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  • I got catfished for 2 years storytime
    this video hasn't been easy to film, I didn't realise going into this, how many emotions id feel whilst reading back through these texts. please understand why I walked away from this situation the way I did, as a young person who was brainwashed for so long I had enough. i have a lot of love for Ty (whoever he was), he helped me through so much. I still feel guilty for leaving but I know it was right. Towards the end things were more toxic than anything. The texts don't show the full story but I did my best to fill in the gaps. Stay safe online.
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  • @jaxecionne6088
    @jaxecionne6088 4 года назад +3726

    this isn't just catfishing, this is blatant mental abuse and manipulation. Please don't ever speak to him again.

    • @dominique5739
      @dominique5739 4 года назад +21

      Jaxcion I know it’s horrible 💔

    • @rosebrown1985
      @rosebrown1985 3 года назад +19

      Grooming

    • @briannk3720
      @briannk3720 3 года назад +9

      LIFE ISNT EASY .... I don't want to force anything on yall but man I've had so many problems and the only true way to come out of them victorious is thru the Lord God Almighty... I know society makes everyone think being religious is for deluded people but please open your eyes it's not.. I plead to yall just say a prayer to God commit all your worries fears, regrets and deepest problems into his hands.. read the bible and keep praying to him in Jesus Name .. I promise you your life will change for the better I promise you
      I was pondering on suicide, I wanted to run away from home but I prayed to the Lord God and all of a sudden ..things started moving forward in my life.. I've done so many evil things in my past.. things that i think any other person would kill me for if they were God but God kept me alive and well
      I dont want to be seen as the deluded guy in the comment section but I'm literally pouring my heart out
      I thought my sins were too bad and that I will never succeed in my dreams.. but I forgot that in John 3:16 it says "For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life"
      Believe that Jesus died on the cross for all of our sins to be forgiven and to give us eternal life in heaven
      You may think I'm crazy but I'm begging just try this read the bible pray and watch yourself rise to heights you never expected
      Dont fall into the tricks of the world I'm begging
      I apologise for this being too long
      Imma try and send this out to loads of comments sections.. I hope this touched your soul.. if it did please like the message and comment let's make it togetherruclips.net/video/AtBNTF90X08h/видео.htmlttps://ruclips.net/video/6IawlQKMepoh/видео.htmlttps://ruclips.net/video/UVmu-Aln2Xo/видео.html

    • @briannk3720
      @briannk3720 3 года назад +7

      JESUS LOVES YOU...YOU MAY FEEL ALONE BUT JESUS IS WITH YOU ...
      TRY AND TALK TO HIM CONFINE IN HIM
      THANK YOUruclips.net/video/AtBNTF90X08h/видео.htmlttps://ruclips.net/video/6IawlQKMepoh/видео.htmlttps://ruclips.net/video/UVmu-Aln2Xo/видео.html

    • @iconic4590
      @iconic4590 3 года назад +2

      @@briannk3720 yessss !!!

  • @Missavery.13
    @Missavery.13 4 года назад +2013

    can we get Nev from catfish to find this guy and give him a piece of his mind?!?!

    • @imnotbushra
      @imnotbushra 4 года назад +17

      Yesss

    • @animev3005
      @animev3005 4 года назад +5

      Y e s

    • @sunshine-py8mc
      @sunshine-py8mc 4 года назад +16

      Oh my goodness this is what I was thinking I'll tell you how it will be getting Nev from Catfish to find this guy so we can get him help and she'll like what she has been through with this guy and stuff I think that's a really good idea

    • @brittanywendling5872
      @brittanywendling5872 4 года назад +4

      Yes! That would be an amazing episode.

    • @natii3336
      @natii3336 4 года назад +2

      Omg yesss

  • @julekenyon
    @julekenyon 4 года назад +1495

    funny how the “mom” typed the exact same way as ty

    • @clalyrics441
      @clalyrics441 4 года назад +60

      I noticed that right away too, no way does a boomer type like that LMAO

    • @exclusivelyraven3515
      @exclusivelyraven3515 4 года назад +9

      @@clalyrics441 The mum of a teenager wouldn't be a boomer - unless she had him at 50 or 60+

    • @clalyrics441
      @clalyrics441 4 года назад +22

      @@exclusivelyraven3515 The youngest boomers rn are 56, and if this happened around 2014 they'd be 50 then, and if they had a 17 year old they'd have had them at 33. I was speaking figuratively anyway.

    • @lakotawilliams7904
      @lakotawilliams7904 3 года назад

      yesss i noticed that

    • @kiaratheexplorer4
      @kiaratheexplorer4 2 года назад

      what?

  • @aecapkn-osrimr
    @aecapkn-osrimr 4 года назад +909

    him: time difference you cant see me on ft
    them: both fall asleep on ft together every night

    • @jasminee8107
      @jasminee8107 4 года назад +7

      Aurora Hilburn Lmao

    • @peyton1577
      @peyton1577 4 года назад +9

      omg yeah haha

    • @dakotamonroe285
      @dakotamonroe285 4 года назад +39

      how did no one else mention this? lmao

    • @dhanalouise5007
      @dhanalouise5007 4 года назад +7

      that's creepy

    • @livshep.x5261
      @livshep.x5261 3 года назад +4

      no he probably fell asleep whilst on ft with kt wheres as she would still be awake

  • @aneri1592
    @aneri1592 4 года назад +8653

    the nine dislikes are his different profiles lmaoo

    • @JD-zz3lf
      @JD-zz3lf 4 года назад +23

      Aneri Thaker HAHA

    • @freya456
      @freya456 4 года назад +58

      This is my favourite comment no argument😂

    • @lola22x
      @lola22x 4 года назад +14

      💀💀

    • @JJ-bq3ot
      @JJ-bq3ot 4 года назад +7

      Aneri Thaker lmoaaaaaaaaaaa😂😂😂🤙

    • @ccosmiclights
      @ccosmiclights 4 года назад +7

      27 now

  • @vasi3664
    @vasi3664 4 года назад +3115

    the amount of times she curled her lashes lmaoooo

    • @sanjahemmings474
      @sanjahemmings474 4 года назад +12

      vasi uwu brushed her hair too lol

    • @Alexandra-hl2vj
      @Alexandra-hl2vj 4 года назад +10

      It hurt me internally how many times she layered mascara and curled

  • @deathrays
    @deathrays 4 года назад +583

    we know hes watching. you should apologize dude.

  • @chloed2062
    @chloed2062 4 года назад +2796

    I just wanna spread some positivity. I met this guy online, we spoke online for a year. He said he’d come see me sooo many times and let me down each time, I was so heartbroken and my friends were the same as yours and would call me stupid for believing he’d come see me. But one day he did come see me and long story short, we’ve been together almost 4 years, we have our own home and a 1 year old daughter❤️❤️

    • @kt.franklin
      @kt.franklin  4 года назад +367

      that's amazing!

    • @autumnmurphy2170
      @autumnmurphy2170 4 года назад +104

      I accidentally disliked your comment I'm really happy that your experience was a positive result of online dating

    • @arianaelli96
      @arianaelli96 4 года назад +57

      Damn I wish to have that story some day. Been together with someone for six years... life keeps shitting on us... still haven’t met. We’re suppose to finally be together this March but ya , corona and how much hate I got from people around me saying I shouldn’t go lol.... happy to see a success story ! Good luck with your journey 💙💙

    • @hannahcavender7107
      @hannahcavender7107 4 года назад +30

      Chloe D I met a guy online in 2018, dated for 11 months, never were able to meet but ended up breaking up in January. Really happy things worked out for you though! not all guys online are creeps

    • @Katienicole2015
      @Katienicole2015 4 года назад +26

      Aw I love this! I met one of my best and oldest friends in a lobby on MW3 on Xbox live about 9 years ago. He’s come to visit my boyfriend and me once before and has plans to come see me again this year after all the craziness. He actually just texted me now, and we’ve been playing games together over zoom worm our other friends during quarantine. He’s the best

  • @deardollie2924
    @deardollie2924 4 года назад +2100

    This proves how sad people are they lie about death and killing them selves for attention. It is also sad how many times people can catfish and then the person can loose there trust in everything. It’s sad.

    • @jessicacopper2921
      @jessicacopper2921 4 года назад +10

      aesthetic alice your actually right , but I've gone threw this once with a friends and then I realized they catfish me bcs they where lost and confused and didn't know where to turn and they just wanted help and answers and when they would say they where gonna kill themselves they decide not to and remembered ppl cared and they did it just for reassurance they would be okay , maybe it's not always for the attention or maybe it was (if that makes sense )

    • @elly9898
      @elly9898 4 года назад +1

      Literally.. My ex boyfriend lied that his mom died to make me stay with him. I later found out that she was very much alive and he lied about everything.

    • @annabelleadams2768
      @annabelleadams2768 4 года назад +1

      fr my bsf ex who is VERY toxic is dating a toxic girl and she has pulled a knife on him and said she will kill herself if he breaks up with her like it's sad but it's crazy how some ppl are kinda meant for each other like it's crazy

    • @Em_Elizabeth
      @Em_Elizabeth 4 года назад +2

      I know right? My former boyfriend told me he once took a rejection so badly it ended up in a suicide attempt so I always hesitated to leave him when I suspected the relationship was no good. I asked him for space a couple of weeks before the breakup (for verbal abuse) and once I set that boundary, he said he's going to go off his meds as "punishment", implying it could result in self-injury. He even sent a gif of a man shooting himself.
      I told him later that what he did was emotional blackmail and he said I should not "use his words from a temporary emotional breakdown" against him. Two weeks into the breakup and he's still alive.

  • @jrd7_
    @jrd7_ 4 года назад +2085

    the dislikes are all his fake identities

  • @SCY1999
    @SCY1999 4 года назад +510

    At 13 I was sexually groomed online. Although not exactly the same situation, when the police arrived at my house I stood there and told them he was my friend and that I didn't want anything bad to happen to him. Now, at 20, I understand that I only felt that way as a result of his manipulation and abuse. This person isn't a friend to you, his intentions were immoral and abusive. I hope with all my heart you can heal from this and move on to be an even stronger woman

    • @clalyrics441
      @clalyrics441 4 года назад +16

      So sorry that happened to you. As children there's no way we can know or assume that people have bad intentions :(

    • @marigoonerrrr
      @marigoonerrrr 4 года назад +7

      I'm 13 and I was pressured to send nudes to a 20 year old. I didnt feel the same way at the time but it was stupid and i told him if was wrong and blocked his number, also my mum doesnt let me have my phone alone now

    • @milliesmith1900
      @milliesmith1900 3 года назад +3

      @@marigoonerrrr stay strong and i hope your ok now

    • @ariismyqueennx6166
      @ariismyqueennx6166 3 года назад +3

      omg...u was such a young child...i’m so sorry :(

    • @maisiemoo_x
      @maisiemoo_x 3 года назад +3

      @@marigoonerrrr i’m so sorry this happened to you, please save nudes for when you’re 18+, most guys are no good for you anyway babe xx i believe you could actually report him for that if you feel brave, no pressure i just think he needs to be investigated

  • @coleycoley7124
    @coleycoley7124 4 года назад +426

    I’m so glad my parents were strict with my internet use when I was young

    • @vonbonbonjager
      @vonbonbonjager 3 года назад +11

      Me too!! I was never allowed to use it without an adult in the room.

    • @peacfulmind3272
      @peacfulmind3272 3 года назад +3

      We servived

    • @Ultimategamerboiking
      @Ultimategamerboiking 3 года назад

      Idk what happening just stop going on websites

    • @KillStreakGhosty
      @KillStreakGhosty 3 года назад +5

      That’s all you have to say wow😭😭😭. Even though this was messed up he was her rock when she needed it., but it was sad but in that time it’s the reason she made it through some days with him making her smile .

  • @caitrose6713
    @caitrose6713 4 года назад +1013

    i’ve been in a similar catfish situation, everything was fine at first but then it started getting weird. he kept making up these different characters such as his friends or exes that would always attack me, i knew fully well they were all him but i ignored it. around the time that we stopped talking he told me that he was in hospital and he wasn’t expected to live for long. i couldn’t deal with it by then because he used to threaten to hurt himself a lot but it was all a lie. i stopped talking to him and then months later he messaged me as if everything was okay, he told me he was out of hospital and he was fine, even though he told me multiple times that the doctor said he wouldn’t make it. i was talking to this guy for 4 whole years and he would always have a reason to not call or facetime me but somehow i never saw the red flags because he supported me and was a nice guy. i knew he was fake, but i didn’t care. to this day he is still active on snapchat and we don’t talk anymore. but he caused me a lot of emotional trauma

    • @confirmations1964
      @confirmations1964 4 года назад +36

      I've had a really similar situation. What is it with the whole hurting themselves thing?! Like literally holding yourself ransom to a total stranger just so they don't "kill themselves". Ugh it frustrates me so much, these people are honestly mentally ill on the highest level. I hope you're okay sweet, sending hugs to you.

    • @JanuaryChest
      @JanuaryChest 4 года назад +27

      This is terrifying to read, becauss this exact same thing happened to me, the "friends" the 'hospital' and in the end i found out he was a girl

    • @mamamraam3947
      @mamamraam3947 4 года назад +20

      THIS HAPPENED TO ME TOO!! omg. THE ENTIRE THING. EVERY DETAIL. THE EXACT SAME. thats terrifying

    • @caitrose6713
      @caitrose6713 4 года назад +12

      Confirmations they want you to feel as if they are the only person you have, once they’ve done that, that’s when the threats start coming. they also start when they can sense that you’re drifting a little or starting to lose interest. it’s a way of keeping you around so they can manipulate you further

    • @itschlo_x9767
      @itschlo_x9767 4 года назад +9

      Me and my friend had a very similar experience with these 2 boys we met on snapchat, they would always make excuses to not talk on call and then this random girl started talkin to us pretending to be an ex to one of them and she was exactly like them the way she talked, they would never wanna meet us and when 1 was talkin to one of us the other one wouldn’t be active at all, it was like it for both of them like they was logging in on the account after an hour of using the other, eventually one of them apparently was about to kill their self and didn’t message at all for days and then the one I was talkin to he was in hospital coz he badly harmed himself and he apparently wasn’t gonna make it and they haven’t been active on the accounts for 2 years now, I was 13 at the time. It really does affect you a lot, Ik I was hurt mentally for a while until it hit me that they was catfishes and I put all the pieces together, me and my friend decided to never trust someone who won’t call or show their face.

  • @kammybrar2931
    @kammybrar2931 4 года назад +106

    Gaslighting
    "manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity"

  • @Anniecross783
    @Anniecross783 4 года назад +92

    The fact that you genuinely care about this guy breaks my heart

  • @Cc-hh4qc
    @Cc-hh4qc 4 года назад +242

    hire a private investigator to find out who he really is

    • @vonbonbonjager
      @vonbonbonjager 3 года назад +3

      Why chase a toxic person? I think this video is enough energy spent after all the time she has already invested. These people are clearly unwell and it's not her responsibility to make him face his own issue's. You can't get sucked into their drama this guy believes his own lies. Just run and pray they heal.

    • @nyeguono
      @nyeguono 3 года назад +11

      @@vonbonbonjager for closure

    • @Wenixi
      @Wenixi 3 года назад +7

      @@vonbonbonjager It is not for talking to him anymore. Better of he does not know about it. It is just for figuring who the hell that person really was all the time.
      But well. It doesnt really matter.

    • @progressivelife841
      @progressivelife841 2 года назад

      @@vonbonbonjager she has made money off the video, so got something from it.

  • @alex-qj7wg
    @alex-qj7wg 4 года назад +345

    you should've asked the ' mum ' to send you a picture of him in a coma. i wonder what his response would've been then lol

    • @Octoboobs
      @Octoboobs 4 года назад +50

      Imagine just getting the image of Gaga sleeping on stream.
      "he's meditating guys'

    • @lol42069.
      @lol42069. 4 года назад +1

      @@Octoboobs 💀

  • @idakristinepedersen2873
    @idakristinepedersen2873 4 года назад +320

    He and his "mom" had the same way of writing. For example, they would both use a space before the dot at the end of a sentence. I don't think most people do that. Anyway I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you're okay!

    • @bexsmith5525
      @bexsmith5525 4 года назад +1

      Ida Kristine Pedersen it’s just grammar. I think everyone does this..

    • @idakristinepedersen2873
      @idakristinepedersen2873 4 года назад +44

      @@bexsmith5525 it's not really correct and most people I have talked to don't

    • @bexsmith5525
      @bexsmith5525 4 года назад

      Ida Kristine Pedersen ok whatever. Even though it’s simple grammar. 👍🏼

    • @Didenne
      @Didenne 4 года назад +51

      Bex Smith that is not grammar lol

    • @tangybatz3776
      @tangybatz3776 4 года назад +4

      I think that's the technical format for sending "correct" professional emails/ non casual the only people I see who do it are older because it was typewriter etiquette? Or atleast that's what I've heard from various people I've worked in office settings with

  • @riotdudee3091
    @riotdudee3091 4 года назад +369

    OKAY BUT THIS IS MY EX TYLER. I’m almost 100% certain. He tried to catfish me and I was stupid and ended up staying with him after finding out who he is. I was very young and he was older then me and he still tries to talk to me to this day. He faked an overdose and a car accident. Faked coming to my city. Faked being friends with a band I liked.. I was young and stupid and I hope that he doesn’t hurt anyone else

    • @adipatronum69
      @adipatronum69 4 года назад +16

      Ur just lying

    • @kenzsuperfan
      @kenzsuperfan 4 года назад +11

      Something similar happened to me and he was called Danny, it was so hard, sending love your way.

    • @riotdudee3091
      @riotdudee3091 4 года назад +66

      Adira A Lmaooo What would be the point of lying about something like that? Imma get clout offa comment ?? 🤣🤣 you sound dumb. And why would I lie about being GROOMED by an adult. Think before you type 👏🏻

    • @k0shkad0g
      @k0shkad0g 4 года назад +35

      dude... 😶 I had some guy named "Tyler" do the same to me for like 5 years online. I figured it out when his "brother" called me and told me he died, then he called me and told me he didnt really die and he was sorry for doing that to me. I had just lost a friend in real life so it broke me quite a bit. But how crazy is it that this happens SO often?! it's so creepy!

    • @adipatronum69
      @adipatronum69 4 года назад +5

      @@riotdudee3091 chill i just think its fake its MY opinion ok

  • @zoegordon3512
    @zoegordon3512 4 года назад +134

    A lot of his expressions aren't used commonly in the U.S., so I feel like he was most likely British and faking his accent

  • @lillywalker4374
    @lillywalker4374 4 года назад +1081

    The way she still cares about him is actually showing how caring KT is awww 🥰

    • @margarethe3677
      @margarethe3677 4 года назад +84

      Lilly Walker no, it’s the result of clear manipulation 🤮 she might want to see a therapist because there’s clearly a CRAP ton of trauma there

    • @Em_Elizabeth
      @Em_Elizabeth 4 года назад +29

      It looks like a narcissist/empath dynamic.

    • @charl_emily
      @charl_emily 4 года назад +1

      Yh true x

    • @rosebrown1985
      @rosebrown1985 3 года назад +7

      Grooming its called

    • @briannk3720
      @briannk3720 3 года назад

      JESUS LOVES YOU...YOU MAY FEEL ALONE BUT JESUS IS WITH YOU ...
      TRY AND TALK TO HIM CONFINE IN HIM
      THANK YOUruclips.net/video/AtBNTF90X08h/видео.htmlttps://ruclips.net/video/6IawlQKMepoh/видео.htmlttps://ruclips.net/video/UVmu-Aln2Xo/видео.html

  • @EMJAYstyles
    @EMJAYstyles 4 года назад +2084

    Stranger from internet: hey girl lets meet
    KT: omg yas lets go here’s my address
    Me at 14: omg a boy from school said hello to me today and I managed to say hi back without choking

    • @homitb
      @homitb 4 года назад +14

      hahahaha yyessss!!!

    • @satabdidas1153
      @satabdidas1153 4 года назад +7

      Exactly! Tbh I kinda find THIS creepy!

    • @lyricqueen101
      @lyricqueen101 4 года назад +4

      @@satabdidas1153 you don't know what its like to be in that position ur heartless and don't deserve anything

    • @lemonscentedcloroxwipes
      @lemonscentedcloroxwipes 4 года назад +7

      @@lyricqueen101 wth

    • @lyricqueen101
      @lyricqueen101 4 года назад +2

      @@lemonscentedcloroxwipes WHAT!!

  • @madiraer7162
    @madiraer7162 4 года назад +155

    Her: *emotional about the texts* Me: Why do you have 720 texts?! Giving me anxiety

  • @fay3294
    @fay3294 4 года назад +185

    this started off kind of cute and goofy BUT DAMN did things go downhill fast. i am so sorry. even in my worst moments, I couldn't have done something like that to anyone i cared about... yikes.

  • @lucysmith278
    @lucysmith278 4 года назад +154

    Her eyebrows r always so good

  • @tedd333
    @tedd333 4 года назад +43

    the fact her mam was there for her instead of being mean about it to her, that’s good parenting like letting your child learn from their mistakes yes please we’re here for it

  • @cocaerin
    @cocaerin 4 года назад +72

    you can hear how heart broken her voice was when she was reading the texts😭💔

  • @Riley05
    @Riley05 4 года назад +38

    I don’t understand how messed up people can be sometimes.. this is why I’m scared of social media

  • @freyagrace9314
    @freyagrace9314 4 года назад +360

    the youtube notif for this came up as i watched the clip on tiktok

    • @nyah5962
      @nyah5962 4 года назад +3

      FreyaGrace same😂

  • @mia_png416
    @mia_png416 4 года назад +424

    Is it just me or does kt deserve more hype??? She's gone through so much taf i love you kt.💜💜💜💜
    Edit: hey thanks guys where did all these likes come from? It's nice of u guys and i appriceate it because I'm going through a hard time 💜🥰
    Omg wtf she liked it as well tysfm I'm crying 💗😭💗

  • @razkia
    @razkia 4 года назад +42

    i was dealing with the same thing recently. i was talking to this guy on my snap for about 2 months; he seemed so sweet at first. as time went on i noticed myself being isolated from my family, him becoming more manipulative, making up scenarios to make me feel bad or pity him. he would also talk about how rich he was. i was at a very low point in my life and he took advantage of that. he would say he was buying me gifts in stuff. towards the end, he figured out my school, last name, etc. and that's when i became frightened.
    i thought i was stupid, because everyone i knew made me feel like i was dumb for even talking to anyone online. including my best friend. this video just made me feel a bit better (:

  • @arielapolo9250
    @arielapolo9250 4 года назад +239

    WHY WOULD U GIVE HIM YOUR ADDRESS

    • @elianaelia729
      @elianaelia729 4 года назад +24

      She was 14 give her a break

    • @verosestudio
      @verosestudio 4 года назад +24

      they talked for 2 years. that amount of time would make you give your online friend your address

    • @mouthwatering1523
      @mouthwatering1523 3 года назад +10

      @@verosestudio girl dont justify it you should never give ANYONE online your address no matter how many years youve spoken, like ty for example they spoke for years yet he still fucked her over

    • @xoxo7367
      @xoxo7367 3 года назад +6

      @@verosestudio MH LIKE NO???? i have internet friends for many years and the know about me (and the same them) only the city I live in. NOT my address, what????

    • @tourmii
      @tourmii 3 года назад +1

      @@verosestudio nah not until there's a meet up. i'd meet them at the airport. would never ever give someone i don't actually know my home address.

  • @elham9574
    @elham9574 4 года назад +193

    How did ur mum let u do these stuff mine would get the slippers out

  • @adriaunaa5745
    @adriaunaa5745 4 года назад +50

    I dated a dude EXACTLY like this.. he threatened to kill himself and lied a lot about stuff and even acted like he OD and was in the hospital ☠️

  • @Adalwulf112
    @Adalwulf112 4 года назад +44

    i got catfished for 5 years and i feel like i lost those years to someone who never actually gave a damn about me. luv life :(

    • @peacfulmind3272
      @peacfulmind3272 3 года назад +3

      That why I am scared af to give efffort for those who dont deserve Im loving my self

    • @rachel-ig9rw
      @rachel-ig9rw 3 года назад +1

      I need to here your story for real

  • @moyga
    @moyga 4 года назад +12

    This was very relatable for me. Extremely manipulative. A lot of these people use all the same tactics. It's amazing how they do it. It can really, really mess you up especially when you're young or in a psychologically vulnerable state. You shouldn't worry about that person, they don't really care about you, otherwise they wouldn't have tried to manipulate you so much. They just use you because they are lonely etc. The good feelings you have towards them and you worrying about them mostly just come from them emotionally manipulating you. As you said, they sent nice messages when you started to get more distant, it was less genuine and more calculated.

  • @laurabrown535
    @laurabrown535 4 года назад +221

    I have a home pod and it literally went off when you went “hey Siri” 🤣xxxx

  • @drxco_f3lton260
    @drxco_f3lton260 4 года назад +204

    I found this on tiktok and really wanted to see the hole story time i feel really bad for you 💖😢🥺. Thx for the likes

  • @thorvelasco1467
    @thorvelasco1467 4 года назад +11

    A sad and horrifying tale of narcissism and sociopathy (Ty). Thank you for sharing.

  • @melissamuz
    @melissamuz 4 года назад +21

    This video is so sad, the emotion behind it fucking sucks. It reminds me a lot of my first heartbreak..... I wasn't catfished but there were many times we were going to meet up and he'd cancel last minute or something like that. He'd tell me he loved me and we had inside jokes that only we understood and he was there for me at a very hard time in my life. It's so hard as a teenager to go through heartbreak when you have so many other things going on. I can still read our messages and get emotional too. Glad you were able to move on x

  • @yazzajazza5777
    @yazzajazza5777 4 года назад +434

    WHO TF IS THAT ONE PERSON WHO DISLIKED THE VIDEO, I WILL FIGHT U

    • @marleyrose1701
      @marleyrose1701 4 года назад +9

      Probs him

    • @aniahraya7997
      @aniahraya7997 4 года назад +1

      Yazmin El-Madawi-khan there’s a reason there’s a dislike button for a reason🤦🏽‍♀️why else would they have it

    • @th0m4xs70
      @th0m4xs70 4 года назад +1

      Aniah Raya and we have fists for a reason. :)

    • @yazzajazza5777
      @yazzajazza5777 4 года назад +1

      Um to all those ppl who r just being idk weird about it, it was a joke actually chill out but I think the point is to kt and how she opened up to us about her past 😊

    • @yazzajazza5777
      @yazzajazza5777 4 года назад +1

      Aniah Raya well no it’s a joke why so serious

  • @mjp7372
    @mjp7372 4 года назад +8

    This made me cry. Honestly, you did NOT need that manipulation. It seemed he offered you support in virtual world when you needed escape and then manipulated you. I am glad you can see how awful he treat you now ❤️❤️

  • @georgelegeyt1004
    @georgelegeyt1004 4 года назад +42

    I got catfished for 11 months, I found out yesterday. The amount of small details that went into this was almost genius. I had 2000 pictures of her, I spoke to her sister, her friends. I honestly trusted her with my soul. I found out I got catfished because she wouldn’t take a picture of my name written on her hand. An our later I had been blocked on everything. I’m really suffering and it’s fucked with my head so much. She was literally the only person I had. I didn’t even get an explanation, I’m so devastated, she was perfect. I don’t know what to do with myself.

    • @Abby-wx6kl
      @Abby-wx6kl 4 года назад +9

      Keep yourself busy. You didn't deserve to go through that. Take care

    • @iamnikael9792
      @iamnikael9792 4 года назад +1

      George Le Geyt I hope your okay. Everything happens for a reason, one day you’ll find the right girl, and you’ll know who she really is.

    • @georgelegeyt1004
      @georgelegeyt1004 4 года назад +3

      Thank you, it’s been nearly a week and I’m still suffering a lot

    • @karinarahma5659
      @karinarahma5659 4 года назад +2

      Similar story as me... Mine is almost 10 months with him but I know sometime later that has to end.. don't let someone steal your time and play around with your feelings you know you deserve better. I'm also still healing from this

    • @wt6241
      @wt6241 4 года назад +2

      Hey I hope you're doing better now. That's so fucked up she didn't deserve you. I swear there are still nice people out there and you will find someone 100% :). Lots of love, you can do this

  • @kyleearrington1852
    @kyleearrington1852 4 года назад +9

    Gurl you are a warrior! I went through a similar situation as well and it’s not okay for people to do this!! Although I’ve been through this it’s way worse for you! I’m so sorry! Depression and anxiety isn’t a joke and I hope your okay!

  • @peachyaesthetics7676
    @peachyaesthetics7676 4 года назад +27

    this happened to me once and i was with him for 6 months and i was really upset when i found out the truth, we are here for you

  • @kayleighshanay7994
    @kayleighshanay7994 4 года назад +12

    I honestly feel so bad for you. I was in a similar situation at the age of 15 with someone also called Ty (must be a bad omen lol), and even though he wasn't a catfish it was so toxic. It's always easy to judge if you've never been in the situation but when you're actually in it, it's so easy to get caught up in it all, even if you've only ever spoken to them online. I really feel for you and I hope your heart can heal from this xx

  • @bjoseph369
    @bjoseph369 2 года назад +2

    This is my comfort video

  • @baran6006
    @baran6006 4 года назад +9

    Throughout the whole video I felt like I was there with her and she was telling me all of this face-to-face. I hope there's more storytimes that she makes long videos about because it is really nice listening to her talk 💕

  • @liabaakhtar6689
    @liabaakhtar6689 4 года назад +43

    Here came from tiktok ily so much so sorry that u had to go through something like this always here if u need help hope u notice this cause I really mean it ilysm 😁🙃

  • @nqtemi
    @nqtemi 3 года назад +5

    seeing you cry about this tears me apart inside because something like this happened to me too, i'm so sorry love. girls having to deal with this like we did makes me so sad

  • @Lyssaleigh
    @Lyssaleigh 4 года назад +48

    y’all INVENTED love is blind 😂😂

  • @cheezburgers14
    @cheezburgers14 4 года назад +119

    Girl, Tylas was probably a girl.. that would explain the voice and no face on facetime

  • @taylorswifty12
    @taylorswifty12 3 года назад +6

    bringing younow back from the depths of my memory omg wtf

  • @hannahdavies2926
    @hannahdavies2926 4 года назад +9

    im so glad i didn't get a phone until i was like 17 . Even when i got a phone my mum would always check just in case something was up . And i thank her for that she is an awesome mum . I feel bad for what you've gone through and i hope these people will get exposed more in videos like these. I think online relationships and friendships should always be taken very light because most of the time it can be dangerous . I think the problem is nowadays is more kids and teenagers are using phones and social apps with their parents unknowing whats going on . If you're ever in a position like this where you have a gut feeling something is off and the person you're speaking to gets you emotionally and mentally unwell and nervous and you feel manipulated. PLEASE speak up and tell you're parents or anyone and get these predators and horrible people banned . Stay safe and be more aware ♥

  • @BigWillieB.
    @BigWillieB. 2 года назад +2

    that’s terrible and that story gave me so much anxiety i’m glad you’re doing much better and moved passed it keep your head up, and broke my heart seeing you tear up 🥺🥺

  • @KM-iu9hm
    @KM-iu9hm 4 года назад +5

    it’s crazy how this happens to so many people. i had a similar situation and i am still getting over it now. my person had the same name, but we went to the same school and met up every single day. my heart goes out to you and all the other people going through this❣️

  • @TaraAmuni
    @TaraAmuni 4 года назад +50

    ‘My aunt and crackhead mum’😂 Sounds like a wattpad story

    • @Wenixi
      @Wenixi 3 года назад

      So nicely said about his family... ughh.

  • @melissakeenan8034
    @melissakeenan8034 4 года назад +4

    this is such a relatable story.so many of us were emotionally manipulated by people we met online when we were babies. Im so sorry this happened to you thank you for sharing your story

  • @maisiemiller9458
    @maisiemiller9458 4 года назад +6

    Watching this and hearing your story literally brought me to tears, and I’m not a crier. I’m so sorry that you had to go through that as I could literally feel the pain in your voice. Ur amazing for staying so positive x

  • @sparklysavbear
    @sparklysavbear Год назад +2

    I had online “friends” who faked their deaths and pretended to be their parents as well… im so sorry you had to go through that 💗

  • @gabrielezagornyte5953
    @gabrielezagornyte5953 4 года назад +4

    I hope you’re okay. I was in a very similar situation and it hurts me to see that people are going through things like that. I just do not understand people who lie, manipulate and pretend to be someone they’re not. I just hope you’re better now, that people learn from this and no one has to go through things like that again☹️

  • @khx212
    @khx212 4 года назад +4

    the ending really got me. it ended just like that. tears are in my eyes. hope your feeling better kt love you

  • @nataliemeram4344
    @nataliemeram4344 4 года назад +2

    When you said "just delete my number your scarring me" I felt sooooo bad for you and I almost started to cry. Your amazing and I can't belive how you went through that❤

  • @johnkilty3293
    @johnkilty3293 4 года назад +4

    Seeing you cry hurts me so much :(

  • @aduckasaurusrex9555
    @aduckasaurusrex9555 4 года назад +27

    Anyone notice that the “mom” is using the same writing style. Example being a space between every period or comma.

    • @Ryy505
      @Ryy505 4 года назад +1

      RIGHT

  • @deardollie2924
    @deardollie2924 4 года назад +123

    1:49 you set my Siri off 😂

  • @jasminee8107
    @jasminee8107 4 года назад +8

    this just makes me sad because u were so hooked and so attached to this person and the way they helped you, but in reality he was doing more harm then good. i went through this as well except he wasn’t cat fishing. he just kept promising we’d get married and idk it was weird but it’s a long story and similar to this. anyways, i hope that you never experience this again.

  • @oliviajayward
    @oliviajayward 2 года назад +1

    I had a similar story as well, I met this guy online who told me he was a hacker and that he could get my hacked twitter account back. I never got my twitter account back but he would always make up stories to get me to send money to him and I fell for this. He'd say that he's in love with me and wants to fly to the UK to see me. However, every time I told him I no to sending him money, he would manipulate me by saying he's going to hack me and make my life miserable. It got to the point where he'd make fake accounts with fake stories to try and get more money from me.
    Thanks for sharing this story, I really connected to this personally. Please everyone be aware of who you're actually talking to on the internet 💗

  • @bigachoo9494
    @bigachoo9494 4 года назад +3

    it makes me sad to see you cry no one should go through that. it was horrible of him to play that game the way he did. My own sisters did similar things once after I fell out with my closest friend. it wasn't as bad as your situation but it hurt to know that my own family would use such precious things against me. I just wanna give you a hug D: I hope you are okay.

  • @juliaeliasson3222
    @juliaeliasson3222 3 года назад +5

    Girls! If it's will help to go over this: you are in love in his texts, not him! You are addicted to your emotions! You are want to be a good caring person and love your feelings. This addiction uses by scammers and narcissists! He writes the same "beautiful amazing" text to many girls at the same time, just copy-paste! He is not meaning the one word of those texts! Understand it, he is cold rational sick person. He will never ever charge bc he does not know how to live otherwise. Don't be sad about those bs texts! It is just black letters on the white screen of your phone! Block him forever! Don't be a slave of your emotions and addiction! Take kontroll över your feelings, please!

  • @Natalia-tu8uf
    @Natalia-tu8uf 2 года назад

    Im so so sorry for you. This is the most disturbing and manipulative shit ever. Im sorry you had to go thru this. I went through shit like this when i was young, when older people just try to manipulate and play with you. Always be careful, its so dangerous.

  • @zaraleinster7879
    @zaraleinster7879 4 года назад +7

    wow that would’ve been such an exhausting experience. i’ve been in a similar situation myself, with the other person wanting to commit suicide. really connected with you katie. thank you so much for the story 💞

  • @xMAYAAAAAA
    @xMAYAAAAAA 4 года назад +156

    All I could think through out this whole story was where tf were her parents?

    • @liz4843
      @liz4843 4 года назад +20

      Thank you. Exactly what I was thinking.

    • @ahyie1759
      @ahyie1759 4 года назад +15

      They split up,but her mother knew if you meant it literally, haha.

    • @elii2013
      @elii2013 4 года назад +9

      She didnt see her dad that much but she said that she talked to ger mum abt it

    • @melissamuz
      @melissamuz 4 года назад +10

      She and her mum constantly clashed, she probably didn't mention any of it to her mum in the latter parts of the story and she isn't close with her father either

    • @rue353
      @rue353 4 года назад +13

      She mentions not seeing her dad often and having a rocky relationship with her mother. A lot of parents do not know who their children are interacting with online, especially from 14 onward when they begin talking, that's when people start getting more freedom.

  • @Talkswithtasha.
    @Talkswithtasha. 4 года назад +5

    Katy I’m so sorry you had to go though this ❤️he wasent the person he said he was and he was lying to you over and over again , you deserve so much more 🤍your honestly so beautiful and amazing and I’m so proud of you for sharing your story . Your amazing 😘I love you xx stay strong xx 💋 love Tasha

  • @liliavelasco7422
    @liliavelasco7422 4 года назад +7

    i wanted to watch this last night but i decided to watch it this morning and let me tell you how much i relate to it. i cried so many times. i’m only 17 but i had a similar situation happen to me. i certainly hope that you are doing well. you are amazing and don’t deserve what he did to you.

  • @gaiabaldy3245
    @gaiabaldy3245 3 года назад +1

    You've been really brave and mature. I'm going through a similar situation with a guy I've met online 9 months ago; I'm pretty sure his identity is real, but I hope his intentions are good. I just don't understand why someone would ever do something like that; love shouldn't be a challenge. I know a lot of us are meeting people online during this period, maybe because we miss something. I'm sure someone will love us the way we want to be loved, without doubts or fears. We deserve it. ❤️

  • @shanamagadzire3283
    @shanamagadzire3283 4 года назад +33

    I love the story times😍

  • @priyajames7351
    @priyajames7351 4 года назад +9

    You have so many stories I love listening to them!! Although some of them are sad or scary sorry that u have gone through so much! Xx

  • @isabellecd888
    @isabellecd888 4 года назад +1

    i'm so sorry you had to go through that! that person is so fucked up and nobody deserves to be messed up so badly. you deserve so much better you seem lovely

  • @clalyrics441
    @clalyrics441 4 года назад +13

    Yo I've seen every episode of Catfish, many of them more than once, and this person used basically all the stories/lies/techniques in the book. And it's completely possible that they changed their voice and it's actually a woman.

  • @alannahlunn4154
    @alannahlunn4154 4 года назад +17

    been waiting for this all day🥺

  • @demileighi274
    @demileighi274 4 года назад +22

    whoever this person is, he really hurt this girl and that isn’t something everyone can heal from. my heart aches for you 🥺❤️

  • @lowkeylola88
    @lowkeylola88 4 года назад

    I am so sorry you have to go through this. It is best to just move on. People like that are never going to change. I have been there myself for over a year before I just finally blocked them everywhere. The manipulation is so draining, no one deserves that.

  • @taytaysinger
    @taytaysinger 4 года назад +4

    I talked to a guy for two years that was like this, too. He didn't catfish me, but he was always sending these sorts of things. He was all over the place, sometimes wanting a relationship (even though I said I didn't want that and we had never met) and other times being rude and talking about other girls/wanting advice on how to get them. These kinds of men are such a waste of time.

  • @abby61
    @abby61 4 года назад +5

    i get so invested in all your story times especially this one, it’s really deep🤕❤️

  • @ribonucleic7324
    @ribonucleic7324 4 года назад +40

    When you asked Siri for the most popular live streaming app I was saying twitch and when it was twitch I was proud of myself walking Siri check

  • @destinyann_
    @destinyann_ 4 года назад

    I went through the same exact thing. It really fucks up your mindset. I'm so sorry you went through this. You're strong love and I hope you're doing better..💗

  • @jia8145
    @jia8145 4 года назад +1

    My very close friend went through something similar, I'm so glad I could help her. I can't imagine what it would be like to cope with this on your own. He took advantage of the fact you were young and decided to abuse his power with manipulation, deceit and threats. I really hope you are doing better now. ❤️

  • @willowquick.
    @willowquick. 4 года назад +24

    This has unfortunately happened to me on more than once occasion , I thought I was speaking to one person I opened up to them about everything we talked for years and then I noticed something off etc the insta profile got changed n stuff it was all sketchy

  • @lacilaci1776
    @lacilaci1776 4 года назад +67

    when you said you never heard from him ever again i almost burst info tears that’s heartbreaking i’m so sorry :( just out of curiosity, do you think you’d ever contact him on whatsapp to see if he’s okay? obviously understandable if you wouldn’t after what he did and put you through

    • @kt.franklin
      @kt.franklin  4 года назад +20

      Laci Laci No I really want to hear from him! Like I’m genuinely worried about him, I hope he’s doing well and I hope he’s happy!

    • @fa6568
      @fa6568 4 года назад +3

      Are you Ty??? confess right now

    • @lacilaci1776
      @lacilaci1776 4 года назад +2

      KT Franklin just shows how much of a good heart you have. i can see why you’re worried bless you wishing you all the best love your videos
      . ❤️

    • @griffenerica
      @griffenerica 4 года назад +12

      KT Franklin the fact that he put you through so much and caused you so much trauma and even after all these years you still care enough to want to reach out to him and know that he’s okay, just goes to show how strong his manipulation is. i really hope instead you consider deleting/blocking him on whatsapp and talking to a professional about what happened. he still clearly has a hold on you :(

  • @scarlettpriv6871
    @scarlettpriv6871 4 года назад

    Aw honey, being manipulated is the worst thing. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that for so long. We're all so proud of you xx

  • @Erika-oo1qo
    @Erika-oo1qo 4 года назад +1

    it's not just the fact that he was constantly lying, what scared me the most were his mind games and the fact that he would threaten you with his life. like, just hearing about them made me feel drained, because i had an experience where i had to end up things with someone who i had actually met and gone out a few times (but had to continue the "relationship" in distance after a while) simply because the life he lead was draining me out mentally and emotionally. and i do not blame the guy for the hardships he was and is going through but i felt that at some point he was playing mind games with me as well, maybe unintentionally but i still didn't like that. so yeah, i ended up things.
    but yet again i was 20 when it happened and you were so young and i don't know, plain creepy. Internet is a scary ass place

  • @leilaniidk4368
    @leilaniidk4368 4 года назад +164

    Imagine that guy watching this video lol 😂

    • @deathrays
      @deathrays 4 года назад +39

      He honestly probably is.

    • @catwoman3098
      @catwoman3098 4 года назад +6

      @the girl with the sun in her head
      why do I feel like you are the guy...

  • @LeeTaeyong-vj6hv
    @LeeTaeyong-vj6hv 4 года назад +7

    This really reminded me of a relationship I was in with someone, he left me after everything I had doen for him and to this day it hurts

  • @kaiyalynn6842
    @kaiyalynn6842 3 года назад

    Been here too girl. He was a real person, he would show his face, but the manipulation and the lies and the constant making you stay and trying to convince you that they cared, that stuff was the hardest. Sometimes i end up missing him, just strictly as a friend, not anything more, cause he was there for so much in my life, but i have to remember that it’s not good for me.

  • @Chelle8847
    @Chelle8847 4 года назад +1

    UGHHHH people suck!! This makes me so sad cos you're obviously still affected by it :( please do not ever speak to "him" ever again, he manipulated you and mentally and emotionally abused you! I know the feeling of wanting (even needing) someone to change, to be a better person, to treat me better, to show me that they loved me, butt it just never happened. It's sooo o hard, and you'll probably still feel a bit of emotion for years to come about it... but just know you deserve so much better, from someone who wont manipulate you, who shows you their face!! Thank you for posting this though, as it could help others in similar situations realise the same patterns

  • @jazelbrown3049
    @jazelbrown3049 4 года назад +5

    my heart shattered when the text said *not delivered*

  • @alannahlunn4154
    @alannahlunn4154 4 года назад +6

    proud of you for doing this ❤️

  • @dilarakandemir3
    @dilarakandemir3 4 года назад

    KT you have such a good heart, you HAVE to protect it and guard it with people. You cannot be this naive. Especially because there are many people out there looking to hurt you like "Ty."

  • @zarahamilton6206
    @zarahamilton6206 4 года назад +1

    I think it’s really kind of you to tell everyone (even if it’s hard to) about what happened to you so we know what potential danger we’re in and all the things people can do to manipulate you and how to realise them xxxx (the 110 dislikes on this video are probably that person on his different accounts)