So he meets a 15 year old at a church gets her pregnant. Goes to jail for that. Gets out preaches sets his daughter up with his lover and gave her HIV. He’s been a predator for a VERY long time.
I’d never talk to a man or look at a man ever again if I went through what she did. She’s a great role model for counting your blessings rather than focusing on the injustices in life.
Her new husband is a rare gem. The universe saw that she was innocent and found her a good man that would take care of her. May she live a long, healthy and happy life.
I just can't comprehend how demonic and evil. To put his boyfriend over his daughter and deceive his daughter so his gay partner would be around to prevent suspicion of his perverted affair
May the Lord Jesus bless and protect this family. Hope she knows that God is a good Father, not like the earthly one that she had. John 14:6 That 'dad' was a demon disguise. As the Bible tells us, satan himself masquerades as an angel of light deceiving many.
He made his own daughter a cover up for the relationship he probably had with her bf before he himself introduced him to her! Omg my mind can’t believe the whole thing!
The pregnant mother takes a medication throughout her pregnancy so she won’t pass it along to her baby. Also, a lot of times a C-section is performed for these pregnancies. Modern medicine has come a long way praise God
@@labrenafriend-dd5rx Thanks for the explanation. Praise God. The other baffling thing is how does she and her husband have marital relations without her passing it to him?
@@lareinelester685HIV medications very advanced now. You can take medication to be in undetectable status and be able to not pass it along. As well as you can take medication to protect your self from it as well.
@@lareinelester685 it’s in the start of the video. she takes medication everyday that enables her viral load to be "undetectable", preventing transmission of the disease
And her dad was a preacher, sleeping with her ex husband that he had introduced her to? AND the ex gave her HIV? Holy shit that is unfathomably traumatic. Bless this couple and their children ❤
And everyone knows it and still act like nothing is wrong. If they don’t repent they will be going straight to hell with him. God does not take mockery lightly!
I REFUSE to let the demonic pastor and his boyfriend steal the spotlight. Her HUSBAND truly loves her! She has a beautiful family! The devil wanted to destroy her but God had other plans🙌🏽❤
@@Geminicricketi I bet you’re terrible at gambling then. Why would you or anyone GAF at all whom a complete stranger commits too? She has a husband WITH HIV. Do you have…anyone? 😂
@@Geminicricketi I bet you’re terrible at gambling then. Why would anyone in a situation like this care who a complete stranger chooses to commit too, gender aside? She is lucky enough to have someone willing to commit to her WITH HIV. I’ve seen several stories with men who have found love as well in the same situation. What about you? Do you have..anyone? 😂
I just ran past this video. I commend her for telling her story to the world. She's strong, willing and able. Being HIV positive is not the end of the world. It's a new chapter in her life. I'm glad she told him, that was his opportunity to stay out go. He stayed because he truly loves her and she loves him. I pray that yall nuptials last a life time. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@kenessatalley-adams7330 agreed. I don't think you meant to leave this underneath my comment. She'll be more likely to see it if you repost it as a comment vs a reply.
Her natural looks didn’t stop her, her weight gain didn’t stop her, her hiv status didn’t stop her, her single motherhood didn’t stop her…..this woman may actually be a winner
@@essji2024this comment makes no sense at all cause she literally was 15 and was placed into a marriage by her father who was lying. Her dad literally did that it’s in the title of the video how can you be that dumb to make a comment like that. Watch the video
@@essji2024 WTF! she’s a WIFE! All of her children were conceived while married. Also there’s nothing wrong with not being married and having children.
Boyyy... you ain't 🤥... this is the most bizarre evil shit I've ever heard of someone doing...smh. I'm glad she found love...heck, she's doing better than me...I'm hiv negative and can't find so much as a fly to befriend me 😂😂😂. Jk (abt the fly, lol)
@@cre8v_power I know right... Truly evil and sick... I'm HIV negative myself and can't find nobody so I'm right there with you...I ROFL about the fly part 😂😂
My mom was diagnosed with it and passed 4 years later. She was one of the testers for the AZ medicine back in the day that helped develop the medicine this lady is using to live her life everyday. My mom was only 36. Live boo!! Do you. There are millions that didn’t get to live to see an old age you have that opportunity.
I'm sure he is HIV positive too. He wasn't when he met his daughter's mother but if the daughter's ex husband gave it to her then he gave It to her father as well.
OMG!! So her dad (WHO'S SUPPOSED TO BE MAN OF GOD) brought his boyfriend home for his daughter to marry?! What kind of father is that? My goodness she's such a strong and courageous lady. Ppl are awful to be judging her. Many, many, blessings to her!
whoever told her that she doesn't deserve her husband is just jealous. I'm so proud of their resilience and willingness to be vulnerable to be an encouragement to others! How amazing!
Nah. He's a human being who did a horrible thing. Y'all keep blaming the devil and y'all will keep getting surprised by the degrees of depravity human beings possess.
Yeah, that one hurt me! She is BLESSED to have someone still want her despite her unfortunately contracting this, but it's a slap in her current dude's face to say this in front of him like that. It clearly affected him if you see his face shortly after.
I think the perception that people catch HIV because they sleep around is crazy. Alot of times people get it from people they trust and are monogamous with.
@Cherrybulbasaur don't forget about these downlow dudes who say they r straight like her ex husband and father but sleep with men on the low and hide it from the women they deal with have kids with or even married to (that happens alot) ans sleeping with them unprotected
Her current husband truly is a good person. He saw past the diagnosis and saw her for who she is. Her father and ex will pay for thier evil deeds one day. Thanks for sharing
@@cjdiva6440I remember reading a story in either an Essence or Ebony magazine where a woman had hiv and she disclosed her diagnosis to a man she met and he accepted her and they got married and I believe that they had a child or two.
The pimping pastor used his own child as a beard for his lover that he likely groomed. Now people want to punish the victim? Love is a choice and if her current husband chose to pursue a relationship knowing her status and all she’s been through that’s his choice. He made an informed decision and whether it’s the one you’d make or not really doesn’t matter. Best wishes to them.
@@TheLovesnowangel not sure if you watched the whole video, but she talked in depth about the mean comments that she receives from strangers and relatives.
People are so uninformed about HIV. Happy she is showing the world how if someone is undetectable, you can be with someone and have children without passing it.
People aren’t uninformed about HIV. They are right it can kill you if left untreated . People need to educate themselves about how great the medication has gotten over time. Compliance with medication is what is keeping this woman alive and from not spreading it .
I remember when I had a newborn many years ago and my positive friend came to see him and just looked at him in the crib and I said," you don't want to hold him?" and she told me that by the way her family treated her she just became programmed not to touch anyones kids. I was appalled! I said we all just wash our hands and that's it! Unless you and the baby are planning on exchanging bodily fluids, I think we're safe. She laughed so hard at that! I'm glad I made her laugh but the ignorance about the disease was still so prevalent in 2002. It was ridiculous. I told her when he gets older you can kiss his little cheeks too just like we do.
How could your father trap you into marrying his lover that's so wrong in many ways plus you are amazing and courageous young lady and your Husband is a brilliant guy unlike your Ex 💜🙏💜
This is happening so often. Many women in monogamous relationships are getting HIV/AIDS from men living double lives. I consider this intimate partner violence as well. I'm glad she stays on top of it all, and I'm glad they are getting counseling.
Exactly. This is why syphilis was almost eradicated in the US, but these men doing this type of behaving. The congenital version of the disease has exploded. And there are some men who will get treatment and not tell their pregnant wife
@@jasminesmith7414i’m pretty sure she wasn’t his only option 💀 idk why y’all keep trying to make it seem like she’s the only one he could go for so he settled.. embarrassing
It’s not about “being a man” because he would still be a man if he didn’t want to step in to be with a woman with two kids, but I’m proud of him for taking the time to adequately educate himself before addressing the situation and if he wanted to move forward.
I think the world definitely needs to updated/re-educated/educated on HIV. In the 80’s and 90’s they scared us soooooo bad and have NOT made any effort to help inform the world about all the advances and the “new” information that is out there. There are a lot of myths, misinformation and fear that needs to addressed and put to rest! For those of us who do not or do not knowingly deal with anyone with HIV it is not on our minds to learn or educated ourselves so thank you for the video.
Her husband is truly an amazing man 😢. He willingly chose to love, embrace, and marry his wife, knowing that she had HIV of no fault of her own. I'm glad she was able to find a man who genuinely loved her, and not just pretended to do so 💕☺️.
People are so ignorant sometimes. This poor woman went through a horrible betrayal! I’m so glad she was able to find love and live a regularly normal life.
As a retired medical provider, I admire your honesty AND your fantastic understanding of your disease process and treatment! You are a wonderful example of resilience. Your father and your ex are both despicable (IMHO) and God will judge their false witness. Bless you, your family, including mom and husband!
May the most high continue to bless their union and their family.. so sorry for the trauma your father and ex husband caused. This is a prime example of unconditional love
The strength of her mother is out of this world...no way would I have been able to stomach knowing this was done to my child and not retaliated. My Lord
This video is more than just life after HIV. You are a strong beautiful human being with a lovely family. Don't let the haters bring you down. They are just jealous they don't have the strength, happiness and support you have in your life.
I thought a dad was supposed to love and protect his daughter, not hand her over to a wolf. Shame on you dad you deserve to spend the rest of your life in prison without parole. I'm so happy for this couple their family look so good together ❤️
The little girl saying she feels like kids shouldn't know that kind of stuff is really saying good Lord please stop talking about it with an in front of me and let me make my life be about anything else.
@@Freedomrings4433 I remember being this little girl just wishing my parents would shut the hell up and quit pretending I was invisible and didn't hear and understand exactly what they were talking about. Or my mom with her friends.
That's why in my House, kids were told to leave the room Grown folks conversation. I guess the little girl can't comprehend that an feels embarrassed hearing it, an the kids talking about it in school too probably.
@@ShanteBarze1950 yep either that or talk when they are asleep and you know they are asleep. If you tell them to leave the room and then tell them why you know they're going to try and listen LOL
I think you are inferring a bit too much on what the little girl meant. Expressing that kids shouldn’t know about certain things doesn’t mean that the conversation is unnecessary. Instead of you being annoyed at the parents for talking about it, be annoyed at the former spouse who made the HIV conversation necessary.
More dirty are those people who are judging her. It’s not her fault she got HIV, this can happen to anyone. I wish her all the happiness in her life with her husband and children, and hopefully there will be one day a cure for HIV. She’s a very strong woman for sharing her story, may God bless her.
Why has she still got pictures of herself and the ex. Thats a bit weird imo! Major red flag was when she made her new husband get a tattoo, but didnt herself!
I’ve never been so happy for someone to find love as this. She deserves all the happiness in the world. Anyone who think differently is just a miserable evil spirit.
How are you going to “ let him be with someone HIV negative”? She can’t let him do anything. He’s with her because he wants to and he loves her. People sound ridiculous
that is SO sick what her dad and ex did to her. Absolutely disgusting. I'm so happy that she has a wonderful family who loves her, she seems like a wonderful woman and deserves all the love
It was very weird , but her husband is probably more secure than me but i dont want my wife saying an old photo is one of her favorites . But more respect to her and him . I wish them nothing but happiness.
I’m thinking she was reminiscing on how at that time in her life she felt happy being with him not knowing he would turn out to be the betrayal monster he was I can understand that she was at a good place with him and herself when that picture was taken ✌🏽❤
Blessings to you and your family my mother died of HIV my sister and grandmother I appreciate you sharing your story and she seems to be a wonderful young lady mom and wife 🙏✨🌟🪄💖🥰
It's like living with diabetes and hypertension, both can kill you if you don't take your medicine. Hiv is a chronic illness nowadays. There are worst things than hiv.
She is so brave to share her story. And be honest with her partners about her status there’s someone in my family that’s HIV positive and she doesn’t tell any of her partners her status so I think people should stop being so judgmental that she sharing it always could be worse her passing thisvirus and not telling anyone. I’m happy for her and her family.❤
She needs to be careful with not disclosing her status to “innocent” people who she’s involved with. That’s how people get hurt. That’s actually selfish and tacky for her not to disclose that information.
God Bless you and your beautiful family! My father and late stepmom ended up pregnant with my little sister. My stepmom found out she had AIDS when my sister was 3. My dad then found out he was HIV positive who he contacted it from my stepmom who didn’t know. My sister was then tested and by grace of God was HIV negative. My stepmom was in latent stages of having aids and developed cancer and passed away 2 years after being diagnosed. My father is still alive after being diagnosed 32 years ago. He takes medication and has a healthy diet. No alcohol. He went on to meet my current stepmom who does not have HIV and they are happily married and been together for 29 years.
I'm sorry that you were betrayed in such a horrible way. I am happy for you that you have been given the chance to feel real love. I applaud you for your openness and honesty. You seem like a genuine person who deserves all the love in the world. Y'all have a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing this sensitive subject. God bless you all. (fyi, my family member passed away from HIV related complications, because he was in denial)
I am not HIV positive but it looks like you're doing better than me because you have a husband and kids that love you unconditionally😂❤😮😜🥰 love you and keep your head up baby God has something planned for you
Too many people looking for happiness. Happiness is conditional, it's temporary and circumstantial. Nobody searching for joy. True joy comes from the Lord. Believers know. Those that don't believe will jump down my throat.
Can I be friends with them please? All 3 of them seem like such wonderful people! It’s infuriating what her “dad” (in quotations because he doesn’t reflect how a real dad would treat their daughter) & ex-husband did to her, & I applaud the grace with which she dealt with this situation.
Don't worry about negative people. I have epilepsy and there have been people to turn away because of it. Don't worry about dumb people. Live your life ❤
I'm glad medicine has come so far with HIV and AIDS
Absolutely
Yes Lord ❤
Yeah but it won't kill HIV. Herbs kills it.
Amen
Amen
So he meets a 15 year old at a church gets her pregnant. Goes to jail for that. Gets out preaches sets his daughter up with his lover and gave her HIV. He’s been a predator for a VERY long time.
Totally
A very long time demonic spirits
Makes me think of the song Some Preachers by Bishop Bullwinkle
That is sooooooo true. He should be investigated.
Damn.....all of that in one Sentence. This is TOO MUCH!
Getting married again after what she went through is the definition of resilient
No for real! Resilient, beautiful just wooo! This girl is a testimony! GOD is beyond wonderful!
I’d never talk to a man or look at a man ever again if I went through what she did. She’s a great role model for counting your blessings rather than focusing on the injustices in life.
Her new husband is a rare gem. The universe saw that she was innocent and found her a good man that would take care of her. May she live a long, healthy and happy life.
That's nothing but God
She truly deserved him 🥹💕
That was God for sure
Yeah bc that shit wasn't fair or right to her.. so she deserved another chance and God ordained it . He gave her another chance.
I see her running over him. Already made him get a tat yet she don't have one
Where’s her dad? Me and my folding chair just wanna talk 😊.
🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑😂😂😂😂
Im dead 😂😂😂😂
😂 I hear ya!
@@jovalove 😂😂😂
@@1213PrescottWayEats 😂😂😂
Here in Arkansas it's a crime punishable by life in prison to infect someone with HIV. Both the ex and her dad need to be locked up for life.
It is in a lot of places. They would just have to show he knew about it when he slept with her.
They are trying to take this law away
Roll that out, worldwide!
They gave it to her?
@@applefarm6126 She contracted HIV from her ex husband who was also sleeping with her father.
Ironic how the pastor does the most demonic activities
So freaking true... Smh and preach about it
It's the reason I'm a proud Atheist today. I've seen enough garbage in a TON of churches, in order to make my decision.
😮💨 stg
I'm pissed 😡 and mad
It really is a shame.
Her Dad is evil. There’s just no other word for it.
I just can't comprehend how demonic and evil. To put his boyfriend over his daughter and deceive his daughter so his gay partner would be around to prevent suspicion of his perverted affair
To think he was running a church and leading folks from his nasty flesh
@@censored817 Yeah, this is one of the most wicked scenarios. Makes my stomach churn.
May the Lord Jesus bless and protect this family. Hope she knows that God is a good Father, not like the earthly one that she had. John 14:6
That 'dad' was a demon disguise. As the Bible tells us, satan himself masquerades as an angel of light deceiving many.
He made his own daughter a cover up for the relationship he probably had with her bf before he himself introduced him to her! Omg my mind can’t believe the whole thing!
I didn't know people with HIV can conceive children who are negative. That's a blessing.
The pregnant mother takes a medication throughout her pregnancy so she won’t pass it along to her baby. Also, a lot of times a C-section is performed for these pregnancies. Modern medicine has come a long way praise God
@@labrenafriend-dd5rx Thanks for the explanation. Praise God. The other baffling thing is how does she and her husband have marital relations without her passing it to him?
@@lareinelester685modern day medication make it so that she isn’t able to pass it on, so long as she takes it everyday
@@lareinelester685HIV medications very advanced now. You can take medication to be in undetectable status and be able to not pass it along. As well as you can take medication to protect your self from it as well.
@@lareinelester685 it’s in the start of the video. she takes medication everyday that enables her viral load to be "undetectable", preventing transmission of the disease
Nah, don’t blur his face. Let’s see him
Right??? Thats not fair, what if he was doing this to someone reading this??
@@Glytched356I think because he served his time (punishment)..and him still being in the picture she’s respecting he doesn’t want to be shown🤷♀️
@@JessRareShe said that she doesn't talk to her dad but maybe you are talking about the ex husband. He is her baby's father.
FACTS!
“Let’s see him” 🤣🤣
And her dad was a preacher, sleeping with her ex husband that he had introduced her to? AND the ex gave her HIV? Holy shit that is unfathomably traumatic. Bless this couple and their children ❤
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Dad needs to get Jump on 😢😢
@@Tiffany-un3hwhe still a preacher
And everyone knows it and still act like nothing is wrong. If they don’t repent they will be going straight to hell with him. God does not take mockery lightly!
😂😂😂😂@rosetoy187
“I did lock him up.” PERIODT. You go girl!! You should have, and you did!!
Yes this the comment He needs to go.
Her dad was a narcissistic predator. He preyed on her mom, and he also preyed on her so he can keep his Lover close by.
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Exactly
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Exactly 😡😡😡
@@Elcappgguod064 eww you are one sick weirdo 🤮
I REFUSE to let the demonic pastor and his boyfriend steal the spotlight. Her HUSBAND truly loves her! She has a beautiful family! The devil wanted to destroy her but God had other plans🙌🏽❤
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾‼️ Praise GOD ‼️🙏🏾
Amen Amen All Praise Honor and Glory to God nothing is impossible with our Loving Father🙏🏽❤️🙌🏾😌
Amen to that comment the devil comes to kill steal and destroy
@@elove2.038❤❤❤
@@tinadavis2083Amen!!!!❤❤
Her husband is a gem. And shoutout to her for keeping it 100 and telling him
BEFORE they slept together.
I bet if she was a guy., Everyone would be saying she deserves better
@@Geminicricketi I bet you’re terrible at gambling then. Why would you or anyone GAF at all whom a complete stranger commits too? She has a husband WITH HIV. Do you have…anyone? 😂
@@Geminicricketi I bet you’re terrible at gambling then. Why would anyone in a situation like this care who a complete stranger chooses to commit too, gender aside? She is lucky enough to have someone willing to commit to her WITH HIV. I’ve seen several stories with men who have found love as well in the same situation. What about you? Do you have..anyone? 😂
The shame lies with her father and his boyfriend. They set her up for this. So sad. I'm glad she has a loving man in her life now.
Yea he seems to really love and care for her shame on her daddy and x boyfriend may they burn in hell and he was a preacher smh o
@@daniellereid7576It's always the preacher
@@PennyMsElitethose aren’t real men of God just sheep in wolf clothing
I just ran past this video. I commend her for telling her story to the world. She's strong, willing and able. Being HIV positive is not the end of the world. It's a new chapter in her life. I'm glad she told him, that was his opportunity to stay out go. He stayed because he truly loves her and she loves him. I pray that yall nuptials last a life time. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@kenessatalley-adams7330 agreed. I don't think you meant to leave this underneath my comment. She'll be more likely to see it if you repost it as a comment vs a reply.
This woman hasn't done anything wrong. She is a lovely lady and it's wonderful to see that she found her happiness. She definitely deserves it.
Thank you ❤
@@IAmBrendaJ You're welcome. 😊
100
She gets so many people hope❤🙏🏽
I concur 🤷🏽♀️
Her natural looks didn’t stop her, her weight gain didn’t stop her, her hiv status didn’t stop her, her single motherhood didn’t stop her…..this woman may actually be a winner
Not a winner whn ur a baby mama who didn’t learn to close her legs
@@essji2024this comment makes no sense at all cause she literally was 15 and was placed into a marriage by her father who was lying. Her dad literally did that it’s in the title of the video how can you be that dumb to make a comment like that. Watch the video
@@essji2024it’s giving bitter
@@essji2024where’s your man?😂
@@essji2024 WTF! she’s a WIFE! All of her children were conceived while married. Also there’s nothing wrong with not being married and having children.
I don’t think I’ve ever clicked on a video so fast 😨
Same 😂😂😂
Girl cause same…. Cause Tf going on here 😂
@@talacalloway5839 on gawd 🤣
Almost broke my fingers tryna click on this 😭😭😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That's a level of betrayal that I don't think anyone could ever get over.
They make a beautiful couple and I wish them all the best.
Right
Boyyy... you ain't 🤥... this is the most bizarre evil shit I've ever heard of someone doing...smh. I'm glad she found love...heck, she's doing better than me...I'm hiv negative and can't find so much as a fly to befriend me 😂😂😂. Jk (abt the fly, lol)
@@cre8v_power😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@cre8v_power I know right... Truly evil and sick... I'm HIV negative myself and can't find nobody so I'm right there with you...I ROFL about the fly part 😂😂
People are incredibly ignorant....if you really don't know your facts, shit the fuck up.
My mom was diagnosed with it and passed 4 years later. She was one of the testers for the AZ medicine back in the day that helped develop the medicine this lady is using to live her life everyday. My mom was only 36. Live boo!! Do you. There are millions that didn’t get to live to see an old age you have that opportunity.
May your mom rest in peace ❤
@@zintlemgcwaba8939 thank you
I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope it brings you some sort of peace knowing your mom contributed to the extension of other's lives ❤
@@HaloHighlightz it does. It really does.
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Her dad deserves the worst punishment and so does the ex. This is so sad smh
😢😢😢😢he's a horrible human being
I'm sure he is HIV positive too. He wasn't when he met his daughter's mother but if the daughter's ex husband gave it to her then he gave It to her father as well.
He probably groomed the ex too tbh
They both preyed on her and the fact that her dad preyed on her and was jealous of her to give her that is sick
@@mistiqueentourage7182 let's be clear what is a pastor doing hooking any of his friends up with his child that's not normal
OMG!! So her dad (WHO'S SUPPOSED TO BE MAN OF GOD) brought his boyfriend home for his daughter to marry?! What kind of father is that? My goodness she's such a strong and courageous lady. Ppl are awful to be judging her. Many, many, blessings to her!
I set my mom up with a dude I had kissed and I still feel weird about that even though I told her I kissed him before I introduced them
He did it to cover up their relationship so the guy would be around and it wouldn't be strange if he went to meet his father-in-law.
what?????
😢😢
@@azpersonalthat’s is so selfish and twisted. wow
whoever told her that she doesn't deserve her husband is just jealous. I'm so proud of their resilience and willingness to be vulnerable to be an encouragement to others! How amazing!
Her “dad” created problems for all of them. - INCLUDING her mom whom he impregnated at 15 years old. He needs to be under the jail! 😡
My mouth is on the FLOOR. That’s a sickkkkkk sick man
Wow😮....He ought to be ashamed of himself🤬
Yesss, sins of the father. Smh
Damn this world is cruel. Her father is the devil.
Sounds more like god in the Hebrew bible. 😂
Nah. He's a human being who did a horrible thing. Y'all keep blaming the devil and y'all will keep getting surprised by the degrees of depravity human beings possess.
This World is Very Evil so many demons that Monster of a dad is a Demon
Hell yeah he is. Straight from the pit of darkness.
@@wrenbyrd1093 No.
Not her saying this is my favorite photo of us in front of her husband. Wild
Yeah, that one hurt me! She is BLESSED to have someone still want her despite her unfortunately contracting this, but it's a slap in her current dude's face to say this in front of him like that. It clearly affected him if you see his face shortly after.
🙄 you guys can't talk about your ex Infront of your partner? That's sad.
@@user-zk6no3no3g F NO
F NO!@@user-zk6no3no3g
If you actually paid attention you wouldve heard that she said "WAS my favorite photo of us", and not "IS my favorite photo us". Past tense hon
Thank you for sharing my story ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Bless you Brenda 💕 Wishing you and your beautiful family nothing but happiness!
I heard about you through Dr Prophetess Tanesha Rivers. Awesome testimony! My God.
Wishing you and your family all the very best. 🤍🤍🤍
❤❤❤you get it beautiful 😊your so inspiring only blessings and happiness and love shall come your way
What a gorgeous family 💖
Damn..I thought I went through something finding out my baby daddy was gay…she done really went through it
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Wait what 😂 how did you find out
Now you gotta tell your story 👀
Well he’s bi cause he got it up for you didn’t he? 😂
@@AmerieTuckerwaiting sis,and not to be petty but to watch out for this signs! This 2 much!
Her father is just no words that I can describe without being banned on RUclips 😡
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I think the perception that people catch HIV because they sleep around is crazy. Alot of times people get it from people they trust and are monogamous with.
Especially the wives
yup majority of the times they get it from they no good cheating husbands
@Cherrybulbasaur don't forget about these downlow dudes who say they r straight like her ex husband and father but sleep with men on the low and hide it from the women they deal with have kids with or even married to (that happens alot) ans sleeping with them unprotected
Yup
more commonly like that
Her current husband truly is a good person. He saw past the diagnosis and saw her for who she is. Her father and ex will pay for thier evil deeds one day. Thanks for sharing
Idk about the new husband... I agree w/ the mom's initial feelings, it does seem too good to be true... 😕
@@cjdiva6440you don’t know these ppl lmaoo
@@cjdiva6440I remember reading a story in either an Essence or Ebony magazine where a woman had hiv and she disclosed her diagnosis to a man she met and he accepted her and they got married and I believe that they had a child or two.
Damn, this women is the true definition of resilience
The pimping pastor used his own child as a beard for his lover that he likely groomed. Now people want to punish the victim? Love is a choice and if her current husband chose to pursue a relationship knowing her status and all she’s been through that’s his choice. He made an informed decision and whether it’s the one you’d make or not really doesn’t matter. Best wishes to them.
Who is punishing the victim? I see nothing but support for her
@@TheLovesnowangel not sure if you watched the whole video, but she talked in depth about the mean comments that she receives from strangers and relatives.
@@TheLovesnowangelthey are.
People are so uninformed about HIV. Happy she is showing the world how if someone is undetectable, you can be with someone and have children without passing it.
People aren’t uninformed about HIV. They are right it can kill you if left untreated .
People need to educate themselves about how great the medication has gotten over time. Compliance with medication is what is keeping this woman alive and from not spreading it .
But sometimes it turns detectable though. My moms friend was undetectable for a while then all of a sudden his health started declining and he died.
Why risk your life because too scared to be alone. That’s crazy
@@goddesstDamn! Was this person taking his meds like he was supposed to? What make it start becoming detectable and having their health decline?
Very.
Informed not worth the risk
I remember when I had a newborn many years ago and my positive friend came to see him and just looked at him in the crib and I said," you don't want to hold him?" and she told me that by the way her family treated her she just became programmed not to touch anyones kids. I was appalled! I said we all just wash our hands and that's it! Unless you and the baby are planning on exchanging bodily fluids, I think we're safe. She laughed so hard at that! I'm glad I made her laugh but the ignorance about the disease was still so prevalent in 2002. It was ridiculous. I told her when he gets older you can kiss his little cheeks too just like we do.
Let this be a lesson that who God has for you, will be for you.
That part!!
So God gave her hiv for being loyal? That's pretty ffed up bro
Couldn’t agree more 💪🏾
Amen now!!
And yet he's the one that could have protected her as well and didn't do so.
This is an example of a strong black woman! You have a good man sis!
Hang in there my sister. You have a great, terricfic man there. God bless you both and hold your head up sister.❤❤❤
Stop that “strong black woman” narrative…. This is enough. She’s a COURAGEOUS & RESILIENT black woman, period.
I, on the other hand, would not be a strong black woman. I would be inmate number 268-192 serving consecutive life sentences ⛓️
@@thefreequency of course you would you like a dude
How about just a strong woman? How is her colour relevant?
These stories just get crazier by the day
Sometimes I’m shocked to hear what other people go through in life and they’re still going.
Oh me too!!! 👌👆💯❤️
Right that's alot I'm glad she's doing well
I’m more mad at the dad than the ex husband 😤😡
FR, I never heard of such betrayal from a parent.
he literally pimped his own daughter out…so f*cking disgusting. He deserves more than jail time
God protect this beautiful woman and her precious children, She is soft spoken and an innocent
This is beyond disgusting.
Love how she disclosed her status and even more how he accepted and loved her!
Glad there was a rainbow after that storm
How could your father trap you into marrying his lover that's so wrong in many ways plus you are amazing and courageous young lady and your Husband is a brilliant guy unlike your Ex 💜🙏💜
Perfectly said daddy wasn’t no good or x but the daddy is the wrost horrible terrible
He probably did it because she was the perfect cover up. Seems like he wanted to throw a curveball incase anyone had suspicions.
Wow, her mom holding her down like that is amazing. She’s lucky.
This is happening so often. Many women in monogamous relationships are getting HIV/AIDS from men living double lives. I consider this intimate partner violence as well. I'm glad she stays on top of it all, and I'm glad they are getting counseling.
But many woman nowadays openly have sexual relationships with gay or “bi” males… so it’s not a “double life” thing nowadays
It's worse than r*pe in my opinion. I've been r*ped by men who didn't give me diseases.
I do feel this should be criminal. Especially when they are married and recieves a disease
Exactly. This is why syphilis was almost eradicated in the US, but these men doing this type of behaving. The congenital version of the disease has exploded. And there are some men who will get treatment and not tell their pregnant wife
facts that they will deny sis
Everyone needs a Brandon in their life! Dude is amazing!
For real!!!!!!!!!
Agree
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
lol he took what he could get …but okkk
@@jasminesmith7414i’m pretty sure she wasn’t his only option 💀 idk why y’all keep trying to make it seem like she’s the only one he could go for so he settled.. embarrassing
Her new husband is just so kind and so understanding. Like; that’s truly amazing.
Almost broke my fingers tryna click on this video so fast 😭😭
Same 😂😂😂😂
Same😂😂 because WHAT
I’m at work girl I have no business being on my phone but I HAD to click just find WHAT THE ACTUAL FUDGE is going ON
😂😂😂
I clicked on this cause i remember her from a tasha k interview about this
Salute to her man instead of being a boy he stepped up as a man 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🤙🏾
It’s not about “being a man” because he would still be a man if he didn’t want to step in to be with a woman with two kids, but I’m proud of him for taking the time to adequately educate himself before addressing the situation and if he wanted to move forward.
Manyo
except he got a tattoo of her name *cringe*
@@mhs90keyword HE, not you
This comment section is disgusting bih
I think the world definitely needs to updated/re-educated/educated on HIV. In the 80’s and 90’s they scared us soooooo bad and have NOT made any effort to help inform the world about all the advances and the “new” information that is out there. There are a lot of myths, misinformation and fear that needs to addressed and put to rest! For those of us who do not or do not knowingly deal with anyone with HIV it is not on our minds to learn or educated ourselves so thank you for the video.
Exactly things have changed since the 90’s
The betrayal is wild crazy. Admire her strength. Hubby seems kind and genuine. Blessed family for sure.
Her husband is truly an amazing man 😢. He willingly chose to love, embrace, and marry his wife, knowing that she had HIV of no fault of her own. I'm glad she was able to find a man who genuinely loved her, and not just pretended to do so 💕☺️.
Very well said
Faith is everything in dis world
Sad but beautiful story. I had 2 aunts & an uncle that passed that had HIV &/or AIDS & YOU give those who are educated hope. I LOVE THIS
Why is this happening when God invented CONDOMS?
The way my eyes OPENED at the sight of this thumbnail
Big big OPENED because what in the world?!
ALL of our eyes and my mouth dropped like in the cartoons!
@@gecenthareynolds2658 mine too I had to double look
I thought she was still with the Ex husband because of the new husband being in the thumbnail 😬 I was so confused 🤔
Wow, can’t remember the last time I watched a vid on this channel where the main characters weren’t trash.
Good on both these two.
The last two have surprisingly been very positive
Girl you deserve every ounce of happiness this world has to offer, regardless of your diagnosis!!
People are so ignorant sometimes. This poor woman went through a horrible betrayal! I’m so glad she was able to find love and live a regularly normal life.
As a retired medical provider, I admire your honesty AND your fantastic understanding of your disease process and treatment! You are a wonderful example of resilience. Your father and your ex are both despicable (IMHO) and God will judge their false witness. Bless you, your family, including mom and husband!
May the most high continue to bless their union and their family.. so sorry for the trauma your father and ex husband caused. This is a prime example of unconditional love
The strength of her mother is out of this world...no way would I have been able to stomach knowing this was done to my child and not retaliated. My Lord
This video is more than just life after HIV. You are a strong beautiful human being with a lovely family. Don't let the haters bring you down. They are just jealous they don't have the strength, happiness and support you have in your life.
I thought a dad was supposed to love and protect his daughter, not hand her over to a wolf. Shame on you dad you deserve to spend the rest of your life in prison without parole. I'm so happy for this couple their family look so good together ❤️
0:23 here go your HIV medicine 😂😂 what! Why he say it like that. Praying for this beautiful young lady ❤
He was nervous on camera 😂
Exactly, like, I had cancer, no one has ever told me “Here are you cancer drugs”😂
I sholl was like damn usually ppl just say here goes your medicine 😂😂
That was just for the camera
@@IAmBrendaJ 😂😂
The little girl saying she feels like kids shouldn't know that kind of stuff is really saying good Lord please stop talking about it with an in front of me and let me make my life be about anything else.
Something I got from that too
@@Freedomrings4433 I remember being this little girl just wishing my parents would shut the hell up and quit pretending I was invisible and didn't hear and understand exactly what they were talking about. Or my mom with her friends.
That's why in my House, kids were told to leave the room Grown folks conversation. I guess the little girl can't comprehend that an feels embarrassed hearing it, an the kids talking about it in school too probably.
@@ShanteBarze1950 yep either that or talk when they are asleep and you know they are asleep. If you tell them to leave the room and then tell them why you know they're going to try and listen LOL
I think you are inferring a bit too much on what the little girl meant. Expressing that kids shouldn’t know about certain things doesn’t mean that the conversation is unnecessary. Instead of you being annoyed at the parents for talking about it, be annoyed at the former spouse who made the HIV conversation necessary.
I am so glad that she and her husband are kind and loving towards each other. Her mother is beautiful. Wishing the family the best.
More dirty are those people who are judging her. It’s not her fault she got HIV, this can happen to anyone. I wish her all the happiness in her life with her husband and children, and hopefully there will be one day a cure for HIV. She’s a very strong woman for sharing her story, may God bless her.
Im so proud of her for telling him right away. A LOT of people don’t do that
Why has she still got pictures of herself and the ex. Thats a bit weird imo! Major red flag was when she made her new husband get a tattoo, but didnt herself!
Show the dad immediately!! We must know!!
Right!
I’ve never been so happy for someone to find love as this. She deserves all the happiness in the world. Anyone who think differently is just a miserable evil spirit.
Thank you ❤
@@IAmBrendaJ you’re welcome ❤️
I really didn’t trust my eyes and my English comprehension when I was reading the title because what? 😮😮😮
I thought it was click bait!!
GOD I wish it was clickbait!!
How are you going to “ let him be with someone HIV negative”? She can’t let him do anything. He’s with her because he wants to and he loves her. People sound ridiculous
The Momma is a strong woman too! Goodness what an insightful video ❤❤
that is SO sick what her dad and ex did to her. Absolutely disgusting. I'm so happy that she has a wonderful family who loves her, she seems like a wonderful woman and deserves all the love
Don't listen to ignorant people on social media commenting on a topic they are not fully educated on.
Thank You! ❤
Having a photo of your ex is crazy and saying it’s your fav photo is crazy work.
It may have been for the show - and for her to see how far she's come, her husband now doesn't see it poorly
@@Glytched356 Delete all photos of your ex, call it what you want.but I’m not going for it.
It was very weird , but her husband is probably more secure than me but i dont want my wife saying an old photo is one of her favorites . But more respect to her and him . I wish them nothing but happiness.
Not just a photo of an “ex” but THEE EX that slept with her dad and gave her HIV. 🤯🤯🤯🤯
I’m thinking she was reminiscing on how at that time in her life she felt happy being with him not knowing he would turn out to be the betrayal monster he was I can understand that she was at a good place with him and herself when that picture was taken ✌🏽❤
5:06 I hate that this closed minded people make you feel this way. You seem so wonderful and good lady.
Blessings to you and your family my mother died of HIV my sister and grandmother I appreciate you sharing your story and she seems to be a wonderful young lady mom and wife 🙏✨🌟🪄💖🥰
DEVASTATING!! I’m so glad she overcame but that is extremely devastating! Lord! 😢
It's like living with diabetes and hypertension, both can kill you if you don't take your medicine. Hiv is a chronic illness nowadays. There are worst things than hiv.
Diabolical! May this brave and beautiful woman and her family only know peace, joy, blessings and long healthy lives ❤
You can feel her pureness from the screen !!! That poor women . She is blessed to have him she desrves it❤😊
People are cruel. Stay grounded and stand in love… I hope you both stay happy and prosperous ❤ the father needs to be in jail some darn where 😡
She is so brave to share her story. And be honest with her partners about her status there’s someone in my family that’s HIV positive and she doesn’t tell any of her partners her status so I think people should stop being so judgmental that she sharing it always could be worse her passing thisvirus and not telling anyone. I’m happy for her and her family.❤
She needs to be careful with not disclosing her status to “innocent” people who she’s involved with. That’s how people get hurt. That’s actually selfish and tacky for her not to disclose that information.
God Bless you and your beautiful family! My father and late stepmom ended up pregnant with my little sister. My stepmom found out she had AIDS when my sister was 3. My dad then found out he was HIV positive who he contacted it from my stepmom who didn’t know. My sister was then tested and by grace of God was HIV negative. My stepmom was in latent stages of having aids and developed cancer and passed away 2 years after being diagnosed. My father is still alive after being diagnosed 32 years ago. He takes medication and has a healthy diet. No alcohol. He went on to meet my current stepmom who does not have HIV and they are happily married and been together for 29 years.
These stories are crazier and crazier
She has a channel on here
Everyone deserves a husband like this
Life can be so cruel and unfair sometimes. This is awful. Thankfully she has a wonderful support system and a lovely family.
I'm sorry that you were betrayed in such a horrible way. I am happy for you that you have been given the chance to feel real love. I applaud you for your openness and honesty. You seem like a genuine person who deserves all the love in the world. Y'all have a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing this sensitive subject. God bless you all. (fyi, my family member passed away from HIV related complications, because he was in denial)
Thank you ❤ I am sorry for your loss 😢
@@IAmBrendaJThanks❤
@@IAmBrendaJ🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾‼️
I am not HIV positive but it looks like you're doing better than me because you have a husband and kids that love you unconditionally😂❤😮😜🥰 love you and keep your head up baby God has something planned for you
This is a weird comment. Self love is everything then you wouldn’t think happiness only comes from being married with kids.
@@Tiffany-un3hwVERY weird
Too many people looking for happiness. Happiness is conditional, it's temporary and circumstantial. Nobody searching for joy. True joy comes from the Lord. Believers know. Those that don't believe will jump down my throat.
@@Tiffany-un3hwwtf let people be happy
@@biggooeyyy your response doesn’t make sense. What about my comment leads you believe I don’t want people to be happy?
Who else slide to the comments with water and oil on dey feet!
Her dad tho?! Awesome story sis GOD BLESS U💯🏆
wait, wtf...I had to read it more then once and slowly, lol
She is amazing, I don’t think many people would make it out of a situation like this without really hurting someone
Glad that she found love again!
❤
Can I be friends with them please? All 3 of them seem like such wonderful people! It’s infuriating what her “dad” (in quotations because he doesn’t reflect how a real dad would treat their daughter) & ex-husband did to her, & I applaud the grace with which she dealt with this situation.
Those children are too beautiful.
Haters act as if ppl that have a chronic disease or disability don't deserve to be a relationship.
Don't worry about negative people. I have epilepsy and there have been people to turn away because of it. Don't worry about dumb people. Live your life ❤
😢This was really a sad story but Im glad she persevered and has a beautiful family now
with a father like that, you really dont need any enemies
Love Don't Judge, This video is fantastic! I liked it a lot!