I'm 29 and realised I've spent my 20s being who everyone else wanted me to be. I'm spending my 29th year being my true self, doing what I want to do and enjoying My life. It's funny getting comments on how I've changed. This is who I always was on the inside. I'd advise anyone in their early 20s wondering wtf to do. Be yourself! Do what YOU want. Don't fret over careers etc that will all come together in time. Just do a job you enjoy and see what happens, Focus on what makes you happy!
OMG SAME, turning 30 this year and before that I have set goals to achieve like creating my own clothing brand, taking sewing classes etc! Our 30s are going to be awesome girl ❤
@@CookieJessiee for me was learning to love myself, not accepting bullshits, not doing things that I did not actually wanted to do, not hanging out with people just because I knew them for half my life, saying no to plans that I did not feel like going to, being honest with others but mostly being honest with myself! And also starting to do things that I've wanted to do for years but was always postponing
@jessicativane6813 great question! , so before I was too shy to say anything. I'd go along with things even If I didn't want to, because others wanted to. I'd ignore the fact I'd been spoken over to be polite, so id sit quietly and listen to everyone else. I dressed more "trendy" like influencers etc because others in my life did and if I said I liked something I'd be made fun of. I worked a regular job in a company I hated. Because everyone was "proud" of me for working my way up and when I said I hated it I was told you have to suck it up and get on with it, money is money. Now if I'm interrupted I'll speak up, I dress how I feel confident and comfortable, I quit my job and started a catering business. I like cooking! I don't care if that's not seen as "success", if I don't want to do something I'll say no. And be truthful, I don't want to. I dance stupidly because I like to dance and don't care who's watching. I eat what I want. I chose me :) it's exhausting living to please others.
One of the best, most reassuring videos on here. Honestly so refreshing to know that everyone goes through this. As a 27yr old women I can definitely say I feel pressure from society to settle down and have kids when I'm just not there yet. Thanks for the video Grace! Keep it up x
where's this sweater from?? love the colour and neckline detail omg leaving a time stamp here 10:49 for advice i appreciate and know future me will too
Grace I absolutely loved this ! I am 21 years old and just published a book about navigating self development and discovery in an ever changing world. My writing is inspired by my own journey realising there is no blueprint or perfect trajectory and wanting to offer a sense of relief to others that they are not alone in feeling like this either. My book is called “An inside Job: A guide to self discovery in an every changing world” by Samyudha Rajesh. I would absolutely love to send you a copy and hear your thoughts. I love talking to people/ learning from people on all things self growth !! Wishing you all the best, Sam Rajesh
really related to this video, just something I'm struggling with is my parents, I'm 25 years old, but I feel influenced by my parent's opinions, I told them something I want to do, and because it's modern and unusual they're fully against it, but I'm my own person, an adult and I want to try new things, but I also don't want to fall out with my family. Any tips?
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I'm 29 and realised I've spent my 20s being who everyone else wanted me to be.
I'm spending my 29th year being my true self, doing what I want to do and enjoying My life.
It's funny getting comments on how I've changed. This is who I always was on the inside.
I'd advise anyone in their early 20s wondering wtf to do. Be yourself! Do what YOU want. Don't fret over careers etc that will all come together in time. Just do a job you enjoy and see what happens, Focus on what makes you happy!
Great advice! Just out of curiosity, what are you doing now (more specifically) that you didn't do before?
OMG SAME, turning 30 this year and before that I have set goals to achieve like creating my own clothing brand, taking sewing classes etc! Our 30s are going to be awesome girl ❤
@@CookieJessiee for me was learning to love myself, not accepting bullshits, not doing things that I did not actually wanted to do, not hanging out with people just because I knew them for half my life, saying no to plans that I did not feel like going to, being honest with others but mostly being honest with myself! And also starting to do things that I've wanted to do for years but was always postponing
@jessicativane6813 great question! , so before I was too shy to say anything. I'd go along with things even If I didn't want to, because others wanted to. I'd ignore the fact I'd been spoken over to be polite, so id sit quietly and listen to everyone else. I dressed more "trendy" like influencers etc because others in my life did and if I said I liked something I'd be made fun of. I worked a regular job in a company I hated. Because everyone was "proud" of me for working my way up and when I said I hated it I was told you have to suck it up and get on with it, money is money.
Now if I'm interrupted I'll speak up, I dress how I feel confident and comfortable, I quit my job and started a catering business. I like cooking! I don't care if that's not seen as "success", if I don't want to do something I'll say no. And be truthful, I don't want to. I dance stupidly because I like to dance and don't care who's watching. I eat what I want.
I chose me :) it's exhausting living to please others.
@LesVioletHills they sure are! Good luck with you're goals! You got this!
Honestly I think our 30s will be soooo much better than our 20s!
Sometimes it's not the pain that makes you suffer; it's your own negative thought that makes things seem worse.
Just turned 23 today and this is probably the best video to start off my day. Thank you Grace ❤
I’m nearly 26 and I wake up everyday thinking wtf and then remind myself that there’s no need to rush
MORE SOLOSSS GRACEE PLSS. YOUR THE BIG SISTER I NEVER HAD
This video feels like a big hug! More like this please 💖
One of the best, most reassuring videos on here. Honestly so refreshing to know that everyone goes through this. As a 27yr old women I can definitely say I feel pressure from society to settle down and have kids when I'm just not there yet. Thanks for the video Grace! Keep it up x
AMEN! This is what everyone in their 20s needs to hear! Thanks Grace - we need more of these episodes 🙌🏼
THANK YOUUUUUUU I NEEDED THISSSSS IT ACTUALLY HELPED SO MUCH
turning 22 next week and so happy to be watching this thank u Grace love u forever
This was a much needed episode! soooo good thanks you 🙃
Such good advice I wish I had in my 20s! ❤ I’m 29 and I know this now lol so I know my 30s are going to amazing
I just turned 30, but still loved this video :) thank you!
This is exactly the video I needed, thanks Grace!
We all needed to hear this 🥲🫶 thank you Grace, new subbie here xx
Thanks for all the insights Grace! Love this episode
fave episode so far!!!
Omg needed 😩
Really good episode, thank you!
where's this sweater from?? love the colour and neckline detail omg
leaving a time stamp here 10:49 for advice i appreciate and know future me will too
Grace I absolutely loved this ! I am 21 years old and just published a book about navigating self development and discovery in an ever changing world. My writing is inspired by my own journey realising there is no blueprint or perfect trajectory and wanting to offer a sense of relief to others that they are not alone in feeling like this either. My book is called “An inside Job: A guide to self discovery in an every changing world” by Samyudha Rajesh. I would absolutely love to send you a copy and hear your thoughts. I love talking to people/ learning from people on all things self growth !! Wishing you all the best, Sam Rajesh
she talks at 1.75 speed naturally! 😄
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Grace couldn't be further from the average 20 something.
“Blinkers! Blinkers? Blinkers?!? Blinkerss? Blinkers.” 😀
I’m 28 and I’ve worked in marketing and SEO for 5-6years now and I don’t want to do it any more but I have no clue what else to do. Advice?
really related to this video, just something I'm struggling with is my parents, I'm 25 years old, but I feel influenced by my parent's opinions, I told them something I want to do, and because it's modern and unusual they're fully against it, but I'm my own person, an adult and I want to try new things, but I also don't want to fall out with my family. Any tips?
Turning 21, I'm scared
this does not apply to the people in this room either