Honestly, this is crazy because he’s not even an ugly dude, or unpleasant to look at he is well-kept and has awesome energy. I’m not seeing the problem.
Girl, my mom was a beautiful woman, and she avoided meeting by dad because he was large. Her sister encouraged her to just go out with him, and she did and never left him afterwards. They were married for over 50 years. When he died, she never was the same. At his grave, she said, " That is a good and great man gone." She loved him and he loved her.They had 7 successful children together.
Yeah.... As somebody who is queer and is in an interracial relationship, that really rubbed me the wrong way! Nobody is trying to unalive people who are not of the same weight and in a relationship, nobody's trying too legislate against their relationship. People are literally unalived, just for being queer, or for being in an interracial relationship. Ridiculous.
@@LifeisaBeautifulting weight loss is easy, that’s something lazy and undisciplined people say to remain fat, if your only bad quality is you being fat consider yourself lucky that’s one of the easier things to change, whereas if youre ugly in the face you’re kinda screwed.
@@LifeisaBeautifulting Weight loss is extremely easy. Only someone with no discipline will say otherwise. There is literally no difficulty in watching what you eat and getting on a treadmill smh
He seems like a sweetheart, there are many slim conventionally attractive men who are abusive, broke, cheaters, have destructive addictions or commitment-phobes. Character matters more
He’s really handsome. Crazy part is she can motivate him to get that weight down and then everyone will want him. The right person can mold you into a better version of yourself.
y'all will say it's ok until he starts getting health problems. It's not safe to be that big your entire life, he's fine now cause he's young, but what about later down the line?
Im in a mixed hair color relationship. It's been hard with all the stares and comments we get but we are strong and will make it through the awful life of having different hair colors.
A lot of them treat women better because they're desperate to have someone. So when they find someone, they're willing to do whatever it takes to keep that person. Not solely out of love but also out of insecurity.
He seems like a good dude. This "mixed weight" narrative is NOT a thing 😂😂. I'm glad he was able to get out of the friend zone though. Lord knows how tough that is
It matters how a man treats u more than he looks. I’m happy she found a man who loves her and treats her well. That’s love. ❤️ congrats and I wish yall both well.
They making shit up now, mixed weight wtf. So if someone who wears glasses, get into a relationship with someone who doesn’t wear glasses, they in a mixed eyesight relationship 😂😂😂😂
Kobe’s personality is A1!! He’s very likable. And he’s handsome. He has pretty teeth too. He’s great the way he is but if he lose weight people not ready for that !!
Weight aside, he is handsome. He looks like Reggie Bush in the face. He may be big but he is not ugly. People may have different types and he may be her type which is ok. NBD. Weight is also a fixable issue. It's not like he has a bad personality.
@@David-ky2nbno, I did not say that. This video is obviously based on his looks so my comment applied to his looks. If he had a bad personality she obviously wouldn’t be with him in the first place. Stop reaching
I mean i think it depends tbh, it just might've been a big deal to her just like everyone has something they don't like about their partner but they see past it because they love them. Thats how i look at it anyway
Girl! You are so blessed to have this big handsome teddy bear! This is my first time watching you guys videos, and I have subscribed to the channel, but the thing I see from the outside looking in, Is a man that is gentle, patient, and slow to anger! These are fruits of the spirit! Don’t worry about negative people, you young people be happy! Make sure you both always take care of each other, Mentally physically, and spiritually! God bless you both!❤
There are some miserable and unhappy people on this earth! Happy for this couple and pray this inspires others to stop being superficial and love others for who they are.
Fr. Nobody is trying to unalive them for their relationship and they don't have people legislating against their relationship in the same way an interracial or queer couple has and or will. Absolutely insane. What is even more sick, is they sound like Americans....and project 2025, is trying to illegalize, gay marriage. 💀
They are meant for each other, beyond body shape concern, which is bs. They have a great chemistry, you can feel it's not only for the video. They share the same humor, they are each other's best friend, you see love sparkling, nice body language, self confidence.... Great couple ! People should not judge. People are not meant to be only with people that look like them, everybody deserves happiness.
He's actually very handsome and has a great personality, and they both look pretty cute together! I really hope she's not playing with his heart or something..
His energy and confidence is extremely attractive!! He has a beautiful smile and his skin is amazing!!! I wish yall the best and I’m glad u didn’t allow anyone to stop ur blessings bc it seems like yall have a lot of fun together and that’s the best thing in life is to love but also like each other!!!
Woman got herself a real life bodyguard and teddy bear, she’s winning in life!🧸 He has a sweet queen, he is also winning in life!🥹🫡 May they have a wonderful blessed marriage and family!🙏❤️
This is not making any sense to me.... this looks normal to me... this world has people overthinking everything in the book...be happy... enjoy life.... live it to the fullest.
@@clarencedolan699 Up until about 12 years ago this WAS normal because women didn't care as much about a man's weight as long as he took care of himself and didn't look sloppy. Then when all the Superhero movies started coming out, women started wanting men that are built like the Avengers. But this is still mainly an American thing where women want fit men (when most of them aren't even fit themselves), in other countries it is normal to see big hefty men with small attractive women. Especially in Latin America.
@@RobotRebelCinema I couldn’t disagree with you more. I’m 53 years old, retired Navy and lived on 3 different continents. In my lifetime this has NEVER been normal. People who take care of themselves don’t want someone who doesn’t. They really don’t go for that abroad, because obesity is almost nonexistent in most places. America is by far the fattest country in the world, our poor people are fat. I’m sorry but people who’s saying this is normal are probably overweight themselves and this gives them hope that someone they’re attracted to will look past their unhealthy lifestyle.
@@liljc44life Very few football players are fat. The guys weighing 300 plus are usually 6’5 and taller. So no this isn’t a “football” build, this guy admitted he’s fat because he likes to eat, like all obese people do.
@@MrTwonetwoneyeah because there could be a lot behind the curtains she probably tortures dude mentally and like he sticks with her cuz he know he can’t get no better. You never know. But yeah a win is a win but at what costs😢😢
This being a topic of abnormal relationship is sad but people really get caught up in it. Go ahead and miss your blessing cuz you want to be shallow. I know a lot of ugly inside ppl that make them very unattractive. Love, respect, loyalty, togetherness, positivity, peace and laughter. Your energy speaks volumes in attractiveness. 💜
You can tell its genuine between them. Hes a cute teddy bear with a funny chill personality so it makes sense how putting out her male best friend ad got her her future husband. She looks proud to be with him, as she should
Best thing I've seen on YT this year. The friendship, love and respect they have for each other is great. It took me out when I saw them praying together. They've def got the right ingredients to stay married forever, and I'd expect nothing less. A special hat goes off to the young sister for not allowing anyone to sway her opinion of him. Shows that she has a mind of her own. God continue to bless your union. I'm rooting for you.
As a man do not let a woman that you’re attracted to put you in the friend zone let her know what’s your attentions are and if she rejects you then move on she’ll never respect a man thats willingly to accept being a second or third option
@@bigbiggsreaction5349 women don’t friend zone men that they are attracted to and women will settle for the simp who was waiting as a friend even though he wants her after she’s been played and ran through by the guys she truly wants
Well said. A man should let a woman know what his intentions are. I've once met a muslim man he was very pious. And the first time we talked he let me know his intentions..I respectfully declined cause I'm a practicing christian and want to marry a practicing christian also. But I respected and appreciated him for his honesty from the get go.
Don't you have to be friends with a woman first before getting in a relationship? How would you even know if you like a woman or not if you don't have a relationship with her? This not making sense to me..
SHE NEEDSTO STOP BASHING HIS WEIGHT!!! 😠 This is stupid though... every single person is in a mixed weight relationship. No one is the same weight as their partner 🤷♀️ over here throwing titles on everything! 🤦♀️🥴
I see your point💯, yet it isn't true. I have seen couples who weigh the same and have personal experience with it as well. I was a couple with someone for over ten years, and we both weighed the same, then and now. Although, I'm 5"5" and he is 5"11", and our body shapes are obviously not the same, so the weight is distributed differently. Our weight even fluctuated the same. He would say that he wasn't sure how he gained ten pounds, and I had to tell him it must be because I gained ten pounds.😅🤷🏾♀️✌🏽🦋
Kobe seems like a real cool awesome guy like for real he is BIG but at least he'll do whatever it takes to be happy no doubt keep doing what you do man 0:37
They look beautiful together. He is definitely handsome. If he decides to slim down and tone up, he will look outstanding! I can see it now. Wish them the best♥️
@@misssterling3094 I'm not bitter, I try to approach about 20 a week. In the past year I approached about 150. It can be emotionally draining to be honest.
The two of you make a great couple. Lady I'm glad you came to your senses, size does not mean anything because someone else was going to have him on their arm if you didn't capture your eye.Then it would have been to late because if he is your friend and he finds a girlfriend you would eventually have met her and seen the way he treats her, then you probably would be jealous. He treats you good, you look happy together, make it last, every relationship will have its ups and downs.
@@gregorybrown5419 Yeah it don't seem like she's treating him well. she could secretly be looking for another men hints why she would go on youtube advertising there relationship /herself
@@gregorybrown5419 shit man i been single since the day i came into this world hell if i need a women i just go and hire a women for personal use if you know what i mean lol 😎😎
Did she really say that his weight was the one thing that was stopping her from being with him? Man if you gotta convince any women to be attracted to you get out NOW
THANK YOU!!! I’m so sad I had to scroll that far to find a comment with common sense… just by reading the caption on this video it threw me completely off.
Did everyone just skip through that cause I heard exactly what you heard word for word.she is definitely settling. She is forcing herself to be attracted him.
@@realashandaatlarge That's kinda sad not gonna lie, imagine your wife telling everyone you're not her ideal man, you just fit the requirements, yikes...
Now days people have put labelsss.. on everything & everybody. There's just no more boyfriend & girlfriend relationship, husband & wife marriage, nor that you're just a female or a male. #SCRATCH EVERYTHING WE'VE LEARNED IN ENGLISH BECAUSE PRONOUNS ARE THE NEW NOUNS & HAVE TAKEN OVER.😂
Does anyone find it concerning that her whole vibe towards the situation seems like “I love him despite his weight” 💀 it’s sad to feel like you have to compensate for something about yourself when there’s nothing wrong with you in the first place. There are certainly women out there who will not need to look past his size to be head over heels. Not shading their relationship tho they seem happy and like a good pair.
I noticed that also. Then remember they are young, part of the online generation and are social media. The world has told us that its unhealthy and the person could die on us. There are plenty overweight people that are physically attractive. It can be overlooked because of the stigma
No everyone questioning their relationship is jealous or insecure. I've been married for over 30 yrs and they have NOTHING I want or need. My concern is whether or not she's with him because she genuinely cares about him. Or is she with him because of the attention. Or the fact she knows he'll put up with her mess because she can do better but he can't.
He's your gentle giant and keep loving every bit of it❤❤❤❤. You have a personal teddy bear and a bodyguard, people will always hate and project their insecurities onto others. I love how confident he is 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
He’s not ugly, he looks attractive. The low key if I was her I would help him get in shape and get on a healthy diet. That is something simple that they can fix on their own.
I was cheesing the entire time I was watching this video! They are so cute and they have beautiful smiles. I don’t see why people have an issue with this couple-they respect and love each other. That’s all you really need right?😊
I highly relate to this couple because mine is the same way. I'm about 118 and my boyfriend is about 300 lbs but that doesn't matter to me because he is the best boyfriend A girl can ask for. Society is just cruel 💯
He is confident and has a great personality!!! I absolutely understand why they are together because she is confident and has a great personality. They seem like they have so much fun as it should be. Friendship is the key to romance 👏🏾
He doesn't deserve the shame she puts on him - she literally defines their relationship through his weight calling it a "mixed weight relationship". She thinks she's so much better than him.
This is so normal 😂 why is this even on here lol? Where I am I see couples like this all the time smh 🤣, usually the guy is bigger than the girl or the reverse it's not new. Dude's in the gym he's more like a weight lifter and he's not ugly lol
From one big man to the next so you big bro, proud of you. To this young lady, I love how you closed your eyes and opened your heart now you see that true love is blind. An he ain’t ugly, he is a handsome brother like myself which is why although being big have always had a beautiful woman on my arm. I wish y’all much happiness in the future!
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WTF is a "mixed weight" relationship? All these labels for what's been normal for centuries are ridiculous.
Lol a relationship with labels
the west is done for😅
Girrrrllllll!!! I came here to say the same thing
Yeah, I've never heard of it.
😅😅😅 My first thought was they just want some attention with that phrase. Come on man!! Mixed weight 😂😂😂
She wears glasses and I have perfect vision. We're in a mixed sight relationship 😂
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If he were balding, would it be a "mixed follicular" relationship? 🤔
Mixed hair lmao
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Right bc this label is dumb af
Honestly, this is crazy because he’s not even an ugly dude, or unpleasant to look at he is well-kept and has awesome energy. I’m not seeing the problem.
Me neither. I think they are cute together.
The problem is that he’s too fat
I agree ppl are just horrible these days
Me neither
Me either! They look good together
He's an attractive big guy. Nothing weird about this couple at all.
very much so
I agree! And I pray that I look past peoples weight too because we are such superficial humans !
That part!! He is handsome so it makes sense
But they are pretending so they can get on the internet. So lets play along and pretend that we never seen fat people before.
He’s definitely chocolate and handsome
Girl, my mom was a beautiful woman, and she avoided meeting by dad because he was large. Her sister encouraged her to just go out with him, and she did and never left him afterwards. They were married for over 50 years. When he died, she never was the same. At his grave, she said, " That is a good and great man gone." She loved him and he loved her.They had 7 successful children together.
Wow 😢
beautiful story
Absolutely amazing!
I’m a petite woman but I don’t mind a little gush gush lol.
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If that Bro was in the NFL this wouldn't be an issue, now would it!!
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This isn't even an odd couple. Just a guy who's happy in love with a woman who also found true love.
This is literally the average couple. Mixed weight relationship? They slap a label on everything...
For real. Both are attractive.
I know. It doesn't matter nor does it make any sense
Yeah.... As somebody who is queer and is in an interracial relationship, that really rubbed me the wrong way! Nobody is trying to unalive people who are not of the same weight and in a relationship, nobody's trying too legislate against their relationship.
People are literally unalived, just for being queer, or for being in an interracial relationship.
Ridiculous.
@@tezsginoYeah right. She's kinda cute, but he is definitely not attractive. I would give her 6 out of 10 and I would give him 2.5 out of 10.
Dawg frfr
He looks like a really good guy. You can always lose weight, but people with good intentions are hard to find.
They’ve been together for so long and he has yet to lose weight lol
Not saying you're wrong but you can't always "just lose weight" weight loss is actually very difficult
@@LifeisaBeautifulting weight loss is easy, that’s something lazy and undisciplined people say to remain fat, if your only bad quality is you being fat consider yourself lucky that’s one of the easier things to change, whereas if youre ugly in the face you’re kinda screwed.
@@LifeisaBeautifulting Weight loss is extremely easy. Only someone with no discipline will say otherwise. There is literally no difficulty in watching what you eat and getting on a treadmill smh
Amen👏🏽
You know it’s so sad that this is even a topic what a shallow world we live in. This man is a human being, period!!!!
No man is GOD. But sometimes we all need to find something for other not just ourselves so I hope you truly ment what you said.
@@TICKON8713Wtf are you talking about
@LifeisaBeautifulting 🤣🤣🤣 I read it like 3 times, thought it was me 😅
Its a topic because she’s using him for clout. Just like girls who post their 80yr old boyfriend its all shock value.
@@ma.2733 for anyone life is all about what one can live with. or, bear. value over conscience?😱LOVE is blind? 😱
He seems like a sweetheart, there are many slim conventionally attractive men who are abusive, broke, cheaters, have destructive addictions or commitment-phobes. Character matters more
Me ...attractive narcissistic divorced 6'6 and was addicted tometh 'clean 8 years ...BACK ON THE THEONE
He’s really handsome. Crazy part is she can motivate him to get that weight down and then everyone will want him. The right person can mold you into a better version of yourself.
This!
@@naomiolutayo mold him.. I can tell you are a control freak
Bruh if this nigga is handsome then every nigga is handsome
Right!! He’s VERY handsome. If he loses weight the women will flock.
Thats not her job to motivate him, he should have do it the first thing, when she initially rejected him because of weight
His PERSONALITY is golden! He’s attractive; just large and it’s ok‼️‼️
No it's not 😭
He needs to lose weight
She’s using his dumbzz to get to this point. Women will do alot for clout and attention. Now that she’s getting some views it’s over for buddy smh
It's ok until you are in a bed with that fat sweaty meatloaf.
y'all will say it's ok until he starts getting health problems. It's not safe to be that big your entire life, he's fine now cause he's young, but what about later down the line?
Kobe's confidence is very attractive. He and Lexie are a beautiful couple.
It’s horrible he needs a woman who isn’t going to treat him like garbage
@@steveStonehedge They were just joking with each other. They were also good friends before they started dating.
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@@eikichionizuka2206 Whatever
YES, HE IS VERY ATTRACTIVE MAN and both of them are very blessed to have one another and i wish them all success that God has instore for them.
Bro, all you need is confidence. Nothing wrong with this brother. Don't let anyone make you feel less than.
Im in a mixed hair color relationship. It's been hard with all the stares and comments we get but we are strong and will make it through the awful life of having different hair colors.
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He’s so handsome and he look so well kept…what’s not to like? Big guys usually treat their woman the BEST. I know from experience
A lot of them treat women better because they're desperate to have someone. So when they find someone, they're willing to do whatever it takes to keep that person. Not solely out of love but also out of insecurity.
Would you date him?
@@willster1863 absolutely. He seems fun, romantic, respectful and he’s not ugly. Would you?
This is true, my best friend married a guy like this and treated her like a queen!
They’re on the same lvl looks wise. Nothing strange about their relationship
He seems like a good dude. This "mixed weight" narrative is NOT a thing 😂😂.
I'm glad he was able to get out of the friend zone though. Lord knows how tough that is
"Mixed weight" is supposedly not a real thing but "friend zone" is? Both are made up terms that mean nothing
Exactly! Not a thing at all 😂😂😂
Definitely not a thing.
She using this dude
@@lastdragonx Clear as day bro! 🎯😂
It matters how a man treats u more than he looks. I’m happy she found a man who loves her and treats her well. That’s love. ❤️ congrats and I wish yall both well.
@@angelinahunt916 well said Angelina, by the way, may I say you are gorgeous. I hope you have found your man that treats you well like he should.
If not, maybe let's talk.
They making shit up now, mixed weight wtf. So if someone who wears glasses, get into a relationship with someone who doesn’t wear glasses, they in a mixed eyesight relationship 😂😂😂😂
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Or the man work is a truck driver and the woman is a teacher it’s a mixed job relationship people say dumb stuff 😂😂😂
@@ShayWilliam341 exactly 😂😂
I lost my drink! 😢 and I wear glasses 👓
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Mixed weight relationship is one of the nuttiest things I have EVER heard
Kobe’s personality is A1!! He’s very likable. And he’s handsome. He has pretty teeth too. He’s great the way he is but if he lose weight people not ready for that !!
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Period cause he's definitely handsome
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No such thing as a mixed weight relationship. YOU TWO ARE GREAT PEOPLE THAT LOVE EACH OTHER. PERIOD. IT IS BEAUTIFUL. GOD BLESS YOU TWO CONTINUOUSLY.
See what happens when you are real friends first and follow your heart, not society's rules. I wish them all the love and happiness.
Weight aside, he is handsome. He looks like Reggie Bush in the face. He may be big but he is not ugly. People may have different types and he may be her type which is ok. NBD. Weight is also a fixable issue. It's not like he has a bad personality.
Yesssssa he does. If he loses weight, do they drop the label lmbo
Are you suggesting personality is fixed and can't be changed?
@@David-ky2nbno, I did not say that. This video is obviously based on his looks so my comment applied to his looks. If he had a bad personality she obviously wouldn’t be with him in the first place. Stop reaching
@@neonpandas what do you mean? Your comment implied weight is changeable but personality is not. Did I misunderstand you?
@@David-ky2nbthat’s how you interpreted it. I bluntly just told you my intended meaning. There is no further discussion.
If someone has to "see past" a person, that's not ideal to me.
Thank you
I mean i think it depends tbh, it just might've been a big deal to her just like everyone has something they don't like about their partner but they see past it because they love them. Thats how i look at it anyway
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@@briannaex8627 exactly you got that right
Yeah I agree
Girl! You are so blessed to have this big handsome teddy bear! This is my first time watching you guys videos, and I have subscribed to the channel, but the thing I see from the outside looking in, Is a man that is gentle, patient, and slow to anger! These are fruits of the spirit! Don’t worry about negative people, you young people be happy! Make sure you both always take care of each other, Mentally physically, and spiritually! God bless you both!❤
Size is variable, BUT a person’s character is not! Many blessings to you both🫶🏾
For sure…Someone can have a beautiful/handsome face but if they got an ugly soul then it affects their appearance to me!
I was with a plus size man for 11 years he was handsome too. My mom told me I could've done better but she didn't have a man so I just brushed it off.
Mic drop. My mother tries to shade people's relationship and I'm like you haven't had a man in decades and when you did you had bad taste so bye.
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“I just stopped seeing him so big “ wow
Why is he even settling for her like come on dude
@@lamfel_fitnesshe thinks this is the best he can get smh
I mean at least she admitted she finally saw him for his personality more than his looks
It’s fake DUH
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There are some miserable and unhappy people on this earth! Happy for this couple and pray this inspires others to stop being superficial and love others for who they are.
I had to rewind to see if she was really saying “mixed weight relationship”😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
I thought she said "mixed-race", like she's biracial. I don't know.
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Fr. Nobody is trying to unalive them for their relationship and they don't have people legislating against their relationship in the same way an interracial or queer couple has and or will.
Absolutely insane. What is even more sick, is they sound like Americans....and project 2025, is trying to illegalize, gay marriage. 💀
Yea slow as 💩
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He’s doing the most to keep her happy. I hope she’s not playing with him.
Same
It feels like she is
You hope? 😂 she playing him for an absolute fool.
Imo, it seems more like he would change up if or when he loses weight
If she is, it will catch up to her... best wishes for them though
She said she 'just stopped seeing him so big' because she got used to seeing him. Bro lol thats not a compliment
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She stop seeing him so big and started looking at the bag
What bag, they were in high school lol
They are meant for each other, beyond body shape concern, which is bs. They have a great chemistry, you can feel it's not only for the video. They share the same humor, they are each other's best friend, you see love sparkling, nice body language, self confidence.... Great couple ! People should not judge. People are not meant to be only with people that look like them, everybody deserves happiness.
He's actually very handsome and has a great personality, and they both look pretty cute together! I really hope she's not playing with his heart or something..
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Damn am I ugly then?
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His size shouldn’t be as important as the love he gives you, Wish you guys well! ❤❤❤
Love=$$$
He seems like a good dude, ain't nothing abnormal about this relationship.
His energy and confidence is extremely attractive!! He has a beautiful smile and his skin is amazing!!! I wish yall the best and I’m glad u didn’t allow anyone to stop ur blessings bc it seems like yall have a lot of fun together and that’s the best thing in life is to love but also like each other!!!
This woman being like "eventually I stopped looking at his features and decided Id be with him"
The fuck!?
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He was her last option when her other relationships didn’t work out.
Only ever was in one other relationship
The disrespect lol
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Woman got herself a real life bodyguard and teddy bear, she’s winning in life!🧸
He has a sweet queen, he is also winning in life!🥹🫡
May they have a wonderful blessed marriage and family!🙏❤️
Marriage is unnecessary, but everything else I agree with
I lost mine 😢😢😢😢 I was young and stupid
He is handsome. A beautiful smile, personality, dresses nice, seems to be committed and loving… I fail to see the problem.
I like her honesty. She loves him you can tell!!!❤❤❤
This is not making any sense to me.... this looks normal to me... this world has people overthinking everything in the book...be happy... enjoy life.... live it to the fullest.
This is not normal, and all of you know it.
@@clarencedolan699It looks pretty normal to me. Go outside and see the World. He has a football build and he’s bench pressing 300+lbs..
@@clarencedolan699 Up until about 12 years ago this WAS normal because women didn't care as much about a man's weight as long as he took care of himself and didn't look sloppy. Then when all the Superhero movies started coming out, women started wanting men that are built like the Avengers. But this is still mainly an American thing where women want fit men (when most of them aren't even fit themselves), in other countries it is normal to see big hefty men with small attractive women. Especially in Latin America.
@@RobotRebelCinema I couldn’t disagree with you more. I’m 53 years old, retired Navy and lived on 3 different continents. In my lifetime this has NEVER been normal. People who take care of themselves don’t want someone who doesn’t. They really don’t go for that abroad, because obesity is almost nonexistent in most places. America is by far the fattest country in the world, our poor people are fat. I’m sorry but people who’s saying this is normal are probably overweight themselves and this gives them hope that someone they’re attracted to will look past their unhealthy lifestyle.
@@liljc44life Very few football players are fat. The guys weighing 300 plus are usually 6’5 and taller. So no this isn’t a “football” build, this guy admitted he’s fat because he likes to eat, like all obese people do.
I’m done mixed weight wtf
Yeah no such thing people can be with WHOEVA, they want to be with.
SAME 😂😂😂
Facts! What is that? Mixed weight that not a thing. Why do we label everything?
I’m in a mixed income relationship 😢
Right, people be making up labels for relationships smh.
As a big man (currently) myself. I am happy for my guy! He found his Queen and she is happy too! Thats all that matters
How many slim girlfriends have you had? You know first hand this is not normal.
@@clarencedolan699 look man....A WIN IS A WIN
@@DangersVoicethis is not winning bro, he’s getting mentally F’d
@@MrTwonetwoneyeah because there could be a lot behind the curtains she probably tortures dude mentally and like he sticks with her cuz he know he can’t get no better. You never know. But yeah a win is a win but at what costs😢😢
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This being a topic of abnormal relationship is sad but people really get caught up in it. Go ahead and miss your blessing cuz you want to be shallow. I know a lot of ugly inside ppl that make them very unattractive. Love, respect, loyalty, togetherness, positivity, peace and laughter. Your energy speaks volumes in attractiveness. 💜
You can tell its genuine between them. Hes a cute teddy bear with a funny chill personality so it makes sense how putting out her male best friend ad got her her future husband. She looks proud to be with him, as she should
Lol boy stop
Best thing I've seen on YT this year. The friendship, love and respect they have for each other is great. It took me out when I saw them praying together. They've def got the right ingredients to stay married forever, and I'd expect nothing less. A special hat goes off to the young sister for not allowing anyone to sway her opinion of him. Shows that she has a mind of her own. God continue to bless your union. I'm rooting for you.
As a man do not let a woman that you’re attracted to put you in the friend zone let her know what’s your attentions are and if she rejects you then move on she’ll never respect a man thats willingly to accept being a second or third option
Big facts! 💯
Why? Because I saw a lot of guys who were friends with women. The latest down the long became a couple and happily married.
@@bigbiggsreaction5349 women don’t friend zone men that they are attracted to and women will settle for the simp who was waiting as a friend even though he wants her after she’s been played and ran through by the guys she truly wants
Well said. A man should let a woman know what his intentions are. I've once met a muslim man he was very pious. And the first time we talked he let me know his intentions..I respectfully declined cause I'm a practicing christian and want to marry a practicing christian also. But I respected and appreciated him for his honesty from the get go.
Don't you have to be friends with a woman first before getting in a relationship? How would you even know if you like a woman or not if you don't have a relationship with her? This not making sense to me..
Why there is even a conversation about this...what is a mix weight relationship?
Because it sounds crazy. 😢🤔
He’s very handsome and she’s beautiful…
Ok, let's put his pic on tinder and see how he does, or have him approach a 100 women.
@@David-ky2nbbro she’s just trying to be positive 😂 we all know this girl is using him
@@MrTwonetwonehow the hell is she using him? He’s an attractive guy, he’s just tall and big. If he lose weight, you won’t say shyt else.
@@AmberSumerall ok , but what position, he putting her in...She probably riding...maybe he gets on top, IDK
@@David-ky2nbFacts!!!
He’s an attractive guy! Relationships are better when it starts as friendship!
SHE NEEDSTO STOP BASHING HIS WEIGHT!!! 😠
This is stupid though... every single person is in a mixed weight relationship.
No one is the same weight as their partner 🤷♀️ over here throwing titles on everything! 🤦♀️🥴
No fr 😂. Literally no one 😂
Definitely true
I see your point💯, yet it isn't true. I have seen couples who weigh the same and have personal experience with it as well. I was a couple with someone for over ten years, and we both weighed the same, then and now. Although, I'm 5"5" and he is 5"11", and our body shapes are obviously not the same, so the weight is distributed differently. Our weight even fluctuated the same. He would say that he wasn't sure how he gained ten pounds, and I had to tell him it must be because I gained ten pounds.😅🤷🏾♀️✌🏽🦋
What’s a mixed weight I don’t get it. Just cause he’s bigger ? Does the mix part have anything to do w what mixed race is??
Everything
They are so sweet together...i like that they worked on a friendship before they started dating. ❤
They smart af they using other folks insecurities to make money lmao I love this couple ALREADY...CUS THATS YALL FAULT😂❤
Charmaine, this is the art of keeping haters enthralled and captivated . Make 'em coins
@@PHlophe Exactly so clever
Hes cute and his smile is sweet. All the best.
Money cant buy Love
What? The guy is paying for her apartment and working 70 hours a week.
@@David-ky2nbexactly 😅
People are jealous. You guys look happy and thats all that matters. May God bless you both.
They both seem so genuine and in love! May they continue to enjoy their relationship and be happy ❤
I’m glad y’all posted because that shows that she’s is a real woman and she love him for him
Mixed weight?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
OK, internet. You finally got me. 30 years online, but you finally got me. I'm out✌🏼
They cute!! I think it actually worked in both their favors that they were friends first. They got to know each other and that’s real! I love that! ❤
He's a handsome big papi. He deserves all the love ❤️ ❤❤.
Its the confidence for me. Makes him even More attractive His a great personality Huge warm smile Not a thing wrong with him
Kobe seems like a real cool awesome guy like for real he is BIG but at least he'll do whatever it takes to be happy no doubt keep doing what you do man 0:37
They look beautiful together. He is definitely handsome. If he decides to slim down and tone up, he will look outstanding! I can see it now. Wish them the best♥️
Absolutely Love y’all’s attitudes! Stay strong 💯🙌🏾
I know plenty of big dudes that be pulling em in. It's all about confidence
I approach women confidently all the time it hasnt worked for me.
Exactly 💯
@@David-ky2nb Its all in divine timing. Be patient and don't become bitter.
@@misssterling3094 I'm not bitter, I try to approach about 20 a week. In the past year I approached about 150.
It can be emotionally draining to be honest.
@@David-ky2nbaw, sorry to hear that... it's hard for women sometimes too. Well, for this woman, it has been lol.
I've always been attracted to larger men. I used to get teased in high school for dating a bigger guy, but I couldn't have cared less!😊
That's your preference sis❤pray you get a good man who loves n value you ❤
This is an everyday thing. Nothing shocking about this. You love who you love.
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The two of you make a great couple. Lady I'm glad you came to your senses, size does not mean anything because someone else was going to have him on their arm if you didn't capture your eye.Then it would have been to late because if he is your friend and he finds a girlfriend you would eventually have met her and seen the way he treats her, then you probably would be jealous. He treats you good, you look happy together, make it last, every relationship will have its ups and downs.
He's handsome. His weight doesn't matter, as long as he's treating her well.
Each other well
@@gregorybrown5419 Yeah it don't seem like she's treating him well. she could secretly be looking for another men hints why she would go on youtube advertising there relationship /herself
@mysteriesphanto3528 Don't know! Glad I'm single tho. Enjoy my peace
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@@gregorybrown5419 shit man i been single since the day i came into this world hell if i need a women i just go and hire a women for personal use if you know what i mean lol 😎😎
Jacobb is extremely handsome. She is very blessed indeed to have him.
Did she really say that his weight was the one thing that was stopping her from being with him? Man if you gotta convince any women to be attracted to you get out NOW
Are you telling me that men would be totally cool with a chick of similar size? The mental gymnastics of men are truly mind boggling.
THANK YOU!!! I’m so sad I had to scroll that far to find a comment with common sense… just by reading the caption on this video it threw me completely off.
Did everyone just skip through that cause I heard exactly what you heard word for word.she is definitely settling. She is forcing herself to be attracted him.
@@lolaamazonia5218She is. I did. But my husband has qualities most men today lack, like loyalty and godliness.
@@realashandaatlarge That's kinda sad not gonna lie, imagine your wife telling everyone you're not her ideal man, you just fit the requirements, yikes...
It's great when you see two young people at peace and enjoying one another.
Mixed weight relationship😂do people really say that🥴if so it’s ignorant asf
😂. Slim it’s a different world now.
Right? Can people date each other without getting a label specially about something that can change if he wants to 😵
Now days people have put labelsss.. on everything & everybody. There's just no more boyfriend & girlfriend relationship, husband & wife marriage, nor that you're just a female or a male. #SCRATCH EVERYTHING WE'VE LEARNED IN ENGLISH BECAUSE PRONOUNS ARE THE NEW NOUNS & HAVE TAKEN OVER.😂
It's just made for tv
@@bulletproof4986 it’s ridiculous
He does 90% of everything??? Dude, you're in a 360 deal.
They were intentionally coming up with crazy things to say...😂😂
@@Oksurejanright lol
Lmfao
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Does anyone find it concerning that her whole vibe towards the situation seems like “I love him despite his weight” 💀 it’s sad to feel like you have to compensate for something about yourself when there’s nothing wrong with you in the first place. There are certainly women out there who will not need to look past his size to be head over heels. Not shading their relationship tho they seem happy and like a good pair.
I noticed that to.. it was mildy cringy listening..but hey if they are u happy ..I'm happy❤
I noticed that also. Then remember they are young, part of the online generation and are social media. The world has told us that its unhealthy and the person could die on us. There are plenty overweight people that are physically attractive. It can be overlooked because of the stigma
Nothing wrong with him? Did you not see his shirtless in the water? That man needs a bra
@@thecly9245they look maybe late 20s at most
@@thecly9245it has nothing to do age it could be anybody
1:06 The way he looks at her 😭💓
I see absolutely nothing wrong.
I love how they say grace together too.
As long as his weight doesn't lead to health problems, I see nothing wrong. ❤
Mixed weight relationship?
That’s dramatic af.
they are beautiful together, people that hates are extremely jealous and insecure
No everyone questioning their relationship is jealous or insecure. I've been married for over 30 yrs and they have NOTHING I want or need. My concern is whether or not she's with him because she genuinely cares about him. Or is she with him because of the attention. Or the fact she knows he'll put up with her mess because she can do better but he can't.
He's your gentle giant and keep loving every bit of it❤❤❤❤. You have a personal teddy bear and a bodyguard, people will always hate and project their insecurities onto others. I love how confident he is 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
Love his confidence! Salute my brother✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
She told the truth at the end of the video. As long as that money keep coming she dont't care what anybody say. 😂
Point went over your head
Ain't she talking about the people who talk shit? Not him.
Stop gaslighting, cuz the context was understood
yall so weird
He’s not ugly, he looks attractive. The low key if I was her I would help him get in shape and get on a healthy diet. That is something simple that they can fix on their own.
I was cheesing the entire time I was watching this video! They are so cute and they have beautiful smiles. I don’t see why people have an issue with this couple-they respect and love each other. That’s all you really need right?😊
He works 70 hrs for her like naaaa
Dude not ugly just big and from the looks of it he got swag … 💯💯
Also dude seem down to earth and chill 💯
Hope them the best 💯
I highly relate to this couple because mine is the same way. I'm about 118 and my boyfriend is about 300 lbs but that doesn't matter to me because he is the best boyfriend A girl can ask for. Society is just cruel 💯
Are you serious? You can't be happy laying in bed with that.
He is confident and has a great personality!!! I absolutely understand why they are together because she is confident and has a great personality. They seem like they have so much fun as it should be. Friendship is the key to romance 👏🏾
If a person is good to you what does it matter the size.
He bagged a cutie because he has a genuine heart. End of story
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Lol yea ok
She gave him more confidence I hope he continues to treat her well for going against the odds
What??
Are you reading what you wrote?
Jakobi IS BOMB! I SEE Y SHE FELL IN LOVE❤ hE is handsome, confident,can dress ,is respectful, i seen him praying with her..SHE IS WINNING WITH HIM
He is attractive he just big...I think you guys are a cute couple
He doesn't deserve the shame she puts on him - she literally defines their relationship through his weight calling it a "mixed weight relationship". She thinks she's so much better than him.
This is so normal 😂 why is this even on here lol? Where I am I see couples like this all the time smh 🤣, usually the guy is bigger than the girl or the reverse it's not new. Dude's in the gym he's more like a weight lifter and he's not ugly lol
Thank youuuuuuu!!! I'm like WTH is a mixed weight relationship... yall just making ish up now 😂😂😂
Right. Never had a problem with weight. Those people who do are weird.
I know 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Where is this normal?
So normal … they present this as if it’s taboo
From one big man to the next so you big bro, proud of you. To this young lady, I love how you closed your eyes and opened your heart now you see that true love is blind. An he ain’t ugly, he is a handsome brother like myself which is why although being big have always had a beautiful woman on my arm. I wish y’all much happiness in the future!