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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @kb9847
    @kb9847 Год назад +25

    So sorry to hear this!! So so scary! I hope you call the Health Department and put in a complaint. (My Sister had a co-worker who died because a restaurant used a spoon from one dish to stir another and contaminated the other dish.) I couldn't imagine having to be this careful. I have lots of food sensitivities, but not life-threatening.) Give each other a hug and celebrate that. You did everything right. Happy Holidays!

  • @leanintolifetheenglishway3187
    @leanintolifetheenglishway3187 Год назад +1

    You are loved. Both of you. If you are ever in the Okanagan please come visit us. We would love you both to come.

  • @marissa3004
    @marissa3004 Год назад +1

    I am so sorry this happened. You're so beautiful and amazing! You're so strong! I worry about this happening to my 5 yr. old neighbour friend, (again). Allergies suck, I'm so sorry again. I wish you the best for 2023!!!
    PS- "Looking for her" is amazing!

  • @Tara........
    @Tara........ Год назад +3

    I'm really sorry to hear about what happened to Jenny. I'm glad she's all right. Hoping the rest of the holidays are filled with joy for you. Best wishes to both of you in 2023 and extra hugs for Jenny!

  • @jimw966
    @jimw966 Год назад +4

    Vlogmas Day 21. I am so sorry this happened and thankful that Jenny is okay. Sending all the love to you both ❤️ Nobody said this new path would be easy, but you will be okay in the long run. Change is hard and you can do this.

  • @Rise876
    @Rise876 Год назад +3

    I'm so sorry to hear Jenny experienced this, and especially at xmas. Things like that can leave a person with bad anxiety, but I hope she fully recovers, mentally and physically, as soon as possible. I hope you both do. ❤Nala was so cute sleeping on the stairs with his toy llama💕 I hope all three of you have the best xmas day possible. Peace and love, guys, peace and love. 🎄🌟✨🎅❄

  • @lorrieharter4584
    @lorrieharter4584 Год назад +1

    It can only get better. I keep telling my self as well. You and Jenny are in my thoughts, and hope you have a restful and happy rest of the year. I can only imagine how hard it is to live there without a car, but I am sure Jenny would never want you to give up your dream just for one. Happy you were able to get the last gifts out. Stay safe and warm. ❤

  • @KaraMoore13
    @KaraMoore13 Год назад +2

    I am so sorry that happened to you! YOU.ARE.NOT.ALONE. You are NOT selfish for wanting to help people! There is always a stranger willing to help! I have learned that multiple times!
    I’m new to a tree nut allergy. I never liked them and didn’t eat them. It’s SCARY! My reaction scared me so much and I have panic disorder. The amount of panic made it worse than the reaction, but I’m terrified to go out to restaurants due to carelessness.
    This too shall pass! ❤

  • @staceyowenswellness
    @staceyowenswellness Год назад +6

    I'm so sorry for what happened to Jenny. It's so hard to eat out with severe allergies and to have that experience while meeting new friends in a city you're feeling alone in....ah. My heart hurt deeply for you both. Wishing you both health, ease and comfort through the remaining holiday days.

  • @sallychugg7887
    @sallychugg7887 Год назад +2

    Nothing to ashamed of wanting to help people it's a gift really even looking into doing nessary course what ever closer to family and friends for back up!! I did a hospitality course we were told important of knowing what's in the food etc asking guest if any allergies?? Things will get better you have each to sort out life's ups and down sending love from Down under take care stay safe 👍👍

  • @ashleylucas5877
    @ashleylucas5877 Год назад +1

    I'm so glad Jenny is doing ok. I was so worried. That is so scary, about her allergy and what happened. That's just horrible that restaurant was careless. All the healing to you Jenny, & Willow too. All the love and positive vibes for you both🙏🙌🌈 -Ashley (Seattle, WA)

  • @callmelivy
    @callmelivy Год назад +3

    Feeling for you, friend ❤️ You guys are beautiful souls who don't deserve such stress, but life just has a way of showing you your path. Even though this sucks, you've gotten so much clarity about what you want in your future and your direction. We're here for you! I know I'm just a viewer but me and my insta dms are always there if you need to just rant to someone or need a distraction.

  • @marie-sophiethiroux7534
    @marie-sophiethiroux7534 Год назад +2

    Dear Willow. I’m not the kind of people how interact a lot on the networks bit your video broke my heart. You should try (I understand you are working on it) to let things go with not necesseraly analizing them. It’s what we call in French le « lâcher prise » and it’s an amazing sensation. Have a merry christmas and lovely Hannouka. If both of you want to visit one of the most Beautiful city in the world I’ll be delighted to guide you and give you tip. All my love from Paris🇫🇷

  • @u140550
    @u140550 Год назад +3

    😮😢omg, lord that seriously sucks. Lord I’m seriously glad as of right now she’s good, these are things that you take seriously. On one hand I feel bad doing this for a small business as we need them, but on the other hand that is so wrong!!!! I seriously hope they fire this chef, because that is not acceptable. I’m so annoyed by this, what the hell is wrong with them; I don’t remember what the health inspector equivalent is in Canada… but I think it’s something to consider calling or complaining. If that was my own partner or family member I’d be pretty much ready to sue, that is utter neglect.

  • @b-ridge1589
    @b-ridge1589 Год назад

    Sorry this happened. Glad Jenny is OK and that the families got their gifts. Wishing you a better year for 2023 x

  • @deedeesaywhat
    @deedeesaywhat Год назад +2

    This sounds so scary! Please please be gentle with yourself Willow. You are doing your best and got her to the hospital. I’m glad she’s ok now. Wishing you both a much healthier and happier 2023. 💜

  • @lassam333
    @lassam333 Год назад +2

    Happy that Jenny's doing better!
    You don't have to ashamed for quitting a career and following your dream to help other people. It's not your fault that the restaurant sucked up and put Jenny in life danger. The kitchen knew of the allergies but still went ahead to ignore them! An apology by far isn't enough! They willingfully risked the life of one of their customers!
    They should have called 911 immediately instead of practically leaving you alone to deal with the situation.
    Hope your new friends are good too. It must have been a traumatizing experience for them as well.
    Glad you were able to deliver the presents for the second family before this incident.
    Totally understandable that you have to take a break. Take as much time as you need. Health (also mental health) is the most important thing in life.
    I wish Jenny and you all the best. Hope that 2023 will be a year full of health, love, happiness, joy, fun, luck and success!
    Sending you lots of love and strength from Vienna! ❤️❤️❤️ 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

  • @gillianslattery1765
    @gillianslattery1765 Год назад +1

    Such a scary thing to happen! My daughter has allergies which she needs an epipen for and has had some narrow escapes due to lack of information in kitchens. Using same oil to fry squid as beef when she had mentioned seafood allergies. Too awful to think of. Its NOT just s fad folks!!! I hope Jenny is okay now and you can enjoy Christmas/Channukah together xxx

  • @jennp7
    @jennp7 Год назад +4

    Merry Christmas 🎄 ❤
    Sending you and Jenny so much love and hugs 🤗❤️

  • @erinlangdon1375
    @erinlangdon1375 Год назад +1

    I’m so glad to hear Jenny was able to get treatment in time.
    I get the community thing. It took me three to four years to build mine in Seattle (the PNW freeze is real!) once I started volunteering and doing league sports. I hope you have some slow/quiet months to get decompress and feel like you can get above water. This internet stranger is pulling for you!

  • @sarahbriggs1065
    @sarahbriggs1065 Год назад +5

    I'm so sorry that happened to Jenny. Its so good that she is starting to feel better.
    I wanted to put my arms through the tv to hug you ❤

  • @GrowingonVancouverIsland
    @GrowingonVancouverIsland Год назад +2

    Anaphylaxis is so scary! I'm glad Jenny is okay. Wishing you a much better year in 2023!

  • @ALIEN3966D
    @ALIEN3966D Год назад +1

    Oh no I'm so sorry that happened to Jenny i hope she is well wishes you both the best happy holidays 👍

  • @jermaineking8687
    @jermaineking8687 Год назад +1

    Willow, we love Vlogmas, but we love you and Jenny 100 times more! I’m glad she’s doing okay! That line cook…. 😡 🤬 Things will get better! There’s a brand new year with brand new possibilities just around the corner, just hang in there and lean on all of us if you need us! We got you! 🤗

  • @Morileth
    @Morileth Год назад +1

    So horrible, they need to be super better on this! hope she feels better soon

  • @jjtheb
    @jjtheb Год назад +2

    OH Willow and Jenny. Sorry to hear it was a day of major ups and downs. I am so happy that you were able to deliver the gifts to the 2nd family and they will have a wonderful Christmas. I think it's important to bring awareness to the topic of severe allergies. I wasn't aware the EPI pen may only be buying time and isn't or won't be an instant solution to counter the allergic reaction. Glad Jenny is okay, it's hard enough with the pandemic and all the other health concerns out there for everyone, can't imagine on top of that having to face these daily struggles with severe allergies and others with health struggles. Don''t beat yourself up, you tried to address and triple, quadruple check, the restaurant was negligent.
    I know you love Vancouver, but having a community and family and friends support is probably what you guys need, so you don't feel so alone. Will it be Toronto or back to your hometown? It's perfectly understandable to tweak and make changes and ask for help. Don't need to feel any shame. Merry Chrismukkah and wishing everyone joy, good health and light in the new year!

  • @luckygardeniasdashboardcon9214
    @luckygardeniasdashboardcon9214 Год назад +2

    Sending Love, Prayers and Hugs for both you and Jenny!

  • @lexdarrow9496
    @lexdarrow9496 Год назад

    Hey friend, I’m glad you got the gifts to the family! And on Jenny’s allergies, it’s scary to watch someone you care about go through that. My gf has a deathly latex allergy and has to be super carful with that, even something as Simone as a band aid having latex material put on a scrape. You’re not alone friend. And god your message about spending time with people hit so hard. I lost a close family member 3 days before this vid came out and I didn’t get to say goodbye to them truly. But all the other chances I got I did, and that made up for the last time. Stay strong friend. You’ll find your people.

  • @clairesimpson1174
    @clairesimpson1174 Год назад +1

    Hey willow so sorry to see u so down hopefully life will get better u just got to believe have faith in yourself and jenny too u will get through it x

  • @jgreer1999
    @jgreer1999 Год назад +1

    I’m so sorry that you had to experience this. I wish I could give you a big hug! Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! ❤️🎄🎊

  • @learningenglish9592
    @learningenglish9592 Год назад +1

    Merry Christmas.. everything is gonna be alright 🥰😇

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 Год назад +1

    I know how you feel Willow. Most of my family live in Seattle and I live in Australia. I have no one to help me when I go to hospital. It bloody sucks! I love it here but I want to move home. 💜💜

  • @alexanderschiano2441
    @alexanderschiano2441 Год назад +2

    These years are going to be rough, but in the end you stay the course and it will be worth it.

  • @user-ci4bh6cc5b
    @user-ci4bh6cc5b Год назад +2

    Ugh so sorry to hear that. Seriously willow it’s not your fault do not feel shame, it’s the carelessness of the staff after telling them CONTINUOUSLY she’s deathly allergic.

  • @ChelseaBrooke85
    @ChelseaBrooke85 Год назад +2

    I really enjoyed all of your Vlogmas videos! And SO GLAD Jenny is okay after that horrible screw up. I feel like that's a lawsuit worthy thing.

  • @FrederiekeBenIk
    @FrederiekeBenIk Год назад +2

    I'm so sorry this happened :( You guys are amazing! All the best to you two

  • @loupelizzo2399
    @loupelizzo2399 Год назад

    I feel so sorry to hear this has happened and I’m so glad she is okay and please sending you lots of love and please take care

  • @ilana0507
    @ilana0507 Год назад +1

    Sorry you and Jenny went through this. I'm so glad to hear she's ok

  • @Polmnia
    @Polmnia Год назад +1

    I am so happy that Jenny is better now , this must have been so difficult to experience during these times. You deserve all the rest you can have ! you are both incredibly strong ! ! ! Merry Christmas ❤️

  • @zeballos5757
    @zeballos5757 Год назад +2

    Omgoodness, that is brutal. It’s gonna be okay though. You seem like you will always find a way to figure things out. That’s such a shame that all happened right after you had done an incredibly good and kind deed.
    Just so ya know, I’ve lived in Vancouver for most of my life. Decades. I’m older than you guys. This weather is an anomaly. Once every so many years we get a bad weather system, but mostly, we have the mildest winters. I have never seen snow like this and then freezing rain. The greater Vancouver area is brutal for not plowing the streets. They knew in plenty of time it was going to be like this. Most people in my building haven’t been out all week. You just couldn’t walk in it. Sheer ice and snow covered in ice. The trees were covered in ice. Finally got out for a decent drive to somewhere beyond 15 minutes and I couldn’t believe what a mess it still is out there, including broken trees from all the ice on them, and flooding now because of the heavy rain. It’s been a rough week it seems. Lots of people very stressed out. Perhaps just chill for a day or two. Sounds like everything collided at once in December and you also took on the gift giving for the families. Not easy either when your partner is homesick and you know it’s bothering her. I would just ride December out, slow it down a bit, and start fresh next year. Time for a re set. Perhaps that’s what all of this is telling you, to take a step back for a bit. If I lived in that area, you could have definitely called me. I’m about 45 minutes from E Van. Anyway, hope Jenny is feeling better and you guys have a peaceful day tomorrow. PS, I’ll be glad when that damn tree is gone 😆

  • @kathryn7116
    @kathryn7116 Год назад +1

    I love that you two are in this world

  • @DaSuTro
    @DaSuTro Год назад +1

    That is so messed up for what happened to Jenny. Hope you two are okay.
    As for that line cook in question, I'd pink slip them without even a severance. That could have been someone's LIFE, and for what? Some damn walnuts in a dip? REALLY????

  • @shark_diver
    @shark_diver Год назад +1

    I'm so sorry! Lots of love for both of you❣

  • @rmily
    @rmily Год назад +1

    Hang in there! You'll find a way. I think it took a lot of courage to follow your heart and make a career shift. You'll find a path that works for you. Hope you all feel some relief soon. Merry Christmas and happy Hanukkah!

  • @robertbrown2351
    @robertbrown2351 Год назад +1

    We love you, Jenny and Willow! Take care of yourself!

  • @Roxanna.wez5671
    @Roxanna.wez5671 Год назад +1

    Sending you both positive energy and love ⚡️ May the new year bring you healing, community, peace, and joy 💕

  • @jeankeith4615
    @jeankeith4615 Год назад +2

    Merry Christmas hope jenny OK and on mend x

  • @jenwalmsely
    @jenwalmsely Год назад +1

    Man Jenny has had a tough time this year… I wish her all the best in 2023 ♥️
    Side Question: Would you ever move to Toronto, Canada ????

  • @luannlouch9524
    @luannlouch9524 Год назад

    Thank God she's ok. I hope this is readable. I had my surgery and am on pain meds. Love you both. Sending prayers. Big hugs..

  • @chuitzpatalingjug9628
    @chuitzpatalingjug9628 Год назад +1

    Get well soon Jen..❤❤❤

  • @careylynn4544
    @careylynn4544 Год назад

    Keep your head up Willow. I'm glad Jenny's okay. Merry Christmas and Happy new year. :D You're strong girl. You've got this.

  • @katrinadl5750
    @katrinadl5750 Год назад +1

    Do it. Call those you love. See them. Hug them longer! JUST DO IT! I lost my oldest brother 5 months ago and I'm not alright. Sending anyone who reads this love, happiness, and light

  • @deeechante4495
    @deeechante4495 Год назад +1

    My prayers are with you and Jenny ❤🙏

  • @eddelynreynon2700
    @eddelynreynon2700 Год назад +1

    Get well soon jenny

  • @musicalwheels
    @musicalwheels Год назад

    Im glad you were there for Jenny and glad she's feeling better. Just know that you are so so loved. Reach out anytime

  • @Motomade
    @Motomade Год назад

    Damn, love to you and Jenny. Creating/finding a community from scratch is hard even in the best of circumstances. In times past when I was looking for more queer friends I would reach out to the local queer center (if you’re lucky enough to have this in your city) and go to whatever events they had for the month. Also found a couple of queer run coffee shops and businesses and would make an effort to go there when I was getting a coffee anyway. Have made friends or found out about things happening from the people who work at queer run businesses. Wishing a less soul sucking 2023 for everyone.

  • @helenaslife4729
    @helenaslife4729 Год назад

    Hey I’m so sorry with what ur going through ur such a beautiful strong person and I hope next year Jenny health is better I love ur videos ❤ I hope you had a good Christmas xx

  • @truecrimelover2022
    @truecrimelover2022 Год назад +2

    So glad she's okay I worry so much for one of my nieces she's allergic to most nuts and eggs

  • @BayAreaBerk
    @BayAreaBerk Год назад

    I'm just what amounts to some random dude on the internet but I'm sending you Strength & Love.
    btw- I was raised with the people around me being of service. I applaud your efforts, even amongst the rocks and shoals of just trying to survive in everyday life.
    Happy VlogMas & keep that chin up!

  • @monikakamila
    @monikakamila Год назад +2

    Nala ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @xxkate152xx
    @xxkate152xx Год назад +1

    It's a bit creepy how this was 'foretold' in a way by the beginning of the video when you mention the allergy. I'm glad she's okay

  • @tinnefearn
    @tinnefearn Год назад

    Willow you are breaking my heart. Don’t blame yourself. That is a bad trap you will never win. Everything happens for a reason Willow including you quitting your job to help people. That is a good thing even tho it doesn’t feel like it right now. You never have to apologize to us for not being happy and excited about doing things. We are just happy you and Jenny are okay! 🤗🤗 and yes things always eventually get better. Hang in here you got this!
    A little story about how I found out I had a food allergy. I live in Kansas which is landlocked and sucks! My mom is allergic to touching fresh shrimp but can eat it. I am allergic to fresh fish and can not eat it without my throat closing as well. Thankfully not as bad as Jenny. We do not have fresh fish here but I do not chance it.
    I was in Florida where they do have fresh fish with my “gf” and her male “friend” long story. Anyway we were out to eat. They were sitting together on one side of the table and I was alone on the other side. They went to a place where I didn’t like anything. They didn’t offer to go someplace else because that is where they wanted to go. So they were eating and I wasn’t. My “gf” got sushi. Which I already knew I did not like. But she got some without fish on it. She is like try it. I am like no I do not like it. She said you’ll like this just try it. I take a bite and immediately my throat starts to close. I am coughing and gasping for air and I get up and go to the trash can and spit it out. There are other customers there just looking at me. No one helps or asks if I am okay not even the restaurant people. I sit back down still coughing but breathing a little better. The first thing my gf and her friend say is “why are you being so dramatic about not liking it? You are embarrassing us.” I was in so much shock I could not even say fuck you! What happened was the chef used the same knife and cutting board for all the sushi including the fish which is very common even now. So that is how I found out.
    Willow it is scary and I know you felt helpless both times but I wish I had someone like you there when I found out about mine. Don’t beat yourself up you did everything right. You stayed calm you got her to the hospital and she is okay. That is what is most important. With her allergies hopefully that will not happen that bad again but you will know what to do if it does. The most important thing Willow and I think Jenny will agree is that you were there for her. Supporting her taking care of her making sure she got to the hospital and home safely. Yes you have a chance now to decide how and where your community is. Be open to everything because you never know where life will lead you. It is leading you to something greater so trust your instincts they are not wrong especially your first one. 😊

  • @emilymisty798
    @emilymisty798 Год назад +1

    Some people are big arseholes, they don't take things seriously that could do damage to others, they thinks its fine because to them its not as issue, makes me wary of some people. I hope it gets better for you and Jenny has good health next year or at least improves.

  • @marysteer6794
    @marysteer6794 Год назад +1

    Love you guys sending you lots of love and prayers

  • @emilyeidt9374
    @emilyeidt9374 Год назад +2

    I’m so glad Jenny is ok after all that, you’re an amazing partner Willow❤ Keep your head up and moving forward, you’re gonna continue to great things and we love you💞

  • @monikakamila
    @monikakamila Год назад +1

    Omg Jenny 🤗.

  • @tylerbeales1987
    @tylerbeales1987 Год назад +2

    This is insane to happen expesholy if you have already asked and re asked if there were nuts or anything she was allergic to. I am happy everyone is OK

  • @stephenmccreery6511
    @stephenmccreery6511 Год назад +3

    As always much love 2u both

  • @nohemipalafox3201
    @nohemipalafox3201 Год назад

    It's going to get better, it has to!! Love you both!! Kisses from México ❤

  • @ikranikran510
    @ikranikran510 Год назад

    Sorry 💗💞💞💞 💞💞💞💞 am sorry 💗💗💗💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @monikakamila
    @monikakamila Год назад

    Love Willy in the kitchen . Merry Christmas 🎄

  • @nancyrifo4928
    @nancyrifo4928 Год назад

    Feliz navidad y la vida sigue afortunadamente 🙂

  • @rebeccaiscool.3109
    @rebeccaiscool.3109 Год назад

    ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜your phenomenal ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @paulinekenyon7623
    @paulinekenyon7623 Год назад

    Hi how is jenny is she much better and what has happened to you are you not doing any more videos i hope that is not the case look forward to seeing your videos

  • @u140550
    @u140550 Год назад

    Oh no what happened 😮, 10:01 hope she’s ok.

  • @stephenmccreery6511
    @stephenmccreery6511 Год назад +1

    Its as freaky as when my kid had his 1st siezure very scarey

  • @JCResDoc94
    @JCResDoc94 Год назад +1

    *16:35** wild o_0* nice work. _JC

  • @jennyspersonal
    @jennyspersonal Год назад

    My husband is allergic to dairy - anaphylaxis epipen all that jazz. We don't eat out anymore, can't trust people, they confuse it with lactose intolerance. I had 5 panic attacks from watching him having a reaction from a hamburger at the fair. Too scary, it feels like everyone is out there to kill him. "A little butter/ cheese/ splash of milk cream... they can't tell.." yeah, it sucks.

  • @nancyrifo4928
    @nancyrifo4928 Год назад +1

    Eres tan desinteresada , ayudaste a dos familias a tener una navidad con regalos . Y no tienes automóvil? Mil veces gracias por pensar en el prójimo y no en tí. Pero creo que nombrar el pay pal o como colaborar con tu canal al final del video, no es codicia. Muchos youtuber lo hacen. Es resultado de tu labor, dólar a dolar lo conseguirás. Y los que no puedan donar, ayuden viendo los comerciales , comentando, y dando like eso es solidaridad. Valoro tu fortaleza 💪

  • @alexanderschiano2441
    @alexanderschiano2441 Год назад

    ::sips espresso:: “it’s pretty strong” lol

  • @marianneaarseth5055
    @marianneaarseth5055 Год назад

    Aaaaaawwwwww 🥺🥺🥺💞💞💞

  • @dianamendoza214
    @dianamendoza214 Год назад

    Hola tranquila Willow Smith muy difíciles ni modo tiempo Jenny enferma para cuidar buen salud ora Dios Jesucristo ✝️ última vez próspero Año Nuevo abrazos fuertes muchos buen salud 🥂🥳🎊🎉😘🙏💐😇😘❤️🏳️‍🌈🇲🇽👌🤟🎆

  • @joy7218
    @joy7218 Год назад

    I don't have a lesbian girlfriend I'm sad😥🥺