I Was Finally Able To Look Past His Size | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

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  • @Toya_Adora
    @Toya_Adora 4 месяца назад +8829

    WTF is a "mixed weight" relationship? All these labels for what's been normal for centuries are ridiculous.

    • @antbanks415
      @antbanks415 4 месяца назад +172

      Lol a relationship with labels

    • @only1anime89
      @only1anime89 4 месяца назад +222

      the west is done for😅

    • @kylawilliams5951
      @kylawilliams5951 4 месяца назад +218

      Girrrrllllll!!! I came here to say the same thing

    • @telayajackson2.023
      @telayajackson2.023 4 месяца назад

      Yeah, I've never heard of it.

    • @VesaJay
      @VesaJay 4 месяца назад +143

      😅😅😅 My first thought was they just want some attention with that phrase. Come on man!! Mixed weight 😂😂😂

  • @najinaji182
    @najinaji182 4 месяца назад +608

    Honestly, this is crazy because he’s not even an ugly dude, or unpleasant to look at he is well-kept and has awesome energy. I’m not seeing the problem.

    • @037deejay
      @037deejay 3 месяца назад +27

      Me neither. I think they are cute together.

    • @adnamaxamed8264
      @adnamaxamed8264 3 месяца назад

      The problem is that he’s too fat

    • @lance3826
      @lance3826 2 месяца назад +5

      I agree ppl are just horrible these days

    • @tobeawareistobealive4540
      @tobeawareistobealive4540 2 месяца назад +3

      Me neither

    • @jasmic38134
      @jasmic38134 2 месяца назад +4

      Me either! They look good together

  • @trueblak1
    @trueblak1 4 месяца назад +1155

    She wears glasses and I have perfect vision. We're in a mixed sight relationship 😂

    • @lexxw
      @lexxw 4 месяца назад +23

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @HealthyandBratty
      @HealthyandBratty 4 месяца назад +11

      😂😂😂

    • @Starvia89
      @Starvia89 4 месяца назад +7

      Lol right

    • @SW-bw4xk
      @SW-bw4xk 4 месяца назад +5

      lol 😂😂😂

    • @lonagwegwe
      @lonagwegwe 4 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 4 месяца назад +4130

    If he were balding, would it be a "mixed follicular" relationship? 🤔

  • @talethagaston1485
    @talethagaston1485 4 месяца назад +3242

    Girl, my mom was a beautiful woman, and she avoided meeting by dad because he was large. Her sister encouraged her to just go out with him, and she did and never left him afterwards. They were married for over 50 years. When he died, she never was the same. At his grave, she said, " That is a good and great man gone." She loved him and he loved her.They had 7 successful children together.

  • @tuli0hwut78
    @tuli0hwut78 4 месяца назад +197

    This isn't even an odd couple. Just a guy who's happy in love with a woman who also found true love.

  • @chanellemulan8004
    @chanellemulan8004 4 месяца назад +5497

    He's an attractive big guy. Nothing weird about this couple at all.

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 4 месяца назад +94

      very much so

    • @naysx12
      @naysx12 4 месяца назад +87

      I agree! And I pray that I look past peoples weight too because we are such superficial humans !

    • @Minimovie411
      @Minimovie411 4 месяца назад +88

      That part!! He is handsome so it makes sense

    • @ladyofthecentury
      @ladyofthecentury 4 месяца назад +53

      But they are pretending so they can get on the internet. So lets play along and pretend that we never seen fat people before.

    • @bdaybday1184
      @bdaybday1184 4 месяца назад +77

      He’s definitely chocolate and handsome

  • @alisonclmbsw1942
    @alisonclmbsw1942 4 месяца назад +1988

    This is literally the average couple. Mixed weight relationship? They slap a label on everything...

    • @tezsgino
      @tezsgino 4 месяца назад +65

      For real. Both are attractive.

    • @kailanburgess1196
      @kailanburgess1196 4 месяца назад +20

      I know. It doesn't matter nor does it make any sense

    • @xdani_thethinkingneko
      @xdani_thethinkingneko 4 месяца назад +8

      Yeah.... As somebody who is queer and is in an interracial relationship, that really rubbed me the wrong way! Nobody is trying to unalive people who are not of the same weight and in a relationship, nobody's trying too legislate against their relationship.
      People are literally unalived, just for being queer, or for being in an interracial relationship.
      Ridiculous.

    • @ReneeFrenchgirl
      @ReneeFrenchgirl 4 месяца назад

      ​​@@tezsginoYeah right. She's kinda cute, but he is definitely not attractive. I would give her 6 out of 10 and I would give him 2.5 out of 10.

    • @juscraz08
      @juscraz08 4 месяца назад +2

      Dawg frfr

  • @SRichards-de7ri
    @SRichards-de7ri 4 месяца назад +68

    He seems like a sweetheart, there are many slim conventionally attractive men who are abusive, broke, cheaters, have destructive addictions or commitment-phobes. Character matters more

    • @yolo4dolo28
      @yolo4dolo28 2 месяца назад +1

      Me ...attractive narcissistic divorced 6'6 and was addicted tometh 'clean 8 years ...BACK ON THE THEONE

  • @ventromanable
    @ventromanable 4 месяца назад +2485

    If that Bro was in the NFL this wouldn't be an issue, now would it!!

  • @avesselindeed
    @avesselindeed 4 месяца назад +770

    You know it’s so sad that this is even a topic what a shallow world we live in. This man is a human being, period!!!!

    • @TICKON8713
      @TICKON8713 4 месяца назад

      No man is GOD. But sometimes we all need to find something for other not just ourselves so I hope you truly ment what you said.

    • @LifeisaBeautifulting
      @LifeisaBeautifulting 4 месяца назад +8

      @@TICKON8713Wtf are you talking about

    • @crystallatta8770
      @crystallatta8770 4 месяца назад +4

      ​@LifeisaBeautifulting 🤣🤣🤣 I read it like 3 times, thought it was me 😅

    • @ma.2733
      @ma.2733 4 месяца назад +5

      Its a topic because she’s using him for clout. Just like girls who post their 80yr old boyfriend its all shock value.

    • @TICKON8713
      @TICKON8713 4 месяца назад

      @@ma.2733 for anyone life is all about what one can live with. or, bear. value over conscience?😱LOVE is blind? 😱

  • @angelinahunt916
    @angelinahunt916 4 месяца назад +32

    It matters how a man treats u more than he looks. I’m happy she found a man who loves her and treats her well. That’s love. ❤️ congrats and I wish yall both well.

    • @randyfalk1716
      @randyfalk1716 2 месяца назад

      @@angelinahunt916 well said Angelina, by the way, may I say you are gorgeous. I hope you have found your man that treats you well like he should.

    • @randyfalk1716
      @randyfalk1716 2 месяца назад

      If not, maybe let's talk.

  • @Strong.courageous
    @Strong.courageous 4 месяца назад +572

    He looks like a really good guy. You can always lose weight, but people with good intentions are hard to find.

    • @slovelyyx7718
      @slovelyyx7718 4 месяца назад +4

      They’ve been together for so long and he has yet to lose weight lol

    • @LifeisaBeautifulting
      @LifeisaBeautifulting 4 месяца назад +6

      Not saying you're wrong but you can't always "just lose weight" weight loss is actually very difficult

    • @slovelyyx7718
      @slovelyyx7718 4 месяца назад +4

      @@LifeisaBeautifulting weight loss is easy, that’s something lazy and undisciplined people say to remain fat, if your only bad quality is you being fat consider yourself lucky that’s one of the easier things to change, whereas if youre ugly in the face you’re kinda screwed.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад

      @@LifeisaBeautifulting Weight loss is extremely easy. Only someone with no discipline will say otherwise. There is literally no difficulty in watching what you eat and getting on a treadmill smh

    • @RawVeganJenNYC
      @RawVeganJenNYC 4 месяца назад +1

      Amen👏🏽

  • @jew-el1
    @jew-el1 4 месяца назад +919

    His PERSONALITY is golden! He’s attractive; just large and it’s ok‼️‼️

    • @willygraphics360
      @willygraphics360 4 месяца назад +10

      No it's not 😭

    • @slovelyyx7718
      @slovelyyx7718 4 месяца назад

      He needs to lose weight

    • @ma.2733
      @ma.2733 4 месяца назад

      She’s using his dumbzz to get to this point. Women will do alot for clout and attention. Now that she’s getting some views it’s over for buddy smh

    • @azazello1784
      @azazello1784 4 месяца назад

      It's ok until you are in a bed with that fat sweaty meatloaf.

    • @jimams_jamz5518
      @jimams_jamz5518 4 месяца назад +3

      y'all will say it's ok until he starts getting health problems. It's not safe to be that big your entire life, he's fine now cause he's young, but what about later down the line?

  • @airjer4351
    @airjer4351 4 месяца назад +15

    Bro, all you need is confidence. Nothing wrong with this brother. Don't let anyone make you feel less than.

  • @chocalechevux804
    @chocalechevux804 4 месяца назад +864

    They making shit up now, mixed weight wtf. So if someone who wears glasses, get into a relationship with someone who doesn’t wear glasses, they in a mixed eyesight relationship 😂😂😂😂

    • @elbellamy682
      @elbellamy682 4 месяца назад +52

      😂😂😂 crying

    • @ShayWilliam341
      @ShayWilliam341 4 месяца назад +54

      Or the man work is a truck driver and the woman is a teacher it’s a mixed job relationship people say dumb stuff 😂😂😂

    • @chocalechevux804
      @chocalechevux804 4 месяца назад +7

      @@ShayWilliam341 exactly 😂😂

    • @macjoseph2375
      @macjoseph2375 4 месяца назад +12

      I lost my drink! 😢 and I wear glasses 👓

    • @karinanunez6420
      @karinanunez6420 4 месяца назад +4

      😭😭😂

  • @tcbroussard9562
    @tcbroussard9562 4 месяца назад +1067

    He’s really handsome. Crazy part is she can motivate him to get that weight down and then everyone will want him. The right person can mold you into a better version of yourself.

    • @naomiolutayo
      @naomiolutayo 4 месяца назад +13

      This!

    • @nicolethomas526
      @nicolethomas526 4 месяца назад +31

      @@naomiolutayo mold him.. I can tell you are a control freak

    • @Ronnie667
      @Ronnie667 4 месяца назад

      Bruh if this nigga is handsome then every nigga is handsome

    • @jasmineartis5754
      @jasmineartis5754 4 месяца назад +30

      Right!! He’s VERY handsome. If he loses weight the women will flock.

    • @llauoykcuftube
      @llauoykcuftube 4 месяца назад +28

      Thats not her job to motivate him, he should have do it the first thing, when she initially rejected him because of weight

  • @iamneenajaneen
    @iamneenajaneen 4 месяца назад +24

    You can tell its genuine between them. Hes a cute teddy bear with a funny chill personality so it makes sense how putting out her male best friend ad got her her future husband. She looks proud to be with him, as she should

  • @Seachange01120
    @Seachange01120 4 месяца назад +711

    Kobe's confidence is very attractive. He and Lexie are a beautiful couple.

    • @steveStonehedge
      @steveStonehedge 4 месяца назад +9

      It’s horrible he needs a woman who isn’t going to treat him like garbage

    • @Seachange01120
      @Seachange01120 4 месяца назад +10

      @@steveStonehedge They were just joking with each other. They were also good friends before they started dating.

    • @eikichionizuka2206
      @eikichionizuka2206 4 месяца назад +4

      🧢

    • @Seachange01120
      @Seachange01120 4 месяца назад

      @@eikichionizuka2206 Whatever

    • @OliviaMitchell-b3p
      @OliviaMitchell-b3p 4 месяца назад

      YES, HE IS VERY ATTRACTIVE MAN and both of them are very blessed to have one another and i wish them all success that God has instore for them.

  • @khristianpeel7165
    @khristianpeel7165 4 месяца назад +1004

    He seems like a good dude. This "mixed weight" narrative is NOT a thing 😂😂.
    I'm glad he was able to get out of the friend zone though. Lord knows how tough that is

    • @Peaceful_Rayne
      @Peaceful_Rayne 4 месяца назад

      "Mixed weight" is supposedly not a real thing but "friend zone" is? Both are made up terms that mean nothing

    • @kylawilliams5951
      @kylawilliams5951 4 месяца назад +26

      Exactly! Not a thing at all 😂😂😂

    • @KeiSpeaksLife
      @KeiSpeaksLife 4 месяца назад +17

      Definitely not a thing.

    • @lastdragonx
      @lastdragonx 4 месяца назад +20

      She using this dude

    • @Cdoe14
      @Cdoe14 4 месяца назад +6

      @@lastdragonx Clear as day bro! 🎯😂

  • @dbrown7670
    @dbrown7670 4 месяца назад +7

    No such thing as a mixed weight relationship. YOU TWO ARE GREAT PEOPLE THAT LOVE EACH OTHER. PERIOD. IT IS BEAUTIFUL. GOD BLESS YOU TWO CONTINUOUSLY.

  • @ItsJanesta
    @ItsJanesta 4 месяца назад +324

    He’s so handsome and he look so well kept…what’s not to like? Big guys usually treat their woman the BEST. I know from experience

    • @scribe712
      @scribe712 4 месяца назад +27

      A lot of them treat women better because they're desperate to have someone. So when they find someone, they're willing to do whatever it takes to keep that person. Not solely out of love but also out of insecurity.

    • @willster1863
      @willster1863 4 месяца назад +2

      Would you date him?

    • @ItsJanesta
      @ItsJanesta 4 месяца назад +22

      @@willster1863 absolutely. He seems fun, romantic, respectful and he’s not ugly. Would you?

    • @IcingRose
      @IcingRose 4 месяца назад +5

      This is true, my best friend married a guy like this and treated her like a queen!

    • @alp2610
      @alp2610 3 месяца назад +2

      They’re on the same lvl looks wise. Nothing strange about their relationship

  • @tanishapark6314
    @tanishapark6314 4 месяца назад +928

    Im in a mixed hair color relationship. It's been hard with all the stares and comments we get but we are strong and will make it through the awful life of having different hair colors.

  • @jlynn9575
    @jlynn9575 4 месяца назад +28

    There are some miserable and unhappy people on this earth! Happy for this couple and pray this inspires others to stop being superficial and love others for who they are.

  • @teeshesee
    @teeshesee 4 месяца назад +159

    Mixed weight relationship is one of the nuttiest things I have EVER heard

  • @neonpandas
    @neonpandas 4 месяца назад +451

    Weight aside, he is handsome. He looks like Reggie Bush in the face. He may be big but he is not ugly. People may have different types and he may be her type which is ok. NBD. Weight is also a fixable issue. It's not like he has a bad personality.

    • @sleepyeyez01
      @sleepyeyez01 4 месяца назад +15

      Yesssssa he does. If he loses weight, do they drop the label lmbo

    • @David-ky2nb
      @David-ky2nb 4 месяца назад

      Are you suggesting personality is fixed and can't be changed?

    • @neonpandas
      @neonpandas 4 месяца назад +11

      @@David-ky2nbno, I did not say that. This video is obviously based on his looks so my comment applied to his looks. If he had a bad personality she obviously wouldn’t be with him in the first place. Stop reaching

    • @David-ky2nb
      @David-ky2nb 4 месяца назад

      @@neonpandas what do you mean? Your comment implied weight is changeable but personality is not. Did I misunderstand you?

    • @neonpandas
      @neonpandas 4 месяца назад +4

      @@David-ky2nbthat’s how you interpreted it. I bluntly just told you my intended meaning. There is no further discussion.

  • @mywudie98
    @mywudie98 4 месяца назад +9

    Girl! You are so blessed to have this big handsome teddy bear! This is my first time watching you guys videos, and I have subscribed to the channel, but the thing I see from the outside looking in, Is a man that is gentle, patient, and slow to anger! These are fruits of the spirit! Don’t worry about negative people, you young people be happy! Make sure you both always take care of each other, Mentally physically, and spiritually! God bless you both!❤

  • @ericperry72
    @ericperry72 4 месяца назад +106

    See what happens when you are real friends first and follow your heart, not society's rules. I wish them all the love and happiness.

  • @Myshelleallen
    @Myshelleallen 4 месяца назад +319

    Kobe’s personality is A1!! He’s very likable. And he’s handsome. He has pretty teeth too. He’s great the way he is but if he lose weight people not ready for that !!

  • @nickoliver2541
    @nickoliver2541 4 месяца назад +11

    They are meant for each other, beyond body shape concern, which is bs. They have a great chemistry, you can feel it's not only for the video. They share the same humor, they are each other's best friend, you see love sparkling, nice body language, self confidence.... Great couple ! People should not judge. People are not meant to be only with people that look like them, everybody deserves happiness.

  • @smilesnkissesonly52
    @smilesnkissesonly52 4 месяца назад +414

    I had to rewind to see if she was really saying “mixed weight relationship”😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @telayajackson2.023
      @telayajackson2.023 4 месяца назад

      I thought she said "mixed-race", like she's biracial. I don't know.

    • @faithkivindyo3945
      @faithkivindyo3945 4 месяца назад +15

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂Spare my ribs

    • @xdani_thethinkingneko
      @xdani_thethinkingneko 4 месяца назад

      Fr. Nobody is trying to unalive them for their relationship and they don't have people legislating against their relationship in the same way an interracial or queer couple has and or will.
      Absolutely insane. What is even more sick, is they sound like Americans....and project 2025, is trying to illegalize, gay marriage. 💀

    • @porshataylor-ee5ri
      @porshataylor-ee5ri 4 месяца назад

      Yea slow as 💩

    • @charticiahightower1386
      @charticiahightower1386 4 месяца назад +5

      😂😂😂

  • @AlissaPaige91
    @AlissaPaige91 4 месяца назад +326

    SHE NEEDSTO STOP BASHING HIS WEIGHT!!! 😠
    This is stupid though... every single person is in a mixed weight relationship.
    No one is the same weight as their partner 🤷‍♀️ over here throwing titles on everything! 🤦‍♀️🥴

    • @georgette7588
      @georgette7588 4 месяца назад +9

      No fr 😂. Literally no one 😂

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 4 месяца назад +3

      Definitely true

    • @TaWandaJoyner
      @TaWandaJoyner 4 месяца назад +4

      I see your point💯, yet it isn't true. I have seen couples who weigh the same and have personal experience with it as well. I was a couple with someone for over ten years, and we both weighed the same, then and now. Although, I'm 5"5" and he is 5"11", and our body shapes are obviously not the same, so the weight is distributed differently. Our weight even fluctuated the same. He would say that he wasn't sure how he gained ten pounds, and I had to tell him it must be because I gained ten pounds.😅🤷🏾‍♀️✌🏽🦋

    • @PandaHead602
      @PandaHead602 4 месяца назад +1

      What’s a mixed weight I don’t get it. Just cause he’s bigger ? Does the mix part have anything to do w what mixed race is??

    • @ciarabellasalma4337
      @ciarabellasalma4337 4 месяца назад

      Everything

  • @merleclyne2512
    @merleclyne2512 4 месяца назад +25

    Why there is even a conversation about this...what is a mix weight relationship?

  • @alitabarbee4904
    @alitabarbee4904 4 месяца назад +73

    Size is variable, BUT a person’s character is not! Many blessings to you both🫶🏾

    • @lidiamartinez9989
      @lidiamartinez9989 2 месяца назад

      For sure…Someone can have a beautiful/handsome face but if they got an ugly soul then it affects their appearance to me!

  • @Cornbreadmuffin86
    @Cornbreadmuffin86 4 месяца назад +262

    I was with a plus size man for 11 years he was handsome too. My mom told me I could've done better but she didn't have a man so I just brushed it off.

    • @amremnant
      @amremnant 4 месяца назад +65

      Mic drop. My mother tries to shade people's relationship and I'm like you haven't had a man in decades and when you did you had bad taste so bye.

    • @Thrivegrl24
      @Thrivegrl24 4 месяца назад +6

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheChallenger1000
      @TheChallenger1000 4 месяца назад +13

      This thread is funny as hell🤣🤣🤣

    • @Vesta0831
      @Vesta0831 4 месяца назад +6

      Savage 😂

    • @TheLadyj8402
      @TheLadyj8402 4 месяца назад +2

      😂😂😂

  • @lavishheights
    @lavishheights 4 месяца назад +10

    I like her honesty. She loves him you can tell!!!❤❤❤

  • @giftedhands4207
    @giftedhands4207 4 месяца назад +167

    This is not making any sense to me.... this looks normal to me... this world has people overthinking everything in the book...be happy... enjoy life.... live it to the fullest.

    • @clarencedolan699
      @clarencedolan699 4 месяца назад +1

      This is not normal, and all of you know it.

    • @liljc44life
      @liljc44life 4 месяца назад +8

      @@clarencedolan699It looks pretty normal to me. Go outside and see the World. He has a football build and he’s bench pressing 300+lbs..

    • @RobotRebelCinema
      @RobotRebelCinema 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@clarencedolan699 Up until about 12 years ago this WAS normal because women didn't care as much about a man's weight as long as he took care of himself and didn't look sloppy. Then when all the Superhero movies started coming out, women started wanting men that are built like the Avengers. But this is still mainly an American thing where women want fit men (when most of them aren't even fit themselves), in other countries it is normal to see big hefty men with small attractive women. Especially in Latin America.

    • @clarencedolan699
      @clarencedolan699 4 месяца назад +3

      @@RobotRebelCinema I couldn’t disagree with you more. I’m 53 years old, retired Navy and lived on 3 different continents. In my lifetime this has NEVER been normal. People who take care of themselves don’t want someone who doesn’t. They really don’t go for that abroad, because obesity is almost nonexistent in most places. America is by far the fattest country in the world, our poor people are fat. I’m sorry but people who’s saying this is normal are probably overweight themselves and this gives them hope that someone they’re attracted to will look past their unhealthy lifestyle.

    • @clarencedolan699
      @clarencedolan699 4 месяца назад +1

      @@liljc44life Very few football players are fat. The guys weighing 300 plus are usually 6’5 and taller. So no this isn’t a “football” build, this guy admitted he’s fat because he likes to eat, like all obese people do.

  • @sheambitious29lachelle17
    @sheambitious29lachelle17 4 месяца назад +100

    His size shouldn’t be as important as the love he gives you, Wish you guys well! ❤❤❤

  • @queenpurp834
    @queenpurp834 3 месяца назад +4

    This being a topic of abnormal relationship is sad but people really get caught up in it. Go ahead and miss your blessing cuz you want to be shallow. I know a lot of ugly inside ppl that make them very unattractive. Love, respect, loyalty, togetherness, positivity, peace and laughter. Your energy speaks volumes in attractiveness. 💜

  • @yeababywelive5340
    @yeababywelive5340 4 месяца назад +257

    “I just stopped seeing him so big “ wow

    • @sisg.official
      @sisg.official 4 месяца назад +41

      Why is he even settling for her like come on dude

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 4 месяца назад +28

      @@sisg.officialhe thinks this is the best he can get smh

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 4 месяца назад +59

      I mean at least she admitted she finally saw him for his personality more than his looks

    • @alianaweston2286
      @alianaweston2286 4 месяца назад +14

      It’s fake DUH

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 4 месяца назад

      @@yeababywelive5340 🙃

  • @PatbroBro-sn8yo
    @PatbroBro-sn8yo 4 месяца назад +293

    If someone has to "see past" a person, that's not ideal to me.

    • @savannajoseph7432
      @savannajoseph7432 4 месяца назад +11

      Thank you

    • @briannaex8627
      @briannaex8627 4 месяца назад +54

      I mean i think it depends tbh, it just might've been a big deal to her just like everyone has something they don't like about their partner but they see past it because they love them. Thats how i look at it anyway

    • @sloppygirlz
      @sloppygirlz 4 месяца назад

      right

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 4 месяца назад +8

      @@briannaex8627 exactly you got that right

    • @lance3826
      @lance3826 2 месяца назад

      Yeah I agree

  • @RushMYPediRushMYPedi
    @RushMYPediRushMYPedi 4 месяца назад +5

    They are so sweet together...i like that they worked on a friendship before they started dating. ❤

  • @janedeane3656
    @janedeane3656 4 месяца назад +682

    She said she 'just stopped seeing him so big' because she got used to seeing him. Bro lol thats not a compliment

  • @NativeAmericanSwag
    @NativeAmericanSwag 4 месяца назад +89

    Woman got herself a real life bodyguard and teddy bear, she’s winning in life!🧸
    He has a sweet queen, he is also winning in life!🥹🫡
    May they have a wonderful blessed marriage and family!🙏❤️

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад +1

      Marriage is unnecessary, but everything else I agree with

    • @Jessica-y9x
      @Jessica-y9x 2 месяца назад

      I lost mine 😢😢😢😢 I was young and stupid

  • @NetteJ
    @NetteJ 4 месяца назад +4

    His energy and confidence is extremely attractive!! He has a beautiful smile and his skin is amazing!!! I wish yall the best and I’m glad u didn’t allow anyone to stop ur blessings bc it seems like yall have a lot of fun together and that’s the best thing in life is to love but also like each other!!!

  • @sammirolo
    @sammirolo 4 месяца назад +475

    This woman being like "eventually I stopped looking at his features and decided Id be with him"
    The fuck!?

    • @smilesnkissesonly52
      @smilesnkissesonly52 4 месяца назад +20

      😂😂😂

    • @Tiredthatsit
      @Tiredthatsit 4 месяца назад +108

      He was her last option when her other relationships didn’t work out.

    • @KobeandLex
      @KobeandLex 4 месяца назад +14

      Only ever was in one other relationship

    • @cheefcuts
      @cheefcuts 4 месяца назад +46

      The disrespect lol

    • @salonegal4024
      @salonegal4024 4 месяца назад +36

      🚩 🚩 🚩

  • @zzyrii
    @zzyrii 4 месяца назад +87

    He's actually very handsome and has a great personality, and they both look pretty cute together! I really hope she's not playing with his heart or something..

  • @TTee203
    @TTee203 4 месяца назад +7

    He's a handsome big papi. He deserves all the love ❤️ ❤❤.

  • @c.williams3740
    @c.williams3740 4 месяца назад +295

    He’s doing the most to keep her happy. I hope she’s not playing with him.

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 4 месяца назад +10

      Same

    • @FREIGHT684
      @FREIGHT684 4 месяца назад +42

      It feels like she is

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 4 месяца назад +26

      You hope? 😂 she playing him for an absolute fool.

    • @nicolenunya984
      @nicolenunya984 4 месяца назад +13

      Imo, it seems more like he would change up if or when he loses weight

    • @sayless1445
      @sayless1445 4 месяца назад +18

      If she is, it will catch up to her... best wishes for them though

  • @misjuiceefroot
    @misjuiceefroot 4 месяца назад +43

    He is handsome. A beautiful smile, personality, dresses nice, seems to be committed and loving… I fail to see the problem.

  • @Carefree_Stephanie
    @Carefree_Stephanie 4 месяца назад +2

    They are absolutely adorable together and it’s obvious they have sincere love for each other. So what they don’t “match weight” they are equally adorable. I love that they were friends first. God bless them. 🙏🏼

  • @boujeebelle
    @boujeebelle 4 месяца назад +226

    Mixed weight relationship😂do people really say that🥴if so it’s ignorant asf

    • @marcell5055
      @marcell5055 4 месяца назад +6

      😂. Slim it’s a different world now.

    • @ponysoldier6770
      @ponysoldier6770 4 месяца назад +13

      Right? Can people date each other without getting a label specially about something that can change if he wants to 😵

    • @bulletproof4986
      @bulletproof4986 4 месяца назад +5

      Now days people have put labelsss.. on everything & everybody. There's just no more boyfriend & girlfriend relationship, husband & wife marriage, nor that you're just a female or a male. #SCRATCH EVERYTHING WE'VE LEARNED IN ENGLISH BECAUSE PRONOUNS ARE THE NEW NOUNS & HAVE TAKEN OVER.😂

    • @MaryNAdam
      @MaryNAdam 4 месяца назад

      It's just made for tv

    • @boujeebelle
      @boujeebelle 4 месяца назад

      @@bulletproof4986 it’s ridiculous

  • @learieramoutar7590
    @learieramoutar7590 4 месяца назад +59

    He seems like a good dude, ain't nothing abnormal about this relationship.

  • @CoCoGemel
    @CoCoGemel 4 месяца назад +12

    She said so many lowkey insulting things about him in front of him and that poor baby don’t even know it 😅😅😅

  • @fcook24
    @fcook24 4 месяца назад +321

    I’m done mixed weight wtf

    • @oneforall9046
      @oneforall9046 4 месяца назад

      Yeah no such thing people can be with WHOEVA, they want to be with.

    • @NBC09
      @NBC09 4 месяца назад +10

      SAME 😂😂😂

    • @demetricedavis4223
      @demetricedavis4223 4 месяца назад +7

      Facts! What is that? Mixed weight that not a thing. Why do we label everything?

    • @Chopzz8867
      @Chopzz8867 4 месяца назад +13

      I’m in a mixed income relationship 😢

    • @ShayWilliam341
      @ShayWilliam341 4 месяца назад +2

      Right, people be making up labels for relationships smh.

  • @DangersVoice
    @DangersVoice 4 месяца назад +103

    As a big man (currently) myself. I am happy for my guy! He found his Queen and she is happy too! Thats all that matters

    • @clarencedolan699
      @clarencedolan699 4 месяца назад +5

      How many slim girlfriends have you had? You know first hand this is not normal.

    • @DangersVoice
      @DangersVoice 4 месяца назад +8

      @@clarencedolan699 look man....A WIN IS A WIN

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 4 месяца назад +4

      @@DangersVoicethis is not winning bro, he’s getting mentally F’d

    • @volcaniumgon9785
      @volcaniumgon9785 4 месяца назад +1

      @@MrTwonetwoneyeah because there could be a lot behind the curtains she probably tortures dude mentally and like he sticks with her cuz he know he can’t get no better. You never know. But yeah a win is a win but at what costs😢😢

    • @savagejordan781
      @savagejordan781 4 месяца назад

      💀

  • @markatkins3166
    @markatkins3166 4 месяца назад +3

    Hey Kobe, Keep doing what you are doing...You its great to see you living your life confidentially and to the fullest! I salute you young man!

  • @charmainejackson3298
    @charmainejackson3298 4 месяца назад +132

    They smart af they using other folks insecurities to make money lmao I love this couple ALREADY...CUS THATS YALL FAULT😂❤

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 4 месяца назад +1

      Charmaine, this is the art of keeping haters enthralled and captivated . Make 'em coins

    • @charmainejackson3298
      @charmainejackson3298 4 месяца назад

      @@PHlophe Exactly so clever

  • @katrinamoses7476
    @katrinamoses7476 4 месяца назад +138

    He’s very handsome and she’s beautiful…

    • @David-ky2nb
      @David-ky2nb 4 месяца назад +5

      Ok, let's put his pic on tinder and see how he does, or have him approach a 100 women.

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 4 месяца назад +9

      @@David-ky2nbbro she’s just trying to be positive 😂 we all know this girl is using him

    • @AmberSumerall
      @AmberSumerall 4 месяца назад +2

      @@MrTwonetwonehow the hell is she using him? He’s an attractive guy, he’s just tall and big. If he lose weight, you won’t say shyt else.

    • @tiffanytaylor8773
      @tiffanytaylor8773 4 месяца назад

      @@AmberSumerall ok , but what position, he putting her in...She probably riding...maybe he gets on top, IDK

    • @TheChallenger1000
      @TheChallenger1000 4 месяца назад

      ​@@David-ky2nbFacts!!!

  • @sabrinacrawford5403
    @sabrinacrawford5403 4 месяца назад +4

    I hope that they appreciate all the Lov❤ and Support they give each other’s

  • @Troystreetzproduction
    @Troystreetzproduction 4 месяца назад +61

    As a man do not let a woman that you’re attracted to put you in the friend zone let her know what’s your attentions are and if she rejects you then move on she’ll never respect a man thats willingly to accept being a second or third option

    • @macjoseph2375
      @macjoseph2375 4 месяца назад +3

      Big facts! 💯

    • @bigbiggsreaction5349
      @bigbiggsreaction5349 4 месяца назад +4

      Why? Because I saw a lot of guys who were friends with women. The latest down the long became a couple and happily married.

    • @Troystreetzproduction
      @Troystreetzproduction 4 месяца назад +3

      @@bigbiggsreaction5349 women don’t friend zone men that they are attracted to and women will settle for the simp who was waiting as a friend even though he wants her after she’s been played and ran through by the guys she truly wants

    • @islandgirlxx3465
      @islandgirlxx3465 4 месяца назад +5

      Well said. A man should let a woman know what his intentions are. I've once met a muslim man he was very pious. And the first time we talked he let me know his intentions..I respectfully declined cause I'm a practicing christian and want to marry a practicing christian also. But I respected and appreciated him for his honesty from the get go.

    • @Reemdonn
      @Reemdonn 4 месяца назад +1

      Don't you have to be friends with a woman first before getting in a relationship? How would you even know if you like a woman or not if you don't have a relationship with her? This not making sense to me..

  • @IndiaMonetspeaks
    @IndiaMonetspeaks 4 месяца назад +40

    He’s an attractive guy! Relationships are better when it starts as friendship!

  • @thuancarson7614
    @thuancarson7614 4 месяца назад +4

    All's I can say is I've dated a big guy and let me tell you it is the safest thing. I felt so safe with this man. Obviously didn't work out but to be honest big guys are amazing❤

    • @Jessica-y9x
      @Jessica-y9x 2 месяца назад +1

      Yeses I wish I wasn't young and dumb I lost mine he was the only one would could handle my 18-19 crazy ass and would protect me when I caused problems with people

  • @lindseyjohanneson6950
    @lindseyjohanneson6950 4 месяца назад +61

    I've always been attracted to larger men. I used to get teased in high school for dating a bigger guy, but I couldn't have cared less!😊

    • @brendadickson9583
      @brendadickson9583 4 месяца назад +1

      That's your preference sis❤pray you get a good man who loves n value you ❤

  • @nkemsells3714
    @nkemsells3714 4 месяца назад +9

    Best thing I've seen on YT this year. The friendship, love and respect they have for each other is great. It took me out when I saw them praying together. They've def got the right ingredients to stay married forever, and I'd expect nothing less. A special hat goes off to the young sister for not allowing anyone to sway her opinion of him. Shows that she has a mind of her own. God continue to bless your union. I'm rooting for you.

  • @Net77748
    @Net77748 4 месяца назад +4

    Absolutely Love y’all’s attitudes! Stay strong 💯🙌🏾

  • @thecly9245
    @thecly9245 4 месяца назад +22

    This is an everyday thing. Nothing shocking about this. You love who you love.

  • @samanthagowen7299
    @samanthagowen7299 4 месяца назад +118

    Does anyone find it concerning that her whole vibe towards the situation seems like “I love him despite his weight” 💀 it’s sad to feel like you have to compensate for something about yourself when there’s nothing wrong with you in the first place. There are certainly women out there who will not need to look past his size to be head over heels. Not shading their relationship tho they seem happy and like a good pair.

    • @Thereal.IcyDiva
      @Thereal.IcyDiva 4 месяца назад +11

      I noticed that to.. it was mildy cringy listening..but hey if they are u happy ..I'm happy❤

    • @thecly9245
      @thecly9245 4 месяца назад +7

      I noticed that also. Then remember they are young, part of the online generation and are social media. The world has told us that its unhealthy and the person could die on us. There are plenty overweight people that are physically attractive. It can be overlooked because of the stigma

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 4 месяца назад

      Nothing wrong with him? Did you not see his shirtless in the water? That man needs a bra

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 4 месяца назад +1

      @@thecly9245they look maybe late 20s at most

    • @BREASHONTELL
      @BREASHONTELL 4 месяца назад

      @@thecly9245it has nothing to do age it could be anybody

  • @pearlhenyard6395
    @pearlhenyard6395 4 месяца назад +2

    The two of you make a great couple. Lady I'm glad you came to your senses, size does not mean anything because someone else was going to have him on their arm if you didn't capture your eye.Then it would have been to late because if he is your friend and he finds a girlfriend you would eventually have met her and seen the way he treats her, then you probably would be jealous. He treats you good, you look happy together, make it last, every relationship will have its ups and downs.

  • @basedangel7230
    @basedangel7230 4 месяца назад +82

    Did she really say that his weight was the one thing that was stopping her from being with him? Man if you gotta convince any women to be attracted to you get out NOW

    • @ashleyen3
      @ashleyen3 4 месяца назад

      Are you telling me that men would be totally cool with a chick of similar size? The mental gymnastics of men are truly mind boggling.

    • @kiravideos.5353
      @kiravideos.5353 4 месяца назад +5

      THANK YOU!!! I’m so sad I had to scroll that far to find a comment with common sense… just by reading the caption on this video it threw me completely off.

    • @lolaamazonia5218
      @lolaamazonia5218 4 месяца назад +4

      Did everyone just skip through that cause I heard exactly what you heard word for word.she is definitely settling. She is forcing herself to be attracted him.

    • @realashandaatlarge
      @realashandaatlarge 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@lolaamazonia5218She is. I did. But my husband has qualities most men today lack, like loyalty and godliness.

    • @Reemdonn
      @Reemdonn 4 месяца назад +2

      @@realashandaatlarge That's kinda sad not gonna lie, imagine your wife telling everyone you're not her ideal man, you just fit the requirements, yikes...

  • @sugaray7435
    @sugaray7435 4 месяца назад +16

    They cute!! I think it actually worked in both their favors that they were friends first. They got to know each other and that’s real! I love that! ❤

  • @imjazzlyn
    @imjazzlyn 3 месяца назад +4

    1:06 The way he looks at her 😭💓

  • @michellebland1088
    @michellebland1088 4 месяца назад +10

    People are jealous. You guys look happy and thats all that matters. May God bless you both.

  • @euterpuchman9093
    @euterpuchman9093 4 месяца назад +24

    Jacobb is extremely handsome. She is very blessed indeed to have him.

  • @SilverGolden-g5v
    @SilverGolden-g5v 4 месяца назад +2

    Jakobi IS BOMB! I SEE Y SHE FELL IN LOVE❤ hE is handsome, confident,can dress ,is respectful, i seen him praying with her..SHE IS WINNING WITH HIM

  • @kamae1868
    @kamae1868 4 месяца назад +48

    Mixed weight relationship?
    That’s dramatic af.

  • @sylvialin6453
    @sylvialin6453 4 месяца назад +32

    Hes cute and his smile is sweet. All the best.
    Money cant buy Love

    • @David-ky2nb
      @David-ky2nb 4 месяца назад +3

      What? The guy is paying for her apartment and working 70 hours a week.

    • @macjoseph2375
      @macjoseph2375 4 месяца назад

      ​@@David-ky2nbexactly 😅

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112 4 месяца назад +3

    Nothing wrong with this relationship!!! Sis keep this man most people want a relationship like this if his heart is right stay in it!!!

  • @S0.3
    @S0.3 4 месяца назад +12

    Its the confidence for me. Makes him even More attractive His a great personality Huge warm smile Not a thing wrong with him

  • @natilyfe
    @natilyfe 4 месяца назад +79

    I know plenty of big dudes that be pulling em in. It's all about confidence

    • @David-ky2nb
      @David-ky2nb 4 месяца назад +6

      I approach women confidently all the time it hasnt worked for me.

    • @TianaThompson90s
      @TianaThompson90s 4 месяца назад

      Exactly 💯

    • @misssterling3094
      @misssterling3094 4 месяца назад +2

      @@David-ky2nb Its all in divine timing. Be patient and don't become bitter.

    • @David-ky2nb
      @David-ky2nb 4 месяца назад +2

      @@misssterling3094 I'm not bitter, I try to approach about 20 a week. In the past year I approached about 150.
      It can be emotionally draining to be honest.

    • @a.d.nelson7567
      @a.d.nelson7567 4 месяца назад

      ​@@David-ky2nbaw, sorry to hear that... it's hard for women sometimes too. Well, for this woman, it has been lol.

  • @malikabilly7575
    @malikabilly7575 4 месяца назад

    He's your gentle giant and keep loving every bit of it❤❤❤❤. You have a personal teddy bear and a bodyguard, people will always hate and project their insecurities onto others. I love how confident he is 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @TheWatcherOS
    @TheWatcherOS 4 месяца назад +21

    Mixed weight?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    OK, internet. You finally got me. 30 years online, but you finally got me. I'm out✌🏼

  • @fredharris8797
    @fredharris8797 4 месяца назад +6

    I’m glad y’all posted because that shows that she’s is a real woman and she love him for him

  • @Tianainflow
    @Tianainflow 20 дней назад

    He is confident and has a great personality!!! I absolutely understand why they are together because she is confident and has a great personality. They seem like they have so much fun as it should be. Friendship is the key to romance 👏🏾

  • @TeeBabyXOXO
    @TeeBabyXOXO 4 месяца назад +9

    They look beautiful together. He is definitely handsome. If he decides to slim down and tone up, he will look outstanding! I can see it now. Wish them the best♥️

  • @lilmama3628
    @lilmama3628 4 месяца назад +45

    He is attractive he just big...I think you guys are a cute couple

  • @youngreynolds615
    @youngreynolds615 3 месяца назад

    It's great when you see two young people at peace and enjoying one another.

  • @Hollyraye21
    @Hollyraye21 4 месяца назад +287

    He's handsome. His weight doesn't matter, as long as he's treating her well.

    • @gregorybrown5419
      @gregorybrown5419 4 месяца назад +17

      Each other well

    • @Mysterious.phanto
      @Mysterious.phanto 4 месяца назад +12

      @@gregorybrown5419 Yeah it don't seem like she's treating him well. she could secretly be looking for another men hints why she would go on youtube advertising there relationship /herself

    • @gregorybrown5419
      @gregorybrown5419 4 месяца назад +2

      @mysteriesphanto3528 Don't know! Glad I'm single tho. Enjoy my peace

    • @jadar9356
      @jadar9356 4 месяца назад +1

      😂

    • @Mysterious.phanto
      @Mysterious.phanto 4 месяца назад +1

      @@gregorybrown5419 shit man i been single since the day i came into this world hell if i need a women i just go and hire a women for personal use if you know what i mean lol 😎😎

  • @orangeslices990
    @orangeslices990 4 месяца назад +13

    I see absolutely nothing wrong.
    I love how they say grace together too.
    As long as his weight doesn't lead to health problems, I see nothing wrong. ❤

  • @joleciahardin
    @joleciahardin 4 месяца назад +2

    And they are both attractive! He seems funny as hell too. And she matches well with that. Personality matters!! ❤ beautiful couple

  • @ricardosmithsr
    @ricardosmithsr 4 месяца назад +9

    Love his confidence! Salute my brother✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

  • @GIMMETHELOOTNOW
    @GIMMETHELOOTNOW 4 месяца назад +217

    He does 90% of everything??? Dude, you're in a 360 deal.

    • @Oksurejan
      @Oksurejan 4 месяца назад +66

      They were intentionally coming up with crazy things to say...😂😂

    • @ChrisTEAna43
      @ChrisTEAna43 4 месяца назад +7

      @@Oksurejanright lol

    • @cheefcuts
      @cheefcuts 4 месяца назад +1

      Lmfao

    • @jbva804
      @jbva804 4 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @peanuts4434
      @peanuts4434 4 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @Pointofviewdaily
    @Pointofviewdaily 3 месяца назад

    I am so happy they did this video because the video I saw of them I read into it. I was like he couldn’t be that blind to not see she is not that into you and he is a sweet guy. But to see that she is really into him and they both plan these things together and that they are a team is refreshing! His confidence is attractive and her support and love is even more attractive! Kudos to them!

  • @ryaneugenelawrencewalls1987
    @ryaneugenelawrencewalls1987 4 месяца назад +10

    Kobe seems like a real cool awesome guy like for real he is BIG but at least he'll do whatever it takes to be happy no doubt keep doing what you do man 0:37

  • @tobiaslawrence8928
    @tobiaslawrence8928 4 месяца назад +79

    This is so normal 😂 why is this even on here lol? Where I am I see couples like this all the time smh 🤣, usually the guy is bigger than the girl or the reverse it's not new. Dude's in the gym he's more like a weight lifter and he's not ugly lol

    • @kylawilliams5951
      @kylawilliams5951 4 месяца назад +4

      Thank youuuuuuu!!! I'm like WTH is a mixed weight relationship... yall just making ish up now 😂😂😂

    • @telayajackson2.023
      @telayajackson2.023 4 месяца назад

      Right. Never had a problem with weight. Those people who do are weird.

    • @ChrisTEAna43
      @ChrisTEAna43 4 месяца назад +1

      I know 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @clarencedolan699
      @clarencedolan699 4 месяца назад

      Where is this normal?

    • @dukingproductions4729
      @dukingproductions4729 4 месяца назад

      So normal … they present this as if it’s taboo

  • @CELSHORTS
    @CELSHORTS Месяц назад

    these videos are gonna make me cry its like i have no hope for myself because if how i look and then seeing all these people so happy and im just soooo happy for them and glad that they ffind love and compliment each others aura so well. awww these videos on this channel are too sweet. everyone deserves to be loved. god bless you guys

  • @thedailyfacts247
    @thedailyfacts247 4 месяца назад +45

    She told the truth at the end of the video. As long as that money keep coming she dont't care what anybody say. 😂

    • @batoolalansari7295
      @batoolalansari7295 4 месяца назад +2

      Point went over your head

    • @bigbiggsreaction5349
      @bigbiggsreaction5349 4 месяца назад +2

      Ain't she talking about the people who talk shit? Not him.

    • @Lizzloth
      @Lizzloth 4 месяца назад +5

      Stop gaslighting, cuz the context was understood

    • @notinonit
      @notinonit Месяц назад

      yall so weird

  • @separateifyoucantrelate.
    @separateifyoucantrelate. 4 месяца назад +27

    I had one big guy in my life and when he dumped my goofy tail self I wanted to cry. Love you still Big R!🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @Riqdakid
      @Riqdakid 4 месяца назад +1

      Awww it's ok

  • @lorainemorgan3905
    @lorainemorgan3905 4 месяца назад

    This is refreshing to see. She is being honest and they are adorable!❤

  • @sapphiresuperville7785
    @sapphiresuperville7785 4 месяца назад +11

    I highly relate to this couple because mine is the same way. I'm about 118 and my boyfriend is about 300 lbs but that doesn't matter to me because he is the best boyfriend A girl can ask for. Society is just cruel 💯

    • @azazello1784
      @azazello1784 4 месяца назад

      Are you serious? You can't be happy laying in bed with that.