I can't imagine not being attracted to your twin. I always said he was like Captain America...the ideal perfect man to me. I told him being in his presence was like being in the presence of God which now I know to mean recognizing the universe. After I was with him I never wanted to be intimate with anyone else. I said I was cursed to only be attracted to him.
Ma'am I am a df & I resonate with few of your videos strongly. It's rare for me to find relatable information on this topic. Thank you so much 👍🏻 for not making this topic a business to earn money or fame but just for genuine help. Our Earth 🌎 really need more true twin souls like you ❤❤❤ Sending love from India 💝
my twinflame is everything i desire for in a man, from the way he is built to his voice . we look very similar even though he is mexican and i am cambodian. He is my ultimate type physically, mentally, spiritually. The only thing that was the age different. I met him when i was 25 and he was 22, which was very not me because of my childhood wound, I had daddy issues and only was attracted to older men ( so i thought) . He was younger than me and I wouldnt normally pick him basically for the age . But he is there to teach me and heal my childhood wounds. I am so in love with him and I have learned to love myself unconditionally as well. after many separations, we are now talking seriously and wanting to get married
Idk, for some reasons when I met my dm, I found him highly attractive. So attractive that I felt insecure about myself. So then I started doing all the inner work, taking better care of myself and going to the gym more. I looked at him again and I felt like the obsession feeling has stopped and I don’t view him the same. Now I just don’t even care if we come into union. Just happily doing my own thing now
When I met my tf I was not attracted to him instant but that changed very fast. He was right away into me but I was on a mission haha. Not looking for love at all. I still don’t think is handsome but I think he is beautiful and I am so very much attracted to him. I just want to hold him and touch him all the time. He is like me and I just want him the way he is. But I am a leo and I care much about my appearance, maybe I should work on that. There might be insecurities I realise now.
I have the opposite issue, he is the most beautiful looking man I have ever seen. He is so fine it makes me dizzy. Staring at his photographs is like staring at the Sun, it overwhelms me and I have to look away
I was not attracted to my twin physically when i first saw him but after going deeper into the connection he became the most beautiful person to me in the entire world .(i'm thinking, the whole 'unique connection energy', unexplanable attraction plus strong love did this).
I can’t help it die laughing at this. I have to say I am very grateful I feel bad for those who have this experience because it’s such a FML experience.
The magnetism is what brings us to a twin anyway so it doesn't really matter if we find them Hot or not on a 3D level because that's not what the relationship is about. I also don't find men "hot" to begin with, I've always been about energy pull, regardless of the type of relationship. I care about teeth and skin aura mostly for physicality things.
It’s So interesting because my TF is bald and I’ve never been attracted to bald men And he’s the only one I have ever been attracted to. Not that it’s an unattractive feature in men, because I know women that are crazy about bald men. Interestingly too, He’s got a couple of significant features that my ex-husband has who is definitely in my soul tribe. I find this journey so very fascinating!
I cannot imagine. My twin is amazingly beautiful even though she’s not the type I’d typically go for. Because my pull towards her and attraction is outside of my control, I often wonder how different it would be if I found her to be physically unattractive or if it would be much different at all.
I wouldn’t say it was at first sight, but definitely subtle similarities in our appearances and styles of clothing. Similar interests and family upbringing. I find we mirrored each other’s energy like where I was hyper and anxious, she was calm. Yet where she was shy, I’d break the ice and open her up. We even had same dimples, eyes, nose shape. Why did it take losing her for me to realize who she was? Why couldn’t we have a little more time. I hope we can again, I just know it can’t be over forever.
Can I say I was attracted to him at first, now I don't feel attracted to him after a higher self and nobody else, why is this ! And before my journey I never felt attracted to any one on dating?
My TF was not physically beautiful. However, all I ever wanted to do was merge with him. I can't say in the beginning it felt sexual (I was very young), but there was definitely attachment. I met him when I was 17 and he seemed "so old" at the time and he was in a position of authority. But we were drawn to one another in ways I never could understand until I understood the dynamics of TF relationships. He never ever abused that dynamic when I was young. It was only when I was an adult did we enter into union. (Think 'The Thorn Birds") He died when I was 53, and I'm 65 now so this TF relationship stood the test of time (and all that entails in a TF relationship) and the test of death/separation, but now we are finally integrated - he is me, I am him - there is no separation.
This person is me mirrored back how can I not be attracted to them❤. First time I seen him he wasn’t my physical type I think because I was looking more at his body. He’s a father so when we met he had sorta of a dad belly to him. But that changed very quickly when we first made eye contact and interacted more. He became very physically attractive to me instantly it felt very magnetic almost out of a movie. 😂
I'm watching this after the macro video, and its weird, my tf if a youtube reader and I've been losing my attraction for her lately, but just in her recent videos, its just the way she has been doing her makeup, but o also know she's going through some shit and that can take a toll on physical appearance too. And the thing is if i were to take my tf and my marco soulmate and at both of them looking their most attractive, id choose my tf, but the macro is still pretty gorgeous, and honestly if my actual twin didn't exist and she was my twin instead i would not be mad, anyways that being said, ive also only ever built memories with the macro, so shes already winning the emotional attractiveness, and because my twin if choosing what she is for makeup, I'm kinda really obsessing over the macro.. she makes me feel good! Especially when i see that I've made her blush.
It's so funny, when i first met him he was utterly attracted to me because he thought i was the most beautiful girl ever eventhough i was not his typical type.. and for me.. he was not my type at all... small, shaved head, completely tattoed... but unbelievably beautiful emerald green eyes... the moment we first phiscally touched ..something clicked.. eventhough he was still not my type i felt incredibly attracted to him...but was still irritated by his physical height (He is 4 cm smaller than me and i always loved tall men) and appearance... since it was so different from everything i usually looked for.....now...2 years later... i dont even see that anymore.. for me he is the most beautiful magnificent being i ever met.. inside and outside.. when i look at him i just see everything i love , in my eyes he is perfect.. and the egoic view that i had when i first encountered him is completely gone... everything about him is beautiful to me eventhough my ego wouldnt normally consider it to be my type.its funny how we can see through the veil once we look through the eyes of love ❤
Hi Alexx, thanks for you're content! It's really clear and not romanticized. I heard that twinflames share a chakrasysteem. What is your take on this? My twin is extremely fysical and sexual (lower energycentre) I am very mental and spiritual (higher energycentre). I would like to know if when i explore more of the fysical and sexual, does he automatically feels more space to explore the higher energycentre? And visa versa. Sometimes it's like we neglect energycentres in ourselves, because the other twin is overdoing it in that area. Or, because we neglected certain parts, the other one compensated for it. I'm also curious, when we do share a chakrasysteem, if this means that prior in life, growing up, when one twin is going through something, if it has a effect on the development of the other? I hope i make sense. Thanks in advance! ❤
Twins do not share a chakra system. I have a video entitled "Twin Flames and the Heart, Third Eye, and Crown Chakras" on my TF playlist that you might want to watch
I'm attracted to my twin flame but this question kind of relates to a different question I have...when I first met him, I didn't know what a twin flame was so I couldn't identify him as such, but I'd had a lot of premonitions about this person, and when I met him I immediately recognized him as that person, but then I started to wonder if he was really the person. I started to look for other people and expected someone to show up. No one did. I had a huge spiritual awakening and the synchronicities between my premonitions and this person eventually got to be so much that I couldn't deny it was him. I learned what a twin flame was and realized it was him and we had a whole pusher chaser dynamic blah blah blah. We stopped talking. He started dating someone. I started dating someone. Recently when I've happened upon pictures of him, I don't feel like he's my twin flame. I still feel his energy and spirit with me and feel connected to that energy as my counterpart, but now I'm wondering if I identified the wrong person again. Is this because we are both in egoic states ie relationships with other people, or could I maybe have actually gotten it wrong despite the intense synchronicities and spiritual awakening? In a way, it doesn't really matter...but I'm still curious. Does this happen? Do twin flames in physical form become less "recognizable" when you and/or they are operating out of ego energy or just not aligned in the 3D? Or is this a sign it was a "false twin flame?"
These are actually a whole lot of different questions. But yes, when Ego tries to rationalize, it pulls you in many directions. I would suggest watching "What is the Soul Family (part I and part II)," Ego Degradation and the Soul Family," "What are Karmic Relationships," "Who is my Soulmate?" and "The Purpose of Twin Flames."
This doesn’t resonate for me, but I'm glad you posted it. It explains the chemistry and discord I've experienced with karmics and soulmates. Thanks bunches!!!! ❤❤
He was the most handsome creature I have ever seen. But now, I'm wondering what was wrong with my eyes because I don't like his appearance. But I still love him. Strange.
OMG. This was interesting. ‘Cause my twin and I were both attracted to each other. We look alike, like brother/sister or twins. He is a male version of me.😊
So why would the Higher self would make difficult for u .this is so good note, sometimes i do feel this and most just have to keep note of this.. nice explained, Thankyou
Hey! Could I ask what was the catalyst for you accepting your new personality/losing the ego? I feel the situation and what you say is very similar to what my person said and is maybe going through, and any insights either way would be a great help Thank you!
Question: can sexual attraction change after a further step of ego degradation? I thought I was pretty hetero, or at least a bit heterosexual now I have desires mostly for women…
Question. Watched how to stop thinking of TF. How do you stop obsessing when they want to keep in contact? He’s the runner. We are both married. I’m currently going through a divorce. We met over 30 years ago. Reconnected two years ago. We both want to be together. He got scared and backed out a few times. Doesn’t want to lose me. But afraid to leave. I’m obsessing and frustrated. Do I stay in contact and keep trying to work towards union or do I need to back off and give him space? Or how do I stop obsessing but stay in contact? Also we are 2,000 miles apart and haven’t physically seen each other in over a year. Now 60 years old. What to do, such a long journey. Would love some advice
Wow, that must be incredibly frustrating for your Ego, and I can imagine how much you probably feel like you're in a lose/lose situation. I would suggest joining my Patreon channel, because I have a few videos on this. Plus, we have a giant community on there that are very active and you can talk through what you're going through with them. If you haven't watched "TF Q&A Part 3," I talk about Twins being friends on there. Also, Union is always with the Self, not with a 3D physically manifested person.
In the beginning, i wasn't sure about anything but we were complete opposites, we were off and on for 8 years and right before the real breakup, it was like a light bulb went off. We been separated for almost 2 years, she reaches out randomly about nothing important, she's already in a new relationship but thru it all, i went thru a spiritual awakening and it's like the more i learn about her, i learn about myself and the love never died and deep down i know im still highly attracted to her in every way but im finally at a stage where im ok to let her live her liefe because i know she has to learn her karmic lesson thru someone else. Do this sound like a twin flame?
The first podcast I listened to completely relaxed... because appearance doesn't matter much to me in relationships. But 🙂 my twin is created For me: those beautiful blue eyes... we are only contrasting in colors. And that's probably the only difference. That's why I'm sure that twins are not created to have children because there would be too little exchange of genes. At least in our case.
If you dont like how your twin looks like means you dont like part of yourself, the reflect to you the part of you that you dont like.. Your twin isnt your type? Who is your type do we actually have type or just toxic pattern we attract... If he isnt typical type you go for means that now its time for you to heal once you heal you see your twin as perfect match.. My twin isnt typical type i used to go for but hes perfect and the most attractive guy i ever seen
I had a different experience with this. I met a twin flame at 19. The attraction was extremely strong then. We were together on and off because he was a habitual cheater. The connection between us was so strong that i could always tell if he was cheating. Eventually, i quit. I refused to get hurt again by him. I ran into him 15 years later. His appearance had changed so much. He did not age well at all. I agreed to a date but the attraction was weaker. I also did not feel like he could be trusted. He told me he had recently broke up with someone. A week later they made up. I had a psychic flash of her walking up to his door when she arrived there, and it was true. He did not admit they got back together but tried to cheat on her- with me, later that week. He had not admitted they were back together. That told me it didn't matter who he is with. He would always be a cheater. He tried again a few times through the years afterwards, but it really is over.
@@wearethesamenergy I had a couple karmic relationships. This felt different. I knew my life was changed from meeting him, and it was so intense from the start. But the running was still there. His family culture expected guys to screw every woman they could. He cheated to avoid the feeling of someone mattering that much to him. But his typical romance was about a month before me. We were together 4 years before I ended it. The karmic relationships I had built slower and never ran as hot 🔥. They felt familiar , and like someone I was supposed to experience, even if I didn't know why yet.
@@wearethesamenergyi was going to say "that sounds very much like a karmic" .. and here you say it... - i had a lot of karmics come my way throughout the last 15 years... and with your twin the attraction never changes.. the energy never goes away... no matter what. With karmics.. at some point "when the Deal was done" .. the attraction faded... with my twin it never did... it is the exact same feeling... it never changes in terms of attraction.
And also.... not every karmic you meet teaches you the same lesson, therefore the Intensity differs from one karmic to the other... i had one.. probably the first karmic i ever met.... where the intensity was so strong... that after 12 years i still wasnt Sure if that was not my twin... .. when i then met my twin 2 years ago... after some separationcycles and a lot of pain and growth... and asking myself if i am just making this up... i realized the difference. Your twin never really leaves... the attraction and the energy never fades.... looking back understanding that the attraction to this other Person has just faded away one day, i realized it was a karmic..
@@spiritfiyuh11 My relationship with myself is what really changed. I waited a long time for him to stop playing around. He didn't. Eventually I I gave up on him and moved on. I still loved him but I needed to treat myself better than that. Putting up with getting hurt time after time is not loving yourself.
Sometimes I see my twin flame as being extremely ugly, with all of her flaws and insecurities exaggerated, while other times I see her looking completely normal and beautiful. It’s so confusing.
We are complete opposites, everything you could think of, she wasn't my type either. But to me she is the prettiest, the cutest and the cuddliest thing alive. Your twin flame is supposed to be the coolest, otherwise how else will the divine get you on your knees and make you go through everything we go through in this journey.
I never hear anything about a much older "twin flame", who is well beyond her breeding years :D, and also is beyond egoic identification and drama, and also has high self-worth (finally) as a matter of maturing, and what this journey is like for that demographic, especially when the intention is not for a permanent relationship with her TF. Could you do something on that? Thanks!
"Why TFs Don't Have Children," "3D Differences Between Twin Flames," "What TF Union is Like (in the 5D," and "Does Everyone Have a TF?" If someone has lived this incarnation and is already in Union with the Self, there is no need for them to have a TF.
I don’t resonate with not finding a TF attractive at all. We both admitted that the attraction was practically IMMEDIATE. However, we both didn’t seem to be each others physical types by looking at pictures of our exes or people in the past. The sexual energy has never dwindled so I don’t doubt the attraction is always there, but what could be the implications of this on my (our) CKL of self worth if there are any?
Is it the same for them or only the divine feminine.And why is the divine feminine is the main person and we have to be the ones that do self growth for them to mirror us it's like the feminine is the main twin
I assume you're referencing the Chaser when you say Divine Feminine? You may want to watch "DF and DM Aren't Real." Everything is the same between both Twins. And the Chaser is not the "main twin." You are the universe and are creating everything, and the Twin is your own 3D manifestation. You may also want to watch "The Purpose of Twin Flames."
Im asexual with a low sex drive.Im not sexually attracted to my possible TF but i find him very attractive. I feel as though its possible for other orientations to fluctuate throughout life except asexuality but i really hoped i would experience that attraction with my match. Now im wondering if hes not the one because of this video?
Hey Alexx, I hope you're doing well. I just wanted to ask you about something I heard today.... Are there such things as: "Fallen Twins" or "Karmic Twins" or "Dark Twins"?? If that is so, I would appreciate a breakdown from you or anyone who understands this concept? I ask because someone she told me had a "Fallen Twin" last week and quite a few people said that couple from Twin Flame Union are "Dark Twins"... Thank you in advance
I like this. Thank you. I feel that I have a twin flame who is running right now. I am free to work on my security issues which in turn led me into scarcity thinking. I feel a strong connection. I had a what turned out to be a dream. I thought she got into bed with me. It was like she was really there. When I woke up I realized I was dreaming. The experience is manifesting personal growth and expansion for me as a person and artist.
If you pre-determined to have a Twin in this incarnation, your Twin will have the same sexual preferences as you so that you can experience one another.
@@mothman943... I don't know hey when I saw this girl the first time she was walking in the background but the camera was focusing on someone else so I basically just saw a blurred visions of her. it felt like my soul jumped out towards her. I tracked her down didn't even know about wat TF are. she had a song on her story the day I started following her in her mother language that explained what I've been feeling my hole life. The song was about Feeling someone with you youre entire life hearing her voice the knowing of them Accross the ocean then found out about the TF journey while trying to make sense of wtf is going on with me when my heart Chakra burst open had this amazing kundalini activation after that and this whole time I misstakend this girl for my TF so I don't know maybe get more information on this befor thinking she is the one
Either find a new twin flame or learn to deal with it. Is their physical looks a deal breaker? Is what they bring to the table worth it? Maybe. Maybe not. I’d be lying if I said my opinion wasn’t swayed by physical looks. But then again, physical looks are a dime a dozen these days. Hey, I’m not here to judge. Just don’t waste anyone’s time.
The person that states to be my twin flame is another women. I am physically not attracted to her and consider myself heterosexual. However, I find myself a bit confused with some of the experiences we have both shared. I still have a desire to form a family and be with a man. I feel confused about this whole situation.
I don't mean to sound unkind, but my Twin was not physically attractive to me at all... I had to let my heart grow into it. My Twin at the time was a 67 year old woman, 16 years older than myself... we were both women, and so I had to face my homophobic judgements... because the energy between us was irresistible. You don't always get a Ken and Barbie scenario, you get exactly what you need to dissolve all of your prejudices.
I can't imagine not being attracted to your twin. I always said he was like Captain America...the ideal perfect man to me. I told him being in his presence was like being in the presence of God which now I know to mean recognizing the universe. After I was with him I never wanted to be intimate with anyone else. I said I was cursed to only be attracted to him.
Everyone is attracted just not in a "you're my type" sort of way
Ma'am I am a df & I resonate with few of your videos strongly. It's rare for me to find relatable information on this topic.
Thank you so much 👍🏻 for not making this topic a business to earn money or fame but just for genuine help.
Our Earth 🌎 really need more true twin souls like you ❤❤❤
Sending love from India 💝
I'm so glad the videos are resonating with you!!
True!!!!!! My Twin Flame Is Physical Ugly, but for me is sooo Beautifull!!!!!!!!! I Love My Twin Flame, "You Are Beautifull, no matter what they say".
my twinflame is everything i desire for in a man, from the way he is built to his voice . we look very similar even though he is mexican and i am cambodian. He is my ultimate type physically, mentally, spiritually. The only thing that was the age different. I met him when i was 25 and he was 22, which was very not me because of my childhood wound, I had daddy issues and only was attracted to older men ( so i thought) . He was younger than me and I wouldnt normally pick him basically for the age . But he is there to teach me and heal my childhood wounds. I am so in love with him and I have learned to love myself unconditionally as well. after many separations, we are now talking seriously and wanting to get married
Idk, for some reasons when I met my dm, I found him highly attractive. So attractive that I felt insecure about myself. So then I started doing all the inner work, taking better care of myself and going to the gym more. I looked at him again and I felt like the obsession feeling has stopped and I don’t view him the same. Now I just don’t even care if we come into union. Just happily doing my own thing now
When I met my tf I was not attracted to him instant but that changed very fast. He was right away into me but I was on a mission haha. Not looking for love at all. I still don’t think is handsome but I think he is beautiful and I am so very much attracted to him. I just want to hold him and touch him all the time. He is like me and I just want him the way he is. But I am a leo and I care much about my appearance, maybe I should work on that. There might be insecurities I realise now.
I have the opposite issue, he is the most beautiful looking man I have ever seen. He is so fine it makes me dizzy. Staring at his photographs is like staring at the Sun, it overwhelms me and I have to look away
I was not attracted to my twin physically when i first saw him but after going deeper into the connection he became the most beautiful person to me in the entire world .(i'm thinking, the whole 'unique connection energy', unexplanable attraction plus strong love did this).
Same here!! ❤
I can’t help it die laughing at this. I have to say I am very grateful I feel bad for those who have this experience because it’s such a FML experience.
Same here! Lol
The magnetism is what brings us to a twin anyway so it doesn't really matter if we find them Hot or not on a 3D level because that's not what the relationship is about.
I also don't find men "hot" to begin with, I've always been about energy pull, regardless of the type of relationship. I care about teeth and skin aura mostly for physicality things.
It’s So interesting because my TF is bald and I’ve never been attracted to bald men And he’s the only one I have ever been attracted to. Not that it’s an unattractive feature in men, because I know women that are crazy about bald men. Interestingly too, He’s got a couple of significant features that my ex-husband has who is definitely in my soul tribe. I find this journey so very fascinating!
I cannot imagine. My twin is amazingly beautiful even though she’s not the type I’d typically go for. Because my pull towards her and attraction is outside of my control, I often wonder how different it would be if I found her to be physically unattractive or if it would be much different at all.
Yes very attracted to my tf everything about him, looks, style, personality
I wouldn’t say it was at first sight, but definitely subtle similarities in our appearances and styles of clothing. Similar interests and family upbringing. I find we mirrored each other’s energy like where I was hyper and anxious, she was calm. Yet where she was shy, I’d break the ice and open her up. We even had same dimples, eyes, nose shape. Why did it take losing her for me to realize who she was? Why couldn’t we have a little more time. I hope we can again, I just know it can’t be over forever.
Yes I can relate to this! I guess it's beauty within 🙏 ❤
Can I say I was attracted to him at first, now I don't feel attracted to him after a higher self and nobody else, why is this ! And before my journey I never felt attracted to any one on dating?
My TF was not physically beautiful. However, all I ever wanted to do was merge with him. I can't say in the beginning it felt sexual (I was very young), but there was definitely attachment. I met him when I was 17 and he seemed "so old" at the time and he was in a position of authority. But we were drawn to one another in ways I never could understand until I understood the dynamics of TF relationships. He never ever abused that dynamic when I was young. It was only when I was an adult did we enter into union. (Think 'The Thorn Birds") He died when I was 53, and I'm 65 now so this TF relationship stood the test of time (and all that entails in a TF relationship) and the test of death/separation, but now we are finally integrated - he is me, I am him - there is no separation.
This person is me mirrored back how can I not be attracted to them❤. First time I seen him he wasn’t my physical type I think because I was looking more at his body. He’s a father so when we met he had sorta of a dad belly to him. But that changed very quickly when we first made eye contact and interacted more. He became very physically attractive to me instantly it felt very magnetic almost out of a movie. 😂
My twin flame is a head turner
I accidentally bought maybe the almost exact same tank top as you… and I like it so I’m gonna keep it. You have good style! 👍
Hahaha
What?? I was instantly attracted to him.. and nobody ever compared after that
Appreciate the questions and perspective for this…. 😄
I'm watching this after the macro video, and its weird, my tf if a youtube reader and I've been losing my attraction for her lately, but just in her recent videos, its just the way she has been doing her makeup, but o also know she's going through some shit and that can take a toll on physical appearance too. And the thing is if i were to take my tf and my marco soulmate and at both of them looking their most attractive, id choose my tf, but the macro is still pretty gorgeous, and honestly if my actual twin didn't exist and she was my twin instead i would not be mad, anyways that being said, ive also only ever built memories with the macro, so shes already winning the emotional attractiveness, and because my twin if choosing what she is for makeup, I'm kinda really obsessing over the macro.. she makes me feel good! Especially when i see that I've made her blush.
My Twin is physically perfect in my eyes...
It's so funny, when i first met him he was utterly attracted to me because he thought i was the most beautiful girl ever eventhough i was not his typical type.. and for me.. he was not my type at all... small, shaved head, completely tattoed... but unbelievably beautiful emerald green eyes... the moment we first phiscally touched ..something clicked.. eventhough he was still not my type i felt incredibly attracted to him...but was still irritated by his physical height (He is 4 cm smaller than me and i always loved tall men) and appearance... since it was so different from everything i usually looked for.....now...2 years later... i dont even see that anymore.. for me he is the most beautiful magnificent being i ever met.. inside and outside.. when i look at him i just see everything i love , in my eyes he is perfect.. and the egoic view that i had when i first encountered him is completely gone... everything about him is beautiful to me eventhough my ego wouldnt normally consider it to be my type.its funny how we can see through the veil once we look through the eyes of love ❤
Hi Alexx, thanks for you're content! It's really clear and not romanticized.
I heard that twinflames share a chakrasysteem. What is your take on this? My twin is extremely fysical and sexual (lower energycentre) I am very mental and spiritual (higher energycentre).
I would like to know if when i explore more of the fysical and sexual, does he automatically feels more space to explore the higher energycentre? And visa versa.
Sometimes it's like we neglect energycentres in ourselves, because the other twin is overdoing it in that area.
Or, because we neglected certain parts, the other one compensated for it.
I'm also curious, when we do share a chakrasysteem, if this means that prior in life, growing up, when one twin is going through something, if it has a effect on the development of the other?
I hope i make sense. Thanks in advance! ❤
Twins do not share a chakra system. I have a video entitled "Twin Flames and the Heart, Third Eye, and Crown Chakras" on my TF playlist that you might want to watch
My type has always been beautiful on the inside. My TF is beautiful both inside and out. 💕55💕
I'm attracted to my twin flame but this question kind of relates to a different question I have...when I first met him, I didn't know what a twin flame was so I couldn't identify him as such, but I'd had a lot of premonitions about this person, and when I met him I immediately recognized him as that person, but then I started to wonder if he was really the person. I started to look for other people and expected someone to show up. No one did. I had a huge spiritual awakening and the synchronicities between my premonitions and this person eventually got to be so much that I couldn't deny it was him. I learned what a twin flame was and realized it was him and we had a whole pusher chaser dynamic blah blah blah. We stopped talking. He started dating someone. I started dating someone. Recently when I've happened upon pictures of him, I don't feel like he's my twin flame. I still feel his energy and spirit with me and feel connected to that energy as my counterpart, but now I'm wondering if I identified the wrong person again. Is this because we are both in egoic states ie relationships with other people, or could I maybe have actually gotten it wrong despite the intense synchronicities and spiritual awakening? In a way, it doesn't really matter...but I'm still curious. Does this happen? Do twin flames in physical form become less "recognizable" when you and/or they are operating out of ego energy or just not aligned in the 3D? Or is this a sign it was a "false twin flame?"
These are actually a whole lot of different questions. But yes, when Ego tries to rationalize, it pulls you in many directions. I would suggest watching "What is the Soul Family (part I and part II)," Ego Degradation and the Soul Family," "What are Karmic Relationships," "Who is my Soulmate?" and "The Purpose of Twin Flames."
My twin is actually "my type " as i wanted since for eve..yet I had fear at the beginning of what my parents and siblings will think about him .❤
This doesn’t resonate for me, but I'm glad you posted it. It explains the chemistry and discord I've experienced with karmics and soulmates. Thanks bunches!!!! ❤❤
Yes my twinflame is perfect for me,
He was the most handsome creature I have ever seen. But now, I'm wondering what was wrong with my eyes because I don't like his appearance. But I still love him. Strange.
OMG. This was interesting. ‘Cause my twin and I were both attracted to each other. We look alike, like brother/sister or twins. He is a male version of me.😊
So why would the Higher self would make difficult for u .this is so good note, sometimes i do feel this and most just have to keep note of this.. nice explained, Thankyou
I like your hair.
I´m very physically attracted to my twin although he is so old... we also look alike, he is the male version of me
Hey!
Could I ask what was the catalyst for you accepting your new personality/losing the ego?
I feel the situation and what you say is very similar to what my person said and is maybe going through, and any insights either way would be a great help
Thank you!
I would suggest watching videos on my Ego playlist
Question: can sexual attraction change after a further step of ego degradation? I thought I was pretty hetero, or at least a bit heterosexual now I have desires mostly for women…
Question. Watched how to stop thinking of TF. How do you stop obsessing when they want to keep in contact? He’s the runner.
We are both married. I’m currently going through a divorce. We met over 30 years ago. Reconnected two years ago. We both want to be together. He got scared and backed out a few times. Doesn’t want to lose me. But afraid to leave. I’m obsessing and frustrated. Do I stay in contact and keep trying to work towards union or do I need to back off and give him space? Or how do I stop obsessing but stay in contact?
Also we are 2,000 miles apart and haven’t physically seen each other in over a year. Now 60 years old. What to do, such a long journey. Would love some advice
Wow, that must be incredibly frustrating for your Ego, and I can imagine how much you probably feel like you're in a lose/lose situation. I would suggest joining my Patreon channel, because I have a few videos on this. Plus, we have a giant community on there that are very active and you can talk through what you're going through with them. If you haven't watched "TF Q&A Part 3," I talk about Twins being friends on there. Also, Union is always with the Self, not with a 3D physically manifested person.
In the beginning, i wasn't sure about anything but we were complete opposites, we were off and on for 8 years and right before the real breakup, it was like a light bulb went off. We been separated for almost 2 years, she reaches out randomly about nothing important, she's already in a new relationship but thru it all, i went thru a spiritual awakening and it's like the more i learn about her, i learn about myself and the love never died and deep down i know im still highly attracted to her in every way but im finally at a stage where im ok to let her live her liefe because i know she has to learn her karmic lesson thru someone else. Do this sound like a twin flame?
"Ego Degradation and the Soul Family."
The first podcast I listened to completely relaxed... because appearance doesn't matter much to me in relationships. But 🙂 my twin is created For me: those beautiful blue eyes... we are only contrasting in colors. And that's probably the only difference. That's why I'm sure that twins are not created to have children because there would be too little exchange of genes. At least in our case.
If you dont like how your twin looks like means you dont like part of yourself, the reflect to you the part of you that you dont like.. Your twin isnt your type? Who is your type do we actually have type or just toxic pattern we attract... If he isnt typical type you go for means that now its time for you to heal once you heal you see your twin as perfect match.. My twin isnt typical type i used to go for but hes perfect and the most attractive guy i ever seen
I had a different experience with this. I met a twin flame at 19. The attraction was extremely strong then. We were together on and off because he was a habitual cheater.
The connection between us was so strong that i could always tell if he was cheating. Eventually, i quit. I refused to get hurt again by him.
I ran into him 15 years later. His appearance had changed so much. He did not age well at all. I agreed to a date but the attraction was weaker.
I also did not feel like he could be trusted. He told me he had recently broke up with someone. A week later they made up. I had a psychic flash of her walking up to his door when she arrived there, and it was true.
He did not admit they got back together but tried to cheat on her- with me, later that week. He had not admitted they were back together. That told me it didn't matter who he is with. He would always be a cheater.
He tried again a few times through the years afterwards, but it really is over.
The good news is that that's a Karmic
@@wearethesamenergy I had a couple karmic relationships. This felt different.
I knew my life was changed from meeting him, and it was so intense from the start.
But the running was still there. His family culture expected guys to screw every woman they could. He cheated to avoid the feeling of someone mattering that much to him. But his typical romance was about a month before me. We were together 4 years before I ended it.
The karmic relationships I had built slower and never ran as hot 🔥. They felt familiar , and like someone I was supposed to experience, even if I didn't know why yet.
@@wearethesamenergyi was going to say "that sounds very much like a karmic" .. and here you say it... - i had a lot of karmics come my way throughout the last 15 years... and with your twin the attraction never changes.. the energy never goes away... no matter what. With karmics.. at some point "when the Deal was done" .. the attraction faded... with my twin it never did... it is the exact same feeling... it never changes in terms of attraction.
And also.... not every karmic you meet teaches you the same lesson, therefore the Intensity differs from one karmic to the other... i had one.. probably the first karmic i ever met.... where the intensity was so strong... that after 12 years i still wasnt Sure if that was not my twin...
.. when i then met my twin 2 years ago... after some separationcycles and a lot of pain and growth... and asking myself if i am just making this up... i realized the difference. Your twin never really leaves... the attraction and the energy never fades.... looking back understanding that the attraction to this other Person has just faded away one day, i realized it was a karmic..
@@spiritfiyuh11 My relationship with myself is what really changed. I waited a long time for him to stop playing around. He didn't.
Eventually I I gave up on him and moved on. I still loved him but I needed to treat myself better than that. Putting up with getting hurt time after time is not loving yourself.
Sometimes I see my twin flame as being extremely ugly, with all of her flaws and insecurities exaggerated, while other times I see her looking completely normal and beautiful. It’s so confusing.
We are complete opposites, everything you could think of, she wasn't my type either. But to me she is the prettiest, the cutest and the cuddliest thing alive. Your twin flame is supposed to be the coolest, otherwise how else will the divine get you on your knees and make you go through everything we go through in this journey.
I never hear anything about a much older "twin flame", who is well beyond her breeding years :D, and also is beyond egoic identification and drama, and also has high self-worth (finally) as a matter of maturing, and what this journey is like for that demographic, especially when the intention is not for a permanent relationship with her TF. Could you do something on that? Thanks!
"Why TFs Don't Have Children," "3D Differences Between Twin Flames," "What TF Union is Like (in the 5D," and "Does Everyone Have a TF?" If someone has lived this incarnation and is already in Union with the Self, there is no need for them to have a TF.
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you. But aren't *you* in union with your Self... and you have a TF?
I'm not understanding what your question was, then.
I don’t resonate with not finding a TF attractive at all. We both admitted that the attraction was practically IMMEDIATE. However, we both didn’t seem to be each others physical types by looking at pictures of our exes or people in the past. The sexual energy has never dwindled so I don’t doubt the attraction is always there, but what could be the implications of this on my (our) CKL of self worth if there are any?
Is it the same for them or only the divine feminine.And why is the divine feminine is the main person and we have to be the ones that do self growth for them to mirror us it's like the feminine is the main twin
I assume you're referencing the Chaser when you say Divine Feminine? You may want to watch "DF and DM Aren't Real." Everything is the same between both Twins. And the Chaser is not the "main twin." You are the universe and are creating everything, and the Twin is your own 3D manifestation. You may also want to watch "The Purpose of Twin Flames."
Im asexual with a low sex drive.Im not sexually attracted to my possible TF but i find him very attractive. I feel as though its possible for other orientations to fluctuate throughout life except asexuality but i really hoped i would experience that attraction with my match. Now im wondering if hes not the one because of this video?
No, it doesn't mean he's not a TF.
Hey Alexx, I hope you're doing well. I just wanted to ask you about something I heard today.... Are there such things as: "Fallen Twins" or "Karmic Twins" or "Dark Twins"?? If that is so, I would appreciate a breakdown from you or anyone who understands this concept? I ask because someone she told me had a "Fallen Twin" last week and quite a few people said that couple from Twin Flame Union are "Dark Twins"... Thank you in advance
These are all New Age terms that really reference Egoic duality by giving meaning to dark vs light.
@@wearethesamenergydamn new age terms
Can my TF be heterosexual if I'm not?
No
@@wearethesamenergy that's a bummer. But relieved I thought maybe it's a self worth thing. Thank you
I like this. Thank you. I feel that I have a twin flame who is running right now. I am free to work on my security issues which in turn led me into scarcity thinking. I feel a strong connection. I had a what turned out to be a dream. I thought she got into bed with me. It was like she was really there. When I woke up I realized I was dreaming. The experience is manifesting personal growth and expansion for me as a person and artist.
If you pre-determined to have a Twin in this incarnation, your Twin will have the same sexual preferences as you so that you can experience one another.
@@mothman943... I don't know hey when I saw this girl the first time she was walking in the background but the camera was focusing on someone else so I basically just saw a blurred visions of her. it felt like my soul jumped out towards her. I tracked her down didn't even know about wat TF are. she had a song on her story the day I started following her in her mother language that explained what I've been feeling my hole life. The song was about Feeling someone with you youre entire life hearing her voice the knowing of them Accross the ocean then found out about the TF journey while trying to make sense of wtf is going on with me when my heart Chakra burst open had this amazing kundalini activation after that and this whole time I misstakend this girl for my TF so I don't know maybe get more information on this befor thinking she is the one
Either find a new twin flame or learn to deal with it. Is their physical looks a deal breaker? Is what they bring to the table worth it? Maybe. Maybe not. I’d be lying if I said my opinion wasn’t swayed by physical looks. But then again, physical looks are a dime a dozen these days. Hey, I’m not here to judge. Just don’t waste anyone’s time.
The person that states to be my twin flame is another women. I am physically not attracted to her and consider myself heterosexual. However, I find myself a bit confused with some of the experiences we have both shared. I still have a desire to form a family and be with a man. I feel confused about this whole situation.
You may want to watch my videos "What is the Soul Family?" both part 1 & part 2, and "Twin Flames as a Tool of Manipulation"
I don't mean to sound unkind, but my Twin was not physically attractive to me at all... I had to let my heart grow into it. My Twin at the time was a 67 year old woman, 16 years older than myself... we were both women, and so I had to face my homophobic judgements... because the energy between us was irresistible. You don't always get a Ken and Barbie scenario, you get exactly what you need to dissolve all of your prejudices.
How long have you known how your twin looks ❓
I don't understand your question
I can't say I have come across any true twin that's felt that....however at a point I guess unattractive in behaviour
tfu wasn't the first cult to use this buzz concept
They were the first ones to bring it to popular culture though.