My dad himself is a victim to false accusation by my mother ( domestic violence ) . They have been married for more than 20 years and she one day left and is now falsely accusing my father. He has not touched a drink in the past Atleast 10-15 years , never hit her and despite her hiding the fact that she was ill before marriage , my dad still married her and stayed loyal. Now he is suffering from number of illnesses , surviving by string of hope and faith , retired. He told me , don’t marry unless you are financially stable , and don’t marry an Indian woman or move to another country with better legal system. Now I see why. Amazing video this was , keep it up. Ps : my dad is now hospitalised and he is recovering . He is trying to fight against the illnesses and the doctors are doing their best.
@@palakchaubey5844 well she and her mom are just evil I guess. She would abuse and beat me , shame me in front of the neighbours and sure the stereotype fits in well but it just went from bad to worse . Me and my dad are now surviving with faith that someday we will be free from this . That’s all we can do. It’s also way more complicated than it seems and many people won’t even understand . Anyways , my sob story will only make ur day worse , have a nice day ahead. 👍
@@rohitshah7333 अतुल सुभाष के जैसे लाखों लड़को और उनके परिवार का हर साल same पैटर्न पर witch hunting हो रहा है झूठे मुकदमो के जोर पर मेंटेनेंस और alimoney के लालच में... अतुल सुभाष अमर रहें... उनके बलिदान को हमेशा लोग याद रखें और बहुवादी कानूनों को निष्पक्ष, त्वरित और पारदर्शी बनाया जाय... हिन्दू परिवारों को इस आतंकवाद से मुक्त कराया जाए....
@@rohitshah7333 अतुल सुभाष के जैसे लाखों लड़को और उनके परिवार का हर साल same पैटर्न पर witch hunting हो रहा है झूठे मुकदमो के जोर पर मेंटेनेंस और alimoney के लालच में... अतुल सुभाष अमर रहें... उनके बलिदान को हमेशा लोग याद रखें और बहुवादी कानूनों को निष्पक्ष, त्वरित और पारदर्शी बनाया जाय... हिन्दू परिवारों को इस आतंकवाद से मुक्त कराया जाए....
It's lawda even for women. Everything looks nice on paper only. Except nirbhaya how many rapist are hanged in this country??? In India for justice you need money. If you are poor and the opposite side is financially rich than you can never get justice no matter whatever your gender is
@@bhs_742 अतुल सुभाष के जैसे लाखों लड़को और उनके परिवार का हर साल same पैटर्न पर witch hunting हो रहा है झूठे मुकदमो के जोर पर मेंटेनेंस और alimoney के लालच में... अतुल सुभाष अमर रहें... उनके बलिदान को हमेशा लोग याद रखें और बहुवादी कानूनों को निष्पक्ष, त्वरित और पारदर्शी बनाया जाय... हिन्दू परिवारों को इस आतंकवाद से मुक्त कराया जाए....
There are many legal cases going on against people in India. People here do not have legal knowledge. This podcast of yours is a very commendable work. We need more videos on similar topics from your side so that no innocent person can be harmed.
Dear Raj men are not getting equal right. Can you create a hashtag for men equality, we will trend it in differentplatforms, so that the message reaches reach to concern person.
Supporting women irrespective of whether they're right or wrong is in the human DNA. No social movement can change that. Society will always be a Gynocracy.
Sir it's normal my younger brother committed suicide due to his wife before 7 month, mera tisra bhai tha two Bhai died in corona t,ino bhai within in four years my whole family destroyed my mother father & me suffering from dipression but Zinda to rehna h bhai Kay panch kids h four girl one boy beta 7 saal ka h
Upon watching I am speechless. Thanks for having this podcast. Exposing the harsh reality of our society is very objective and in points. Brilliant discussion. 10% vs 90% blown my mind 😮
@@usermsjcs Law in developed countries is more gender neutral with exceptions to situations where there are inequalities for women to get equal opportunities. Indian law is extremely biased for women to misuse🤦♂️ Its a law that serves more bad than good now.
If Indian law is Joke, you are pointing on British Collegium system. This is what getting changed by BJP govt. Still not completed, but still working on, because it is not easy to change the more than 100 years old system. So many committee is still working on it. But judicial collegium system is not supporting on this. This process is called judicial reforms. Getting corrected slowly...be patient. .
@@MrRainbow1958 surprisingly they are able to change laws that they want so quickly😛 Waiting for the last 15 yrs, more patience meaning, for our next birth? 😂
Impact All good men will try avoiding marrying in India or to Indian women . Even if the abuse case against woman is genuine, it will be considered to be fake. Rightly said : “aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman banegi” Lot of well qualified women will end up single. Thanks Raj for making this video
“aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman banegi” you are right brother asli mea jiske sath rape hota hai log is ko nazar andas kar deta hai ajkal inhea fake rape cases ki chakkar mea
Thank you to Mr.Raj for this wonderful episode. I am watching this after painful suicide of Atul Subhash in Bengaluru. Every young boy or men should watch this.
Very informative! The only option for boys is to buy a 24x7 camera on the glass and record everything don’t know when something goes wrong! For boys safest policy is don’t get into anything like relationships ! Next generation will definitely fear from relationship. The laws are not fair for healthy future society!
Men and women judicial laws should be equal not all men are scoundrels or rapist, men are responsible, emotional, hardworking this current government has made all laws fully biased towards women which is totally a injustice towards the men
सर आप बहुत ही सच्चे, ईमानदार और तार्किक बातें करने वाले वकील हो मैं भगवान से प्रार्थना करता हूं कि आप समाज के लिए बहुत अच्छा काम करें और अपने फील्ड में बहुत आगे जाए प्लीज आप अतुल सुभाष के पेरेंट्स के लिए उसका केस फ्री में लड़ें या उनके वकील को जो आप कर सकते हो वो मदद करे Justice is due 😭
Couple of things here: 1) In Indian society, arranged marriages still constitute like 95% marriages because love marriages are for "character-less" or "laundiya-baaz" people (at least that's the traditional thinking). 2) Now when these brides or dulhans of arranged marriage go to their in laws, in the old times say 30 years back, it was not easy for brides to commuinicate with her own family. But thanks to mobile and cheap Internet the brides now-a-days only go thru physical "Vidaii" but mentally and in spirit their vidaii never happens. If teh bride is from middle class family, she probably has maid/cooks/cleaners taking care of the household chores, so what bride is doing is staying in touch with her parents/siblings, this becomes more pronounced in case of NRI bride where she leaves India and goes to a foreign land so pretty much all her free time is spent talking to her parents/siblings. Result is she gets "feedback and advise" from parents/siblings. So the need to adjust or adapt to her new environment is never her priority. 3) Also, in these arranged (or gold digger) marriages, the girls family priortizes income/wealth/power as criteria for groom selection. The boy must be more educated, taller, earning more and wealthier than the girl. He could be darker, balding, chubby/fat and his face could look like shit and thats not a problem. BUT after the marriage this same girl would wear "equality" hat and claim she is no lesser than the boy. Also, this same girl who is now claiming to be equal is more likely to have entered this marriage due to pressure from males (her father/brother) of her own family. In some cases, girl's father or brother will use the girl as remote control to "guide" the groom, especially if arranged marriage involves 2 stages of engagement followed by actual marriage. In these cases, because girl and boy are engaged they start talking with each other then the girl tells the boy that she would look down upon any boy who is asking for dowry or car or any money (and nothing wrong with that) BUT after the marriage this same girl will tell the boy that how ashamed she feels if her husband cannot even get her car. Her father's money is sacred, it acnnot be used to buy a car but her husband's money MUST be used to buy car. Another example that comes to mind is of girl who gets married to a boy in Canada, teh girl was dentist in India but when she move dto Canada she needed to do Canadian school/exams to be able to practice in Canada so she expected her husband to fund her 40K dollar education (did I mention she was against dowry?). This is the modern day hypocrisy. 4) "Shaadi ka laddu" - the one if eats it regrets it and one who does not eat it also regrets it. This used to be the old saying. What is this "shaadi ka laddu" exactly? Lets break it down. My best guess is this laddu is "sex". Since pre-marital sex was a taboo socially and Im not sure if it was legally too. But now "live-in" is ok, what is live in, if I live with my friends am I in "live-in"? No, Im not. "Live-in" is code for pre-marital sex, just like "past" is code for pre-marital relationship. So the "shaddi ka laddu" can be had WITHOUT the marriage now. True that the girl can still accuse you of rapeand domestic violence etc but so can the wife. Only Im guessing the situation will be less complex when you are not married, no alimony no maintainance. 5) One of the fundamental differences between Capitalism and Communism was private was public ownership. People value things they own and they do not value or care about govt/public property. For example, an average looking guy gets into relationship with a very good looking girl who is completely delusional and has no sense of responsibility coz she has never been held accountable, she could arrive late and still be able to enter a event with her smile. Now if that girl decides to wear short clothes or have another "friend" or stay over night with this other "friend" what can this average looking boyfriend of hers do? If he argues they could breakup but if he is smart and realizes that this girl is not HIS (public property, he is current boyfrind but there will be many more in future) and his time with her is like a rental lease so he could be that "understanding" boyfriend and enjoy her while potentially sharing her with her friend or end the relationship. People thought of wives more like a "private" property (are my feminists bitches mad yet?) But with modern laws, you have to wonder are they? I would not care what my girldfriend wears, she could turn her "hoe" on 100% and I would not care, why should I, just like I change my job and upgrade to a new mobile every 3 years, I will switch to a new girl in 3 years so why should I care? I would be as understranding and supportive as swingers are to their wives lol. 6) Who desgined all these modern marriage laws? Well, we copy west. And who designed them in west? Its the lawyers, judges bascally legal people. Do you think they will benefit if there are more divorces? In USA, there no-fault divorces, which menas you can just wake up and say everything is fine BUT I want a divorce. If the husband is rich, its a one button push job for wife, just talk to lawyer and the lawyer will do the rest. Wife will not pay any court or lawyer fee, it is all covered by husband and she gets a big chunk. There are prenup laws in USA but even they can be challenged and unless prenup was watertight husband can still end up loosing big chunk of his wealth. 7) Only the rich, famous, powerful VIPs will be able to afford a wife in future just like gun licenses in India 8) What do actually boys lose when they dont marry? Nothing. Except for social stigma that you got a girlfriend (=mistress or hoe) there is nothing to lose and if you dont care about what others think then you should be fine. Supreme court has blessed live-ins so its legal, just dont fight with your girlfriend coz she can screw you up, just remember you are leasing her and be super supportive. And the more people that get into live-in the more normalisation will happen and social stigma will disappera and we would end up like west with declining population and people in their late 50s but single coz they hopped from one partner to another and now they are old, ugly and broke so single. But if you are old, ugly and RICH you can still date 20 something girl and be her sugar daddy (look at Trump and Ivanka, just remember NOT to marry. Summary: Tradition is religion based but its the modern day laws that shape society and current laws seem to be discouraging marriage. India is over populated country so if we get one generation of childless people what difference it will make, its about time we start seeing lot of old cat ladies in India just like USA/Europe - wouldn't that be sign of progress?
I read all of your long comment... One thing is that even in live in relationship maintenance and false cases can be made against the man... So either move out of this country or go completely mgtow is the only way!!
So many men are suffering its high time we as men unite and fight against these one-sided laws. If we don't show courage, our coming generations will suffer more. At least make this vedio viral.
This is why a pre-marital consultation is important nowadays. Those 15k - 30k and 3 hrs are with an experienced consultant can address many of these issues which arise because nobody asked and nobody told.
Pre-nup agreements are not binding contracts in India and as such are not recognised as legal contracts. So no such consultation is gonna do any help unless Pre-nup law is made.
Thanks for finally covering men’s right as well. Please call members of Men’s right organization like NyayPrayasFoundation , Save Indian Family Foundation
Conclusion: For All Men , Sawdhan rahe, Satark rahe , Surakshit rahe from the Feminist Society, & Don't get Married in India, Until a New good Law is made for Men which protects us from Gender Bias Rights and, Until National Men's Commission forms in India 👍
Bhai par judicial system kabhi bhi men ki problems seriously nahi lenge jitni women ki lenge law regarding men will still not be than much promising as we can see regarding women cases
The problem is : 1. “Good” - “obedient” girls bear with all the torture of in-laws and don’t use the law to help themselves . They are probably looking after 2 kids , managing work , and in-laws , and probably end up with chronic health issues - such as cancer . 2. “Good” - “obedient” boys end up in good salaried / business options and then get stuck with either their own parents who taunt their daughter in law ( who could be from the 1st point ) - and leave no option but opt for divorce . Or these men get involved with wrong girls who are basically there to extort the man and unfortunately this is true for most such men . 3. Bad boys and girls - morally corrupt etc - don’t deserve discussion except - blackmail is wrong .
exactly , achchi bahu mil jaye toh in laws for granted lelete h usko, jbrdsti mental torture krte h. aur kuch achche maa baap hote h toh mostly unko esi bahu milti h jo sabko kabze mey rkhe apne
@ yeah , that’s true . Also, men get smaller end of the stick with respect to laws etc. but women who are of the 1st type - always are taunted and judged harshly by the society .. it’s not easy in short for either of the genders if they are good humans and end up with wrong life partners !
Honestly, the institution of marriage in India disgusts me. Its a diseased, decaying bird in a golden cage. People stay in hellish marriages where no one is happy (the diseased bird) and then brag about ' super low divorce rates ', ' family structure and values ' and ' culture ' (the golden cage). Most marriages in this country are nothing but pure business contracts enforced through cultural guilt tripping and draped in the saccharine words of ' a union of two families ' Honestly, I will either remain single forever, or marry some non Indian girl who I am thoroughly friends with. I do not want any drama from potential Indian in laws..
Thank you so much for this video..we should have multiple podcasts like these. These episodes actually tells about equal right. We as common people should know our rights.
Left has always treated men aa slaves or villains WHile justice system now for 3 generations has never listened to men in family courts. We are forced to pay alimony when women break marriages. We are forced to pay for their illegal children even when we are not fathers. We are always assumed guilty in any gender based complaint by society, media, law,, government. We have been subected to fake 498A, DV and dowry. Many were jailed for no fault others have committed suicide. Infact married men commit suicide at twice the rate of married women bbecase they have nowhere to go. Its as if government deliberately wants to kill men an destroy their family. In absolute numbers 35000 men commit suicide every year due to gender based terrorism inherent in Indian law, police, society, courts and politics. India has killed more innocent men in last 10 yrs than all of Ukraine, Iraq ISIS etc combined. We are incarcerated for false accusations without evidence. We are thrown out of our homes in the middle of night based on false DV complaints. Unless we recognize that Hindu marriage is an act of terrorism or act of potential terrorism on men and their families, Indian men and their families (mother, sister, brother, in-laws) will never be safe. We have to destroy this institution of terrorism Our previous generations were "pu$$y whacked" we are not.. We dont want to marry or date or even hookup. You cant tempt us with "pu$$y boycott" We cant be "guilt tripped" by a wife or gf to vote against our interest. Infact we are the first generation of men who willingly walk away from women. We are masculine and (classified as ) toxic and we know it and we are OK with it. WE ARE DONE DEAL WITH IT
मर्द सिर्फ आम जीवन में मर्द है, कानून की नजर में सिर्फ गल्ली के कुत्ते से भी काम ओकाद। कहानी रह जाती है ,जिंदगी ख़राब हो जाती है। पर लड़को की कोई नही सुनता यह सच है।
I caught my wife with his college friend in a restraunt .When i asked her and complained to her brother , they said that you should change your view , these are modern things ignore this. When i did not allow her , she went her home and filed sec 498a Fir against me😂
Now enjoy the case. Be patient and calm. Arrest will not happen and you will learn the tricks over the time to fight these false cases. Make sure she spends rest of the life in court premises now.
@@00Mantra yes so she can again cheat on him, come home for getting more evidences in regards to 498A and again file case on him. Btw 498A is a criminal case and non cognizable offence.
इस समय बहुत सारे लोग झूठे केसेस में फंसे हुए हैं मैं भी उनमें से एक हूं क्योंकि मुझे जानकारियां नहीं थी और लोगों ने मेरा गलत फायदा उठाकर मुझे झूठे केस में फंसा दिया आप एक अच्छा कार्य कर रहे हैं और इस टॉपिक पर और वीडियो बनाया
ye to or bhi gadbad hai.. jaise hu carrier setup hua.. pichhe pad jate hai.. aap pagal ho jaoge or fas jaoge kahi ye maya thugni hai.. mai bhuktbhogi hu.. ek hi tarika hai modi yogi jaise shadi nahi karo ya fir jawan hote hi himalay bhag jao tapsya karo.. sabse jada keede carrier walon pe hi lagte hai.. majdooron kisano mai chance bade kam ho jate
Hi Raj bhaiya , I am an 18 year old guy . I have been listening to your podcasts on a daily basis for more than one year. And literally i feel enlightened every time.. your content is very helpful to me in every kind .. Always rooting for you. .🧠
I am also victim of such false cases, all the judges support only women, be it lower courts, high court or so called supreme court of Indian, they all support women. I earned 5 lack rupees and I was granted interim maintenance of 10 lack arrears, High court rejected my application, supreme court rejected my application, despite of the fact the ITR's were there on the record!!!! The Indian law is for the Women by the women ! To courts men are only ATM machines and sperm donors, I have not seen my kids from last 5 years and judge is also intentionally delaying even interim visitation rights!! Sirf Auratein baith kar aurto ka support kar rahei hei, they don't deserve to be called a JUDGE !!
Great podcast! Bring an Environmental scientist on your show sometime, would be interesting to explore the reality and lies/ propaganda around the topic
Men too deserve laws 😢i had seen many cases in which decent men were trapped in false allegations and went through hell like torture….please share more podcasts like this
Must say, some laws are just unreasonable and unequal for men! And some women misuse these laws by lying, which just takes away from women who are actually going through it! So manyyy loopholes in these laws, its sad really
More than 98% cases are fake..Data comes on the basis of judgements made by court.. contesting which on the average destroys 10-20 crucial years of men's life along with his family.
Those women who are really facing violence don't even complain about violence due to lack of knowledge, social fear and the majority in villages. But due to some women who are misusing these laws it became a fact that all are misusing the laws. I think fakes are misusing and the reals are not even complaining.
Dear Raj I request you to please have a podcast with Anil Murthy from Save Indian Family Foundation to understand the real plight of men facing such false cases.
we seriously need a good reform in the court system!!! The one who needs the law wont use it becos he/she is scared. The one who doesnt need the law knows how to abuse it !!
My dad himself is a victim to false accusation by my mother ( domestic violence ) . They have been married for more than 20 years and she one day left and is now falsely accusing my father. He has not touched a drink in the past Atleast 10-15 years , never hit her and despite her hiding the fact that she was ill before marriage , my dad still married her and stayed loyal. Now he is suffering from number of illnesses , surviving by string of hope and faith , retired. He told me , don’t marry unless you are financially stable , and don’t marry an Indian woman or move to another country with better legal system. Now I see why. Amazing video this was , keep it up.
Ps : my dad is now hospitalised and he is recovering . He is trying to fight against the illnesses and the doctors are doing their best.
don't marry desi is one of the best advice these days
Feeling bad for you and your dad 😢
So why is your mom done this ??
Marry russian...Or marry those who love indian culture...Go to vrindavan and look them
@@palakchaubey5844 well she and her mom are just evil I guess. She would abuse and beat me , shame me in front of the neighbours and sure the stereotype fits in well but it just went from bad to worse . Me and my dad are now surviving with faith that someday we will be free from this . That’s all we can do. It’s also way more complicated than it seems and many people won’t even understand . Anyways , my sob story will only make ur day worse , have a nice day ahead. 👍
sad to see that how this biased law ruining your and your dad life.
Justice is due for Atul subhash. This podcast is so relevant now
Yeah😢😢
Justice is due, but human's Justice is blind
@@rohitshah7333 अतुल सुभाष के जैसे लाखों लड़को और उनके परिवार का हर साल same पैटर्न पर witch hunting हो रहा है झूठे मुकदमो के जोर पर मेंटेनेंस और alimoney के लालच में...
अतुल सुभाष अमर रहें... उनके बलिदान को हमेशा लोग याद रखें और बहुवादी कानूनों को निष्पक्ष, त्वरित और पारदर्शी बनाया जाय...
हिन्दू परिवारों को इस आतंकवाद से मुक्त कराया जाए....
@@rohitshah7333 अतुल सुभाष के जैसे लाखों लड़को और उनके परिवार का हर साल same पैटर्न पर witch hunting हो रहा है झूठे मुकदमो के जोर पर मेंटेनेंस और alimoney के लालच में...
अतुल सुभाष अमर रहें... उनके बलिदान को हमेशा लोग याद रखें और बहुवादी कानूनों को निष्पक्ष, त्वरित और पारदर्शी बनाया जाय...
हिन्दू परिवारों को इस आतंकवाद से मुक्त कराया जाए....
His manifesto is straight up supreme gentleman incel stuff tho.
Law for women
Lawda for man 🙌
True😢
😂😂
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It's lawda even for women. Everything looks nice on paper only. Except nirbhaya how many rapist are hanged in this country??? In India for justice you need money. If you are poor and the opposite side is financially rich than you can never get justice no matter whatever your gender is
Wahhh❤
For women relationships are a business.
The key is how to make money
Who is here after Atul Subhash Case ?
Me 🤚
@@bhs_742 अतुल सुभाष के जैसे लाखों लड़को और उनके परिवार का हर साल same पैटर्न पर witch hunting हो रहा है झूठे मुकदमो के जोर पर मेंटेनेंस और alimoney के लालच में...
अतुल सुभाष अमर रहें... उनके बलिदान को हमेशा लोग याद रखें और बहुवादी कानूनों को निष्पक्ष, त्वरित और पारदर्शी बनाया जाय...
हिन्दू परिवारों को इस आतंकवाद से मुक्त कराया जाए....
Me too😢
Me
Me
His experience can be felt in his every words! Simple, easy, precise, To the point
better covert hindu men into muslim and let india become islamic nation and hindu civilisation to over
@@MRUNIVERSE111-k1r Stop yapping bro this isn't Pakistan
Much needed conversation for Men who are getting trapped with Wrong women for the CIRCUS of life called Marriage
Because of laws. Women are nothing.
Vikas Nagwan , hats off to you for being so brutally honest and straight forward.
Raj , thank you for picking up such a topic.
better covert hindu men into muslim and let india become islamic nation and hindu civilisation to over
@@MRUNIVERSE111-k1r WOOOW , WHAT A THINKING
DUMBASSSS
@@MRUNIVERSE111-k1r india shouldn't become iran, pakistan etc
@@shadow11764 Time will tell. Not like we have a ton of unemployment already. We could become worse
I think men empowerment is needed 😢
There are many legal cases going on against people in India. People here do not have legal knowledge. This podcast of yours is a very commendable work. We need more videos on similar topics from your side so that no innocent person can be harmed.
Every men should financially support organizations that works for bringing men’s rights into law ✅
Weak men need help, real men don't need help
Today men have lost their past masculinity.They have been transformed from tigers to cats.😭😭😭😭😭
because the government is busy funding our tax money to Maldives & Afghanistan? I'd agree with you
Yes bhai mai v wahi try krta hu but men hee men ka enemy hai...bcz approx all police at senior post & judges are men
But every men who is in power hate or ignore other men
Toxic Feminism is a terrorism..😢😢
Even Worst than that
So is toxic masculinity
@srijaniray2688 there is no such thing as toxic masculinity , lack of masculinity is toxic and cause problems.
@@kevinveigas6190 delusional
@@srijaniray2688🤡🤡🤡
Earlier it was
STAY SINGLE STAY HAPPY
Now it is
STAY SINGLE STAY SAFE!
With parents & relatives animal ,adopt kid
@@KrishnaChaturvedi-ly7zm *adopt Boy
@@KrishnaChaturvedi-ly7zm to adopt u need to marry😊
Ye darr acha h 😂
Absolutely true
Laws should be made like if an allegation is proven wrong, double the penalty and imprisonment should be enforced regardless of gender
Yes
' Should ' se ' Laghu ho gya ' ye kab hoga ?
If this is implemented there will be no fake cases but unfortunately in India hardly possible.
80-90 % ladke polite hote hai, 10-20% khadus,. Par ladkiya 10-20% hi polite hoti hai, adhiktar to khadus kism ki hi hoti hai
Aapke ghar ki ladkiyan konsi categories ki hai? 90% ya 10%?
I am polite on muje mara gya he
Hote kon ho % btane wale
@@nycknikhil10
@@nycknikhil mere ghar ki 90© vali hai
Im 33. Because of this indian law till now im afraid to get married . Shaadi = barbadi
New kind of slavery
Same here
Smart
I'm 39 unmarried
@VarunTomee-kr6n f how parents support?
@@batmanreturns0073 parents forcing me but no
Dear Raj men are not getting equal right. Can you create a hashtag for men equality, we will trend it in differentplatforms, so that the message reaches reach to concern person.
No use of it bro everyone will only favour women even if she is right or wrong
Supporting women irrespective of whether they're right or wrong is in the human DNA. No social movement can change that. Society will always be a Gynocracy.
@@aquaman8020true bro , men are not valued in this country
But bro, the law makers will not pay a heed to making a men's commission ever.
😂😂😂😂😂
Eye opening conversation!
Sir it's normal my younger brother committed suicide due to his wife before 7 month, mera tisra bhai tha two Bhai died in corona t,ino bhai within in four years my whole family destroyed my mother father & me suffering from dipression but Zinda to rehna h bhai Kay panch kids h four girl one boy beta 7 saal ka h
@@KrishnaChaturvedi-ly7zm god bless
better covert hindu men into muslim and let india become islamic nation and hindu civilisation to over
You must be learning to destroy someone's life 😂😂😂
@@KrishnaChaturvedi-ly7zmitne bache kyu. Paida kar rahe ho
Upon watching I am speechless. Thanks for having this podcast. Exposing the harsh reality of our society is very objective and in points. Brilliant discussion. 10% vs 90% blown my mind 😮
Justice for Atul shubhash
Sorry,there no law😂
For male against female 😮
Sorry because law is blind 😂😂
Indian law is a joke
Bro men of the whole world are in the same situation everywhere.😭😭😭😭
Law❌ Lawda✅
@@usermsjcs Law in developed countries is more gender neutral with exceptions to situations where there are inequalities for women to get equal opportunities. Indian law is extremely biased for women to misuse🤦♂️ Its a law that serves more bad than good now.
If Indian law is Joke, you are pointing on British Collegium system. This is what getting changed by BJP govt. Still not completed, but still working on, because it is not easy to change the more than 100 years old system. So many committee is still working on it. But judicial collegium system is not supporting on this. This process is called judicial reforms. Getting corrected slowly...be patient. .
@@MrRainbow1958 surprisingly they are able to change laws that they want so quickly😛 Waiting for the last 15 yrs, more patience meaning, for our next birth? 😂
Impact
All good men will try avoiding marrying in India or to Indian women .
Even if the abuse case against woman is genuine, it will be considered to be fake. Rightly said : “aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman banegi”
Lot of well qualified women will end up single.
Thanks Raj for making this video
“aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman banegi” you are right brother asli mea jiske sath rape hota hai log is ko nazar andas kar deta hai ajkal inhea fake rape cases ki chakkar mea
These whamin are delulu. They will still blame men. Accountability is kryptonite for a woman.
Women would never be single that I can say with confidence 😂😂😂
Bhai main single hi khush hu wrong partner ke sath shadi hone ka sabse badh risk hai present generation ko 🎉🎉🎉
Galat dv aur rape men ka bhi hota hai false case eak alag cheez hoti hai dono ki mix mat karo
Being single is most underrated best feeling
Bhai single ke saath bhi hota hain, mujhe bhi dal diya case , mere 70 saal ke baap ko darake 1.40 lakh liya
@@GDe-gi1kz kyu
@@GDe-gi1kz🥺
@@GDe-gi1kzsamaaj se Durr rho bc ab samajh aa rha hai
@@GDe-gi1kzLadki se dur raho unke taraf dekho hi mat unse baat hi mat karo agar Jhagdo ho toh sorry bolke nikal lo😂
Thank you to Mr.Raj for this wonderful episode. I am watching this after painful suicide of Atul Subhash in Bengaluru. Every young boy or men should watch this.
Same!!
This person is really smart in between every conversation and topic he always squeeze the point of how men actually suffer in the society or at home
Very informative!
The only option for boys is to buy a 24x7 camera on the glass and record everything don’t know when something goes wrong!
For boys safest policy is don’t get into anything like relationships ! Next generation will definitely fear from relationship. The laws are not fair for healthy future society!
Men and women judicial laws should be equal not all men are scoundrels or rapist, men are responsible, emotional, hardworking this current government has made all laws fully biased towards women which is totally a injustice towards the men
Couldn’t agree more!!
Well said
@@NishworldNwhy? If you disagree with him then I can say all women are same, they all are cheater will you agree with me ?
Good discussion, men need to be very careful. Live in relationships are like HONEY TRAPS.
Must watch for all Men..Eye opening conversation, You will know the reality of today's Relationship, marriage meaning,family etc ..
Must watch for all women broo....
We already have an idea about it.
LAW for WOMEN😎
LAW#@ for MEN 🥺🥺
Just go MGTOW. Why get stuck in this Maginot Line when you can just bypass it through the Ardennes Forest.
Thank you bhaiya . Amish sir ke baad aur men's lawyers aage aa rahe hain 😊🙏
MORAL OF THE STORY: Gay men are safer nowadays in a live in relationship.
Ok let's become gay then😂
😂😂😂 usse achha zindagi bhar single rahe jana achha hai .
Hiv rates disagree
🤣🤣
सर आप बहुत ही सच्चे, ईमानदार और तार्किक बातें करने वाले वकील हो मैं भगवान से प्रार्थना करता हूं कि आप समाज के लिए बहुत अच्छा काम करें और अपने फील्ड में बहुत आगे जाए
प्लीज आप अतुल सुभाष के पेरेंट्स के लिए उसका केस फ्री में लड़ें या उनके वकील को जो आप कर सकते हो वो मदद करे
Justice is due 😭
Aaj tak kisi ke sath kuch galat nehi kiya being a woman. Not for relationships, not for money.single hu aur khush bhi hu.feeling proud ✨️
You are a true inspiration for today raaj bhai❤
Couple of things here:
1) In Indian society, arranged marriages still constitute like 95% marriages because love marriages are for "character-less" or "laundiya-baaz" people (at least that's the traditional thinking).
2) Now when these brides or dulhans of arranged marriage go to their in laws, in the old times say 30 years back, it was not easy for brides to commuinicate with her own family. But thanks to
mobile and cheap Internet the brides now-a-days only go thru physical "Vidaii" but mentally and in spirit their vidaii never happens. If teh bride is from middle class family, she probably
has maid/cooks/cleaners taking care of the household chores, so what bride is doing is staying in touch with her parents/siblings, this becomes more pronounced in case of NRI bride where she
leaves India and goes to a foreign land so pretty much all her free time is spent talking to her parents/siblings. Result is she gets "feedback and advise" from parents/siblings. So the need
to adjust or adapt to her new environment is never her priority.
3) Also, in these arranged (or gold digger) marriages, the girls family priortizes income/wealth/power as criteria for groom selection. The boy must be more educated, taller, earning more and
wealthier than the girl. He could be darker, balding, chubby/fat and his face could look like shit and thats not a problem. BUT after the marriage this same girl would wear "equality" hat
and claim she is no lesser than the boy. Also, this same girl who is now claiming to be equal is more likely to have entered this marriage due to pressure from males (her father/brother) of
her own family. In some cases, girl's father or brother will use the girl as remote control to "guide" the groom, especially if arranged marriage involves 2 stages of engagement followed by
actual marriage. In these cases, because girl and boy are engaged they start talking with each other then the girl tells the boy that she would look down upon any boy who is asking for dowry
or car or any money (and nothing wrong with that) BUT after the marriage this same girl will tell the boy that how ashamed she feels if her husband cannot even get her car. Her father's money
is sacred, it acnnot be used to buy a car but her husband's money MUST be used to buy car. Another example that comes to mind is of girl who gets married to a boy in Canada, teh girl was
dentist in India but when she move dto Canada she needed to do Canadian school/exams to be able to practice in Canada so she expected her husband to fund her 40K dollar education (did I mention
she was against dowry?). This is the modern day hypocrisy.
4) "Shaadi ka laddu" - the one if eats it regrets it and one who does not eat it also regrets it. This used to be the old saying. What is this "shaadi ka laddu" exactly? Lets break it down. My
best guess is this laddu is "sex". Since pre-marital sex was a taboo socially and Im not sure if it was legally too. But now "live-in" is ok, what is live in, if I live with my friends am I
in "live-in"? No, Im not. "Live-in" is code for pre-marital sex, just like "past" is code for pre-marital relationship. So the "shaddi ka laddu" can be had WITHOUT the marriage now. True that
the girl can still accuse you of rapeand domestic violence etc but so can the wife. Only Im guessing the situation will be less complex when you are not married, no alimony no maintainance.
5) One of the fundamental differences between Capitalism and Communism was private was public ownership. People value things they own and they do not value or care about govt/public property.
For example, an average looking guy gets into relationship with a very good looking girl who is completely delusional and has no sense of responsibility coz she has never been held
accountable, she could arrive late and still be able to enter a event with her smile. Now if that girl decides to wear short clothes or have another "friend" or stay over night with this
other "friend" what can this average looking boyfriend of hers do? If he argues they could breakup but if he is smart and realizes that this girl is not HIS (public property, he is current boyfrind
but there will be many more in future) and his time with her is like a rental lease so he could be that "understanding" boyfriend and enjoy her while potentially sharing her with her friend or end
the relationship. People thought of wives more like a "private" property (are my feminists bitches mad yet?) But with modern laws, you have to wonder are they? I would not care what my girldfriend
wears, she could turn her "hoe" on 100% and I would not care, why should I, just like I change my job and upgrade to a new mobile every 3 years, I will switch to a new girl in 3 years so why should
I care? I would be as understranding and supportive as swingers are to their wives lol.
6) Who desgined all these modern marriage laws? Well, we copy west. And who designed them in west? Its the lawyers, judges bascally legal people. Do you think they will benefit if there are more divorces?
In USA, there no-fault divorces, which menas you can just wake up and say everything is fine BUT I want a divorce. If the husband is rich, its a one button push job for wife, just talk to lawyer and
the lawyer will do the rest. Wife will not pay any court or lawyer fee, it is all covered by husband and she gets a big chunk. There are prenup laws in USA but even they can be challenged and unless
prenup was watertight husband can still end up loosing big chunk of his wealth.
7) Only the rich, famous, powerful VIPs will be able to afford a wife in future just like gun licenses in India
8) What do actually boys lose when they dont marry? Nothing. Except for social stigma that you got a girlfriend (=mistress or hoe) there is nothing to lose and if you dont care about what others think
then you should be fine. Supreme court has blessed live-ins so its legal, just dont fight with your girlfriend coz she can screw you up, just remember you are leasing her and be super supportive. And
the more people that get into live-in the more normalisation will happen and social stigma will disappera and we would end up like west with declining population and people in their late 50s but single
coz they hopped from one partner to another and now they are old, ugly and broke so single. But if you are old, ugly and RICH you can still date 20 something girl and be her sugar daddy (look at Trump
and Ivanka, just remember NOT to marry.
Summary:
Tradition is religion based but its the modern day laws that shape society and current laws seem to be discouraging marriage. India is over populated country so if we get one generation of childless people
what difference it will make, its about time we start seeing lot of old cat ladies in India just like USA/Europe - wouldn't that be sign of progress?
Mat karo phir shaadi 😂
I read all of your long comment... One thing is that even in live in relationship maintenance and false cases can be made against the man... So either move out of this country or go completely mgtow is the only way!!
@@ManojPani1969 He needs help! It's a crazy long comment going on and on and on.... kehna kya chahte ho bhai?
Bhai tune itna likha kaise.
So many men are suffering its high time we as men unite and fight against these one-sided laws.
If we don't show courage, our coming generations will suffer more.
At least make this vedio viral.
If you all men don't fight,,, then how next jeneration will come,,,
Much..... needed and must share to every individual of the society, dear brothers (mainly for MEN).
What a podcast man... Salute...!!
How unsafe men are ..
Lets be spiritual not being a family creator 😊
भगवान श्री कृष्ण - कलयुग में मनुष्य मनुष्य को खून के आंसू रोने पर मजबूर कर देगा😭😭😭😭😭
This is why a pre-marital consultation is important nowadays. Those 15k - 30k and 3 hrs are with an experienced consultant can address many of these issues which arise because nobody asked and nobody told.
Shadi se pehle koi apna asli chehra nhi dikhata
👍👍
Might be in college studies
Any gender neutral laws are very important
Else they will talk only feminism after taking consultation
It should come from law side tok
Pre-nup agreements are not binding contracts in India and as such are not recognised as legal contracts. So no such consultation is gonna do any help unless Pre-nup law is made.
Eye opener podcast, how men are suffering and women are misusing the law.
Thanks for finally covering men’s right as well. Please call members of Men’s right organization like NyayPrayasFoundation , Save Indian Family Foundation
Kudos to Mr. Lawyer for the upfront answers and clear explanation
Can’t wait for part II !
This Thursday 🙇🏻♂️🙌🏻 stay tuned!!!
Tum log bahut misuse krte ho law ka
I'm waiting for part 2.. Thank you for the legal education ❤
Raj Shamani is the Shaman of Indian podcast industry.
Conclusion: For All Men ,
Sawdhan rahe,
Satark rahe ,
Surakshit rahe
from the Feminist Society,
& Don't get Married in India,
Until a New good Law is made for Men which protects us from Gender Bias Rights and, Until National Men's Commission forms in India 👍
Bhai par judicial system kabhi bhi men ki problems seriously nahi lenge jitni women ki lenge law regarding men will still not be than much promising as we can see regarding women cases
Legal awareness is must for both men & women , in this era of extortion & blackmailing.🙏🙏🙏
The problem is :
1. “Good” - “obedient” girls bear with all the torture of in-laws and don’t use the law to help themselves . They are probably looking after 2 kids , managing work , and in-laws , and probably end up with chronic health issues - such as cancer .
2. “Good” - “obedient” boys end up in good salaried / business options and then get stuck with either their own parents who taunt their daughter in law ( who could be from the 1st point ) - and leave no option but opt for divorce . Or these men get involved with wrong girls who are basically there to extort the man and unfortunately this is true for most such men .
3. Bad boys and girls - morally corrupt etc - don’t deserve discussion except - blackmail is wrong .
exactly , achchi bahu mil jaye toh in laws for granted lelete h usko, jbrdsti mental torture krte h. aur kuch achche maa baap hote h toh mostly unko esi bahu milti h jo sabko kabze mey rkhe apne
@ yeah , that’s true . Also, men get smaller end of the stick with respect to laws etc. but women who are of the 1st type - always are taunted and judged harshly by the society .. it’s not easy in short for either of the genders if they are good humans and end up with wrong life partners !
Honestly, the institution of marriage in India disgusts me. Its a diseased, decaying bird in a golden cage. People stay in hellish marriages where no one is happy (the diseased bird) and then brag about ' super low divorce rates ', ' family structure and values ' and ' culture ' (the golden cage). Most marriages in this country are nothing but pure business contracts enforced through cultural guilt tripping and draped in the saccharine words of ' a union of two families '
Honestly, I will either remain single forever, or marry some non Indian girl who I am thoroughly friends with. I do not want any drama from potential Indian in laws..
Great works, please bring more of these lawyers, please awake the men of this country ..
After watching Atul Subhash muder case I came here.
I also came here 😂😂😂😂😂
this should be taught in schools but its harsh reality its very important information for both men and women everyone should watch it
Thank you so much for this video..we should have multiple podcasts like these. These episodes actually tells about equal right. We as common people should know our rights.
Left has always treated men aa slaves or villains WHile justice system now for 3 generations has never listened to men in family courts. We are forced to pay alimony when women break marriages. We are forced to pay for their illegal children even when we are not fathers. We are always assumed guilty in any gender based complaint by society, media, law,, government. We have been subected to fake 498A, DV and dowry. Many were jailed for no fault others have committed suicide. Infact married men commit suicide at twice the rate of married women bbecase they have nowhere to go. Its as if government deliberately wants to kill men an destroy their family.
In absolute numbers 35000 men commit suicide every year due to gender based terrorism inherent in Indian law, police, society, courts and politics. India has killed more innocent men in last 10 yrs than all of Ukraine, Iraq ISIS etc combined. We are incarcerated for false accusations without evidence. We are thrown out of our homes in the middle of night based on false DV complaints.
Unless we recognize that Hindu marriage is an act of terrorism or act of potential terrorism on men and their families, Indian men and their families (mother, sister, brother, in-laws) will never be safe. We have to destroy this institution of terrorism
Our previous generations were "pu$$y whacked" we are not.. We dont want to marry or date or even hookup. You cant tempt us with "pu$$y boycott" We cant be "guilt tripped" by a wife or gf to vote against our interest. Infact we are the first generation of men who willingly walk away from women. We are masculine and (classified as ) toxic and we know it and we are OK with it. WE ARE DONE DEAL WITH IT
Phir b tum log misuse hi kroge
Jst go away you all waffle and does this later
Women = sc st obc ews pwd
Men = general
Those who know this unfortunate reality : 😓😓
Aap ekdum esa questions puchte ho ,jo just audience k mind m aate h ekdum basic, exact 👌👌👌👌👌👌
Waiting For This Topic, From Last 3 Years
मर्द सिर्फ आम जीवन में मर्द है, कानून की नजर में सिर्फ गल्ली के कुत्ते से भी काम ओकाद। कहानी रह जाती है ,जिंदगी ख़राब हो जाती है। पर लड़को की कोई नही सुनता यह सच है।
I'm a subscriber of Sango for long. However, this counter narrative is very rational and I appreciate this video as well.
Thank you Raj Shamani for making this episode which shows real situation in Indian society.
पुरुष आयोग गठित होना चाहिए
Kuch nahi hota is sab se . Isse acha hai kanoon ka misuse krne par lawyer ka license radd aur ladki ko doguni saza.
True conversation ❤️
Bhai selut h apko bhut logo ke st ho gya h.
I caught my wife with his college friend in a restraunt .When i asked her and complained to her brother , they said that you should change your view , these are modern things ignore this. When i did not allow her , she went her home and filed sec 498a Fir against me😂
Now enjoy the case. Be patient and calm. Arrest will not happen and you will learn the tricks over the time to fight these false cases. Make sure she spends rest of the life in court premises now.
Phle usse patch up kro phir private video bnaao phir divorce lo aur pese bhi maango
Wife se baat karke matter sultaya bhi ja sakta hai..restaurant me baithne se aage ki baat hai bhi ya nahi..etc things
@@00Mantra yes so she can again cheat on him, come home for getting more evidences in regards to 498A and again file case on him. Btw 498A is a criminal case and non cognizable offence.
Apna bhi btao.. Do you too hang out with women often? That could be her way of expression that she's not okay. Communication is key.
Just a month ago you talked about this and today we lost Atul
Bohot hi jabardast content hai,
Har ek point ekdam details me explained kia hua hai,
Jo jo man me thaa almost saraa hi discussed hua
Great, Raj Bhai, you are doing a great job. Happy to see someone bringing this to layman.
Bhai din ba din aap bohot alag alag field se bohot acche acche diffrent guest's invite kar rahe ho really going great brother raj 👍
Bana Diya? Yeha to bigard diya 😂
Eye opening podcast thank you sir❤
better covert hindu men into muslim and let india become islamic nation and hindu civilisation to over
@@MRUNIVERSE111-k1rAllah u Akbar Islam is the best religion for Mens
इस समय बहुत सारे लोग झूठे केसेस में फंसे हुए हैं मैं भी उनमें से एक हूं क्योंकि मुझे जानकारियां नहीं थी और लोगों ने मेरा गलत फायदा उठाकर मुझे झूठे केस में फंसा दिया आप एक अच्छा कार्य कर रहे हैं और इस टॉपिक पर और वीडियो बनाया
Conclusion:- say no to (women , marry , sex, relationship, talk with women, female influencer ) .be a MEN. Just focus on your career😊😊
__ SUCCESS
ye to or bhi gadbad hai.. jaise hu carrier setup hua.. pichhe pad jate hai.. aap pagal ho jaoge or fas jaoge kahi ye maya thugni hai.. mai bhuktbhogi hu.. ek hi tarika hai modi yogi jaise shadi nahi karo ya fir jawan hote hi himalay bhag jao tapsya karo.. sabse jada keede carrier walon pe hi lagte hai.. majdooron kisano mai chance bade kam ho jate
It gives me so new insights and views, thank you for this podcast❤
What a podcast...
like soo much knowledge.
Hi sir I am from south first time I watched complete podcast of yours the guest has immense knowledge. Thanks for the podcast❤
Maharashtra 🇮🇳❤❤
Hi Raj bhaiya , I am an 18 year old guy . I have been listening to your podcasts on a daily basis for more than one year. And literally i feel enlightened every time.. your content is very helpful to me in every kind .. Always rooting for you. .🧠
Extremely knowledgeable podcast
Thank you very much
But not only man oriented which is ok 👌
Thank you🙏 👍
i was just crying seeing this .... sorry but i was just crying.... raj ji
Chances you will get falsely accused is less then 0.003 % as a man who is above 26
Thank you, Raj, for creating such an insightful podcast
Hight time someone addresses this.. sad reality of India
I am also victim of such false cases, all the judges support only women, be it lower courts, high court or so called supreme court of Indian, they all support women. I earned 5 lack rupees and I was granted interim maintenance of 10 lack arrears, High court rejected my application, supreme court rejected my application, despite of the fact the ITR's were there on the record!!!! The Indian law is for the Women by the women ! To courts men are only ATM machines and sperm donors, I have not seen my kids from last 5 years and judge is also intentionally delaying even interim visitation rights!! Sirf Auratein baith kar aurto ka support kar rahei hei, they don't deserve to be called a JUDGE !!
Leaving India is better option
Sell your properties leave India
Declining rates in marriages and higher divorce are the new realities of the present and future
I always love these kinds of content of yours
Ab sach lagra h ye dialog "wo stree h , kuch bhi kr skti hai "
Shame to such families,,whose daughters go to court,,
Great podcast! Bring an Environmental scientist on your show sometime, would be interesting to explore the reality and lies/ propaganda around the topic
Do you have any name suggestions? Would help me 🙌🏻
Any x-cji @@rajshamani
Anyone is here after Atul shubas case???
Men too deserve laws 😢i had seen many cases in which decent men were trapped in false allegations and went through hell like torture….please share more podcasts like this
Most valuable conversation for Men & Women (Moms of young Boys)
The laws are so much biased in India. A reform is much needed to prevent false 498A and false DV cases.
Majority wont support for this reform. Specially , simp men who are more in population
Very good podcast raj law for men is really needed
Raj Shamani heads off to you. You are bringing the topic which truly require attention and impacting our society.
Justice For Atul Subhash 😢
Must say, some laws are just unreasonable and unequal for men! And some women misuse these laws by lying, which just takes away from women who are actually going through it!
So manyyy loopholes in these laws, its sad really
Small correction - not some women...majority of women..
More than 98% cases are fake..Data comes on the basis of judgements made by court.. contesting which on the average destroys 10-20 crucial years of men's life along with his family.
Some woman? Do you even see the reports and statistics
Those women who are really facing violence don't even complain about violence due to lack of knowledge, social fear and the majority in villages. But due to some women who are misusing these laws it became a fact that all are misusing the laws. I think fakes are misusing and the reals are not even complaining.
@@newfestivalideas4092 You don't have any idea about it..
Innocence makes you a victim, men or women doesn't matter.
I was searching for this comment.. a true analysis..
Your guests are really nice 👍.
Glad you like them!🙌🏻
@@rajshamaniyeah nice content bro 😊
@@rajshamani yeah, really like the guests.
Need for equal rights for both…parents need to raise their kids right…
Dear Raj
I request you to please have a podcast with Anil Murthy from Save Indian Family Foundation to understand the real plight of men facing such false cases.
.aapne sach mein value dii h mujhe to.Raj Bhaiyaa.Obsessed again😊❤(Law)
we seriously need a good reform in the court system!!!
The one who needs the law wont use it becos he/she is scared.
The one who doesnt need the law knows how to abuse it !!
Never get married untill the laws dont change😢
😂😂😂 bhai single raho aur satark raho aur shadi aglae janam try karna 😂😂
Chill bro paisa kamao fr koi law tumhara kuch ni bigad sakta
Tumhe v pta h india m law ka ky seen h
I totally agree with this statement
I respect your words but it was not a solution
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Bilkul sahi hai akele raho self dependent raho aur ishwar se prem kro
Justice for Atul Subhas