Very informative. My twin left me for another seven months ago. I sensed the breakup coming months before and started processing. He wanted to remain friends. I said “no” and let him go. No questions, no crying, I wished him well and let him go. Surprisingly, I have felt no jealousy or ill will. I have no knowledge of his relationship. I don’t care. It is what it is. I have done inner work several hours in solitude each day since and see results. I focus on myself. . I am beginning to surrender to the Divine. Your videos help by being concise and to the point.
I go through the same experience as your. Alway sense separation before, sometime I had vision in my dream. In and out so many times. Last time I healed quick. Let him go for good.
It is. I didn’t know about twin flame before. I just don’t know why I have strong connection with him. Many time he had a reason to separate. I just did healing job by myself. When I just felt inner peace. He backed. Every time we separated I could feel it and have dreams he going to leave me. Woke up with heavy feeling in my chest and cried. Last month he met third party. He didn’t tell me yet but I dreamed about it. Then I asked he confirmed what I saw in my dream. And he want be friend with me. But I said no. I still think of him, but I don’t want to hear anything from him. I don’t even want to think about see him again. It’s really painful and exhausted.
I watched my twin flame at the office talk about his family to someone else the other day and after being for almost 3 years on this journey, I thought: what right do I have to assume that just because he has activated my spiritual awakening, we have anything to do with each other? What if it’s only my ego telling me that we belong together? I will be forever grateful that he served as a catalyst in my alignment with source energy, but now I feel complete on my own. I am whole. I am DM and I am DF. I am everything. Time to get off the twin flame train and get on with life, enjoying every precious, beautiful moment. It’s always been just about me. Love and light to you all❤.
Yeah I'm coming to the same realization lately. I finally feel whole on my own, I love myself more. I personally don't understand why he could stay with a lower vibrational relationship when a higher one is available but some people are just not ready to uplevel spiritually and a soulmate relationship is always going to feel more safe even if it's boring. Personally I love my soulmates too but they will never light me up, stimulate me like my twin can and did. It's a completely other level. But my soulmate seems to be able to love me better than my twin could...
@@mary-anneb2614 Yes, I don’t get that either. My twin inspires me and excites me and makes me feel more alive than anyone else I have ever met in my life. We are so alike, we like the same things, often dress the same even. We share the same views, humour and finish each other’s sentences. But he is a responsible guy who is never going to abandon his family and I need to accept that. Even if it makes me sad sometimes. I am learning a lot and I have never looked or felt so great as I do now. So I focus on that and try to embrace life as much as possible. That’s all we can do really. All the best to you on your journey.
My TF and I had to learn from each other since one was in a toxic and the other in a soulmate relationship for decades. Once we met our heart chakras burst open and we were able to heal our past self limiting beliefs and learned self love & unconditional love. Now in union we continue to grow. ❤
Watching your videos always feels like coming home. I nod my head and feel/know that I just remember the themes I already know but purposefully forgot before reincarnation 😅✨
I haven't really been feeling like I care too much about my twin flame being with someone else, though I used to, but I felt drawn to watch this anyway and damn...you really could have just been talking about me when you talk about "Connor."
Why do some of the twin flame coaches (and I'm not talking about the BS ones) out there say you should NEVER leave a soulmate for a twin flame because you can't "choose" to be with your twin flame anyways and that the divine sent you a soulmate for a reason. That you should surrender to the journey and if the divine's plan is for you to be with the TF one day, then just let go control and it'll happen. Also that this journey is not to BE with your Twinflame because you are your TF, so it really doesn't matter in the end if you are with a soulmate. Curious to hear your thoughts on this perspective...
I think you should read my book, because even though it looks like you asked one cohesive question, it's actually many topics in one and I could go on and on about it for hours 🙂
Well, more power to him if he ever is my “twin flame”. Im not going to waste my life waiting for him to get enlightened or whatever. I think about him often and even when I don’t intend to, it’s annoying. I just hope to never see him ever again or until I’ve found my own “karmic partner” and in a happy and fulfilled state.
Does it mean that I give a mixed signals to his higher self if I am not sure if I actually want to be with him and not sure if I want a soulmate? And couple of weeks ago I tried to communicate him telepathically to not come close to me?!? And after that he jumped into another relationship
My twin and I were never officially in a relationship but I felt when we met i wasn’t in a great space in my life to date but I felt deep chemistry with them. For the longest it drove me insane I’d smell the fragrance when we’re apart I’d feel their aura and energy near me but this was all before it was revealed we were twin flames. This has been a consuming and painful journey. I’m afraid of love and trying to move on because it all refers back to them. Why is this so deep. I’m literally over the causal dating lifestyle but I want something serious but I’m still working on my own accomplishments/goals. What should I do. I’m never reaching out. I’ve made a fool of myself too many times by saying the L word. Although I truly meant it I never explained how they made me feel. What to do next it’s been 7yrs . I’m ready to release this feeling and be free??
Sometimes I think it's our lesson. This is just our perspective. It shows growth for us. How do we choose to look at this situation and can you learn to still appreciate and love the relationship even if it doesn't manifest in the way the ego thinks it should?
I was going to post exactly the same comment! My soul mate has also met her twin.... we're both afraid of the same thing. We don't want to be screwed around any more, and just enjoy the peace we've found with each other. I know, this is probably not progressing on the journey, but after years of suffering, it is nice to be with someone who values you and can feel you can trust.
There was a video where you talked about having a twin flame in this reincarnation means the universe knows both parties are strong enough to take on this challenge. My TF is an avoidant attachment.. with the TF journey itself plus that seems like a complete uphill battle. Are there TFs who fail the journey and didn't complete their self discovery/improvement?
That is a very good question. I would like to know the answer, also, since mine is fearful avoidant. It was a difficult four years. Thankfully, I am happier now without him.
For one, "Fearful Avoidant" is an Egoic psychological term, and when speaking on TFs, we're not dealing with Ego. Also you can't "fail" the Twin Flame journey, because you are your Twin Flame. If you're viewing it as an uphill battle, I assume you're talking about being with the person in the 3D as a romantic partner. That is not the purpose of Twin Flame relationships 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy I promise I watch many of your videos but I guess I'm confused on what's the purpose of the TF in 3D then? I guess the initial union is important to throw you in this whirlwind of intense feelings but then after they go away and left you with lessons to learn, what's really their purpose afterwards if you've done your work and why do we talk about reunion then?
@@ASaTraveler11 You have a lot of beautiful and important questions that I could talk about for days and days. But have you read my book? Because I talk about all of this very deeply in there.
Thank you for this video. Several years ago I contacted someone on RUclips who puts out twin flame content for a reading. She asked for background which I emailed her. I told her that we met when we both were separated from our spouses. I did file for divorce and he kept floundering and was so conflicted. We finally separated because he decided to go back because of his children. He did eventually divorce 7 months after we separated and he then remarried during the pandemic and I have been in a relationship since the time he told me he was divorcing. At the time he told me, I didn't believe him because I had heard it so many times before. This RUclipsr told me she wouldn't give me a reading because she doesn't do readings for people who are looking for extramarital affairs. I told her I had no intention of breaking up his marriage but I was looking for her reading of the overall energies, blocks and feelings (which is what she offers). She angrily wrote back that if I had no intention of breaking things up then why was I wanting a reading. I was so upset and perplexed and felt so shamed by her to this day. Thank you for this video and the one on why twin flames show up when we are married as they have lifted that shame and upset for me as I have been so conflicted on this whole topic.I remember my twin telling me that I hadn't broken up anything that wasn't already broken yet that guilt has still followed me.
I've watched a lot of twin flame videos, and I have not heard anyone address my question or concern, which is, why would the DF want to reunite with the DM? I am the DF in my connection. The DM leaving was a life altering event that sent me on a path of great and deep healing and growth. The separation and the path are things that I am eternally grateful for. However, I can't imagine ever reuniting with my "twin" or I don't see why I would ever accept them back into my life. I understand why the DM would want me, but I don't understand why I would want the DM. Am I missing something? (I am totally fine with and kinda prefer to not be a twinflame. But my experience seems to fit the criteria for twinflames. Lastly, if it helps and you have an interest astrology, i have venus in capricorn. People with this placement typically do not value or prioritize love or emotions when choosing a partner.)
my twin and I were together, planning to get married, but then a trigger happened and she ran; she started dating someone else...a very safe someone else; this threw me into dark night of the soul. she still wanted me in her life, we are best friends, but I left. 2 years later, I told her not to contact me again, that was 2 years ago. I don't know if she is still with tis guy, I do know she wasn't happy
How to be sure that we are twin flame ? My numerology say - yes you are twin flame ,but I am not sure ,I think he want to be with me and I want also him,but he dont know how to say -I want to be with you ,he want that I say that first so Its only problem with us and also we dont live in same country,I feel that we wait some right time to be together hmm I dont want that he be my twin flame 😢
Hey! Just wanted to see if I understood #3 correctly… I tried to relate my situation with your Connor/Grace example as I’m in separation but I’m not in another relationship. So: If I DON’T choose to do anything while in separation despite knowing I need to work on myself, that would be counterintuitive to what separation is and, therefore, I’m sending the higher self mixed messages because I want the twin to come back in the 3D but I’m not doing anything in the 5D to change that, right? Versus if I DO work on myself in the 3D while in separation, that would NOT be sending the higher self mixed messages? As working on myself changes my energy in the 5D? I saw that someone else requested you to expand on that in another video and I’m looking forward to that! Thanks so much in advance, Alexx!
Thank you for another very insightful, informative, and helpful video! Although your past videos were equally so and guided me in my own t f journey, i noticed my ego and whatever issues getting out of hand past few days. I have having a lot of doubts and getting sidetracked. So, this video was much needed and helped me to reorient myself and get back on track. Stay blessed and be well! 🙂🙏🏽
My twin flame is miserable in his married lol ... nothing i can do just hear him complain about her .. we work together and i also got to work with her at some point not anymore .. now i work with him at the airport sooo yeah it's tough because everyday our connection is stronger and the similarities are scary what whatever happens to him ..later on happens to me and vise versa it's insane .. creepy at times but him being a Capricorn man im a virgo woman...we are stubborn lol his wife Leo anyways ... i have release my feelings for him ... 😢...he's full of Ego oh Lordy
My twin flame and I have been passing ships since our first separation. We have come back into each other's lives periodically, but never when we are both single, so one (usually him since he's the runner) retreats. When I finally named this connection last year (a very, very long time after our first meeting), all I could think was t hat, while I love him, I don't want union with him right now. I had just started figuring out how to heal the wounds I needed to heal. So, I'm trusting divine timing here. If we're going to have a 3D union, it will happen, but I'm not going to push for it since I don't know where he is on his journey. I'm living my life, married to a soulmate and he's living his, also married (by the way he described her, also to a soul mate). If our paths cross again, (healed or not) then it's for a reason, right?
I am a twin with a huge age gap of 30 years. I am wondering about aging as we ascend into the 5D. I've read it slows, stops or even reverses...any thoughts. Is finding your twin and coming into union the fountain of youth. As someone who turned 60 yesterday, I sure hope so. 😊
Thank yor your words, great videos, yet I'm highly confused, let me expose my case: I met my twin flame at my worksite, the moment I saw her smiling back at me in response to my spontaneous and natural service gesture towards her, a profound change started deep within me with a joy so pure, authentic, fulfilling, energizing, desiring and peace-giver that I felt like flying over the world. She always wanted to me to get in her stare so she could smile at me with such intensity, that it was like an approval or acceptance of what was going on... However, my worksite is infested with narcissistic people, so in order to keep her out of the narcissistics' minds, I stayed away from her, I felt that I had to protect this thing that was happening to us and I was afraid something could happen to us or even loose my job. But I never told her and I waited too long I guess, because now she told me she has a boyfriend, I think is my fault... I see that as a separation, and some say that during this stage. I don't know in what stage I am, what do you think?
The person i believe is my tf...married someone else....and has always told me he loves me ... feels connected. Now there is talking about divorce and being with me ... but still runs. This is also long distance. Im so confused. But i feel like i know..in my being that i have the answers.
Nothing you can do to speed it up ? I don;t think so. Jesus met his twin flame in Jerusalem when he met Mary Magdalene when he started his mission. After he rose from the dead after 3 days both of them went off in seclusion together and stayed one earth when they reached 86 years old then they both asceneded to heaven. Us angels get things fast. You can speed things up by accelearing time to make your twin flame learn their lesson superfast everytime they sleep when we pray for them. Im a angel incarnated on earth and have knowledge of heaven before I came here and also make love to my twin flame in the spirit dimension.. Im not special than anyone else and any person can do what I do but I do contain the knowledge of what can be done.
Hmmm....Maybe because my Twin represented the identical level of conciousness and male-female relational maturity as my long-term partner. Changing the old wouldn't be a change for the better. He even expected my activity in many aspects, although he was the chaser (as energy). just like my long-time partner. I've already learned my life lessons and I don't organize men's lives. It was all very logical and rational. But I'm glad it turned out the way it did. we both have something to learn....
well that was great can tell you. i try maximum as possible like to no one before and it end up in 5minute and thats it. Funny is 30 minutes before says i Love you. then when we sit on park later on. She says her reason why end up it : what she says is: I just stop feeling it that way. Thats it. so i say Thank you very much and good luck
I think people can feel someone from others that is fine. Twin Flame or > Someone Else < there are also other aspects which have a crucial role in the behaviour of people ( humans ). Also, a lot of aspects are from the kind of job and the people around the job ( teammates ). Also, if a person has some habits like alcohol, parties, sports activities etc., all of those people can meet. At the end of the day, everyone needs a lesson from it. Lesson for gaining experience in the future, So, in the end, fully knowing what is necessary and can meet someone on the same level depending on that person understands he needs brake between relations. if didn't do that he needed another lesson to understand what did not understand before.
After months of separation and asking him to meet me, he finally met me today. He is married. I confessed all my feelings to him which he already knew .. but he said he loved me then but not anymore .. and we can be friends and it’s good for everyone. He said he didn’t feel bad about the separation but felt bad that I’m going through pain. I’ve hit rock bottom now and is unable to get up from the floor of my room. Is this typical in tf journey? I don’t want this god joke anymore on me
Wow…very very bright…luminosity. How do you do it? Can you elaborate more on…divine timing? Met (I’m pretty sure, my TF) think of her constantly even in dream state. It’s kinda painful. She’s married with a lovely life….and yet…😄🙈🙉🤪🤪🙊
What if the runner decide to have an open relationship? One legally with a soulmate or karmic and also a relationship with the twin flame with the knowledge of their legal partners? What would that be in the 3d? Is that even possible?
A Third Party Relationship. I have multiple videos: "What is a Third Party Relationship?" "Why Twin Flames Show Up While You're Married," and I will have one on TFs and Polyamory coming out in April
Soul mate tends to be a more encouraging, helpful relationship. It is more likely to work as a permanent relationship. Twin flames tend to be on and off which could cause divorce with all of its turbulence.
Hi 👋 is there a video on how to make your twin flame runner stop running and finally realize the significance of the connection? When and how can u make them see this
Best solution which I did permanently blocked that toxic narcissistic person called dm and started dating new person and enjoying my life 😌 and now I made sure that he not get chance to contact me anymore 😌do this you'll be happy 😊
I remembered this video recently because I really related to it and I wanted to ask a question. I have a boyfriend who is not my twin flame and who is really amazing and encouraging and treats me very well. I was not attracted to anyone besides my TF for a very long time even during separation, but when I met my current boyfriend at a meditation circle, it was like I opened my eyes and was immediately attracted to him. I say this to emphasize that all of the following attributes I learned about AFTER already feeling a spark of attraction toward him that I had not felt toward anyone besides my TF in quite a while.... although he looks very different from my TF, they share a lot of similarities, including job, interests, certain beliefs, and so on. He treats me much better than my TF and has been teaching me and encouraging me to try new skills and interests that I really enjoy. But the similarities are distinct and a little odd. Again, I didn't seek this out or choose him because of any of this, but it's definitely noticable. I imagine perhaps it has something to do with needing certain lessons that I couldn't get from my TF because we could not align in the 3D, but I'd love to hear what you think about this situation ✨
All of the similarities you mentioned are surface Ego similarities, and therefore something you're attracted to. Why are you attracted to them (i.e. trauma response)? If you're not attracted to them but put off by them, then you're bringing in the same lessons without learning.
@@wearethesamenergy Right I understand that, but what I found interesting is that I was attracted to my boyfriend BEFORE I knew about these similarities.
What modalities do you recommend for healing? I try to meditate daily (and pursue a number of other avenues as well) however I feel like my core karmic lesson of self worth.. yeah not really happening at the moment
So kismet, because my video out today is on sound healing! The Core Karmic lesson takes lifetimes upon lifetimes to heal and just keeps repeating, so don't be so hard on yourself that you can't touch it right now. As long as your growing and learning on other lessons, it will sink in. But you can also read my book where I talk about all of this more, or you can reach out to me via the contact form on my website and I can put you on the waiting list for when my books open back up for consultations
I can't stand this twin flame bit.you have got to KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TWINS AND SOUL MATES AND YOUR THINKING IS WRONG BECAUSE TWINS SUCK AND ATE TOXIC!!! GIVE IT A REST.LOOK IT UP.😅
Very informative. My twin left me for another seven months ago. I sensed the breakup coming months before and started processing. He wanted to remain friends. I said “no” and let him go. No questions, no crying, I wished him well and let him go. Surprisingly, I have felt no jealousy or ill will. I have no knowledge of his relationship. I don’t care. It is what it is. I have done inner work several hours in solitude each day since and see results. I focus on myself. . I am beginning to surrender to the Divine. Your videos help by being concise and to the point.
He'll come back, because he can't sustain without you--the ultimate truth.
He texts occasionally, mostly about co-workers, the dog, etc. He has butt dialed a couple of timrs. I don't get excited. I just smile to myself.
I go through the same experience as your. Alway sense separation before, sometime I had vision in my dream. In and out so many times. Last time I healed quick. Let him go for good.
@@tranle8415Yes. I guess the in and out must be difficult.
It is. I didn’t know about twin flame before. I just don’t know why I have strong connection with him. Many time he had a reason to separate. I just did healing job by myself. When I just felt inner peace. He backed. Every time we separated I could feel it and have dreams he going to leave me. Woke up with heavy feeling in my chest and cried. Last month he met third party. He didn’t tell me yet but I dreamed about it. Then I asked he confirmed what I saw in my dream. And he want be friend with me. But I said no.
I still think of him, but I don’t want to hear anything from him. I don’t even want to think about see him again. It’s really painful and exhausted.
I watched my twin flame at the office talk about his family to someone else the other day and after being for almost 3 years on this journey, I thought: what right do I have to assume that just because he has activated my spiritual awakening, we have anything to do with each other? What if it’s only my ego telling me that we belong together? I will be forever grateful that he served as a catalyst in my alignment with source energy, but now I feel complete on my own. I am whole. I am DM and I am DF. I am everything. Time to get off the twin flame train and get on with life, enjoying every precious, beautiful moment. It’s always been just about me. Love and light to you all❤.
All of my best and highest vibrations to you
Yeah I'm coming to the same realization lately. I finally feel whole on my own, I love myself more. I personally don't understand why he could stay with a lower vibrational relationship when a higher one is available but some people are just not ready to uplevel spiritually and a soulmate relationship is always going to feel more safe even if it's boring. Personally I love my soulmates too but they will never light me up, stimulate me like my twin can and did. It's a completely other level. But my soulmate seems to be able to love me better than my twin could...
@@mary-anneb2614 Yes, I don’t get that either. My twin inspires me and excites me and makes me feel more alive than anyone else I have ever met in my life. We are so alike, we like the same things, often dress the same even. We share the same views, humour and finish each other’s sentences. But he is a responsible guy who is never going to abandon his family and I need to accept that. Even if it makes me sad sometimes. I am learning a lot and I have never looked or felt so great as I do now. So I focus on that and try to embrace life as much as possible. That’s all we can do really. All the best to you on your journey.
Yes. I resonate with all of this.
@@mary-anneb2614
Thank you❤
He is into you if he's CONSISTENT.
No mixed signals.
Keep your spirit of discernment sharp, ladies!
My TF and I had to learn from each other since one was in a toxic and the other in a soulmate relationship for decades. Once we met our heart chakras burst open and we were able to heal our past self limiting beliefs and learned self love & unconditional love. Now in union we continue to grow. ❤
Amazing!
Watching your videos always feels like coming home. I nod my head and feel/know that I just remember the themes I already know but purposefully forgot before reincarnation 😅✨
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I haven't really been feeling like I care too much about my twin flame being with someone else, though I used to, but I felt drawn to watch this anyway and damn...you really could have just been talking about me when you talk about "Connor."
Why do some of the twin flame coaches (and I'm not talking about the BS ones) out there say you should NEVER leave a soulmate for a twin flame because you can't "choose" to be with your twin flame anyways and that the divine sent you a soulmate for a reason. That you should surrender to the journey and if the divine's plan is for you to be with the TF one day, then just let go control and it'll happen. Also that this journey is not to BE with your Twinflame because you are your TF, so it really doesn't matter in the end if you are with a soulmate. Curious to hear your thoughts on this perspective...
I think you should read my book, because even though it looks like you asked one cohesive question, it's actually many topics in one and I could go on and on about it for hours 🙂
Well, more power to him if he ever is my “twin flame”. Im not going to waste my life waiting for him to get enlightened or whatever. I think about him often and even when I don’t intend to, it’s annoying. I just hope to never see him ever again or until I’ve found my own “karmic partner” and in a happy and fulfilled state.
Brilliant!!! Your definitely the best on social media for twin flame information!!! Thank you so much!!!
I'm so glad the videos are resonating! 🙏🙏
Does it mean that I give a mixed signals to his higher self if I am not sure if I actually want to be with him and not sure if I want a soulmate? And couple of weeks ago I tried to communicate him telepathically to not come close to me?!? And after that he jumped into another relationship
Both sides are in third party relationships. Choosing to work on myself and assuming that it’s #5.
My twin and I were never officially in a relationship but I felt when we met i wasn’t in a great space in my life to date but I felt deep chemistry with them. For the longest it drove me insane I’d smell the fragrance when we’re apart I’d feel their aura and energy near me but this was all before it was revealed we were twin flames. This has been a consuming and painful journey. I’m afraid of love and trying to move on because it all refers back to them. Why is this so deep. I’m literally over the causal dating lifestyle but I want something serious but I’m still working on my own accomplishments/goals. What should I do. I’m never reaching out. I’ve made a fool of myself too many times by saying the L word. Although I truly meant it I never explained how they made me feel. What to do next it’s been 7yrs . I’m ready to release this feeling and be free??
Sometimes I think it's our lesson. This is just our perspective. It shows growth for us. How do we choose to look at this situation and can you learn to still appreciate and love the relationship even if it doesn't manifest in the way the ego thinks it should?
A very strong message received today. Thanks, Alexx.
Last three points really hit hard/resonated deeply.
Number 3. Am sending mixed signals
Ohh sh*t I’m “Connor”
That made me laugh out loud
I was going to post exactly the same comment! My soul mate has also met her twin.... we're both afraid of the same thing. We don't want to be screwed around any more, and just enjoy the peace we've found with each other. I know, this is probably not progressing on the journey, but after years of suffering, it is nice to be with someone who values you and can feel you can trust.
Yeah me too
Hi other me 😂
There was a video where you talked about having a twin flame in this reincarnation means the universe knows both parties are strong enough to take on this challenge. My TF is an avoidant attachment.. with the TF journey itself plus that seems like a complete uphill battle. Are there TFs who fail the journey and didn't complete their self discovery/improvement?
That is a very good question. I would like to know the answer, also, since mine is fearful avoidant. It was a difficult four years. Thankfully, I am happier now without him.
For one, "Fearful Avoidant" is an Egoic psychological term, and when speaking on TFs, we're not dealing with Ego. Also you can't "fail" the Twin Flame journey, because you are your Twin Flame. If you're viewing it as an uphill battle, I assume you're talking about being with the person in the 3D as a romantic partner. That is not the purpose of Twin Flame relationships 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy I promise I watch many of your videos but I guess I'm confused on what's the purpose of the TF in 3D then? I guess the initial union is important to throw you in this whirlwind of intense feelings but then after they go away and left you with lessons to learn, what's really their purpose afterwards if you've done your work and why do we talk about reunion then?
@@ASaTraveler11 You have a lot of beautiful and important questions that I could talk about for days and days. But have you read my book? Because I talk about all of this very deeply in there.
There's no such thing, and quite frankly, I don't care
I am understanding this needed to see this today ego huh
Thank you for this video. Several years ago I contacted someone on RUclips who puts out twin flame content for a reading. She asked for background which I emailed her. I told her that we met when we both were separated from our spouses. I did file for divorce and he kept floundering and was so conflicted. We finally separated because he decided to go back because of his children. He did eventually divorce 7 months after we separated and he then remarried during the pandemic and I have been in a relationship since the time he told me he was divorcing. At the time he told me, I didn't believe him because I had heard it so many times before. This RUclipsr told me she wouldn't give me a reading because she doesn't do readings for people who are looking for extramarital affairs. I told her I had no intention of breaking up his marriage but I was looking for her reading of the overall energies, blocks and feelings (which is what she offers). She angrily wrote back that if I had no intention of breaking things up then why was I wanting a reading. I was so upset and perplexed and felt so shamed by her to this day. Thank you for this video and the one on why twin flames show up when we are married as they have lifted that shame and upset for me as I have been so conflicted on this whole topic.I remember my twin telling me that I hadn't broken up anything that wasn't already broken yet that guilt has still followed me.
Yes, people are very judgmental
Ugh alexx. Pretty sure you are talking about me here. Thank you. Will have to listen again abd again. Thank you
I wrote you an email 💜And no, it's not
@@wearethesamenergy I know..just so close
I've watched a lot of twin flame videos, and I have not heard anyone address my question or concern, which is, why would the DF want to reunite with the DM? I am the DF in my connection. The DM leaving was a life altering event that sent me on a path of great and deep healing and growth. The separation and the path are things that I am eternally grateful for. However, I can't imagine ever reuniting with my "twin" or I don't see why I would ever accept them back into my life. I understand why the DM would want me, but I don't understand why I would want the DM. Am I missing something? (I am totally fine with and kinda prefer to not be a twinflame. But my experience seems to fit the criteria for twinflames. Lastly, if it helps and you have an interest astrology, i have venus in capricorn. People with this placement typically do not value or prioritize love or emotions when choosing a partner.)
I speak about this in my videos "What is Twin Flame Union Like (in the 5D)" and "Twin Flame Separation (an important message)."
my twin and I were together, planning to get married, but then a trigger happened and she ran; she started dating someone else...a very safe someone else; this threw me into dark night of the soul. she still wanted me in her life, we are best friends, but I left. 2 years later, I told her not to contact me again, that was 2 years ago. I don't know if she is still with tis guy, I do know she wasn't happy
Sounds like a Karmic or Soulmate + Karmic
It doesn't bother me let her
No it is not I am not jealous ‼️😊 1:02
How to be sure that we are twin flame ? My numerology say - yes you are twin flame ,but I am not sure ,I think he want to be with me and I want also him,but he dont know how to say -I want to be with you ,he want that I say that first so Its only problem with us and also we dont live in same country,I feel that we wait some right time to be together hmm I dont want that he be my twin flame 😢
You can watch my videos "The Purpose of Twin Flames," "What is the Soul Family (Part I and II)?" and "Twin Flames: Look at the Macro"
Hey! Just wanted to see if I understood #3 correctly…
I tried to relate my situation with your Connor/Grace example as I’m in separation but I’m not in another relationship. So:
If I DON’T choose to do anything while in separation despite knowing I need to work on myself, that would be counterintuitive to what separation is and, therefore, I’m sending the higher self mixed messages because I want the twin to come back in the 3D but I’m not doing anything in the 5D to change that, right?
Versus if I DO work on myself in the 3D while in separation, that would NOT be sending the higher self mixed messages? As working on myself changes my energy in the 5D?
I saw that someone else requested you to expand on that in another video and I’m looking forward to that!
Thanks so much in advance, Alexx!
Number 3 is specifically about those in third party relationships, so you don't need to worry about it 🙂
Thank you ❤
Thank you for another very insightful, informative, and helpful video! Although your past videos were equally so and guided me in my own t f journey, i noticed my ego and whatever issues getting out of hand past few days. I have having a lot of doubts and getting sidetracked. So, this video was much needed and helped me to reorient myself and get back on track. Stay blessed and be well! 🙂🙏🏽
We've got crazy planetary stuff happening the next month, so everyone's Egos are going a little haywire! 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy oh wow! Thanks for the heads up. Im not that familiar with such things, so it's good to be aware.
Thanks!
This was amazing ❤ thanks😊
Thanks for the video. Can you please expand n 3?
It's on my list
Thanks
My twin flame is miserable in his married lol ... nothing i can do just hear him complain about her .. we work together and i also got to work with her at some point not anymore .. now i work with him at the airport sooo yeah it's tough because everyday our connection is stronger and the similarities are scary what whatever happens to him ..later on happens to me and vise versa it's insane .. creepy at times but him being a Capricorn man im a virgo woman...we are stubborn lol his wife Leo anyways ... i have release my feelings for him ... 😢...he's full of Ego oh Lordy
My twin flame and I have been passing ships since our first separation. We have come back into each other's lives periodically, but never when we are both single, so one (usually him since he's the runner) retreats. When I finally named this connection last year (a very, very long time after our first meeting), all I could think was t hat, while I love him, I don't want union with him right now. I had just started figuring out how to heal the wounds I needed to heal.
So, I'm trusting divine timing here. If we're going to have a 3D union, it will happen, but I'm not going to push for it since I don't know where he is on his journey. I'm living my life, married to a soulmate and he's living his, also married (by the way he described her, also to a soul mate). If our paths cross again, (healed or not) then it's for a reason, right?
I am a twin with a huge age gap of 30 years. I am wondering about aging as we ascend into the 5D. I've read it slows, stops or even reverses...any thoughts. Is finding your twin and coming into union the fountain of youth. As someone who turned 60 yesterday, I sure hope so. 😊
You’re describing my twin ex-boyfriend to thehas three relationships since we split up he has abandonment issues
Thank yor your words, great videos, yet I'm highly confused, let me expose my case: I met my twin flame at my worksite, the moment I saw her smiling back at me in response to my spontaneous and natural service gesture towards her, a profound change started deep within me with a joy so pure, authentic, fulfilling, energizing, desiring and peace-giver that I felt like flying over the world. She always wanted to me to get in her stare so she could smile at me with such intensity, that it was like an approval or acceptance of what was going on...
However, my worksite is infested with narcissistic people, so in order to keep her out of the narcissistics' minds, I stayed away from her, I felt that I had to protect this thing that was happening to us and I was afraid something could happen to us or even loose my job. But I never told her and I waited too long I guess, because now she told me she has a boyfriend, I think is my fault... I see that as a separation, and some say that during this stage. I don't know in what stage I am, what do you think?
The person i believe is my tf...married someone else....and has always told me he loves me ... feels connected.
Now there is talking about divorce and being with me ... but still runs.
This is also long distance. Im so confused. But i feel like i know..in my being that i have the answers.
Nothing you can do to speed it up ? I don;t think so. Jesus met his twin flame in Jerusalem when he met Mary Magdalene when he started his mission. After he rose from the dead after 3 days both of them went off in seclusion together and stayed one earth when they reached 86 years old then they both asceneded to heaven. Us angels get things fast. You can speed things up by accelearing time to make your twin flame learn their lesson superfast everytime they sleep when we pray for them. Im a angel incarnated on earth and have knowledge of heaven before I came here and also make love to my twin flame in the spirit dimension.. Im not special than anyone else and any person can do what I do but I do contain the knowledge of what can be done.
Please make content or tell , Can Twin flame and Soul mate can be one too..
Is soul mate is always of opposite sex
How to differentiate between twin and a selfish toxic and ungrateful person?
If you're using the terms "selfish, toxic, and ungrateful," my guess is it's a Karmic
Hmmm....Maybe because my Twin represented the identical level of conciousness and male-female relational maturity as my long-term partner. Changing the old wouldn't be a change for the better. He even expected my activity in many aspects, although he was the chaser (as energy). just like my long-time partner. I've already learned my life lessons and I don't organize men's lives. It was all very logical and rational. But I'm glad it turned out the way it did. we both have something to learn....
well that was great can tell you. i try maximum as possible like to no one before and it end up in 5minute and thats it. Funny is 30 minutes before says i Love you. then when we sit on park later on. She says her reason why end up it : what she says is: I just stop feeling it that way. Thats it. so i say Thank you very much and good luck
I think people can feel someone from others that is fine.
Twin Flame or > Someone Else < there are also other aspects which have a crucial role in the behaviour of people ( humans ).
Also, a lot of aspects are from the kind of job and the people around the job ( teammates ).
Also, if a person has some habits like alcohol, parties, sports activities etc.,
all of those people can meet. At the end of the day, everyone needs a lesson from it. Lesson for gaining experience in the future,
So, in the end, fully knowing what is necessary and can meet someone on the same level depending on that person understands he needs brake between relations. if didn't do that he needed another lesson to understand what did not understand before.
I needed this. Very informative. Merci
Nicely explained, Thankyou
After months of separation and asking him to meet me, he finally met me today. He is married. I confessed all my feelings to him which he already knew .. but he said he loved me then but not anymore .. and we can be friends and it’s good for everyone. He said he didn’t feel bad about the separation but felt bad that I’m going through pain. I’ve hit rock bottom now and is unable to get up from the floor of my room. Is this typical in tf journey? I don’t want this god joke anymore on me
I'm sorry you're going through a rough time. I would suggest either reading my book or watching The Chaser series I have on my website 🙏
Wow…very very bright…luminosity. How do you do it? Can you elaborate more on…divine timing? Met (I’m pretty sure, my TF) think of her constantly even in dream state. It’s kinda painful. She’s married with a lovely life….and yet…😄🙈🙉🤪🤪🙊
I will have a video out on Divine Timing in a few months! My book also talks about it.
Oh man this is gonna set people back so much
What if the runner decide to have an open relationship? One legally with a soulmate or karmic and also a relationship with the twin flame with the knowledge of their legal partners? What would that be in the 3d? Is that even possible?
A Third Party Relationship. I have multiple videos: "What is a Third Party Relationship?" "Why Twin Flames Show Up While You're Married," and I will have one on TFs and Polyamory coming out in April
Thanks 🌹
Thank you so much💐💐💐
Do twin flames have one higherself? 🌌🙏🌌
Everyone has one Higher Self. Everything is one.
Thank you ❤
Thank you
Is is best to marry twin or soul mate
Soul mate tends to be a more encouraging, helpful relationship. It is more likely to work as a permanent relationship.
Twin flames tend to be on and off which could cause divorce with all of its turbulence.
Hi 👋 is there a video on how to make your twin flame runner stop running and finally realize the significance of the connection? When and how can u make them see this
You may want to watch my video "The Purpose of Twin Flames"
Best solution which I did permanently blocked that toxic narcissistic person called dm and started dating new person and enjoying my life 😌 and now I made sure that he not get chance to contact me anymore 😌do this you'll be happy 😊
I loved this.
I remembered this video recently because I really related to it and I wanted to ask a question. I have a boyfriend who is not my twin flame and who is really amazing and encouraging and treats me very well. I was not attracted to anyone besides my TF for a very long time even during separation, but when I met my current boyfriend at a meditation circle, it was like I opened my eyes and was immediately attracted to him. I say this to emphasize that all of the following attributes I learned about AFTER already feeling a spark of attraction toward him that I had not felt toward anyone besides my TF in quite a while.... although he looks very different from my TF, they share a lot of similarities, including job, interests, certain beliefs, and so on. He treats me much better than my TF and has been teaching me and encouraging me to try new skills and interests that I really enjoy. But the similarities are distinct and a little odd. Again, I didn't seek this out or choose him because of any of this, but it's definitely noticable. I imagine perhaps it has something to do with needing certain lessons that I couldn't get from my TF because we could not align in the 3D, but I'd love to hear what you think about this situation ✨
All of the similarities you mentioned are surface Ego similarities, and therefore something you're attracted to. Why are you attracted to them (i.e. trauma response)? If you're not attracted to them but put off by them, then you're bringing in the same lessons without learning.
@@wearethesamenergy Right I understand that, but what I found interesting is that I was attracted to my boyfriend BEFORE I knew about these similarities.
@@elizabeth_of_lore Before your EGO knew of the similarities
Thankyou sm i was waiting for this 🤍
What modalities do you recommend for healing? I try to meditate daily (and pursue a number of other avenues as well) however I feel like my core karmic lesson of self worth.. yeah not really happening at the moment
So kismet, because my video out today is on sound healing! The Core Karmic lesson takes lifetimes upon lifetimes to heal and just keeps repeating, so don't be so hard on yourself that you can't touch it right now. As long as your growing and learning on other lessons, it will sink in. But you can also read my book where I talk about all of this more, or you can reach out to me via the contact form on my website and I can put you on the waiting list for when my books open back up for consultations
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you, I have read your book and I am on the waiting list lol
@@hmenon89 Beautiful! I look forward to speaking with you 🙂
Wait a minute if I understand you well a twin flame is like me or another you yes ‼️ 3:19
Your TF IS you 🙂
@@wearethesamenergy Great ‼️
@@wearethesamenergy So how do I fix this energy then ? ❤️
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Thank you ❤
Thank you!
Alex, can you talk about eye contact and touch with your TF?
What about it?
@@wearethesamenergy
How does it feel and how is it different from a karmic or soulmate? 🙏
Have you watched "Meeting the Twin Flame?"
Hi! Do TFs that live together exist?
Yes, of course. I live with mine.
@@wearethesamenergy🙂
What happens to the karmic if/when the runner returns to their TF?
Nothing happens to them
What I meant was does the karmic long for the twin, are they in pain, peaceful? How do they feel?
@@Flufero23 That depends on their Ego
Ok. Thanks. Same as my reaction when he left depended on my ego.
May everyone Gets the best Life❤.
Thanks to All Supreme Forces in Advance.
Glory be to God Almighty in Advance❤
I can't stand this twin flame bit.you have got to KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TWINS AND SOUL MATES AND YOUR THINKING IS WRONG BECAUSE TWINS SUCK AND ATE TOXIC!!! GIVE IT A REST.LOOK IT UP.😅
Actually, what YOU'RE referring to are Karmic relationships.
Actually, this was very soothing for my moments of separation anxiety - which have become more frequent in these energies lately... ❤️🩹🙏🦋