5 Ways Men and Women Look At Beauty Differently

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  • @universalsubliminals1174
    @universalsubliminals1174 Год назад +495

    would love to see a video on what femininity looks like for different races!

    • @Laura-dn1zx
      @Laura-dn1zx Год назад +19

      He already made a video about breaking down the whole biological beauty of women, but if you want cultural then he talks briefly in many other videos each one of the 3 most "famous races", I guess that's what you'd call? Idk lol, but just search and you'll easily find them

    • @universalsubliminals1174
      @universalsubliminals1174 Год назад +26

      @@Laura-dn1zx i think ive seen that one, but i mean more in the sense of how each race - especially if in their native countries - view femininity because the feminine ideals he describes tend to be very western/white, so i'd be interested in knowing how femininity and estrogen manifests in different races

    • @Laura-dn1zx
      @Laura-dn1zx Год назад +9

      @@universalsubliminals1174 oh I understand. That's probably gonna be hard because it's really specific, and if he talks about the biggest countries like USA and Brazil where it's basically a melting pot of races, it's gonna be pretty hard 😂. But hey, it's really easy to find other channels that talk about that and have good quality videos. This morning I was actually watching one about Korea, lol

    • @martybuffalini
      @martybuffalini Год назад +1

      Lmaooooo

    • @ThatOneUglyLightskin
      @ThatOneUglyLightskin Год назад +1

      The exact same for black people at least.

  • @BitchChill
    @BitchChill Год назад +352

    From what I've noticed men rate each other based on how intimidating they look

    • @thatguywatchingyou9549
      @thatguywatchingyou9549 Год назад +158

      yeah i agree with this, alot of men highly rate the muscular man + bald + thick beard combo when ive pretty much never seen a woman say that she likes it.

    • @levipoops
      @levipoops Год назад +27

      @@thatguywatchingyou9549 not bald

    • @archnekro4269
      @archnekro4269 Год назад +21

      @@AlexClayland1232 there is a difference between masculinity, ugly, intimidating looks, and scary looking. I Believe Quasimodo is scary and intimidating in women's eyes while not in men's eyes

    • @archnekro4269
      @archnekro4269 Год назад +7

      @@AlexClayland1232 see? exactly. that's why i said there is a difference between masculinity, ugly, intimidating looks, and scary looking

    • @crabb9966
      @crabb9966 Год назад

      Not entirely true but that's one element

  • @narongroad7916
    @narongroad7916 Год назад +325

    This is a theory, but it does seem that the more masculine the person the more feminine they prefer their partner. The closer to the middle the person is the more variable their preferences
    This is especially the case with men

    • @helvete_ingres4717
      @helvete_ingres4717 Год назад +83

      it's not really a theory; that's been observed for centuries at least. It's pretty obvious - the most powerful way to think of attraction is that we're attracted to people who outwardly display traits that in ourselves are repressed

    • @bigpapi6688
      @bigpapi6688 Год назад +13

      @@helvete_ingres4717 so how does this explain my attraction to Shego from Kimpossible??

    • @taurus7911
      @taurus7911 Год назад +20

      @@bigpapi6688 you’re basic

    • @bigpapi6688
      @bigpapi6688 Год назад +32

      @@taurus7911 if wanting a goth cartoon girl is basic then I don’t wanna be complex

    • @qasimimtiaz9668
      @qasimimtiaz9668 Год назад

      true

  • @howcanyoudothistome1
    @howcanyoudothistome1 Год назад +417

    This is an interesting topic . I've said for a while that men and women view attractiveness differently, this theory stemmed from my high school experience. There was always a girl that all the guys fancied, but the girls (me included) saw nothing special about. It had nothing to do with jealousy, but a genuine and confusing observation. A girl that 'other' girls deemed attracted was never seen as that attractive by the guys. I've always been confused about my perceived attractiveness as I feel I have a gender balanced 'positive' feedback. However, I think my face leans towards men finding it more attractive than women do.

    • @monozone9696
      @monozone9696 Год назад +85

      Same experience. I am a men. Men think I am attractive. Women think I am ugly.

    • @infinityboom1842
      @infinityboom1842 Год назад +42

      @@monozone9696 male and female gaze perhaps

    • @ocelot9643
      @ocelot9643 Год назад +79

      I've seen this as well, on social media too I've noticed men go crazy over, to me, very plain looking women you could find anywhere

    • @paolafei6794
      @paolafei6794 Год назад +5

      Same!! We also had a conversation about this with some men colleagues about actresses.

    • @user-xd3rb1fm5z
      @user-xd3rb1fm5z Год назад +3

      Sei italiana ? Hai chiesto ai tuoi colleghi se valutano una donna soprattutto per il fisico (come mi sembra), o se guardano il viso ?

  • @eeva1475
    @eeva1475 Год назад +82

    An aspect that probably influences these types of studies is that the test subjects for psychology research often are psychology students. Which means that the studied group has gone through a pre-selection: participants tend to be in their 20's, are more towards the intelligent end of IQ spectrum & come usually from middle-class or higher socio-economic background. I also wonder about the cultural differences - would a research done in Thailand or Sudan yield the same results as the same research done in th USA?
    For an average video-wiever it is almost impossible to make an assesment about how well the study was done or how comprehensive it's scope was. Many of the psychology results haven't been able to be replicated - or the results are much murkier than the cut-clean interpretation given to the public. Psychology is a really complicated field of study!

  • @andie6766
    @andie6766 Год назад +170

    Can you make a video on attractiveness due to exposure? like, how people get attracted to certain facial features after being exposed to ppl w different facial features for a while, like after moving countries

    • @az0963818
      @az0963818 Год назад +8

      That's a really good topic idea!

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Год назад +26

      I was in the Marines and we were on a Navy ship for months and there were literally 3 women on it. That's it. None of them were attractive but after a few weeks out at sea and I was lusting hard for all of them lol

    • @travis1271
      @travis1271 Год назад +39

      @@Aaron-kj8dv that’s called being down bad

    • @sakurazukamorisubaru
      @sakurazukamorisubaru Год назад +10

      Cool story: when I started to get into K-pop and k-dramas, I was like "oh, I like this ugly one" from the members of a group, or drama cast. And then I found out that this person is actually in charge of visuals of the group. So of course I liked him. Everyone likes him.
      Although logically my brain was used to see men with different facial features as attractive, it still worked objectively. Emotionally I chose that person, who was considered attractive by a lot of other people.

    • @beethedead
      @beethedead Год назад +5

      Love this as a topic bc proximity has been found to correlate to attraction.

  • @HaHaHaLMFAOtv
    @HaHaHaLMFAOtv Год назад +19

    it's funny. I see couples that are not aesthetically attractive but they seem to be happy together. then I see attractive people who seem to be more lonely than others and can't find partner for long term even with all the looks

  • @nskfsr
    @nskfsr Год назад +172

    I'm a girl but I love feminine delicate facial features for both men and women (V shaped sharp jawline, small chin, small nose, small pouty mouth). Men with hyper masculine face (such as big strong jaw) look old and unattractive to me. Just my opinion but I'm pretty sure there are tons of other people who think the opposite.

    • @mynew6972
      @mynew6972 Год назад +59

      Wait until you grow out of your teen years and you will think differently. That's why kpop is so popular with the teen girls.

    • @Cherubim6166
      @Cherubim6166 Год назад +28

      @@mynew6972 are u a girl?

    • @miso__soup
      @miso__soup Год назад +119

      @@mynew6972 Nah, just accept that not everyone finds you attractive.

    • @saskilla1945
      @saskilla1945 Год назад

      i see you would still like a wide jaw? like with nice flared gonia but small noose and chin yes?

    • @lesgibson969
      @lesgibson969 Год назад +26

      you're probably between 15 - 19 that's why

  • @thelaw557
    @thelaw557 Год назад +5

    So glad I watched until the end! I’ve been watching on a video about gay beauty/attraction and relationships.

  • @T-19-
    @T-19- Год назад +12

    Do a video on beauty spots / marks. That’ll be interesting.

  • @bellissimajis678
    @bellissimajis678 Год назад

    Thanks a lot, great work and information

  • @lizardmutt
    @lizardmutt Год назад +9

    Could you do an analysis on Leonard Nimoy (Spock from Star Trek)? He was an icon at the time and it would be cool to include some classic faces, especially since he has very unusual and interesting features. Same goes with David Bowie.

  • @myaduro
    @myaduro Год назад

    Thanks for sharing ❤❤

  • @melanylarsson9006
    @melanylarsson9006 Год назад +18

    I always prefer masculine men it seems, the whole month BUT my style (fashion and interior design) changes from soft/feminine to more clean/sleek throughout the month 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @dd-uf9nw
    @dd-uf9nw Год назад +34

    Do developing nations, developed nations and underdeveloped nations have different beauty standards or some of these nations emphasize money , social prestige over physical attractiveness.

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 Год назад

      The more poor the country is the more masculine men are seen as attractive and feminine women seen as attractive. Everyone like tall and in shape men, and big boobs, but the more rich the country is - the more are people ready to settle for less. Masculinity and femininity are ques for health and non hungry non disease ridden childhood. In developed nations those ques are less relevant. Plus women feel safer so they dont feel the need to find a mate that can protect them physically.

    • @kracks9852
      @kracks9852 Год назад +1

      Yeah i'm from a developing nation and here, beauty is much more rigorous for women. Men on the other hand need to have high paying jobs. It is due to the culture, women stay at home, men work.
      But as our economy is growing i'm seeing things equalling out. Arranged marriages are going down and there is emphasis on beauty for men too (in urban areas).

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 Год назад +49

    I find that men who are perceived as very attractive are just not until I speak with them and determine their openness and intelligence, integrity and empathy. If they lack those traits and more I no longer find them attractive. On the other hand I can meet a man who is less attractive but has a great and kind heart and demeanor I then perceive him as a 10.

    • @joshgreen194
      @joshgreen194 Год назад +2

      "Less attractive"? What does that even mean? 😅

    • @AugustRx
      @AugustRx Год назад

      An ugly nice guy or a nice guy who's not ugly?

    • @k_mma
      @k_mma 9 месяцев назад +2

      are you a gemini venus?

    • @kugul1683
      @kugul1683 6 месяцев назад

      I have the same with girls haha, whilst I initially notice them based of appearance, I only really get attracted with their personality as well

  • @iamenheduana
    @iamenheduana Год назад +41

    qoves u need dark mode my guy

  • @divyanshuminz7885
    @divyanshuminz7885 Год назад +51

    The more I look at these analysis, the more I understand that based on facial aesthetics alone I don't stand a chance and its better to just focus on what I want to do than than trying to find someone that would love me.

    • @rafsandomierz5313
      @rafsandomierz5313 Год назад +14

      I don't think you've heard that dating do not works for attractive people by being only attractive, it's said in this video, self esteem is also an factor that is needed to be taken into account if you belitte yourself then you will get the effect called "Self fullfilling phropercy" that works on almost every aspect of your life if you let it.
      If you will tell yourself that you will never achive anything in life guess what happens the self fullfilling phropercy effect will start to take over your life.

    • @divyanshuminz7885
      @divyanshuminz7885 Год назад +6

      @@rafsandomierz5313 I get your point, self esteem and confidence does play a huge role in dating and life in general. But imo these things come by either people telling you, you are good or you doing good for yourself through getting consistent results. I dont understand how people are confident in themselves like 98% of the time.

    • @rafsandomierz5313
      @rafsandomierz5313 Год назад +4

      @@divyanshuminz7885 You have to find some sort of comfort zone that you can get into when things get too much also remember to care about your health, I have found mine through 3 years of isolation and doing hobbies though there still are things to work on I can't be perfect I can only be better.

    • @madallas_mons
      @madallas_mons Год назад +7

      ​@@divyanshuminz7885 Dress well, and get your body in shape and your confidence will naturally skyrocket. If you dress fashionably with a nice haircut people will perceive you as cool and treat you that way. You can use this to make friends and develop social skills and charisma. Women will come to you naturally. Believe in yourself, and watch Rom Wills

    • @divyanshuminz7885
      @divyanshuminz7885 Год назад +3

      Thanks guys. I am already trying these things, but I guess it takes time.

  • @333angeleyes
    @333angeleyes Год назад +82

    Hi Qoves Studio, would you consider doing a video on what is more powerful when it comes to attraction "nature vs. nurture" or what is scientifically beautiful vs. what pop culture considers beautiful?
    In many of your videos, you've stated that things like jawline and symmetry are more important than things like having blue eyes or white skin. However, I am American and, here it seems like most women in their 20s and 30s would chase after an Andrew Garfield and, ignore a Sendhil Ramamurthy even though Sendhil is clearly scientifically closer to fitting the definition of beauty.
    After years of witnessing so many examples of this I can't help but, to think that what society (and media: movies, television, magazines) deems as beautiful is more influential than what we evolved to think is beautiful.
    Your thoughts?

    • @saltator8565
      @saltator8565 Год назад +3

      Nature. People are always more attracted to heritable features, especially women.

    • @universalsubliminals1174
      @universalsubliminals1174 Год назад +14

      @@saltator8565 i think it's a mix of both, i think it's nature AFTER falling within the category of your preference/what you're used to seeing

    • @dryames4319
      @dryames4319 Год назад +2

      What an interesting hypothesis. I think that’d make for a great video!

    • @atharvgautam1018
      @atharvgautam1018 Год назад +7

      It's one of the debate going on that even though sendhill is more scientifically attractive but his skin colour makes him unlikable for the western women

    • @Mycenaea
      @Mycenaea Год назад +4

      You have to look at what they represent too; especially when it comes to celebrities. Not just what they look like. Since they are celebrities, there is already a high chance they look much better than the average guy, so it matters less because they are both hot.
      What kind of role does each man generally play when he acts? How are they in interviews?
      For example Andrew has been a judge on Drag Race, so maybe this is attractive to a lot of women because it means he is "open minded" and maybe cares a lot about different social justice subjects that are important to women.
      And also: is one of them a more well known celebrity? I think that will play a big part, even if you show pictures of them when asking these women.

  • @rafaeldominguescampanati3729
    @rafaeldominguescampanati3729 Год назад +23

    I love QOVES, wish you guys would make a video on attractiveness for a homoerotic perspective

    • @apollofateh324
      @apollofateh324 10 месяцев назад +5

      Yes, it seems the beauty standards vary drastically: what straight men vs bi men vs lesbians vs bi women find attractive about men and women are all going to look completely different. Unfortunately there's less data on that due to the social taboos around it, so I wouldn't expect a video on it any time soon, due to lack of data.

  • @user-iq9dd4kk9n
    @user-iq9dd4kk9n Год назад +61

    I know this is yoo sciency but I would appreciate it if you talked about how birth control affects the women's preference of men .. such an important topic

    • @breannaw7254
      @breannaw7254 Год назад +2

      I think he might do a video on this soon, there's lots of requests for it

    • @qhamaclaasen4049
      @qhamaclaasen4049 Год назад +1

      Please

    • @cano534
      @cano534 Год назад +12

      I heard that they don't like masculine men when they are on birth control. So when they stop using it can happen that they aren't attracted to their partner anymore.

    • @breannaw7254
      @breannaw7254 Год назад +1

      @@cano534 same

    • @cryspell7240
      @cryspell7240 Год назад +5

      oh my god yes, when I was on it I really started to doubt my sexuality

  • @Gabriella_Macy
    @Gabriella_Macy Год назад +2

    Factual upload as always

  • @sapodilla25
    @sapodilla25 Год назад +6

    Omg now I know why I can never stay in a relationship very long. I'm just too good looking 😅

  • @JOEYDEEZ369
    @JOEYDEEZ369 10 месяцев назад +4

    I may look feminine but I am very well in touch with my masculine side.. See Qoves I have oestrogen yes but also very high levels of testosterone floating around in my system (I come from a family of mainly male siblings) I even walk talk think like a boy more so than a girl and I even wear my jeans super low like a boy because I do not have muffin top so I can wear my strides super low. I’m still Tom boy even at 55 hahahahah ! I accept my feminine/masculine self fully and I love myself unconditionally always and forever amen !
    Cheers for this entertaining and informative video Q
    Ttfn;)

  • @sam1323123
    @sam1323123 Год назад +25

    On the point of self attractiveness. Is that an objective rating or are deluded individuals also affected by their perception. In other words, do ugly individuals who rate themselves highly prefer the highly attractive faces? Can we use this as a way to rate our own level of attractiveness?

    • @helvete_ingres4717
      @helvete_ingres4717 Год назад +6

      it would be based no self-perception yes, but self-perception in a rational individual is influenced by environmental feedback

    • @rafsandomierz5313
      @rafsandomierz5313 Год назад +2

      @@helvete_ingres4717 It's still self perception, just affected by envirovment.

    • @madallas_mons
      @madallas_mons Год назад +2

      ​@@helvete_ingres4717 Watch Rom Wills, dress well and get your body in shape

    • @helvete_ingres4717
      @helvete_ingres4717 Год назад +1

      @@madallas_mons uh, what

    • @madallas_mons
      @madallas_mons Год назад +2

      @@helvete_ingres4717 I meant to reply to someone else lmao

  • @charge3044
    @charge3044 Год назад +1

    Make video on can distance or angle can contribute to once facial attractiveness? Like different distance and angle

  • @danieldan7713
    @danieldan7713 Год назад +1

    LOOOOL 2:17 that guy went with me to school lmfao. Quoves was the LAST place i expected to see him

  • @daniwatchesyt
    @daniwatchesyt Год назад +3

    Please can you analyse what makes FKA Twigs attractive? Thank you

  • @mfwnogf8249
    @mfwnogf8249 Год назад +15

    Can you guys do a video exclusively on the topic of male pattern baldness please?
    I'm sure alot of young men would find it very interesting !

  • @EshaGhosh369
    @EshaGhosh369 Год назад +6

    Hello QOVES, I had sent email to the address mentioned in the community tab of this channel regarding the job opening, and that too within the deadline, but I have not yet heard back from the team.

    • @QOVESStudio
      @QOVESStudio  Год назад +9

      Hi Jitarpana, I'll let the hiring manager know.

    • @EshaGhosh369
      @EshaGhosh369 Год назад +5

      @@QOVESStudio Okay. Thank you.

    • @EshaGhosh369
      @EshaGhosh369 Год назад

      @@QOVESStudio Have you spoken to the hiring manager regarding my email?

    • @steph678
      @steph678 12 дней назад

      ​@@EshaGhosh369you dint get the job

  • @natasharules6737
    @natasharules6737 Год назад +2

    A great example is jubilee's women rank themselves vs men ranking women and vice versa

  • @sarven5984
    @sarven5984 Год назад +6

    finally a video that you can actually understand what they're talking about lol

  • @04kilik40
    @04kilik40 Год назад +1

    The examples given for Drill Sergeant and Pretty Boy look the same to me..They both have highly masculine features. Pls help.

  • @CrimsonUniverse22
    @CrimsonUniverse22 Год назад +39

    In other words, there isn’t one man or woman that could satisfy any man or any woman when it comes to physical looks.
    Unless the beauty equivalent of Thor drops from the skies.

    • @jonathank786
      @jonathank786 Год назад +6

      Makes sense no one’s a 10

    • @zakihidayat468
      @zakihidayat468 Год назад

      Thor is a fat middle aged man with drinking problem and pale skin,you think thats attractive?

    • @VEGAS-NERVE
      @VEGAS-NERVE Год назад +1

      In my honest opinion, Alain Delon when he was younger is a complete 10/10 and almost all men and women agree on that

    • @rafsandomierz5313
      @rafsandomierz5313 Год назад +4

      @@VEGAS-NERVE The key word is almost all, the OP literally have said that, that there is no man nor woman that is able to satisfy 100% of humanity with physical looks until it's some sort of god from mythology.

    • @VEGAS-NERVE
      @VEGAS-NERVE Год назад

      @@rafsandomierz5313 well if you want to be precise, many people are also asexual so yeah that could never happen

  • @igzotiktv3600
    @igzotiktv3600 Год назад +16

    3:53
    The thing with bodily attractiveness for men is that bodily attractiveness can develop into facial attractiveness over time and thus the type of relationship will change too; from short term to long term relationship. It's lust (sexual attraction) for short term relationship developing into infatuation (romantic attraction) for long term relationship.

    • @ngonz89
      @ngonz89 Год назад

      Or he calls her a butterface

    • @mrdouche9172
      @mrdouche9172 Год назад +1

      Nah it doesn't work that way. For short term, men indeed prioritize body, but for long term they prioritize face.

  • @ssam1820
    @ssam1820 Год назад

    Please please Do video on something I have noticed, sad faces seem to be always agreed upon as the most attractive, like cillian murphy and others. I have noticed those sad faces look the sweetest and most attractive like they will give you love and tenderness.

  • @wilhelmmaul866
    @wilhelmmaul866 Год назад

    dikkka das ist übel nice man , yeah chill it out mane!

  • @Riosgirl98
    @Riosgirl98 Год назад +8

    I'd love a collab between you guys and Professor Dutton.
    It would be epic ❤

    • @myaduro
      @myaduro Год назад +1

      I agree 🥰🥰

    • @Whatever-hy3dd
      @Whatever-hy3dd Год назад

      Dude his primary audience consists of members from the alt-right. They should not associate themselves with him.

  • @moonamoonz
    @moonamoonz Год назад +15

    I think i'm one of the few women here who actually prefers masculine men, and i'm not really feminine.

  • @rashedulkabir6227
    @rashedulkabir6227 Год назад +7

    Make a video analyzing Shahrukh Khan's face.

  • @ayeshanicoochi3094
    @ayeshanicoochi3094 8 месяцев назад

    your videos always make me feel like a unique 8 out of all these tiktok 10's

  • @coggun6763
    @coggun6763 Год назад +20

    Posted 54 seconds ago is crazy

  • @phyopyaepyaemaung3409
    @phyopyaepyaemaung3409 Год назад +22

    Can u do a video about asian ideal face shape vs western ideal face shape. Asian prefer egg facd like smooth v line . Jaw reduction are popular in asian in the other hand in western cheek bone implant are more popular. Western prefer sharp and define face shape. I want to know the differences between western and asian how they define beauty in men or women

    • @Titan_Design
      @Titan_Design Год назад +7

      He already has such video. Just look for it

  • @dscyth3r452
    @dscyth3r452 Год назад +1

    who is the guy at 7:34 ?

  • @lendial
    @lendial Год назад +5

    do gay men generally seek out the most masculine looking man because they are more at peace with wanting short term connections rather than long ones?

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 Год назад +11

      I think men in general are more focused on short term coz of the all the testosterone.

  • @samanthaferrari5948
    @samanthaferrari5948 Год назад

    Please analyze Spanish actress, Rossy De Palma's face.

  • @Micah_Coatha
    @Micah_Coatha 7 месяцев назад

    I’m bisexual and for me it’s very important for both genders to have a good defined jawline, a nice nose and good hair (which are traits that I have too).

  • @amysho2192
    @amysho2192 3 месяца назад

    I noticed that on Tinder, I liked certain men, then a couple weeks later, I'd look at those matches and wonder what the heck I was thinking. Then after a couple more weeks I'd find them attractive again! Same with my current boyfriend. He is effeminate and sometimes he seems WAY too girly for me, while other times he seems manly. I came up with the theory that it depends on where I'm at in my cycle. It's so cool to hear that this is actually a thing. I love science.
    Oh, and my cycle also dictates what type of music I prefer. And what movies I want to watch. Amazing.

  • @pepklopp3375
    @pepklopp3375 Год назад

    2:17 what's this guy's name?

  • @danyyounes3344
    @danyyounes3344 Год назад

    How about making a video about what makes michele morrone attractive?

  • @javanelsure4500
    @javanelsure4500 Год назад

    Do jeremy meeks

  • @shanga9517
    @shanga9517 Год назад +5

    I really love your voice

  • @sarahfranco6802
    @sarahfranco6802 Год назад

    2:40, 4:30, 5:50, 6:50, 9:30

  • @DMHR100
    @DMHR100 Год назад +94

    This is for when people start talking about social constructs. Everything social is a product of biological manifestations of evolution. No one is really enforcing ideas of masculinity or feminity, it's just the natural response to evident sexual differences.

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Год назад +25

      Beauty translates all of over the world. A beautiful woman on Finland will be beautiful in China, Ghana, Mexico, Peru, and Yemen.
      It translates all over the world. Of course there are variances but I feel like that's evidence that it's not only a social construct. I'm sure there are influences because trends are a thing but beauty is beauty.

    • @painexotic3757
      @painexotic3757 Год назад +16

      bruh I said the same thing to someone. I hate this phrase "social construct" since it all ties back to biology.

    • @cmendy1809
      @cmendy1809 Год назад +69

      No, the idea of ​​masculine and feminine (behaviour) has its roots in biology and evolution, but is influenced to a large extent by culture, education, and the environment. As an example, I am West African and in my country we have a great variety of tribes, the women of the Manjago tripe (my tripe) are much more aggressive in their behavior (masculine behavior) but the men like it, for them it is not masculine but rather womanly, shy women are not considered attractive and childlike, as shyness is mostly associated with young children. Well, in one of our neighboring tribes, the women are quite shy and submissive (feminine behavior), and in this tribe, it is a desirable behavior for a woman, loud and aggressive women are seen as masculine and manly. And those are just two tribes in just one country, you can see those differences around the world. Feminine and masculine are not universal across the world, but I do believe there are some deep rooted evolutionary differences in the behavior of men and women, but where you grow up has way more impact on you. When it comes to physical dimorphism, Asian males are considered feminine here in my country because of their soft physical structure and faces. Physical dimorphism has surely an universal denominator, but again, culture, environment, and education play an even bigger role. Humans throughout history have found the most peculiar things attractive just because it was trendy at their time, far from what biology would suggest as being attractive.

    • @Madamchief
      @Madamchief Год назад +8

      Um no. Christians and conservatives definitely enforce social standards

    • @DMHR100
      @DMHR100 Год назад +7

      @@Madamchief And the idea of chirstianity and religions came from a drive to establish hierarchies and to answer questions that only a species with a developed hypothalamus could come up with. A result of, of course, evolution.

  • @OliCrown
    @OliCrown Год назад

    Interesting

  • @Music6teen
    @Music6teen Год назад +16

    would you please consider talking about beauty from the perspective of the queer community?
    id love to hear thoughts on different stereotypes like dating partners that look similar to oneself or why certain attractive traits may be highly coveted vs other attractive traits in the gay community. Thanks!

  • @universalsubliminals1174
    @universalsubliminals1174 Год назад +9

    i want a longterm relationship... good to know that means i'm unattractive lmaoo

  • @yunay8949
    @yunay8949 Год назад +4

    4:26 what is this boy's name ?

  • @durhamrise6207
    @durhamrise6207 7 месяцев назад +2

    Nature is always looking for balance.

  • @hudaverdirey868
    @hudaverdirey868 Год назад +2

    As a masculine looking woman I do not know what to do in this situation. Should I get plastic surgery to look more feminine like shaving my jaw but what about my big mouth haha damn destined to be ugly ❤

    • @Bratzmaniac29
      @Bratzmaniac29 Год назад +1

      Idk cause you can say all the Kardashian’s, Jennifer Lopez, Jessica Alba etc are more masculine compared to other celebrities but yet they’re also some of the most attractive women in the world. So I’m curious why they are the exception but also it shows that these studies aren’t 100%!

    • @yasmino6387
      @yasmino6387 Год назад +6

      Absolutely not! Im sure there are ppl who find you attractive out there. Try to accept yourself for who you are.

    • @thiswillnotdo6027
      @thiswillnotdo6027 Год назад

      @@Bratzmaniac29 none of those women are masculine looking

    • @Bratzmaniac29
      @Bratzmaniac29 Год назад +4

      @@thiswillnotdo6027 I mean by quoves standards, yeah they are. Wider jaws, longer ramus or face, prominent or taller chins etc. - While I agree they don’t look like men, they aren’t hyper feminine either.

    • @AugustRx
      @AugustRx Год назад

      ​@@thiswillnotdo6027The later two are (just in the face)

  • @alexmason8557
    @alexmason8557 Год назад +298

    Female preference in men really depends on if they are on birth control pills or not.

    • @bruhmaster6923
      @bruhmaster6923 Год назад +46

      Source?

    • @Madamchief
      @Madamchief Год назад +67

      WTF? Broscience

    • @Threelegs94
      @Threelegs94 Год назад +56

      Guys there is a book that talks about it.
      Hormonal: The Hidden Intelligence of Hormones -- How They Drive Desire, Shape Relationships, Influence Our Choices, and Make Us Wiser
      By Dr Martie Haselton

    • @Threelegs94
      @Threelegs94 Год назад

      ​@Jamie Herrera is not bro science, it's has been proven that when women stop taking the pill, they tent to prefer more mainly men, foe some women is even the cause of divorce since they don't feel attracted to their husband anymore

    • @alexmason8557
      @alexmason8557 Год назад

      @@Madamchief it's called actual science. You are probably someone who believe there are more that 2 genders.

  • @wowomah6194
    @wowomah6194 9 месяцев назад

    Okay...so out of curiosity...why would a woman use the word "pretty" to describe me when she KNOWS I'm not gay and she's NOT trying to insult me but meant it as a genuine compliment. What are other examples of what are "pretty" males? I'm just not sure how to take the compliment honestly as usually if a woman wanted to compliment my looks it was "good looking", "cute" or "attractive" or "handsome" and the usual ones. Why in the Hell would a woman opt for the word "pretty"?

  • @senoir.
    @senoir. Год назад

    2:16 I feel seen.

  • @depoiseufalofoiumprazer1310
    @depoiseufalofoiumprazer1310 Год назад

    Is the guy at 7:35 ai created? If he’s real, what’s his name?

  • @kenonerboy
    @kenonerboy Год назад +1

    Please make a video on mattpats video on face symmetry. Its the most embarrassing thing ive ever seen

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 Год назад +8

    I’ve observed that guys “not all but many” are attracted to women who look similar to their mothers. I find that creepy but nonetheless I still see this.

    • @viraj-kz9mt
      @viraj-kz9mt Год назад +2

      Can you explain a bit more?

    • @mela6885
      @mela6885 Год назад +2

      Well don’t most people date those that are usually equally yoked plus most also dating within their race/culture? I feel liked those factors can playing to a man dating someone that looks like their mom. For example a Hispanic man dating another hispanic women where they both share the same phenotype his mother would also have.

    • @xxxxxxxx8903
      @xxxxxxxx8903 7 месяцев назад +2

      This is true. I have a lot in common with my fiance's mother. Height and hair/eye color match. His mother has very blunt facial features for a woman and mine are slightly less so - but still more blunt than beauty standards. We're both Scorpios too.
      I think it's slightly creepy, but seems to be really common. My fiance does not look at all like my father.

  • @christophergraves6725
    @christophergraves6725 4 месяца назад +1

    At 6:26 or so, the point is made that men prefer more feminized faces for SR sexual flings and a more masculinized face for LR marriage. For women, they prefer the more masculinized face for SR flings and a more feminized face for LR marriage. The speculation is presented that the man or the woman prefers the less attractive, lower value person for LR marriage since these less desirable folks are less able to desert them because they cannot find another mate as easily.
    I would say it quite the opposite. The masculinized woman can be very attractive such as Lauren Bacall and she shows more emotional stability and intelligence, which make her a better wife and mother and also makes her less emotionally changeable and therefore more likely to be faithful to the man and the family. More feminized women are less dependable and less able to manage a household and less devoted as a mother even if they are judged to be more stimulating in bed.
    For women, hyper-masculinized men might be judged to be better in bed for a fling (from my own questioning of women who have had such affairs, this assumption is questionable since many men like this are done within seconds as they just go for the sexual climax), but are judged to be less able in a modern developed economy that thrives on intelligence and foresight, which the "hunk" lacks. The heavier a person's features, the more likely they are to have a smaller brain, and brain size and intelligence are positively related. The man with a greater balance of features including some feminized features would be more attractive since they have the ambition to advance but they also have the caring attitude necessary to be a loving and devoted husband and father. A man with very masculinized features might not be as willing to sacrifice for the family and share the resources that he has earned, if he has the self-discipline and intellectual ability to even gain more resources in an advanced economy where self-control pays off in the LR.

  • @haebee
    @haebee Год назад

    yes Qoves, I know i'm ugly. i own a goddamn mirror.

  • @jithinff8686
    @jithinff8686 Год назад +35

    i am first but it doesnt matter

    • @SpecialAbonnent
      @SpecialAbonnent Год назад +1

      @@vwqwe-gh6td But when nothing matters maybe what you've said and he've said doesn't matter, so my comment doesn't either

    • @SpecialAbonnent
      @SpecialAbonnent Год назад

      @@vwqwe-gh6td Everything matters and everything doesn't matter at the same time, we have the ability to decide, each day, but absolutely we know if everything mattered after we've died or maybe we won't know, so maybe nothing matters

    • @SpecialAbonnent
      @SpecialAbonnent Год назад

      @@vwqwe-gh6td Of course, if you die and there is an afterlife of course your life mattered, if you die and there is nothing, then nothing mattered, but if you are able to decide each day if something mattered and you decide that your life matters, then even after your death, and even after your death when there is nothing, it will have mattered, so just one decision can decide if something matters or not

    • @SpecialAbonnent
      @SpecialAbonnent Год назад

      @@vwqwe-gh6td Simply said you can decide if something matters or not, it's just subjective

    • @SpecialAbonnent
      @SpecialAbonnent Год назад

      @@vwqwe-gh6td Why does it matter to you?

  • @tylerthecreatorsbiological8130
    @tylerthecreatorsbiological8130 Год назад +3

    Do Scott Neslage next

  • @kingwiccan9743
    @kingwiccan9743 Год назад +24

    Great video! It would also be nice to discuss the intersection of aesthetics in the context of queer/lgbt community.

  • @Pk-wu9tl
    @Pk-wu9tl Год назад +1

    Please do the homosexual video! So fascinating.

  • @clairee4939
    @clairee4939 Год назад +6

    This just popped up in my recommendations and was absolutely fascinating, especially being asexual haha! 😊

  • @StateFlow-ns4mg
    @StateFlow-ns4mg Год назад +1

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @maggygonzalez4885
    @maggygonzalez4885 2 месяца назад

    2:06 Being full of steroids is not an example of masculine. I would use Joe Lando as an example when he was young. He has strong facial features and normal muscles.

  • @StateFlow-ns4mg
    @StateFlow-ns4mg Год назад +1

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💥

  • @roses1419
    @roses1419 Год назад +3

    venus conjunct mars = attractiveness

  • @user-uk8tt6me6h
    @user-uk8tt6me6h 2 месяца назад

    chat kay nay ley/selectiv

  • @shireensingh2834
    @shireensingh2834 7 дней назад +1

    Plz try to make your explanations more comprehensive and less cumbersome to understand . May be u can try to make points . THANKS ❤

  • @Omar_P.S9inchhs
    @Omar_P.S9inchhs Год назад

    I just have to say...the Thumbnail is freaky 😵...

  • @madisonatior4414
    @madisonatior4414 Год назад +2

    Explain racial peferences

  • @sadanna-ww6gj
    @sadanna-ww6gj Год назад

    Early hehe

  • @athirababuu
    @athirababuu Год назад +2

    👁️👄👁️ Iam early

  • @She_Is_Toni
    @She_Is_Toni Год назад

    I'm 10 min late 🥲

  • @adityagole1330
    @adityagole1330 Год назад +13

    Female gaze vs Male gaze, The blkpill never lies

    • @zyyl1949
      @zyyl1949 Год назад

      Any links or resources to understand how to appeal to the female gaze that isn't just tails clips? It's hard af to find decent information

    • @poech2pep271
      @poech2pep271 Год назад

      ​@@zyyl1949 as a woman tails is so right

    • @poech2pep271
      @poech2pep271 Год назад

      Do You have any info about male gaze? Like what to do?

    • @urdadsonic1036
      @urdadsonic1036 Год назад

      @@zyyl1949 be pretty

  • @RevolutionaryLoser
    @RevolutionaryLoser Год назад +1

    That doesn't really explain why good looking people cheat with "ugly" people which happens plenty.
    This seems like the kind of thing that is almost impossible to prove.

  • @marrmart7690
    @marrmart7690 Год назад

    We need to know what make transman and transwommen deafrent

  • @bitchplease7436
    @bitchplease7436 Год назад +6

    I don't like the idea that Qoves will talk about queer people since he's probably just going to reinforce stereotypes, but i hope he's able to analyze queer people without the "heteronormative/stereotypical" lens that a lot of people do.

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 Год назад +25

      This channel prefers using of studies and there are probably not a lot of those made about what the queer people find attractive.

    • @harrywang4769
      @harrywang4769 7 месяцев назад

      can't even do a good study on homos since they identify as 27 genders and 42 sexualities. how do you categorize something like that with enough data lol

  • @rose-yeah
    @rose-yeah Год назад +3

    I f hate the fact that not the only one who like feminine men. Some women actually likes them and feminine looking men are rare. Most men are masculine and most women likes masculine men. Here, we are talking about looks not personalities.

    • @pingeee
      @pingeee Год назад +3

      no women like masculine men every girl wants pretty boys

    • @viraj-kz9mt
      @viraj-kz9mt Год назад +3

      @@pingeee ?

    • @pingeee
      @pingeee Год назад

      @@viraj-kz9mt am i wrong?

    • @viraj-kz9mt
      @viraj-kz9mt Год назад +2

      @@pingeee u a woman?

    • @pingeee
      @pingeee Год назад

      @@viraj-kz9mt no im a femboy

  • @JulesLife
    @JulesLife Год назад +15

    Attractive females now actually have a harder time getting hired than their less attractive competitors.
    It’s all wrapped up in the “me too” situation.

    • @hanniltopher7173
      @hanniltopher7173 Год назад +1

      I don't get it, can you explain it??

    • @JulesLife
      @JulesLife Год назад

      @@hanniltopher7173 Basically more attractive women are typically viewed as risky in an office situation. Men don’t want to put themselves in a situation where they may want to pursue a female at work. While ALL WOMEN are being affected in the office negatively… more attractive women aren’t as likely as less attractive women to get hired in the first place.

    • @JulesLife
      @JulesLife Год назад +23

      @@hanniltopher7173 Even with the less attractive women though… men aren’t taking meetings in private with them anymore. Women are far less likely to be taken on trips for business that involve hotels etc. Any situation where a man feels there is an opportunity for a false allegation against him…. They are being avoided. It’s not worth the risk.

    • @JulesLife
      @JulesLife Год назад +4

      @@yeehaw-bw8ns I literally see all of the data on this and speak with people in corporations because of my job but okay.

    • @villapulla
      @villapulla Год назад +1

      Life hack: work in a female dominated field so no need to worry about man boss not hiring you

  • @renatakananaviciene2928
    @renatakananaviciene2928 Год назад +1

    Alpha seed and beta need..

  • @anthonyreyes2381
    @anthonyreyes2381 Год назад +1

    Could you be a bit more inclusive to lgbt in your videos

  • @ceciliaslepmet4840
    @ceciliaslepmet4840 Год назад

    Your video totally forget an important part of the population

  • @meinhuekbadakida588
    @meinhuekbadakida588 Год назад +3

    please no idea on lgbtq