I’ve been tired my entire life - the art of actually resting

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @TheCottageFairy
    @TheCottageFairy  Год назад +527

    My sincerest apologies, I’m having trouble with my language captions today - something is glitching on my computer! I’m trying to correct it and hope I can have captions up soon :( sending much love and hope you’ve all had a lovely week! I am a bit of a turtle right now but doing my best to keep things moving. I am open for limited orders on my Etsy shop (using code ‘EXTRAGIFT’ for an extra free bookmark with your purchase). Thank you for being here and hope this video brings you a moment of peace ❤

    • @naturally.natalie
      @naturally.natalie Год назад

      Do you know your human design type, Paula? You sound like a projector❤

    • @ellenbragonje9221
      @ellenbragonje9221 Год назад +16

      I was very moved by your story of the girl and the fox. It too made me appreciate who I am and that it's okay, for I work with little children every day and I like to enjoy the innocent and playful way they are thinking and talking. I also never like to lose my inner child and I love to be in the presence of these children full of joy and happiness.

    • @francoisecleroux1053
      @francoisecleroux1053 Год назад

      Goodday ! Have you ever heard of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis...? I do have so, this almost unknown Ilness caracterized by very , very low energy. I do have this very low energy you live with - since 35 years - due to a Virus. It is an almost unknown illness and no cure known at this moment Except Resting , Resting, Resting as often possible - is the best way to Cope with it-
      just the way you do, going always- as often possible- to your Own Rythm.
      I would say- going in Nature as you do so often ! is the best way to Cope with this state.
      I would say, you have also a chance with your artistique talent to benefit of rare moments of quality
      despite your low energy.
      You are a Beautiful exemple of courage and serenity to the million of people around the globe,
      Living with this - invisible
      illness.Bravo ! And thank you for sharing !

    • @lindaconnelly7836
      @lindaconnelly7836 Год назад +9

      What a beautiful story. It touched my heart 💞. Thank you.

    • @Kaushalya---1234
      @Kaushalya---1234 Год назад +2

      Love you darling !❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @olgaw5082
    @olgaw5082 Год назад +475

    "Just because you can't match the pace of someone else doesn't mean you're too slow, it means you are listening to the beat of a different song." Thank you so much Paola❤ I didn't know how much I needed to hear that! I'm tearing up now😅

    • @EvalainShadow
      @EvalainShadow 2 месяца назад

      Like the story of the turtle and the hare ❤

  • @gulafshasheikh8757
    @gulafshasheikh8757 11 месяцев назад +45

    I'm from India, 27 years old and I am struggling in my abusive marriage. I shared this just to say that you're not alone who is going through any phase, we all have too. Remember one thing as you are on you tube so are not alone we all are with you dear. God bless !!

    • @sjwells04
      @sjwells04 7 месяцев назад +16

      I hope you’re able to safely leave. You deserve to feel safe and relaxed ❤

    • @diiwfiig
      @diiwfiig 4 месяца назад +3

      Have you divorced him?
      Sending love from Bangladesh

    • @debbienorton4951
      @debbienorton4951 2 месяца назад +1

      You are worth so much more than abuse. Be strong and break free❤. Prayers for your strength.

  • @judithgrace8359
    @judithgrace8359 Год назад +32

    Don’t declutter too much. A warm cozy home with interesting beautiful things around, stimulate baby’s imagination and capture their attention. Your home is a reflection of you, a warm, creative, gentle person. Baby will love being in it.

  • @sherryhicks4156
    @sherryhicks4156 Год назад +13

    Pregnancy is hard in the beginning. Your body is changing rapidly. 9 months is not very long when you think about it. Your body is creating an entire new human being. Relax and enjoy the ride. It will be over soon enough. Then a new life begins again. God Bless you and that precious one growing inside of you.

  • @524FrmGrl
    @524FrmGrl Год назад +810

    Oh Paola, your story made me unexpectedly cry. I feel like that little old woman. Praying daily that you continue to be well. 30 years younger than me, and you teach me so much. Take care of yourself, rest, and savor each and every moment of this new season in your life. We could all learn from slowing down. You will be such a present; loving, mother, I’m so happy for you and Luke and your fur babies. I’m sure your parents can’t contain their excitement for you. God Bless and I hope you had a beautiful Thanksgiving. From, Southeast Missouri

    • @flamingogirl57
      @flamingogirl57 Год назад +20

      Totally agree with you ! Hugs from a Great Grandma in SE Kansas

    • @BarbyDailey-Rurallife40
      @BarbyDailey-Rurallife40 Год назад +20

      Paola brings out the little girl in us. 💖

    • @barbaramazzacco6644
      @barbaramazzacco6644 Год назад +11

      @@BarbyDailey-Rurallife40 yea she sure does. And it feels wonderful 🤗

    • @KateRichards67
      @KateRichards67 Год назад +28

      The story made me cry too, it was so beautiful. I'm a 67 year old grandmother from the UK and the only regret I have about my 2 pregnancies is that I allowed life's pressures and anxiety to distract from the joy. I wish I had slowed down and savored the experience more so you're doing the right thing, my love.
      Wishing you all the very best 💖

    • @KateRichards67
      @KateRichards67 Год назад +4

      @lailalivsdatter6660 Thankyou so much, that's so kind 💖

  • @Luna-nq3de
    @Luna-nq3de Год назад +270

    I am a struggling senior in high school, and I have been through a lot. I often go into the woods to calm my ever beating heart and forever shaking hands. The story you read touched my sporadic heart and soothed it with a gentle hand. One day, I hope you get the chance to write a book of little tales like this one. Thank you for always being here for me.

    • @kristinjayne6720
      @kristinjayne6720 Год назад +23

      What a lovely young one you are! Wise beyond your years. I have such hope in our current youth. Please write that book!

    • @barbarawatson1667
      @barbarawatson1667 Год назад +13

      I sense you are a powerful empath and I can highly recommend a wonderful book and or you tube for Matt Khan. He is an incredible human being with a soft, compassionate and caring nature. Healing energy literally radiates from his voice. Be well, you are loved.

    • @ngockhanh4689
      @ngockhanh4689 Год назад +7

      gosh, just looks like my situation right now

    • @carrad123456
      @carrad123456 Год назад +11

      Hi dear, What is bothering you so much ? May be you will get some help here•
      Till then just deep breathe whenever possible, relax and remember you are part of this universe with love and compassion•

    • @loristromski1334
      @loristromski1334 Год назад +11

      Sending healing energy to every part of your body. I just quit as a lunch lady in public schools in Wisconsin. The things I saw in over a month made me sad for the children in public school.

  • @Lemonn0707
    @Lemonn0707 Год назад +455

    I can't describe how I felt while listening to the story. I didn't realise I was in tears until it fell down on my palm. Thank you so much for such a warm story.
    From now on every time I'd be in a forest, I'd close my eyes and listen to the breeze, looking for what I lost on the way of life.

    • @TheCottageFairy
      @TheCottageFairy  Год назад +80

      ❤❤ I am so honored it spoke to you, thank you for sharing, it means a lot, sending a big hug

    • @vickiwills9950
      @vickiwills9950 Год назад +40

      Beautifully said! I love the quote "Nature speaks if only you listen!"😊❤

    • @marybooth1361
      @marybooth1361 Год назад +22

      I listened to your story and found myself crying like a baby. You are so special, @Cottagefairy

    • @turquoisetreee
      @turquoisetreee Год назад +20

      Oh yes, it moved me too ❤🦊

    • @charlottecoolik9872
      @charlottecoolik9872 Год назад +7

      Your comment makes me want to cry😢😢😢😢 please don't feel like you've lost your way

  • @CheriReding
    @CheriReding 11 месяцев назад +154

    I was deeply touched by your video and your story. At the end of your story, the tears were flowing. I hope someday you will find the time and energy to publish your beautifully written story about the little girl and the fox.
    I am a 70 year old woman who lives on the edge of the woods, in the countryside with all my animals. I embrace the slowing down movement wholeheartedly.
    Happy Holidays 🎄

    • @marianl3447
      @marianl3447 11 месяцев назад +4

      what state are you in? Just wondering if we are close. We are in age.

    • @loreofyupu
      @loreofyupu 9 месяцев назад +9

      On the edge of the woods with my animals is exactly how I want to be living when I'm 70. I'm 23 now, and it seems so silly to admit this little dream of mine, like a distant childish fantasy, because most people don't get it. But coming across someone like you gives me hope that it's possible and I shouldn't settle for less. 💚

  • @hughdfukairs1768
    @hughdfukairs1768 Год назад +67

    Being tired is simply the underlying hush of Earth telling one to slow down and just listen to its quiet lessons.

  • @virginiacreager4331
    @virginiacreager4331 10 месяцев назад +47

    Paula if you read this I can’t express how vitally important it is when growing a baby and being a mother to rest whenever you can. I still lay down with my three year old instead of getting things done because my health depends on it. Everywhere I look mothers are pushed to keep being “productive” beyond and outside the real of motherhood and it can be extremely depleating. Please honor yourself above all else. 💜🙏

    • @carolynnilsen9270
      @carolynnilsen9270 9 месяцев назад +2

      So much emphasis today on having it all - but compromising your deep wellbeing for the perceived expectations of others / society is destructive to the spirit.

  • @rosaliefunk1629
    @rosaliefunk1629 Год назад +163

    In my life, many have poked fun of me for being slow.
    What I know is that I have taken the time to see, hear, smell, taste and feel things. This has been on both an emotional and physical level. Rushing through life does not GET you more. Being slow GIVES you more. To be slow is a blessing. ❤️

    • @robot_collective
      @robot_collective Год назад +8

      Thats beautiful 💜

    • @sylvain123
      @sylvain123 Год назад +4

      Beautiful comment. Thankyou for sharing

    • @meloniestewart2940
      @meloniestewart2940 Год назад +3

      Exactly.
      Living in a past which no longer exists or in a future that is yet to manifest means we miss out on the present moment. It is the only, one we ever truly have

    • @norajasna2306
      @norajasna2306 Год назад +1

      ❤️🙏🏼

  • @julietfauvet9977
    @julietfauvet9977 Год назад +60

    Paola, I always felt so alone living with my “tired disposition” until I found you. I always felt something was wrong with me. But you have helped me accept that I am simply “listening to a beat of a different song.” I’m okay now not fitting into the fast-paced hustle culture that I once believed I needed to. The slower, intentional life has been so healing. And very much more suited to my nature. Your videos, book, and other content have done wonders for me. You have inspired so much, and have been a balm to my soul. Sending you so much love and thanks for all that you do💗 You are such a beautiful light! ✨🕯️🕊️🧚‍♂️

  • @daragropper682
    @daragropper682 Год назад +345

    You should have a story telling channel. You have a very soothing voice that children and adults need in our lives 💕

  • @theraspberryrabbits7390
    @theraspberryrabbits7390 Год назад +191

    You are such a gift of light in this world. That story was absolutely wonderful and one this 55 year old, messy, gray haired woman who is finding her lost voice, needed to hear. Thank you so very much, Paola. Light, love and hugs to you.

  • @tomas5376
    @tomas5376 Год назад +203

    The occasional discomfort of pregnancy will soon be replaced by the joy of parenting! Your child will be happy with such a talented mother.❤

    • @eastofeden13
      @eastofeden13 Год назад +14

      Joy of parenting😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @EllenObrock-gs4tq
      @EllenObrock-gs4tq Год назад +9

      And even less sleep 😴. 😝

    • @iuliaaghirculesei986
      @iuliaaghirculesei986 Год назад +13

      Indeed, we should be honest with these things.
      Maybe we should encourage her to be prepared for very difficult days, for lack of sleep for extended periods of time, for a lot of worries, for feeling really, really tired, and many more.
      Being a parent, being a mother, is the most difficult thing to and it seems to never end.

    • @donna-marie9100
      @donna-marie9100 Год назад +5

      Some women experience constant discomfort during pregnancy. My Goddaughter had the most awful pelvic pain in both her pregnancies. Important to be honest about these things. It's tough for many, but definitely worth it.

    • @lisab9734
      @lisab9734 Год назад +3

      @@iuliaaghirculesei986I agree. Parenthood is so so hard. It’s full of joy, worry, sadness, anger, all the emotions.

  • @danielledegeorge2129
    @danielledegeorge2129 Год назад +30

    My cat used to lay across my belly when I was pregnant. Animals definitely sense things that we don't really expect them to! Congratulations Paola!!!!!!

  • @LoreleiWakefield
    @LoreleiWakefield Год назад +112

    "The amount of things that you get done in a day does not dictate your worth." Thank you for saying that! We are enough just exactly as we are, just for being us. Wishing you a joyful and healing weekend.

    • @Fruechtchen
      @Fruechtchen Год назад +2

      I wrote that down for me too! ❤

    • @ehpeachylove
      @ehpeachylove Год назад +2

      This should be on a tee shirt… it’s so true and takes many of us to realize as we get older.

    • @wandastarr-hk2ig
      @wandastarr-hk2ig 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@ehpeachylove Our culture glamourizes and celebrates the cult of busyness, and that is not healthy for most people.

    • @naazahs9045
      @naazahs9045 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@wandastarr-hk2ig be the good little cog that keeps grinding on relentlessly to keep the big machine going until you can no longer do that and then are discarded and replaced like the true worthiness that they actually attach to you.
      Collectively our species has got all its priorities @$$ backwards.

    • @annehislop2449
      @annehislop2449 2 месяца назад +1

      Quality over quantity ❤

  • @health.bites.5615
    @health.bites.5615 Год назад +70

    I was attracted to your channel awhile ago because of the peace it gives me. I am an HSP (high sensitive person) and an introvert, so I've had to live more simply and slowly in my life too. I just came across the Slow Living movement this year and it's helped me so much. Your journey has helped me incredibly. Thank you for having much transparency in sharing with us. You are a beautiful role model and inspiration! May you have the peace and strength you need--every single day. ❤

    • @ConnieHeartsValentino
      @ConnieHeartsValentino Год назад +7

      It seems like we HSP/Introverts are in a constant battle against this fast-moving, ultra productive modern world. It can be exhausting.

    • @kierlak
      @kierlak Год назад +5

      INFJ/HSP here. I can totally relate. I love simple life. Intentional/slow living is often so important for HSPs.
      Cottage Fairy seems to me as INFP/HSP. This channel is simply amazing and cozy.

    • @ConnieHeartsValentino
      @ConnieHeartsValentino Год назад +1

      @@kierlak I agree!

    • @-living4jesus4ever-
      @-living4jesus4ever- 10 месяцев назад +2

      Especially if you’re an INFJ on Myers Briggs personality. ❤😊

  • @TeriHargraveartist
    @TeriHargraveartist Год назад +189

    As a child, I was often called lazy....I was just slower than those around me! Much love to you :)

    • @kripaharris237
      @kripaharris237 Год назад +21

      Me too
      I was happy with books ,time in nature and not interested in the activities of my family
      Shopping ,knitting ,gossiping ....

    • @karicastanza5216
      @karicastanza5216 Год назад +12

      Yep, me too! I recently turned 50 and find it amazing how people just can't sit still and enjoy the simple things in life. And they rarely cost much!

    • @dcny69
      @dcny69 Год назад

      ❤️

    • @loriar1027
      @loriar1027 Год назад +2

      Same here. My dad always said I had two speeds-slow and stop! 😂 I’m still slow and methodical.

    • @shwetashyam838
      @shwetashyam838 Год назад +1

      Me too! I’m still called slow when in fact I get more work done in one day.

  • @lovethelighttruth8330
    @lovethelighttruth8330 11 месяцев назад +19

    Finally someone who has helped me to identify what I have felt most of my life and I am 61. You my sweet friend are a gift 🎁 to the rest of us! Your beautiful, gentle spirit speaks so clearly and gently to our 💕 hearts❣️The story you shared is DEFINITELY BOOK WORTHY ❣️🦊🧝‍♀️

  • @sonipitts
    @sonipitts Год назад +205

    Count me in with the dusty-eyed crowd swept away by your story. So beautiful, and so poignant. That absolutely needs to be a gorgeously-illustrated and dearly-cherished children's book (as long as us grown-up children can have a copy, too).

    • @sarahrose9944
      @sarahrose9944 11 месяцев назад +3

      I’m now always correcting “grown-ups” to grown-up children”. It’s way more descriptive of who we all really are.

    • @ritaribeiro15
      @ritaribeiro15 3 месяца назад

      Yes yes yes 🩷 I'd love to see this story written and illustrated ✨️ also loved the detail of the candle blowing out, perfect timing

  • @billstarr9396
    @billstarr9396 Год назад +1

    Animals are truly intuitive. Their powers of observation is enormous and their sense of smell is so much higher than our own. You are giving off ferimones and because of that alone all of your pets know that you are with child Paola.

  • @hilltopvt
    @hilltopvt Год назад +137

    You're actually more productive than you have ever been - you are creating a new little life - this is very hard work even if you are sitting still, as well as all the work you normally do. 💖 Your videos are an oasis of thoughtfulness and beauty. And what a lovely fairy tale - you are a very talented writer.

  • @maryanncrowl1624
    @maryanncrowl1624 Год назад +8

    When the time is right for you, I'm envisioning a beautifully, gently illustrated book from this sweet tale you've woven. You have plenty of time. There is no rush, no hurry. All in the right season. Thank you for sharing your gentle soul with the rest of us.

  • @katscozycorner
    @katscozycorner Год назад +1

    @1:30 Thank you Paola, your words really resonated with me. I’ve been feeling continuously tired for a long time and not really understanding why. But you hit the nail on the head, because I too have not been living in a way that suits me best. And I need to find the courage and way to change that for the better. 😌

  • @elizabethm.5947
    @elizabethm.5947 Год назад +162

    Paola, you are a true artist. I loved your story, and I think you should publish it. But first, illustrate it and make a book out of it. What you have to offer is exactly what our rushed, exhausted and overly intellectual world needs. You bring so much soul and heart. In my mind, your gifts are priceless. Please don't compare yourself to those who have a different mission in life. You are a true gift to so many people.

    • @debbieconnelley342
      @debbieconnelley342 Год назад +3

      Couldn’t agree more ❤

    • @bonniebinsky6666
      @bonniebinsky6666 Год назад +1

      Beautifully said. 🧚‍♂️🍂🍁

    • @loriburgess1866
      @loriburgess1866 Год назад +3

      I am wondering if there were illustrations if they would muddy my imagination of what the fox and fairy child/woman are to me? I do love your illustrations, Paola. I also love the images of what your story created within my mind. Both ways, I’m sure are good.

    • @elizabethhasen2116
      @elizabethhasen2116 11 месяцев назад +2

      Absolutely this should/could be a children's book!

  • @pamurdiales2740
    @pamurdiales2740 Год назад +17

    Oh my goodness! Paola, your sweet and honest meditation and your tender story was just was I needed this morning! Even though we’re 40 years apart in age, we share a kindred spirit. I’m a mother of 6 and grandmother of 15 and lately as the world grows ever more dark, I find solace in your videos; I keep you and your little one in my prayers..May all of us continue to seek Truth, Beauty and Goodness in this world and be at peace. ❤️

  • @JuliaFlorencee
    @JuliaFlorencee Год назад +93

    In today's society, it is so easy to forget that resting is so important. I can really relate to what you said about "always feeling tired forever". It made me think that maybe in the past I too was living a fast-paced life that was not suited for me. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and your insights. I have learned a lot about myself through you. It shows again that resting is so important

  • @itsmejanny
    @itsmejanny Год назад +4

    I have 4 daughters and they found the book "What to Expect When You're Expecting" to be so helpful. Take good care of your beautiful self and your precious new life.

  • @rockyduck9133
    @rockyduck9133 Год назад +18

    Growing a human can feel like climbing a mountain every day. It's normal to feel very tired. I know you will take very good care of yourself for your very loved baby. You look beautiful and glowing.

    • @MaryBeth1965
      @MaryBeth1965 Год назад +2

      Raising a human is the really tough part! ( mom of 4, granny of 1 here...)

  • @penny6254
    @penny6254 Год назад +18

    Growing and nurturing a new little human inside is plenty productive!
    And yes, actually resting, attuned to my needs, is really an art, which I too am still learning.
    Really moving story, loved it, and your rendition too!

  • @himikadastidar9482
    @himikadastidar9482 Год назад +83

    I would not mind getting an audiobook from you... your voice is so calming and wonderful

  • @katashley1031
    @katashley1031 Год назад +3

    The rhythm we are encouraged to adapt is wholly unnatural. Slow living is real living. Sure, sometimes a little speeding up is fun or necessary, but you miss being present when you multi task and rush. It's not what we are meant to do very often. Presence, awareness, rest and calm. That's what allows us to live more fully than the grind and frantic pace. You're doing just fine; life in the slow lane is filled with wonder and magic. ❤

  • @susanmary4752
    @susanmary4752 Год назад +68

    After many years of working as a Critical Care nurse I looked forward to retiring and slowing down. I find I'm much more productive now and can actually partake in the things that bring me peace and happiness. I loved your story! It was so comforting and I could visualize the details. Keep writing!

  • @teresacabebe27
    @teresacabebe27 Год назад +3

    Tranquility oozed into my soul as I watched, listened to your video. I'm spending time in prayer for you. God bless you, Paola. ~ Teresa

  • @mtilford
    @mtilford Год назад +107

    Paola, you write (and narrate) so beautifully, and your art is so endearing that I'm sure if you wrote and illustrated a children's book, it would become a best seller! Best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy and birth. From a fan in Australia.

    • @jenb7472
      @jenb7472 Год назад

      I agree! And I’m also a fan in Australia! ❤

  • @robinparsons8949
    @robinparsons8949 11 месяцев назад +14

    What a beautiful story, Paola. You should publish it and create the illustrations yourself. Sending you positive energy for a healthy, happy, peaceful pregnancy

  • @deannaclayton6934
    @deannaclayton6934 Год назад +30

    I am 73 ….. your sweet yet poignant story brought me to tears. Thank you for touching my soul this beautiful November morning 🕯️Blessings abound .

  • @cjbtoday
    @cjbtoday 11 месяцев назад +10

    ....................Is the video over? Paola - seriously your story telling technique is magical. And I don't just mean that story about the Fox... every one of your videos tell a soulful story. You are one of the few RUclipsrs I can watch where at the end of the video there is a calming silence which lingers. It stops time. It is a silence that cuddles one's senses, as if you have reached out of from the screen and given a comforting hug to say "It's okay, everything is going to be okay" ... Bless you xoxo .....oh and a Merry Christmas to you and the family.

  • @BZSchnoodle
    @BZSchnoodle Год назад +31

    I don't know when in your life you will pursue writing seriously, but I feel that you are a born storyteller. I loved that story! I would love to see it in print. Morning sickness and tiredness aside, you glow in this pregnancy. All the best to you.

  • @maydanavabarnett5177
    @maydanavabarnett5177 Год назад +13

    Oh, what a beautiful story! You must publish these stories for the world to be blessed by them! What a gift you have to share, Paola! God continues to bless you abundantly 🌈🙏🏽🤟🏼💕

  • @disabilityadvoc8
    @disabilityadvoc8 Год назад +56

    6:18 “Everytime you let go a little more of anything that's holding you back, you feel lighter, more rested, more whole. That is quality rest. It's not always easy. It teaches you how to surrender. You're not always the one in control. And I think there's freedom in that acceptance.” (Paola) ❤

  • @amandasymon4363
    @amandasymon4363 Год назад +1

    My husband of 40 years died a week ago. I met him when I was 15 and he was 17 . I haven’t stopped shacking and am jumping every time the phone rings. . Cracks have a way of letting in light - Wonderful deep words. They have given me a glimmer of hope. 🙏

    • @traveller6744
      @traveller6744 Год назад

      That is so sad to read, my condolences, sending you strength, love and peace of mind ❤your husband is with you always and helping you on your earthly journey ❤😊

  • @serenataylor4836
    @serenataylor4836 Год назад +71

    Love to you Paola from Australia .
    Please look after yourself , your baby and your peace .
    I learnt a valuable lesson tonight , aged 63 .
    I let go of a man who said he loved me however his actions did not back these words up .
    I will look back on your journey to brighten my days and read your gorgeous book .
    Sending lots of love and hugs 😘🤗😘🤗🧚🏾‍♀️

    • @larsstougaard7097
      @larsstougaard7097 Год назад +16

      Thanks for sharing sending you a hug 🫂 can be hard to let go even if its for the best.

    • @LindaKayHolevas
      @LindaKayHolevas Год назад +20

      I am proud of you for letting go. I am 59 & it was 7 years ago I left go of a man who I had been with & known for many, many years. It was the same situation. He talked to good talk, but he certainly didn’t walk it. I’ve never been at more peace in my life. It took me a couple years to really get back on my feet, but it was so worth it. I finally learned how to love myself & you will, too. You’ve already taken the first step. Sending you love & light ❤️✨

    • @rachelkingsley668
      @rachelkingsley668 Год назад +6

      That’s a very courageous thing to do! Blessings on you xx❤

    • @elizabethwidlund3859
      @elizabethwidlund3859 Год назад +4

      I left an abusive 5 year marriage with the certainty I would never ever get involved with anyone ever again. God had other plans, and I've been happily married to a wonderful man for 5 years. Sometimes you have to let go of the bad stuff so something wonderful can take its place...even if you're not looking for it. Be proud of yourself. Sending hugs.

    • @ΜαραΚανα
      @ΜαραΚανα Год назад +1

      ​I'm so glad you found happiness.May it lasts forever!❤❤❤🎉

  • @wendybrown-jensen8408
    @wendybrown-jensen8408 Год назад +9

    I really really loved the little story!! I got in touch with regrets and a sadness that I let myself get swept away in busy. Now I’m 61😳 and will retire from teaching this year. Good for you for insisting on listening to your body’s rhythm. 💕

  • @Thefunfamily_3582
    @Thefunfamily_3582 Год назад +33

    I've always had low energy all my life. This is just who I am, and I've accepted it with grace. You're going to be a good mother. I've been one for over a decade now. My secret is I make time daily to embrace the art of resting. It energizes me like a charger charges up a cellphone.

  • @denavigil5529
    @denavigil5529 Год назад +3

    Learning to navigate this will help you in motherhood as well. As a young mother I often found myself rushing my children around. My daughter was (and still is) very slow. I called her the Pokey Little Puppy, like the book character. But when I realized it was more important for ME to slow down, and to go at their little pace, my stress level went down, and I actually began enjoying the little moments more. The best thing about motherhood is that you're not alone. We've been doing this since the beginning of time. Lean on others for help and support when you need it! Best of luck to you.

  • @lorikirkwood5414
    @lorikirkwood5414 Год назад +41

    I have had 5 children. I am now 72, but I feel a very young 72. Listening to your impressions and musings and philosophy on life takes me back with a smile to my first pregnancy. You are going down the correct path with taking it easy and resting and getting, Yes, 10 hours of sleep. Take good care. You are growing a human, and you are becoming a mother, which is a wonderful thing to be. Congratulations! By the way, I have 3 grandsons, and my youngest son (born when I was 37) and his wife are now expecting their first, another boy, due in February, so a fourth grandson for me. Perhaps they will decide to have one more after this, and I will get a granddaughter. But if not, We Love Our Boys! 😊❤

  • @jeanettehayes687
    @jeanettehayes687 Год назад +1

    Paula, the first three and four months babies brain is being form. It takes a tremendous amount of energy that tired feeling will eventually go away take it while you can. There is no shame in that and after the babies born, you will no longer have any sleep for the first year I guess I don’t mean to be discouraging but sleep while you can take your rest let that baby develop that’s all that’s important. We all love you and understand.

  • @BarbyDailey-Rurallife40
    @BarbyDailey-Rurallife40 Год назад +51

    Paola, you look extra beautiful today. I think your pregnancy is giving you a glow. Your story is beautiful. Please keep writing. You touch so many with all of your creativeness. This sweet story brought tears to my eyes, maybe because I'm at the older woman's age. It could be a story of things missed because of business in life, but then peace found.

    • @cintiaardevol3543
      @cintiaardevol3543 Год назад +4

      I was just thinking the same thing!! She is gorgeous

  • @heathermarsh3425
    @heathermarsh3425 8 месяцев назад +1

    It's like Beatrix Potter has enveloped you , your posts always bring me back to centre .
    Thankyou ❤

  • @jeannettebahler8348
    @jeannettebahler8348 Год назад +9

    My Dear, l am 90 years old and l enjoyed your little story. Perhaps, l share in many ways your nature. JMB 17:18

  • @laurathurlow3634
    @laurathurlow3634 Год назад +4

    That story made me cry Paola. Three times. I haven't lost him, I know we'll find each other--but the months feel long. I hadn't realized how hard it can be to live a fairytale. He's in my heart--in my core--laughing, always smiling and joking and turning the world into warm gingerbread loaves--but I look forward to finding 'the other me' again. 'out there' . I sometimes wonder who we'll be then.
    Good job resting Paola. I am prennially impressed withe the beautiful powerful vulnerable mighty becoming you are. Thank you for sharing.
    Please write that lovely story into an illustrated children's book, Paola, and let me be the first to order a copy!
    xx

  • @OctoberBride
    @OctoberBride Год назад +79

    As a mother of two children, all I can say is you are not alone in what you are experiencing. Pregnancy is hard and tiring and exhausting and beautiful and wonderful all at once. There were days I couldn't get out of bed, much less do anything productive. There were days I would cry over absolutely nothing. I'm rooting for you and I hope this sickness passes soon. Also I loved your story! You're very talented and it's such a lovely tale to read to your child some day! Much love to you.

  • @haneulbae4312
    @haneulbae4312 10 месяцев назад +1

    I really hope that we followers can be there by your side when things are a bit tired for you, so that we can share couple of those things 2gether 😢
    OK, just in case you want to hear this, you have a whole community which appreciate you with so much of love, and have so much love to share with you

  • @janetclaireSays
    @janetclaireSays Год назад +40

    I have never been more tired than I was during the first trimester of my first pregnancy! Your story was lovely, so charming and meaningful. And I love foxes, which made it all the more special.

  • @dianahex6715
    @dianahex6715 Год назад +3

    Your videos offer so much confort. Thank you for being such a light among the darkness of the world.

  • @lillybrooks7662
    @lillybrooks7662 Год назад +26

    Your story is absolutely lovely, and I’m so thrilled to be able to hear it read by you!! Your voice and cadence are so gentle and sweet! I look forward to (perhaps, hopefully!) being able to purchase the book itself for the young children in my life. Books are such a magical portal for me…
    With that being said, it would be wonderful to have the book available in an ‘Audible’-type option, because your voice absolutely DOES add so much !!!
    I’m so thrilled to see you being so absolutely true to yourself, especially now… Sending you and your sweet family so much love, and bright blessings!!! It is a joy and an honor to have found you!!! 💐🦋💐

  • @MyMerryMessyGermanLife
    @MyMerryMessyGermanLife Год назад +6

    Yeah pregnancy can really take a lot of us. Your body is indeed growing a whole other human. I think it’s wonderful that you’re leaning into it and listening to what your body needs. ❤ I was diagnosed with ADHD this year and it has opened up the world of neurodivergence to me (Autism and ADHD). I have learned SO much and so much of what you talk about on this channel sounds like the presentation of Autism in women. Sensitive natures, preferring to be alone and in quiet, deep in thought, frazzled with busyness, often tired, thriving in quiet solitude in nature, and more. I’ve wanted to say this before, but I was afraid to. I don’t want it to come across as a criticism or anything negative - I say it instead out of care and love. Because I’ve found a diagnosis to open up answers, clarity and help I didn’t even realize I needed. The autism research and knowledge has changed drastically in the last 5-10 years, and many women are getting diagnosed as adults. Anyway, just sharing. You are

  • @cherylbfrey5936
    @cherylbfrey5936 Год назад +80

    What a lovely story! You know, sometimes things happen for a reason. This little story may not have been intended for a video, perhaps it was meant to become a children’s story book.During your pregnancy, if you were feeling up to it, perhaps you could watercolor some little scenes you imagined for your story. Your book dedication could even be your little one to come. ❤️❤️

    • @MathandMakeup
      @MathandMakeup Год назад +3

      Beautiful honest and raw feelings in this video. That is what I love about this channel the most. I'm so happy for you and soon all of this will have been worth it when you meet your little one and they will have some of the most wonderful creative and imaginative parents! I enjoyed this video, the music is excellent choice too.

    • @hilltopvt
      @hilltopvt Год назад +1

      great idea!

  • @donnamarcotte5809
    @donnamarcotte5809 Год назад +8

    You are so wise to listen to your heart, your body, and your own rhythm. I'm trying to do the same. You and your videos inspire me. Thx for sharing this important message and the possibilities.

  • @mrstiggywinkle
    @mrstiggywinkle Год назад +112

    I have 3 boys and each pregnancy definitely gets you ready for the baby in all ways. Letting go of expectations is the best advice ❤ you’ll be a wonderful mummy! Xx

    • @AM-bm2xw
      @AM-bm2xw Год назад +2

      Letting go of expectations is the best advice, I wholeheartedly agree.!.. I also have 3 boys, almost 8, 6, and 4 months😊

  • @lorareynolds2351
    @lorareynolds2351 11 месяцев назад +6

    In case you wonder how much your videos go out into the world, I want you to know that I have several of yours that I replay regularly- this has become one of them. I also have your book. Your efforts are making a big difference in the world.

  • @WitchOfThePage
    @WitchOfThePage Год назад +20

    I love that your cat holds your hand. 🐾
    Instant classic that story was. It reminded me so much of "The Giving Tree" an all time favorite of mine.

  • @annat.s.3600
    @annat.s.3600 Год назад +5

    Gosh, you made me shed a few tears with that beautiful story.❤ Wishing you all the rest you need.

  • @seriouslywhatever1031
    @seriouslywhatever1031 Год назад +8

    I am really feeling this today. I've been tired my whole life as well. I just want to sleep, nap, lounge, eat and play like a cat all day every day. But life says no unfortunately.

  • @elliebelle5244
    @elliebelle5244 Год назад +5

    I join the many comments to tell you that your story of the girl and fox captivated my thoughts. You have the gift of tale, and with your talents for illustrating the world-this would be such a beautiful gift to your child to turn this into a book. Whether it is a private one between you and your child, or if you should ever choose to share it with the world. Thank you for sharing this story with us.

  • @francescawollaston2227
    @francescawollaston2227 Год назад +22

    Dearest Paola, what a magical story to wake up to on this Saturday in Australia ❤ ….balm for mind and soul. I remember the tiredness and bursting into tears at the drop of a hat, when I was pregnant. Very normal and completely understandable. The hormones are racing around making a little fairy child, which is hard work. Please don’t ever feel you need to post. I am quite sure, all of your loyal followers, including myself, don’t expect it. We all know that this is a time of flux and change. Take time to look after yourself. And as my darling late father, John, would say “everything just is”. Sending you much love and hugs, Francesca ❤❤❤🎄🫂🌻🌼💐🌈

  • @kristensaenz6421
    @kristensaenz6421 Год назад +1

    Oh what sweet beautiful story of the fox and the fairy child. Your telling of it is beautiful too. Thank you for sharing. I could see the film of if in my mind while listening.

  • @rchhtt5210
    @rchhtt5210 Год назад +19

    Fellow low-energy person here. Pregnancy was by far the most challenging for me because of extreme fatigue. It lasted the whole pregnancy. I remember taking 3 naps one day lol. I never felt guilt for resting though. Wishing you well on this journey ❤

  • @brendastevens9077
    @brendastevens9077 Месяц назад +1

    This story is so beautiful. It's so interesting that I found you on here now that you haven't been filming now. I hope you will return sometime soon.❤❤❤

  • @lareekline8232
    @lareekline8232 Год назад +25

    This lesson about productivity and value is something everyone should hear and hopefully take to heart. And while you may feel tired, you are glowing!

  • @bethoneill7011
    @bethoneill7011 Год назад +1

    Give your book a title, write it, illustrate it. Publish it. AND definitely READ it/audiobook for all to hear the calm and peace (and tiredness-understandably so) in your voice. Im 56 y/o with a terminal illness and I'm in awe of your channel (long time follower), I feel wonder and comfort when watching your videos, and that feels great to me. Thank you.

  • @sarajmatulich
    @sarajmatulich Год назад +22

    Thanks for your beautiful story! I listen to it when I was feeling blue, and it lifted my spirits. I appreciate your gentle way of life, and I am trying to adopt the same mentality.
    Have a joyous Christmas season, and I look forward to being inspired by your videos.

    • @TheCottageFairy
      @TheCottageFairy  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much ☺️ I am honored, sending warm wishes

  • @irenetorres8848
    @irenetorres8848 11 месяцев назад +1

    this story just revived my childhood joy and inner child's curiosity and laughter

  • @darviecampbell2763
    @darviecampbell2763 Год назад +19

    What a sweet story! It does make one wonder what we've lost along life's twisting turns. Gentle patience comes to mind, which is something that your videos are rich in!

  • @yamilletrivas8041
    @yamilletrivas8041 Год назад +5

    Awww I cried so much with the story you have written as I recognized myself in there! Thank you so much for EVERYTHING you share here! No matter how much time you need away during your pregnancy or as a new mom, we will be here!

  • @laurasvoyages
    @laurasvoyages Год назад +38

    What a lovely story, Paola. You are indeed a very talented woman. Wishing you all the very best.

  • @les2981
    @les2981 Год назад +8

    I needed to hear this today. Your story is enchanting and your voice soothing. I'm in desperate need of light in my life at this moment and learning to rest has been difficult for me. Thank you for this video and blessings to you.

  • @The-KingsDaughter
    @The-KingsDaughter Год назад +20

    Your story was so cute! I love how you can interpret the story in the mythical way that its told but also evaluate that the fox represents our childhood pleasures and the things we must stay true to, but as we get older we forget, get occupied, or lose the way entirely. But only when you take things slow, you remember who you are, and the pleasures you once enjoyed. Beautiful story Paola.

  • @sallysims5090
    @sallysims5090 Год назад +3

    Thanks for sharing your beautiful story, Paola. We saw two foxes in a newly mown field on our walk yesterday. A magical moment! Take good care. 🐇🦔🐿🦇🐻🐾🌲🐱🐕

  • @sloganhammond
    @sloganhammond Год назад +9

    I can’t wait for you to write a children’s book!! I am captivated by your writing and illustrations

  • @tammy2855
    @tammy2855 Год назад +4

    Paola, I could listen to you read these stories ALL day long. Your voice is incredibly soothing. It’s soft and gentle and the little child inside of me hears you and doesn’t want the story to end. Thank you 🌸🙏

  • @LindaKayHolevas
    @LindaKayHolevas Год назад +12

    Your story was beautiful. Thank you so much for trusting us enough to share it with us. I can see it being made into a children’s book, with the cover & pages beautifully illustrated by you. ❤ I would buy many copies.

  • @sesas4810
    @sesas4810 Год назад +5

    Dear Paola, thank you for continuing your beautiful work and then sharing it with us, greatly appreciated. Remember it's hard work growing a baby, enjoy what you can when you can. 💜

  • @maryryan
    @maryryan Год назад +8

    Hello Cottage fairy 🧚‍♀️
    I have been your subscriber for quite some time....
    I love your solitude....
    Tranquility.....
    Your scenery of forest...
    Your home life at the cottage ❤....
    It's lovely to see you back.....
    You do bring some peace to my life....
    With all that you do...
    Quietly spoken....
    Well spoken...
    Softly spoken...
    Sensibly spoken....
    Thank you for sharing your life with us 🙏🏻 😊 ❤️
    Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @mifnp8887
    @mifnp8887 Год назад +12

    I ❤ this channel.
    I always feel so much better just listening to you, Paola.
    Best wishes to you, Luke, and your pregnancy!

  • @denisehall956
    @denisehall956 Год назад +18

    I loved the story. You should do a story reading often. Your voice is so calming and wonderful to listen to.

  • @loriburgess1866
    @loriburgess1866 Год назад +1

    I loved the story. I rarely get the pleasure of having someone read me a story. Beautiful.

  • @cynthiahamblin-perry5880
    @cynthiahamblin-perry5880 Год назад +30

    I love the idea of painting on pressed leaves! I collect so many every Autumn because they are so beautiful I can't resist. Take care of yourself.

  • @Kwilt2collect
    @Kwilt2collect Год назад

    Growing another human being is work, your body is doing something 24/7 for awhile. That is productivity!

  • @booknerd4317
    @booknerd4317 Год назад +11

    I made myself a cup of hot chocolate and listened to the story of the girl and the fox. Thank you Paola. You make me feel at peace and remind me it’s okay to be me - a girl who lives in the country with her animals and reads books laying in the grass for hours gazing at the sky listening to the birds. Picking wildflowers and making art. Cooking and taking care of our many animals. In a world that moves so fast this reminded me and was profound when you said you are simply listening to the beat of a different song. Now I take care of my mother who has leukemia and is bed ridden and I know when I’ve filled up the cup I pour from I’m much better equipped to give more and for my loved one’s when I’m in a depleted state. Sending blessings to you and the magical bean sprouting within you.

  • @2Elkhounds
    @2Elkhounds Год назад +1

    what a touching story Paola...brought tears to my eyes...stay centered & stay healthy nourishing that seed within you

  • @jmk1962
    @jmk1962 Год назад +17

    Would love to listen to an audio book of yours. Your voice is so soothing.❤

  • @narelleking9040
    @narelleking9040 Год назад +4

    I don't know why, but I found myself crying listening to your story. It was truly beautiful and I could picture everything so clearly. You have a very soothing voice to listen too. I hope we can one day see this story in print and I can already imagine the gorgeous illustrations x

  • @elisasmith1609
    @elisasmith1609 Год назад +18

    What a very lovely story you wrote💗 It brought tears to my eyes. I don't know how many meanings you embedded in the story but it resonates on many levels and calls one home to ones true self in a truly beautiful way. 💗

  • @saradonson9849
    @saradonson9849 Год назад +4

    Dear Paola, What a lovely story...it struck a chord with me. You look lovely and blooming. Such a blessed time🐣

  • @popinfresh
    @popinfresh Год назад +11

    Your story was beautifully written, and I hope one day when you have time and energy that you do bring it to life as a short film. The part where the old lady reunited with the fox with her apology of losing her way brought tears to my eyes. I often find that life’s distractions and fight for survival in society robs us of our happiness. I’m glad she eventually found her way home.

  • @mdmcgee
    @mdmcgee Год назад

    One of the best boundaries you can have as a mother is accepting what your body needs and honoring it. Don't fight it. Don't "should" yourself. This is a precious, beautiful time and I wish we have had more respect for it over time as a society (especially post partum - take all the time you need before family comes around. Matrescense is real)