1et just discuss that point with the buyers at Bergdorf.
@@rags3901 I don't have any issue with discussing anything with anyone. Expensive doesn't mean chic.
Big print is tricky.
Yeah, they're fun. I love them too, and only care about being comfortable. Especially when walking on the beach/boardwalk.
I think the biggest factor to dressing in a way that "ages" you is to wear the wrong color for your skin and hair. Buy a set of pantone post cards (not the real ones the 100 post cards of random colors) and take 100 selfies with each color by your neck in front of a white background (white sheet works). Look at them and you'll see which colors make you shine. Find celebrities that look similar to you and see what looks good on them. Note also what doesn't work on them! Not all this advice will be good for everyone. Find what is good for you.
years ago they called them pedal pushers, but any way you always look fabulous!
That coral/red dress looks stunning on you 🤩
I'm not petite (I'm 5'6") but I'm learning so much from you that I can apply to my outfits! I love your advice, your humor, and your intelligence. What style! Keep it up, beautiful!
I love all your videos.
I LOVE your videos! I always share them with my petite mother (I am tall but I have a short torso, so I find your tips super helpful for my body type some times, too). We think your videos are not only informative, but super engaging because of your sense of humor and ability to be real.
Good advice but there are ways to make some things work like loose dresses, printed pants, or "outdated" shoes. If you know, you know. One thing that drives me crazy is not using a good moisturizer and that includes feet which goes hand in hand with hydration...it's so important!! Another thing is hair as in color, but more so does it compliment your actual skin tone. If you color your hair and can't do it yourself without it looking like box dye job, please have it done professionally or just go au natural gray and all BUT have a very flattering cut and length does not have to be short!!
I find with a rectangular figure that semi fitted or fitted looks best on me and gives me the illusion of curves.
The biggest thing about clothes is to get them to tailor or seamstress to have them altered to fit correctly. I cannot think of anything more important than that!
I don't agree with you on capris. They should be at the right length and shortened if needed. The cuff type capri is just ugly no matter what.
Shoes are difficult at best for me. I have narrow feet and it's harder and harder to find sized narrow shoes. I spent a huge fortune fixing foot deformities caused by years of ill fitting shoes. I try to go with classic styles. I only do block heels.
I like to mix and match period and vintage clothes with contemporary. It makes getting dressed a lot more fun. I do avoid all ppen cardigans and blazers like the plague. They just scream fast fashion cheap! I do own a few sweater blazers and love them.
My problem with Vivaia is that all their shoes are plastic. Plastic is incredibly bad for your feet - especially in summer - as the skin can't breathe and your feet get hot, sweaty and swollen as a result. If they used leather I'd buy them like a shot - I actually like several of their styles - but I refuse to cripple myself by wearing plastic, whether it's recycled or otherwise. (plus they are very expensive for plastic shoes.)
I believe what you say about capris is true. However, I am in my late 40's and do not feel comfortable in shorts. I will be working at a camp this summer. I tend to wear lightweight capris with the camp shirt. I don't need any dressy clothes. Sometimes finding affordable (under $50) capris are hard to find and I end up going to Kohl's and recently Marshall's.
I'm a bit concerned over the capris for a camp because of chiggers and ticks. I need to wear long pants and socks outside in the summer, even in my yard! Otherwise my ankles get covered in chigger bites and deer come right into our yards here, so ticks are always an issue.
I need find someone to sew for me. I think its the only way to look and feel my best. My body shape is best described as inverted triangle meets potato. Its very difficult to find clothing that fits and looks good thats also in my style, my most flattering colours, and not disposable quality. I recently got a blouse that i get lots of compliments on. Unfortunately its not available in any other colours, so i may try to make a pattern from it and create another of my own or pay to have it done. Honestly, out of my entire wardrobe, i only LOVE three pieces.
What is a good casual bottom option for the summer heat? I want to avoid capris but still want to be modest.
Great advice! Showing our common mistakes really helps. Have definitely learnt from that video....Will tune into more. Your presentation is excellent.
If you’re clean and well mannered that goes a long way
And what’s wrong with looking our age?
@@darknessfierce4209 looking your age is okay, but you don’t need to look as though your age attacked and threw you under a bus! You can look your age but present a polished, put-together appearance just as , hopefully, you did when younger.
I make my own cardigans, and they’re fitted at the waist regardless of length. I have crop ones, blazer styled ones and “duster” trench coat length that look amazing in the fall with boots. I don’t think casual clothing is the issue; it’s not having them fitted to your body. Tailoring really doesn’t cost that much and it makes even good quality ready to wear look bespoke. Everyone looks old in baggy, shapeless clothes that look like they were borrowed from a larger person. I have a super high arch so I stick to high end clogs and Birkenstocks, because I only have one pair of feet (I can buy clothes second hand).
Ahh I can't give up my cardigans. Lol! But will invest in some nice ones too that are more flattering. Guilty of the palazzo prints pants. :D
Struggling with elastic waist pants but you’ve really helped me with proportion. And I hate capri pants! 😅
Omg, your knowledge is effortless ❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks for this video. LOVED the shoes you had on with the coral colored dress (3:53). Who makes the shoe? So cute, stylish, and still looks comfortable. Wish I would wear Vivaia shoes, but they’re too wide on my foot. 😢
i am allergic to cardigans. i just... can't stand them. if you can pull of good cardigan look, i applaud you
7:34 - blue velvet chair 🥰 link please 🙏 thank you
I’m 5’ 4” 3/4 so miss the Pettite sizing. Love your tips. Thank you.
Not necessarily. It depends on your proportions. You might be regular on top and a petite on the bottom, or vice versa. Or you could be a petite size in one brand but a regular in another. For example, I'm 5'2 1/2". I need a regular on top, but I usually prefer a petite size on the bottom. It's complicated with pants, though, because I'm long between my waist and hips, so petite size pants are often too short in the rise.
@@edennis8578 Thanks. Will have to check it out.
Thanks so much for this, Chi! Oh and Vivaia are really amazing, great partnership!❤
That’s why I hate pleated pants, ahhhhh
Another home run video from Chi!!! I love Vivaia shoes, they are the only pointed toe ballet flat that I can wear. I'm happy they sponsored you. 💕
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I feel like a belt over a dress is outdated, just get a dress that already has a slimmer waist built in
The beige thing is not a cardigan. A cardigan is short/cropped
It is not because something is high end and expensive that it is elegant !
Those Vivaia shoes look practically geriatric!
You have great advice. Thank you
What is craft lens
Early! ❤
The straight cut pleated pants is spot on. I had one pair from mango and i didn't like how it looked on me but i could quite understand why. It's the low crotch!
A tent dress (not showing the waist) can be very flattering provided it does not look like a potato bag but has real volume/a triangular shape
You help me with the blazer a lot...I was going to buying the longer one. I tried it was nice but something was odd.
I will look out for shorter
ones now. Love your videos. 5.3 here❤
It depends how you look on them, some ladies wearing them very classy and elegant. You wear anything that you are comfortable with and carry them with respect and confidence. 😊
I just bought 3 of the 4 sponsored shoes . The Yaffa pro , Pamela , and Leah pro . First of all they are very beautiful, they look like woven high quality fabric . They are extremely lightweight .The arch support and cushion on all 3 are incredible. I have searched for a long time to find comfortable and pretty shoes and these fit the bill . The Pamela is so comfortable I am wearing them also a house slippers ! The Pamela will replace my tennis shoes to look dressier and will be the shoe I pack for European and long walking vacations .
As long as you have a young face and slim body.you can carry any dress.
I am a 5’ Asian 😂
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是外国衣服穿在中国人身上太难看了，中国没有这么难看的衣服😂
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Thanks you as Im just over 35 yrs old this year, I really need your tips haha
Have you noticed that people in our age group have abandoned all sense of style and instead opt to dress as if they were 21 again?
@@your1supporter my guess is they think if dressing as 21 yrs old fashion style can make them look younger (especially if some of them who are fit and have young body). In my hometown people call it as *hacking your age*. Sometimes when shopping I see some styles like trendy 2000', I know I wont be able to fit in that style anymore cus the top showing perfect belly curve and stuffs. Im still watching some RUclips channels like this to adjust my style now as im not too old not young any more, kinda in the middle. Its not easy for me, sometimes I wanna feel younger and sometimes I wanna look mature and professional
Honestly your own dress sense is pretty gaudy too esp in dresses
Love the cropped! I’m going to get ride of all my long cardigans
An advertisement inside an advertisement? Please back it off.
I think it’s fine for her to earn money doing this.
Yeah it’s getting ridiculous
Love your channel
Is just necklace ok? I wear necklaces like that as a statement piece on a regular basis. Is it “trying to hard” in your opinion for daily casual wear?
years ago it was like chunky sweater=chunky necklace, but in proportion.
I like the two or three layer tiny chain necklaces. To me it is still a statement but more personal. Or pearls = soft & glowy 😍